Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work

You can also lower a girl’s social value in relation to yours with quick lines by negging women.

Here are some examples of negging women:

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“Your roots are showing.”

“Your nose is a little red. You’re like an Eskimo. Cool.”

“You know, you look just like my little sister. Weird.”

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Effect of a neg on a hot girl illustrated

“You know, I like that outfit you’ve got on… but I don’t know… your shoes don’t really match. You should have gone with tan boots…”

To her guy friends, “So what’s special about this one.”

If she’s talking tell her friends, “So do you guys ever get a word in edge wise?”

“Hey… you look like that cartoon character… yeah that’s right, Rainbow Brite remember her?”

“I like your eyes. Hey… are you wearing colored contacts??? (before she can answer) Oh my god, no way, you are…”

“You know, your body language is all closed off. It makes you look like one of those newborns I saw on the discovery channel when they came out of the womb – all curled up.”

“Hey, you’re a goof.”

By negging women, you’ve indicated to her that you’re not interested in her over anyone else in the group. This is a new thing for her. She’ll feel the bitter sting of being just like everyone else. Her looks no longer give her all the power – because you’re not responding to her looks.

Because you’re demonstrating social value to the group at the same time she’s wondering, “Why isn’t this guy attracted to me? Why isn’t this guy paying attention to me? Who is this guy? How am I going to win this guy’s attention?”

Everyone wants to be liked. Everyone wants approval. No one wants to be ignored. The same holds true for beautiful women – even more so. Their whole reality is based on having power and having acceptance and adoration through their good looks. Take that away and their whole reality crumbles and they’ll do anything to get it back.

Negging women is ideal for really hot girls – 8s, 9s, and 10s. For an average girl (6s, 7s), you don’t want to use value zingers. All you need to do is demonstrate social value – you don’t need to lower hers. Hers wasn’t that high to begin with.

Negging women is unnecessary and inappropriate to use on girls who are already being friendly or giving you green lights. Don’t throw one out of the blue for no reason at a girl who is already responding well.

But if she’s super hot and you’ve just met her, that’s a different story. Use a neg or two on her.

Now, it’s critical to use negs right. Remember, you’re not out to damage the girl’s self confidence or put her down. You’re not out to mess up her self-esteem. Some guys in particular cross the line and start throwing soft insults and treating women like second-class human beings when they don’t deserve it.

The point is to make yourself stand out as socially valuable male and a challenge, not to make her feel bad. But used correctly, negging women is a powerful tool in your arsenal.

Update From The Author

I noticed that my post on negging “Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work” has drawn a lot of negative comments from women.

I understand the blowback.  I understand where some of you girls are coming from.  You see negging as a form of bullying or insults.

And most women are pretty sensitive to the idea of it, based on being bullied in real life.

Most women, particularly in high school, were teased, gossiped about, or bullied in some fashion – and usually from other women.  Pretty girls especially face negativity from their female friends, as pretty girls tend to hang in “pretty social circles” where there’s a lot of superficial cattiness, backstabbing, and competition.

Or even if you’ve never been bullied or teased yourself, you’ve seen the devastating effect it had on your classmates.  So naturally, you feel sympathy.

But anger at ‘negging’ is misplaced.

First, we are talking about a night club environment.  There’s lots of REJECTION involved, inherent to the environment.

And most of the rejection is aimed at the GUYS.

Haven’t either you or one of your friends ever ignore a guy?  Like, not even acknowledge his presence when he tried to talk to you.

It’s often pretty CRUSHING to the guy’s self-esteem that he isn’t given 10 seconds to acknowledge he’s another human being to talk to and say “hello”.  Ignoring a guy completely is much crueler than any neg a guy would dish.  (Like, “Hey girl!  You have some lint in your hair… look at that.”)

Then again, it’s a night club.  If a guy’s ego is so fragile, he shouldn’t go.

So please girls, if a guy told you that you had lint in your hair and that would “cut you down” or would “crush you”, and your ego is THAT fragile, then don’t go to night clubs!!  After all, the guys have to deal with MUCH WORSE from you girls!

