Having travelled the world (South America, Europe, Japan), I’ve come to see that the United States is one of the BEST places to meet hot and sexually open minded women.
Here’s my 8 top reasons why the U.S. is a actually a great country for girls.
Reason #1. Sexually Liberal Girls… and Straight Up Freaks!

In many parts of the world like South America, the women are quick to give you indicators of interest and they’re sensual, but at the same time they’re also uptight about sex. Religious upbringing, tight-knit families, and poverty mean that the girls are hard to sleep with and pretty vanilla between the sheets.
American women though are pretty much straight up freaks. For U.S. girls, adventurous sex comes first over family or religious guilt.
They’re up for anal, being tied up, being dominated, having threesomes with other girls, couples swinging, dirty talking, or whatever else you fancy. Some American girls may question you at first, but most are pretty much open minded and willing to try.
And some of the girls are downright freaks – midgets, gang bangs, and Daddy fantasies!
Reason #2. Lots of VARIETY!

When it comes to women, the U.S. may excel at nothing, but it does a pretty good job at having a little of everything.
You only dig blondes? Go to Sweden. You’re crazy about Asians? Hit up Thailand. You want big booty black chicks? Swoop the Dominican Republic. You like Cinnamon-skinned Latinas? Go to Brazil. They all beat the United States in their respective strengths.
But if you like sheer variety and surprise, the U.S. has something for everybody. People from all over the world emigrate here, so you’ve got women of all ethnic types and looks imaginable.
The U.S. is also a place of extremes. You’ve got fat, lard-ass women (some of them decently hot though). You’ve also got hard-core fitness freaks with tight bodies.
You’ve got women with small, tight butts and women with huge, freakish asses. Andyou can find cute, teenage waifs alongside busty, pimped-out MILFs.
Everything is there in America.
Of course, you’ve got to MEET all these cuties FIRST and tap into their naughty sides. And if your game is weak and limp, pretty American girls will often SNUB you.
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Reason #3. America has ALL types of venues!

Real U.S. college girls!
Want to hit up young girls in bikinis on the beach? Go to Ft Lauderdale.
Want to meet well-dressed glamour girl Latinas? Downtown Miami.
Looking for Caucasian college cuties? Try Gainesville.
Looking to swoop vacationing honeys for one night stands? Check out Orlando.
And that’s just in Florida! The U.S. is a BIG place with every type of venue, city, small town, or beach for picking up chicks that you can imagine!
Reason #4. It’s Cheap and Convenient!

We have Latina ladies too!
No, I’m not saying that the girls are cheap and convenient (though one could certainly make that argument), but the U.S. is more cheap and convenient than almost any other country on Earth.
Countries you’d *think* would be cheap to live in – like Brazil in South America, or Hungary in Eastern Europe – can be surprisingly expensive. They’re not much cheaper than the U.S. really, considering what you get.
For one, the USA is king of cheap food and cheap buffets, which is great if you’re working out and trying to bulk up. It’s not hard to find $7 buffets for all-you-can-eat vegetables, meats and breads. Even a poor country in South America is hard pressed to beat America’s prices.
And convenience! Where else can you buy condoms, new underwear… or a gas-powered lawn mower… at 2:00am in the middle of the night? Only in the U.S.!
Need to deposit a check in the middle of the night? No problem, you don’t even need to leave your car – just use a drive-thru ATM.
Reason #5. The Kinky Road Trip!

The Smoky Mountains National Park
Once you’ve snagged your girl, there’s a ton of cool shit to do in the U.S, because it has everything. This means ROAD TRIP time!
Take your girl to a romantic cabin in the Smoky Mountains… and fuck her silly in the hot tub.
Take your girl hike the Grand Canyon … and fuck her silly on the trail.
Take your girl to a beach shack on a sleepy beach in Florida… and fuck her silly in front of the sunset.
Take your girl to a Bliss Party and… fuck her silly with another woman.
What are you waiting for..? Go!
Reason #6. Everyone speaks English!

