Female Ejaculation Orgasms – A Complete Guide

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Can women really ejaculate like men do?

Yes.  And the idea discovery isn’t new.  Even as far back as the 1700’s it was commonly thought that female ejaculation was required to conceive a baby.

Female ejaculate is produced and released from the body’s Skene glands, also called the paraurethral glands.  The quantity, size and placement of the Skene glands vary from woman to woman, but all women have them.

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The Skene Glands

During sexual arousal the Skene glands fill up with the same ejaculate fluid as in men but without the sperm.  All women produce female ejaculate at least in small amounts varying from a few drops to a few teaspoons.  The ejaculate fluid is clear, milky, and odorless with a watery consistency.  Female ejaculate is not urine.

When ejaculate fluid shoots from the Skene glands through the urethra when she cums, it causes a more powerful and intense orgasm, similar to the way a liquid rushing through the penis creates an intense climax in a man.  The “exploding” sensation of the rushing hot liquid adds to the intensity.  As long as she ejaculates, it feels extra terrific.

Urine versus Ejaculate Fluid

You may have watched porn or heard stories where the woman ejaculated quarts across the bed in streaming jets.  However, biologically the Skean glands can only produce a few teaspoons of ejaculate fluid at a time.  Any more than a few teaspoons and she is shooting a mixture of ejaculate fluid and diluted urine.  About half the women who learn to ejaculate expel a mixture.  The women in porn are intentionally squirting urine to put on a show, not ejaculating.  Nevertheless, it still feels great for her.

Some women produce so little ejaculate that it’s not even noticeable.  At best, a little may drip out rather than squirt.  So don’t believe those that would claim that every woman can ejaculate and those who don’t are missing out.  This only pressures a woman to do something she may not be biologically equipped to do.

How to trigger ejaculation

Women who have their G-spot stimulated tend to report ejaculation more often then women who don’t.  Some women can orgasm and ejaculate when their G-spot alone is stimulated.  For some women the urge to ejaculate may never occur without G-spot stimulation.

However, this doesn’t mean that all women need G-spot stimulation for ejaculation to occur.  Many women learn to ejaculate without and G-spot stimulation at all.  It just seems that stimulation of the G-spot makes fluid expulsion more likely to occur for most women, but not all.  A woman can learn to ejaculate under any kind of stimulation as long as when she orgasms, her pelvic muscles contract intensely enough to expel the ejaculate fluid.

G-spot stimulation

The Grafenberg spot (commonly referred to as the “G-spot”) is an area on the front wall of the vagina, about two inches in, which is often found to be extremely sensitive to stimulation.

When you give a woman an orgasm through G-spot stimulation, she may ejaculate.  Female ejaculation for many women is most easily accomplished the first time with G-spot stimulation but this is far from a hard rule.

Also, G-spot response varies from woman to woman.  Some will love it, others won’t.  Be flexible with how she responds to you.

Explain the process to her

Her first ejaculation through G-spot stimulation, if she’s even capable of it, may take from ten minutes to over an hour.  So you may be in for a workout!

Before beginning the first time, tell her that you want to try giving her an ejaculation and that female ejaculation is perfectly normal and a wonderful experience.  Tell her that most women tend to most easily ejaculate with G-spot stimulation.  Don’t begin until she’s not embarrassed or ashamed about it.

Also, explain that just prior to ejaculation, she may feel like she’s about to pee.  I first encountered this phenomenon years before I knew female ejaculation existed.  I was rubbing my girlfriend’s G-spot when she suddenly felt the urge to pee.  Tell her that if this happens, she should relax her bladder and allow the fluid to pass and press out as if peeing.  Otherwise, if she follows her initial instinct to stop peeing the ejaculation will stop!  Tell her that the feeling is simply a sign that she is about to ejaculate and if there is any urine at all it will be just a little and diluted.

Warm her up first

Now that she knows about your little experiment, don’t just dive in for her G-spot right away.  Unless she’s highly aroused, her G-spot won’t respond to your touch and her Skene glands won’t have had a chance to fill with ejaculate fluid.  So first stimulate her clitoris and vulva with your tongue or fingers until she’s hot and very wet.

The G-spot Technique

Have her lay on her back with legs spread apart.  Lay down between her legs into a position where you can insert your fingers into her easily.  Make sure that your fingernails are cut short and trim, otherwise she’ll have G-sore where her G-spot use to be.  Wet your index finger (it’s the one closest to your thumb) with lubricant, even if her pussy is dripping wet.

