Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work

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You can also lower a girl’s social value in relation to yours with quick lines by negging women.

Here are some examples of negging women:

For a girl with a belly shirt: “Did your shirt shrink in the laundry?”

“Your roots are showing.”

“Your nose is a little red. You’re like an Eskimo. Cool.”

“You know, you look just like my little sister. Weird.”

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Effect of a neg on a hot girl illustrated

“You know, I like that outfit you’ve got on… but I don’t know… your shoes don’t really match. You should have gone with tan boots…”

To her guy friends, “So what’s special about this one.”

If she’s talking tell her friends, “So do you guys ever get a word in edge wise?”

“Hey… you look like that cartoon character… yeah that’s right, Rainbow Brite remember her?”

“I like your eyes. Hey… are you wearing colored contacts??? (before she can answer) Oh my god, no way, you are…”

“You know, your body language is all closed off. It makes you look like one of those newborns I saw on the discovery channel when they came out of the womb – all curled up.”

“Hey, you’re a goof.”

By negging women, you’ve indicated to her that you’re not interested in her over anyone else in the group. This is a new thing for her. She’ll feel the bitter sting of being just like everyone else. Her looks no longer give her all the power – because you’re not responding to her looks.

Because you’re demonstrating social value to the group at the same time she’s wondering, “Why isn’t this guy attracted to me? Why isn’t this guy paying attention to me? Who is this guy? How am I going to win this guy’s attention?”

Everyone wants to be liked. Everyone wants approval. No one wants to be ignored. The same holds true for beautiful women – even more so. Their whole reality is based on having power and having acceptance and adoration through their good looks. Take that away and their whole reality crumbles and they’ll do anything to get it back.

Negging women is ideal for really hot girls – 8s, 9s, and 10s. For an average girl (6s, 7s), you don’t want to use value zingers. All you need to do is demonstrate social value – you don’t need to lower hers. Hers wasn’t that high to begin with.

Negging women is unnecessary and inappropriate to use on girls who are already being friendly or giving you green lights. Don’t throw one out of the blue for no reason at a girl who is already responding well.

But if she’s super hot and you’ve just met her, that’s a different story. Use a neg or two on her.

Now, it’s critical to use negs right. Remember, you’re not out to damage the girl’s self confidence or put her down. You’re not out to mess up her self-esteem. Some guys in particular cross the line and start throwing soft insults and treating women like second-class human beings when they don’t deserve it.

The point is to make yourself stand out as socially valuable male and a challenge, not to make her feel bad. But used correctly, negging women is a powerful tool in your arsenal.

Update From The Author

I noticed that my post on negging “Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work” has drawn a lot of negative comments from women.

I understand the blowback.  I understand where some of you girls are coming from.  You see negging as a form of bullying or insults.

And most women are pretty sensitive to the idea of it, based on being bullied in real life.

Most women, particularly in high school, were teased, gossiped about, or bullied in some fashion – and usually from other women.  Pretty girls especially face negativity from their female friends, as pretty girls tend to hang in “pretty social circles” where there’s a lot of superficial cattiness, backstabbing, and competition.

Or even if you’ve never been bullied or teased yourself, you’ve seen the devastating effect it had on your classmates.  So naturally, you feel sympathy.

But anger at ‘negging’ is misplaced.

First, we are talking about a night club environment.  There’s lots of REJECTION involved, inherent to the environment.

And most of the rejection is aimed at the GUYS.

Haven’t either you or one of your friends ever ignore a guy?  Like, not even acknowledge his presence when he tried to talk to you.

It’s often pretty CRUSHING to the guy’s self-esteem that he isn’t given 10 seconds to acknowledge he’s another human being to talk to and say “hello”.  Ignoring a guy completely is much crueler than any neg a guy would dish.  (Like, “Hey girl!  You have some lint in your hair… look at that.”)

Then again, it’s a night club.  If a guy’s ego is so fragile, he shouldn’t go.

So please girls, if a guy told you that you had lint in your hair and that would “cut you down” or would “crush you”, and your ego is THAT fragile, then don’t go to night clubs!!  After all, the guys have to deal with MUCH WORSE from you girls!

In addition, Negs are for those glamour girls that have been spoiled all their lives by Daddy and have little sense of reality (like Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton for example).  These are the types of girls that enjoy shooting “nice guys” down.  It’s THAT kind of girl that negs are designed to attract.

So if you’re a normal-looking girl with a normal attitude, you probably will NEVER BE NEGGED in your life.  So for crying-out-loud, don’t worry about it.

