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How to Deep Throat Face Fuck Your Angelic Girlfriend

Deep throat is the act of swallowing a cock whole down the throat and is a skill a Mistress should learn in her Sweet Pain-based arsenal to please you.

A woman can give you fabulous head without deep throat.  Most of the pleasure-sensing nerves are in the head of the penis, not at the base of the shaft.

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Yet one of the keys to great oral sex is the visual aspect of it, of watching a woman go at it.  And watching a woman take your cock down her throat can be absolutely mind shattering.

Deep throat doesn’t come easy however.  A woman’s gag reflex will get in the way of swallowing you whole.  The gag reflex is her body’s natural defense system against choking on large objects, so it’s an instinctual process of hers.

For a woman to master deep throat, she has to master controlling her gag reflex.

For her to practice on you, the first position is to stand up and have the woman kneel in front of you on her knees.

To make it even easier for her however, lay down on the bed sitting slightly up, while she kneels between your legs to take your cock into her mouth.

Since she’s just starting out, don’t try to ram your cock in or force her head down on you.  Don’t get carried away with thrusting.  Let her control it as she’s learning.

Have her swallow just a little at first.  She should go just to the point of her gag reflex and then withdraw, pushing it a tiny bit each time.

When she feels like she’s going to gag, have her try swallowing.  This often stops the gag reflex.  If it doesn’t, pull your cock out and have her relax.

You want to deliberately trigger her gag reflex so that she can learn what causes it, recognize its warning signs, and ultimately control it.

To help her, spray an aerosol sore throat spray on the back of her tongue and throat to deaden the nerves and suppress her gag reflex.  You can buy sore throat sprays at your local drugstore.

Unfortunately, the spray will also numb your penis when you put it inside her mouth.  But it’s a good way to train her nevertheless so that she’ll eventually be able to do it without spray.

In addition the penis must be thoroughly lubricated.

This cannot be overemphasized: The penis must be thoroughly lubricated!

A lubricated, slick cock will go down her throat much more easily.

Her mouth will salivate and slick your cock all on its own; large amounts of thick, lubricating saliva are released as a natural byproduct of deep throat.  But a woman’s own saliva will not be enough, particularly when she’s first starting out.

Buy an edible lubricant at your local sex shop.  The edible lubricant will help your cock slide down her throat and minimize her gag reflex.  Another alternative is to purchase a heavy mineral oil at your local drugstore.

Once she’s ready to deep throat, have her begin with a regular blowjob.  Then, put the lubricant on your cock and have her take you into her throat.

WARNING: NEVER have her practice on hot dogs, sausages, cucumbers, zucchini, or bananas.  Fruits and vegetables they can break in half in her throat and cause her to choke!

And please be patient.

Keep in mind that deep throat is difficult.  She must learn to relax her throat completely while having a cock thrust deeply down, without triggering a reflex that is naturally built into her for her own protection.

It takes three to four months of regular practice for a girl to become proficient so that she can deep throat you without gagging.

Don’t push too much in one day.  Five minutes is enough to start.  And as always, reward her with great sex and cuddling afterwards for trying.  This will motivate her to pleasure you in the future.

And with time and patience, you’ll be able to fuck her face and thrust down her throat.

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  1. April

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  2. G

    It’s funny to me… as a woman… I find myself super turned on by your article. Not due to the subject matter… But more to how well the article was written. Such a conscientious attitude and respect for our comfort and happiness through the training process. That’s fucking HOT. Lol. The part about making sure to give her great sex and cuddles afterwards is Awesome. :) it’s weird to me though that there are really guys out there who need to be told to do it. I’m glad Ive never encountered any of these men that’s for sure.

