How To Get Laid in Colombia… Jesse’s Super Guide!

This guide will answer your two burning questions,

a) How hot are Colombian women, *really*?  And…

b) How good is Colombia for getting laid with hot girls?

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Since I’ve lived between the cities of Medellin and Cartagena for half a year, and also visited Cali, Bogota, Pereira, and Baranquilla, I can give you a pretty accurate psychological profile of Colombian women and the prospects of meeting pretty girls and getting laid there.

First, let’s take a look at the quality of the women.

So Jesse, How Beautiful Are the Women Really?

What the more attractive young women in Cartagena generally look like.

Most men who visit Colombia hype up the beauty of the Colombian women to no end.

But it’s simply NOT true that all Colombian women are head-turners.  In fact, the vast majority of the women are quite “normal” looking.

However, because Colombian women don’t eat junk food and they walk everywhere, they DO tend to be lean and fit.

In addition, the population in Colombia is much younger than the U.S. or Europe.  Just a generation back, couples would typically have 3 to 8 children.  That birth rate has slowed down since to just 2 to 3 children, but the result is lots of 18 to 30 year old women running around today.

In addition, you’ve got a wide variety of ethnic types, depending on what city in Colombia you’re visiting.  The North coast of Cartagena and Baranquilla has darker skinned women, while Medellin has lighter skinned women, and even a few blondes.  Cities like Cali in the South have more cinnamon colored women.  So you can city hop and find all types of women.

In addition, Colombian men are notorious cheaters.  There are no laws protecting women, so women usually end up getting impregnated and then dumped by their Colombian boyfriend or husband.  Because of the competition, there’s additional pressure on the women to maintain their physical appearance.

The video below shows what the idealized girl from Cali looks like – the “10s”.  In Cali, that means a pretty face, cinnamon color skin, a plump ass, athletic body, and breast implants.  Keep in mind these women are not representative of the general female population, most women are nowhere near as attractive or fit.

Medellin is similar, but more white skinned, thinner, and less butt.  This video illustrates the best of Medellin women, the “10s”.

Colombian women are also known as being sexy for how they move and dance– that “Latin Fire” – which is a quality that goes beyond just looks and body.

The video below is of Colombian women showing off.

The photos I’ve posted here are the “crème of the crop” so to speak.  95% of the women however would fall into normal range of body and looks.

So overall, pretty girls but no more so than say, Miami or Los Angelos.

How the women get exaggerated

Girls from Cartagena, Colombia

Still, Colombia gets hyped up as having amazingly stunning and beautiful women.

The reason is that men with no game and who can’t get laid in their home country, especially aging men past their prime, come to Colombia and start getting IOIs (indicators of interest) for he first time in their lives from the women.

Typical scenario: A 50-year old guy with no game and a big belly (let’s call him “Smith”), who never gets eye contact from a girl back home in say, Georgia, suddenly touches ground in Medellin, Colombia and suddenly 30-year old women are making eye contact with him.

Add to that, Smith hasn’t traveled much before, and being in a new country feels exciting.  He feels young again and his testosterone is pumping.

Smith has a date with a MILF that he set up on Amigos.com beforehand, bangs a few hookers, gets some eye contact from the local ladies, and then goes back home to Georgia telling everyone that Colombia has absolutely the hottest women on the planet, and that the U.S. only has ugly “fem-cunts” who won’t give him the time of day.

It’s not that your typical 20 year old girl in Colombia is any hotter than your typical 20 year old girl in Miami or Los Angeles.  She isn’t.

But to the old guy Smith who hasn’t gotten laid in over ten years, he’s suddenly being validated with eye contact, he’s on a travel high, his ego shoots through the roof, and he thinks he’s in pussy and hot women paradise.

The truth is, his opinions are wrapped up in his own ego.  He is in no way objective.

So take heed that you can meet just as beautiful women in the U.S. or Europe as long as your game is tight and you don’t shit on your body with fast food.