Turn your palm up and signal with your index finger to make a hook.  Imagine you want to signal to someone across the room to come toward you with a “come hither” motion.  In this finger position, feel your way along the upper front wall of the vagina with your finger.  Assuming she’s highly aroused you should encounter an area about two inches in which should feel somewhat enlarged or rough.  It is located almost directly behind the clitoris.  This is the G-spot.

Initially, stroke her G-spot with your finger slowly, rubbing it with a very soft up and down motion, as if rubbing a soap bubble you don’t want to break.

If she’s getting hot, start pushing harder.  Gradually increase pressure until as much pressure you’d use to write on a fogged window.  As you stroke her G-spot with your lubricated finger, you must also stimulate her clitoris at the same time with your other hand or mouth and tongue.

Always maintaining a constant and steady rhythm.  Maintain some level of constant pressure on the spot until the very end.  Don’t pull out your finger and always return to the nook for the beginning and end of every movement.

You can vary your stroke in a number of ways; listed below are some strokes you can test.  Watch her reaction to see what she likes the best.

Single finger stroke

This is the stroke you should start out with.  With her laying on her back, turn your palm up and signal with your index finger with a “come hither” motion.

Double finger stroke

Same as the single finger stroke, but use two fingers instead of one.

Walking finger stroke

Use two fingers as you would in the double finger stroke, but move them in opposite strides of each other as if your fingers were walking.

Penetration finger stroke

Slide two fingers out a fraction of an inch and push them back in, similar to the in-and-out motion of intercourse, but with smaller strokes.

When you feel her vagina contracting and she nears orgasm, stroke more rapidly.  Apply a firmer touch if she enjoys it, otherwise stroke more rapidly but gently.  Encourage her by saying, “You’re getting it, go for it, don’t worry, relax and let it come.”  Tell her how erotic you find it for her to ejaculate.  Remind her at this point to relax her bladder and press out as if urinating.

The Finale

When she orgasms, her vagina may push your finger outward.  Don’t pull out!  Instead, press in gently.  A surprising amount of fluid might shoot out.  If it’s more than a few teaspoons, it’s a mixture of female ejaculate and diluted urine – so watch your eyes!

On the other hand, she may orgasm and not ejaculate any fluid.  Ejaculation takes practice and might not happen for her the first time; for other women the amount is so small that even if you’re successful it may be too little to notice.

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Unlike for a man, this is not the end.  Women’s capacity for pleasure is enormous.  If she’s capable of multiple or serial orgasms, she can also have multiple ejaculations with further stimulation.  Either way, the final result will most likely be the most intense and pleasurable sex she’s ever had.

Don’t get too caught up in associating G-spot stimulation with female ejaculation.  For many women, stimulating her G-spot makes ejaculation easier the first few times.  But once she starts ejaculating easily and becomes comfortable and familiar with the process, she can learn to have powerful, liquid squirting orgasms with clitoral stimulation alone.

The stomach and knees position

If she has trouble reaching orgasm after a number of tries, having her lie on her back may not be the best position.  Instead, have her roll over on her stomach and get up on her knees so that her butt is in the air. You’ll find it easier to stimulate her G-spot in this position, and she might respond better.  Coming from behind her, slide your index finger back into her vagina, facing downward in a hook.  Find her G-spot and stroke it as discussed above.  Use your other hand, lubricated of course, to stimulate her clitoris at the same time.

Another variation to try while she’s on her stomach and knees is to instead insert your thumb into her vagina and stroke the G-spot.  Take your other two fingers and lay them down on her clitoris.  Allow the entire curve of your hand between the thumb and forefinger to lie along her vagina and clit.  Stroke with your thumb and rub her clit with your other two fingers at the same time.

G-spot Vibrators

Sometimes the best way to have a woman learn how to ejaculate is to have her drive the car herself.  A woman can’t comfortably reach her G-spot with her own hands, so buy her a vibrator specially design for G-spot stimulation.  She’ll have better control of where to stroke and how fast, how much pressure to apply and learn what feels best to her.  G-spot vibrators are marked by a curved head and most cost $20 or less.

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Layla
1 month 11 days ago

I just had a hysterectomy like seven weeks ago. I still have my ovaries. But before my surgery, my clitorial ejaculation wasn’t urine. It was just straight clear liquid that didn’t smell like anything. Now when I do it, every since my hysterectomy, it’s always urine and strong. I don’t like this fact. Can somebody tell me what’s going on because my surgeon could not.

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Dallas
8 months 14 days ago

I can have gushing O’s through clitorial stimulation, some real sheet soaking….have always read that it is only possible through g-spot stimulation. This is not the case for me. On occasion when I have experienced multiple O’s, I have gushed more than once.

