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I spent three months living in the city of Medellin in Colombia, South America, and here’s how the city stacks up for meeting girls and doing pickup.
What The Day Game In Medellin Is Like
Since most people don’t have cars, they walk or take the train or buses. So there are TONS of people out on the streets making Medellin excellent for doing day game. Even better, there’s a clean, fast, and efficient train that runs all the way through the city from one end to the other making it easy (and cheap) to get anywhere in the city.
The train itself has loads of attractive young ladies.
The downtown of Medellin is a good place to meet women. And the upscale neighborhoods like Pobablo have the more middle class women. There’s plenty of “second tier” neighborhoods crawling with women too.
Medellin has four or five shopping Malls which are just like anything you’d find in the United States too, full of women.
As long as you stick with the 7 or 8 better neighborhoods, you’ll be perfectly safe.
And because Medellin has year round beautiful Spring-like weather, any day of the year is great for going out.
For weather, logistics, and sheer number of women out on the streets, Medellin gets an A for day game.
GRADE: A
What The Nightlife Is Like
I wasn’t so impressed with the nightlife. First of all, it costs money for taxis, alcohol, and cover which keeps many of the women away. I actually found the hottest women out on the streets and not in the clubs.
Club Mango’s, in Medellin.
And upscale places like Mango’s can easily run you $100 USD for a table. Ouch!
If you want nightlife in Colombia, the city of Cartagena is better than Medellin.
GRADE: B-
What The Medellin Women Are Like
Thin and facially attractive is the ideal. You will see some real stunners. Medellin women generally work hard to look attractive.
Middle class Medellin women at one of the upscale malls.
I saw a few 9s and 10s. But most of the women I would rate 7 or 8.
You’ll find a few golden tanned blondes, but not many. Most of the women are either cinnamon tan or white with dark hair.
As an American or European there, you’re a rarity. And a hot commodity. The women will take quick notice of you and it’s a big plus. If you dye your hair blonde and put in blue colored contact you’ll be even more heavily noticed.
What I Liked About Medellin
Medellin is SAFE.
Even though you might think of Colombia as being dangerous, Medellin is very safe. I never felt in danger, not even remotely. Much of the city is very modern, clean, and green. Since Pablo Escobar was killed 15 years ago, the drug trade has moved out of Medellin and into the jungle thousands of miles away.
Parque Lleras in Poblado, the upscale neighborhood in Medellin.
You can get a furnished one bedroom apartment in the nicest neighborhood Poblado, with Internet and a month-to-month lease for about $900 USD monthly. Or you can stay at a dorm hostel in a nice area for $10 to $15 dollars a night.
Taxis are like $2 and plentiful, so no need to have your own car. Food is cheap…. $5 for a good meal at a restaurant. They have McDonald’s and Subway and all that too.
Beautiful, year round weather. Medellin is called “The City of Eternal Spring”, because it has its own micro-climate being in the mountains. Every day you have pretty nice weather, great for being outdoors. No cold winters and no humid summers.
Nice mountains surrounding the city. Really pretty. Take a girl into a Finca (basically a big, romantic cabin) in the mountains and go crazy.
More Tips
Learn Spanish. If you’re Spanish sucks, you’ll have trouble meeting women, even if the girls are attracted to you. Take the 90 lesson Pimpsleur course before you go and you’ll be set. Don’t slack off on this point – it will make all the difference.
Learn game here in the U.S. or Europe before you go. It will be a big help over there, and with even 30% game, the balls to approach, and Spanish under your belt it will be a breeze. If you can’t approach though, the girls will NOT approach you and you’ll be treading water nowhere. So get the balls to approach!!
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In conclusion, do I recommend Medellin as a swank place for meeting cute girls?
Absolutely!
~ Jesse
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Wow this will kill man oh! they are too hot to live well Let me say job weell done to this on ok
Thanks
Colombia does have some really beautiful women all over the country! If you’re ever in Colombia again, you should check out Bogota too… It’s a colder weather, but the women here are also very beautiful LOL. I’m obviously supporting this country ’cause I’m colombian
Bogota is wet and dreary… and a bit cold though.