Okay, now onward…

Getting Laid in Colombia

Medellin hottie

The second question is, is it easier to get laid in Colombia than in the United States?

Well, yes… and no.

The answer is complex, because it depends on who you are and what your goals are.

The reality is, getting laid in Colombia can actually be surprisingly difficult.

Just as a Colombian may mistakenly believe that the streets of the U.S.A. are paved in gold and money, you would be mistaken to believe that the streets of Colombia paved in easy women.

Yes, Colombia has hookers.  In fact, that’s why most gringos go.  You’ll find fat, middle-aged Gringos with absolutely no game fulfilling their dreams of banging a young woman… by paying for it.

But this guide isn’t about shagging disease-ridden hookers.  It’s about meeting regular, quality Colombian women.

Here’s what’s GREAT about Colombian women!

Cartagena girls

1. You are a Gringo, and therefore a desired commodity!

If your native language is English, you’re different, exotic, and assumed to be high status.

There aren’t too many gringos in Colombia, because most are either (a) falsely too scared to go (b) too broke (c) have no passport (d) or just don’t know about Colombia.

So you pretty much have the run of the place to yourself.  For every one Gringo there, there’s about 20 girls who would love to date a cool Gringo.  So you’ve got high status right off the bat.  Expect women to give you indicators of interest, even if you’re not the best looking guy.

You’ll even be more in the money if you take 20 minutes to dye your hair blonde and get blue colored contacts!

More Cartagena babes

2. Age differences are not a big deal!

In Colombia, you’ll see 45 year old guys dating 20 year old women.  I’ve even met an ugly 50 year old dude, who lived in Colombia, dating a woman in her mid-20s.

In Colombia, there’s far less social stigma about age differences.  It’s okay for a woman to marry a much older gentlemen, as long as he can provide for her.

I’ve seen older gentlemen with young women in the U.S. too, but you need real game to pick up a younger woman, because there’s more social stigma against it.  If you’ve got game and you hook up with that younger 18 year old, you’ll often meet push-back from her family and parents.  Not so in Colombia!

3. Colombia is good for day game

The U.S. is a real car culture; we drive everywhere.  And for that reason, many cities are lame for meeting women during the day.  You’re pretty much restricted to your local mall or bookstore.

Colombia however relies far more on good ole’ fashioned walking, buses, trains, and public transit.  Not only does it keep the women nominally fit, it also makes it easy to meet them.

You can go for a stroll in any neighborhood and have non-stop daytime sets for daytime game.  Great!

And Here’s why Colombia Is Often HARD For Getting Laid

Party in Medellin

Colombia sounds like pussy paradise, right?  Not so fast cowboy!

Colombia is actually a *difficult* place to lay a bunch of hot girls.  And here’s why.

1. Gringos, while status symbols, also have a bad reputation.

Yes, it’s a paradox.  As a gringo, you’re exotic and desired.

At the same time, gringos have a reputation for shamelessly chasing prostitutes.  And that’s exactly what 90% of the gringos there do.

These gringos have zero game and have no interest in learning game.  They just prefer to pay for cheap, easy sex.

Consequently, regular Colombian women will not sleep with you so easily.  They’re suspicious that you’re in Colombia just there to hook up with prostitutes.  And they feel if they sleep with you right away, you will just fuck them and dump them, like a prostitute.

Also, Colombian women who hook up with a gringo too fast may fear her reputation becomes tarnished.  “She had sex with a gringo after the first date?… hmm, maybe he paid her!” goes the thinking there.

So it can look bad to be seen in public with a gringo too quickly, even though you’re simultaneously a status symbol.  Fucked up, right?

That means the girls will throw you lots of IOIs – eye contact for instance.  But it’s quite difficult to actually get their pants off.

Compare that to the United States.  Yes, it’s more difficult to get IOIs from the girls in the U.S.  But once you’re “in” with a girl, she’s much more liberal about jumping into bed with you.

