Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work

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You can also lower a girl’s social value in relation to yours with quick lines by negging women.

Here are some examples of negging women:

For a girl with a belly shirt: “Did your shirt shrink in the laundry?”

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“Your roots are showing.”

“Your nose is a little red. You’re like an Eskimo. Cool.”

“You know, you look just like my little sister. Weird.”

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Effect of a neg on a hot girl illustrated

“You know, I like that outfit you’ve got on… but I don’t know… your shoes don’t really match. You should have gone with tan boots…”

To her guy friends, “So what’s special about this one.”

If she’s talking tell her friends, “So do you guys ever get a word in edge wise?”

“Hey… you look like that cartoon character… yeah that’s right, Rainbow Brite remember her?”

“I like your eyes. Hey… are you wearing colored contacts??? (before she can answer) Oh my god, no way, you are…”

“You know, your body language is all closed off. It makes you look like one of those newborns I saw on the discovery channel when they came out of the womb – all curled up.”

“Hey, you’re a goof.”

By negging women, you’ve indicated to her that you’re not interested in her over anyone else in the group. This is a new thing for her. She’ll feel the bitter sting of being just like everyone else. Her looks no longer give her all the power – because you’re not responding to her looks.

Because you’re demonstrating social value to the group at the same time she’s wondering, “Why isn’t this guy attracted to me? Why isn’t this guy paying attention to me? Who is this guy? How am I going to win this guy’s attention?”

Everyone wants to be liked. Everyone wants approval. No one wants to be ignored. The same holds true for beautiful women – even more so. Their whole reality is based on having power and having acceptance and adoration through their good looks. Take that away and their whole reality crumbles and they’ll do anything to get it back.

Negging women is ideal for really hot girls – 8s, 9s, and 10s. For an average girl (6s, 7s), you don’t want to use value zingers. All you need to do is demonstrate social value – you don’t need to lower hers. Hers wasn’t that high to begin with.

Negging women is unnecessary and inappropriate to use on girls who are already being friendly or giving you green lights. Don’t throw one out of the blue for no reason at a girl who is already responding well.

But if she’s super hot and you’ve just met her, that’s a different story. Use a neg or two on her.

Now, it’s critical to use negs right. Remember, you’re not out to damage the girl’s self confidence or put her down. You’re not out to mess up her self-esteem. Some guys in particular cross the line and start throwing soft insults and treating women like second-class human beings when they don’t deserve it.

The point is to make yourself stand out as socially valuable male and a challenge, not to make her feel bad. But used correctly, negging women is a powerful tool in your arsenal.

Update From The Author

I noticed that my post on negging “Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work” has drawn a lot of negative comments from women.

I understand the blowback.  I understand where some of you girls are coming from.  You see negging as a form of bullying or insults.

And most women are pretty sensitive to the idea of it, based on being bullied in real life.

Most women, particularly in high school, were teased, gossiped about, or bullied in some fashion – and usually from other women.  Pretty girls especially face negativity from their female friends, as pretty girls tend to hang in “pretty social circles” where there’s a lot of superficial cattiness, backstabbing, and competition.

Or even if you’ve never been bullied or teased yourself, you’ve seen the devastating effect it had on your classmates.  So naturally, you feel sympathy.

But anger at ‘negging’ is misplaced.

First, we are talking about a night club environment.  There’s lots of REJECTION involved, inherent to the environment.

And most of the rejection is aimed at the GUYS.

Haven’t either you or one of your friends ever ignore a guy?  Like, not even acknowledge his presence when he tried to talk to you.

It’s often pretty CRUSHING to the guy’s self-esteem that he isn’t given 10 seconds to acknowledge he’s another human being to talk to and say “hello”.  Ignoring a guy completely is much crueler than any neg a guy would dish.  (Like, “Hey girl!  You have some lint in your hair… look at that.”)

Then again, it’s a night club.  If a guy’s ego is so fragile, he shouldn’t go.

