All women are bisexual to a degree.

Women by nature feel perfectly comfortable holding hands, cuddling, and kissing each other.

Most women have had bisexual fantasies or urges at one point or another. And in research studies, most women become excited when they see girl making love to another girl on video.

Girls naturally have bi-friendly tendencies

From the Nancy Friday books where real women describe their fantasies, one woman says, “Most of my fantasies revolve around girls my own age but there is a teacher at my school whom I find very attractive. She is the typical American blonde, very athletic, very pretty. I often find myself wondering how she would make love to me. I would love to kiss her. I imagine nothing will happen, though, but I wish she would try to seduce me. Yesterday I casually sat with my legs slightly parted so she could see up my dress.”

At any rate, having some level of girl-on-girl fantasy is quite common for women, even if the fantasy isn’t full blown sex but just light attraction and suggestive cuddling and kissing.

The best way to get into FFM threesome with two girls is to begin with a girl you’re already sleeping with, like a girlfriend or sex buddy.

If you ask a woman outright if she’s bisexual, many will say ‘no’, even if she is. I’ve talked to women who have told me that they’re straight and only later admitted to me that they had bisexual fantasies and dreams.

So first, you need to firmly establish her self-identity as being bisexual – that she’s sexually attracted to other women.

Step #1. Get her into state

The first step to getting into a FFM threesome is to get the woman highly aroused with some rough sex and dirty talk. Do her hard and tell her what an open minded sexual girl she is. During sex, have her call you “Master” or her “Strong Man” and move and lead her around the room to establish physical and mental dominance and leadership.

First, unleash the inner beast

In other words, through some hard and unapologetic sex, get her into that “Mistress Mentality” where she’s pretty much down for anything you lead her to. This is also called the Blissnosis State.

Don’t bring up bisexuality or being with another woman explicitly just yet as that can engage her critical factor and can cause her to resist.

Instead, while she’s in the extremely suggestible, excited, Blissnotic state, put her into the missionary position (you on top) and lower your face down to meet hers. Then command her to suck on your lower lip as if it were a clitoris.

Step #2. Make her suck that clit

Tell her, “Okay baby, my lip is a clitoris. Suck that clitoris. Lick it wet. Suck it hard. Make that clitoris orgasm baby. Suck it. Suck it.”

In this you’re not telling her to be with another girl – you’re only telling her suck a clitoris, your lip. 99.9% of women will go with this as all women are comfortable to some degree with bisexuality.

Have her go through the oral motions

As she sucks your lower lip, describe how that pussy she’s sucking is getting wet and going crazy. Tell her, “Oh yeah baby that vagina is so hot. It’s so excited. It loves your tongue. Yeah, make that pussy orgasm. Get it hot. Suck it. Suck it.”

She’ll be going crazy sucking hard on that lower lip of yours.

Afterward when the sex is over, after she comes out of Blissnosis back into a normal state, tell her how hot it was that she was with a woman, sucking a clit like that.  Reward her by being close to her with hugging, cuddling, and telling her how hot she is.

Repeat the sucking on your lip three or four times with her to reinforce the idea that she likes to suck and lick a woman’s pussy and to reinforce all the good feelings about it.

Step #3. Establish her bisexual identity

Next up, during a later sex session, you want her to be openly admitting that she’s bisexual. Next time you’re fucking her hard and with force and animal abandon, have her repeat back to you a bunch of statements.

Tell her, “You’re a sexually adventurous girl, aren’t you. Tell it to me…” Have her say it back to you.

Tell her, “Yes you have all sorts of wild fantasies don’t you… I want to hear it. Tell your strong man.” Make sure she repeats it back!

Have her tell you what a freaky girl she really is. It’s important that she repeats it back with her own voice and her own words, because that really cements it for her- when SHE has said it herself.

Get dominant and lead her with force and power in the bedroom

Then once you’ve gotten “yes I am”, “yes I am”, “yes I am” responses from her, tell her, “You like other girls don’t you, you like to suck pussy… you do.”