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Dick C. Normas
1 year 20 days ago

I have been with a woman in her forties off and on for six months now. She wanted to learn to squirt and dammit, I made it my goal! First time out, got her to squirt! It was so much, so long that it filled my cupped hand and we both heard it spraying out. I can understand a certain amount was probably urine but it did not smell nor taste like urine at all. She is multi-orgasmic and gushes all of the time now. She soaks the sheets! Men need to learn to take their time with a woman and do it for HER because I guarantee you will get a thrill out of it too and become addicted!! It’s best in your face while you are down between her glorious thighs!!

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Chiquita
1 year 20 days ago

I’d experienced for the first time at my 50 years old. My ex- boyfriend becomes an expert! Now we are no longer together. After months I still trying every way possible and is not working! :(

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Anonymous
1 year 27 days ago

I’m glad to have read this. I’ve always wanted to educate myself more in this area of my life. I would get very self conscious with my husband because at times I would feel like I was leaving more of a mess rather than pleasing him or myself. I now know certain things are normal for me and don’t feel so odd when making love to him and not drying up because I’m SO self conscious when doing so.

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Amber
1 year 1 month ago

I love my vibrator, a man never made me squirt until I made myself :-) but it started looking like urin :/ I try to play with myself now only it’s not working :/ even sex with my man, no climax :/

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Anonymous
1 year 3 months ago

Haha, I always seem to push my husband out when it happens. Leading up to the gushing release, I imagine and focus on the sensation of “pulling in”, doing quick inward breaths. As I’m doing that I am sort of sucking in, pulling in with my vagina while applying direct stimulation to my clit. Never needed G-spot stimulation, it’s been super easy and natural like this since I was a teenager.

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Dave
1 year 3 months ago

Now how do u do this while having sex?

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Anonymous
1 year 4 months ago

Always gush lots of liquid while on top leaning forward , first time I thought I peed on him, it felt so good though , it happened again while on my knees he behind me

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kotcha
1 year 5 months ago

my women killed my bed sheets thnx man any videos like kamasutra

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hiPpiE
1 year 6 months ago

I have ponder that many times. I didn’t think a woman could blast off as a man. That means I’ve had some women lie to me and worked me to death. Thank you kindly for the info!

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Regina
1 year 7 months ago

Giiiive me the bacon dick

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eggman
1 year 7 months ago

When I eat my wife in the 69 position she will orgasm fast and hard. I give her about 10 to 15 seconds to relax and I pull her back and she will orgasm again, I do this about 5 times to her till she cannot take anymore. But she will want me to eat her while she is on her back while she orgasm 2 to 3 times before I fuck her to more orgasms. She has not squirt yet.

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sachin ghadge patil
1 year 9 months ago

Without any Fees I m ready to do it

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Amarasinghe Pathiranage Nishanthi Paradeepika Amarasinghe
1 year 10 months ago

needed very much

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nice
1 year 10 months ago

nice seems intresting

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rich
2 years 1 month ago

very informative. m gonna forward the same to my guy! nice work :-)

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Walt
2 years 1 month ago

Wonderful article, and now i have the confidence to help my wife to a new level of pleasure. I know that seeing her “squirt” will be the bigest turnon for me ever. Keep up the great work

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Shelly
2 years 2 months ago

You should know that my boyfriend tried this about 5 years ago. No organsim. In fact years of urinary tract issues and dozens of urology visits. Intercistitional cystitis.
Inflammation of the bladder.

Please warn the boys to be general and to let go if it’s not happening. Not all G spots are in that location.

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samudin
2 years 2 months ago

bayti

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samudin
2 years 2 months ago

bati

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Anonymous
8 months 26 days ago

I have done this for years & the release is incredible Gals – don’t wait for someone to find it-practice, practice, practice. Guys really seem to love making someone squirt :)

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Frank
2 years 3 months ago

I’ll have to let my wife read this article. She has squirted a number of times but only when we were engrossed in the tantalizing world of incest role play.

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floridagirl
2 years 4 months ago

I have a friend who’s been practicing this technique and while I think I should be squirting.. Its literally just pee. It soaks the sheets. My whole body starts to shake and he tells me to let go, he doesn’t care if I urinate, he just wants me to cum. How can I just cum and not pee? Its gross. Help

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makasih atas infonya sangat menarik

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Anonymous
2 years 5 months ago

I am 33 n have 3 children my current partner get frustrated with me n says I try everything n u still don’t cum I’m starting to think its me n there is something wrong there I don’t ejaculate during sex n lattely I am finding I don’t ejaculate during the g spot proses either wat do I do??? K fear that a time will come when my partner isn’t going to want sex with me at all???
Pls help

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Derk
2 years 6 months ago

Wow this post is awesome !!!