Further consider that 99.9% of guys are SO damn nervous in clubs and bars that they can’t even approach a girl without wetting their briefs… let alone finding the balls to neg a pretty girl.

So don’t worry, it’s statistically unlikely to ever happen to you, even if you DO look like a runway model.  Most guys will never approach you, or they’ll just try to kiss your ass to get into your pants.  And that’s SO much better than those bad boys, right?

But since those guys are NOT a challenge in the slightest, they’re not attractive to you.  That’s why you blow them off.

That’s what a neg does – creates a challenge to the female.  That’s what attractive guys do.  And ANY guy you’ve ever fallen for, on some level, you had to chase HIM.  Every single guy you ever had a crush on made YOU chase HIM.

I know it’s simple to latch onto a cause, leave a comment, and feel like you’re serving justice in some small way by taking a stand against the 1 in 10,000 guys that have the balls to neg a girl like, “Hey girl!  It’s funny how your nose wiggles when you talk!”  But really, it’s an empty cause!

P.S. If you still disagree with this assessment, please leave a comment, I welcome all opinions!  😆

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1 day 18 hours ago

It’s funny mean girls do this all the time… it’s why they’re popular

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3 days 7 hours ago
I thought reading this would be a waste of time but now I’m happy I did so that if any guy says dumb shit like this to me in the club I know it’s not a reflection of me, but instead of his low self-esteem and glaring insecurities if putting me down makes him feel better. It’s hard to believe, but sometimes girls can go to a club or bar with my girl friends and just want to dance with my FRIENDS and not get hit on by guys at all. There are nights when I turn down any guy, no matter how ‘hot’ he is. I’ve had a guy offer to buy me a drink once and I politely said “no thank you” and had him call me a jerk for it… I would rather politely say no and go back to hanging out with my friends, let you save some cash, instead of saying yes and being fake, taking your money, and then spend the rest of the night trying to figure out how to get rid of you. If you’re hitting on a “Paris Hilton or Kim Kardashian type” who you clearly have internalized resentment for, then… Read more »
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Anonymous
7 days 13 hours ago

Correct me if I’m wrong. I summarized this as, “Try to knock her down a peg and she just might sleep with you.”

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Anonymous
9 days 6 hours ago

I…I don’t understand…why must you be an asshole to attract women? And why would you even want to attract the type of woman who would only respond to this strategy?

I really don’t get how this works…if someone said these things to me I’d probably just laugh it off nervously but secretly feel like they’re an asshole and avoid them.

It’s not like I know anything about “picking up girls”…but I think people should just be nice, and instead of trying to get a “hot” girl who wouldn’t respond to politeness, try to approach a decent girl who would be nice back. ^^

I hope there are guys out there who feel the same as me.

Tom
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Tom
9 days 5 hours ago

It’s not being “polite”. It’s an advance. Being dominant.

wiseass
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wiseass
9 days 7 hours ago
The idea of putting someone down to “lower them” socially is so manipulative it’s kinda despicable. If you feel it’s ok to belittle someone in order to get in their pants, makes me wonder what’s your next step after you accomplished that. Maybe you continue to “neg” the poor person throughout the whole relationship and also manipulate them in other ways as well? As a girl who is attracted by stereotypical manly man, I have to say that you’re lowering yourself by showing me that you feel the need for these kind of manipulative little games. I do think that praying on girls insecurities reveals about you that you don’t feel confident enough about your game, like is that something you always need to do in order to get laid? I don’t know if I’m a 6 or an 8 or whatever but girl friends I go out with are definitely 9-10 and I do know that what all of us desire is to be approached by a CONFIDENT guy, someone above the petty little games, who respects himself and therefore respects girls he’s attracted to. Who acts genuine and with integrity, clearly stating his intentions and boundaries, finding out… Read more »
Tom
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Tom
9 days 6 hours ago

No…You miss the irony just like he does.
He thinks being the prize is the dominant role. Literally calling calling it being a prize for someone and still missing the irony.

They talk about social “value”, like they’re supposed to want to be objects like items on a store shelf. Because no one ever told them that dominant/alpha is about position. And that the pursued is the lower position, as the “prize” to the pursuer.

Showing interest is confidence. That is the misogynistic/douchebag alpha thing to do. The risk of being threatening, creepy etc. Why do you seem to miss the irony like he does? Even while attacking him.

