It must too be part of your bedroom repertoire to eat a woman’s pussy out good and proper.
Cunnilingus is called by a lot of names; oral sex, eating pussy, going down, tongue thrashing, giving head, and muff munching to name a few. But whatever you call it, women love it.
For some women, oral sex is the only way she’s trained herself to have an orgasm. For others, it’s the most intense.
Women will adore you if you’re able to give them a good tongue lashing. You can easily compensate for having a small penis if she knows she’s found a terrific tongue thrasher, and she won’t let go of that easily.
You can move your tongue in ways your penis never could. And your tongue is naturally lubricated for her pleasure to boot.
However, cunnilingus is not a natural skill that you’re born with. If you don’t take the time to learn the skill, women won’t get the thrill. And fortunately for you, many guys are reluctant even to put their face in a vagina giving you a great advantage.
Love the Pussy
About 90% of men complain that cunnilingus takes too long, is uncomfortable to perform, or tastes funny.
Imagine this scenario. A sexy, beautiful woman sits on your bed. You ask her for oral sex. She declines saying she doesn’t like the taste, but finally agrees to go ahead with it. She pulls your cock out, takes a look at it and frowns.
“Ugh,” she grunts as she takes the tip of it into her mouth. After a few minutes she asks, “Aren’t you going to cum yet?”
Not very hot and sexy was that? Most of the fun of getting a blowjob is getting a good blowjob and knowing that the girl loves giving it. It’s no different for a woman getting cunnilingus from a man.
Now imagine this scenario. The same sexy, beautiful woman is sitting on your bed.
She unclasps your belt, wetting her lips with her tongue. “I find you so sexy,” she says… and her eyes smile when your cock springs to attention for her.
Taking your cock in both hands she smiles from ear to ear with a devil’s grin. “Hmmmm… I’m going to love sucking your cock,” she says. She slowly licks the underside of your penis, sucks your balls, and takes you down her throat until wet saliva covers your shaft. “Hmm… I love the way your cock tastes in my mouth,” she says. “Don’t cum yet…”
The difference between bad oral sex and good oral sex is attitude. It’s the way the giver enjoys what they’re doing without inhibition. Nothing is hotter to a woman than for her to think that you find her pussy the most delicious dessert on Earth.
Let her know, or at least fake it, that you love eating her pussy out. Pretend her vagina is a cherry lollipop that you’re dying to lick. You love the way her pussy tastes. You love the way her pussy smells. You’re NOT giving her oral sex for her pleasure… you’re giving her oral sex for your pleasure.
Give Her Eye Contact
Men make the mistake of not keeping eye contact when eating a woman out.
Although more easily said than done, keep eye contact with her as you move toward her pink treasure. Glue your eyes to hers a little longer than you would normally, even during silences. A gaze that stays overtime awakens primal feelings in her.
When you must look away, only do so reluctantly. Drag your eyes away slowly, as though they had been stuck with warm taffy.
To spice things up more, throw her a devilish look that conveys lust. Throw her one as you’re licking and sucking your way down her stomach. Stop and look. Install the feeling that you’re a “bad boy” in your head, make eye lingering contact, and slowly lick your lower lip.
Smell It and Taste It
Most women’s vaginas taste like hot, sweet, sticky, kind-of-salty candy. However, her specific taste will vary depending on her period, hormones, contraceptive method, what she ate that day, and her age.
Whether she’s worried about vagina’s smell or taste or not, tell her how much you love it to relax her. When you first put your face in her inner thighs, breathe in deeply and say to her, “Hmm… you smell really nice down here.”
This next trick gets a woman really turned on. Once her pussy is soaking wet, stick your finger inside her vagina until its slick and shiny with her vaginal juices. Pull your finger out and suck her vaginal juices completely off while making eye contact. Tell her, “Hmm… your pussy juice tastes sooooo good. I could just eat down here all day.”
If she smells or tastes downright foul, this is caused by out-of-control bacteria, not her natural vaginal moisture. Don’t tell her that she smells. Tactfully suggest that you take a shower together first so that you’ll both smell clean.
