How To Get Laid in Colombia… Jesse’s Super Guide!

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This guide will answer your two burning questions,

a) How hot are Colombian women, *really*?  And…

b) How good is Colombia for getting laid with hot girls?

Since I’ve lived between the cities of Medellin and Cartagena for half a year, and also visited Cali, Bogota, Pereira, and Baranquilla, I can give you a pretty accurate psychological profile of Colombian women and the prospects of meeting pretty girls and getting laid there.

First, let’s take a look at the quality of the women.

So Jesse, How Beautiful Are the Women Really?

What the more attractive young women in Cartagena generally look like.

Most men who visit Colombia hype up the beauty of the Colombian women to no end.

But it’s simply NOT true that all Colombian women are head-turners.  In fact, the vast majority of the women are quite “normal” looking.

However, because Colombian women don’t eat junk food and they walk everywhere, they DO tend to be lean and fit.

In addition, the population in Colombia is much younger than the U.S. or Europe.  Just a generation back, couples would typically have 3 to 8 children.  That birth rate has slowed down since to just 2 to 3 children, but the result is lots of 18 to 30 year old women running around today.

In addition, you’ve got a wide variety of ethnic types, depending on what city in Colombia you’re visiting.  The North coast of Cartagena and Baranquilla has darker skinned women, while Medellin has lighter skinned women, and even a few blondes.  Cities like Cali in the South have more cinnamon colored women.  So you can city hop and find all types of women.

In addition, Colombian men are notorious cheaters.  There are no laws protecting women, so women usually end up getting impregnated and then dumped by their Colombian boyfriend or husband.  Because of the competition, there’s additional pressure on the women to maintain their physical appearance.

The video below shows what the idealized girl from Cali looks like – the “10s”.  In Cali, that means a pretty face, cinnamon color skin, a plump ass, athletic body, and breast implants.  Keep in mind these women are not representative of the general female population, most women are nowhere near as attractive or fit.

Medellin is similar, but more white skinned, thinner, and less butt.  This video illustrates the best of Medellin women, the “10s”.

Colombian women are also known as being sexy for how they move and dance– that “Latin Fire” – which is a quality that goes beyond just looks and body.

The video below is of Colombian women showing off.

The photos I’ve posted here are the “crème of the crop” so to speak.  95% of the women however would fall into normal range of body and looks.

So overall, pretty girls but no more so than say, Miami or Los Angelos.

How the women get exaggerated

Girls from Cartagena, Colombia

Still, Colombia gets hyped up as having amazingly stunning and beautiful women.

The reason is that men with no game and who can’t get laid in their home country, especially aging men past their prime, come to Colombia and start getting IOIs (indicators of interest) for he first time in their lives from the women.

Typical scenario: A 50-year old guy with no game and a big belly (let’s call him “Smith”), who never gets eye contact from a girl back home in say, Georgia, suddenly touches ground in Medellin, Colombia and suddenly 30-year old women are making eye contact with him.

Add to that, Smith hasn’t traveled much before, and being in a new country feels exciting.  He feels young again and his testosterone is pumping.

Smith has a date with a MILF that he set up on Amigos.com beforehand, bangs a few hookers, gets some eye contact from the local ladies, and then goes back home to Georgia telling everyone that Colombia has absolutely the hottest women on the planet, and that the U.S. only has ugly “fem-cunts” who won’t give him the time of day.

It’s not that your typical 20 year old girl in Colombia is any hotter than your typical 20 year old girl in Miami or Los Angeles.  She isn’t.

But to the old guy Smith who hasn’t gotten laid in over ten years, he’s suddenly being validated with eye contact, he’s on a travel high, his ego shoots through the roof, and he thinks he’s in pussy and hot women paradise.

The truth is, his opinions are wrapped up in his own ego.  He is in no way objective.

So take heed that you can meet just as beautiful women in the U.S. or Europe as long as your game is tight and you don’t shit on your body with fast food.

Okay, now onward…

Getting Laid in Colombia

Medellin hottie

The second question is, is it easier to get laid in Colombia than in the United States?

Well, yes… and no.

The answer is complex, because it depends on who you are and what your goals are.

The reality is, getting laid in Colombia can actually be surprisingly difficult.

Just as a Colombian may mistakenly believe that the streets of the U.S.A. are paved in gold and money, you would be mistaken to believe that the streets of Colombia paved in easy women.

Yes, Colombia has hookers.  In fact, that’s why most gringos go.  You’ll find fat, middle-aged Gringos with absolutely no game fulfilling their dreams of banging a young woman… by paying for it.

But this guide isn’t about shagging disease-ridden hookers.  It’s about meeting regular, quality Colombian women.

Here’s what’s GREAT about Colombian women!

Cartagena girls

1. You are a Gringo, and therefore a desired commodity!

If your native language is English, you’re different, exotic, and assumed to be high status.

There aren’t too many gringos in Colombia, because most are either (a) falsely too scared to go (b) too broke (c) have no passport (d) or just don’t know about Colombia.

So you pretty much have the run of the place to yourself.  For every one Gringo there, there’s about 20 girls who would love to date a cool Gringo.  So you’ve got high status right off the bat.  Expect women to give you indicators of interest, even if you’re not the best looking guy.

You’ll even be more in the money if you take 20 minutes to dye your hair blonde and get blue colored contacts!

More Cartagena babes

2. Age differences are not a big deal!

In Colombia, you’ll see 45 year old guys dating 20 year old women.  I’ve even met an ugly 50 year old dude, who lived in Colombia, dating a woman in her mid-20s.

In Colombia, there’s far less social stigma about age differences.  It’s okay for a woman to marry a much older gentlemen, as long as he can provide for her.

I’ve seen older gentlemen with young women in the U.S. too, but you need real game to pick up a younger woman, because there’s more social stigma against it.  If you’ve got game and you hook up with that younger 18 year old, you’ll often meet push-back from her family and parents.  Not so in Colombia!

3. Colombia is good for day game

The U.S. is a real car culture; we drive everywhere.  And for that reason, many cities are lame for meeting women during the day.  You’re pretty much restricted to your local mall or bookstore.

Colombia however relies far more on good ole’ fashioned walking, buses, trains, and public transit.  Not only does it keep the women nominally fit, it also makes it easy to meet them.

You can go for a stroll in any neighborhood and have non-stop daytime sets for daytime game.  Great!