2. Colombian women are sexually mistrustful of men in general.

More Medellin women

Colombian men have a notorious reputation for being massive cheaters.

First, there are very few laws for protecting women.  A Colombian man can bang a girl, get her pregnant, and move on to another girl with little consequence.  He need not fear paying child support.

Thus, you’ll find an enormous number of abandoned single mothers in Colombia… and deadbeat Dads.  And as a result, women are mistrustful of men in general – and extremely jealous if they’ve got a man.

This kind of culture is NOT conducive for breeding sexually liberated, promiscuous women.  Instead, a Colombian woman is inclined to date you without putting out for a long period of time to gauge your “faithfulness level” first.  Once you demonstrate that you’ll be faithful and you’re trustworthy, only then will she sleep with you.

It’s not true across the board, but Colombian women are generally quite cautious about men.

3. The Catholic Church.

Old-school religion still touches Colombia deeply.  While the Church’s grip on sexual morality is continually loosening, there’s still much guilt surrounding sex.

Colombia is NOT like Sweden where casual sex is accepted.  In an agnostic country like Sweden, a young women will meet you in the club, take you home that night, introduce you to her parents, and walk you right into her bedroom and fuck you with her parents able to listen in.  Not so in Colombia… noooooooooo way!

Women are deeply concerned about their reputation and the Catholic Church is a powerful moralizing and guilt-creating factor.

4. Nightlife is very social circle oriented.

Partying in Cartagena

In a U.S. or European bar or club, it’s a mingling culture.

Yes, in the U.S. girls go out with their friends and in groups.  But it’s perfectly acceptable to forcefully interject yourself into the group and mingle.  Most guys have too much approach anxiety to do it, but the fact is that the logistics are on your side.  Women stand in small groups and are open to mingle.  As long as you’ve got some balls, it’s easy to meet women.

That’s not so much the case in Colombia.  Women go out in large groups of friends with other guys, and they tend to sit and socialize in their group.

The women are out with other guys because (a) Colombian culture dictates women need to be protected and chaperoned at all times by male friends and (b) women go with men because guys are expected to pay.

In the U.S. or Europe, you can walk around and mingle.  But in Colombia the logistics in many night spots are far less favorable for you.

5. Most young women still live with their conservative and watchul parents and family.

Cartagena women

Colombia is a poor country.  A young woman can expect to earn $300 to $500 USD per month.  Consequently, a young woman will continue living in her parents home until she gets married.

As a result, most young Colombian women are not independent.  Her parents can watch her every move, and they know who she’s going out with and where she’s going at all times.

In addition, typically her grandparents are also living in the house.  And her unemployed brother.  And her uncle lives next door.

Yes… she’s got a lot of family pressure on her, and her reputation is at stake!

If you call her to schedule a date, her parents will know.  So before agreeing to meet you, or even take your call, she has to deal with her family – and family comes first in Colombia.

Will her parents judge her reputation?  Will they judge negatively that she’s meeting a gringo?  Is this gringo out for just sex, and what will my parents think?

There’s enormous pressure on her then to NOT sex you up even if she does agree to meet with you.

6. The older women tend to be single mothers… and busy.

Medellin MILFs

Most available, single women over age 26 will already have children – and be a single mother.  Not only is she broke on a meager Colombian income, but she needs to work long hours and she’s got kids to take care of.

She’ll be eager to date you because she’ll see you as her and her children’s ticket out of poverty.  That doesn’t mean she isn’t genuinely attracted.  She is genuinely attracted.  But her circumstances dictate that she won’t sleep with you that easily.

She’s looking for a financially steady and responsible man who will support her emotionally and financially and accept her children – a provider.  So she’s going to want to date you, size you up, and see if you’re real marriage material.

Again, not conducive for easy hook ups.

What this all means

Your typical Colombian female has enormous family pressure.  There’s religious guilt.  She’s not independent.  And she’s afraid that you, as a gringo, are just after hookers and quick sex.

