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Take a look at this video clip from the movie “School of Rock” starring Jack Black.
Most guys when they go out to meet girls (like 99% of them) are like Principle Rosaline Mullins, played by actress Joan Cusack. She’s wound up tight, follows ALL the rules and procedures, sticks to the lesson plan, and feels pressure of the uptight parents wanting everything to be perfect which has made her into someone she never wanted to be: a wound up bitch.
Now take a look at your typical guy who goes out to meet girls. His head may be packed with lines, theories and strategies, but he’s just like Principle Mullins. He’s wound up tight inside, wants to follow all the rules and routines of complex pickup schematics and “do it right”, feels stifled and choked inside, and is needy for approval and the blessing of all the girls he sees and talks to. The result: his game is stiff and stifled and he has massive approach anxiety.
That’s how most guys go out to meet girls; they’re just like Principle Mullins. But you won’t get laid if you’re like that inside.
Now take a look at Jack Black. The guy is freely expressive and in the moment, almost to the point of self-delusion. He does a cool conversation “routine” but it’s spontaneous and in the moment so it comes off as genuine and authentic. He’s not after the children’s or parent’s approval, he’s just being himself, whatever they might think. And he’s LOUD. He’s physically loud and expressive, and his voice is loud and expressive.
In short, he’s everything that Principal Mullins is not.
You need a good dose of Jack Black in you when you go out. You need to be the guy that creates the party. You need to be the guy that talks nonsense and expresses himself physically without that needy approval seeking and self-monitoring.
If your voice is loud, if you’re body language is open and expressive, if you’re coming up with silly conversation nonsense in the moment, if you’re energy is positive and upbeat, then right there girls will want to be a part of that. They’ll be opening YOU and following YOU around.
Why? Because it’s so hard to find a guy like that today. Everyone is stifled like Principal Mullins… including the girls themselves! The girls you meet want to be around a guy who is happy and free. They want to meet a guy who will take them on an adventure. They want to meet a guy who will give them permission to step out of their stifled Principal Mullins persona and into their Jack Black wild side.
But the girls need YOU to go there first. And if you do, they’ll follow you all the way to the bedroom.
~ Jesse
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thats a great point.
Nice. Like to look forward
Love the concept of not looking for approval. Needs to be driven home alot with our conditioned society….
Oh Jesse~
You are so right!!! Women want adventure. They crave it. I live in San Diego, and have spent many years traveling the world thanks to the military. It is impossible to count the number of women who wouldn’t of dreamed to get naked outside or go skinny-dipping…. until they met me. And somehow, I always knew to take the first step at being carefree to the point of being wild. They’d never take that first step, especially in some of the Asian countries. I did, and I always stepped the up to wild stuff gradually. They always want more and more… I don’t know how many wedding proposals I’ve receive, and I am not talking about the foreigners wanting a fiance visa, but smoking hot chicks right here in the States. I had one chick who used to call me, and say, “Oh, Indi, please come take me away,” and my name ain’t Indiana. We spent alot of time out at the Colorado River in the desert, naked of course, four-wheeling, hiking, and skinny-dipping. And of course, watching the stars beside a campfire with some chilled wine. Oh yeah~~ she has memories, as I do of cours. Adventure Dudes! Get away from your virtual world and get out there and lead them!!
Any way Jesse, you are doing a great public service! We used to say in the military about being a mentor to the youngens, “Women give birth to baby boys, but it is men, who give birth to men.” Which means, if we do everything our Momma pushes on us, we won’t be …. Gosh.. Get some testosterone.. be a bit Neandrathal!!! Aaagh! Watching some guys is so painful! I could keep on, but I got to go… Got to get out and live in the world~~ You know, be a participant instead of a spectator.
Thanks for sharing your story man
Sounds like it was fun
There are 5 houses in five different colors
In each house lives a different nationality.
These 5 owners drink a certain beverage, smoke a certain brand of cigar and keep a certain pet.
No owners have the same pet, smoke the same brand of cigar, or drink the same beverage.
The CLUES:
The Brit lives in the Red house.
The Swede keeps dogs as pets.
The Dane Drinks tea.
The Green House is on the left of the White House.
The Green House’s owner drinks coffee.
The person who smokes Pall Mall rears birds.
The owner of the yellow house smokes Dunhill.
The man in the center house drinks milk.
The Norwegian lives in the first house.
The man who smokes Blends lives next to the one who keeps cats
The man who keeps horses lives next to the man who smokes Dunhill.
The man who smokes Blue Master drinks beer.
The German smokes Prince.
The Norwegian lives next to the Blue House.
The man who smokes Blends has a neighbor who drinks water.
The QUESTION:
Who owns the fish?
The German
hi
The point is, a happy man is a man who lives in harmony with *his nature* not others.
Yep
Great points. But remember, you also dont need to be the ‘loud expressive’ guy who is obviously doing it for the sake of being loud and expressive ie attention getting. Although, this can work with some younger girls, or in a club type environment. Instead, it must be from a place that you are not second guessing what comes out of your mouth for the sake of image /ego control. You dont care about her reaction, and your ego cannot be touched. It can be toned down to where you simply are very sexual (verbally)/ flirtatious with her, think James Bond, with no outcome dependence as to her reaction. The trick is that most girls expect a guy to be outcome dependent, because most guys are, and therefore you must make it somehow clear to her that you are not. Otherwise she may assume, which will cause her to give a different response than what you are after. This has happened to me before.
Thanks, great advice Chris. Being positive and unreactive to negativity is the real deal.