Watch the video above…
You’re not trying to get the girl to like you. You’re not trying to impress her. By being unreactive and doing as you please, girls will naturally be attracted.
Like the video says, “To get what you want done – Get some balls.”
No really, having confidence and “testicles of titanium” really comes down to having TRUST.
TRUSTING that what you say is worthwhile no matter how silly or “stupid”.
TRUSTING in your own actions of grabbing a girl, pulling her in, and pushing her away without second guessing yourself or waiting to see how she’ll react.
TRUSTING that you’re attractive as a man for who you are and not instantly ejecting the first moment a girl shows a little resistance.
TRUSTING that you’re a person of value and assuming attraction when you go up to a girl.
A man who TRUSTS in everything he does and wants to do doesn’t over think and over analyze everything. He just ACTS.
To observers watching, they call that “confidence” and “having BALLS”.
But a man who holds back to “plays it safe” doesn’t trust himself or his value. A man thinking of all his routines and tactics doesn’t trust that whatever he says inherently has value. A man thinking about which set to open doesn’t trust the moment.
George Bush had total trust in whatever he did was right, and therefore the balls to do whatever he damned please. Of course, that can be a total disaster while leading a country.
But in a club, unquestioning trust in your actions and your words is the best “tactic” you can possibly have.
Your friend,
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That’s a pretty good post. Also, the video is hilarious LOL You’re absolutely right, every time there’s the slightest hint of doubt in what we do, we screw up. It’s only natural. Awesome post, man!
Guys don’t believe in themselves, that they are already ENOUGH, so they don’t act. It’s not their flaws that screw them up, but that they think that they have flaws that places them into inaction – and therefore passivity and unnatractiveness