How to get her alone is a critical question – you need to separate a girl from her friends.

When guys don’t isolate the girl from her friends, and try to build bond and connection right there in front of the girl’s group.

Here’s what happens: the guy builds attraction in front of the girl’s friends, screens and accepts the girl, and then starts going into bond and connection right there in front of the entire group.

Here’s the snag: if you try to build bond and connection one-on-one with a girl in front of her friends, her friends will try to stop you.

Remember, building bond and connection with someone WELL is primarily a one-on-one process. It’s an intimate interaction. 90% of your energy has to be focused on the person you’re building comfort and deep rapport with.

Meanwhile you have to ignore her friends, who just minutes ago you were entertaining. And her friends will quickly get BORED while you build bond and connection with the girl you like. They might even get JEALOUS.

They’ll want to win back your attention by interrupting and distracting you. They’ll try everything in their power to break up your one-on-one interaction with the girl you like and pull you back into the building social value phase. Or they might even pull your girl away from you and leave once they realize that they’re no longer the center of attention.

How to get her alone is pretty simple. Once you have social value with the girl and have screened and accepted her, isolate her from her friends! Just tell her, “Look, I have something cool to show you!” and take her by the hand and lead her away from her friends.

  Your friend,

  Jesse - Contact me or Leave a comment