I know you may be thinking, “Jesse, so what?!”
English may not sound like a big deal, but if you do a lot of international traveling you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about.
You may think going to a foreign country and swooping the exotic women will be a piece of cake.
UNTIL you actually get there, and find you can’t speak a damn word of the local language. And if the local hottie can’t speak English either, most likely the hook up is NOT going to happen.
You’ll also find yourself getting lonely and feeling isolated when you can’t speak the local language fluently. And feeling *connection* is so important to long term happiness.
So forget memorizing new words and doing grammar exercises until your head explodes. In the U.S., you’re already set!
Reason #7. America Is A Mingling Culture!

In some countries like Colombia, girls go out with huge groups of friends and they all sit down together. It’s hard to get “in” with the group unless you’re introduced.
In other countries like Russia, unless you’re introduced to the girl by one of her friends, you’re considered a stranger and outsider.
But the USA is all about meeting new people and making new friends. Yes, women have their cliques and groups, but American girls are generally friendly to meeting new people. In a bar or club, you can just cold walk-up, introduce yourself, and you’re “in” with the group.
The U.S. is all about fresh starts and breaking old traditions. Groups of friends are very fluid. So the girls are pretty friendly… IF you have the balls to approach!
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Reason #8. An Underground Culture of Outright Sexual FREAKS!

Under the surface, U.S. women are the freakiest in the world
NO country on Earth has as many swing clubs, swinger hook ups, swinger parties, or active swingers than the U.S., and it’s indicative of the unparalleled sexual freakiness of American women.
That innocent looking Mom dropping her kids off at school? She’s being drilled by well-hung black guys on Saturday nights.
The executive woman behind the business desk? Swapping partners with other power couples.
That cute college girl wearing the glasses? She’s getting it on with her female friends while she “experiments” her way through school.
Yes, it’s all hush-hush, but an estimated 10% of American women have been actively involved in the swinging scene and even more in group sex. Yes, American chicks are straight up freaks!
So be careful… because you are playing with fire!
So there you have it, eight reasons why America is great for meeting attractive, sexually open-minded women. I’ve traveled the world, and NO other country has such a unique combination of sheer ethnic variety, sexual openness, and affordable cost and stellar convenience than the U.S.
So if you’re an American dreaming about girls in Rio or Budapest… remember, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. You’ve got some attractive, sensual girls right here too.
~ Jesse
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What do you think of American women? The best in the world, or… something else? Leave me a comment below
I know American women are the most beautiful and gorgeous ones in the world. In my facebook account quotes I state so, and as credit I state: Guess Who, and this is because I refer to that guess who as God, for that spatement is a fact, not an opinon. You see, I study math and physics, and there is also a phi number that helps us see the beauty of things in the nature by a scientific method.
Dating and marrying American women is the best, not only because of all the above given reasons, but also they want self asertion, and I know that in a couple, equal rights and authorities are crucial, thats why such relationship is called match, and in USA its easier to find women that wanna assert themselves and elbow their equality to men. Lets not forget that in WY state, back in 1869 was the first place to ever allow women to vote on Earth, and thanks to the 19th ammendment approved in 1920, American women were the first ones to get a public vote rights, plus, in USA, many more women are working tomake a living by themselves.
I agree that there is a CRAZY amount of diversity that you can’t find in many other areas of the world. I used to live in downtown Chicago and it’s like a melting pot for any type of woman you can imagine.
As far as sexual openness, I’d say overall this can be true in some cases but there is so much diversity in this respect to generalize. I think it all depends on what type of venue you’re at and your level of game. If you have game and hitting up the bars/clubs in your city, many girls you meet will be up for sexual escapades quickly. Yet if you don’t have game, it doesn’t matter where you are, girls will be pruder than nuns after sunday afternoon mass…
Thanks for the input tony
I am an Indian and male.
Can you suggest me how can see your country and best girls and can take the
enjoy with them.
thanks,
makhan
Very true. As for the indian dude above, hang yourself.
