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Now in a lot of cases, you’ll find that women you want to approach are actually in a group, either with a group of girlfriends, guy friends, or a mix of both.
When a woman is in a group, and you approach with a normal opener while ignoring her friends, her friends will often try to interrupt you, get her away from you, and in general try to block you from continuing the interaction. If all you do is work on getting rapport with your target woman and you ignore her friends, they’ll try to block the interaction for all sorts of reasons; jealousy, rivalry, and so on. Also, women look for approval from their peer group whether it’s okay to talk to you, so you want to win her friends over.
So the trick is to open and get rapport with the entire group, and then separate the woman you like from her friends once you have group rapport.
Opening Groups of Girls
For example, if you see a group of two or three girls, approach between them all and open with an opinion opener on ALL the girls at once. Get the opinion of all the girls and get them all talking with you. When you get rapport with her friends, they’ll let down their guards and the one that responds best you can then focus your conversation with her.
Another way to open a group of girls is open with a criteria demand that makes them fight over who fits your criteria. For example, you can open the group of girls by saying, “So I’m curious, which one of you is the most creative and open minded?” Then talk to the one that responds to you the most enthusiastically. This way they’re self-selecting themselves for the one that responds most positively to you.
Once you’ve talked to the girl who has self-selected herself, and if her friends begin to give you resistance, you can then reopen the entire group with an opinion opener and get rapport with everyone to relax them.
Opening a Girl with a Guy
If the group is one guy and one girl, you won’t know if they’re boyfriend and girlfriend, friends, or perhaps they’re on a first date. An easy way to handle this situation is to simply ask them what their relationship is. Approach the guy and say, “How do you know each other,” in a conversational way. And if they’re not married or a lovey-dovey couple you can then get rapport with both of them using an opinion opener.
Opening a Girl with a Group of Guys
Now if the group consists of a girl and a bunch of guys, open the guys first with some small talk. Ask them anything like, “Hey do you know where the best club is to go tonight?” or “What is it about this place that you guys like?” You want to get rapport with the guys first and befriend them so that when you open the girl they don’t try to block you.
~ Jesse
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