10 Rules to Getting Mind Blowing Oral Sex From Girls

One of the qualities of the Starlight Girl is the ability to give wet, deep, and wild oral with her tongue and mouth.

A woman isn’t born knowing how to give oral sex, so this is a skill that you can teach her how to do.

As her teacher, you must understand that the number one rule of thumb is that great blow jobs are VISUAL and stimulates a man’s mind VISUALLY.

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Getting blown by a Playboy Playmate is going to feel much better than being blown by a 300 pound Gorilla woman that looks like Gimli the Dwarf, even though in reality the experience would feel pretty much the same.

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It’s what you SEE and the psychological stimulation it gives you that counts when it comes to getting great oral sex.

Her Rule #1. Admire the Master Cock

The woman needs to show happy admiration for the cock she’s about to swallow.

When she’s pulling down your pants, there should be a big smile on her face in anticipation.  This smile shouldn’t just be for show, she should really be happy to get her favorite desert.

When the cock pops out she should look directly at it, admiring the object of her affection.  She should look up at the man and make direct eye contact with a big smile on her face.  She can also start fingering her pussy or touching her breasts to make herself hot as she looks at the master cock.  Again, this is all about her giving her man visual stimulation.

Start talking sexy to her with the proper commands. “You belong to this cock… look at it and put a big smile on your face for the big cock you’re going to swallow!  That’s it baby, very good…  look at me… look into my eyes… now touch your pussy for me as you suck on it.”

Her Rule #2. Wet and Sloppy

Blow jobs need to be wet and sloppy.

Saliva and drool are a woman’s best friends when it comes to oral sex.  Drool should be covering the shaft of your cock and running down your legs.  When she comes up for air there should be strings of saliva hanging from her mouth.  It’s this visual element of a lustful, drooling chick on your cock that makes it really spectacular.

Tell her, “Use more saliva baby… get that cock WET.  That’s how I like it, with plenty of saliva and WET.  Drool on it baby, don’t hold back, get it wet.  That’s it.”

Her Rule #3. Go Deep

Some women mistakenly believe that cupping the head of your cock between her lips constitute as a blow job.

She needs to go down, down deep, down as far the shaft as possible until her gag-reflex begins to kick in.  We want to watch a woman at least try to swallow us whole.

Tell her, “Go deeper baby, deeper… go all the way down as far as you can go.”

Most women with your permission will oblige.  Don’t expect a deep throat however.  Deep throat takes months of practice to control the gag reflex.  It’s more the woman’s enthusiasm to please that counts.

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Her Rule #4. Show Some Tongue

A woman has to show her tongue. She needs to lick up and down the shaft of your cock and angle her head so that you can see that tongue of hers licking.

Likewise, as she’s coming up for air she can keep her mouth open and her tongue out.  And when she sucks on your cock, she can push her tongue out so you can see it stroking on the shaft.

The physical sensation is pretty much the same, whether her tongue is in or out, but it’s the psychological sensation of watching that makes the difference between ho-hum oral and mind exploding bliss.

Tell her, “Baby, show me some of that tongue of yours… put that tongue out for me.  Lick it, lick it.”

Her Rule #5. Keep With the Task At Hand

Nothing is more disappointing than getting an all-star blow job when a woman suddenly lifts her head up and starts talking about her work or what she ate for dinner the night before.

The trance is broken, like when someone’s cell phone rings in the middle of a great movie.

Your woman should be making noise– but it should be of the sucking and slurping variety.

If she does start talking too much about mundane topics tell her, “Hmm baby, I understand, but let’s talk about that later… right now get back to sucking that cock, it’s so exciting to watch you do that.”

Her Rule #6. Open Eyes and Relax the Face

Many women tend to close their eyes when giving head.

We also naturally close our eyes when we’re about to eat something we dislike, like cold Lima Beans.  Closing the eyes is a signal of disgust.

She might not be thinking that, she might simply be closing her eyes out of habit.  But it makes for an unsexy blowjob nonetheless.

If she’s closing her eyes, simply tell her to open them and tell her to look at you.  A women giving a wet, deep, sloppy blowjob while she periodically gives your direct eye contact is exciting.

She should also relax her face.  The ultimate psychological turn on is to get a nasty blowjob from a girl with a sweet, young, baby face.  When the girl tenses her face up as she’s swallowing you, it creates the opposite effect.

So correct her if she tends to tense her facial muscles as a matter of habit.  Simply tell her, “Relax your face baby.” Blowjobs should be relaxing and pleasurable for her, not a stressful muscular chore.

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Her Rule #7. During Momentary Breaks, Keep Eyes and Mouth Open

To add to the visual thrill for a man, the woman should take regular “display pauses.”

A display pause is when she stops sucking and lifts her head up.  Her eyes should either be making contact with yours or admiring your cock, her mouth agape and hanging open like she could go back down on you at any moment, and saliva drooling down her chin.

The way not to take a break is for her to stop sucking, close her mouth and close her eyes while she takes a moment.  This is not sexy.  It’s particularly critical that she keeps her mouth open while she breaks, like’s she eagerly anticipating for your cock to be shoved down her throat again.