Relax!
Above all else, make sure that YOU relax… or she won’t! If you’re squeamish and tense, she’ll sense that immediately and follow you right into it. Remember, you’re the leader and you’re setting the tone.
So relax. Don’t worry. There’s almost nothing you can do that won’t feel terrific. Even if at times you may feel confused and uncertain, she’ll be in heaven. Any licking and sucking of her vagina or clitoris is going to feel great to her.
Tease Her
Most men enjoy having their genitals touched at any time, whether they’re aroused or not. This is not the case with women however.
Most women need a good bit of stimulation before having their clitoris tongue lashed. Unless her clitoris is engorged with blood, it will be too sensitive to touch directly. So don’t dive right in without a little prep work. First you need to get her dripping-wet hot down there.
Approach her pussy slowly. Women, even more than men, love to be teased. Make her anticipate the sensations.
Kiss and lick her inner thighs first. Then lick the groove where her inner thigh meets the outer vaginal lips. Go up to the very edge of her pussy licking long strokes.
Before you touch her pussy with your tongue, gently use your softest, warmest breath on the whole area. Come dangerously close to her pussy and then float away.
Licking the Pussy
Once she’s hot and wet, move onto the main feast. Give her pussy a tongue-lashing, but don’t touch her clitoris yet– you’re still warming her up and her clitoris might be too sensitive still.
Move in and out of her pussy lips and around and around with your tongue. Keep your tongue wet and moist.
Now almost all men get this part wrong. Don’t extend, tense or point your tongue like you see in porno flicks. These are actors putting on a show for the camera. It’s better to use the whole surface or the flat of the tongue rather than just the tip. Just try licking your own hand with the point of your tongue and then again with the flat. Which one feels better?
Again, tell her how much you like eating her. Sigh as if you’re in heaven. Tell her, “I love eating you out… I could be down here all day… mmmmmm.”
After you’ve pleasured her pussy to the point she’s really wet and juicy, move on to her clitoris.
A woman’s clitoris is the most pleasure-sensitive part of her vagina and that’s where you’ll want to devote your attention. In fact, the tiny little clitoris has more sensory nerve endings than the entire penis!
Imagine the sensation of your entire dick being stroked all at once in the space of green pea. In other words, be gentle! Most men make the mistake of licking the clitoris too hard. Keep the pressure light, especially at first.
Every woman is different however. Some women will love it if you suck hard and directly on their clit. A few may shriek in pain at direct contact, even if they’re excited. For most women, what would have felt rough at first will feel fine once she’s very excited.
Taking Her over the Edge
She’s getting close to orgasm now. Yes, varying your stimulation is good for getting her there, but once she’s close to orgasm you want to keep a steady rhythm and intensity. When it comes to clitoral orgasms, wandering off or changing technique when she’s on the verge of cumming will only sabotage it.
Once you’ve got her hips bucking up and down, pressing against your face and she starts to have an orgasm– don’t let go of that clit! Most men make the BIG MISTAKE of stopping too soon.
Stay in there no matter what. If she’s bucking up and down, try to move with her as best you can. Unlike men, women enjoy strong stimulation while having an orgasm.
So how long should you keep going? Until she makes you stop. Usually you’ll know when she suddenly pushes your head away or says, “Stop!” because her clitoris will be very sensitive after she’s through having her orgasm. Otherwise, she’s one of those women who can have more stimulation after orgasm and can have multiples, in which case just keep going.
If you’ve tried every technique you know of and she still hasn’t had orgasm, don’t worry about it. Unlike for a guy, oral sex for a woman doesn’t need to include orgasm for it to be very pleasurable and satisfying.
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thank u for giving a good lesson for eating pussy and I realy like it,u teached me alot.Anway,can you do me a favour,where can I find a part of virgina called a ‘G-sport’
It’s called the G-Spot. It’s described in the Kama Sutra book.