If she puts out fast with a gringo, she’ll get a reputation as a prostitute.  So your typical girl, no matter how much she’s attracted to you, will string you along for weeks, if not months.  And the more she likes you, the more she’ll want to string you along to see if you’re serious about making her your exclusive girlfriend or wife.

To Get Colombian Girls, Here’s What You Need!

Have I scared you yet?  Do you still want to play the game?  Okay, here’s 3 essentials you’ll need under your belt before going if you want any kind of success at all.

#1. You need enough balls to cold approach

Can’t do a cold approach in your home country?  Then you’ll find yourself no more confident in Colombia either.  And you’ll meet exactly ZERO girls.

Women will give you lots of IOIs perhaps, looking your way.  But they will NOT approach you… EVER.

My forceful recommendation is to approach at least 3 women a day in your home country for 30 days straight.  Once you can do that, you’re ready to go to Colombia.

And if you can’t meet 6s and 7s in your home country, you won’t be able to meet girls in Colombia either.

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#2. You need time.

You’re going to be in Colombia a just a week you say?  That’s not enough time to hook up with a girl, even if your game skills are mad tight.

Colombia is more a place you need to go to actually *live* there for *months* to really hook up with hot women.

Medellin women

#3. You need Spanish.

If you can’t speak a word of Spanish, you won’t even be able to make a basic connection with a girl.

Most Colombians don’t speak any English.  And if you can’t speak a word of Spanish, the girl will assume you’re just there looking for easy hook-ups with prostitutes.

So it’s key to do the 90 lessons of Pimsleur for Spanish before you go, which will be enough Spanish to see you through your trip.  Don’t go though before you’ve done all 90 lessons!

Who Colombia is good for… and who should skip it

The “Way Beyond AFC”

The AFC has never approached a girl before.  He has massive approach anxiety.  He “knows” game in theory, but has never put it into practice.

He thinks going to Colombia will be a quick fix to hooking up.

My recommendation: If you can’t at least approach a girl in your home country, you’ll have just as much trouble meeting women in Colombia.

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The “Monger”

This guy has $500 to blow on a debauched sex-filled marathon of hookers.  He doesn’t care about meeting regular women, he just wants to pay for quick and easy pu-tang.

My recommendation: Most gringos go to Colombia for exactly that.  And the sexually conservative Catholic culture, coupled with economic poverty and legal prostitution, has created a high demand for girls willing to spread their legs on command.  If you just want hookers, Colombia will work for you.

The “Fast-Strike PUA”

This guy has decent game.  He can meet girls back home, but he’s only got a week or two to vacation in Colombia.

My recommendation: You’ll get IOIs and phone numbers, but you’ll be unlikely to hook up with a quality girl.  You’re better off going to Europe or to Brazil where girls also like Americans, but they’re far more likely to partake in quick sex.

The “Passive Incomer”

You’ve got passive income of $1,000 monthly or more (4 hour workweek style), and you want to hang out in Colombia for months, if not years.  You’ve got the time to learn Spanish and practice game on the local women.

My recommendation: Colombia can be a great option.  It’s cheap, and you’ll have time to meet a beautiful girl and get her into bed.  Still, Colombia is far better for the guy looking for one, quality woman than it is for lots of one-night stands.

The “Cradle Robber”

This guy is older and looking to hook up with a far younger woman as his girlfriend.  He has lots of time to spend finding her and courting her.

My recommendation: If you’ve got months to work the scene, Colombia can be a great option for you.  The women are pretty, and larger age differences are socially accepted.  Some of the old farts who retired and are living there have girlfriends 20 and 30 years younger than themselves.

The “Night Life Partier”

You’ve got good game and you want to tongue down girls in night clubs and bars and go wild.  You’re looking to pull girls home for one night stands.

My recommendation: Skip Colombia.  You’re far better off in slutty, college party culture like Cancun during Spring Break, or just back in the good old U.S.A.