    I don’t exactly remember when it clicked for me and I figured out how exactly to relax my throat and turn off my gag reflex? All I know is it has gone away! I have to be super hot and riled up to turn it off(the reflex) though it seems in most cases. A tip from me, on that note of being attentive to her level of comfort… and having mastered my own g reflex and made it my Bitch… would be to add to make sure she doesn’t have any food or recently swallowed drink in her stomach when she is ready to DT. You will be purging her with your dick instead of her finger and anything recently ingested will now be on your cock and balls. It may seem obvious but avoid timing it after any meals, unless you are into throw up on your cock in which case proceed without caution! I’m personally not into hurling, especially while I’m deep throating, but my ex would sometimes begin throat fucking me without warning right after I had eaten dinner and cause me to gag and almost puke. After the first time he deep throat face fucked me… He was hooked on it. He shot cum out of my nose like milk…it was Crazy! Anyways, after that he would get excited and try and initiate the DT without warning which brings me to my next tip…

    If you are incapable of timing your Deep Throat sessions around meals then I would suggest you allow her to always start it off. If you want it and she isn’t initiating it herself then tell her what you want and hopefully she will be down as long as she is feeling up for the task and is not full, etc.. I guess this advice is more for the couples who have finally mastered the art and are going to be performing it regularly as she’s not in training any longer!

    My favorite way to DTFF is with me laying face up on the edge of the bed with just my head off the edge of it… while he stands with my face between his thighs. He can literally see the head of his cock protruding from my neck..inside my throat..while he fucks it and plays with my tits and clit, etc… It’s pretty Awesome for both of us. * I definitely would not try this with your chick until she becomes more experienced and comfortable with DT though…

    Also… Just throw on one of those bare skin condoms when she uses the throat numbing spray. I knooow… You guys haaate them… But any feeling would be better than a numbed up dick right? Try and use a condom that doesn’t taste terrible if you can… her tastebuds won’t be completely numbed away.

    It’s true that mastering this is not an easy task for most women…. None of my friends are able to do it according to them. I have one friend who can with a whole lot of throat numbing spray. Patience is a MUST… if you really want the payoff.

    And don’t make her practice on fruits and veggies! That’s…Retarded. A dildo similar in size and length to your dick would make more sense to me if she must. If her training demands are so extensive that they are more than just your dick can handle then I suppose a rubbery dildo would be a lot more realistic and safer for her.

    Damn! This article got me all excited! I rarely ever leave comments online …and when I do they are usually yelp reviews, not …deep throat face fucking technique tips… Geez! Does Ambien loosen inhibitions?? =O

    Good Luck you Dirty Face Fuckers!!!

    • Fat Detective

      @G
      Whenever I see a woman wax sexual on the internet with this level of enthusiasm my fatdar instantly hits the red. Know what I mean?

  3. Faye

    Hi, I never had much of a gag reflex. I’m 27 now and have started to develop one. Is this normal? It’s bloody annoying!

    • G

      That blows… No pun intended. I have never heard of one developing like that.

      Throat spray?

  4. Eric

    Yeah, I used to have a hard time to face-fuck my chick, a lot of women have a hard time learning how to deepthroat. And some lack the motivation for it! A good thing I’d recommend you folks is to buy your girlfriend the book Jack’s Blowjob lessons – I convinced my girlfriend (future wife now) to read it and she basically gulped down on my entire dick two days after reading it. And she generally gives a thousand times better blowjobs now! Honestly I highly recommend that stuff.

  5. Count

    Thanks for reminding me to be patient. Hearing this from another dude put things back in perspective. You probably did more for my relationship directly intended from this article.

    @mike Vs. Anon-LMAO

  6. Boy Toy

    Yeah, deepthroat is awesome!
    Good tip about the food that can break.

    I dont see girls more than once though, so I dont have time to teach them. Luckily, a lot of young girls seems to be able to do deepthroat already though! Someone must have taught them good, and now we can reap the benefits :D

    • Bob

      Lol. Douche alert!!!

      • Fifer

        Predator Alert…

    • Fifer

      Predator Alert…

  7. Anonymous

    is it good to dring the semen while month fucking.