In addition, Negs are for those glamour girls that have been spoiled all their lives by Daddy and have little sense of reality (like Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton for example).  These are the types of girls that enjoy shooting “nice guys” down.  It’s THAT kind of girl that negs are designed to attract.

So if you’re a normal-looking girl with a normal attitude, you probably will NEVER BE NEGGED in your life.  So for crying-out-loud, don’t worry about it.

Further consider that 99.9% of guys are SO damn nervous in clubs and bars that they can’t even approach a girl without wetting their briefs… let alone finding the balls to neg a pretty girl.

So don’t worry, it’s statistically unlikely to ever happen to you, even if you DO look like a runway model.  Most guys will never approach you, or they’ll just try to kiss your ass to get into your pants.  And that’s SO much better than those bad boys, right?

But since those guys are NOT a challenge in the slightest, they’re not attractive to you.  That’s why you blow them off.

That’s what a neg does – creates a challenge to the female.  That’s what attractive guys do.  And ANY guy you’ve ever fallen for, on some level, you had to chase HIM.  Every single guy you ever had a crush on made YOU chase HIM.

I know it’s simple to latch onto a cause, leave a comment, and feel like you’re serving justice in some small way by taking a stand against the 1 in 10,000 guys that have the balls to neg a girl like, “Hey girl!  It’s funny how your nose wiggles when you talk!”  But really, it’s an empty cause!

P.S. If you still disagree with this assessment, please leave a comment, I welcome all opinions!  😆

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  1. Pretty girls, more so than others, deal with this type of behavior within their social circles. Therefore I don’t subscribe to the idea that this is going to damage their self worth.

    I’ve had guys do this in the past and it has never worked out the way they intend. I always come back with something equally as snarky – and as you know, pretty girls are really good at being bi tchy. I never understood why men would do this until I read this article. I assumed they were ignorant and lacked social etiquette. How misunderstood you men really are.

    Best of luck in your endeavors.

  2. “In addition, Negs are for those glamour girls that have been spoiled all their lives by Daddy and have little sense of reality (like Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton for example). These are the types of girls that enjoy shooting “nice guys” down. It’s THAT kind of girl that negs are designed to attract.”

    So if this is only for a small, shallow minority, why is it a major focus for you? Why do you want the girls that shoot nice guys down? Hmm are you responding to negging yourself while also being a shallow asshole only wanting to hook up with a woman based on her looks?

  3. If the concept about negging women in a club environment is so fucking important perhaps you should place that as the title dumb shit. I, a nice girl who is surrounded by men (which is 97% the office) NEGS ME ALL THE FUCKING TIME BECAUSE PIECE OF SHITS LIKE YOU POST THIS GARBAGE. I’m nice to all of them and still get back-handed compliments FOR NO FUCKING REASON. Tell me EXACTLY how THAT IS FAIR.

  4. “Most women, particularly in high school, were teased, gossiped about, or bullied in some fashion – and usually from other women” by the vicious girls in the “pretty social circles.” Women are not gentle creatures. There is no need to go easy on them. If they weren’t hostile and self- absorbed, men would not have to use “negging” to counter- act their bitchy acts, because women would take responsibility for their sexuality by approaching men.

    Even 6s and 7s throw up “shit tests” and actively try to sabotage your effort to reel them in AFTER they have shown themselves responsive by qualifying themselves, i.e. stating why they find you attractive. Either she get’s negged by a beta or the assertive male shuts her down with hard seduction, “I want you and want to _______ to you.”

  5. Negs can work there is a fine line to be walked with this technique and certainly a relationship can’t be built no this at all. But using one or two mild well placed negs in a conversation can work. Heck some women even admit that it works. And the reason many women say it doesn’t work is for the same reason women won’t tell their male friends that what women really want is intimate dirty sex. It’s taboo, that can’t admit it. Likewise women will rarely if ever admit that negs work.

    Here are my top negs. You tell me what is wrong with these?

    Awh I like the way you laugh your nose goes all crinkly like a little bunny rabbit.

