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This guide will answer your two burning questions,
a) How hot are Colombian women, *really*? And…
b) How good is Colombia for getting laid with hot girls?
Since I’ve lived between the cities of Medellin and Cartagena for half a year, and also visited Cali, Bogota, Pereira, and Baranquilla, I can give you a pretty accurate psychological profile of Colombian women and the prospects of meeting pretty girls and getting laid there.
First, let’s take a look at the quality of the women.
So Jesse, How Beautiful Are the Women Really?
What the more attractive young women in Cartagena generally look like.
Most men who visit Colombia hype up the beauty of the Colombian women to no end.
But it’s simply NOT true that all Colombian women are head-turners. In fact, the vast majority of the women are quite “normal” looking.
However, because Colombian women don’t eat junk food and they walk everywhere, they DO tend to be lean and fit.
In addition, the population in Colombia is much younger than the U.S. or Europe. Just a generation back, couples would typically have 3 to 8 children. That birth rate has slowed down since to just 2 to 3 children, but the result is lots of 18 to 30 year old women running around today.
In addition, you’ve got a wide variety of ethnic types, depending on what city in Colombia you’re visiting. The North coast of Cartagena and Baranquilla has darker skinned women, while Medellin has lighter skinned women, and even a few blondes. Cities like Cali in the South have more cinnamon colored women. So you can city hop and find all types of women.
In addition, Colombian men are notorious cheaters. There are no laws protecting women, so women usually end up getting impregnated and then dumped by their Colombian boyfriend or husband. Because of the competition, there’s additional pressure on the women to maintain their physical appearance.
The video below shows what the idealized girl from Cali looks like – the “10s”. In Cali, that means a pretty face, cinnamon color skin, a plump ass, athletic body, and breast implants. Keep in mind these women are not representative of the general female population, most women are nowhere near as attractive or fit.
Medellin is similar, but more white skinned, thinner, and less butt. This video illustrates the best of Medellin women, the “10s”.
Colombian women are also known as being sexy for how they move and dance– that “Latin Fire” – which is a quality that goes beyond just looks and body.
The video below is of Colombian women showing off.
The photos I’ve posted here are the “crème of the crop” so to speak. 95% of the women however would fall into normal range of body and looks.
So overall, pretty girls but no more so than say, Miami or Los Angelos.
How the women get exaggerated
Girls from Cartagena, Colombia
Still, Colombia gets hyped up as having amazingly stunning and beautiful women.
The reason is that men with no game and who can’t get laid in their home country, especially aging men past their prime, come to Colombia and start getting IOIs (indicators of interest) for he first time in their lives from the women.
Typical scenario: A 50-year old guy with no game and a big belly (let’s call him “Smith”), who never gets eye contact from a girl back home in say, Georgia, suddenly touches ground in Medellin, Colombia and suddenly 30-year old women are making eye contact with him.
Add to that, Smith hasn’t traveled much before, and being in a new country feels exciting. He feels young again and his testosterone is pumping.
Smith has a date with a MILF that he set up on Amigos.com beforehand, bangs a few hookers, gets some eye contact from the local ladies, and then goes back home to Georgia telling everyone that Colombia has absolutely the hottest women on the planet, and that the U.S. only has ugly “fem-cunts” who won’t give him the time of day.
It’s not that your typical 20 year old girl in Colombia is any hotter than your typical 20 year old girl in Miami or Los Angeles. She isn’t.
But to the old guy Smith who hasn’t gotten laid in over ten years, he’s suddenly being validated with eye contact, he’s on a travel high, his ego shoots through the roof, and he thinks he’s in pussy and hot women paradise.
The truth is, his opinions are wrapped up in his own ego. He is in no way objective.
So take heed that you can meet just as beautiful women in the U.S. or Europe as long as your game is tight and you don’t shit on your body with fast food.
Okay, now onward…
Getting Laid in Colombia
Medellin hottie
The second question is, is it easier to get laid in Colombia than in the United States?
Well, yes… and no.
The answer is complex, because it depends on who you are and what your goals are.
The reality is, getting laid in Colombia can actually be surprisingly difficult.
Just as a Colombian may mistakenly believe that the streets of the U.S.A. are paved in gold and money, you would be mistaken to believe that the streets of Colombia paved in easy women.
Yes, Colombia has hookers. In fact, that’s why most gringos go. You’ll find fat, middle-aged Gringos with absolutely no game fulfilling their dreams of banging a young woman… by paying for it.
But this guide isn’t about shagging disease-ridden hookers. It’s about meeting regular, quality Colombian women.
Here’s what’s GREAT about Colombian women!
Cartagena girls
1. You are a Gringo, and therefore a desired commodity!
If your native language is English, you’re different, exotic, and assumed to be high status.
There aren’t too many gringos in Colombia, because most are either (a) falsely too scared to go (b) too broke (c) have no passport (d) or just don’t know about Colombia.
So you pretty much have the run of the place to yourself. For every one Gringo there, there’s about 20 girls who would love to date a cool Gringo. So you’ve got high status right off the bat. Expect women to give you indicators of interest, even if you’re not the best looking guy.
You’ll even be more in the money if you take 20 minutes to dye your hair blonde and get blue colored contacts!
More Cartagena babes
2. Age differences are not a big deal!
In Colombia, you’ll see 45 year old guys dating 20 year old women. I’ve even met an ugly 50 year old dude, who lived in Colombia, dating a woman in her mid-20s.
In Colombia, there’s far less social stigma about age differences. It’s okay for a woman to marry a much older gentlemen, as long as he can provide for her.
I’ve seen older gentlemen with young women in the U.S. too, but you need real game to pick up a younger woman, because there’s more social stigma against it. If you’ve got game and you hook up with that younger 18 year old, you’ll often meet push-back from her family and parents. Not so in Colombia!
3. Colombia is good for day game
The U.S. is a real car culture; we drive everywhere. And for that reason, many cities are lame for meeting women during the day. You’re pretty much restricted to your local mall or bookstore.
Colombia however relies far more on good ole’ fashioned walking, buses, trains, and public transit. Not only does it keep the women nominally fit, it also makes it easy to meet them.
You can go for a stroll in any neighborhood and have non-stop daytime sets for daytime game. Great!
And Here’s why Colombia Is Often HARD For Getting Laid
Party in Medellin
Colombia sounds like pussy paradise, right? Not so fast cowboy!
Colombia is actually a *difficult* place to lay a bunch of hot girls. And here’s why.
1. Gringos, while status symbols, also have a bad reputation.
Yes, it’s a paradox. As a gringo, you’re exotic and desired.
At the same time, gringos have a reputation for shamelessly chasing prostitutes. And that’s exactly what 90% of the gringos there do.
These gringos have zero game and have no interest in learning game. They just prefer to pay for cheap, easy sex.
Consequently, regular Colombian women will not sleep with you so easily. They’re suspicious that you’re in Colombia just there to hook up with prostitutes. And they feel if they sleep with you right away, you will just fuck them and dump them, like a prostitute.
Also, Colombian women who hook up with a gringo too fast may fear her reputation becomes tarnished. “She had sex with a gringo after the first date?… hmm, maybe he paid her!” goes the thinking there.
So it can look bad to be seen in public with a gringo too quickly, even though you’re simultaneously a status symbol. Fucked up, right?
That means the girls will throw you lots of IOIs – eye contact for instance. But it’s quite difficult to actually get their pants off.
Compare that to the United States. Yes, it’s more difficult to get IOIs from the girls in the U.S. But once you’re “in” with a girl, she’s much more liberal about jumping into bed with you.