Hey Jesse,
thanks for the info – think that my next trip abroad has to be to Medellin & Florianapolis…
That’s a good combination
colombian women are absolutely gorgeous. i have been traveling there for some time now for business and there is no other place like it as far as the sheer quality of the woman. they are also very passionate and caring
watch out …women just like money and they will do anything to scam you.
Tht is true but it isn’t always the case some times Colombian women are trying to scam you and sometimes they are just bieng nice
So fcuking true, i fell blindly in love with one paisa, total was together 3 years. We were even engaged, that how serious i was about her. so in 3 years time i blew up on her and my visits to Colombia from europe around 100000 dollars, so when i got in financial mess she dopped me in the matter of days. So it is all shit about religion, family oriented, it is all about MONEY. C.M.M.Sepulveda her name.If anyone is involved with her watch out.
Polar Bear, if you are playing the provider role in return for love and sex, a woman will generally expect you to maintain a level of providorship.
You should perhaps rephrase your assertions friend in case of misleading people and showing apathy towards most of the city’s residents. The TOURIST AREA of Medellin is safe, this is a tiny part of the Medellin area.
‘Medellin’ certainly isn’t safe – as even numerous ‘tourists’ have recently found out (some fatally).
By your logic no one should visit New York City either, as there are plenty of unsafe streets there. And yet, these are streets that no one would ever bother visiting.
Obviously, if you walk into a dark alley in a dirt poor barrio you could find yourself in trouble. But why would you ever do such a thing? Stick to the upscale, modern areas and you’re very safe.
quite mistaken,
you moron, i am colombian i now live in medellin in what is considered a high-middle class neighborhood, and still on a bright day, i have seen people getting mugged, killed, and attacked.
most of my friends hang out at the posh- preppy-hipster neighborhood of lleras, and most of them have been taken advantage of by either muggers or others around( thats what you can really expect from a colombian), many crooks hang around since its by far THE ONLY ACCESIBLE PLACE to go to, and its overrated and overpriced.
i have no qualms about rightfully calling you a moron.
Medellin is safe if you use common sense . Its very much like any other large city ( I was raised in Chicago ) . The tourist areas are not tiny . They are quite large with many things to keep you entertained . Please don’t listen to this person.
Medellin as a whole should NOT be considered a safe city. It is a city that can DEFINETLY GIVE YOU A FALSE SENSE OF SECURITY.
Jesse Charger and others who state matter of factly Medellin is safe should back off and tread lightly here.
Over the past 10 -15 years since becoming interested and visiting medellin I know of MANY gringos who have been mugged, drugged, express kidnapped, robbed, had their belongings stolen, had their places of residences broken into while they were there, and a number have been shot. This can happen in daylight in any area of the city. DO NOT THINK THE LOCALS WILL COME TO YOUR ASSISSTANCE. Also, tread extremely lightly or not at all regarding getting involved in local squabbles or trying to be a hero or good samaritan.
Stay in the nice areas and you’ll be fine; I knew of one guy who was walking around the downtown area at night by himself, on deserted streets, looking for girls, and got mugged. It’s all about using common sense.
Nice areas? If you live in Medellin sooner or later you will have someone interested in you. Yes Jesse you are very experienced in what you are saying, but i grew up during the time when iron curtain collapsed, and i was on that side at the time and i know what is that. You do not and never will be able to understand this. Medellin is dangerous city, it does not mean i am afraid, be careful there at all times, and you have to be physically very fit( as i am ), in case. I can assure you if you will kill the guy who was trying to rob you without any witnesses( in general those rats work in the dark) nobody ever will find out in Medellin, same applies to you. Drug lords etc, it is wrong place to be.You just keep on shagging quietly and that is it, if something happens you will run back where you came from as fast as you can.
Medellin women must be the most overrated in the world. By my opinion, any major American, European, and Asian city has vastly superior female prospects. Furthermore, ‘safe’ is a relative term. The women here are known for drugging their partners and stealing everything he has out of their apartments. Let’s put it in a more grounded perspective, I have lived here for 3 months and know of 3 people that have been mugged in medellin. Lived in New York for years and never knew anyone to be mugged. Don’t believe the lies, Medellin is no better, and in many cases much worse, than other major world cities. Oh, and my spanish is plenty capable so don’t let that be my demerit.