Tell her explicitly, “Baby, next time you take a pause, keep your mouth open and keep your eyes on my cock.  Let’s try it right now.”

Her Rule #8. Slow Down

What’s not sexy is frantic, uncontrolled motion.  The girl needs to move slow and sexy, like an exotic dancer who slowly undresses and works with controlled, deliberate motions.

If she’s going too fast, she’s obviously trying to please you, so just tell her to “slow down baby” and the problem is solved.

Another way to train her to move in a sexy fashion when she’s giving head is to scour the adult films for a girl who gives incredible oral (and believe me, most of the films will give you BAD examples, so start scouring) and watch it together with her.  When the right scene comes up tell her, “Wow, she gives good head… nice and slow with controlled movements.”  Your girlfriend will take a mental note.

Her Rule #9. Glam Up

The blowjob is as good as what you visually see as what you feel.

If your woman is dressed and made up like a porn star, she’ll FEEL like a porn star and ACT like a porn star.

You’ll also feel more like you’re getting head from a fantasy girl who is there to please you and be your hot slut.  So have the woman dress up for you regularly.

Her Rule #10. Smile for the Cum Shot!

Shooting your seed on a woman with a tensed face and her eyes closed isn’t so sexy.

She shouldn’t just sit there to take it with her eyes closed.  She should open her eyes and receive her blissful treasure with a big smile on her face.  She should then wipe your cum off her face and start licking it off her fingers.

When you cum inside the woman’s mouth she can do more than immediately swallow.  She can give you a little show, swirling the cum around inside her mouth, letting some of it come out and drool down her chin.  Then she can swallow and give you a big smile of delight.

If she isn’t smiling for you when you cum, simply tell her, “Oooh, that was nice.  Give me a big smile baby!!”

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  1. Hahahaha lmfao!!!! Porn addicte much?! As soon as the men can be every girls dream guy down to the master at oral and doing every “manly” image possible well do the same…

  2. I don’t like any of the extra comments made, it would make me feel insecure and like he’s not satisfied with what I’m already giving him.

  3. Ok article. You are right about WHAT is good but totally WRONG about why. A fantastic blow job is 100% skill and not visual at all! Don’t get me wrong the visuals are nice and a better looking woman is nice but you’d have to be a virgin to not know that the real deal , the heart of it , is the physical feeling itself. You must never have actually had a good blow job . Well ive had plenty, and it doesn’t matter what the fuck the bitch looks like AT ALL . The best bjs I ever had were with hot chicks but I had to train them to suck duck, they were not good just because they were hot. And ugly girls in gorilla suits can suck the best dick if they do the best things. U can get the best blow job with no lights on in the room. Drool is not a visual thing, a sloppy bj is good because it FEELS better than a dry one. Deepthroating feels good. Getting swallowed feeeels good. Her hand movements, throat, saliva, and rythm all matter. U could be blind folded but it has to feel good.

  4. The guy is lucky if this were happening no matter how the girl does it. In my opinion he shouldn’t be complaining.

    1. Not true. You can’t be satisfied with sub par servicing . There is no point in getting a bj that didn’t get you where you need to go.. and that’s off. They are not all equal and they can be bad , really bad, so bad you’d rather not have one at all. So not complaining it’s actually the worst thing you can do. I complained the first night with a terrible dick sucker and she was better the next day and eventually became one of the best ever. On her way to blow me now actually. So one day when u actually get one , you’ll learn to have an experienced opinion on them . It’s not a choice , it’s not psychological , if it doesn’t feel great then you have to complain so she makes it feel right and gets u off

  5. Shouldn’t guys like girls the way they are rather than trying to change them in order to benifits themselves?

      1. I kno i do for my man. I suck his dick anywhere and everywhere. I love it. He be nervous wen we be out sometimes but he finally give in after i complain. I love to feel his dick getting hard in my mouth, hearing him moan, slapping myself on my face with his hard cock especially while he’s cumming, rubbing da head on my lips like im putting lip gloss n then lick it off n afterwards go rite back at it again. Like i said i looove licking and sucking my man’s cock. OMG! I WANT MY LOLLIPOP RITE NOW!!!

  6. I think every woman , wife , girlfriend should please like this .The man should tell her how to dress , make sexy noises , how to swollow ,be gentle with the balls . Tell the woman how to keep there eyes open ,smile at te penis ,enjoy making love to the penis .If the women dont agree or try to find ways to please you then it will be a unpleasant life of sex for the man , and women, even if you have to watch porn, then soon she will do two things get mad cause you watch porn or just know that she need to see what or how can she make you feel better than those porns you watch. Take your time to explain to girlfriend , wife that this is what you like love for her to take incasideration ,you want her to please you like this and better. I do get oral sex its great, but after reading this my mind already had vision of what i was reading in the steps. If the man can aim to please both ways oral,and having sex and love doing it and the response he get from the ladies ,they should too.I Wish all men and women the best pleasure for the rest of yall entire life. There are alot relationship that feel like this, so reach out to others.

  7. Wow. Men, do not, I repeat, do not say any of this shit to your woman. It’s comical. Awful. It will ruin the mood for her faster than anything.