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wiseass
9 days 6 hours ago

Haha well I don’t really think that’s the irony because I would disagree with your point of view that being pursued is the “lower” position. If anything, I would say you’re the dominant one if you are the pursued one, being in a position where you can make decisions. Being perceived as “the prize” can be sexist and objectifying (so I see what you’re getting at), but it doesn’t have to be that way – you can perceive someone as a prize and worth pursuing because you acknowledge and appreciate their personality too, wouldn’t you agree?
Btw I don’t think that hitting on someone should be about “pursuing” at all, but about having a straightforward chat and expressing mutual interest, if there is any.

Tom
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Tom
9 days 5 hours ago

The pursuer is the one in the position to make decisions. The decision to pursue. Simply having the right not to be forced does not mean making decisions

And being a prize literally means being an object. It’s semantics. Dominant in this context means the pursuer. The position of consequence. The “main” force. Whatever you value someone for, advancing on them is what dominant means. Don’t overthink it! You can pursue if you want

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Anonymous
13 days 22 hours ago

lesbian

Anonymous
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Anonymous
15 days 22 hours ago

And this, right here, is why I don’t go to clubs.
Microaggressions turn me off.

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22 days 5 hours ago

I thoroughly enjoyed all of the outrageous comments made, presumably by guys who are not getting laid, and want to feel like they are heroes of a gender that doesn’t need their defense, or women who don’t get hit on as often as their compatriots.

From the article/blog post:
“I like your eyes. Hey… are you wearing colored contacts??? (before she can answer) Oh my god, no way, you are…”

Comments section:
WHOA, WHOA!! Don’t put a girl down like that you MISOGYNIST pig (the fuck??) You must have a really small penis! Calling the men ankle biters, losers, and worse. Anyone know where I can find some irony?

I came wanting to know what negging means.
I left reminded of the pond-scum that litters the interwebs.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
7 days 13 hours ago

“I came wanting to know what negging means.
I left reminded of the pond-scum that litters the interwebs.”

I must be a time traveler.

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Anonymous
24 days 9 hours ago

Women already do this to each other and look at how well that turns out.

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Anonymous
30 days 1 hour ago

I was really shy when I hit college. Around when I turned 21 mystery and his method came into my life. I used negging to great effect to build a lot of self confidence but also some animosity that it worked so well. Eventually I stopped negging much when it dawned on me, I was pretty decent looking just really shy, the negging just helped get me used to talking to women.

I highly recommend negging as a way to arm shy guys to get over their fears. It’s also important to remember that the 1 in 7 rule works. Play the odds, the fish will bite eventually.

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Anonymous
1 month 11 days ago

and the misogynist stuff is old. Men have lost so much self confidence because of female manipulation. It’s time Men stop listening to this crap and take back what we had before.

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Anonymous
1 month 11 days ago

All yall women need to chill out. One form of dishonesty isn’t better than another and there are many women who are just dishonest. It’s the same games just played in a different way. Stop getting all mad because this particular one is offensive.

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Anonymous
1 month 12 days ago

Please just be nice. If the lady is not polite to you in return, she’s not a good person. Walk away feeling good about yourself.

Tom
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Tom
9 days 5 hours ago

Hitting on someone is not “nice”. It’s for yourself. Not for her. It’s assertive. Being dominant. These pick up artists don’t see the irony in their stupidity

Kitsune
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Kitsune
9 days 6 hours ago

Agreeee 🙂

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X.
1 month 3 days ago

right on!

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1 month 13 days ago

As a women, I completely agree with the notion of the chase and liking guys who give me a challenge, but in all honesty I would probably be put off by the back handed insult I’m receiving and simply want nothing to do with him. It would really come off as insensitive, arrogant, and straight up douchy to think that I would care about a stranger’s opinion on my personal choices, i.e. my outfit etc.. Just a thought, might be different for some.

Tom
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Tom
9 days 6 hours ago

Why do you want a guy to be a wimp and NOT pursue?

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1 month 13 days ago

The guys that I’ve had to chase didn’t make me feel like anything less than what I am, which is an attractive, competitive, and aggressive lady who doesn’t even listen to horse shit (like negging) from the children who try it.

I try not to begrudge people who use different methods or have different personalities, but I’d never fall for bullshit like in your article because I don’t have the patience for someone who can’t keep up. I feel bad for the girls it does work on because you’re doing nothing to help lift them up, only continually ankle biting because that’s where you are. On the bottom of the ladder and jealous as fuck of anyone above you.

Tom
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Tom
9 days 6 hours ago

Why doesn’t everybody just tell these pick up artists about the irony? That the pursuer is the dominant position. Assertive. It’s literally called being a man and they still don’t get it.