2. Colombian women are sexually mistrustful of men in general.
More Medellin women
Colombian men have a notorious reputation for being massive cheaters.
First, there are very few laws for protecting women. A Colombian man can bang a girl, get her pregnant, and move on to another girl with little consequence. He need not fear paying child support.
Thus, you’ll find an enormous number of abandoned single mothers in Colombia… and deadbeat Dads. And as a result, women are mistrustful of men in general – and extremely jealous if they’ve got a man.
This kind of culture is NOT conducive for breeding sexually liberated, promiscuous women. Instead, a Colombian woman is inclined to date you without putting out for a long period of time to gauge your “faithfulness level” first. Once you demonstrate that you’ll be faithful and you’re trustworthy, only then will she sleep with you.
It’s not true across the board, but Colombian women are generally quite cautious about men.
3. The Catholic Church.
Old-school religion still touches Colombia deeply. While the Church’s grip on sexual morality is continually loosening, there’s still much guilt surrounding sex.
Colombia is NOT like Sweden where casual sex is accepted. In an agnostic country like Sweden, a young women will meet you in the club, take you home that night, introduce you to her parents, and walk you right into her bedroom and fuck you with her parents able to listen in. Not so in Colombia… noooooooooo way!
Women are deeply concerned about their reputation and the Catholic Church is a powerful moralizing and guilt-creating factor.
4. Nightlife is very social circle oriented.
Partying in Cartagena
In a U.S. or European bar or club, it’s a mingling culture.
Yes, in the U.S. girls go out with their friends and in groups. But it’s perfectly acceptable to forcefully interject yourself into the group and mingle. Most guys have too much approach anxiety to do it, but the fact is that the logistics are on your side. Women stand in small groups and are open to mingle. As long as you’ve got some balls, it’s easy to meet women.
That’s not so much the case in Colombia. Women go out in large groups of friends with other guys, and they tend to sit and socialize in their group.
The women are out with other guys because (a) Colombian culture dictates women need to be protected and chaperoned at all times by male friends and (b) women go with men because guys are expected to pay.
In the U.S. or Europe, you can walk around and mingle. But in Colombia the logistics in many night spots are far less favorable for you.
5. Most young women still live with their conservative and watchul parents and family.
Cartagena women
Colombia is a poor country. A young woman can expect to earn $300 to $500 USD per month. Consequently, a young woman will continue living in her parents home until she gets married.
As a result, most young Colombian women are not independent. Her parents can watch her every move, and they know who she’s going out with and where she’s going at all times.
In addition, typically her grandparents are also living in the house. And her unemployed brother. And her uncle lives next door.
Yes… she’s got a lot of family pressure on her, and her reputation is at stake!
If you call her to schedule a date, her parents will know. So before agreeing to meet you, or even take your call, she has to deal with her family – and family comes first in Colombia.
Will her parents judge her reputation? Will they judge negatively that she’s meeting a gringo? Is this gringo out for just sex, and what will my parents think?
There’s enormous pressure on her then to NOT sex you up even if she does agree to meet with you.
6. The older women tend to be single mothers… and busy.
Medellin MILFs
Most available, single women over age 26 will already have children – and be a single mother. Not only is she broke on a meager Colombian income, but she needs to work long hours and she’s got kids to take care of.
She’ll be eager to date you because she’ll see you as her and her children’s ticket out of poverty. That doesn’t mean she isn’t genuinely attracted. She is genuinely attracted. But her circumstances dictate that she won’t sleep with you that easily.
She’s looking for a financially steady and responsible man who will support her emotionally and financially and accept her children – a provider. So she’s going to want to date you, size you up, and see if you’re real marriage material.
Again, not conducive for easy hook ups.
What this all means
Your typical Colombian female has enormous family pressure. There’s religious guilt. She’s not independent. And she’s afraid that you, as a gringo, are just after hookers and quick sex.
If she puts out fast with a gringo, she’ll get a reputation as a prostitute. So your typical girl, no matter how much she’s attracted to you, will string you along for weeks, if not months. And the more she likes you, the more she’ll want to string you along to see if you’re serious about making her your exclusive girlfriend or wife.
To Get Colombian Girls, Here’s What You Need!
Have I scared you yet? Do you still want to play the game? Okay, here’s 3 essentials you’ll need under your belt before going if you want any kind of success at all.
#1. You need enough balls to cold approach
Can’t do a cold approach in your home country? Then you’ll find yourself no more confident in Colombia either. And you’ll meet exactly ZERO girls.
Women will give you lots of IOIs perhaps, looking your way. But they will NOT approach you… EVER.
My forceful recommendation is to approach at least 3 women a day in your home country for 30 days straight. Once you can do that, you’re ready to go to Colombia.
And if you can’t meet 6s and 7s in your home country, you won’t be able to meet girls in Colombia either.
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#2. You need time.
You’re going to be in Colombia a just a week you say? That’s not enough time to hook up with a girl, even if your game skills are mad tight.
Colombia is more a place you need to go to actually *live* there for *months* to really hook up with hot women.
Medellin women
#3. You need Spanish.
If you can’t speak a word of Spanish, you won’t even be able to make a basic connection with a girl.
Most Colombians don’t speak any English. And if you can’t speak a word of Spanish, the girl will assume you’re just there looking for easy hook-ups with prostitutes.
So it’s key to do the 90 lessons of Pimsleur for Spanish before you go, which will be enough Spanish to see you through your trip. Don’t go though before you’ve done all 90 lessons!
Who Colombia is good for… and who should skip it
The “Way Beyond AFC”
The AFC has never approached a girl before. He has massive approach anxiety. He “knows” game in theory, but has never put it into practice.
He thinks going to Colombia will be a quick fix to hooking up.
My recommendation: If you can’t at least approach a girl in your home country, you’ll have just as much trouble meeting women in Colombia.
Work on your game and confidence first. Again, I highly recommend my 15 CD Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control program. The one program is all you need to hit the ground running.
The “Monger”
This guy has $500 to blow on a debauched sex-filled marathon of hookers. He doesn’t care about meeting regular women, he just wants to pay for quick and easy pu-tang.
My recommendation: Most gringos go to Colombia for exactly that. And the sexually conservative Catholic culture, coupled with economic poverty and legal prostitution, has created a high demand for girls willing to spread their legs on command. If you just want hookers, Colombia will work for you.
The “Fast-Strike PUA”
This guy has decent game. He can meet girls back home, but he’s only got a week or two to vacation in Colombia.
My recommendation: You’ll get IOIs and phone numbers, but you’ll be unlikely to hook up with a quality girl. You’re better off going to Europe or to Brazil where girls also like Americans, but they’re far more likely to partake in quick sex.
The “Passive Incomer”
You’ve got passive income of $1,000 monthly or more (4 hour workweek style), and you want to hang out in Colombia for months, if not years. You’ve got the time to learn Spanish and practice game on the local women.
My recommendation: Colombia can be a great option. It’s cheap, and you’ll have time to meet a beautiful girl and get her into bed. Still, Colombia is far better for the guy looking for one, quality woman than it is for lots of one-night stands.
The “Cradle Robber”
This guy is older and looking to hook up with a far younger woman as his girlfriend. He has lots of time to spend finding her and courting her.
My recommendation: If you’ve got months to work the scene, Colombia can be a great option for you. The women are pretty, and larger age differences are socially accepted. Some of the old farts who retired and are living there have girlfriends 20 and 30 years younger than themselves.
The “Night Life Partier”
You’ve got good game and you want to tongue down girls in night clubs and bars and go wild. You’re looking to pull girls home for one night stands.
My recommendation: Skip Colombia. You’re far better off in slutty, college party culture like Cancun during Spring Break, or just back in the good old U.S.A.