The “Hot Girlfriend Seeker”

You just want to meet a hot chick for an exclusive, long-term relationship.  You speak Spanish, you’ve got decent game, and you’ve got time to be down there.

My recommendation: The same facts that make Colombian women are hard to bed also makes them extremely loyal – and almost scarily possessive – girlfriends.  If you think you can maintain sexual faithfulness in return, and you’ve got some months to meet and court a hot girl down there, Colombia can be a good option to find a hot girlfriend and eventual potential wife to settle down and have children with.

Don’t let her catch you in the arms of another woman though – she’ll cut your balls off!

Let’s Wrap This Up…

Still want to meet Colombian babes in their native homeland?  There ARE some real hotties down there.

But it completely depends on your goals with women… and your lifestyle circumstances.  Hopefully this guide has helped to clarify your options and shed light into the wonderfully complex psychology of Colombian women.

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  1. It is interesting article but poor researched, the author seems very uneducated, and does not really know about Colombian culture and its people. Colombian women, we are not different than North American Women, you cannot generalized, every individual is different and Colombian women we are very independent and do not like to depend on men, we do not call men providers because we can provide for ourselves . However, educated Colombian men knows how to treat women with respect as opposed to North American men. I left my family, work and friends and married a North American guy and no, I was not poor how this article illustrates. I was shocked coming to the U.S, spent all my savings and find out with a hard reality of human trafficking. This guy put a $ amount on me as a person, he wanted a sexual and domestic slave,and at the same time time forced me to sleep with other people because that is what pleased him. I was trapped, thank you God, I am saved now , but with no family, or friends. I would suggest to the author of this article to educate himself first before write such of degraded comments about Colombian women and culture. In Colombia we respect North Americans and we expect to be respected as well.

    1. Silvia you are right to have all these mixed feelings at this person, I am a Colombian woman living in the US with an American boyfriend as well, and also came here with my own money to do grad school and it wasn’t until I was getting done with that, that i met my boyfriend (true love if anyone wants to believe in that stuff still). But there are some things true in this article, in spite of the chauvinistic nature of its writing, we are not like american women in many ways. Women in America think they need to be all that and not show they ever care about or want a male partner, so that they can show themselves as strong and independent. The reason for that is rooted in the fact that separations here are much more relevant than anywhere in our country; men vs women, white vs black, Republicans vs Democrats, its all a fight here, there’s always someone to compare you and be better than, and don’t get me wrong, that makes for a lot of successful people here. But the truth is that they secretly desire someone but don’t know how to retain him because americans are not thought to tolerate. They are so independent that they say good bye to the first sign of disscontempt with out giving it a chance. The first sign of this comes when as a teenager, the parents can not wait to get them out of the house. From a very young age the people who are in charge of showing nurture, compassion and support, are the same ones to show intolerance and distance between the people you care about. This makes american man think they can’t get with anyone in their country, because why bother with someone that they will never tolerate even a single stupidity from? And vice versa, and therefor is easier to find the way out and just get around with one night stands and an eternal quest of getting laid forever. In Colombia, we are all friends and we are very close within our social circles and yes we hangout with male friends because we live in a dangerous country where we don’t want to fall in the wrong hands, but that doesn’t mean we are less strong or independent, we are just very caring about our people. And yes we love our families and are very close to them and we tend to live with our parents until advanced ages, but that doesn’t make us any less self-sufficient. We simply are more loving people with less barriers put against everyone, we welcome all, black, white, asian, poor, rich, european, “gringo’, men or women, etc. It is true that men in Colombia haven’t acquired the sense of responsibility to determine a mate for life, and therefor treat divorces as the simple way out, so why not throw it all away in the first attempt? And this is a sad but true fact, so lets be responsible for our bad. But not to generalise since good Colombian men are out there as well and respectful of woman and marriage, like verywhere else. The truth is this article is not enraging because of the stereotypes it bring out, but because of the point of view of that who writes it and to whom he writes it. We will never be able to do anything about there being poor uncultured men who, in a desperate attempts, in front of their own incapability to meet women, had to recur to people like the writer of this article. He’s simply providing for all those animalistic at heart that never cared to evolved into more mature beings and those are the one you and me are now safe from, thank God. We can just expect that the ones playing the game will also enjoy it on some level, and that no one gets hurt at it, nor the girls, nor the poor SOBs trying to “get laid” just for the fun of it. The writer could in fact have demonstrated a bit more culture and not be so crude on his words who could so easily be rephrase not to sound misogynous and, lets face it, jerky! And somehow this article could have been successful to educate and culture men in finding different experiences abroad with the opposite sex, instead of making it a guide to shove their d***s into a foreigner’s vagina, and contributing to the ignorance at heart of the human race and its search for a better quality of living. So don’t be angered at the ignorant for they don’t know what their doing :)