They think being wanted is the dominant position. Even when they literally call it being a PRIZE. They still don’t get that it’s the lower position.They’ve never even heard of something like sexual harassment.

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Siggy
1 month 12 days ago

and “modest”, you forgot modest, ha, ha

(and angry as heck)

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1 month 11 days ago

The article and the comments – they each have their uses, good as well as bad, in the quotient of impressionability. However, this bloke calling himself Siggy – self-aggrandizing himself as being of some considerable expertise in the realm of psychology and the law – is yet to be deciphered as to what chip on his shoulder he’s bringing to the table…
As for some consistency in his majorly unsympathetic comments, there’s but one – “you don’t get me, you never will, unless you (ask – apparently makes for a negging symptom).

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1 month 11 days ago
hmmmm, how to reply? Well yes, I have spent 30 years in psychology (mainly psychoanalysis) and the law (as a lawyer). Can’t escape that. And yes, that makes me a pretty old “self-aggrandising” dude. So that can bring with it some perspective on the “battle of the sexes”. I’ve seen a lot. And for some reason (and who can be totally objective about it?) I have taken an interest in this article probably because (presumably) of my own “scars” from the relationship “trenches”. As for being “unsympathetic”, I’m not so sure – reading some of my comments, I think, shows them to be pretty balanced. But “chip” on my shoulder? Maybe. Perhaps I bristle at the way the article’s, let’s face it, pretty mild suggestions are met with such vehemence from (presumably) women that don’t want the power imbalance implied in the article, tipped in the man’s favour. It maybe that they want total worship 100% of the time. And if my view is an echo of some psychopathology on my part it might be because I have been stung in the past by the power that beauty has to ensnare, bewilder, and in many cases, hurt. Some women revel… Read more »
Tom
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Tom
9 days 6 hours ago

Being a sex object is not power

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 17 days ago

Or you could always try being a decent human being and showing women some fucking respect.
There’s a thought.

Tom
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Tom
9 days 5 hours ago

Showing interest in them is not “respect”. Pursuing is assertive. That’s the irony in this loser’s article. He thinks being the object is the dominant position. Even though it’s literally called submissive.

Kitsune
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Kitsune
9 days 6 hours ago

Glad there are people like this with common sense c:

Tom
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Tom
9 days 6 hours ago

You seem to miss the irony like he does. Do you realize he thinks the object is dominant?

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 19 days ago

Does negging really work? Seems desperate and transparent kinda like trying to get a girl’s attention with a magic trick.

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Anonymous
1 month 20 days ago

this is horrible. just because a girl is very pretty doesn’t mean she doesn’t already have low self esteem/ self worth. why are men out there buying into this shit? how about just having a conversation with a girl, without mentally grading her on her looks. maybe you might even make a genuine connection?!

Kitsune
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Kitsune
9 days 6 hours ago

^^^ so true

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Motherfucker-Jones
1 month 21 days ago

To the anonymous women that have been posting idiotic shit on here: Men are talking here, so know your place and go wash dishes or something.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
9 days 6 hours ago

Aww…man, that’s really mean…I feel sad that there are people like this in the world 🙁

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 21 days ago

We should all stop commenting on this bullshit. This guy obviously loves the attention he’s getting and he doesn’t deserve it.

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Anonymous
1 month 30 days ago

“And most of the rejection is aimed at the GUYS.” There’s a difference between expressing genuine disinterest and being an a-hole. Also, if negging seems like an reasonable course of action, it might point to the part of your personality that is inviting rejection in the first place. Maybe try some introspection and work on the self before endeavoring to tear others down.

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Anonymous
2 months 1 day ago

As someone who has been negged before (when under no circumstances was I being rude or dismissive because that shit is annoying in it of itself) I can tell you that this misogynistic bullshit is bullshit. I can tell you that in my lifetime of having friends, I have never once had any of my best friends admit her ‘uncontrollable sexual desire’ to some insecure asshole who thinks that the only way he can hook a girl is through devaluing her and making her feel as though she has to settle for some loser who thinks this is an acceptable way to treat another human being. The good news is that I can rest easy knowing that the only guys who would use this stupid shit are the guys whose dicks are so tiny I wouldn’t give a shit about them anyways. Next time any dickhead negs you, remember it’s fair warning that they’re packing half an inch tops!!! :)))))

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Yolo
1 month 29 days ago

Hey girl 7 and a half inches here.
I bet you’re pretty but you have a nasty attitude.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 15 days ago

Sure you weren’t using the centimeters side? 😉

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 21 days ago

Lol was that a neg?