And Here’s why Colombia Is Often HARD For Getting Laid

Party in Medellin

Colombia sounds like pussy paradise, right?  Not so fast cowboy!

Colombia is actually a *difficult* place to lay a bunch of hot girls.  And here’s why.

1. Gringos, while status symbols, also have a bad reputation.

Yes, it’s a paradox.  As a gringo, you’re exotic and desired.

At the same time, gringos have a reputation for shamelessly chasing prostitutes.  And that’s exactly what 90% of the gringos there do.

These gringos have zero game and have no interest in learning game.  They just prefer to pay for cheap, easy sex.

Consequently, regular Colombian women will not sleep with you so easily.  They’re suspicious that you’re in Colombia just there to hook up with prostitutes.  And they feel if they sleep with you right away, you will just fuck them and dump them, like a prostitute.

Also, Colombian women who hook up with a gringo too fast may fear her reputation becomes tarnished.  “She had sex with a gringo after the first date?… hmm, maybe he paid her!” goes the thinking there.

So it can look bad to be seen in public with a gringo too quickly, even though you’re simultaneously a status symbol.  Fucked up, right?

That means the girls will throw you lots of IOIs – eye contact for instance.  But it’s quite difficult to actually get their pants off.

Compare that to the United States.  Yes, it’s more difficult to get IOIs from the girls in the U.S.  But once you’re “in” with a girl, she’s much more liberal about jumping into bed with you.

2. Colombian women are sexually mistrustful of men in general.

More Medellin women

Colombian men have a notorious reputation for being massive cheaters.

First, there are very few laws for protecting women.  A Colombian man can bang a girl, get her pregnant, and move on to another girl with little consequence.  He need not fear paying child support.

Thus, you’ll find an enormous number of abandoned single mothers in Colombia… and deadbeat Dads.  And as a result, women are mistrustful of men in general – and extremely jealous if they’ve got a man.

This kind of culture is NOT conducive for breeding sexually liberated, promiscuous women.  Instead, a Colombian woman is inclined to date you without putting out for a long period of time to gauge your “faithfulness level” first.  Once you demonstrate that you’ll be faithful and you’re trustworthy, only then will she sleep with you.

It’s not true across the board, but Colombian women are generally quite cautious about men.

3. The Catholic Church.

Old-school religion still touches Colombia deeply.  While the Church’s grip on sexual morality is continually loosening, there’s still much guilt surrounding sex.

Colombia is NOT like Sweden where casual sex is accepted.  In an agnostic country like Sweden, a young women will meet you in the club, take you home that night, introduce you to her parents, and walk you right into her bedroom and fuck you with her parents able to listen in.  Not so in Colombia… noooooooooo way!

Women are deeply concerned about their reputation and the Catholic Church is a powerful moralizing and guilt-creating factor.

4. Nightlife is very social circle oriented.

Partying in Cartagena

In a U.S. or European bar or club, it’s a mingling culture.

Yes, in the U.S. girls go out with their friends and in groups.  But it’s perfectly acceptable to forcefully interject yourself into the group and mingle.  Most guys have too much approach anxiety to do it, but the fact is that the logistics are on your side.  Women stand in small groups and are open to mingle.  As long as you’ve got some balls, it’s easy to meet women.

That’s not so much the case in Colombia.  Women go out in large groups of friends with other guys, and they tend to sit and socialize in their group.

The women are out with other guys because (a) Colombian culture dictates women need to be protected and chaperoned at all times by male friends and (b) women go with men because guys are expected to pay.

In the U.S. or Europe, you can walk around and mingle.  But in Colombia the logistics in many night spots are far less favorable for you.

5. Most young women still live with their conservative and watchul parents and family.

Cartagena women

Colombia is a poor country.  A young woman can expect to earn $300 to $500 USD per month.  Consequently, a young woman will continue living in her parents home until she gets married.

As a result, most young Colombian women are not independent.  Her parents can watch her every move, and they know who she’s going out with and where she’s going at all times.

In addition, typically her grandparents are also living in the house.  And her unemployed brother.  And her uncle lives next door.

Yes… she’s got a lot of family pressure on her, and her reputation is at stake!

If you call her to schedule a date, her parents will know.  So before agreeing to meet you, or even take your call, she has to deal with her family – and family comes first in Colombia.

Will her parents judge her reputation?  Will they judge negatively that she’s meeting a gringo?  Is this gringo out for just sex, and what will my parents think?

There’s enormous pressure on her then to NOT sex you up even if she does agree to meet with you.

6. The older women tend to be single mothers… and busy.

Medellin MILFs

Most available, single women over age 26 will already have children – and be a single mother.  Not only is she broke on a meager Colombian income, but she needs to work long hours and she’s got kids to take care of.

She’ll be eager to date you because she’ll see you as her and her children’s ticket out of poverty.  That doesn’t mean she isn’t genuinely attracted.  She is genuinely attracted.  But her circumstances dictate that she won’t sleep with you that easily.

She’s looking for a financially steady and responsible man who will support her emotionally and financially and accept her children – a provider.  So she’s going to want to date you, size you up, and see if you’re real marriage material.

Again, not conducive for easy hook ups.

What this all means

Your typical Colombian female has enormous family pressure.  There’s religious guilt.  She’s not independent.  And she’s afraid that you, as a gringo, are just after hookers and quick sex.

If she puts out fast with a gringo, she’ll get a reputation as a prostitute.  So your typical girl, no matter how much she’s attracted to you, will string you along for weeks, if not months.  And the more she likes you, the more she’ll want to string you along to see if you’re serious about making her your exclusive girlfriend or wife.

To Get Colombian Girls, Here’s What You Need!

Have I scared you yet?  Do you still want to play the game?  Okay, here’s 3 essentials you’ll need under your belt before going if you want any kind of success at all.

#1. You need enough balls to cold approach

Can’t do a cold approach in your home country?  Then you’ll find yourself no more confident in Colombia either.  And you’ll meet exactly ZERO girls.

Women will give you lots of IOIs perhaps, looking your way.  But they will NOT approach you… EVER.

My forceful recommendation is to approach at least 3 women a day in your home country for 30 days straight.  Once you can do that, you’re ready to go to Colombia.

And if you can’t meet 6s and 7s in your home country, you won’t be able to meet girls in Colombia either.