The “Hot Girlfriend Seeker”
You just want to meet a hot chick for an exclusive, long-term relationship. You speak Spanish, you’ve got decent game, and you’ve got time to be down there.
My recommendation: The same facts that make Colombian women are hard to bed also makes them extremely loyal – and almost scarily possessive – girlfriends. If you think you can maintain sexual faithfulness in return, and you’ve got some months to meet and court a hot girl down there, Colombia can be a good option to find a hot girlfriend and eventual potential wife to settle down and have children with.
Don’t let her catch you in the arms of another woman though – she’ll cut your balls off!
Let’s Wrap This Up…
Still want to meet Colombian babes in their native homeland? There ARE some real hotties down there.
But it completely depends on your goals with women… and your lifestyle circumstances. Hopefully this guide has helped to clarify your options and shed light into the wonderfully complex psychology of Colombian women.
~ Jesse
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Wow, awesome article Jesse – from start to finish.
I’ve been living in Uberlandia, Brazil the last 4 months and been with my Brazilian girlfriend for over a year and I have to say there are MANY similarities between the Brazilian and Colombian culture in terms of game.
- Positives:
1. Being a gringo definitely helps. Traveling outside of Rio or Sao Paulo makes this even 10x more true where hardly an gringos reside.
2. Age difference is also not as big of a social stigma like America/Europe. Great for all you older guys out there.
3. Gringos status symbol of sleeping with lots of women doesn’t play as big of a role here than it seems in Colombia. If you’re regularly getting laid in your home country, it’s going to happen in Brazil.
4. Hottest women in South America IMHO, especially in certain areas of Southern Brazil where it’s like a plethora of models.
- Negatives:
1. Brazilian women also live with their parents, but the Catholic doesn’t have a grip on the country like Colombia, so everyone is MUCH more relaxed.
2. Nightlife is also very social circle oriented. In fact, most bars are basically sit down restaurants making it difficult to do any cold approaches.
3. Brazilian men are also notorious cheaters, making Brazilian women very mistrustful and possessive as well.
About 1st negative point, I know in the state of Goiás they are quite religious, though not generally Catholic I believe. I know several of them are Baptist. Had a bit of an issue with that once, he he.
Awesome post Derek. My question to you though: were you able to bang any girls in these trips to South America and Europe?
I am living in Medellin right now and your analysis is spot on. It’s not so often that people give honest advice about Colombia but this is really amazing content. Well done.
thanks
Jesse, nice guide. What do you think if a colombian girl went abroad… to study or to work (not the night club job, but the real one).
Can you do the Venezuela, too?!
Nos vemos, viejo!
Dennis.
I’ve visited Venezuela, but wasn’t there long enough to do an in-depth analysis. But it’s similar to Colombia, I imagine.
Nah, it’s not worth it to go there, too dangerous, gotta think about FARC! I would recommend Bolivia instead.
FARC is actually not an issue in the big cities. They stay in the jungles, hundreds of miles away.
You’re no more in danger of FARC in Medellin than you’re in danger of L.A. gangs in Las Vegas.
Ive spent significant time in both…I think Bolivia is actually more dangerous now than colombia. And Venezuela is ten times more dangerous than either..but no one talks about that.
I am laughing my ass-off, Jesse! You were describing, ME!!
The “Cradle Robber”
Some of the old farts who retired and are living there have girlfriends 20 and 30 years younger than themselves.
I truly like your write-ups about different countries. You could arrange tours on foreign countries for us guys!..I would go!
thanks Roberto…
I think much better off here in Philippines. Lived Thailand an Philippines the last 9 yrs wonderful place an women an not much hassle at all. Philippines now 7 yrs an just love Asian women an here is a little better than Thailand but still go back visit Thai few weeks a yr.Thanks for you view on Columbia though.
do not bring no more colombian ladies to this country!!!
we got to many bads ones already!!!
Colombian women here in the US have become too Americanized! Keep them there!!!
Hello I don’t know how you got my email adddress
Any way I was looking through LatainAmerican Cupid
Yes the Hottest looking women are from Colombia
I want to go Cycling in Argentina – I have heard they are quite stuck up and Would be hard to have a relationship withthan Colombian girls.
But Coming in to South Colombia from Bolivia is too dangerous SO it says On Wikepedia
So Any Suggenstions for Argentina Was thinking of Buenos Aries they travelling throug patagonia
Me AGE 53 and Yes Chubby But Do have all my own Blonde hair
Wait for your reply
Actually I am now 54 Birthday Yesterday
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But Better than Aveage looks I think
colombia by far has more bangers than the us you probably have you own sterotypical idea of what beauty is but just about everyone agrees about colombia not just guys with no game.
“It’s not that your typical 20 year old girl in Colombia is any hotter than your typical 20 year old girl in Miami or Los Angeles. She isn’t.
But to the old guy Smith who hasn’t gotten laid in over ten years, he’s suddenly being validated with eye contact, he’s on a travel high, his ego shoots through the roof, and he thinks he’s in pussy and hot women paradise.
The truth is, his opinions are wrapped up in his own ego. He is in no way objective.”
But if the women look after their figures more than American women–which they do–certainly that makes them seem more appealing on a per capita basis? Unless you dig fat chicks. Plus they are nicer too, and more courteous, and that is a huge plus.
Overall, i think if you want hot women in Columbia, you have to be presentable in appearance. This doesn’t mean ‘good looking’ exactly, but you need to dress reasonably well otherwise you won’t get hotties. Money will only get you so far. You need to make an effort in other areas too.
if you run out of money kiss your colombia wife good bye!!!!!!!!
Hey queer
I am one of those older guys (56) who goes down to Colombia for sex. I am a monger. Your descriptions are pretty accurate. However, us older guys have a different mindset about women. Most of us are not looking for wives, we just want to bang young hot latinas. No matter how old guys get, we all always want young and hot. You younger guys will experience this some day. 30 year olds and older and just not enough to get excited about. Also, the putas that we go out with in Colombia are super fun and its very easy to party with. No gaming or games at all, just super fun. They do exactly what you say and are always ready to party because that is how they make their money. I actually love the whores and the whole atmosphere. Its a blast. Plus, when its all over they go home and you get a new one (s), the next day. And, its cheap!
I know all of this is not appealing to younger guys and it shouldn’t be. Younger guys should be out hunting for girls because its what they are designed to do. Us older guys have been there, done that and now its just easy fun time.
I agree @ 48 years old. But it’s always fun to hunt that young, pretty native! It’s a challenge! Having the best of both worlds is a beautiful thing.
Good general info on colombia however there is a great deal of difference between various parts of colombia. In Cartagena, Bucaramanga and Bogota, the women are kind of stand-offish. In Medellin has pretty and friendly women, cali has some amazing super forward women (but go to the cities nearby not Cali itself), Neiva is great, Manizales very friendly. The women from Barranquilla are very openminded and fun–which is surprising because its right next to Cartagena where the women tend to be very boring and gold digging. I have to say you are off about not being able to sleep with women quickly, colombian women are very impulsive and if you can get her excited she will do anything anywhere. I remember this one Argentine guy who was normal looking, but he would sleep with some of the most amazing girls in the bathroom of the hostal…he had his game down!
You can get any woman to do nything for you anywhere, by getting them excited. This does not apply tto Colombian women only, but to most, if not all, women. The ones in exception list have got some personality disorder and should be avoided at all cost
Im Colombian, and looking at your pictures you probably went to the wrong places… I live in Bogotá, and most of the places I see gringos partying are high class (expensive for us, not for gringos) and you can meet a lot of colombian celebrities and also young hot college girls, but yes, most high class girls usually are not so impress for gringos (they have travel…) and probably their boyfriend its around, but they are, indeed way better looking than most girls in a USA night club. I know that because I lived in the USA for 2 years, I study in the best college in Colombia, and Im also a escort so I meet a bunch of gringos dropping jaws in my city (and yes, Im also a hot colombian).