Yoooo Im Indian and I agree with what you said Ricardo.
Amd my Indian broo….just hit the gym and keep up with Jesse’s legendary advice. Dont give a fuck about anyone or anything
AND FUCKING LIVE YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!!
Inspiring !
And, probably the most neurotic and low-self esteem girls in the world. One of the reasons why they are so freaky. The reason she’s great in bed is probably the reason you’ll hate her out of bed. So once you get them, get ready to see a couples therapist before the divorce and she teaches them that their father is a jerk. LOL Only funny because it’s true.
Just don’t marry them boys. That’s another great course…
On the other hand, I don’t advocate marriage in general, no matter what the woman’s country of origin.
Hey Jessie, I’m also a fan of yours! Don’t forget that the world is also reading this site, and reading an article that says the US is the best is not very motivating for us guys down here in South Africa. By the way, we’re part of “the world” too!!!
South African girls are hot too my friend
I agree about the variety, speaking english and stuff but they are also the pickiest – BY FAR. If you are not 6ft tall, have money, some kind of decent looks then you basically have a very hard time.
Just read Cosmo, watch Sex in the city and all that media stuff that women today consume, you can see that if you do not fit some kind of “uber value” criteria you will not be able to date a beautiful woman. No way Joe….This is not the 50′s or 60′s when women needed men. Today they have their choices and they will wait. They dont have get married. They have their own money. They make their own decisions which is great for them, but for the average guy in dating its very frustrating. No leverage.
Seriously if you are a hot american woman, you are going to hold out for the best you can find. I live in a big US metro area and know a number of these women. Yes you can mingle and talk to them but they want what they want. Game or no game.
So if you are 6ft, good looking and have money, then you will do ok. But if you are not either of those, you will have a very, very hard time.
Eturk is right about the marriage thing. If you do marry them (I was married once) they will take you for all you have and its pretty much backed up by the courts. And we had no children. If we did I would be living in a cardboard box right now…lol..
Are american girls great?
(Chuckles) …dunno … none of ‘em have dated ME yet … can’t write a good product review on THAT brand! (lol!)
about time you sample !
Theres no limitations..theres stunning women everywhere
You attract what you put out..
Dennis,
New zealand
I’ve not really met an American girl.
But before you call them the best, Wait till a Nigerian girl handles you.
You’re right, I’m lacking experience on that front to compare. Have to rectify that one day
hi , you said true.
i am egyptian man , can you tell me how can i touch this true by myself, to see the best girls and can take the enjoy with them……….
thank you
I don’t know, get a Visa…
Yeah, changed my sig.
Now, just two things:
First, a well travelled man on a site I once read said a lot about russian ladies and made a painful comparison.
Here’s his hard conclusion: american ladies are bitches. And no, not in the sexual way. That wouldn’t be that bad. In the “I’m so hot and precious and you gotta impress me if you want attention.” kind of way. He said, russian ladies treat you as a friend, or, at least as another human being, not as a player in a game, rated by how good or bad you are. Competition is a fact of life, not an obsession there.
Second, Derek, behind the sparkly, silky “I wanna share with you guys” curtains, you’re going all porn on me REALLY bad !! Once, I was afraid you’d become a relationships techie.
Boy, was I wrong !!
Just like all the other bozos on the pick-up scene, you became all about the fuck. The scoring. The scoring of fantasies and wishes.
Thus, allow me to refresh your system with a quick and brief reminder:
—>Getting the girl is about affection, companionship, love and reproduction !!!<—, NOT about fucking !
Let me repeat:
emotional satisfaction
partnership
emotional fulfillment
sexual health
babies
What you are doing wrong:
You're leading your flock of alpha wannabies down the dark path of "I can fuck whatever I want if I do it right". What's wrong with this path ? Easy ! Once you consider intimacy as a sport, it loses it's value and all these morons that take after your "just do it" cute advices will fall into that ugly trap of emotional non-sensitivity.