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 3 days ago

This boils my blood. What kind of misogynistic paradigm are you spewing to impressionable young men everywhere? The idea that it is ok to treat beautiful women as conquests; ones who require bait and switch tactics. Are you seriously telling me you’ve developed strategies in order to “trick” women to giving a damn about you? How little do you think of women; are they just commodities for you to win over by passively aggressively kicking them in their ego? What an idiotic fuckboy psychology; where did you get this idea from? the old “women only like assholes” routine? Moving forward I implore you to do the human race a favour and refrain from propagating the species with your offspring. Next thing you’ll tell me that in order to keep a woman from losing interest you need to send her dick pictures #byefelipe.

Tom
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Tom
9 days 6 hours ago

Ironically, it’s about making himself the conquest. These pick up artists think being the prize is the dominant position. That’s why they’re against being assertive and pursuing like a man. If only someone told them the irony

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 7 days ago

negging is just really rude and disgusting overall tbh.

Jujubi
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Jujubi
2 months 6 days ago

if you’re getting all worked up about it, it’s because it actually works!!

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 29 days ago

Yes. It can’t be that women simply don’t like being insulted. 0r the idea that we’re just conquests to be manipulated. People ONLY dislike rude behavior when it bucks them into sleeping with someone.

it must be your amazing smarts that lure in all the ladies, eh?

Siggy
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Siggy
2 months 6 days ago

No it’s not. It’s ‘provocative’ but hardly “REALLY” rude or “DISGUSTING”! Read the article again, only more objectively.

This common reaction of shock and horror is not because of what is being promoted by the (rather innocent) article above, it is because of what it THREATENS, namely the hegemony that ‘beauty’ currently occupies.

The vitriol therefore proves the thesis.

w/luv from a random chick
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w/luv from a random chick
2 months 9 days ago
I get where you’re coming from with this, but dating tips should really focus on self-confidence. Girls can smell desperation like the stank of a skunk. It clings to men, especially men approaching a ’10 woman’. If a man acted undisturbed by a ’10 woman’ ‘s attractiveness, he would be novel and interesting because as you say, a lot of men don’t have the balls to do much but drool and fall over themselves. Have some self respect and try to come across as confident and relaxed. Women are attracted to confidence… but not arrogance. Going the extra mile to backhand compliment her seems like a bad idea for 2 reasons: a lot of guys will mess it up worse than if they just said hi, and if a woman feels she is being manipulated she will avoid you like the plague (because in part we women are taught to avoid potential rapists – which is what desperate and manipulative men flag themselves as to us). Unless she’s not very confident of herself, or is maybe some kind of raging superbitch, coming across as insulting seems like it wouldn’t work. And in the latter case… Uh, don’t stick your dick… Read more »
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Watchout
2 months 10 days ago

LOL I cannot wait for a little boy like you to try this on me. I have a tight body, long blond hair. I’m also a veteran, a welder and plumber. I don’t talk to people… I just laugh at everything…especially at assholes like you. If you walked up and said something like this to me,I guarantee the last thing you would see that day is me laughing as I shoved your front teeth down your throat with my fist.

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2 months 8 days ago

lol yeah right, are you hell all of them, welder – years of practice to be good enough to say i can do this, plumber the same, “veteran” isn’t just 2 years service darlin. So by this you’re shooting past your prime already, so don’t worry no one will neg you, but you should look to get your mirror fixed.

Watchout
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Watchout
1 month 15 days ago

Aw, the truth hurts the little boy’s ego. I’m not old, I just started early like all ambitious folks do.. But you need to wake up and smell the coffee. A lot of of gals are lawyers, doctors, and cops too…they’re hot, educated and they hold real power on this world. You better watch out because you’ll never really know who you’re really approaching on the street.

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From a 10
2 months 11 days ago

The girl will eventually be able to spot when guys neg, and it won’t work.

You don’t mention anything about girls who have received negs over and over again.

I appreciate you covered that a guy shouldn’t unnecessarily do it, but I’ve had people who have negged well after giving them the green-light. I kinda wanna share this article with them to get them to stop.

Frustratingly, whenever I hold them up to it, they ALWAYS reply ‘negging?!?!’.

I no longer know if they intentionally neg, or just teasing like most of us probably do at some point.

It’s handicapped me in my interaction with guys.

Jujubi
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Jujubi
2 months 11 days ago

Interesting POV from a female… thanks!

Jade
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Jade
2 months 11 days ago

“Douchebags – They’re Everywhere”

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 13 days ago

This is so stupid. That is all.