    You know you blink alot.

    I just saw a girl outside wearing the exact same outfit.

    You neg haters can’t tell me that these comments are degrading women really. In fact they are likely to laugh.

  6. you people really don’t get it, and i can only assume 1) you are either a white knight who will reside in the friend zone of every girl you meet until they hit their wall at 30, and start looking for someone malleable and with money to support their life styles. or 2) you are females. Negging is not blatantly being an asshole or putting a girl down to try to make her feel bad. It has to be done in a playful manner about things that are very superficial and not truly going to make them feel bad about themselves. it can also be called banter. yes some men are horrible at it and don’t understand how to use it correctly, so they just come off as over compensating dickheads. It is all part of the game, and you women take just as much part in it, if not more so, than males do. You want to bitch at us about “running game” or deceiving you, but at least you can see what you are going to get. On the other hand you ladies are so deceptive that i might fall asleep next to a 10, and wake up next to a 5. hundreds of example videos on youtube of makeup tutorials making a woman look absolutely nothing like what she really looks like. Pounds of make up, fake eye lashes, tans, pushup bras, fake hair extensions, high heels, you name it. i mean god you ladies are the epitome of deception when it comes to the sex game. to make matters worse, modern day feminism is shitting on the male population and making things even more difficult for men if they aren’t in the top 10-15 %. i have friends that have absolutely no chance to hook up with a girl when we go out because they will get ignored from the get-go, simply because they aren’t over six feet tall, have a six pack, and aren’t a ceo of a company, as just about every woman things she is entitled to now. you want to talk about shallow just look in the mirror, and the feminist dominated media is just diluting the minds of the younger generation more and more, so these trends are only going to get worse. Men need at least some tools of the trade since we can’t literally modify our entire appearance before we head out to a club.

  7. How sad you think this is a good way to attract a woman. What happened to good old fashioned proving yourself a decent enough person to want to be with? So what if high maintenance girls put you down in nightclubs — Don’t talk to them. If they are so awful they are obviously not worth it so why don’t you concentrate on finding nice girls who won’t, then concentrate on positive interaction instead of negative doesn’t-do-anyone-any-good snarks. The behaviour you promote in this article is exactly the sort of tactic abusers use to bully and control their abuse-es. Have some F-ing sense of responsibility you numpty.

  8. Oh I’ve had douches try to “neg” me my whole life, even though I grew up in an abusive household and have seen my share of the bad side of the USA. It IS ****EXTREMELY*** transparent and pathetic. How many times do they think we’ve heard this shit before??? It’s a way to say “Hi, beautiful woman. I’m an insecure Douchebag”. The ONLY way to win a woman is to sincerely deliver many, many compliments about her good qualities and beauty, be loyal and faithful, and get down on your knees and thank God that you ever had the chance to even be near her let alone sleep with her. Chances are, you’ll never, never have such an opportunity again so if you like it, put a ring on it LOL LOL Oh and women have a very sharp memory for who has ever tried this before. Should you try something like this and it fails, which it most certainly will, you will forever be a “marked man” and avoided like the plague -not only that, her circle of friends will be secretly informed and you will be laughed at and banned from the entire group. And trust me when I say, the word about this spreads like wildfire. You might as well get used to sleeping alone if you become known for this sort of thing in any way. So you’d be best off being sincere and very, very complimentary right from the start.

  9. You win sex, IF you don’t show indications of thinking of the woman as a soft, warm spot on legs. And, seriously, just because you are only doing it to a select group of women doesn’t mean it’s not bad.

  10. now that you explained negging to all the dam women on earthm it isnt going to work on them anymore, duh! do you guys want to know what will really work on women? BOYCOTTING THEM! thats right, keep it in your pants for a few months, ignore the women, ALL of you guys, and see if we dont then have a complete power shift. but you guys CANT keep it in your pants, cuz you are weak, arent you! thats why all of us males end up LOSING this battle of the sexes.