Easyer words:
Women will become easy for them. Hardship creates importance, intensity and value.
Easyer still:
If I can have, fuck and indulge in any fantasy I want with one woman, whenever I want, because I know exactly how to make ker do what I want, SHE LOSES HER VALUE TO ME ! She becomes easy, maybe even cheap.
Emotional level.
We treasure what is hard to obtain, that's what we dream of and care for. The easy, we consume and forget.
Derek, you're setting your customers up for an emotional ice-age and they don't even notice. You don't even notice, for that matter.
Maybe such notions are too subtle for you. All is possible, I guess.
Now, feel free to moderate the crap out of my message, go crazy about it, for all I care.
Or just let it float out there like it has no importance at all.
It's all equal to me.
See, I've been reading about the pick-up and sed-sci community for a long time and your innitial "blissnosis" approach, back before you released the first CD program, well, it had sensuality, it had enthusiasm, freshness, it was alive and joyful, not just another technical game like all other "do what works and stick it in pussy" douchebags floating out there. Once, you, the guru type, had a soul.
Well, …. disappointment.
'Guess I should have known better.
Pussy overdose kills the soul.
But what does a "fuck freedom fighter" know about the intricate webbings of the human heart ?
Be well, Derek, and please try to remain human !
If you don't understand what I mean by this, or why do I feel it is the case to tell it to you, than it's already too late, so just forget it and do what you do.
Hugz !
Bye !
Oh, and, no, I don't hide behind the sig.
Balca Felix, Tulcea, Romania, Eastern Europe.
I'm easy to find on FB
Thanks for your input Balca
Your right Jesse, America is a world class pussy buffet. You definately game however a few bucks and a tongue like Gene Simmons will speed up your success.
That’s cleared my toghuths. Thanks for contributing.
American specialize in fat unattractive women. It was not that way 20 years ago. Do I need to say more
Canadian women are cheat American women are gold diggers
cheap
Love how you always make it sound as if all of this is relatively easy.
In my humble opinion this is all theoretical.
In reality every type of girl can be found everywhere and in reality every guy has only a limited amount of girls that are attracted to him. I’m the type of guy that likes and only gets the incredibly attractive but shy type of girl, the one who doesn’t flirt a lot with others.
And eventhough I like that, it kind of binds my options and it means I’ll never get a girl that would ever consider like you mentioned ”anal, being tied up, being dominated, having threesomes with other girls, couples swinging, dirty talking,”
and personally I’ve never met an ‘easy’ girl, and I don’t get the feeling that I’ll ever get a chance with
”that innocent looking Mom dropping her kids off at school? She’s being drilled by well-hung black guys on Saturday nights.
or
Want to meet well-dressed glamour girl Latinas? Downtown Miami.
(you’ll never get further then meeting them!!)
or
The executive woman behind the business desk? Swapping partners with other power couples.
or
In a bar or club, you can just cold walk-up, introduce yourself, and you’re “in” with the group.”
And I’m not saying I want any of that, but the truth is that we live in a world in which I assume 95% of the male population doesn’t even get the chance to get any of the above, even if they wanted to.
Summary : From my perspective we live in a restricted world, and the idea of all those imaginary options -althought very nice- just give me false hope…
It’s theoretical… like canopy jumping in rain forest in Costa Rica. I’ve done that too – you’ve got to make it happen. That’s what the site is about, making what at first sounds far off, as something you can do.
Its the combination of ALL these 8 factors is why the U.S.A. has it so good! individual countries may stand out or beat the U.S.A. in 1 or 2 factors, but not all 8. All these factors combined is what makes it such a gold mine of chicks. The whole is greater than the sum of its parts.
Good points man
The united states of america has an abundance and variety of beautifull women more than any place on the planet.It is a melting pot of gorgoeous women from all over the world.The only thing about american women is they are sexually liberated,play hard to get and are powerfull and beautifull women that like to sexually dominate men.And they also love to raise their husband`s offspring and participate sexually.