Zephyr
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Zephyr
2 months 14 days ago

So this is essentially your strategy for nailing women outside of your league looks wise – neg them so it brings them down a notch or two. Which means you idealised them in the first place. This is why you fail.

The point is to see the person as “normal” and treat them “normally” – not idealised, not fawning, but see them first as a human being, not some stuck up bitch or fairy princess that requires a long ass strategy involving pick up lines with a hint of humilation to get her attention. All you’ll bag is an insecure woman, and as others have said, nothing is sadder than manipulating such people.

The fault is you see this person higher than you, and because you lack confidence and are not interesting to hold their attention normally, you engage them with subtle insults. LOL Really how pathetic is that.

You need to work on yourself before dishing out advice to ANYONE about ANYTHING bruh..

From a 10
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From a 10
2 months 11 days ago

I agree, treating them as normal people will be a unique and pleasantly welcomed experience.

Siggy
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Siggy
2 months 14 days ago

Wow, pal – go back and right “Update From The Author” again – it really is pretty airtight and largely correct. The suggested approach (dorky or not) is just ONE type of relatively innocent gambit in the games people play, but your comment and those below betray your own attitudes by virtue of the extreme extrapolations and projections upon on the writer, Jesse, and the article and other comments.

In other words, unbeknownst to the commenters – you included – the “button” pressed on your forehead proves just about everything said in the original article….Maybe I am being too subtle?

Put it this way: you guys are all saying (regarding a really quite harmless niggling tactic) “I AM HORRIFIED THAT YOU “(CHOOSE DEROGATORY WORD)” COULD EVER SEEK TO CHANGE THE (DARWINIAN) STATUS QUO!! HOW DARE YOU EVEN TRY!”

So, “bruh”, despite your apparently reasonable platitudes, you are part of the problem. And don’t know it.

MmM
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MmM
2 months 16 days ago

I can always tell a negg. Smell a negg. And see a negg when it’s coming. And the ones always geared at my appearance are ridiculous. That in itself is the insult. The fact that you assumed that I’m that self absorbed type of chic just because I was visually appealing to you is disgusting, dissapointing, and if I think about it for two seconds brings out my gangsta side. Ha! What a joke!!
But for bitches fucked in the head, dumb, narcissistic (that’s self absorbed), then yeah that shit works. Congrats guys! Congrats on being a troll! ‘my precious’ And congrats on nailing a crazy chic. (I get it ‘the sex is good’)
At the end of the day it’s still just a phenomenon that you’re lucky to benifit from if at all. And the social damage it’s doing to real human interaction is probably immeasurable. So go ahead keep feeding the narcissists and letting then f**k up everything for the rest of us. What does that make you for pursuing that? …..
Sad sad little duckling

Zephyr
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Zephyr
2 months 14 days ago

Great comment ever.

If seeing an attractive woman makes a guy so insecure he feels the need to insult to get her attention, that dude needs serious help.

Jujubi
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Jujubi
2 months 17 days ago

Jessee is dead on… Negging works much better than being nice… Dont ask me why… It just does!!!

siggy
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siggy
2 months 19 days ago

Why do you enjoy abusing men by calling them “small minded” and “immature”?

siggy
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siggy
2 months 19 days ago

Your post shows two things; you did not understand the article and you enjoy abusing men.

Diesel
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Diesel
2 months 22 days ago

It really works lol. But you gotta do it right. Always go after their appearance. Say they look like a movie star. Not one like Megan Fox, but say, Lena Dunham or Amy Schumer.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 24 days ago

Hey, thanks brother man. Ill try it A.S.A.P.

Jo
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Jo
2 months 25 days ago

What a load of utter crap. ‘Negs’ do not have the effects stated here. They simply indicate that the jerk uttering these stupid remarks has an inferiority complex (or is straightforward inferior) and is trying to lower the girl to his gutter level so that he can feel a bit better about himself. It’s not manly behaviour but the insecure desperation of a little boy.

If it ever ‘succeeds’ the it’s only because the girl in question already has low self-esteem on some level (or is not very bright) in which case it’s like taking advantage of a child or mentally ill person. Not cool. Not clever. Not masculine or sexy. But, for some reason, it makes these sad little guys feel better about themselves. What a pain that girls can’t go to clubs etc without these creeps and losers hanging around.

Teila K. Day
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2 months 19 days ago

I suppose if a guy is after the self-absorbed, twit-brained type, then negs probably work; but for self respecting, educated women who have something going for them more than just the run-of-the-mill meat market night club on Saturday night…. negs aren’t going to have the slightest positive affect in most cases. You’ll just confirm how stupid and inconsiderate you are to even dare utter such lame speak.