  8. Anonymous

    cool blog ;-)

  9. E

    As far as the article goes, I think it was written with sensitivity and maturity on the subject, way to go Jesse. It’s funny though, while this is a very well written article, it makes me think of how you’d “train” a pet..with the being patient and giving praise. But I’ll admit I need praise to feel secure and I guess any type of training requires this things. Now, how to train a guy to get you off? ;-)

  10. Emma

    Great article Jesse. My boyfriend read this and decided to give it a try (he’s used many of your tips). It took me two and a half months to master deep throating but my boyfriend just kept praising me and reminding me how much I needed to learn and how much it would please him…and damn if it didn’t make me work harder to do it!

    Now it’s something I do for him very often. It makes a woman feel soooo submissive to kneel at her man’s feet and do this for him!

    I have to say, since discovering your site my boyfriend has turned into a total bedroom BULL and he’s helped me understand and embrace a women’s need to be dominated. You are the absolute best!!!

    • Anonymous

      That being said, dont forget that sometimes a man may want to be controlled too. You could try taking turns being in control and taking little breaks to improve the experience.

    • E

      Woah, I’m not judging your lifestyle at all, I’m more of a “bottom” myself. But I really feel I need to point out that everyone is different and a woman does NOT always want to be dominated. Just..they way you put it, “he’s helped me understand and embrace a women’s need to be dominated”.. kind of has me alarmed. I hope you understand and embrace your CHOICE to be dominated if that is what pleases you aren’t letting him do things deep down you don’t want. I just really can’t stand domineering men who think they need to “teach” their girl how to act…or anyone who tried to brainswash someone or keep someone in a “gender role”. If you are happy that is great and by all means continue. Maybe I totally just mis interpreted your meaning. But please remember you are a free thinking individual that has the right to make their own choices.

      • NickCrav

        Wow you sound like a right hoot in the bedroom :/ one of those girls who thinks doing it ‘doggy style’ is degrading. Lol it’s erotic fantasy stuff your not actually being dominated like your being forcefully molested, you’re playing around in the hands if your partner. Stop trying to defend the female gender with your prudeness. Everyone f*cks. It’s your choice whether you make it good for the other person or not and usually people get pleasure out of doing stuff just to please their partner. You should try it. Might make people want to please you in return. Always a good thing ;)

  11. AnonymousDallas

    I have heard that this technique would avoid the gag reflex (one partner felt that it would be too degrading, and he was turned off and refused to try it):

    The woman lies on her back with her head over the edge of the bed, so that her open mouth is lined up with her throat. The man, in a standing position, enters her mouth and throat.

    It sounds like an incredible visual turn-on, and might bypass the 3-4 months of training for deep throat. The main difference is that it is irrumatio (the man has to do the thrusting) versus fellatio, during which the woman is in control of the depth of penetration. If anyone tries this, let me know how it was!

    • Anonymous

      Fantastic. You can either be an asshole and hold her head up from below and truly fuck her face, or let her control how deep your going by how high she holds her head up. Don’t do this for to long or youll have a cranky girl with a sore neck afterwards. Also depending on whether your penis curves upwards or not will determine how easy it goes down her throat. In this position, upwards is easier. L

    • LuvBJ

      I’ve tried this position many times. It’s fun for bj’s, but not for deepthroating. I don’t have enough control, and if the guy is overzealous, gagging is a problem.

  12. sachin ghadage-patil

    one of the greatest article Thanks for that

    • Jesse Charger

      Thanks !!

      • LuvBJ

        Thank you for promoting a caring, encouraging approach. Most women truly want to please their men, but sometimes we need patience and praise. :)

  13. x515t4nc3

    Hey Jesse

    Ok so as a woman,i came across this article on deep throat. :P Sooo my question to you as a man,deep throat is fine for me and i actually prefer giving head/teasing more than sex. Sorry went off subject
    the length of the shaft is long but work able ,its the girth that can also.be a problem? what do you suggest for women who have well hung men?

  14. Deepto

    Superb! I’s in search of such idea.

  15. Superb!

    Superb!

