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First, watch the video below of Han Solo’s pickup.
Okay, let’s break his seductive actions down…
A big question I get from guys who want to be getting laid is, “Jesse, how do I get passed a woman’s bitch shield”?
Well, let’s take a look at Han here. When Leia puts up her “bitch shield” when she tells Han, “Would you please stop calling me that?” most guys would already be slinking away, feeling rejected.
hmyOur man Han doesn’t though. He just rolls with it, ignoring her tone and instead setting his own.
Leia’s blowout attempt #2:Leia tells Han, “Oh, you make it so difficult sometimes.”
Han doesn’t get pissed off or slink away, not at all. He persists, and just rolls with it. “I do, I really do. You could be a little nicer, though,” he tells her as he moves in closer.
He takes her hand. You see, he moves forward despite getting “blown out”. And he’s not fighting against her. Her negative attitude or “bitch shield” isn’t even registering in his reality.
Leia’s blowout attempt #3: Leia says to Han, “Occasionally… when you aren’t acting like a scoundrel.”
With the third blowout attempt, most guys would bail out, or at least let go of her hand. But Han persists, relentlessly, and keeps up the physical contact. In fact, he seems to ENJOY her blowout attempt as he laughs at it and sees it as an indicator of interest from her. “Scoundrel? Scoundrel? I like the sound of that.”
With that, Han takes her hand and starts to massage it.
Leia’s blowout attempt #4:“Stop that,” she says.
“Stop what?” It’s not even registering in his reality. Han just ignores it.
At this point you can subtly sense that Leia has switch from resistance to attraction.
Leia’s blowout attempt #5: She is persistent, isn’t she? “Stop that! My hands are dirty.”
But Han doesn’t react, her “bitch shield” is irrelevant. It doesn’t even register in his reality, it doesn’t exist. He just persists. He’s a man who knows what he wants and goes for it. He does not care about what others think of him, he doesn’t wait for signs from the girl that it’s okay to continue. Han again just rolls with it. “My hands are dirty, too. What are you afraid of?”
At this point Han hits her with the triangular gaze, the intense, unbroken and piercing “I will fuck you” eye contact. He moves in and closes the space between their bodies.
Now Han begins LEADING the girl’s state. “You’re trembling.”
Leia’s blowout attempt #6:“I’m not trembling.”
But Han doesn’t let her negativity affect him with his almost delusional sense of self-propulsion and destiny. No matter how many times Leia says “No thanks” he persists, unwavering, almost with delusional belief and conviction in the attraction and getting laid. And at this point her voice betrays her attraction.
Han leads again: “You like me because I’m a scoundrel. There aren’t enough scoundrels in your life.”
Leia’s blowout attempt #7: “I happen to like nice men,” she says but now her voice is more excited than resistant.
Han is so unreactive he eventually sucks her into his version of reality and leads her with the kiss and wins the girl.
In a very real sense, like Neo in the Matrix, Han was able to “bend” the fabric of reality, “bend” the attraction dynamic, just by a delusional ignoring of hers and relentlessly persisting in his own with 100% belief.
You see, “blowouts” and “bitch shields” don’t exist unless you allow them to. Unless Leia were to physically leave the room, only then would Han really be blown out. Unless Han was affected by her resistance and slinked away, only then would her “bitch shield” have won out.
The best naturals are great at what they do not because of a bunch of lines and techniques. It’s because they don’t worry about what others think on their mission of getting laid.
That’s why I created Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control program. It shows you how to persist through initial resistance and “turn around the girl.” About 90% of the time this can be done effectively.
Just click HERE to check out the program.
You see, women like persistence. Women want a guy who plows through. Women want guys who go for what they want. Persisting despite the woman shows to her that you’re an alpha male, that you’re a leader, and that you can potentially give her powerful offspring.
It’s that ignoring the blowouts, setting your own reality, and plowing through initial resistance that most generates the mad attraction.
