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Now it seems to be a popular pastime to design pickup methods, super pickup systems, and elaborate psychological models of attraction, which is all well and good. I don’t discourage anyone from exploring the map.
But you can be a great philosopher, you can intellectually figure out many things, you can create models and systems all with very logical, consistent reasoning.
And it will appear like a model of the truth. But it’s not the truth. These systems have been manufactured by your mind. They’ve been borrowed from other people.
In contrast, an experience, a real experience in the field which you’ve seen with your own eyes, felt with you own hands, been there in your own body, which has been revealed to you… it is your authentic experience, an authentic truth. You have come to experience reality, you have come to see the truth of pickup itself.
Reality is in every moment original. You cannot plan it, you cannot map it in every detail, you cannot preplan every possibility of it. Every new moment is as no other moment that came before it. It is absolutely fresh and new and you have to live it to experience it. There is no other way of knowing it.
For example, a blind man can think about colors like the color red. He can write research papers about red, how the light spectrum is reflected and bounces off the eye to create the illusion of red in the human brain. He can give great lectures write great doctrines about the wavelength of the light that produces red. But the blind man still doesn’t know what red is. He has no eyes to see it.
Likewise, the only way to know sex is to have sex, the only way to know mountain climbing is to start climbing mountains, the only way to know swimming is to swim. And the only way to know the party is to live the party.
It’s your methods, your over planning, your attraction systems that make it unreal. But if you live it, if you live experience to the fullest, you’ll be able to come to know and understand what had been unthinkable by your methods and plans and systems.
In short what I’m saying, the field is king. Don’t be stuck in front of the computer all day or reading forum posts or articles, go out and become one with the party.
Feel free to leave a comment below!
~ Jesse
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Thanks for all the info ou share dude
I have just one question: Are you planing on making a DVD product??? I hope so…
Thanks a lot in advance!
Not at the moment..
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Jesse,
I guess my question is: how do you take it to the next level? I mean if you’ve done your approach, got her number and maybe took her out, how do you steer the relationship into a more intimate arrangement without sounding too blunt? When do you know the time is right to ask her back to your place? I’m asking because more often than not, my relationship with girls just settle into a kind of “friend only” category after a promising start. Thanks
That requires a lengthy answer… The forums !
srinivasamurthy (what a name there!) well you should be getting her back to your place on the first date. It’s all about giving her a good reason to go– to see some photos on your computer, to cook a desert for her, to show her your guitar playing, or whatever. You should have a prop at home that acts as an excuse. You’ll also want to see it at the beginning of the date– for instance if your prop is travel photos on your computer, early on in the date you’ll want to talk about traveling. That way you don’t whip out your excuse as the date is ending, it will seem more natural if you had mentioned it earlier as well
Lol, @sri repeated @Manny’s question from the other post. Are you coming out with a video soon, Jesse, to answer our questions. I hope so, would be nice to get some focus on the basic stuff.
I have a question, too. How do you make good, engaging conversation? What do you talk about? I’m fairly good at approach, but it’s like I lose some steam in the middle, I just run out of words to say. After that it all goes downhill, the girl just loses interest, and I’m back to square one. What can I do to improve? Any suggestion will be most welcome. Thank you.
Jake
Thanks D,
You always come up with fresh, original and inspiring ideas or advices to help us dudes out here and there to live a fulfilling, active, and rich life in what appears to be a chaotic world.
Roland