The girls on your pics, even the ones you see as “hotties” or “babes” look middle/low class, probably more interested in gringos, but also not so pretty, but probably a better sex than the cold upper class.
He babe, tnx for the normal reaction. But i need to ask you. I’m coming to Colombia for 2 months to decide where to live but i come there for the culture, the food, the way of life and off course the beautifull woman.
Im 24, good looking, have good money backing me up! Where should I go to meet the best woman for me! I like petite girls with dark hair and light/caramel skin who are cute and sweet. Not the 5 o clock in the morning crazy vida loca girls haha
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I will be able to speak basic spanish when I arrive there and I want to travel around. Where should I go babe?
xx Alex and can i contact you?
Lucia.
will there be trouble if flirt with a girl and her boyfriend is around ?
I am Brian from Europe, 34. partly work in Mexico and Denmark. But go to Columbia for travel and for meet girl for love and marriage (hopefully)…. but need to know how dangerous it can be ? I am good looking.. blond and blue eyes… but also aware I need to be careful ??
Brian, the answer is YES. It only costs about $2,000 to have a hit man knock you off
Brian: You will probably get your teeth knocked off on the spot, especially if the guy has had a couple of drinks
Jesse Charger: really? wtf? 2000 dollars is a lot of money for such a trivial problem, the only time this could happen is if you mess with the wrong people (and if this does happen, it is more likely that the guy himself does it, hiring a hitman is kind of coward)
What the fuck is wrong with your brain? Are you blind? There are enough single women all around you, and you still prefer to flirt with someone else’s GF/Wife? If BF/husband knocks you down, you deserve it. You are kind of person who always thinks “the grass on my neighbour’s garden is greener). Be decent, and respect others’ privacy and they would respect yours.
Okay so ur an escort, educated and hot. Mami que tengo que hacer para conocer te y poner una sonrisa en tu carita.
Great info,I’ve been living in Cartagena for 4months,I have duel citizenship, My father is Columbia and my mother french American I am28yrs old extremely confident,good looking 6ft. Gringo who speaks little Spanish great French and English with collage degree in chemical engineer from the university Texas.I had a steady relationship in America but American women are just the same as Columbia women in the sense of the good quality ones are looking for men with money,stability etc..but,they both have bad quality so bottom line is any girl you meet will not love you for you, there for I’ve been meeting and paying money for sex with girls here and abroad so I have thought about becoming a male gigolo to women who are willing to pay me something for time spent w/ them there are plenty of tourist who visits Cartegena daily don’t need the money but want to experience what it feels like to being pampered or giving pleasure to women for money.please reply your info or knowledge on that.
Don’t flatter yourself.Just pay up like everybody else.
The female/male relation is like a business contract. If you get married, you would sign under a long term contract and if you pay for sex, you would be agreeing on a short term contract. This is a business. Women need the money, and you need sex. So simple it is. Those who sign under longer term contract, would probably end up paying more in total and having less variety, and less risk of getting SD. And the game is a kind of cheating in the business. Now, whoever assuming he is getting laid because he was handsome is totally wrong! It might happen at teenage ages where the girl has not discovered the value of her sexual resources. However, when she starts thinking about securing her future as a weaker sex, she gets into business and forgets all about physical attraction. And this is why those with more money can have more sex with the hottest women.
Now, think for a moment. These women are not necessarily hotter than many other undiscovered women in the poor societies. Get to some remote villages, find a dirty and poor looking girl, wash her clean, buy her nice clothes, take her to a beauty shop, and bingo! you have one of the hottest babes on the planet that no one knew about
She just couldn’t shoow off because she could not. She is not arrogant and selfish, she is beautiful, she is hot (cause she hasn’t got a man for long time), and she does whatever you want. Example: small villages in Afganistan 
Very Good advice except I would add Colombian women are very passionate about love, marriage and security. If that is what you have in mind and if you spend the time to gain their trust you can have the most beautiful woman in the world, inside and out. Marriage or fiance VISA’s to the United States are almost gauranteed and are pretty short term (less than one year). One caution! They will expect you to send money to support the family they left in Colombia. They will not tell you this until you are hooked. They are passionate lovers in bed. They like to kiss until they suck your lips off. I know this because I married a woman in Santa Marta. I spent 5 weeks in Santa Marta. I had to divorce her because she would not immigrate. She secretly wanted me to move there to take care of her aging parents and epileptic child. One last piece of advise. Wear blinders when you are in Colombia. The women are insanely jealous. Another word of caution, never use the word bitch (Perra). That will end your relationship fast.
Thanks for the tips
I have been traveling to Bogota since 1986. I’m 59,considered very handsome, no beer gut. Here is the truth, as I have learned. Every country, I have visited 29, has it’s bad seeds male and female. In August I will marry a very beautiful 34 yo Colombian Lady that I have been with for a year. I love the cold nights in Bogota, so does she! Does money count? Heck yes, to any woman if you want to marry her. If you cannot provide for a woman in your life don’t look for one. Educated Colombian women are not difficult to find, but not easily available, especially to Colombian men. True, Colombian men run when they get a woman pregnant, they are notorious for being Male sluts. Do Colombian women respect American Gringos? Yes, if you respect them and be a gentleman. Colombian women like to be and feel protected, not abused. They abhor profanity, so no dirty talk guys, unless you want a prostitute. Can they cook? It’s a family tradition for them to know how to cook. Will they take care you? Treat her like a lady, she will treat you like a man, sensually passionate. If she tells you she is separated, RUN FROM HER!!!!!!! If she wants you to meet her parents don’t be shy! Family is very important to her, it’s her way of life. It took me months to be intimate will my fiancee, I had no problem with that. It’s respect for each other. I found out that I am a poor candidate for Viagra, I am constantly excited around her, 24/7. It’s her personality and attitude that keeps me excited! If you decide to marry a Colombian lady, mark my words, don’t make her jealous!! I learned that 10 years ago. Most Colombian women want security not only monetarily, but marital as well. Every night with my fiancee is like the first night, no routine! Good luck! BTW, I feel safer in Bogota than I do in my hometown in Texas!
Hello KD Barr, can you further explain the line saying: If she tells you she is separated, run….
Sweet KD… you are actually living IN colombia with your girl. That’s how I would recommend it to anyone who can do it… to actually stay in the country with the girl if possible
Hey KD or Jesse, I am thinking about taking a ESL job in Bogota or in Barranquilla. If I take the Bogota job I would fairly close to a lady friend I have gotten to know from an online dating site through daily video skyping and e-mails. She wants me there to be with her and she is in Villavicencio. Can you guys tell me what the women of Meta region are like or Villavicencio?
I have an odd like, I love preggie girls and ive noticed a LOT of columbian preggos on webcam sites as of late. Some seem super sweet even for a cam girl and some are obvious golddiggers.
Is there something in the water there because it seems to be more than just a coincedence there are so many.
Because it’s custom there to get knocked up young
Yo soy de Colombia y no echo un polvo akjajajajaj pero bueno aun así bien por ti.