If your game is still weak, you haven’t gotten the right advice. Most of the dating programs out there put you inside your head and inadvertently create MORE approach anxiety.

Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control is my latest program of 15 hours of my elite game method, cultivated over 10 years of experience (I’ve been doing this since 2000).  No matter what country you’re in, the program WILL turn you around and get the girls chasing you with HARD attraction.   Just click THIS link here to get your hands on it right now.

#2. You need time.

You’re going to be in Colombia a just a week you say?  That’s not enough time to hook up with a girl, even if your game skills are mad tight.

Colombia is more a place you need to go to actually *live* there for *months* to really hook up with hot women.

Medellin women

#3. You need Spanish.

If you can’t speak a word of Spanish, you won’t even be able to make a basic connection with a girl.

Most Colombians don’t speak any English.  And if you can’t speak a word of Spanish, the girl will assume you’re just there looking for easy hook-ups with prostitutes.

So it’s key to do the 90 lessons of Pimsleur for Spanish before you go, which will be enough Spanish to see you through your trip.  Don’t go though before you’ve done all 90 lessons!

Who Colombia is good for… and who should skip it

The “Way Beyond AFC”

The AFC has never approached a girl before.  He has massive approach anxiety.  He “knows” game in theory, but has never put it into practice.

He thinks going to Colombia will be a quick fix to hooking up.

My recommendation: If you can’t at least approach a girl in your home country, you’ll have just as much trouble meeting women in Colombia.

Work on your game and confidence first. Again, I highly recommend my 15 CD Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control program. The one program is all you need to hit the ground running.

The “Monger”

This guy has $500 to blow on a debauched sex-filled marathon of hookers.  He doesn’t care about meeting regular women, he just wants to pay for quick and easy pu-tang.

My recommendation: Most gringos go to Colombia for exactly that.  And the sexually conservative Catholic culture, coupled with economic poverty and legal prostitution, has created a high demand for girls willing to spread their legs on command.  If you just want hookers, Colombia will work for you.

The “Fast-Strike PUA”

This guy has decent game.  He can meet girls back home, but he’s only got a week or two to vacation in Colombia.

My recommendation: You’ll get IOIs and phone numbers, but you’ll be unlikely to hook up with a quality girl.  You’re better off going to Europe or to Brazil where girls also like Americans, but they’re far more likely to partake in quick sex.

The “Passive Incomer”

You’ve got passive income of $1,000 monthly or more (4 hour workweek style), and you want to hang out in Colombia for months, if not years.  You’ve got the time to learn Spanish and practice game on the local women.

My recommendation: Colombia can be a great option.  It’s cheap, and you’ll have time to meet a beautiful girl and get her into bed.  Still, Colombia is far better for the guy looking for one, quality woman than it is for lots of one-night stands.

The “Cradle Robber”

This guy is older and looking to hook up with a far younger woman as his girlfriend.  He has lots of time to spend finding her and courting her.

My recommendation: If you’ve got months to work the scene, Colombia can be a great option for you.  The women are pretty, and larger age differences are socially accepted.  Some of the old farts who retired and are living there have girlfriends 20 and 30 years younger than themselves.

The “Night Life Partier”

You’ve got good game and you want to tongue down girls in night clubs and bars and go wild.  You’re looking to pull girls home for one night stands.

My recommendation: Skip Colombia.  You’re far better off in slutty, college party culture like Cancun during Spring Break, or just back in the good old U.S.A.

The “Hot Girlfriend Seeker”

You just want to meet a hot chick for an exclusive, long-term relationship.  You speak Spanish, you’ve got decent game, and you’ve got time to be down there.

My recommendation: The same facts that make Colombian women are hard to bed also makes them extremely loyal – and almost scarily possessive – girlfriends.  If you think you can maintain sexual faithfulness in return, and you’ve got some months to meet and court a hot girl down there, Colombia can be a good option to find a hot girlfriend and eventual potential wife to settle down and have children with.

Don’t let her catch you in the arms of another woman though – she’ll cut your balls off!

Let’s Wrap This Up…

Still want to meet Colombian babes in their native homeland?  There ARE some real hotties down there.

But it completely depends on your goals with women… and your lifestyle circumstances.  Hopefully this guide has helped to clarify your options and shed light into the wonderfully complex psychology of Colombian women.

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David
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David
2 days 12 hours ago

Remember, 70% of american women are now over weight. So Yes, Colombian women are hotter, not just more approachable.

FML
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FML
20 days 21 hours ago

basically need good looks and confidence. and confidence comes from having money , good looks or being good in bed etc. or having power, like a drug lord.

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Anonymous
6 days 7 hours ago

Like Pablo Escobar

guy
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2 months 11 days ago

heard it has gotten a whole lot harder to get ‘good’ girls here now, particularly in medellin

still sounds amazing for a monger though

deca
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deca
2 months 21 days ago
A very good post. I went to Colombia 20 years ago and many things seem to have changed since and I would like to visit again. I went there not to score women but to just travel and Cartagena and Santa Marta were my favorite. Medellin was too dangerous that time but I met some good friends who were genuine and cultured. It is the same everywhere when you travel i.e. there are all kinds of people and all kinds of situations depending on who you are mostly. Thus the post got some good points and perspectives for a single mind and it is good to read everyone’s opinions. The girls were probably the most beautiful in S. America in general like Venezuela being no.1 and Colombia no.2 or on par. The rest of S. America were also pretty much up there except for Bolivia, Ecuador and Peru. Of course, just my taste opinions! I did meet some girls there that time but they were very poo,r abandoned by European husbands or simply selling their body to make a living or just working as a maid in a hotel etc. I dated all kinds where I spend 3 months and… Read more »
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Will
2 months 28 days ago
You obviously are prejudiced to males over 50 years old. I’m in my early 60s I’m fit I don’t have a big pot belly and I’m not here to screw a bunch of hookers instead I’m here to make a contribution to the community,connect with the culture and society and do business. Finding a beautiful Colombian woman is something that certainly will happen for me and I’m in no hurry and enjoy the journey. I don’t have problems getting dates. It’s like you say if you are hear for the right reasons things should work out fine. True my Spanish sucks but it’ll get better. The deal is, you need to quit dissing all men that are older because one of these days you’ll be older two and you may just be a decent guy who’s learned from your experience. Quit categorizing all of us as fat, mongers who can’t get a date. What about the successful businessman that see great opportunity in Colombia? How about those of us who think Colombian me are OK and nobody’s been mean or ugly to us at least not to the degree that happens in the US frequently. Please, rethink your approach to… Read more »
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Jarl of Sweden
3 months 28 days ago

What you write about Swedish girls that they have sex so their parents can hear just defines that you have no know clue what you talking about, In my country we have utterly respect even if we are very relaxed about things. The author probably just hangs out in Parque Lleras and other touristic grounds where the girls make sport of picking up gringos whatever they prepagos or not. And for all social dysfunctional desperate men out there that don’t even speak Spanish … please just go to Thailand instead.