Remember, she’s already sucked your “lip pussy” at this point, so it will be easy for her to say “Yes I do!”

Tell her, “Ooh, I love bisexual girls. Tell me what a bisexual girl you are… tell me you’re bisexual and you like other girls… tell your strong man the truth! Tell me!” And she’ll say “YES!”

The key here is to follow the steps up the ladder so that you don’t spring everything on her at once.

In addition, don’t obsessively look for the woman’s approval or reaction. If you obsess about getting a “bad reaction” you’ll be too chicken-shit to actually LEAD the woman to new sexual heights.

Remember, women WANT you to discover their true inner sexual nature and allow her to be all the woman she can be.

On that 1% chance you get a bad reaction, just ignore the bad reaction and keeping talking dirty about something else she’s comfortable with.

Step #4. Take it outside the bedroom

Next up, you want to talk about her bisexuality OUTSIDE of the bedroom. You want to bring it up NOT in a serious way, but in a positive and dominant way.

The girl comes over to your apartment and you say with a smile and a wink, “Hmm, I love that you’re bisexual… it just makes you extra sexy and spicy,” and lift her up off her feel and twirl her around to establish your physical dominance over her and make her laugh.

Play and flirt physically with her outside the bedroom and make it fun, while you encourage and reward her bisexual side

Just keep poking her with the identity calling her your “sexy bi-girl” as you tickle her and kiss her nose.

If she says, “No I’m not!” just tell her, “Hmm, but your strong man finds you so sexy that way,” and just keep poking her about it. Just like if you keep calling someone “smart”, they’ll start to believe it, if you keep calling a girl “bi” enough times with enough positive reinforcement and affection as a reward, she’ll come to embrace the identity. After all, women are bisexual by nature anyway, so it’s just going with her natural flow to embrace it.

All you’re doing is giving her PERMISSION to openly and happily say YES! to her true nature.

And again, if you’re overly worried about her reaction or too seeking of her approval, you’ll come across as nervous and without conviction. Just make her fun, lighthearted, physical, rewarding, and don’t worry about her reaction. That’s what a sexy man does – he LEADS her.

Step #5. Bring up threesomes

Just having a girl openly and happily admit she’s bisexual and attracted to other girls however is different than a girl jumping into bed with another girl.

So next you have to get her comfortable and liking the idea. You can whisper into her ear during some hot sex or even in the kitchen how hot it would be to see her eat out another woman or to see a woman eat her out.

Keep repeating the idea and have her repeat it back to you.

Now there are a number of ways to meet that third girl.

If you’re already great at pickup, you can bring her along to a bar or club for a hunt. But don’t expect the girl to do the work for you. You need to be reasonably relaxed, confident, and cool about picking up new girls to make this method work. If you still have approach anxiety in these kinds of situations, you’ll only transfer that nervous energy and creepiness to your first girl and it will be all over.

Far easier is to bring the girl to a Bliss Party which take place all over the country and internationally. My program Blissnosis deals extensively with these kinds of parties, where the girls are already openly bisexual and sexually free (and far hotter too), and hooking up with a cute, sexually experimentive girl is about ten times easier.

Bliss Parties are a great way to meet easy going, bi-sexy women for threesome experimentation

One thing I highly recommend is to avoid bringing up names of women you already know. Make the fantasy about being with a generic third woman, not one of your previous girlfriends or a mutual friend of yours because that will trigger jealousy in her and cause her to shut down.

A little jealousy too is to be expected, and actually a GOOD thing at low levels. Jealousy makes women compete, revs up their sexual temperature, attracts her to you, and acts as an aphrodisiac. Too much jealousy however can make a woman psychotic and insane, and there are ways to keep the jealousy at a low, beneficial level.

These are just a few of my tips. How to lead and train a woman without resistance, how to bring out her sexuality, how to set up threesomes, how to find and get inside and meet fun attractive women at Bliss Parties, and how to keep potential jealousy under control are all covered in my Blissnosis 2010 Master Program. You’re sure to want to check it out if sexual abundance is your New Year’s resolution.

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