You porbably need to learn Spanish, or look for a Colombiana that speaks English if long term is your goal. If you think about sex, well that is a different approach entirely. Me, in all of my time overseas in the military, I would never pay for sex, never have, never will. I think you analysis is spot on when it comes to older guys. It does paint a stereotype. I am happily married to a Costeña from Barranquilla who is 13 years my junior, and is amazing. I don’t speak Spanish, so I was looking for someone that spoke English when I met my wife. I didn’t go on any of those “meet hot women in Colombia” trips that you see either, they seem so contrived, and most of the women, are most probably looking for a way out. I do notice that when I go back to Colombia when I am shopping with the wife, they tend to charge more if I am with her. Colombianas do make better wives then U.S. women IF you find the right one, and they tend to retain their shape even after kids.
thanks for the comments Hames
Some of you people who currently live there or have visited in the past, even one of you who has dual citizenship can’t even spell the name of the country correctly. It’s spelt COLOMBIA
i noticed that too. mr texas chenical engineer cant even spell COLOMBIA
and i guess i cant spell chemical.
My girl is Santanderiana. The saying goes ” if she has money she will kill you with a gun, if she is broke she will use a knife” BUT ONLY IF YOU
F… UP.
Hello
Im a colombian man and have never been in other countries.
I have lived in many cities in Colombia though, and I can say that Jesse´s point of view about colombian culture is not only very accurate but its an intelligent man´s point of view as well.
I say it because I read some comments from other people, even a colombian girl, trying to say he was wrong, well He is not, I think, and of course u can get to sleep with a lot of colombian women fast, but for sure they are not good quality women, and they are USUALLY (not always, of course) as whores or even more than the ones who charge you.
Im 33 now and am not the typical colombian man, meaning my thinking, goals, objectives…but I certanly dated and slept with a number of colombian women when I was younger but got sick of it cause I didn have anything to talk about to them once I had come, or when the hangover was gone.. because they didnt have much more to offer but sex.
Im not like that anymore, but with the experience I had I can say I agree with Jesse about the positive and negative things he mentioned about us as a culture.
Its amazing the he reached to this conclusions in the short time here.
So, I just wanted to let american men or not colombian men in general who wanna come here seeking for girls (sex, friends or marriage) that this guy´s point of view it is right from my own point of view ( a colombian man)
Feel free to mgs me for more info if u feel like it, or just to chat about cultures, my e mail account is orticao@hotmail.com.
One last thing: many of the common (and silly) mistakes american men make here when trying to hit on a girl, this man spoke about are true. I know it `cause I do have permanent contact with people from other countries who live or at least visit the country, because of my job here and I think u shouldnt ignore this info.
I currently live in a small town near Cali (Valle del Cauca department).
Thanks a lot for reading this.
great comment Daniel, thanks for sharing
Your write ups is very informative & cognitive; 100% on point. though i’v never been to colombia or anyother country for that matter; however, i have a colombian girlfriend, Met her via twitter….she’s lives in the US while i live in Africa(an african) she’s so amazingly wonderful, intelligent & sexily beautiful… The mere thought of her excite me like wine. She loves me like crazy, & i love her like insane…planning to get married to her & raise a family soonest. Never met her in person though, but we’v made arrangements on meeting. What is your advise?…can’t bear the thought of losing her.
what? U havent met her REAL yet already want to marry her..??
You sound naive, as you want to marry someone without having met her in real life yet !
And as per definition, a girlfriend is a woman with whom you have had sex for at least once. I would assume you have had a virtual sex with her (cybersex), right?
Great info Jesse, I guess if you were to categorize me I would fit into The “Fast-Strike PUA”, and The “Monger”. I’m planning a 3 week trip to Catagena, Bogota, and Medellin in January 2013 so about a week each city. I speak fluent Spanish, dance Salsa, and I’m Catholic.
To be honest I will be travelling for some cheap sex, yet I also want to find a beautiful woman (ages18-30) for a more serious relationship. I’m 25 live in Miami,FL and have had Cuban, Puerto Rican, South American, and just 2 white girlfriends. Colombia interests me as far as price, clubs, culture, and stories regarding the women told from my Colombian friends
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I’m not a gringo, my mother is Peruvian and my father is Honduran, so my skin is a very light tan color kinda like “The Rock” from WWE. Do you think 3 weeks in Colombia is the right decision for me? or should I just go to Rio de Janiero/Sao Paulo Brazil for 3 weeks of fun?
I’m willing to spend $2,000 USD anywhere.
Thank you in advance
Frank, you may want to go with Colombia if you’re on a limited budget because it’s MUCH CHEAPER right now than Brazil. Look at the prices carefully before making your decision.
You want it cheap, get laid in your hometown! Spending that sort of money in your hometown, you would probabely get the best value for money, as you can spend the flight, hote, restaurant, etc money for getting laid
It is just a simple mathematic!
I have been to Brazil and Colombia. You would enjoy more in Brazil, specially Rio.
If u want to get a girl in Brazil. Just pack your things and go to Colombia. LOL
It’s difficult to latin guys to get something there. I live in Brazil and I have lots of friends that tried that and came back disappointed.
The girls are much more to be attracted by American/European look like guys.
You will have fun at Bogota and Medellin. 100% Guaranteed.
Your city in Texas is more dangerous than bogota? I find that very very hard to believe. Leave cundimarca sometime. Bogota has more murders per night than LA and Chicago combined in one month… I wish i was smoking the same thing you were when i lived in bogota.
What are YOU smoking buddy? Bogota had the same murder rate in 2011 as Philadelphia did at 20 per 100,000; Chicago’s murder rate per capita in 2012 was near 19 per 100,000!!! In view of these numbers I’d say that Bogota is no more dangerous than Chicago!!! And as for L.A., I live in Long Beach and can assure you that when you leave the nice neighborhoods of Northern L.A. and the coast the murder rate increases dramatically (around 7.5 per 100k citywide in 2011). Not many cities in the world can rival the most dangerous US cities when it comes to personal safety; obviously Caracas, San Salvador, Medellin in the late 80s and 90s, etc. can but most developing countries’ major cities are just fine if you’re not an idiot.
Scratch that, as of August 2012 Bogota had a murder rate of 16 per 100k while Chicago was at 19 per 100k. Point proven, Chicago is more dangerous than Bogota!
Ok, first of, I’m a 21-year-old Colombian girl from Bogota.. don’t ask me how I got to this article, but I had to smile and even laughed while reading it!!! … you actually analyzed Colombian girls quite well, and pointed some true facts about us… you’re right when you mention that it totally depends on “the person’s goals” when trying to get a Colombian… and you’re also right when you mention we’re not -all- easy women, and the family pressure and reputation etc, etc…
even though I found this article a bit funny I enjoyed reading it and knowing your thoughts (as a foreigner) about this topic.
You are right on target… but maybe the batting averages you claim are a little lower than they could be. I have business that has taken me to S. American (Colombia) often… 6x per year for over 20 years. Those trips usually last more than 3 weeks. I’m no Brad Pitt…but I tend to get laid often and am confident and take care of my body. I think having lots of sex causes a man to have the “scent of a woman” about him…and is a huge aphrodisiac that women seem to sense. Whatever the reason, I just get laid every time in Colombia, Peru, Panama, Brazil, Argentina and Chile. The best place to ‘pick up’ is out in public…shopping is the best place. I often just ask an attractive woman, “Excuse me. Can you help me, please?” And then I ask her a question about directions or how to call something in Spanish or Portuguese. Then I start to compliment them… usually focusing on one of their physical features that is outstanding… like their complexion, hair, body…. It usually gets pretty hot immediately. 3 of 10 times I’m in bed with them that same night. Hot, torrid sex… and unlike the sicko American girls with all their hang ups… each Latina is a veritable orgasm machine. I say to any young man who likes latina women and different colors of skin — get thyself to S. America ! You won’t regret it… game or no game. Just start off by smiling and saying, “Hola! Perdon a mi.”