In Han’s case, he got a “No” Seven times, before he got the “Yes!” That’s because Leia “flipped” states when Han overpowered her with his.
Let me ask you– what would you have done?
Are you always looking for the girl’s immediate approval and slink off at the first sign of resistance… or do you persist like a runaway train and close in hard to generate that hard attraction and get laid?
~ Jesse
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aint that the same thing u do when girls show resistance? i thought a bitch shield was when a girl doesn’t respond to any of ur attraction methods cos she already has a man who satisfies her or even she might be lesbian. Never new that.
A “bitch shield” is a congruence test to see if you’ll tuck your tail between your legs and slink off at the first sign of resistance from her. It’s a way to weed out the guys who lack confidence or consider themselves low value compared to herself.
“Bitch Shields” are tests. Women will always (always … always … always) and forever, (until the day you die) test you. They constantly need reassuring that the man in their life is truly a man.
Woman’s biology are programed that way. They feel that if you can and will stand up to them, you can and will stand up, to any perceived danger to her and her children.
ie. If you pass her test, she may trust you enough to protect her and let you in … if you get my drift.
Zanidag, you’re exactly right, bitch shields are congruence tests. A “bitch shield” is a congruence test to see if you’ll tuck your tail between your legs and slink off at the first sign of resistance from her. It’s a way to weed out the guys who lack confidence or consider themselves low value compared to herself.
The biggest idea that I got from this is that you don’t have a to be a Jedi to do Jedi mind tricks. Although Leah is the one with the Jedi blood, it’s Han who, just like a jedi, directly influences her by saying “you like me because I’m a scoundrel”. This line was great because it allowed Leah to continue in her own reality, that he is a scoundrel, but does so in a way that is in line with Han’s, that she likes scoundrels. Also, he doesn’t get defensive and he doesn’t disagree with anything she says, he merely leads her way of thinking in his favor.
In all the star wars movies, I truly believe this scene was the only realistic example of a jedi mind trick, and it’s not even done by a jedi! next time you’re with a girl, think of Han solo… you’re not a jedi, but anyone can use the force. good luck
Jeff, that’s the twist of the 7th movie. Han was the real Jedi. Luke was just a poser.
Hey that’s hot. I like a man that can stand up to bitch test just as long as they aren’t short and ugly.
Marcy, you mean like these guys?
http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&safe=off&q=short+and+ugly+man
Very enlightening video. Thanks
No prob Vikas
jeff is 100% right when he said that Hans “merely leads her (way of thinking)”. it all boils down to leading a woman, to where she wants to go.
I agree he’s using hypnotic means on her. Especially his voice is low, slow and relatively quiet. He also moves very slowly and continuously towards her. All are hypnotic influence elements. So it doesn’t only happen because he ignores her refusals.
Romeo, one nitpick here- when you are in a loud club, you don’t have the luxury of speaking quietly or hypnotically. Your voice has to be fucking LOUD. Even for day game I think its far better to have a LOUD voice. That itself is a display of dominance. Its the sheer dominance of his approach, not the gentle hypnotic quality of his voice necessarily. If you are vocally projecting LOUDLY, especially in a noisy club, that’s the way to go.
Great annalysis, Jesse. My favourite part is when he starts to tell her the things that she is feeling…She’s trembling, then he says she likes him cause he’s a scoundrel. It’s almost like hypnosis.
Actually, I almost think she is hypntized. Probably when you get that close to a women and hold their hands, they are in another state, so anything you say goes right to their unconscious. Fantastic work Jesse.
Yeh, Al, she is in the “mood”, she is in a “trance”. Holding a womans’ hand in a sensuous way will get her in the mood. Hans Solo knew she was in the mood, so, he just pushed forward.
That will improve my approach a lot. Thanks, Jesse!
No problem Mico, glad it helped
dear jesse
perhaps my fate dictates that i should get enlightenment only when it is too late! [i broke up almost an year back and has no one as on today...] I hv watched this movie 6 times but it nvr occurred to me to think in this way…anyway i m hoping for a brighter future! thanx
My lesson is that here and more so in real life, when you first hold on to and kino the girl, EXPECT that she might pull away! A girl has to think and analyze every encounter because of potential consequences, some possibly dire.