Lily the avenger of .. oh, what the hell.
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Lily the avenger of .. oh, what the hell.
2 months 22 days ago

“What a pain that girls can’t go to clubs etc without these creeps and losers hanging around.”
Thanks!! A knight in shiny armour!! The very, very few attractive guys who really know how to tease girls in a fun way while not being a mean idiot, are NOT the hordes of aggressive pick-up-proselytes, who turn urban dance floors into no-go areas.
Clubbing used to be nice.

Paige
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Paige
3 months 2 days ago

I will never understand heterosexuality. You had to write a whole article about how to be an asshole to women, meanwhile I’m over here fucking your girlfriend, so.

YouCan\'tBeSerious
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YouCan\'tBeSerious
3 months 6 days ago

Why are you guys criticizing his philosophy and ignoring how hilariously dumb and absurd these supposed “negs” are? “Hey, you’re a goof”? No one on the planet talks like this. “You look like an Eskimo”? Why the hell didn’t he just say “Rudolph”? “Your shoes don’t match”… complete with alternate suggestion? Honey, she’s going to think you’re gay. “One of those newborns I saw on the Discovery Channel”? I guess he means giraffes or something, but it sounds like he’s talking about human babies, which perfects the impression that he’s some alien life-form unacquainted with human speech and social behavior. This shit is too good. At making me laugh, that is; I’ll bet it’s crap at picking up women.

Teila K. Day
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2 months 19 days ago

At least you’re smart enough to recognize stupidity flying from someone’s mouth when you hear it, or when you see it written. Only a small-minded person would speak like that to another person and not feel embarrassed for sounding so immature.

SH
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SH
3 months 9 days ago

The flaw in this logic is that if a woman actually responds positively to this kind of insult, she probably isn’t worth dating. She probably has low self esteem. Nice girls like nice guys.
Beauty fades, but dumb is forever.

Mark Mizrahi
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3 months 9 days ago
None of this is conducive to actual success with women, in a deep and abiding way. It’s childish school yard games that may get someone badly fucked by someone with too much vanity and not enough self-esteem, but lead to nothing beyond that. It’s a cheap parlor trick, that may work on some drunk girl, but is grounds for long term failure and lack of satisfaction. Real engagement comes from being interesting, actually valuable, and able to listen and engage women as friends, lovers, and partners. Your advice is the equivalent of telling a man who has chopped his fingers off to get a band-aid. It’s disingenuous at best, and sinister at worst. If you believe your ludicrous adivce I feel bad for you and would willing share ideas about how to improve your horrendous conversation skills. I have years of experience having been a professional Dominant and currently in a beautiful functioning relationship with 2 wonderful women that know of each other. I am not some kind of model-looks man to have accomplished this either. Simply I understand that relationships, both those long and brief, sexual and non-sexual, are a give and take built on mutual respect, understanding, and… Read more »
Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 months 9 days ago

If you can’t handle being called out for being a dick, stop being a dick.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 months 10 days ago

you’re so bitter its hilarious

Siggy
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Siggy
3 months 10 days ago

The bitterness you seek to project upon the writer is almost certainly your own, and the hilarity you profess to experience, but almost certainly don’t, is the type of attitude that leads young men to devise methods such as “negging”…namely, one of sneering deprecation. But you won’t get it.

Anon
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Anon
3 months 6 days ago

No, the person above is calling out the individual at hand. I can promise you that I’ve never treated anyone with anything other than respect and love. Life is far too short, and I definitely would not respect a person (man or woman) who had to manipulate others in order to gain some sort of social advantage. Perhaps this negging technique works with some people, but most individuals will be turned off by it. As has been suggested, it isn’t the way to have a loving, long-term relationship with an equal partner. It’s manipulation, And you have shown your colors by defending it. I hope you don’t use it because most people prefer a genuine person who loves themselves and others.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 months 16 days ago

Negging assumes that the woman will want to earn your attention. There is a serious flaw in this logic: Beautiful women have no need to look for anyone’s approval or seek validation from anyone. They don’t have time for a jerk who insults them, they already have plenty of guys in line! Bye jerk!