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These comments were cute.
This coming from a Colombian girl, Colombia is not as a Catholic as MExico per say, so we are less tied by religious efforts. In fact, most girls on her 20s do not go to church. We do however hold deep respect for our parents, and they mostly know of our activities.
We are not American girls, that can yell at their parents and get away with it, but we are not Mexican nuns either. Make sure to know and respect your girl’s limitations: No staying out too late because she lives far…things of the sort.
Also, NEVER be clingy. We have a word for this : INTENSO (intense). You will just come off as another needy gringo that comes to Bogota for girls because he is inadequate enough on his own country. So, don’t be clingy. Colombian girls are not all drop dead gorgeous, but they all have more than one guy behind their tail at any given time. If you get TOO CLINGY you will drive her away. Desperate gringos are the norm.
English: Go to Bogota, or Medellin or Cartagena. You can find an English speaking girl much more easier there.
If you plan to marry her, keep in mind that most young Colombians are not what they used to be. We will use you for fun or for commitment. We Colombians do not “Date” as Americans do.
You are either gf/bf seriously or you are “FWBs” and this will be arranged from the start, there is no “guessing game” about exclusivity.
A nice refreshing quality is that if you are FWB Colombian girls are much more affectionate, and you wont have her badger you to say “i love you” like American girls do.
Sundance Kid has some good advice as well, be casual , funny and charming. Do not treat her as a prostitute unless she is one. Do not expect a high class girl to give it up on the first date. If she does this can tell you a lot about her social class and upbringing. Also, notice the way she talks and gestures. High class girls are usually more reserved and respectful at first.
Try to aim for polished college girls, even for a fuck because low class girls that cozy up to you too fast are suspicious, and may be after your wallet and stripping you of any money you have with you.
Also, remember Colombia is a country were girls are seen as delicate creatures: A lot of guys miss these cues : Hold doors open for her, carry a heavy bag, offer her your coat if it rains/its cold, give her a rose if you go out… chivalry is not dead on Colombia. This will make her feel safe and protected by a man…and she will trust you more
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- A Colombian girl that lived on US and EU and eventually married a gringo.
Colombian Girl, Thanks for the tips
Colombians look like Asians..in my country Malaysia also look like them..some look like Malay, Chinese..mixed…:)
I hear all kinds of different things about safety in Columbia. Can someone tell me if its relatively safe? More specifically Medellin and Cali.
It’s safe, just stay in the nicer neighborhoods
Real safe in Cali. In January 2013 there were 170 murders in the city. 60 women were murdered. At this pace there will be over 2000 in 2013.
I have just come back from Cali. Though people in Cali are very nice and friendly, there are dangerous areas in the city that you have to avoid at all costs. Cali is currently considered as one of the most dangerous cities in Colombia. I followed the advice of the locals during my 10 days stay in there, and nothing happened to me. So, I would advice you to follow locals’ advice while there, and you should be safe.
Wow great article informative and interesting.
So i had visted a x rated cam site and noticed alot of hot colombian women. Most young milfs, or young hotties. That i was interested in colombian woman.
Ive met one girl 20 years old, we been talking and im considering flying there to date. We skype and email, call, but my fear is, if im being scammed and not realizing??Shes never asked me for money, ive never given her money, is there anything she might want from me if its not money?? >Like any scams you may know of
She has only has sex with 1 guy, at age 20. Which is good, cause most girls i meet in US have already been manhandled and had sex with more then 15 guys by that age. Point is, if im looking at Colombian women, you think i can just find a virigin around that age??
Thinking if im considering getting a colombian girl, think its hard to find a virgin?
No, almost none of them will be virgins by age 20
American girl and only 15 guys by age of 20?! Are you kkidding? Or are you refering to a local 20 years old noun? An American girl of age 20 has most likely been with 150-1500 guys by age of 20!
And never trust a woman claiming to have been with only one guy until age of 20, unless she can prove it. They know what a man likes to hear, and they use it to attract him more
I live in Saint Barth, Caribbean and i once f*cked a french 18 year old hottie on seasonal work that told me i was the forth that night at that beach club. i’m 33.
Can you imagine that rate till 20?
Any woman out of their home town does approximatly the same, either french or american.
What is a good website to meet colombianas? I’m going there for my next vacation and I was thinking to make a friend or two before I go.
Some pretty accurate things in here but I do have to say, maybe you just haven’t gone to the right places in Medellin? Most women there are pretty hot,I’d say the hottest in colombia..although like you said the hot ones aren’t the ones that are going to sleep with you right away but that doesnt take the hotness away
Thank you so much for your insight, Jesse. There’s a Colombian girl living in the same apartments as I in USA. Pretty sure she’s a college student. Anyway, the IOI’s you speak of, I totally understand now. Lol. I am a white boy,blonde hair, blue eyes. I have a full time job, my own apartment but not rich by no means and I don’t drive. What do you think my chances are with this girl? I’m just a little nervous because I’ve never dated a foreign girl and not sure what to expect.
A woman is a woman, there is no diference other than the language and cultural background. These have nothing to do with how they are attracted to a man. Get them excited and enjoy their company
Hi ,soon i will go to Colombia , but i dont now what city i can find the bigest ass girl . Do you now ?
Hmmm… for big butts, maybe Cali.
Haha, there come the Boo Lovers
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Suprisingly enough not only black guys come to COL for the curves
I guess you can get “Nalgas” in all parts of South America, less so in Argentina and more so in parts with more mixed Black Latin women, but there are those type of wonder women in all kind of zones so really hard to define which is the “Ass Wal-mart”. (although checking out supermarkets here and then isnt a bad idea haha)
And since BBW lover arent rly interested in those skinny upper-class hard to shag flitchy bitchy, we would find it probably easier to get laid with a MILF and little money in our pockets.
For this, you must go to Rio. You would be in a BA heaven
totally awesome insight by everyone and especially the colombian ladies who took part. Jesse thanks so much, I’m planning on going to Colombia soon and I’m thinking Bogota and Medellin…i have some ladies there I want to meet up with and this article along with everyone else’s thoughts gave me the ammo to make the trip more successful than it may have been otherwise!
I have dated women in both Mexico and Colombia. It is true there are less religious hang ups in Colombia. The key to meeting women is to understand and speak basic Spanish, they enjoy teaching you more as you socialize.
Especially in Colombia I have noticed that I was blessed with a magnet to meeting women. I have a very hairy chest that comes up to my neck. When I wear a button down shirt it is obvious with tufts poking over the top. When I go to a restaurant or shopping I make sure that two buttons are undone. This has resulted in more interest from women than any Spanish conversation I can fumble through. The stares I get make it easy to approach the women. Thank God for my Scottish descent.
The harry chest technique. That’s a new one
Hello I’ve just read the entire article. I live in Europe, Holland.
I know this article is about colombian girls but I’ve met a colombian boy last week. He has dark skin and dark eyes, I was hooked up the instant moment I saw him.
we made eye contact a few times but I didn’t exactly know how to approach him.
What are the rules for colombian men in approaching girls? what are columbian men like? Is there anything important I need to know about them in particular?
I’ve got very curious about the columbian culture in general, and I’d like to go on holiday to experience it myself.
Any advice would be VERY MUCH appreciated!