HOWEVER, if she doesn’t get up and leave the room, get a clue and hang in there. Her sticking around even as she rejects your advances means you still got a shot! Don’t wimp out and stop then… I say, kino-escalate gently but surely.
At a more basic level, I think of back in high school, how many chicks I banged by sheer persistence even though back then their M.O. was N.O.! In fact, back then, if you didn’t persist and get your hand slapped away quite a few times, you had next to no chance. Got to get back to those basic instincts!
Hey Jesse,
Great insight! I agree with you, persistence and leading the way without getting angry (relaxed confidence) is what won her heart. Women sometimes know where they want to go but mostly its the man to lead the way for them.
Thanks a lot.
Yes, Jesse, don’t you ever get tired of being right? The video is full of fun and full of truth. Even if comparing real life with the imagination of a screenplay writer can be dangerous and irrelevant sometimes, this time it fits in. So the video tells us what it has to tell. Be persistent, stay focused, but you really have to have some chances, from mother-nature, right? What if you’re short, fat and ugly? And you make your move to a princess like Leia? I’m so happy I’m not like that…. Good work, Jesse. I always read your lessons and it’s never enough. You learn, you apply, then sometimes you get soft and some thing you forget. It’s time for a new lesson – the same lesson. Again and again… Until you breathe, eat, sleep, walk, talk, feel and think Seduction Science. Cheers !
Sebastion, actually it wont matter if you’re short or if you’re ugly, as long as you’re well groomed and come in with a dominant manner. Girls will be intrigued by you. What if you saw a short and ugly girl with a fantastic chest? You’d still be attracted. That’s what coming in persistent and dominant is like– having a fantastic chest. In fact so few guys do it that you will have the “best breasts” the girl has ever seen. It doesn’t matter what your looks are, it will still work.
cool
very nice example
how can you give such a good stuff for free?
Don’t know
Hey, Jesse. Thanks for adding the mp3 download in your last video “How To Approach Women Without Fear or Anxiety.” That was darn fast. I guess it’s a big advantage for a pua to be a programmer at the same time.
Interesting insight on this scene between Solo and Leia. I agree it’s persistence and confidence that won Leia for him. I don’t believe in hypnosis – haven’t met anyone in real life who’s actually successfully using hypnosis to get laid.
Having said that, if there’s any hypnotic element to the scene, it’s because Leia is already predisposed to like Han or surrender to his overtures long before this scene happened. The attraction is there already and all Solo needed to do was, as the other fellows and Jesse are saying, lead her to the appropriate conclusion. Leia was testing him, but Solo rose to the occasion with confidence and persistence. Test passed, attraction validated.
Just my two cents. Great choice of footage to drive home a point, Jesse. Thanks for all the help and I hope you’ll come up soon with a video course or something putting all of these material in one place. Keep it up!
Jacob: I know that hypnosis has a bad “RAP” and not well accepted. But, she is in a trance. She is in the mood. She is feeling sexual tension and so is Hans.
Glad you enjoyed the video JAcob
Hey Jesse,
fantastic work…
you changed my life. Girls starts taking intrest in me. but atlast they say me brother.. why?
Hi Derek,
I enjoy your messages and the simplicity of what you try to convey. I have a question on this video. I understand what you are trying to convey. However, lot of other dating gurus such as David D, Mystery, Carlos Xuma etc say that you don’t have to be needy. Your message on this video clip shows that one should keep trying till woman melts down. My question is how to keep on trying with the woman you like without projecting yourself being a wussy or needy.
Thanks a lot.
Paul
Paul, being needy is thinking about the girl while she’s not in front of her. Being needy is saying things to her just to please her and make her like you. Han is doing neither.
Paul: What I do is view myself as the “prize”. If you don’t think you are, then, “fake” it until you know you are. You’ll get there.