      1. yeah that’s clearly what he is saying, that he hates women. did you even read what the fuck he wrote? you women have no fucking idea what you want. you have no idea what it is like to approach a woman and have no idea how she is going to respond. you all get so pissed at men for “running game” and trying to figure out how to get you to respond, while you have a face full of make up, fake eye lashes, fake hair extensions, a pushup bra and god knows what else going on. get the fuck over it. the game is how the game is and men have it WAAAAYY more difficult. until women are the ones that have to approach men, buy them drinks, and do all the other shit just shut the fuck up and stop complaining about men giving you attention, and then complaining when they aren’t giving you attention as well. as i said in the beginning you really don’t know what you want, you contradict your selves more than you even know.

  11. Soooo…I’m guessing this is for ugly guys to hit on women who really are out their league in the hopes that they are stupid and will fall for this??? It’s cruel to pick on people who aren’t as smart as others, any way you slice it. No intelligent, confident woman would fall for this; so you are interacting with women who suffer from emotional issues and exploiting them to get sex. While it’s sad, I suppose it’s natural selection. Your offspring will be similar to you and your mate. So enjoy that grungy nursing home and fifteen baby daddies, etc. Why oh why do we make people take driving tests to drive but not to procreate? Well, this doesn’t matter that much. I’ll just sit back watch as you and your type are removed from the gene pool.

  12. lol while reading this i seriously remembered all those times guys did this to me and every time it just made me cringe and feel ashamed for the guy.

  13. Wouldn’t it be better not to manipulate or play games at all? Why not put your GENUINE, unique self out there? Sure, there will be rude, inconsiderate people who will treat you poorly. They are not worth your time! They are doing you a favor by making their narcissism obvious. You don’t want that in your life anyway. It may take a while, but you WILL meet a worthwhile woman, it may not be that particular night or in that particular bar.

    In addition, many of these rude women are very insecure themselves. Try, (and I know it isn’t easy) to keep that in mind and not take the rejection quite so personal.

    Her rejection is probably the result of being profoundly mistreated by someone in her childhood.-

  14. as a dude I don’t know how i feel about the whole thing but girls seriously this thing you think happens where you actually like and fall for the nice guy routeen is bull. most women don’t want the nice guy who treats the girl well like a princess and puts up with her crap because we usually get friend zoned while the guy who comes in and doesn’t really care at first what you say and who is more edgey with you is the one you take home. that doesn’t mean those dudes aren’t good guys but the behaviour is different. most women have been socialised to believe the male approaches and you guys get to decide who’s in and out and you have fooled yourself into believing it’s because he was nice and seemed like he would treat you right, attraction isn’t rational for men or women, you go home with the cheeky guy who had the balls to make you stop and think and who gave you a bit of banter. you are delusional if you think you look at a timid guy with a good job who will treat you great and think oh i want him. most times that doesn’t happen at least not in the first contact otherwise flirting wouldn’t exist. men have to jump through crazy hoops to attract women assuming any of you give those of us who are good nice people the time of day so it’s not that different from men having a few hoops of our own for you to jump through. we are attracted to somebody not because they are a good choice. i know so many girls who get their motor running with the dickheads and are only friends with the guys who are nice and treat them awesome. the logic is flawed. then again these things can be done in a suttle way without upsetting somebodys self esteem this stuff works otherwise their wouldn’t be an industry

  15. I have been ‘negged’ and let me tell you, it is the stupidest thing a guy could possibly do. I don’t even remember what he said, something about my dress. I just looked at him and walked away. It did not pique my interest in him, did not make me think he was part of a ‘higher social class.’ It just made me think he was an asshole.

    I don’t deserve to be spoken to that way, and I don’t tolerate it. This entire concept of negging is just so asinine.

  16. Speaking as a “pretty girl” who makes a living from being “pretty” I can tell you that these comments would either just piss me off or make me think you’re a weirdo. I fell in love with my husband because he was genuine, sweet, romantic and intelligent. If he had told me my roots are showing or that I look like sister (YUCK) when we first met, he would never get my number or go out with me. Maybe this crap works on some insecure little girls but not confident WOMEN.