Hi Sandra, this would be a question for the forum
Hi, Sandra. I am from Colombia, it is nice to here a foreing woman say so many nice things about colombian men. For starters, most colombian men are afraid of talking to foreign girls, because the lack of knowledge about their language(only 0.5 percetange of the population here speak English) and their culture. An easy way of meeting colombian men would be to start by getting suscribe in a dating-web page, so by the time you get here you know a lot about the guy or guys you want to hook up with. Colombia is not a nightmare security wise as you here on the news, yet, you have to be wise nonetheless. Colombian men, love blondies, love music, partieing every weekend and having sex. If you have any question regarding the subject at hand, here is my contact information: Facebook: chechaus@hotmail.com Web page: cesaringles.com Mobile: 300 747 9916
Dear Jesse, I’m Cesar from Colombia. I can see that you know a lot about women down here, actually, I learned a few things about them thanks to you!! Eventhoug, I am colombian, I lived in the US for many years. When I first came here I hit the wall many times because I was so used to take gringas to bed in less than than two hours. I would just dress sexy for them, they came running to me. When I got here I tried to do the same, yet, girls rejected me right away because I used to be very straight forward ”Hey, Mami, let’s to my place” Now, I am more low key and I get much more pussy. Thanks dude!
Only lower/middle lower class colombian girls get impressed by gringos.
It depends on your style.
khaki shorts and a pair of stinky tennis socks while wearing a backpack wont get u nowhere.
However a white guy is more likely to be able to afford an expensive Louis Vutton Suit or a Mercedes, there are many more wealthy Caucasian men than Latinos.
all those models are readily available for money
some money maybe cant buy everything, but with a a shitload like one million you can buy everything there. you wanna try to deny it?
I laugh at you, Colombia isnt Dubai or Japan..
Getting a pussy?? This is why mens are so dumb. You guys don’t think, you’re just animals. Haven’t you thought why aren’t you satisfied eventhough you had great sex with many girls in the past days?? Assholes!!
Basically its…. women you gotta pay for it somehow. really no difference between prostitude or girlfriend.your paying for it somehow. mind as well go the way with less hassles of losing your freedom…..ill take the hooker. its cheaper and much less drama of having a girlfriend.
Right to the point, though if you are not looking for LOVE! Some men are looking for LOVE and as such prefer to pay more for it
How do you know that they had great sex with many girls in the past days ?!!!!
Hi, everybody, I am from Colombia, I have dated women in different colombian cities. My best experiences have been in Barranquilla, Colombia. It usually takes me not more than a week to be fucking a nice-looking girl. Women there are easily attracted by guys that are not from their city, taken aback by foreing accents and you just need to dress sexy to have them approaching you and iniciating conversation; if you play you cards really well you will be fucking them within a couple days. Whereas in Bogota where I am currently residing at it might take you a month to have sex with them.
What are your experiences on Valle del Cauca, Amigo ?
girls have those nasty butts there, I bet they love to get spanked. jajaja
What’s up PapiGringo? Eventhough I have never been to Valle del Cauca I have had the honor to fuck with girls from there in the USA and here in Colombia(in other departamentos). The love dacing and drinking. They also love to be flirt upon; I always tried to say something nice about their eyes or lips. Ex: I like your lips, they’re so beautiful! . I do this to set myself apart, since most guys would say something about their ass or tits which is already burnt out.
When I was in my 20′s, I could get laid in just 5 minutes after meeting a European girl, specially in Germany ! So, how come you guys consider a week as being QUICK ?!!!
I would never comment on their ass until iam in bed with her, only then she wants to hear it.
But hands down, Latin women esp Colombian are famous for their plump buttocks, so if Africa is too nasty for you, this is the right place.
Whats interesting they dont seem to care about your “size“ too much, while most American Black women dont date white men, because they are “too short“, haha no joke…
hi, i realy njoyed… awesome
You crack me up bro, but I have no doubt the info you’ve shared will help some peeps out…
You know what I like about Colombian women…most of them get better as they get older….most of them when they reached the late 30′s early 40′s they get plastic surgery ( boob job, lipo, ect) and who cares? I have seen women in the late 40′s even 50 with awesome bodies…put any American MILF to shame.
FYI: I’m 55 and my Colombian wife is 36 …we’ve been married 8 yrs and it’s been a blessing….very nice woman…and yes with three plastic surgery procedures ( boob job, lipo and butt lift) but who cares?
I am Colombian woman starting my 30′s. I can prove Jesse to be right, If you go for vacations or any other activity to Colombia you have to be careful, the fact that you are American make people believe that you are wealthy. so don’t fall on the game, you can explain, talk and reveal how hard was for you to get down there you know (debts, Credits) girls would understand you work hard to give yourself a treat, But also be careful, these days women are being involved in crimes like robbery to tourist or kidnapping their new saying is (well; this guy maybe is just a normal middle class guy, but his family has more cash) the enchanting of beauty can be dangerous sometimes… Have fun but also be very selective!
Well, that is interesting reading. American women in general are much dumber than Colombian women.
American women look for short term “hook ups” but get F…CKED in the end as they end up with a guy who is broke or has diseases (as he so hot he get laid often).
I have to respect Colombian women for waiting to have a “future” and a decent guy. Many American go to places like Colombia to find such a match as American women do not think about their futures much past Tuesday until their beauty years are gone! LOL
But I rather date a Colombian girl any day, they seem to have more what I would look for as an American guy.
This is a very interesting article and the author did a nice job of explaining the culture and mindset of Colombian women. However, I realized without question, he missed the boat on his assumption of why some men visit.
First, I have to point out that the article has embedded stigma’s and assumptions that are a little off base. While many foreign men from American and Europe may visit places like Colombia in search of sexual gratifications, this is certainly no different that Colombian men who visit my country and have the same desires. We are not just out for sex alone, most would love to fall in love with a Colombian women.
The article paints a mental image that most foreign men are only there on pleasure trips. I think they can get laid via escorts in their own country as well, so I don’t feel that is the sole purpose. Many men like to try a different flavor/type of women, not the same old girls they dated from their own country for years.
They want to learn new cultures, they want someone that does not look too much like themselves, they desire to practice a foreign language. Also, I think it’s sexy to have a foreign partner, just so many more things to notice and exciting. Some Colombian women may feel the same about trying out a foreign man, wish the article did not paint such a negative picture of American/European men visiting; it’s simply NOT TRUE for the entire population and need to be pointed out as it’s incorrect.
Great info Jesse. What’s a good time to visit Colombia, in reference to weather. Any good contacts to know there? Maybe a travel agent or plan to get around. Thank you.
Depends on the city!! They’re all very different weather-wise
Jesse, nice article but I agree with Todd on the typical stereotypes but either way its valuable information!
Al, I am an American living in Medellin the weather is beautiful here year round if you need help navigating cities leave me your contact information I can help you out.
For all of those who have girlfriends in Colombia I welcome you to use my personal site http://www.flowershopcolombia.com we deliver flowers anywhere throughout Colombia. Colombian women love flowers, so I put together the site for those who might benefit from showing their affection from a distance.
The number one city for the most beautiful women is the only city in the world where all the beautiful women want to go and do everything to get there. LAS VEGAS
Completely agree….lived in Colombia for three years and I could not agree more with your analysis.
Thanks bruce
Hey guys,
It’s my 4th time here in Colombia. I have been in Bogota and Medellin.
Medellin has much more 8s and 9s while Bogota has more 6 and 7s.
Medellin looks to have much more girls than guys on bars and restaurants.
It looks like Medellin is a paradise? Wrong. You will find groups of girls (No guys) going out together to drink and talk but the approach is not that easy.
I am a typical gringo (Blond, blue eyes) and this really helps on eye contact at least.
Even some girls that were looking at me, even with some approaching skills they don’t give much space for you to start talking. This sometimes results on awkward situations, but I really don’t mind about it.
Once you are introduced and the conversation starts they don’t stop talking and it can take some time but it didn’t look difficult. Maybe a next day date.