Charles
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7 months 8 days ago

Great article. I was in Colombia and your interpretation was spot on accurate. I am a gringo African American Male but thanks to my somewhat mixed heritage (French, Native American, and Black) and great spanish from my travels I had absolutely no problem in Colombia. Went out on several dates and had several GREAT EXPERIENCES with the Colombiana’s there. Without going into further detail LOL. Anyways Medellin is freaking awesome. I am highly considering moving there. To the my other fellow gringo’s reading this article. Medillin is very similar to other major cities in the US. There are “good” girls and “bad” girls. Sometimes you get lucky with either!! Enjoy Colombia and more importantly enjoy the culture/food. After that, all your cards will always fall will you want them to!

Charles
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7 months 8 days ago

I apologize for the typos Im at work typing fast on a site I shouldn’t be on lol

jay
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jay
7 months 15 days ago

PS. stop putting canadian flags on your pack backs to hide the fact your a useless fucking yankee

jay
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jay
7 months 15 days ago

if you wasted your time reading this shit you are better off heading back to the farm and rolling in the mud with the pig you normally fuck. its guys like this well americans in general that give tourists a bad name and the reason women don’t like guys like you is cause your fucking goofs not cause their colombian so go back to america and take the rest of your yankee bum buddy’s with you trust me we do not like your kind here in colombia

Tony Lee
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7 months 16 days ago
I agreed with some of things in this article. I am an Asian American, and I had been married to a beautiful Colombian wife for over 10 years. I am over 60 and she is 15 years younger. This is my second marriage to a Colombian, the first only lasted 4 months. The major problem was communication. I spoke very little Spanish when I married to the first one. Do not even try to travel to Latin America and try to pick up women if one couldn’t speak good Spanish. I earn decent living but I couldn’t even get a date in the U.S. some time. I had traveled to Peru and Colombia numerous times searching for a wife since mid 90’s so I had met dozens of beautiful women, some of them I met thru the internet, others on the street or public places. I found out that most Latina do not discriminate race, or looks. Unlike U.S. women, they were not afraid to talk to me. They don’t care how old one is but they do want a financially responsible and faithful man. Education is also very important. Do not expect to find decent women if one is… Read more »
Arturo
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Arturo
19 days 9 hours ago

Hi Tony, i’d like to reach you and ask you some questions.

Diana
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Diana
7 months 20 days ago
As an educated, independent, NOT poor and hard working Colombian woman, this article disgusted me. It portrays the opinions of guys that someone like me avoids, not because im Colombian, just because I have some SELF RESPECT. Not putting out on the first date is not an indicator of how much money and education we have (im pretty sure most of us know the importance of a condom, not only to avoid pregnancy…ever heard of STD’s?), since we are not poor defenseless women, but because our strong, hard working moms taught us to love ourselves and treat ourselves with dignity and respect. Now, we don’t see all gringos with $$ eyes nor think they are just looking for prostitutes…I dated a very blond Canadian man for over a year and our level of education was similar which meant he wasnt a complete retard when it came to women and didnt see us as penetrable pieces of meat. There are soooooo many things I can say are completely wrong and disgusting about this article, the person who wrote it, or the people congratulating the author for “his bright insights”, but it would take just too much time…my only recommendation for everyone… Read more »
Franz Saint-Fleur
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7 months 21 days ago

Funny enough, I was reading this while I was in Medellin Colombia. And it makes a lot of sense. This is not my first trip to Colombia, and I could agree with you on certain things like they might not want to sleep with you right away due to stipulations and that they live with their whole family that is true. I slept with a few Colombian girls first night or the second night I met them. However, the major reason was because I met them online when I was in the states and talk to them for a few weeks to up to two months before my trip. I’ll talk to them online, on the phone, on skype if not everyday then every other day. I had the time to build enough comfort and sexual tension to sleep with them the first night. I’m going back to Colombia in March and see how it goes this time lol.

Andy Smith
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Andy Smith
2 months 5 days ago

Care to share the web sites you found them? Thinking about Colombia as well, want to prepare the ground 🙂

Shawn
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Shawn
7 months 22 days ago

Very insightful, well put together, blog post. Very much reflects the reality I encountered living there for 6 months and having traveled there on many occasions.

Im guessing this article is referring to Medellin just based on the context clues, and because that’s where the majority of Gringos touch ground. While this article is dead on point for many circles of Colombian women, there are many other circles where the rules you outlined don’t apply.

Very well done article. I’ll be living there again in Sept if you drop through.

jay
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jay
7 months 15 days ago

fuck off you were here 6 months you did not live here

Anonymous
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3 months 2 days ago

fuck you jay

Italia,
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Italia,
9 months 18 days ago

Hi I’ve been reading this post and this is what I can honestly tell you about Colombian women, I’m a gringo / Italian male and married to a very smart Cali Colombian women. One they are not stupid!!! They are smart,and yes gorgeous. I travel with my wife to Colombia every year for holidays and every time I go there I see some old fat guy with a women walking around. It makes me sick they only go there to show off there money and pretend there God. Also the men in Colombia yes they do go after many women but there also faithful to there kids and do treat women like there mom. Best advice for a gringo stay in the USA and leave these nice people alone. There’s other country’s to go to that will be better for you. And also just some other info I met my wife threw my best friend and I’ve never had any issues meeting women in the states with my job as male model.I went there to meet a great good hearted person that deserves respect not based on her looks.This is why Real gringos are laughed at like turds.