Roberto
Its means she bout cumin and she needs ur dick 4 d maximum satisfaction. Also so many women beliv much in dick no mata d amount of pussy eat out, so poundin dem wit dick taks dem to dat final realm of sex satisfaction
Its means she bout cumin and she needs ur dick to peform dat. Also so many women beliv much in dick no mata d amount of pussy eat out, so poundin em wit dick taks em to dat final realm of sex satisfaction
densil you are not quite right, it is less likely a woman will reach orgasm through penitration than through clitoral stimulation, not that a good pounding is unwanted on the odd occaion!! FYI the g-spot is pretty much the opposite side of the clit but on the inside.
fantastic
Its realy super and thrilling also
what a lesson!
Sucking and locking onto a womans clitoris sends my woman wild!!!
Don’t use your teeth on her clit!!! She will kick you out of bed!!! Use your lips and tongue.
Roberto
Don’t be shy to share your own tips here guys
Thanks for the information.My next date will be wounderful.
“How To Eat Pussy Like A Champ” by Seymour Butts (yes the porn guy), is a great video to learn from. He gives great advice such as why you DONT want to eat pussy like the porn stars do on film. Even Nina Hartley makes a cameo and gives her two cents on eating pussy while going down on another chick (awesome). This video really helped me up, ALOT!
Thanks I’ll check it out…
From one box muncher to another…….Thanks……..Yum….Joe
its too good thank u
It was really a nice lesson.. However , my girl doesn’t allows me for intercourse after her orgasm. How should i overcome this problem dear?
Damn simple.
Alternate the right to climax. If you’re a gentleman, give her one first. When she’s finished, mimick an afterplay, but delicately turn it into another foreplay. Unless she’s really tired, she won’t say no to another round of pleasure. At least 30 minutes later, when she’s very arroused, look into her eyes, smile and say; “Baby, I want you to make me come”
If she’s really your girl, she’ll feel like a heel to refuse a kind, honest request after you just satisfied her.
If she does that, she just doesn’t respect you so you only have two choices:
Either get some more Blissnosis lessons and make her go wild for a while after wich you “withdraw the offer” for a while, to make her feel rejection for two weeks. (but do it delicately: “I have to meet the guys. “Mom needs me to repair something” – so she knows they’re excuses but you don’t just shove her away, or
Dump her ass like a torn umbrella and give the benefit of your erotic knowledge to woman that at least has the common decency to care about you too.
If her stoping you is immediately after the orgasm, you’ll just have to accept the fact that her body needs to “adjust it’s settings” after it, so be a doll and give her some time for that, during which a nice perfumed oil massage would be both afterplay and foreplay and do you both a world of good.
NEVER push or pull or try to convince. It will cool her emotionally and you might discover some time later that she’ll either not enjoy sex with you anymore, or she’ll even avoid it altogether.
Best of luck !
how can i suck pussy, cos i dont know.
Flap your mouth like a fish and repeat
What a great lick… i like the most
Will it not be harmful from medical point of view? Pussy juices will not have dangerous or food poisonig impact on the stomach? Are they not germs?
Of course there’s a lot of info on the net about that. Just google “Vaginal fluids” and see where that gets you.
Simple answer is NO.
The mouth has more germs than the vagina and you don’t worry about kissing her, do you?
The only concern would be STD’s so, if you’re worried, guide her to take some medical tests.
Besides, a man’s measure is his woman’s pleasure.
hi are you
jesse i have a problem my gf loves me but i am her first boyfriend and she is new to the whole dating thing, weve kissed before but we havent made out its been 2 months i ask her why she says idk then i ask again and again and she says she doesnt know how, im trying to teach her and i hope that will work out but my question is… how do i make her less “prude”? i really want her to show me the sexual side of her thati know is somewhere in there…but how do i get it out? and she wont kiss me in public either, she has this thing when theres ppl around she thinks its bad…..help?
NEVER ask a girl, especially an inexperienced one for sex. Never !
It makes her feel pushed instead of relaxed.
Starting NOW, forget about asking !