Powerful article D !!
I got it….
It’s like fishing; where resistance is NEEDED in order to
a: have fun “fishing” b: know you have the right “bait” c: to feel that level of acheivement (WIN)
So you see fellas, resistance is ALWAYS good. Without resistance there would be no result. At the first sign of resistance when fishing, you’re almost there! You pull HARDER, not drop your pole, cut your line and go home! Plow through men….!
Be a warrior, a soldier, a colonel, a czar! Be…what you were born to be. A fighter!
Become a YES man…. once you do, that’s ALL you’ll ever here.
In life, in women, in jobs , in money…
YEah, resistance IS an opportunity. In fact, if the girl resists a little bit at first, and you persist, you’ll actually have a MUCH higher rate of success than with girls that are initially friendly. The reason is, if she resists a little and you can plow through that resistance, it creates extreme attraction in the girl. So a little resistance is a good thing, it’s an opportunity to show the girl you’re a man, bad boy, alpha, etc
Yeah…I persist, but I guess I need 2 step my game up a little bit more. For some reason whenever the resistance comes along I back done for a few minutes or mabye even days.
u guys should listen to Aaliyah in her song “Try again” listen to her lyrics carefully she says it all lol.
Hi guys
I thing that Jesse is doing great job with his advices but I don’t now how do you doing great job to with your approach to women. AMAN you ARE a BROTHER because you have that attitude: I am a good guy… nah you are an animal which is going to fuck her brains out…
And this scene from Star Wars is a very good example how to SHOW YOUR INTEREST in woman,
Han doesn’t have second thought about his DESICION,
Han is going after what he WANTS,
Han has NO time to WAIT,
Han is very clearly showing what HE WANTS,
Han is showing her WHAT she’s gonna GET,
And don’t forget that sometimes she really doesn’t want anything…
WE all have a bad day,
Start again and never lose your faith…
And I must confess something: although I know how to control and manipulate women I am stuck…
I don’t know why… I don’t have strength to go further
I can find happiness… I am joining to the Dark side…lol
Yeah Bob, we all have “bad days” or “bad moments” but don’t sweat it and don’t dwell on it… otherwise it will just take you more out of state. Everything moves in cycles, ups and downs, but with time and experience we can move into consistency. But never beat yourself up over it. Take a breather, let go of the shit and crap, and know that the next up is coming.
Sounds good until she screams RAPE!!!!
Point is, most guys give up and slink away WAY too quickly.
In addition, he’s not even making physical contact with her, it’s all about the eye contact and not breaking it. There’s no case for “rape” here.
yeah this shit works, this weekend this hottie told me that she hated me…I told her I hate her and leaned in for the kiss, within 20 minutes we were in a cab back to her place…this was at 830pm too
Nice…
i ;ove this bacchanali too much cos they has been inpire me always
I can’t see any video. Can you direct me?
Girls are conditioned to say “no” at first. That’s smart of them. It weeds out all the guys with no balls, all the guys who won’t be able to protect and raise her children. It’s a filter for who seeing who is the real alpha male, separating the boys from the men.
Theres no video any more, but this was great anyway.
Thanks, the video is back up now
I did not see the video… but i read all the comments in the forum… i experienced that few weeks ago.., When the woman say’s “NO” yet she stays in place with you.., it means.., MORE… pls.. more… dig deeper dude…. Yeah.!. that’s how they communicate with you.. If its you’re first time together.. THANK YOU SO MUCH JESSE FOR 4 ds very important information guys needs to know… KEEP it UP!!! GOD BLESS THIS SITE… GOD BLESS THE INTERNET.. AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU JESSE…
Thanks Julius !
How do I use this tactic to get an ex, if only to punish her?
I’m not sure that acting our of revenge is a good idea, you should start looking for new girls and move onward, not look back !
hmmm……..it was dmn seductuctive.but what du u du wen the girl persistently say no??????????
I tried that once and was almost accused of sexual assault