  8. Your CRAZY! You don’t talk like that to a woman, sure the guy may like it that way, but don’t expect all that. You sound like a porn star director!

  9. This is a hilarious load of bullshit. Women are not like this at all and hate going down on dudes.
    You watch way too much porn, man.

    But leading all these gullible people on is horseshit. Be real and don’t lead these people to ruin their relationships.

    1. A lot of women are exactly like this. I happen to be married to one. My wife also has a submissive bent so this really gets her off.

  10. I like getting facials from my guy. He was my first oral sex experience and I asked him to do oral first! I always let him give me facials or cum in my mouth its not degrading its an oral sex fetish of mines I have a oral sex fetish and I believe sharing my disgusting fetish with him and we love it.All because us woman who role play as young hot slutty cocksuckers in the bedroom doesn’t mean we are whores to society I don’t suck everyone’s cock but I’m a professional at sucking his..7yrs together and 4kids together trust me giving good bjs keeps you both happy

  11. I have to respectfully disagree that its mostly visual. My uncle who served in the Korean war said that when he and his buddies went to a whore house there that there was this grandma whore that was known to give the best blowjobs. She was old but really knew her way around a cock and the line for her proved it.

  12. Great tips, Jesse 😉
    I will definitely try them out.

    Also, I have a question.
    Do men like getting blowjobs all the time? I would love to give blow jobs every day.. maybe even a few times a day, but I’m afraid that would be a turn off or I’d seem overbearing? I don’t know.. what do you think?

    Thanks♥

  13. I thought this advice was helpful BUT the bottom line is that I love sucking cock, and it shows. I can’t tell you how many BFs I’ve had who have never come from oral before meeting me. It’s great to collect tips on the perfect BJ, but if you don’t actually enjoy it, it is not going to be fun for anyone. The converse is that if YOU do enjoy it, trust me, your man is not going to be giving commands like in the article. He is going to be in nirvana.

    1. I wish I knew you Maddie I’d have you show my girl a thing or two you suck then show her how to. Always better to have another girl show her I think

  14. I personally love giving oral to my boyfriend and have many times done the suggestions listed above on my own will, because I like finding new and exciting things to arouse him. However, I think had he commanded or “coached” me to do some of these things by way of your suggestion (telling me to open my eyes as he finishes), I would maybe do it that single occasion, but would feel more like a toy than a partner and would be less inclined to offer a blowjob anytime soon. Some women like to play the submissive one, but they and their partner should discuss those types of things BEFORE the act so they don’t feel like they’re being used. One of my ex-boyfriends used to push my head down so far and choke me so bad that I didn’t blow him for weeks- then broke up with him! Gentle coaching and affection as a base make for the best blowjobs for both partners.

    Coming from a very happily sexual college student, in a committed relationship that is filled with love and many, many blowjobs.

  15. #1) yeah, semen in the eye burns like a bitch and this should never be encouraged. I’ve had it by accident and if I believed my husband expected to shoot me in the eye every time I went down I wouldn’t do it. That bit of advice is bullshit pure and simple.

    A woman can close her eyes during the big finale without being unsexy..a little girl squinching her eyes shut when being squirted with the garden hose or splashed in the pool…surprise and delight!

    #2) I think that the “directions” can work to an extent but IMO should be dosed out a bit at a time. I love when my husband tells me what to do but he never sounds like he’s training me. It’s like a commanding “look at me”…or he just grabs my hair and does his own deep thrusting.

    #3) as other people mentioned: positive reinforcement…but I personally prefer some of both techniques. Tell me what you want in some spots and just show me your pleasure in other spots.

    I liked this article more as hints for the lady instead of for men to pressure their women.

  16. I’d like to add that fellatio can definitely be a turn-on for the giver, as well as the receiver. I even had a hands-off orgasm once, while fellating one partner (I woke up feeling randy and sucked him awake in the middle of the night!).

  17. Holy cow, kids, it’s all about having fun, and communicating with each other in order to enhance the experience! I know that when I look up and smile during fellatio, my partner always finds it thrilling (when on my knees). I did have a partner, however, who preferred me to lay my head on his belly, facing away from him, taking as much of his penis in my mouth as I could, and then simply nursing (literally, sucking) on it. There was almost no back-and-forth, or in-and-out movement. I met him 28 years later, and this was still his preference. My point is in communication . . . and playfulness!

      1. LOL WHAT? only if she likes doing the things you are asking her to do. females are not here to be used or to be told to do things they dont like to do.

  18. Just asking questions and making suggestions is good too. If she’s into you, she’s gonna wanna make you feel good. The first time my gf gave me a bj I had to pull her off me because she was still sucking and my cock was so sensitive. I asked her, “Did you swallow?” She said she didn’t swalloe all of it but that she could the next time. She gave me another bj in the morning and swalloed every drop. Felt so good.

  19. I feel like If I was getting a blowjob and I acted this bossy she would get mad. I’m not even going into some thats sexist blah blah blah because honestly I love giving oral and would actually appreciate instructions. I’m just saying doing this is not upping my chances of getting more blowjobs.