  16. Moctezuma Johnson

    Great article. For more advice, check out what I have to say on the matter on my blog ;)

  17. Anonymous

    :cry: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:

  18. Sean

    On some websites they do use bananas and sausages first. I’ve also heard the female pornstar, Holly Wellin say that lube isn’t good and that her own saliva is enough as long she doesn’t swallow the saliva but instead lets it come out of her mouth.

    • Jesse Charger

      Excellent tip thanks Sean

  19. Jesse Charger

    Le me know what you think…

    • Anonymous

      I have trained many women wives and friends,go from not liking sucking cock,no cum in her mouth. Completly haveing a orgasim at a 10, thin(very inportant) strange cock blowing a mouth full down her mouth,when they start yo get soft get soft half hard.she will slowly work
      to nut sack. the only lub is pussy juice lot of cum. The secerat is giveing head.and at the right time push the guys cock in her mouth and jack him off while hes in mouth,go back to eat her pussy. and watch her suck slow. i could right a small book on this.

      • Mike

        No, you couldn’t. Not in English anyway.

      • Anonymous

        I would be the 1st person to read the novel…I like to know of a fine body to cum over….the release of self into a beautiful mouth will keep my cum flowing….

      • Anonymous

        @Mike LOL

      • Anonymous

        Your book should be very small. To match your ability to write and spell correctly. lmfao.

    • isa

      the hottest sex i ever had was a the third guy in a 3some. the one i didn’t want.

      two guys brought their really ugly skinny buddy along to a twosome. guy 1 was beautiful to die for. i gave him one of the longets best BJ ever. during which a grabbed his cheeks with my fingers and pushed him into my face. i could tell from his taste my hands on his cheeks drove him wild. [3 young arab guys: arab men do NOT let you touch their asses] even better was his watching as i pushed it in all the way till he was on the verge than slowing down [and to get air- you can only hold your breath so long.] finally nothing could hold him in and he just emptied out.

      his skin was smooth muscular and he was delicious.

      his pal’s thighs were hirsute where he was baby smooth. i mostly used my fingers getting him on the verge before letting him force himself in all the way till i really needed air. i did my best to gag for air as long as i could take it by there comes a moment where you can’t keep it down any more and that is where some guys then choose to hold you down by force. i love it when it really feels i really am being suffocated and the guy wants to see me gagging, my lungs struggling. some guys come when you begin involuntarily pull up for air and they hold your head down or if they are on top, force fuck your face while you are fighting with all your might for air. but this guy wasn’t one of them. eventually it was my mouth and hands with triggered him off, and he was pretty exhausted by then.

      then came this skinny bony coarse skinny pale guy, the kind that just tastes off. #1 was delicious, umami creamy taste. #2 was male beefy. both beautiful soccer player bodies. gorgeous cocks thick long and smooth soft delicate skin with round full perfectly lovely balls. they both had bathed in scents used by bridegrooms. all three were dressed royally with their royal daggers at their waists. their clothes had been hung in incense closets. he too but, #3 tasted like fish which had gone just smelly enough not to make you sick but not anything you’d serve a guest and maybe not even your cat.

      when they rang my door bell one evening i didn’t want to let them in at first because #3 was not only uninvited, but specifically had been told would not be welcomed. not even a snowballs chance in hell would i give him head i had said. but there he was.

      so in that instant i made the choice to be the total slave their culture required. Arab guys in the Gulf totally believe that no gay guy would dare say no and if they did it was their duty to punish him severely. any gay person only exists to pleasure men at their whim. so now i was acting out my deepest most hidden bondage fantasy, giving out to a guy whose every inch made me say no.

      he took off his best almost royal outer arab clothes and turban and hung them up carefully. i was signalled to go completely naked on my knees in the middle of the room and he walked over and stood over me.

      arab men wear a skirt made of a folded sheet called wazir. he stood straddle legged and uncovered his straight up hard on which was nice and long but skinny no thicker than a broom handle pointy little head and funny almost laughable hanging balls. he was still fully dressed but in his house clothes, but i could see his thighs and legs almost skeletal. little sprigs of black curly hairs agains pale white skin. the whole time he kept his hands on his hips holding his wazir open.