Ok, let’s talk about buttons:
Here’s the thing – women cannot resist if they are treated the right way. They just can’t. It’s how they’re built.
You have a few groups of “buttons” at your disposal:
The emotional buttons, the erogenous buttons, the arrousing buttons and the climactic buttons.
1. Emotional buttons:
a) Words:
Sincere compliments (never “admire”something you don’t really like; she’ll catch you)
These are the ones that make you be the one that makes her feel attractive. Women are avid for them, even hot ones. On hot
ones you go for : “Could you tell me who arranged your hair, it’s very interesting. Most men go for “you’re hot” BAD. Many men
go overkill with a compliment. WORSE, she’ll see it fake and hate you for it. K.I.S.S. (Keep It Simple, St…)
Sweet words ( I feel so much warmth in your arms, baby )
These are Damn hard to come by if you don’t really have feelings. A test for yourself.
Their effect?
They make your intimate moments warm, cozy and special.
b) Looks and facial expressions:
BE REACTIVE !
It’s frustrating as HELL for someone to give some love and be met with Mr. Too Cool. She’ll end up putting you in “the freezer”.
React to her gestures and touches like she’s playing a song on the strings of your soul.
Unfortunately, I cannot demonstrate these in writing.
Effects?
They’ll stick the concept that you are “the right guy for her” Deep in her mind and heart.
Mr. Too Cool looks good only from a distance. That’s where he’s doomed to remain.
c) Non-sexual touches:
Holding her in your arms, rubbing her back, rubbing her feet if they’re cold, playing with your fingers in her hair (some women
go beserk with joy if you do that).
It simply shows you care and are trustworthy for her to open herself to you.
2. Erogenous buttons:
These are the ones that do not get a girl horny, but put her “in the mood”
Have you ever wondered why girls Love dancing so much?
These zones.
The length of her spine.
Hips. (no buttocks allowed)
Forearms (soft kisses there resonate straight to her heart)
Face. (the ultimate zone for saying “I love you” without words. Closed eyes. Kiss them very gently.
3. Arrousing buttons:
Well, the world’s your oyster here.
A woman’s body is full of them.
NEVER go for the hard ones, like nipples or vulva. You’ll be left with nothing to “work on” later and that’ll be the end of it.
Try an exercise: after a bath or shower, caress your own body with the tips of your fingers. Immagine it’s her doing that. You’ll
find a LOT of sensitive spots. Her’s are only more sensitive than yours.
Base rule: be delicate, be gentle, be persistent.
You can go for buttocks, inner tighs, neck, earlobe (mad, this spot, to the touch of a tongue), wrists, so on.
You can start biting gently and sucking her skin.
Be immaginative.
4. The climactic buttons:
Vulva, breasts and nipples, perineum, anus (if you two are emancipated enough – not recommended for beginners).
Labiae, clitoral hood, vaginal entry.
Clitoris, G spot, A spot and U spot.
If Derek doesn’t mind, look them at “heretical.com/miscella/g-spots”
OooooK ! Now that you know all these, I’ll give you the Holy Word:
CRESCENDO
Great sex begins with you pcking her up at her parents (or home, if she lives alone or otherwise), taking her through all the steps of a good date, cozy-ing her when back home, discretely pushing these buttons so the warmth and sexual tension slowly escalates.
When you about hit the last of the arrousing buttons, she’ll want you like there’s no tomorrow.
Here’s a dirty trick you can do: get her all worked up, then, instead of going full monty, slowly decrease your stimulation, switch the talk (you do communicate while fondling, don’t you? DO, if you don’t right now, otherwise she’ll feel like you only want to screw her) to something funny,like a good, non offensive joke and then, abruptly fake being tired and having to go to sleep because of all the work you have tomorrow.
Do this to her 4 or 5 times and the accumulated, unsatisfied sexual tension will get so extreme she’ll practically rape you (joking ! but she will demand it) when she has had enough.
(this is how you get a virgin to want penetration)
Now, in all this have you seen any form of proposing sex? NO.