Aaron
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Aaron
1 year 3 months ago

I think you [author] are an idiot! Maybe you are the middle-aged fat guy with no game…or you really haven’t traveled much. Traveling isn’t about trying got fuck every girl you see, it’s about meeting people, including girls, and sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn’t. You are generalizing an entire culture, and I personally find it repulsive. What a waste of time to read and I’m disappointed 241 of us have read this shit article. I have been all over the world including all over Colombia and find this to be ridiculous.

twpxblog
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1 year 3 months ago

Thanx man- I’ve lived in Brazil , too. Mostly the same way as You’re describing Columbia. You got a thorough way to say things. It is very inspiring for me, as I am preparing a website of my own … nothing to do with ladies, just philisosophy 😉 Thank you, beautiful and truthful writing! to

Anonymous
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Anonymous
7 months 20 days ago

Its Colombia :/

SILVIA
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SILVIA
1 year 6 months ago
It is interesting article but poor researched, the author seems very uneducated, and does not really know about Colombian culture and its people. Colombian women, we are not different than North American Women, you cannot generalized, every individual is different and Colombian women we are very independent and do not like to depend on men, we do not call men providers because we can provide for ourselves . However, educated Colombian men knows how to treat women with respect as opposed to North American men. I left my family, work and friends and married a North American guy and no, I was not poor how this article illustrates. I was shocked coming to the U.S, spent all my savings and find out with a hard reality of human trafficking. This guy put a $ amount on me as a person, he wanted a sexual and domestic slave,and at the same time time forced me to sleep with other people because that is what pleased him. I was trapped, thank you God, I am saved now , but with no family, or friends. I would suggest to the author of this article to educate himself first before write such of degraded… Read more »
Arturo
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Arturo
19 days 8 hours ago

Hola Silvia, me gustaría contactarte. Tengo varias preguntas que hacerte.

Bradley
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Bradley
9 months 25 days ago
AMEN SILVIA, TO PUT such a characterization of women especially PROUD Colombian “LATIN” women is degrading garbage. I am from Indiana and spent 4 months in Yumbo, Colombia and yes the women are some of the most beautiful women I have ever seen but I was not about getting laid as much as I was about learning the culture and meeting new people and having the best experiences of my life. It is terrible how women are treated especially from “Baby Daddies!” They do not appreciate a true Queen, loyal, protective, giving, and well just want and need what any woman wants or needs from a guy certainly a guy she is interested in and has a guys interest in her. I found there is one thing he said is true and that is women there have a huge wall up because they have been hurt so many times from men in the past. A relationship is 50/50 will always have its ups and downs but NO WOMAN NO PERSON and GOD I LOVE LATIN WOMEN, should ever be treated as PROPERTY~ God Bless YOU Silvia I am so glad you got out of the terrible situation you were in.… Read more »
Anonymous
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Anonymous
11 months 15 days ago

Wow that’s really sad Silvia. Sorry you met a creep

Marcy
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Marcy
1 year 5 months ago
Silvia you are right to have all these mixed feelings at this person, I am a Colombian woman living in the US with an American boyfriend as well, and also came here with my own money to do grad school and it wasn’t until I was getting done with that, that i met my boyfriend (true love if anyone wants to believe in that stuff still). But there are some things true in this article, in spite of the chauvinistic nature of its writing, we are not like american women in many ways. Women in America think they need to be all that and not show they ever care about or want a male partner, so that they can show themselves as strong and independent. The reason for that is rooted in the fact that separations here are much more relevant than anywhere in our country; men vs women, white vs black, Republicans vs Democrats, its all a fight here, there’s always someone to compare you and be better than, and don’t get me wrong, that makes for a lot of successful people here. But the truth is that they secretly desire someone but don’t know how to retain him… Read more »
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Aky
8 months 19 days ago

Mary I applaud you for bringing a true reflection of life in different worlds, This is happening across the globe, western countries women are very liberal from language to body action whilst women from less well to do countries still hold family values to marriage values, so a lot of divorced and shy/ 0 game like the author layed it, found themselves retreating to these countries were they will be appreciated without scrutiny. …..and guess what those well to do liberal women end up taking drastic measures to get layed. …..Prostitution is a billion dollar industry across the globe and very difficult to control, If Princess of UK, President of America, France’s 1st lady were all getting it on the side what more a girl next door …….

Anonymous
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Anonymous
10 months 17 days ago

Wow Marcy, that was a lengthy but a very interesting and personal point of view from a native Colombian. Your passion is commendable and I will be visiting Colombia in January.

steve
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steve
1 year 1 month ago

Shit Marcy your great lol. I wish you were’t married. Im an educated older american man, somewhat traveled and yes, the guys that write these kind of things accross the world too often do so callously with “that only one thing in mind” and therefore, meanwhile, think themselves special or “valuable for their insight / service.” Thank God you come in and add ACTUALLY, FACTUALLY, what is the real life, down to earth real life to it AND ONLY THEN AND THEREFORE THE REAL INSIGHT AND PERSPECTIVE VALUE TO IT!! Thank you so much. Steve

Tyshawn
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Tyshawn
1 year 7 months ago

Hello. I want to go to Cali.. Where are the places, the bars and clubs I need to go to and what’s the prices to be with them

The oracle for woman
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The oracle for woman
1 year 8 months ago

This is all old school, the % of bautyfull Colombian woman is equal all over the world and they are as hard to get as anny woman in the world for a comon man.
Having traveled in 54 countries Aand being maried for 25 yaers and with a 15 year younger woman now I think I now.
What is thrue is the age difierence is less a thing in Colombia but if you can have a 15 year younger educated woman in Europe you can get one everywhere.

Harriet Logan
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1 year 8 months ago

You don’t need to go to Colombia so much as to simply learn some workable Spanish and have the time and money to stay in one place a bit. If you don’t speak any Spanish,, then go some place in Latin America and study it some. I am speaking from experience here. If you have a decent attitude, you as an English speaking man will be popular if you take the time to go abroad. True for women in the same situation as well.

Leslie
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Leslie
1 year 9 months ago

Girls from Bogota are the most educated in Colombia and beautiful too

Xavier
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Xavier
1 year 7 days ago

Hi ,long time too late I know but am surprised by the authors condensing and simplistic comments.

I think everyone regardless of education,ethnicity,religion or creed should find mr/mrs right.

Sometimes its not easy being a middle aged Aussie gringo.

All the best

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 9 months ago

Great article but where I would differ in your opinion is the fact that it is in fact very easy to get laid in Colombia, and I’m not talking hookers. I’ve spent time all over this great country and have met and slept with many very attractive hot women, many who I still have contact with.