Yeah, I agree that the women are overrated
Frederick,
You must be a dick. A dick will never enjoy himself anywhere. I would pick Medellin over New York any day.
The women in Medellin are incredible , I have been all over the world and nothing compares to Medellin . Take it or leave it , but its true.
Fredrick I lived in Medellin for 3 months as well and never knew of anyone to have been mugged, mugging happen everywhere it’s just about luck. I only recommend Colombia to everyone i meet, I’ve travelled much of the world and it’s not only the beautiful women but also the friendliness and hospitable nature of it’s people that make it my number1 country of the 37 I’ve been to.
I second that
my boyfriend just went w/his guy friends…..this sux!
I am from New York and have been living in colombia for almost 6 years (1 to 6 months every year) , from Barranquilla to Bogota and most cities inbetween. I work , study at Upb and travel in colombia. Over all, I find colomiba intresting , fun , full of life . A bit dangerous but never had a problem . As far as dating and meeting hot laides , it is faster with a higher rate of succuss. One thing beside speaking the language you have to like the latin culture as some of you know is somewhat differnt than the culture in eeuu.
chris
Great tips Chris, thanks
And if you strike out in Lleras or hitting the clubs you can always go the route of paying to play. The really hot girls there are like anywhere else in the world. It is either going to take a little work or a little money. Lots of guys if they strike out just end up going the route of using a site so they don’t leave without getting some play. Or you can do that on day 1, everyone knows if you are getting some action its easier to continue getting some.
Colombia is a beautiful places -
I am from medellin Colombia : so when people say oh the women are beautiful
Thank you that’s a compliment
I think the reason why we are beautiful is because we are family oriented :love people, nice friendly , outgoing , very sensual, loving , respectful. Beauty comes from within and I think many women think as long as they look good thats enough: another thing is I think there is beautiful women all over the world : it depends what type of women you are attracted to : same as for women :
it all comes down to what type of women u want and if Colombian are ur type: and if not then visit another city maybe something will come
Nice, a native has spoken
some women are beautiful. some are not. like everywhere else. i was not extremely impressed.
yeah it’s going to depend on what’s the type that attracts you
Colombian women and Latin American women in general are so far superior to women from the US. They are more attractive, loyal and know how to treat men. US women are skanky, overweight, and gold digging whores. I don’t know why any US man would ever want to marry a local woman, horrendous whores.
In reality both have their merits and their downsides. Check out my mega-post on Colombia for the pros and cons
I have been to costa rica and Peru a number of times, you are correct about being better then american women,but watch out they have some losers as well .some w ill not deal with you when leave ,the trick to meet a good number the losers will drop out and you may meet some one good,buena suerte!!!
“The day game ” is the one i,ve always played since i started visiting Colombia in 2007; 4 times Bogota and Medellin for the first time in october 2011.With my very “chocoano” look i never had a problem (discrimination or lack of interes from girls) so far.
I,m a very good observer when i,m somewhere and what i,ve noticed is that the first seconds when i enter a place it,s like a bit of a shock…Before i didn,t understood this reaction but now i know why and i have to admit i enjoy the reaction .Especially during my second visit to Bogata,the “Irish Pub” at zona T and last year at Hooters Medellin.One of the “hooters girls” showed a lot of interest in me but i gave her the “hard to get attitude” and she really was surprised but i promised her to return to Medellin in 2012. The day before i left she wrote me some nice notes in her “own english” on my receipt. Lovely !
The day game is the whole game . That,s the time to easily get youre self a female companion for the night.At night girls are in a group with guys around them and you better back of. In 2003 i knocked down a swedish guy in a swedish disco cause one girl left the group and started to chill with me and one of her friends didn,t apreciate it that she left the group to talk and drink with me (a black guy).He started shouting and yelling so i had to cool him down the “Mike Tyson” way.Ok,forget it ! Use to check the internet/phone houses,quiet bars/coffeeshops and supermarkets like EXITO,CARULLA and especially the wine and liquor section.Always ask their advice about wines and during the “explanation” i pop some personal questions……. My spanish is not from a high level but i ALWAYS start the conversation.I,m not a shy person when it,s about girls,neither in EUROPE where i live nor in Colombia where it,s a very easy “task” to get a girl.