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Ismael N.D
2 years 6 months ago

From this lesson i learn more thing that i had ever know. Great way to orgasm a women. I’m so proud from now i know everything. Thanks for your lesson guy.

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sxynsassy1
2 years 6 months ago

im trying to learn how to do this with my partner, no luck yet. here is my question. we seem to be getting close, but it is almost like a cramping feeling instead of like i have to pee…is this normal? up to this point it is amazing, i get right to the point where i can feel im going to go over and then i feel like the cramping feeling, is the only way to describe it, i have tried to relax my bladder, to push out and i just cant seem to get beyond it. im not sure if im doing it wrong or what.

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Diana
2 years 6 months ago

I had wanted to squirt for the longest time, and I finally did. It was an amazing sensation! you can feel your vagina throbbing with a need of a release. It does feel like you have to go pee, but don’t hold it in! (make sure you go to the washroom before though) Relax yourself and just let it go – you don’t really need to try to push it out – when you get to your peak, you’ll just come. My boyfriend was stimulating my clitoris with his tongue and had me wide open. I could feel a tingly sensation in my legs too so I knew I was going to squirt. I also found that if my boyfriend rubbed my clit in a sideways motion that it helped me reach that peak a lot faster, it also helps if your partner uses his tongue or a softer touch with lots of lubricant. At least, it worked for me and my boy!

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Amazing
2 years 6 months ago

At 55 years of age the man I am with has helped me to discover how to ejaculate so easily with his talent and patience. The first time was so startling and once he reassured me that this is what he loves to have happen it’s incredible how easy it has become for me.

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Anonymous
2 years 6 months ago

I believe in using the dick rather than hard and cold fingers, the dick was created for that, fingers for holding and inserting the dick into the pussy. Men should learn to control their ejaculation, practice makes perfect. I can last for as long as i want even up to an hour, when my climaxes i cn climax in the next 30sec. May its because i used to masturbate a lot when young and taught myself to cntrol ejacuulation

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Anonymous
2 years 6 months ago

Yes im going to try this tonight,

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Anonymous
2 years 6 months ago

Hey love the article! I have a very personal question to ask u..me and my husband have been together 4 years. The sex is ASTRONOMICAL since day one. But because we finally have our own place and don’t have restrict ourselves to having sex in the shower..i’ve noticed that when i orgasm fluid discharges! And i don’t know what it is but it’s light yellow, clear and smells a bit like urine! He thinks it’s great because of the whole ejac thing. But i have to clean it! It happens every time and has actually DOUBLED in quantity now! We tried again last night and i put thick newspaper under me but i soaked through that! And when i tried to get up to flush it…it spilled on the carpet! And REEKS! Now i’m scrubbing away! What do i do?!?! I love sex but this really puts me off! All this cleaning and the smell. Plus my parents live with us (don’t keep well) and it’s hard to explain why i’m scrubbing my carpet or there’s a funny smell or i’m cleaning bedsheets and few times a week! The same happens when i touch myself and it has always been… Read more »

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Cunning Linguist
2 years 1 month ago

We use towels. I would recommend to use a few thick folded up towels underneath your hips and ass, and let it “stick out” in front of you a couple of feet, between your legs. Fold the towels up three or four times, and it’ll work like a diaper, of sorts. When you’re done, pop them in the washer, and Presto!!, no more problem.

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Babygirl
2 years 7 months ago

Jesse,

I am 39 years old and have the most amazing, generous, loving, kinky man in my life. I had my first female ejaculation this year under his patient hand. He used every tip you mentioned and made me soak the bed the first time. Here is something fun we did that your readers might like to try to take this to another kinky level. The second time we tried it, he used an extra large Charms
Blow Pop to rapidly stimulate my Gspot. It worked great and I had the extra fun of watching him put that sucker in his mouth and suck my sweet liquid off of it. Fun, fun, fun!!!