TonyS
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TonyS
1 year 9 months ago
Interesting topic and quite accurate for most points! I’m in my late 20s. I’m Canadian. In Colombia, I am never depicted as one since I’m of Asian origin. I speak a fluent Spanish (95%), with little accent (French is my first language and it’s close to Spanish – so I don’t have that thick accent most native English speakers have) and I’m south-east Asian so I have tropical traits (light tanned skin). I’m different but I easily blend in. One thing I realized from this forum is that many people seem insecure and keep asking questions like: “If I’m blonde with blue eyes, do I have a chance?” I’m 60 and muscular, do I have a chance?” Truth is, if you have a brain and a good personality, you will always have a chance. Colombian women are human… They have their own tastes. You can’t expect all Colombian women to like gringos. Some even have preference for Asian men (trust me, my wife is Colombian). Get to know them! You don’t just date or marry a girl just because she is good looking. A lot of women are good looking in Colombia but not all of them can be wifey… Read more »
Arturo
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Arturo
19 days 8 hours ago

this was really inspiring. Thanks for Sharing.

Big Rod
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1 year 10 months ago
Great article. And for you older guys, don’t take offense to the fat and bad comments, he’s just stating the truth. Anybody who’s ever been on the mongering scene or spent time in gringo infested areas (of any country) knows this to be true. If you keep yourself in great shape kudos to you. I probably fall into that older guy category myself (47) so I’m right there with you. Except for the fat part. 🙂 The only thing I want to add is that for those of you looking to meet a “regular girl” in the cities where mongering (i.e, guys looking for prostitutes) is common, if not rampant, the “regular girls” often move between both worlds. Just like some guys who do business with prostitutes are ultimately looking for a serious relationship, some women work both sides of the coin as well. Her dating profile says she’s looking for a serious relationship (she probably is) and has a day job. But she’s also open to spending time with a decent looking guy just looking for a few hours or days of companionship who are willing to pay for it. Very often these girls are “universitarias” – college girls… Read more »
Lawrence Gilbert
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Lawrence Gilbert
1 year 10 months ago

How about the guys that go to Columbia on the romance tours looking for a wife not just a quickie in bed. I hear many of them are successful in finding a woman of their dreams.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 11 months ago
So I’m a Colombian women, and even though there are a few points true to this post, there are also some that are a huge lie! 1. PROSTITUTION IS ILLEGAL, except from certain zones on the cities called “zona de tolerancia” 2. We don’t look up to US people the way you say so, first they tend to say ColUmbia, huge mistake, if you go there at least learn the name! Second they call themselves American, America is a continent, not a country, so yes we think they are too self involved. Third we’ve been diminished a lot by Europeans and US population, by saying or thinking that all South America is the same, and that we live in the middle of the Amazonian rainforest, so if you really want to hookup with a Colombian girl, even for a one nightstand you need to play your cards ok! Learn a little bit about the city you are in and the country, don’t introduce yourself as an American, preferably try to avoid mentioning you are from the US, for an European country would be better and most women won’t even notice and never say ColUmbia, remember it’s COLOMBIAN. 3. Most Colombian… Read more »
defaa
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defaa
1 year 11 months ago

Looks that you just choose the bad aspects of the culture. I’m pretty sure that if you go to Medellin, el parque lleras you will find really beautiful girls.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 11 months ago

Very good writting. I’m 70 and in good shape with some money and blue eyes and thinking of moving to Columbia.

What are my chances of a hot young girlfriend?

Big Dick
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Big Dick
3 months 5 days ago

Terrible, because you are not smart enough to spell “writing” or “Colombia” correctly.

deca
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deca
2 months 21 days ago

LOL

paul
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paul
2 years 11 days ago

hi, i have visited colombia before, but i stayed in cali, and did not go out much as it was all new to me and i was meeting a girl prioer to visiting….so whilst there i did not see many nice girls…….so can you recommend a place a bar or a town where all the pretty girls hang out and is save for me to visit…the girl i was seeing told me when i go out do not speak english as they will know i am a foreigner and i could get trouble………..i think it was a scare tatic so i didi not venture out alone

Jack
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Jack
2 years 14 days ago
It’s strange the places a google search will take you. Good article Jesse…stereotypes galore but stereotpes exist for a reason…there’s some truth to them. I was 42 and divorced for a couple years when I met a great Colombian woman learning spanish online. I would have never thought about it but they can be great places to meet women…BUSUU for example…not a plug just an experience. I became the hot girlfriend seeker I guess. Anyway…we texted on whatsapp and skyped everyday for about 8 months then I finally got the chance to go see her. Great experience…had a good friend with me…a photojournalist actually which is a big bonus on a trip with smart phones. What a beautiful country. I met many of my girlfriend’s friends…stayed at their place actually some of the time at their request after everyone felt comfortable. We stayed in Bogota about a week and went to a small Colombian tourist town called Melgar…where Colombians go to vaca. Had a blast. Anyway…we’re very much in love…and she’s 27…has a kid…fits your profile but “es OK”…I’m raising two of my own and their similar ages. I appreciate that at this point. Your description is very accurate. They… Read more »
Thomas
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Thomas
2 years 22 days ago

Hi, Had a very very different experience in Cartagena. We were a group of young men from Scandinavia and had no problem finding sexy women to sleep with, Without paying!! Of course, we look better than average but still not so sure about this guide. Proven that finding good looking women there who “just” wants to have fun is possible, more than possible actually.

Good luck!

kenneth dodanwatawana
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kenneth dodanwatawana
2 years 1 month ago

Awesome, O RoD of Jesse.

marty
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marty
2 years 1 month ago

looked around coloumbia for 3 months…pereira medellin cali… found a hottie in pereira the best…shes 34 im 53…Married her one month later 4/2013. It takes so much time for the second letter from gov.after all papers done…I have seen her 3 times ….I give her 175 every 2 weeks… she works too…skype everyday…she gets her visa sept.4 2014 ..If ur gonna go to colombia to bring wifee home start asap Tough 17 months for me shes a 9.5…. .5 for brown eyes 40dd 28 waist 36 ass…Coloumbian woman have the lowest divorse rate in the world..coloumbian men are pigs…If u want a girl to love u forever shes there plus cook clean sex when how etc…

Big Dick
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Big Dick
3 months 5 days ago

You type like a senile man wearing oven mitts.

