A reader writes me, “Jesse, when I approach a woman the conversation never lasts too long. I don’t know what to say and I get nervous and can sense the girl is losing interest- so I usually excuse myself after a minute and bailout of the conversation. What is my problem, why can’t I make this work?”
I was once with my friend in an old auditorium and the room had an echo. We made all kinds of funny noises – fart noises, dog barking, sexual moans of glory, sang songs – and in the echo got everything right back to us ten times. :lol
This is how the club is, the club or party is like a large echo chamber- whatever you give to others you will get right back, tenfold.
If I’m doing nothing, standing there by myself, I will get nothing back.
If I’m opening girls very needy, with a needy voice, wanting something, and pre-expecting negative reactions from them, that’s exactly what I will get- uninspired reactions from them.
If I go in very low energy and timid, that’s exactly what I will get back- very low energy responses or none at all (blowouts).
Be a man of pure sexual joy, intent, light however, and you will get exactly that echoed back from the party, the girls that you meet, tenfold.
Shower the party, the club, with flowers, not literal flowers, but the flowers of your smile, the flowers of your childlike happiness, the flowers of your positivity, the flowers of your spontaneity, the flowers of your fearlessness and wildness. If you shower your supernova glory onto others, the glory will come right back and shower onto you.
Allow your waves of joy and positivity and raw enthusiasm and raw sexual desire just overpower any negativity coming from others. Let it echo and infect everyone it touches, like the hands of a healing prophet, bring the healing power of your touch and your hands and your joy to everyone and heal them of their drudgery.
Some women will challenge you, some will tell you to go away, some will kick, some will scream, but all will succumb to a higher masculine force of relentlessness, of persistence, of sticking through their initial wall, not allowing it to affect you, not acknowledging it, and instead showering them with a brilliant supernova of healing positivity and sexual energy.
That is the ultimate aphrodisiac; that when a man so powerful, with so much pure positivity and sexual energy and light approaches her, when his flame will not flinch or flicker for anything or anyone, she cannot help but open herself up to his power and to his glory.
To make your echo glorious, that is the way forward, that is the journey you must take.
Your friend,
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This is an Invigorating speech…Passionate and inspires Hope.
Thanks man
You know it’s really interesting this way of approaching girls, and moreover this is a kind of method that i was looking foward to try, however in my case im just this simple 20 year old kid yet i have alomost a lifetime to experiment with girls and see to achieve waht im really looking for. Anyways, in the present, speakin, i have this kinda crush even i dont know what it is with a girl that studies in my university, the thing is that i’ve tried certain ways to approach her but she doesn’t seem at times as interested even, cause i already know that the fact that one wants to settle a conversation doesnt means that im going to be or get in a relationship wit that person, however certains times i’ve kinda read her body language and its really confusing aswell, so the botton line would be that some times she’s interested and other times she isn’t, all that i would like to know is in a way to call her attention, and of course to try not to blow it.
Hahaha YES!!! This is what I’m talking about. You approach with a smile and unwavering eye contact and assert your positive frame until it breaks through her bitch shield. If you assert pure positivity the girl can’t help but be sucked in. That’s how you pass all shit tests too LoL No matter how bitchy and rude her responses are you just completely ignore it and shine your smile in her face until she decides to change her mood. It takes strength of character to do it though