  2. Hello. I want to go to Cali.. Where are the places, the bars and clubs I need to go to and what’s the prices to be with them

  3. This is all old school, the % of bautyfull Colombian woman is equal all over the world and they are as hard to get as anny woman in the world for a comon man.
    Having traveled in 54 countries Aand being maried for 25 yaers and with a 15 year younger woman now I think I now.
    What is thrue is the age difierence is less a thing in Colombia but if you can have a 15 year younger educated woman in Europe you can get one everywhere.

  4. You don’t need to go to Colombia so much as to simply learn some workable Spanish and have the time and money to stay in one place a bit. If you don’t speak any Spanish,, then go some place in Latin America and study it some. I am speaking from experience here. If you have a decent attitude, you as an English speaking man will be popular if you take the time to go abroad. True for women in the same situation as well.

  5. Great article but where I would differ in your opinion is the fact that it is in fact very easy to get laid in Colombia, and I’m not talking hookers. I’ve spent time all over this great country and have met and slept with many very attractive hot women, many who I still have contact with.

  6. Interesting topic and quite accurate for most points!

    I’m in my late 20s. I’m Canadian. In Colombia, I am never depicted as one since I’m of Asian origin. I speak a fluent Spanish (95%), with little accent (French is my first language and it’s close to Spanish – so I don’t have that thick accent most native English speakers have) and I’m south-east Asian so I have tropical traits (light tanned skin). I’m different but I easily blend in.

    One thing I realized from this forum is that many people seem insecure and keep asking questions like: “If I’m blonde with blue eyes, do I have a chance?” I’m 60 and muscular, do I have a chance?” Truth is, if you have a brain and a good personality, you will always have a chance. Colombian women are human… They have their own tastes. You can’t expect all Colombian women to like gringos. Some even have preference for Asian men (trust me, my wife is Colombian).

    Get to know them! You don’t just date or marry a girl just because she is good looking. A lot of women are good looking in Colombia but not all of them can be wifey material. Just be respectful, don’t be an ass, and have confidence. When a woman shows you signs of interest, be friendly and talkative. Yes even Asian men (apparently we don’t have game) can be successful in Colombia.

    Here’s my experience:

    I visited a few cities of the interior (Medellin and Bogota) but I will mainly talk about the Caribbean coast). I have lived in Cartagena for 14 months now and I often travel to Barranquilla to visit my wife’s family. I like the coast better to the interior (safer, more laid back, warm weather, the sea). I feel the women on the coast are more traditional, but also easier to talk to and more fun.

    I met some women in Bogota, they were very formal and polite but kinda distant, + I wasn’t attracted to most women there (they’re not all ugly, just not what I prefer). I didn’t like Medellin so much. Women are beautiful but many are stuck-up. I spent about 2 weeks there and all I heard about was how Medellin is the center of the world and the best place on Earth. I was bored.

