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Deep throat is the act of swallowing a cock whole down the throat and is a skill a Mistress should learn in her Sweet Pain-based arsenal to please you.
A woman can give you fabulous head without deep throat. Most of the pleasure-sensing nerves are in the head of the penis, not at the base of the shaft.
Yet one of the keys to great oral sex is the visual aspect of it, of watching a woman go at it. And watching a woman take your cock down her throat can be absolutely mind shattering.
Deep throat doesn’t come easy however. A woman’s gag reflex will get in the way of swallowing you whole. The gag reflex is her body’s natural defense system against choking on large objects, so it’s an instinctual process of hers.
For a woman to master deep throat, she has to master controlling her gag reflex.
For her to practice on you, the first position is to stand up and have the woman kneel in front of you on her knees.
To make it even easier for her however, lay down on the bed sitting slightly up, while she kneels between your legs to take your cock into her mouth.
Since she’s just starting out, don’t try to ram your cock in or force her head down on you. Don’t get carried away with thrusting. Let her control it as she’s learning.
Have her swallow just a little at first. She should go just to the point of her gag reflex and then withdraw, pushing it a tiny bit each time.
When she feels like she’s going to gag, have her try swallowing. This often stops the gag reflex. If it doesn’t, pull your cock out and have her relax.
You want to deliberately trigger her gag reflex so that she can learn what causes it, recognize its warning signs, and ultimately control it.
To help her, spray an aerosol sore throat spray on the back of her tongue and throat to deaden the nerves and suppress her gag reflex. You can buy sore throat sprays at your local drugstore.
Unfortunately, the spray will also numb your penis when you put it inside her mouth. But it’s a good way to train her nevertheless so that she’ll eventually be able to do it without spray.
In addition the penis must be thoroughly lubricated.
This cannot be overemphasized: The penis must be thoroughly lubricated!
A lubricated, slick cock will go down her throat much more easily.
Her mouth will salivate and slick your cock all on its own; large amounts of thick, lubricating saliva are released as a natural byproduct of deep throat. But a woman’s own saliva will not be enough, particularly when she’s first starting out.
Buy an edible lubricant at your local sex shop. The edible lubricant will help your cock slide down her throat and minimize her gag reflex. Another alternative is to purchase a heavy mineral oil at your local drugstore.
Once she’s ready to deep throat, have her begin with a regular blowjob. Then, put the lubricant on your cock and have her take you into her throat.
WARNING: NEVER have her practice on hot dogs, sausages, cucumbers, zucchini, or bananas. Fruits and vegetables they can break in half in her throat and cause her to choke!
And please be patient.
Keep in mind that deep throat is difficult. She must learn to relax her throat completely while having a cock thrust deeply down, without triggering a reflex that is naturally built into her for her own protection.
It takes three to four months of regular practice for a girl to become proficient so that she can deep throat you without gagging.
Don’t push too much in one day. Five minutes is enough to start. And as always, reward her with great sex and cuddling afterwards for trying. This will motivate her to pleasure you in the future.
And with time and patience, you’ll be able to fuck her face and thrust down her throat.
~ Jesse
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I have trained many women wives and friends,go from not liking sucking cock,no cum in her mouth. Completly haveing a orgasim at a 10, thin(very inportant) strange cock blowing a mouth full down her mouth,when they start yo get soft get soft half hard.she will slowly work
to nut sack. the only lub is pussy juice lot of cum. The secerat is giveing head.and at the right time push the guys cock in her mouth and jack him off while hes in mouth,go back to eat her pussy. and watch her suck slow. i could right a small book on this.
No, you couldn’t. Not in English anyway.
On some websites they do use bananas and sausages first. I’ve also heard the female pornstar, Holly Wellin say that lube isn’t good and that her own saliva is enough as long she doesn’t swallow the saliva but instead lets it come out of her mouth.
Excellent tip thanks Sean
Great article. For more advice, check out what I have to say on the matter on my blog
Superb!
Superb! I’s in search of such idea.
Hey Jesse
Ok so as a woman,i came across this article on deep throat.
Sooo my question to you as a man,deep throat is fine for me and i actually prefer giving head/teasing more than sex. Sorry went off subject
the length of the shaft is long but work able ,its the girth that can also.be a problem? what do you suggest for women who have well hung men?
one of the greatest article Thanks for that
Thanks !!
Thank you for promoting a caring, encouraging approach. Most women truly want to please their men, but sometimes we need patience and praise.
I have heard that this technique would avoid the gag reflex (one partner felt that it would be too degrading, and he was turned off and refused to try it):
The woman lies on her back with her head over the edge of the bed, so that her open mouth is lined up with her throat. The man, in a standing position, enters her mouth and throat.
It sounds like an incredible visual turn-on, and might bypass the 3-4 months of training for deep throat. The main difference is that it is irrumatio (the man has to do the thrusting) versus fellatio, during which the woman is in control of the depth of penetration. If anyone tries this, let me know how it was!
Fantastic. You can either be an asshole and hold her head up from below and truly fuck her face, or let her control how deep your going by how high she holds her head up. Don’t do this for to long or youll have a cranky girl with a sore neck afterwards. Also depending on whether your penis curves upwards or not will determine how easy it goes down her throat. In this position, upwards is easier. L
I’ve tried this position many times. It’s fun for bj’s, but not for deepthroating. I don’t have enough control, and if the guy is overzealous, gagging is a problem.
Great article Jesse. My boyfriend read this and decided to give it a try (he’s used many of your tips). It took me two and a half months to master deep throating but my boyfriend just kept praising me and reminding me how much I needed to learn and how much it would please him…and damn if it didn’t make me work harder to do it!
Now it’s something I do for him very often. It makes a woman feel soooo submissive to kneel at her man’s feet and do this for him!
I have to say, since discovering your site my boyfriend has turned into a total bedroom BULL and he’s helped me understand and embrace a women’s need to be dominated. You are the absolute best!!!
That being said, dont forget that sometimes a man may want to be controlled too. You could try taking turns being in control and taking little breaks to improve the experience.
Woah, I’m not judging your lifestyle at all, I’m more of a “bottom” myself. But I really feel I need to point out that everyone is different and a woman does NOT always want to be dominated. Just..they way you put it, “he’s helped me understand and embrace a women’s need to be dominated”.. kind of has me alarmed. I hope you understand and embrace your CHOICE to be dominated if that is what pleases you aren’t letting him do things deep down you don’t want. I just really can’t stand domineering men who think they need to “teach” their girl how to act…or anyone who tried to brainswash someone or keep someone in a “gender role”. If you are happy that is great and by all means continue. Maybe I totally just mis interpreted your meaning. But please remember you are a free thinking individual that has the right to make their own choices.
As far as the article goes, I think it was written with sensitivity and maturity on the subject, way to go Jesse. It’s funny though, while this is a very well written article, it makes me think of how you’d “train” a pet..with the being patient and giving praise. But I’ll admit I need praise to feel secure and I guess any type of training requires this things. Now, how to train a guy to get you off?
cool blog
is it good to dring the semen while month fucking.
Yeah, deepthroat is awesome!
Good tip about the food that can break.
I dont see girls more than once though, so I dont have time to teach them. Luckily, a lot of young girls seems to be able to do deepthroat already though! Someone must have taught them good, and now we can reap the benefits