Harriet Logan
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1 year 8 months ago

Marty, you are not going to be happy. First off, all Colombian men are not pigs, and you saying that shows exactly where your own US head is at, and it ain’t pretty.

What’s going to happen to you when your own feelings of cultural superiority begin to grate on your Colombian fiancee’s nerves? You, from your misspelling of the word Colombia, show that you haven’t an ounce of interest in learning Spanish or in sharing your wive’s Colombian heritage with her. That’s a recipe for you getting rather quickly divorced. Good luck, there is still s bit of time for you to begin to change, but the change you need to achieve is rather huge.

Good luck.

littlenumchuck
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littlenumchuck
2 years 1 month ago

hahaha get a life dude? this is cheauvanism big time!

C.L.
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C.L.
2 years 1 month ago

I’ve lived in Medellin for a year and this analysis is spot on.

(Except for the part about there being just as many beautiful women in the U.S. as here. haha. I fiind the women here FAR more attractive)

Jay
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Jay
2 years 2 months ago

Dude, this info is on point. I got game, great looks and fuck dimes in New York but these bitches are not loyal. I’m a relationship guy but I can’t save a hoe anymore. Anyhow, I’m heading to punta cana for threesomes and all for a week, then I was stuck on going to Colombia, Argentina or Brazil for massive ass attack. my boy mentioned to not hit up Brazil and go to Colombia for dime hoes. Your intel has guided me, I’m so appreciative. I’m in need of booking my trip for the month of sept of 2014, any advise will be greatly appreciated. I’ll even pay you a fee if needed. Thx bro.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 2 months ago
This article was shown to me by an american friend and we had our laughs. As a colombian woman I found this pretty interesting, and while some things are right one others are a bit off. I gather the women you are refering to are the lower to middle class colombian women instead of the upper middle to higher class colombian women. If you ever find an american that is dating or has dated a colombian woman from the upper classes they will tell you a whole different story because the upper class colombian woman speaks english, wont ask you for money for her or for her family, has a whole different outlook of life, they are still family oriented and wish to get married and such. If you find that guy he is most likely happily married. Yes we still think most americans come here for the hookers and are a waste of time. And yes most Colombian women dont give it up quickly or easily but you can find those that after a night will give it up fairly easily like anywhere else .Most colombian are catholics but priests here last time I checked dont go looking up… Read more »
Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 2 months ago

great read, dated a Columbian, FRIGID
Stewart

Harriet Logan
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1 year 8 months ago

Stewart, perhaps she was ‘frigid’. I would be too if I met a man as ignorant as you are.

Jakartaman
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Jakartaman
2 years 3 months ago

I notice you refer to 50 and over as old and old farts. Does this description apply to Tom Cruise Johnny Depp and Brad Pitt? They’re all 50 or slightly older and don’t look like Quasimodo Geriatrics. And come to think of it neither do I. You generalize that older guys all have pot bellies and are looking to hook up with hookers. Not necessarily so. What if you’re over 50, still have a handsome face, great game- especially ‘Day’ game- this gringo’s specialty- and know a little Spanish, is that ok? And finally, if you stand around 6’2″ weigh 185 with a slim and muscular physique, would that work too? Just curious to know. Oh, and one final thing. What if you’re one of the 95% of the world’s population who DON’T live in the US- would that also be ok?

58 year Old Colombia Goer
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58 year Old Colombia Goer
2 years 3 months ago
I have been to Colombia many dozens of times, am almost 58, have a girlfriend for five years who is 25 now, I met her when she was 17. Without knowing she was that young. She was a hybrid, that is she hooked once in awhile with foreign guys when she needed money, but also genuinely liked foreign guys and though she preferred them younger, the young guys don’t like to pay and are no better in bed, nor are they at all reliable. She was also something of a runaway from home, that is she had nowhere else to go but Cartagena. She is quite beautiful so I had to compete to get her and keep her after initially paying. What this shows is that some girls who are beginning to hook are not hookers at heart, they simply don’t know what else to do, or have no other opportunities in life or even enjoy having sex if not only selectively. And usually no father to support them, or a very poor father, and the mother is busy taking care of three other kids on a minimal income, so she is cut loose. Ideally she would like to find… Read more »
Big Dick
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Big Dick
3 months 5 days ago

You’re gross and you don’t have a functional relationship

Jimmy Cracks Capricorns
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Jimmy Cracks Capricorns
30 days 11 hours ago

He’s 58 with a 25 year old uneducated third world beauty – it is not meant to be functional, just fuck-tional. I am certain they can enjoy some time together doing things, you know the usual, enjoy a late breakfast, read the paper, discuss economics of the day, he gives her some shopping money and she gets some clothes or a mani-pedi, a hair cut, she is happy, he is content, it is a primal relationship at it’s finest. You gotta wonder why he’s reading this thread though…

In the end, it will be unsustainable as she grows as a person and becomes more aware of what they have and do not have together. He goes and get’s another one, she finds true love and forgets him. It happens all over the world my friends…

Daniel
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Daniel
2 years 3 months ago

Im living in Medellin and although your analysis is spot on, it’s basically only true for women from the poorest locations in the city. A mildly educated woman can earn any where from 1,000 to 3,000 USD, living in her own apartment and really not relying upon a male or male chaperoning in any way. But these decent women hate gringos because 99 % of them come for the hookers, all in sandals and shorts and acting like they’re just too much for the local guys (which these women who chances are have traveled before) know is just not a fact and ultimately just shoot them down for the attitude. Good advice, dress decent not like your on the beach and don’t travel in groups of pasty faced white guys just looking at all the ass that walks by. The only woman that will pay attention are the one’s from the ghettos

Jimmy Cracks Capricorns
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Jimmy Cracks Capricorns
30 days 11 hours ago

As the world changes and modernizes, women everywhere are seeing more, knowing more, and having more self awareness and respect. Mongering is now almost universally quarantined to the ghettos except in first world countries now you have Tender, Back Page, and Craigslist for hooking up. Almost ANY chick that needs to gold dig is not something you want to get involved with – it’s a security issue, if a woman can pay for her basics she has lest taste for the men that think they can pick that flower because they have more.