THIS BLACK,CHOCOANO looking guy knows how to play the game !!!!
Ok, excuse me for my english
looking forward to visiting medellin in september…
plan to enjoy
Is more what tipe of women you like. I”m from south-america, a countrey Suriname nearest Brazil. I travelled in south-america! Most impress by women from Argentinian, Chilean and Brazilian women. But Argentinian women is the best.To day i lived in the Netherlands in the city Amsterdam.If you like blond tall natural beauty, Holland is the place to be! I repeat Holland! They are amazing beatiful. and friendly and easy to talk. If you know you stuff like Jesse, you get laid easy.No joke! Visit Amsterdam you wanna stay forever. Nice countrey to life.
I am heading to Medellin with a couple of friends of mine for the weekend ending the 29th right before Halloween. My girlfriend who is Columbian might go with us but were not sure she can make it yet. I’m sure if she goes to be a very good tour guide , But if she doesn’t go does anybody have any suggestions of good places to go for Halloween parties??
Your girlfriend is Colombian and you can’t even spell “Colombia”?
White girls??, i’m in Colombia since 2 days and i haven’t seen the first white girl, r u sure what you are saying??
I have been to 40 countries and I found Medellin to be one of the more overrated cities I’ve ever been to. The writer is correct in that Spanish is crucial to meeting girls and daytime is the best time to meet women. He was also correct in that the number of light-skinned paisas is very limited and probably a little misleading. For instance, I had people calling me a rubio when I have dark brown hair and blue eyes.
The middle/upper class women that live in or frequent Gringolandia (Poblado/Parque Lleras) are not likely interested in a gringo unless the gringo is connected to her social network and regularly spends time in the city. There are a lot of gringos, particularly retired ones, that live and visit Poblado. Many of them are usually creeping on the chicks so if you think you are going to be something unique there, you are in for a surprise. You need to get outside the protection of the fake parts of the city and to do that you need to be at least conversationally capable in Spanish.
Overall, I found paisas to be more possessive, superficial, affectionate, and loyal in comparison to American girls.
Thanks Jay, great tips.
When you first get to Medellin it seems like it has the hottest women you’ve ever seen. But the more time you spend there the more you realize it’s really a city full of 7′s…and because so many women are attractive but not amazing, you’re blown away at first.
It’s probably on par with Buenos Aires, Rio, Amsterdam, Miami, etc.
The women are also smaller in mde, 5’2 – 5’3 average height. Also, plastic surgery is WILDLY popular, which is a big reason there are a lot of pretty faces.
Jay is absolutely right about the gringos….tons of retired ones who sleep with countless “prepagos”.
If you think you’re going to go there and be treated as something special or exotic, you are going to be very disappointed. Gringos may have been exotic 25 years ago in Medellin, but now they definitely are not.
You DO get *some* attention, particularly if you’re blonde with blue eyes, or are tall. But your average guy… if you suck in your home country with girls, you’ll also suck in Colombia.
Gringos get no special treatment at all in Medellin….nobody cares, especially the women. Jay is absolutely correct.
As the guy above said, when I first went to Medellin Colombia in 2005 it was around 8 at night and the taxi took me to my hotel (hotel mediterraneo) the first two girls (also customers) I saw when I walked into the hotel were two of the most beautiful women I had ever seen in my life. So I thought to myself , well Colombia is indeed the greatest place as I had heard. However the more time I spent and went back to Colombia I realized that in general the average women there are not that great. In fact the truth is, overall for the quantity of hot looking women you´re better off just crossing over the border to Mexico and go down to Senaloa around the Mazatlan area. Again when you do see a hot woman in Colombia they will be the best in the world but % wise Mexico is better. However the personality and attitude of Colombian women I find to be sweeter and not the hot tempered cut your balls off if you look at another women attitude of Mexican girls. I now live in Peru for business reasons and as far as Peruvian women go, they have faces like the kind you see on a totem pole. Needless to say don´t waste your time in Peru.