If you go to a bar or club and get a reggaeton dance with a girl, you will be really excited (The girl just dance shaking her ass on you, like a private dance! LOL). This doesn’t mean that she wants to have sex with you right now.
Medellin doesn’t give much one day games. Probably at least 2 or 3.
BTW, it is easier to meet a girl in Santa Fé mall than in Parque Lleras.
Bogota is plenty or bars and clubs specially at Zona T and Parque de la 93. It was easier to start talking with the girls, but they usually go out with some guy in the group and there are more guys than girls everywhere.
If a Colombian girl says that she will have a date with you the next day, don’t trust it that much. You should have a plan B.
You won’t get a girl everyday in Colombia like some other countries like Peru or Thailand. But the quality is one of the best in the world.
Additional tip: Don’t push the girl. Slow down.
Great tips, thanks
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Hello Jesse. What can you tell me about my situation. I’m 59, decent looking (I am told I look 10-15 younger), average body, salt and pepper hair, well maybe more salt than pepper. I’m not looking for one-night stands, but I love the company of gorgeous Latin women. Oh, and I am Hispanic, speak Spanish more or less ok, understand better than speak it. Living on a limited budget, since my job was outsourced to India last October. I really want to date, not so much just get some booty (for now
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It all depends on your budget..!!
SUPERB Article ! !
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Txs Jesse Charger , that was a realy good article giving some depth of ther girls and culture of Columbia . there was quite some nice comments (incl. from Columbian ladies
I am going to Bogota next month / Mai 2013 and would love to have imformation on places to visit in BOGOTA .
What are good bars , clubs , places,events to see during my stay?
I am intrested to find out how the Columbian Ladies “realy tick” !
Ladies and Gentlemann please supriese me and give some new information and Tips what places to explore .
Hallo ALL !! And please Help me with INFO !!
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Great chat with lots of real good information .
I am going to Bogota next month for work and like to know the latest “Inn-Places” to meet Columbian Chicas .
Where would you go for good hunting
Hope some one can HELP .
I am currently staying in Medellín for a three month tour here in Medellin.
My DAY-GAME has been pretty good so far but I have to admit that is tougher than I though. Picking up girls
in parque lleras during the day is awsome hard and slurping a delicious coffe in Juan Valdez and hoping some hot chick would sit next to you, it just wont happen.
But there is still hope! I am givig you my best tips and tricks to improve your game, absolutely for free!
Tip 1:
Prepare your trip!!! Before you are coming to Medellin hook up with girls on the INTERNET!!!!! Get an account at badoo.com, tagged.com, etc. (Forget about colombiancupid.com) And then chat chat chat.
I am investing about 3 hours a day or more just chatting to girls. If you are just coming here for a week or two you HAVE TO PREPARE!
Touring around the world, I am ALWAYS preparing my trips at least one month ahead!
Currently there are over 70 Girls in Medellin iI talk to all day long. (Internet Chats, Whatsapp, SMS, Skype, etc) Trash your Nokia black and white display phone and buy a smartphone (Galaxy S3 my favorite)
Tip 2:
Keep your chats clean! No sex talk ever! (except she starts) You have to show them that you are different then the main crowd on those Internet mingle sites. My mom said once “Michael, if cna make a girl smile, you can have any girl”. At that time I was just sweet 13 years old, did´t really know what my mom was telling me, but now I understand her message. The more “jajajaja…jejeje” you get in your chats the better. How to get more “jajaja…jejeje” check on Tip 3
Tip 3:
Lie the shit!!!! Girls do it too! They use make-up to look more pretty, they use Photoshop, posting pics which were taken 10 years ago. The fat girls know exactly how to take pics so their “lonchitas” do not show up. Here are my top ten lies i tell my girls in Medellin.
Most gringos make the mistake that they exaggerate way to much in their conversations. This is north amarican culture, it might work in the US but not here in Medellin. Latinos hate gringos for that exaggerating speech.
Lying is different!
Here are my top lies to influence girls to like me even more..
- “I live here/ I am buying a property here” …hell no! I just want her to make her think that she could have a long term relationship
- “I belive in god and go to church on sundays evenings” ….she will think you a a man a values…hell yes!
- “I love kids” ….most of girls you will meet are single moms!
- in my internet profile I have a pic where look like a pilot, the girls then ask me ..”are you a pilot”…and I say “well, I have a pilot license and a small airlplane back home”
Play with her feelings with sweet little lies but remember don’t exaggerate.
Well my friends, I have tons of more tips but got to go to my next date en el gardin botanico….at night another chick is taking me to a salsa bar…
I just love this fucking town!
Saludos
I am in my early 20s and will stay medellin for an internship. Any advice for me since I see that most people here are in their 50s. I have light brown hair, green eyes, and I am 6’4 (So not your typical gringo), so will that make a difference.
Hi all
I am European, now 70.
Lived all over the planet, in the early eighties in Bogota. When there, I had access to high-class girls. I was well-respected,always invited to parties, and some -not too many – wanted to establish a closer relationship. I had exactly two over three years, the one marrying my successor in the job,a German , the other marrying a US lawyer. Both girls had money ten times more than me on their own. A friend married such a highclass colombian and found out, that HE was subsidized by the family , not the other way round. But got no resposibility in the colombian family trust.
So, that’s the REAL story. Same goes for Thailand, only, that it will take you 10 years longer to get into higher circles.
Now for the rest: it is in most of the developing countries a game of money and attraction. How much one side wins is dependent on the class of girls, yr pockets, yr charme and, above all, yr need to get laid.
A little hour to spare before you decide will save you a lot of money and troubles. Just give – even if you want to fuck a whore – yourself and yr partner some time to evaluate the situation.
Last but not least- as an European you have way out better chances than a Gringo, sorry for that!
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The biggest stunner I had In Bogota then: 26 year old mulatta from Buenaventura – not the most charming place who worked parttime as a whorein Cra 15 in one of the best clubs at the time. I was fascinated but it took me 6 weeks before she dated me. Superb girl but sniffing. Took me another 6 months to get rid of her. 4 y later she gave me a call back home in Germany ,had married to a countryman and was about to give birth to a chlild.And that was it. Will never forget her.
Now I will go back to Colombia in January 2014 to see old places. What else can I do than to pay for a good service? And still, I will take my time to select and to sort it out. As I speak fluent Spanish and have decent manners most of the time there will be the one or the other who still want to be paid but may decide to get along with me for a couple of weeks. Not the worst idea I believe. Pls correct me if I am wrong in today’s circumstances.
It worked well in the Philippines last year and did so in Vietnam 3 years ago. Look, wait, invite, pay with a smile and eventually get a lot in return.
“experience is what you get when you are denied what you want”
Part of me does want to go to there, find a woman I can be intimate and get to know well, and then have sex with her. But, she does not deserve that behavior from me. I probably would just date and become good friends with certain women.
This is such a lame article.
Your pictures and your shallow, ridiculous description clearly puts yourself on the fat horny gringo position.
As in any other country around the world, there’s beautiful and average women (whatever that means) but judging from your pictures you certainly have gone to the wrong places.
Women are in search of money and disgusting fat old gringos like you, when they are unfortunately uneducated and ignorant about the world’s reality (like on every other country) if they are raised with low ambition they will for sure have very poor expectations.
Women in COLOMBIA which by the way is COLOMBIA not ColUmbia are varied.
Don’t generalize and assume that just because you are not good enough to hang out with well educated open minded and ambitious people, gifted with knowledge and beauty , everyone else is like the people you are surrounded by.
each time i used to read smaller posts which also clear their motive, and that is also happening with this post which I am reading now.