58 year Old Colombia Goer
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58 year Old Colombia Goer
2 years 3 months ago
To me, so-called “decent” women in Colombia who frown on me can go F themselves. There are not many of them, and they are no better as girlfiends than some spoiled head-case back in the states. Which is exactly what I want to avoid. I have learned over the years to spot the ones to avoid. They are the privileged pampered ones who seem to have everything, and they don’t need me, so I don’t need them. Not a problem. On the other hand, I know how to spot the purely mercenary pros with serpentine hearts who only think of my wallet and how to get as much out of it as fast as they can, and I avoid them too. In the great middle though, there are all types. You say girls who make $3000-$5000 a year don’t need help. BS. I give my novia $15,000 a year and she still never seems to have enough for long. She either buys imported clothes or supports her mother and siblings and pretty soon she’s broke again. ANd you might ask why I am so generous? Well, I live near Beverly Hills and remember all the times I dated women I… Read more »
Big Dick tells the truth
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Big Dick tells the truth
3 months 5 days ago

I believe all that you are writing is true. That said, you are a wealthy idiot and your relationship is glorified human trafficking. You make a spreadsheet out of cost effective sex, and dehumanize your impoverished “novia” who’s definitely hooking while you are away. Disgusting. Have fun with your unlearned life. After all, it’s paid for.

Big Rod
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1 year 10 months ago

Love it!!!

Great story. I’m with you a 100% on this one.

Observations are all valid.
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Observations are all valid.
2 years 3 months ago

Your observations are well thought out.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 3 months ago

awesome job and to the point i met and marry a women from colombia 6 years ago and i was just there for work not even looking for a girl friend or wife i found most women there to be homebodies and a sweet hearts but don,t cross them it does not end up good

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 4 months ago

This article of yours is absolutely the truth and informative ! And amazingly match every single fact of the reasons men travel to Colombia ! specially Men in the US. great article that is all I can say

j
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j
2 years 5 months ago

My friends and I went to Colombia. And like u talked in this we hooked up with some hookers. Now one of my friends is totally in love with this girl. We tried to explain to him that kind of relationship is no good. Can you give some kind of tip so we can talk him out of this relationship.

Harriet Logan
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1 year 8 months ago

Don’t worry about it so much. Eventually the hooker herself will talk him out of the ‘relationship’. Some lessons come with a cost, but overall, it will be cheaper than getting a 4 year degree generally is.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 6 months ago

I am from Colombia, I merried a gringo for almost four years and he is older than I 36 years head from me.. Anyway I believe in God since I was a chil my only problem is that I don have money and familia in U.S when I move here with him everythin was perfect and now he is wild we me (I don’t like to drink,smoke,or do thinks that are not healthy) I love fitness organic food and my big dream is to be ablo to go to school for the rest of my life I aldo love to travel hahah! Oh, I didn’t speak Inglish three years ago… So conclusion gringos are not that great people I thought they are. Now I don’t no what to do.

Big Dick tells you the truth
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Big Dick tells you the truth
3 months 5 days ago

You can start doing right now what you didn’t do before: Think. Think hard. Learn from your mistakes. And plan for the future with prudence.

mike
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mike
2 years 5 months ago

I love your comments and opinions and they are very true. Spoken by somebody who has spent time in Colombian and their women. I share the same thoughts and agree with you 100% .

Rebecca
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Rebecca
2 years 5 months ago

I don’t think that there is a need for a guide for men getting laid in Medellin.

What about ME? A hetero-lady?? My experience has been that COL men kiss like 15 year old boys and only know one position. It is mortifying. WE WOMEN need a guide to good sex in Colombia. PLEASE!!

Jack
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Jack
2 years 14 days ago

That’s hilarious Rebecca. I’d love to hear more of your thoughts. I didn’t get to meet too many guys while I was there…a few and they were nice enough. There seems to be a lot of gay guys in Bogota which didn’t matter to me but the women there make it a point to point them out…jajjajajja

Big Dick tells you the truth
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Big Dick tells you the truth
3 months 5 days ago

No one cares that you’re gay, princess.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 5 months ago

I go to Cuba

JD
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JD
2 years 5 months ago

Medellin is the most overhyped city I have ever seen. I live in Colombia as well. If you have the money live in Bogota (much more expensive). Bogota has more of everything, has women from all over the country. Not just salsa bars, better restaurants, museums, art,live music, women are not as big as gold diggers, not as many gringos, or the stigma of gringos with Colombians that you have in Medellin. Medellin have nice weather of course. Poblado is the only place to hang out and it is about 20 blocks. Parque lleras, there are 10 parque lleras en Bogota, For me Medellin is boring, nice weather, but boring, women gold diggers, and you can meet paisas in Bogta, or Calenas, Costenas, and just many more activities and the difference in quality of live music, restaurants, art, if you like to do anything else besides bang hookers Bogota is much better.

Jonathan Ramey
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Jonathan Ramey
2 years 6 months ago
Jessie, This is a fairly accurate look at dating women in latin american countries. However, I am not sure how old you are but I am guessing in your 30’s. Reason is the way you characterize older men who travel to meet women. You stereotype all men over 40 into a creepy old man group. Well I can tell you I am one of those older men you speak of. I started traveling to brazil, colombia and the DR to find a woman to spend my life with. I was in my late 40’s when I divorced and got back into the game. First I didn’t go there because I couldn’t get women young or older. I went because I was tired of attitudes here in america. Further I did date women that were from 19 to 40ish. I have a washboard stomach muscular and have been told by many I am handsome, I know how to dance Bachatta, salsa and meringue as well as samba. As for all men over 50 being fat as you put it maybe you should look at all the fat 20,30 and 40 year olds that are running around. I have been in better… Read more »
David Francis
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4 months 24 days ago

Hi Jonathan,

Interesting to read your comments again. You’ll see mine from nearly two years ago just above yours under the name of Jakartaman. I’ve also been to the DR, ( never Sosua ) mainly in Santo Domingo staying around the Zona Colonial and working some nice Day game on regular girls. Of course, I shouldn’t be able to do that because I’m over 50 and I’m supposed to have a huge beer belly and no game.

I think you’ve pretty much summed up this guy to a ‘T’.I’ve always had my doubts about guys telling other guys how to get laid. If someone has real ‘Game’, they’re usually too busy getting laid to worry about too much else. Of course, the one’s who DON’T have much game and aren’t getting much action are usually the one’s who have the time to sell Pick Up guides. I wonder if that could be the case here? mmmmm

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