Hey! Peru looks great!
Even if the girls don’t look good as Medellin at least if you are in a dance club they don’t stop coming to talk and dance with you.
If you go to a girl in Peru she will at least smile to you and talk.
Peru is great when you are felling down and useless. The girls know how to make you feel better.
I have been there 3 times and the Calle de las Pizzas, Larcomar mall and Barranco were great places to go at night.
Great tips Bill
Medellin is one of the best to go out I ever seen.
You can go to Parque Lleras or some malls plenty of bars and dance clubs at El Poblado area. El Poblado looks to be safer.
If you want to get laid you will have to forget about being shy. They don’t come to you to say hi. You will have to take all steps and talk a lot to get one.
BTW, I am blond and I felt like I was the only one there.
Maybe it can work like a bonus.
I´ve been living in Peru for about 4 years now doing export business. I´ll just tell you like I tell my friends back home, Peru isn´t the place to come too if you´re looking for hot chicks period. I have lived in the jungle, sierra and Lima and have been pretty much everywhere in Peru with the exception of the upper northwest side like Piura and Tumbes. Sure you can find a few nice girls even in the worst hellholes on Earth but The fact of the matter is most Peruvian women are just too indigenous looking, so if you like girls that look like Pocahontas (and not the cartoon ¨cute¨ version either) than you will like Peru. But it´s not just that they are physically unattractive they are also like lifeless Zombies. These girls can´t fuck either, it´s like fucking a dead corpse with these Peruvian girls and I´ve been with girls from the jungle also where they are supposed to be more ¨caliente¨ but that my friends is all BS. The women here are also lazy and don´t take care of their bodies. Some of the chicks you see have the meat in the right places but they don´t do any exercise to tone that shit up. Sure they´re easy to get but shit the only ones that have some talent in bed are the ones that have been with gringos before. If you do find a cute one, not only is she going to know she´s hot but millions of other guys are already trying to get her also. Another thing about Peruvian women is they don´t seem to have any real preferences in men, it´s all about resources that they need at the moment. It could be money, food, clothes or whatever but they will go with the man that has which ever resources they need at the time to give. It doesn´t matter if you are a young goodlooking guy or an old man in a wheelchair they will go for the resources and not physical attraction or anything natural like that. Me, I don´t even waste my time with Peruvian chicks anymore I always go over to Colombia or Brazil for women, it´s WAY better.
I agree with you Bill… the women in Peru were pretty ugly.
Hello Chaps
Well I toured around Southern South America cOMMENCED BA. cycled 1month to LAS GRUTAS then Bus Nov 2012 to Deb 2013.
In General Argentina women Vey average – Some stunning ones n the Cities Especially in tourist offices and Working behind the bar etc. – but in general average. 6-8 / ten
I was in Peru Cusco and Lima – There ar some hot ladies there.
I met 6 from the Internet 3 of them were Nice indeed one was a hottie – age 38 I mean it was Lust Lust and Lust.
You maybe a little correct about the material side of thngs. But I di find a few nice genuine girls. I Went the distance with 3 – Yes Average in Bed, -Not Lazy – Just average.
I also met a Peruvian womane in Argentina She is Genuine Good in bed (45) and could trust here with anything.- you could put £1000 on the tabel it would be there the next day,
Hence Bringing here over end of the year.
I have not been to Colombia yet .
mAYBE LATER ON THIS YEAR Any advice would be helpful on where to go .
To Graham:
If you like light skinned girls go to Medellin or if you like darker ones go to Cali, that is the general consensus anyway. You will need to make a friend there to help introduce you women because it’s pretty hard meeting girls unless you are extremely outgoing. However once you have meet some and if they are attracted to you banging them is usualy pretty easy.
This guy who said that women in NYC are hotter than the ones in Medellin needs an eye exam…Medellin has the most and hotter beautiful women in Colombia, yes is the plastic surgery capital of Colombia but who cares? the only drawback is that Medellin women loves to be pampered and love expensive gifts….if you can afford that you will be in heaven.