That’s why you’ve got to play hard
American women are the best sexual teachers and best lovers in the world.
Yeah, they’re nuts
America’s got it good.
But until you go to the gold coast of Queensland, or the alley cafe’s of Melbourne,
Australia puts a damn good fight for the U.S.
The girls in the U.S. are great if you just want to have some sexual fun.
But, it does take money and time. Try hanging out a strip club and getting to know the dancers. If you are there long enough and if you are friendly you will eventually have sex with one of them. If you cop an attitude with them and demand sex they will run from you.
BTW: If you are looking for a stable, loving relationship-that’s a lot tougher to find. There are a lot of American women in their 20s and 30s who are really messed up and disfunctional. More and more American women are cheating on their husbands and boyfriends.
Great if your looking for a hook up, very bad if you want a relationship.
When I decide to get married I’m going to look outside the U.S. for a wife.
Jesse, I love reading your articles and I agree on most of what you say however this time, “YOUR DEAD WRONG.”
Being in the Navy for 5 years and traveled the world and meet and talked to a lot of Foreign Women I have to say that American Women are the worst.
- Narcissism
- Bitchy
- Entitled
- Rude
- Closed
- Masculine
- 25% to 35% are obese
- Don’t Respect men
- Higher chance of getting Divorce: American Women 60% vs 15% Foreign Women
- More Materialistic
- Swallow
Now just to be fair yes there are some great women in America but it’s becoming even more difficult to find them, especially an attractive one.
I’ve approached plenty of 8′s and 9′s in Eastern Europe and South Eastern Asia and I can say that 70% to 80% were not stuck up or had an entitledment attitude. They were very feminine, and wayyyyy more classy than AW. While yes they are less hornyer than American Women nearly all my military buddys were suprised at how respectful foreign women treated American Men. Hell I get more respect overseas than I get from my own mother, and my mother is a Christian.
I’m not saying that all AW are bad but out of 11 of my friends that married foreign women only 1 of them is divorced.
My friends notice that Russian Women in particular take better care of their bodies and apperance and they treat their men like Royalty, unfortunately Russian men aren’t the same way.
I’ve also noticed how easy it is to approach and talk to foreign women. It’s like to converstation is a lot more natural, rather than feeling like a job interview with AW. Yes, all women have their flaws but I don’t get the drama from foreign women like I do hear in America.
Foreign women especially Eastern European, Latin American, and South Eastern women have not been exposed to the Negatives of American culture so they don’t have to same problems that AW have. Why do you think the divorce rate is 60% with AW and only 15% with non american women. If you found a good american women I congradulate you and hopefully I might marry one to. I don’t hate AW I just hate the attitude.
When you get a chance see the movie: Frustrated Black American Men in Brazil. Their are great AW out there, you just have to look harder that’s all. Love you all…..
A couple of points however:
1. You’re exotic to these foreign women, so they’re friendlier to you than they would be to their local men. Probably to their local men, they’re just as uninterested and bitchy.
2. You expect foreign women to be friendlier, so you go in assuming and expecting success, and you yourself have a better, friendlier, and more confident demeanor. Meaning, when you assume success you’re more often to get success. And when you assume American girls will give you trouble and resistance, you’ll tend to get trouble and resistance. So your own expectations are influencing how American girls are reacting to you.
Hello once again Jesse. I tried to change my demeanor and have a more positive outlook on AW. But when I was at a club in Pacific Beach where a lot of Brazilian Women gather, I still got the same warm, curious, femine, beautiful personality welcome from most of the BZ women.
It’s like connecting with them is so much easier then AW and their smiles are more genuine. I’m talking about the 8′ and 9′s were giving me the time of day. The only issue that I had with them is that most are only staying for a few months and most can’t speak english. I find that being direct with women works best then building comfort before trying to kiss close. Damn Do I love foreign women….
I love most of your articles especially when it comes to younger women but this time Jesse I’m right and if your ever in San Diego I can prove it. However, AW are the freakiest especially white AW.
