Every man who enjoys going out and meeting women should be grateful to modern Feminism.
It’s why we men have so many attractive, available women to meet, attract, and jump into bed with.
And here’s why.
But first, a minority of guys in the game seem to absolutely HATE feminism and what they call “fem-cunts”.
Their basic argument is this,
(a) Feminism has made women fat, dress plainly, and look ugly and unfeminine.am
(b) Feminism has caused women to have “bitch shields” and love rejecting men.
(c) Feminism turns women into nagging, nasty bitches bent on controlling the man in relationships.
… and that only if we could return to the “good old days” where Mom stayed in the kitchen and Dad was the boss of the house, us men would have it so much better.
The myth of “The Good Old Days”
There really were no “Good Old Days”.
For most of human history, women didn’t wear makeup. They didn’t wear pretty dresses, and they didn’t wear high heels.
People lived on subsistence farming, and mass production didn’t exist yet.
Women didn’t smell nice either – they didn’t have perfume. Their nails were rough and broken… no manicures.
No irons to straighten their hair. No scissors to trim it. No razors to shave their armpits or pubes (it was a real jungle down there).
No braces to straighten teeth, and no toothbrushes to clean them. Expect a nasty mouth by your early 20s.
Clean clothes? Not easy if there’s no hot water or soap. Only royalty could afford that.
Hot water showers to clean oneself? No way. Unlike what’s depicted in costume dramas, even kings often didn’t bathe for weeks at a time.
Getting a hot blow job or trying fun sex positions? If there’s no books or media, she wouldn’t be educated and even aware of such things.
Life was generally brutal and short. Time needed to be spent working to get something to eat, and usually in the field. Or cooking in the kitchen.
And even if you did manage to sleep with another man’s wife (women married young, by age 16 typically) you could easily get yourself killed.
That’s IF you were rich enough to live at court or have enough money to own a horse to get around. And that’s a big IF.
And it was this way up until just 100 years ago!
So if we’re talking about “The Good Old Days” before feminism, and yet AFTER the industrial revolution and mass production and universal education, we’re talking about a very SHORT period of time.
The 1940s and 1950s – “when women were still women”
Guys who dislike feminism usually think back to the 1940’s and 1950’s.
At this point, make up, high heels, dresses, showers, toothbrushes and the idea of feminine hygiene had been invented… but still BEFORE the feminist movement of the 60’s and 70’s.
Women stayed at home, were feminine and obedient, and “men were real men”.
And yet, this culture was NOT ideal for meeting women and dating.
Women were still expected to marry the first guy they had sex with – and they usually did.
The nightclub and bar scene was very tame and limited by comparison of today. Club make outs, one night stands, and kinky sex were out of the question in the sexually conservative culture of the ‘40s and ‘50s.
Having a “good traditional wife” was little better. She went to church on Sundays and gave missionary position on Mondays. The era shouldn’t be romanticized.
A world today without feminism… yes, it exists! And what it looks like.
I lived in Colombia, South America for about 6 months.
Feminist-haters romanticize countries like Colombia as ;feminist-free zones’ where women still dress sexy and act feminine.
First, Colombian women dress sexy simply because the population is *younger*.
30 years ago, Colombian women still lived in dire poverty and had 6 to 9 children typically. Those children are now grown up and are young adults, so there’s simply more young people in the streets today – hence, they simply dress as young adults do.
The climate is also WARM through most of Colombia, making it a natural given that the women will wear less and dress more scantily.
In addition, Colombia is poor enough that most people don’t own a car. They WALK. And that keeps them lean and fit and visually accessible.
For all these reasons – that have nothing to do with “feminism” – many Colombian women dress feminine.
The ugly side of Machismo
Colombia is a very “Machismo” culture. And the law favors men over women.
There are very few laws for protecting women there. A Colombian man can bang a girl, get her pregnant, and move on to another girl with little consequence. He need not fear paying child support.
And men take advantage of that. Colombian men have a notorious reputation for being massive cheaters.
Thus, you’ll find an enormous number of abandoned single mothers in Colombia… and deadbeat Dads. And as a result, women are mistrustful of men in general – and extremely jealous when they’ve got a man.
This kind of culture is NOT conducive for breeding sexually liberated, promiscuous women.