Why go all the way to Colombia when the hottest chicks of all cultures are in south Florida? All they’re COLOMBIAN chicks with better plastic surgery are there. I’ve been to Medellin 7 times and Cartagena twice in addition to ten other countries. It’s overated and 80 percent of those so called hot chicks are hookers. Don’t be surprised if after a night of fun they ask for their money.
Yeah, you can find pretty hot girls in most any cities, you just need to know where to look.
went with Medellin gorgeous 51 year old (looked 30) in the US……..as soon as the money stopped she was gone………..most gorgeous woman I’ve ever seen nude………
I know I have crazy skills with the ladies. Its a must that I work on my spanish if i’m to have any success crushing hot chicks in Medellin. I’m a black guy. If the Medellin women aren’t showing love to the brothers then made I shouldn’t go. What do you think? I have been to Barranquilla twice didn’t have a problem there.
The Medellin girls may be slightly racist, not sure
Honestly, racism is no worst than in the US. I am black and have been to Medellin 4 times. Learning spanish is a must and cash is KING. I dated two chicks that I met on Colombian cupid. There were light-skinned and even allowed me to stay a few days in their house. They like the ‘serpiente negro.’
Well, I’ve traveled all over south america, but the only country I actually lived in for any length of time was Brazil. Brazil is a haven for women, some hot, some average, some ugly…the point is that Brasileiras are there to game, generally speaking. It helps if you speak Portuguese. I am really hoping to get to Colombia more sooner than later. I spent 4 weeks in Cali a couple years back and I got some action but it wasn’t as easy as Brazil I must say. I am an average American guy, not too tall, not super buff, white guy with blue eyes about 5’8″. But the average Caleña was quite attractive I must say, some were super stunning. I’m looking forward to spending some time on the Carribean coast, Bogota, Medellin. My impression was that the Colombian women don’t let it all hang out as much as the Brazilians. The Colombian women seemed to be a little more conservative.
Colombian women are more conservative than Brazilian women, but colombia is much, much cheaper and Spanish is easier to learn than portuguese.
First of all, thanks Jesse for this honest modern opinion of Medellin. All these people saying it’s so dangerous and girls are average get the hell out. Every city in every country has muggings, murders, drugs, fights, kidnappings, hot girls, average girls and ugly girls. For the “dangers” don’t be a fucking idiot and you can survive in any city around the world.
As for the girls, OMG. Most places you travel to across the globe out of 10 girls, 1 is super hot, 2 average hot, 2 just cute and 5 not so hot. In Medellin when you go out, 4 are super hot, 2 average hot, 2 just cute, and 2 not so hot.
We’re not talking about vacationing in Medellin to find a wife, we are talking about traveling the world hooking up with insanely hot chicks. Medellin is an amazing place to find extremely hot chicks who are easy to talk to and easy to have a great time with.
I am straight up white; I’m talking 6ft, skinny, blond hair, blue eyes. I don’t even speak spanish fluently and I can get whatever chicks in Medellin. I just go around the University or clubs asking girls “habla ingles, habla ingles”. It’s not about getting one chick and going home with her that night, It’s about talking to 5-10 chicks during the night, The ones you get along with really well at the club or whatever give them your cell number and insist they call you so you have there number, then get them to put their name in under the contact. Ask them to take a motorcycle ride through the mountains the next day or go to dinner, whatever your style is. In a couple days you will find yourself with a ton of girls at your disposal.
I normally rent a two or three bedroom condo for $600-$800 usd per month. That way you always have a room for you and the girl of the night, you also have an extra room for your friends or the girls friends. Every place in Medellin pretty much has gated underground parking if you have a motorcycle/car, or if your girls have a vehicle they drive over. The places I stay always have guards as well and they are in the nice neighborhoods.
If you are already comfortable around females you will thrive in this city and get whatever chicks you want. The weather is warm every day so they don’t cover up with a lot of clothes, you can see exactly what you are going after. For me the most fun time to be there is during October because they celebrate Halloween like crazy. Everyone parties all the time and half naked chicks are running around looking for a good time the whole month.
Will women in medellin like me if I am in my 20s