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Nas
2 years 7 months ago

I can’t wait to try this and my bf wants to as well :). All of these comments have been soo helpful but from a females eye, how are you supposed to relax your bladder? I’m new at this and haven’t had a lot of experience sexually so I’m not sure how it’s done. 😳 :sad:

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Nic
2 years 7 months ago

I just want to thank u for your article. I’ve had 3 ejaculations so far. The first was oh my god so good I freak because I thought I peed until it happened a second time when I relized what was happening. But that first time it was just everywhere. But you are right us women need to be turned on first. My husband & I were just having sex, I had my orgasm. But next my husband had me turn over doggie style he was standing on the side of the bed I was on the edge & he was taking me from behind in fast movements hitting that wonderful spot. And oh my I had such a mind blowing orgasm I wet our bed the sheets the carpet. My husband loved it so much. We tried it a couple more times in the weeks that followed. It was so much fun that now I’m 3 months pregnant, we were trying for a year & a half. But you don’t have to just use fingers the cock works just as good maybe even better then guy just has to angle it the right way & the girls legs have… Read more »

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Nic
2 years 7 months ago

I forgot to add I know getting pregnant had nothing to do with ejaculation. But enjoying more & more sex just heighten everything.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

The feeling of ejaculating is awesome as a women and the men love it when the females get freaky with it. I’m only 30 and I only learned to do it like a year ago my sex partner loves it and so do i

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syed mohammad
2 years 8 months ago

😛

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sandyluv
2 years 8 months ago

i finaly mde it ,its a grt feeling 2 hve. tnx jesse kip on hlping

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Anonymous
1 year 11 months ago

Can you type like a normal person?

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Hey Jesse i just discovered your site and i find it awesome!
I´ve been trying these techniques for a while and few days ago I had a success of giving my girlfriend an orgasm.
Before we met she had never done anything sexual. Many times she has felt the urge to pee while I finger her but she refuses to let go even though it is just ejaculation, she finds it disgusting. She also does not like lubricant and I stopped using it on her since it was quite a turn off for her. Is it vital to use it?

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Bash
2 years 8 months ago

😉 great!

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Hi, i’ve experienced about the squirting many years ago, i did not know what it is before i read this article. i thought it was pee 😥 so, thank you for the article.

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sandylvv
2 years 9 months ago

thanx. i jst wish 2 ejaculate i’ll kip on practising until it happens.

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Rach
2 years 9 months ago

So my bf & I have been trying to get me to squirt now for the past week. No success. :( when he reaches his finger inside it makes my back hurt as if I was having a cramp rather than an orgasm. Is he not deep enough? At one point it felt nice but that was in the shower but still had no urge to pee. I just feel as if I won’t be able to do it if I can’t figure out where we are going wrong.

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Diddlydoo
2 years 9 months ago

Hi ive just read this with interest….. im 47 and never experienced an orgasm with my partners but if im by myself with my vibrator and then it takes a few seconds but this is only a cliterol orgasm. Why is this ? I have had one husband of 14 years, a fiance for 10 years and now im with my third partner and weve been together for 16 months and still nothing :-( help !!! Its not that I dont enjoy sex I love to pleasure my partner and im getting to the stage where at 47 I would like something back in return :-(

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Anonymous
2 years 9 months ago

im 37 and have only been able to squirt for about 6 yrs now. guys i cant stress enough….it HAS to be about her pleasure and she HAS TO BE TOTALLY RELXED AND AROUSED!!!!!! If you get offended by the mess and let her know…its GAME OVER. Unfortunately guys can be pretty insensitive. My husband had made some comments bout the taste, amount of the mess, etc. I stopped doing it for bout 2 yrs after that. It really sucked because the orgasm is so INTENSE!!!! Just take your time, LISTEN to her and use plenty of lube. Once the “water works” begin theres no turning back…lol. Good luck to you all!!!!

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Anonymous
2 years 10 months ago

And I’m a woman who feels like I now understand men more right now…. Only prob my mans feeling worn out…. Now I can try this when I’m alone thanks for the advice

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Anonymous
2 years 10 months ago

And I’m a woman who feels like I now understand men more right now…. Only prob my mans feeling worn out…. Now I can try this when I’m alone

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Anonymous
2 years 10 months ago

I totally understand how it is too think of sex all day every day it’s really annoying its like a light was turned on and has been beaming since… It’s more addictive than anything I’ve tried….. 😈

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Anonymous
2 years 9 months ago

I feel the same way. Its even worse when you dont have a partner to share the experiance with and you think about it ALL the time. Good luck to us both…lol

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lonely
2 years 10 months ago

can’t wait to try!

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Jess
2 years 10 months ago

After reading all of this I am begining to wonder if I orgasim at all! I am a 37 year old female. Mother of 3. I guess I have more experimenting to do. Feel free to email me.

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Anonymous
2 years 6 months ago

Hi, can u help me out

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