After having taught pickup and bootcamps for 8 years, I’ve found a really shocking dynamic among the guys who study seduction and picking up girls.
There’s lots of free material out there on the Internet to meet girls. A lot of it’s great and a lot of it works.
And then there are these huge message boards full of hundreds and hundreds of guys who can’t pick up women – at least not consistently.
These guys have read all of the books, but are still talking about how they’re struggling just saying hello or what to do next.
And at clubs, you hardly see anyone approach. 99% of guys will simply not approach women and they get nowhere with it.
What I’ve found is that the solution isn’t the next best routine, line, or theory. The element they’re missing comes down to a profound lesson in the film Avatar.
How Do We Really Change?
Take Jake Scully, the wheelchair ridden, ex-marine in the movie. At first he has no problem with bulldozing over the Na’vi hometree.
Yet by the end of the film he transforms from a follower taking orders to a great warrior who rides giant birds and leads a blue alien race.
How? Because he became fully immersed in the environment.
Only by running and flying through the exhilarating wilds of Pandora, only by synching his tail’s nerves directly with the animals and with the Chief’s daughter, only by immersing himself in the sights and sounds of the new world does Jake’s beliefs truly change, to the point of taking monumental risk and action to save Pandora.
Reading an e-book about the Na’vi people or watching a YouTube clip would not have transformed Jake’s beliefs or turned him into a leader who would risk his life to succeed.
And the reason 99% of guys simply do not become good at pickup is because of a lack of immersion.
You won’t become a great basketball player reading books and theory.
Nor can you become a great pickup artist that way.
Books and videos are simply not immersive enough.
You might feel empowered reading a new technique or cool routine. It can make you feel good and give you a rush. But you don’t actually get LAID that way.
I’ve just seen too many guys get discouraged and fail at this over the years, even though they had all of the information “at their fingertips”.
Director James Cameron knew this too: that’s why he made his movie Avatar in 3D with an immersive visual world and put you right in the feet of the Na’vi – a massive dose of sheer immersion to change your core beliefs.
The Achilles’ Heel of Live Bootcamps
Deep seated change and advanced skill only comes through 360 degree experience and total immersion in the new environment for an extended period of time.
That’s why some guys will spend $1,500 to $3,000 for 3 day bootcamps for the IMMERSIVE experience, and that’s simply the fastest way to learn. Of course, live bootcamps are insanely expensive… and 0% effective if you can’t afford it!
And because weekend bootcamps are so short, most guys immediately fall off the bandwagon once they’re back in their home environments a few days later.
I knew that somebody needed to create a total immersive training experience that lasted longer than a single weekend – and yet cheap enough for anyone who wanted it badly enough.
My name is Jesse Charger and I’ve taught men pickup since 2002 and done pickup myself since 2000 (that’s 10 years of experience now). I’ve done everything from write books about the subject to teach live bootcamps and workshops and have been featured on radio shows and in magazines.
And now I’m laying out the new Avatar Method of mastering pickup and transformation.
Principle #1: Immersion is Everything
The way to truly MASTER pickup is through total immersion, like having 1-on-1 personal coaching and guidance for at least a YEAR.
Yes, that’s coaching each and every day, of each and every month, for a year. Not 3 days, not 3 months, but a year of total immersion.
To accomplish this for you, I began a 365 day, total immersion pickup master coaching canmp where you’ll meet 20 to 60 new women every month for 12 months.
We’ll build a relationship and talk one-on-one together to dismantle your roadblocks and strategize a steady progression of pickup success.
And just to be clear, it doesn’t matter where in the world you live, we can still work together by phone each day.
I’ll save you from many of the common pitfalls of learning. Most guys end up moving backwards or giving up because they don’t have guidance and get discouraged, burn out, or stall.
And yes, it takes about 3 months to a year of total immersive training to get good. Fighting that will only slow you down. Just accept it.
Just think back on a pickup workshop or conference you took and all the amazing things you learned. Think back on the new bonds you formed with the other guys in the workshop and the coaches. That was what happened in a 2 or 3 days. Now multiply that by 365 days. That’s what I mean by immersive learning, Avatar style.
Just click here to learn more about the coaching program and to get yourself signed up…
Your friend,
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That is a GOOD point, Jesse…become fully immersed. Book learning has it’s merits. Experience is the next step.