Instead, a Colombian woman is inclined to date you without putting out for a long period of time to gauge your “faithfulness level” first. Once you demonstrate that you’ll be faithful and you’re trustworthy, only then will she sleep with you.
As a result, Colombian women are generally quite cautious about men and sex. Getting laid isn’t easy – at all.
Unless you pay for it with prostitutes, which is exactly what most Colombian men do.
In cultures where women are protected, it allows a much more sexually open society where the dating culture thrives. Which is perfect if you enjoy socializing, dating, and meeting new girls.
The REAL reason American women are fat
No doubt, many American women are fat and obese.
But is this really because of the scourge of feminism?
Women are fat because of cheap junk food and a car-dominated transit system.
When a hamburger costs 99 cents and there’s a fast food joint on every corner, women will get fat.
When the grocery store has an aisle for soda, an aisle for potato ships, and an aisle for ice-cream, women will get fat.
When television, movies, and passive entertainment are cheap and ubiquitous (a legion of thousands of computer artists, marketers, directors and producers spend BILLIONS of dollars to keep you glued to the screen), women will get fat.
And when everywhere you go must be driven too, when cars invade all public spaces, women will get fat.
It has nothing to do with a conspiracy of women to piss off men, and has everything to do with America’s unique brand of capitalism.
It’s not feminism’s fault. It’s modern capitalism coupled with a massive automobile and entertainment industry at work.
The REAL reason women put their career first
Women who focus on their career has little to do with “feminists” and everything to do with the natural march of modern capitalism.
In the 1940s during World War II, there was a shortage of labor. Countries needed more workers to fuel their war efforts. Millions of men went off to fight while millions of women flooded the workforce to help produce the weapons and supplies. This was the case in the U.S., Japan, Europe, and Stalinist Russia.
The process continues. Today, businesses are driven to continually expand profits. And to expand profits, they need to sell their phones, televisions, new cars, kitchen appliances, and so on, to as many new customers as possible.
And when women are working and have earning power, that’s double the amount of people for capitalists to sell to. Women working long hours with big careers is a literal *godsend* and orgy to both business and capitalism.
As a result, you have more and more women working long hours – and less and less “stay at home Moms”.
It’s not because of brainwashing by a small group of radical feminists, but because of the billions of dollars spent by corporations to pull women into the workforce and turn them into wage-earners and consumers.
The REAL reason most women are unfeminine
Because you always see feminine women on television, in movies, in porn, and in advertisements, we’ve developed a somewhat warped and unrealistic expectation of women.
Throughout human history, this is how it worked:
A young girl started to look naturally hot at puberty. She had a young face, young skin, and her boobs and hips started to swell. This was nothing she *consciously* did. It just happened, biologically.
She didn’t have makeup, dresses, nice teeth, smell clean, or “try to look feminine”. It’s just at age 15, nature naturally provides women with attractive qualities – smooth skin, youthful features, coupled with swelling breasts.
Some young man then fucked her, and she got pregnant. She pops out a kid. And another kid. And another kid. And another kid.
By age 20 to 25, she’s looking like shit. Think breast-feeding boobs sagging, loss of muscle, hard work raising kids, and lack of sanitation. Hopefully, she lives long enough to see her kids grow before disease or famine kills her off.
The point is, women had neither the money, the technology, nor the time to “look feminine”.
So this desire of men to have women “look feminine” past their teenage years is a completely *NEW PHENONMENON*. It simply didn’t exist before.
And it’s NOT in women’s natural programming to try to look feminine. Women only looked naturally cute in their teen years, then looked like total SHIT in their 20s, and then FUCKING DIED in their 30s.
So most women lack the sense to dress up and look feminine. It’s NOT a feminist plot. It’s just how women are fundamentally programmed – they don’t give a shit.
Of course, some women figure out the “glitch in the matrix”. They learn to dress up, act feminine, and they get showered with attention and money from guys. Still, it’s a learned behavior that they figure out to manipulate guys, and NOT a natural impulse. As a result, most women don’t do it.
The REAL reason why women really have “Bitch shields”
As for women having “bitch shields”, this has nothing to do with feminism either.
Back in college I was friends with quite a few girls who were self-proclaimed “radical feminists”.
And to most feminists, feminism is a sex-positive movement that allows them to be more free with whom they slept with. And NOT a “man hating” movement to “control men.”
And I found the feminist girls were some of the EASIEST girls to get in bed with.