      i had to straighten up on my knees to take it in with my lips sipping in his drippings and took his dick in my mouth. it was incredibly stiff and difficult to take in and he was already dripping, but when i tried to use my hands my hands to help blow him he close fisted punched me briskly on my head. and shook his fist in my face. so BJ no hands.

      he was much too tall to go down on so i had to go up and down, up and down, on my knees to go ‘up’ on his hard on. after giving two deep throat BJs my jaw muscles and lips were too tired to suck: i used my tongue as much as possible but basically did my best to face fuck myself with his dick. no guy ever actually had forceably face fucked me before so i ad libbed a brutal face fucking going up and down on him as fast and hard as i could on my knees driving his dick in all the way down my throat gagging and gasping for air. he never moved a muscle but if i stopped and just sucked on it or tongued him he stopped dripping. up and down on my knees i rammed my throat as hard as i could on his skinny broom handle like woody.

      he had the hardest most rigid boner any guy ever gave head to and the only way i could measure his pleasure was his taste. when i was as violent on my own throat as i could be the smell and taste was overwhelming. i was driving him mad violently punishing my throat with his hard on and it only got harder and stiffer. his taste was not bad enough to make me wretch but the worst tasting man i ever gave a BJ to. but it was like really strong 3 or 4 day old goat tripe soup. with too much aged garlic.

      i never worked so hard in my life and it seemed he never would come so i worked harder and harder and sweated and sweated till i could hardly close my jaw at all. just tongue and throat harder and faster until finally he exploded and his grey stringy cream came out of my nose, out of the corners of my mouth, down my chest and down my throat. and i swallowed i think ten or 15 mouthloads. and kept sucking it out and it seems like there was always a little more as now finally his hands on my head he was shoving himself in as he softened. he used my hair to clean himself then i had to lick him clean wherever there was any cum. his lower body legs thighs feet.

      i was totally exhausted and couldn’t move. the whole night he never spoke to me. not a word. didn’t say hello coming in or goodbye leaving. as if i were a lamp in the corner, talking to his friends. his friends passed on his orders, not third hand but as if he were their guest and it was their house. not even a hint of BD but entirely as if they owned the place and me.

      arab guys are very nice to anyone they own. they never strike or yell or threaten and they can be very affectionate in their sex but never asking. never talking but their body language is clear, like the policeman who visited and when i served him coffee he drank some then stood up pulled down his gym pants and stuck his wood in my face and i began to give him head. he pulled out after several minutes. he was much shorter than i expected from his physique, [14cm. i was expecting 17. but thick as my wrist]. then he shoved me down on the floor and pulled down my pants and went to work fully clothed. i had to position myself and he just went in by force with a lot of squirming on my part spit on his. it was fun because of how much i had to facilitate his using me. beautiful man. one of the most beautiful i ever met and the darkist skinned bedouin i ever met with skin like a baby. not an ounce of body fat. he was so thick it was a real struggle. after doing it for a while he began to undress me and himself. i just happened to have a wall mirror where i could watch what he was doing. THAT was erotic.

      not once did he say anything just went at it without a hint of his thinking that i was anything but there for his needs and service. but very sweet about it. i felt totally completely owned.

      one of the strangest things about arab men is they never exactly climax and guys have completely emptied themselves out without slowing their rhythm. no after play. no foreplay. no vocalization. no final thrust. very very different from americans. they don’t deep throat you. giving head is the’r appetizer. then you are rolled over for the main course. then they take a bath and wash you all off.

      you never ever talk about it. it did not happen. nothing is negotiated. if you say no, mostly it is no big deal. but some guys just don’t know “no”. they look crushed. helpless. incomprehending. a few make a show of threatening.

      i’ve never gotten another man to face fuck me without my doing all of it.

      • Anonymous

        Well you sound like a fucking whore so there you have it. Enjoy your arab monkeys.





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