Siggy
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Siggy
3 months 16 days ago

They ABSOLUTELY need “approval” and “validation” from their adoring masses – they (truly beautiful women) are (unfortunately) ignorant of their narcissism the way fish are ignorant of the sea. Negging is precisely aimed at puncturing that bubble of humongous self-regard, and hopefully, shaking them out of the exact attitude that lies at the heart of the problem, namely, that all men are “jerks” even before opening their mouths, and anything they say that challenges their complacency proves it! You don’t get it. You will never get it…let me say it again – no one is a “jerk” – they are men struggling in the brutal game of “love and loss” – what YOU are really evincing is an attitude of NOT LIKING MEN…and using whatever evidence you can to support your unfortunate attitude, that in many women, will see them dating endlessly and never finding what they hope will be a non-jerk. Who is therefore, really being the jerk here?

Your Pal
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Your Pal
3 months 27 days ago

Great ocean pic, Jesse. You’re wearing plenty of sunscreen, though, right? Because you look like the freckly/sunburny type. Body surfing’s great for doughy shoulders, but it’s no fun if you’re peeling and blistering afterward.

Nice beard, too. Way to camouflage the weak chin and chipmunk jowls.

BTW, is Jesse short for your full name? I’ve honestly never heard of a man named Jesse.

Nah… I couldn’t get used to this. It feels too mean.

Rosemary
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Rosemary
3 months 8 days ago

Brilliant.

Dee
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Dee
4 months 7 days ago

Nope. As a fairly attractive thirty something, this tactic hasn’t worked on me since my teen years. It’s disgusting. If you like a woman, treat her with respect. No need to be an ass. If she doesn’t like you, move on.

Siggy
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Siggy
4 months 7 days ago
THIS IS WHAT I WROTE BELOW TO ANOTHER OBVIOUSLY ANRGY AND ABUSIVE “30 SOMETHING” – IT GOES FOR YOU TOO – Well, let’s break this down a bit…firstly, “anonymous” is 35 years of age…and dating. What does that say about her? And the very idea that some playful, negative jest “blew her mind” suggests that she expects every comment aimed towards her (no doubt) galactic beauty to be pure anodyne adoration. Anything else is inconceivable! Then she exhibits extreme and abusive judgmentalism in that, anyone who tries something different, must be “mentally ill”. Then, rather than deal with such an event like a grown up, she orders them to “move on” so as to silence the offenders for…for…for…what precisely?? What heinous crime or sin did they commit in a game “where all is fair in love and war”?? Why such excruciating and egregious over-sensitivity? Can you put your feeling into words that are not abusive or derogatory? What – PRECISELY causes you to order some one away if they, for example, were to say to you; “you have a red nose – are you an eskimo?!…”?? What makes such a person a “retard” whose further communications would further “blow” your… Read more »
Sass
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Sass
4 months 8 days ago

Lol this entire post was a neg. what a chump

Anonymous
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Anonymous
4 months 11 days ago

You’re such a sad person.

chrissia.victors@gmail.com
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chrissia.victors@gmail.com
4 months 12 days ago
OK, as a woman, I am pretty horrified at this “flirting” tactic. I am pretty attractive. I know this sounds conceited, but it’s not! I’m just very confident and I know that I have put in work to get a nice ass and body in general. I have fairly big boobs lol and I was a lip model for a while, so I know I am pretty attractive. And let me tell you, I have NEVER hooked up with a guy who “negged” me. It’s just an insult, plain and simple. I HATE being negged. Rejection is a fact of life, not an insult! I’ve been rejected two or three times, and yeah, it does sting a little. GET OVER IT. It is not personal, I’m just not attracted to you, plain and simple. But, telling a woman that it looks like her shirt shrunk, implying she is fat, is insulting no matter how high or low her self esteem is. At this point, when a guy neggs me, I literally laugh in their face. Rejection is not an insult and guys need to quit being piss babies when they get rejected. Women don’t owe you a hello, you put… Read more »
Nick
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Nick
4 months 6 days ago

Head of surgery and residency director? Really? Pretty interesting prose for such an esteemed position. Surely you realized that a real physician would read this. You do know it’s illegal to pose as a physician, right?

Anonymous
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Anonymous
4 months 8 days ago

word!

Anonymous
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Anonymous
4 months 13 days ago

I find this all hilarious, both the article and the comments. I didn’t see anywhere in the article where it mentioned that this tactic wouldn’t work with anyone who had any healthy self esteem…or who are intelligent enough to see through the tactic. Hey, if that’s the kind of girlfriend you’re looking for..insecure and vapid usually equals high maintenance. The original poster’s response to comments was the greatest comedy of all, though: backtracking to say the negging was intended for a nightclub environment when that was not mentioned in the original post/article at all, and then tipping his hand with his all-caps resentments and hurt feelings about how men get treated, so this is appropriate retaliation. Thanks for the laughs!

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