Just join up your University’s feminist group, run some game, and you’ll get laid like crazy.
As for “bitch shields”, if you display enough social value to a girl (leading her friends, having social proof, being clean, smiling, being positive, etc), it doesn’t matter what her ideology or her beliefs are, she’ll feel attraction for you.
She’ll throw out all of her “feminism” or, just as likely, “conservative social values” out the window to get with you.
A “bitch shield” is really just a way for a woman to test your confidence and self-value.
If you slink away at her first snub, it’s a sign of beta behavior and lack of inner confidence. But if you hang in there unreactive, the girl will “come around” and become attracted to you. This is an *innate* female behavior to weed out weak suitors, going on for thousands of years, and NOT a cultural invention of feminism.
The REAL reason why women are spoiled and demanding!
Depictions of women as drama-loving, spoiled, materialistic bitches is driven by corporate media and big money.
Of course, then there’s the other kind of “feminism”, which isn’t feminism at all.
I’m talking about the superficial, materialistic “girl power” culture where the woman feels entitled to walk all over men and live rich, while contributing nothing herself.
But these materialistic “girl power” memes are driven by business corporations trying to sell luxury spending – expensive cars, posh hotels, and overpriced clothes and jewelry to women.
It’s NOT being driven by feminists It’s being driven by MEN in corporate boardrooms who are looking to make lots of money.
The other source of superficial “girl power” are DADS and FATHERS – family men.
These men are driven to make money, and then they shower their wife and daughters with materialism and shelter their women from the real world. They treat their little girls like “princesses” and spoil them.
It’s a natural instinct as a Father to do this, but in the end it fucks women up psychologically. The woman develops a false sense of entitlement and becomes spoiled and demanding.
In either case, whether corporate driven or Father driven – it’s generally MEN creating the problem, not feminism.
The REAL reason why women are controlling in relationships…
It’s not in your girlfriend’s or wife’s personal interest to have you going around putting your dick into other vaginas.
So once you’re in an exclusive relationship with a woman, she’ll gradually attempt to reign in your independence. And if you don’t *constantly* stand up for yourself, the woman will gradually begin to control you. It’s in her instinct and self-interest to do this to her man.
Just take a look at Colombia, home of Machismo culture. Once you get into a relationship with a Colombian woman, they can become VERY controlling and watchful, and jealous. They’re paranoid that you’ll go chasing after other women, so they quietly take measures to begin controlling you.
And this is true of ALL women.
In Medieval times, even though the man had say over economic matters, at home the woman typically was very controlling of the household and micro-managed much of the man’s activities.
It has nothing to do with feminism, and everything to do with the female’s evolutionary instincts.
Women have been trying to control their mates and “neuter them” throughout human history. It’s in their instincts, and LONG before the idea of feminism ever came about.
Even if it WERE true… it would just fuck you up!
Even if feminism WAS the cause of all man’s problems, would holding that belief help your game?
The best guys in the game are very positive – almost delusionally so.
You get out of game what you put into it. When you’re positive and non-judging, women will spread their legs for more access to that feel-good energy.
As long as you’re non-judgmental, self-proclaimed feminists, socially conservative Christian girls, and all the woman in between will love you for your cool vibe.
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But if you’re assuming up front that women are warped feminist man-haters, your state and energy will be weak and women won’t respond well to you. You’ll get more negative responses, further reinforcing your belief that women suck. You then start using the idea of “evil feminism” to cover for blind-spots in your game.
Look, we know the fantasy; to meet a hot, sensual, smart woman who is dedicated and loyal to us, free of female drama, and takes care of our masculine needs, sexually and otherwise. And this woman works to keep looking feminine through her older years and always remains hot.
But it’s never been that way – and never will be.
Even western men who go to Thailand to meet a “traditional wife” who takes care of her looks become solely disappointed. These marriages with “traditional” Thai women have incredibly high divorce rates.
So whining about feminism can only hurt your game. And it’s ineffective, because these are capitalistic forces at work much larger than yourself.
A man complaining about feminism is much like a middle aged woman complaining about wearing make-up and high heels to attract a man. But men will always be men – she has to play the game. She can’t change that. She has to play the game, or watch from the sidelines. And so do you.
So let’s not be bitter. Focus on feeling good, so that women can feel good feelings from you. For that’s the secret to attraction, and making relationships work.
Your pal, Jesse