If it feels great, she’ll want more. That’s all.
Asking creates stress and drastically decreases your chances.
Plus she won’t enjoy it as much (or even not at all) and will make you dumping material in the end.
Have you ever wondered why men get dumped ?
80% of the time is becaused they did not take their time to bond with the woman.
Heed the ultimate truth: “There is no frigid woman, only unskilled men”.
From first button to the last.
That’s all
May Inspiration and Patience be your best friends.
Best of luck to you,
Felix
Wow could you add me some more? Thks!!!
Felix;
The term BONDING with the woman is rarely mentioned. My guess is most men don’t know what that means.
When you said, “80% of the time (why men get dumped) is because they did not take their time to bond with the woman”, struck a note in me.
If I am interested in a woman, sexually, I ALWAYS bond with her before sex.
BONDING is a good subject to describe even further.
Roberto
A good skill for our sons to develop; a lot more women will be happy especially those who have difficulty having orgasms or none at all.
I have been ” PUSSYING ” the girls n that is what
the like it always. Let”s have something new and
mindblowing . Awaiting for something new.
derek can u give me some topics that i could about for a long time and go from one converstaion to another and because whenever im around the girl and even though i KNOW she likes me for a fact i dont say too many things im shy i think “what if she thinks thats a stupid thing to say” or idk just so much negativity in my head and sometimes i get these random “hyper” moments where i just talk for 10 minutes straight and they love it! i tell them a story or about something ive done and i make it sound very intense and thats how a blissnosis man is i can feel it because just the way i put words together and i make it seem so intense they share their story afterwards and comment on mine and we talk and talk and talk but that only happens sometimes when i get hyper or when im drunk. but how can i be like that all the time?? i need something to say at first and then build on that.. i guess my problem is just being social, love to hear from u soon…i need to defeat this problem and move on with my life man. please and thank u
relax! you dont need to be like that all the time, just be yourself. Keep up physical and eye contact, occasional pat on the arm, sitting close, touch on the knee. confidence is the key. When a man is confident, women want to know you. although showing your sensitive shy side is also a turn on – but only when you have got their attention with confidence! (confusing I know, but thats women for ya!)
have a few stories in your head and try them out with friends to make sure they are good and make it funny (if you can) no matter what you look like you can always laugh women into bed, it is far more attractive to be funny than be obsessed with your body or too good looking. once you have got a few laughs you should relax a bit more and the cycle goes on!
hai……………
Great post and thread!
What works great for me: After initial foreplay (kissing, sucking her nipples, clenching your hand in her hair near the scalp to tug it, thus stimulating all those nerve endings which she’ll feel all through her body) start working down her body until you’re between her legs. Personally, I prefer a pillow under her ass to raise her up and give me better access.
Kiss and “love-bite” her inner thighs, nuzzling her pussy with my nose and mouth before extending my tongue and licking the slit softly, until I feel her being nice and wet.
Spread her lips open with my fingers and softly lick her clit. Circular movements. Write the alphabet with my tongue, maybe. Loving her clit; as if I’m making love to it, not being “mechanical.”
If you watch any online videos of women masturbating you will see to what extent many women like both internal AND clitoral stimulation. So as I’m tongueing her clit I’ll slip in 1, then 2 (and maybe even 3 if she’s really wet!) fingers. Curl your fingers with the pads of your finger tips pressed against the upper wall of her vagina and rub against it as if making a “come here” gesture; or, just push your fingers in and out.
When you’ve got her going good, keep the fingers inserted and gently clamp your teeth against the base of her clit (clamp, fellows, not bite) and start to SUCK. Keep your tongue against her clit too, the action of sucking will move your tongue all it needs to to provide additional stimulation.
(You can actually practice this on the tip of your little finger. See how it feels to hold the fingertip in with your teeth, sucking it and moving your tongue against it.)