As an American woman who travels, I was astounded when I saw ex-pats shouting the horrors of American women with a 20 year old Thai girl on their arm who clearly only gave a shit about their fat ugly ass for one reason… The same reason these poor suckers were so quick to hate on Western women. Of course Russian women treat you like royalty dipshits, you’re their meal ticket and they imagine you buying them American clothes and taking them out. When women in foreign countries hear ‘American man’ they hear ‘$$$$$$’. This was evidenced by the sad number of young girls who would look at me lustfully, with thinly concealed bitter envy as I made my way around Asia-Eurasia with my handsome, young, American boyfriend eating whatever I wanted, wearing whatever I wanted. I am a naturally slim, pretty girl so I may not represent most American women but men in other countries certainly pursued me. That said, I resent the stereotype that women in the US are easy and masculine. We are well educated, self aware and do not need a man to pay our bills. If that intimidates you and find you find these qualities masculine, then go order an endentured servant off the Internet and have fun picking up chicks in the flipping bread line. Foreign men are fun to have sex with but with all the false stereotypes, American men are still our first choice. So you all can keep the bullshit ideas and we’ll keep American guys to ourselves. Particularly European men need to check themselves when it comes to opinions on American girls.
AW claim to be strong, independent, financially established, and self sufficent but they expect men to pay for drinks, dinner, entertainment, jewelry, ect…..
If you make the same amount as a man then why do you expect us to pay for your way. Why don’t you be independent and pay for your own stuff. I rest my case. Next time do your research because you make yourself sound ignorant.
The act put on by Asian and Eastern European women is a clear masquerade to get Western money. They want to be American women but they know they lack the education, culture, and prestige that is naturally associated with affluent Western culture. It is comical how obvious this is to Western women, if it weren’t so damn sad these girls had to preen their way through life in order to have an iota of what they perceive as value. And if you think American girls are easy try talking to one if you’re not attractive or from the UK
Last time I Checked american ranked #36 in education by even our own government statistics.
Calling Foregin Women Dumb, Typical AW non logic rant. Have fun when you BF dumbs you for a real woman. Your going to be one of those overweight unattractive 40 year plus AW on online dating hahahahha…..
Yeah, I’m sure I’ll be so sad and alone with my doctorate degree and my lucrative job. It will be difficult for me to get fat since I run 20 miles a week. Did I call them dumb? No! I said those young, subservient girls that you pigs love don’t love you back. They simply want to get out of their country and the poverty around them. They have not had the opportunities American women have had, and that’s a fact, opposite an ignorant statement like yours. Because of their circumstances, they are nice to you. If you have money to travel for leisure, you have money to spend on them. Learn how to capitalize correctly. And fuck you very much. There are plenty of men who would love to marry an attractive, well-educated, American woman. More power to my BF if he leaves, I’ll spend more money on myself, travel and do the things I enjoy until Mr. Next shows up. Attractive women don’t have any trouble finding male companionship. See all your comments above for proof. Next!
Oh, it should be noted I am referring to women from SE Asia, Eastern Europe and other parts of the globe that are historically impoverished, with class systems spanning centuries, in cultures where men still dominate politically and socially…not all foreign women? Can you read?
Also, look again at your statistics of educational attainment in the US-those rankings are often misleading. Almost everyone in the US has a high school diploma. And we do expect a lot of men, we have standards and expect to not be treated as a piece of meat. If you invite us to dinner, of course you should pay for our drinks. We are there because you invited us. No wonder you have to order girls offline, it sounds like. We have a more equal view of men and women, it’s cultural. Therefore, we don’t take any of your shit. If men want to move out or move on, good riddance. We have our own resources and lead our own lives. Thus the divorce rate is high, it’s high because we don’t depend on men and don’t put up with their crap.The young women I met in Cambodia and Thailand unfortunately could never say the same. My BF is only into American girls ;] he’s comfortable with his masculinity.
I’m not American but I think American girls are incredibly hot.I feel good just knowing a girl is an American girl.They looks incredible.