    Colombia is pretty diversed ethnically. It’s true that you find more dark skinned girl in Cartagena and Barranquilla (and I also like them a lot) but you can also find women of all colors in any city. My wife is white. Her dad is from Santander and is half-Italian, her mom is from Barranquilla and is half-Venezolana (quite a mix) but this is pretty common in Barranquilla (I know many Colombians of German, Italian, Arabic origins) in Quilla.

    Barranquilla is my personal favorite. The happy index declared Colombia to be the happiest country in the world (2014) and the city showing the highest index is Barranquilla. People are very laid-back, friendly and happy. Women in Barranquilla are very humble, they are hard-working and the social gap is not as huge as in Cartagena. Some comments posted were very degrading to lower-class/mid-class women. In Cartagena you would most likely have to aim for a high-class Cartagenera if you want an educated open-minded woman. The middle-class is more developed in Quilla, and a lot of them are educated and the city have top-universities in the country (Universidad del Norte – Simon Bolivar).

    From what I read on the forum, it seems that high-class women from the interior (Bogota-Medellin) are not much interested in “gringos” since they don’t need their money (as if it was the only thing that a foreigner has). A lot of women in Quilla are interested in foreign man, and it’s had nothing to do with their money, really. They are curious, open-minded and eager to learn about other cultures. The Barranquillera is mostly happy and satisfied with what she has. Cost of living is VERY low and they are not pretentious. They are charming, they love loud music, they love to dance and they know how to please their man. They are beautiful and really take care of themselves. I think the Barranquilleras are amongst the most beautiful women in Colombia.

    I make a decent salary in Colombia but I’m not rich. Yet I have a beautiful Colombian wife. My wife is 22 y.o. Comes from a mid class family but lives in a low-class but safe neighbourhood. Her family is well educated (one brother is a lawyer and a navy officer, the other is a doctor) and my wife works in criminology. So I am not buying the pattern that you need to aim for a high-class Colombian woman to find a good wife. You just need to get to know people well. Unless you want to spend all your money in a glamorous life-style which is really not necessary to find a good and beautiful Colombian woman.

    It’s true that most women still live at their parents until they get married. One reason is the salary and the other one is the importance of family in Colombian culture. It doesn’t not mean than she cannot be independant and that she will rely on you to provide. I know I have a good wife because we work as a team. We both live in Cartagena which is an expensive city and we both work because we want to be together. A good woman will show efforts for the relationship too.

  7. Great article.

    And for you older guys, don’t take offense to the fat and bad comments, he’s just stating the truth. Anybody who’s ever been on the mongering scene or spent time in gringo infested areas (of any country) knows this to be true. If you keep yourself in great shape kudos to you. I probably fall into that older guy category myself (47) so I’m right there with you. Except for the fat part. :)

    The only thing I want to add is that for those of you looking to meet a “regular girl” in the cities where mongering (i.e, guys looking for prostitutes) is common, if not rampant, the “regular girls” often move between both worlds.

    Just like some guys who do business with prostitutes are ultimately looking for a serious relationship, some women work both sides of the coin as well.

    Her dating profile says she’s looking for a serious relationship (she probably is) and has a day job. But she’s also open to spending time with a decent looking guy just looking for a few hours or days of companionship who are willing to pay for it. Very often these girls are “universitarias” – college girls acting as escorts on the side. But no means are college girls the only ones doing it. Or maybe she flat out works the clubs/bars too. Prostitutes can found everywhere, not just in whorehouses. She meets me and I become a client, she meets you and falls in love. The difference is I’m just a client, so I know what she does for a living. You, the guy she falls in love with, are a prospective husband or a long term boyfriend. She’ll carry the story of her secret life as a prostitute to grave out of fear of losing you.

    I could go on, but I think (hope) you guys get my point. You never know what you’re walking into, so be careful out there guys!

  8. How about the guys that go to Columbia on the romance tours looking for a wife not just a quickie in bed. I hear many of them are successful in finding a woman of their dreams.