I did this to my girlfriend recently and she told me afterwards “That felt so damned good and I didn’t want you to stop. If you had stopped I would have pulled your ears off.” I could tell when she was cumming so I did it until she literally pushed my head away and said “Easy!” so I know for sure she was finished. This is a good rule of thumb (or, rule of tongue, heh heh): Just keep doing it until she stops you.
My favorite variation: Do the above with her sitting on the couch, her ass on the edge of the cushions as you kneel between her legs and eat her. Then every so often stop and move up and enter her with your cock, fucking her and kissing her (most women like tasting their sex on your mouth) and massaging her breasts and nipples. Then go back down and eat/finger awhile….back and forth like this until she’s abandoned all control and is writhing against you like a wanton, hungry slut ~grin~
Great job Mr. Charger!
I’m sure everyone is happy for these additional tips- thanks!
what a great way to have 69
I would like to add some thing
I am 60 years old
My wife is 52 only
But we are enjoing 69 almost daily
after some time i am comming on top of her
After alittle while she will come on top of me
We will roll like some thing a solid body
When i feel she is highly ready and I am on top possitionI will take her thighs locked with my arms and my palms will squeeze her buttocks
I feel her cum is providing my tounge a silky juicy entrance to her small hall
At this time myleft hand which was sqeezing her buttock will reach the place between her vegina and the anus start to pulp that area.
She is almost crying
In addition my right hand will release her buttock and take the hand under her right thai
and start to play with her peanut
in the mean time there is no rest to my toung
i am sucking her all the cum ans swalowand trying to keep it dry but it will never bocome.
Finally she is begging me to release my load in her mouthand my penis will become the ever biggest instrument in side her cunt like mouth
But be carefull she will eat your big penis
and you should start this before the meals only
I know there have been alot of things posted here, but its not super-difficult to make most girls cum multiple times, if you give even decent head.
Spend alot of time on the foreplay, work inward, & one thing that has helped is asking her to play with herself while I do something(lick her nipples, deepthroat her fingers, massage her thighs etc). So if your doing 20-30 minutes of foreplay, then plays with herself, then you give her head(Flick-and-suck, then switch over to giving her a mini-blowjob on her clit once she is closer to orgasm). I keep sucking her off until she stops bucking her hips, then let the tongue off slowly as it gets sensitive & give her a massage. After being with so many guys who just want a BJ or regular sex, they usually say they really enjoyed it more than normal(I hope they aren’t lying, but I tend to believe if they blew their load or started skullraping me).
So true, so true
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just dearching partner in oune
Don’t forget preforeplay- the Massage, because this can really get a woman in the mood (CONFIRMED THROUGH FIELD STUD-Y).
“When it comes to clitoral orgasms, wandering off or changing technique when she’s on the verge of cumming will only sabotage it.
Once you’ve got her hips bucking up and down, pressing against your face and she starts to have an orgasm– don’t let go of that clit! Most men make the BIG MISTAKE of stopping too soon.”
THANKYOU – As a female it is nice to see that SOMEONE appreciates how incredibly ANNOYING that is !
and amen to that!!
My Girlfriend dont like oral sex. what do i do to encourage her?
I really enjoyed your write up, you have contributed 90% to my home more srong.
I love sucking the clit but after a while, my wife forces me to have intercourse. I am confused. Tell me why
maybe she likes to be fucked. having a cock inside you makes you feel more connected. If she is not bucking like a kangaroo while you are down on her though, you may not be pleasing her in the oral department, so take some more tips form this page!
also a minority of women do not actually enjoy oral sex for many reasons, that is always a possibility.
just searching partner in pune
Master! I humblily bow in ur presence! Thanks, Thanks, specially in the learned part in porno movie about use the tip of the tongue. Amazing.
I love to eat my wife’s pussy but I salivate too much when I have my tongue in her. When she starts bucking, she begs me to penetrate with my penis. But then she is too dang wet to where I dont feel any tightness around my penis.
So how do I avoid too much saliva in this process?
Get out the mini vacuumn
thanks my woman always ask for more if is not ready self
thanks my woman always ask for more if is not ready self is one of good lecture I like.