So please girls, if a guy told you that you had lint in your hair and that would “cut you down” or would “crush you”, and your ego is THAT fragile, then don’t go to night clubs!!  After all, the guys have to deal with MUCH WORSE from you girls!

In addition, Negs are for those glamour girls that have been spoiled all their lives by Daddy and have little sense of reality (like Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton for example).  These are the types of girls that enjoy shooting “nice guys” down.  It’s THAT kind of girl that negs are designed to attract.

So if you’re a normal-looking girl with a normal attitude, you probably will NEVER BE NEGGED in your life.  So for crying-out-loud, don’t worry about it.

Further consider that 99.9% of guys are SO damn nervous in clubs and bars that they can’t even approach a girl without wetting their briefs… let alone finding the balls to neg a pretty girl.

So don’t worry, it’s statistically unlikely to ever happen to you, even if you DO look like a runway model.  Most guys will never approach you, or they’ll just try to kiss your ass to get into your pants.  And that’s SO much better than those bad boys, right?

But since those guys are NOT a challenge in the slightest, they’re not attractive to you.  That’s why you blow them off.

That’s what a neg does – creates a challenge to the female.  That’s what attractive guys do.  And ANY guy you’ve ever fallen for, on some level, you had to chase HIM.  Every single guy you ever had a crush on made YOU chase HIM.

I know it’s simple to latch onto a cause, leave a comment, and feel like you’re serving justice in some small way by taking a stand against the 1 in 10,000 guys that have the balls to neg a girl like, “Hey girl!  It’s funny how your nose wiggles when you talk!”  But really, it’s an empty cause!

P.S. If you still disagree with this assessment, please leave a comment, I welcome all opinions!  😆

headshotYour pal, Jesse

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chrissia.victors@gmail.com
1 day 5 hours ago

OK, as a woman, I am pretty horrified at this “flirting” tactic. I am pretty attractive. I know this sounds conceited, but it’s not! I’m just very confident and I know that I have put in work to get a nice ass and body in general. I have fairly big boobs lol and I was a lip model for a while, so I know I am pretty attractive. And let me tell you, I have NEVER hooked up with a guy who “negged” me. It’s just an insult, plain and simple. I HATE being negged. Rejection is a fact of life, not an insult! I’ve been rejected two or three times, and yeah, it does sting a little. GET OVER IT. It is not personal, I’m just not attracted to you, plain and simple. But, telling a woman that it looks like her shirt shrunk, implying she is fat, is insulting no matter how high or low her self esteem is. At this point, when a guy neggs me, I literally laugh in their face. Rejection is not an insult and guys need to quit being piss babies when they get rejected. Women don’t owe you a hello, you put… Read more »

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Anonymous
1 day 22 hours ago

I find this all hilarious, both the article and the comments. I didn’t see anywhere in the article where it mentioned that this tactic wouldn’t work with anyone who had any healthy self esteem…or who are intelligent enough to see through the tactic. Hey, if that’s the kind of girlfriend you’re looking for..insecure and vapid usually equals high maintenance. The original poster’s response to comments was the greatest comedy of all, though: backtracking to say the negging was intended for a nightclub environment when that was not mentioned in the original post/article at all, and then tipping his hand with his all-caps resentments and hurt feelings about how men get treated, so this is appropriate retaliation. Thanks for the laughs!

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Renny
5 days 2 hours ago

lmao, those are the stupidest lines I’ve ever heard and would just look at you like you’re a retard.

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Grant
7 days 1 hour ago

Fuck you, OP. You’re a misogynistic douche and you’ll never know a meaningful relationship in your life with this attitude toward women.

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Linda
10 days 41 minutes ago

If a guy talk about my roots or my shoes/clothes, I’ll automatically assume he is gay. Real men don’t notice these stuff.

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Anonymous
14 days 15 hours ago

Women don’t owe men ’10 seconds’. Women don’t owe men smiles or even acknowledgment. Women don’t owe men anything. How is that difficult to understand.

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siggy
13 days 15 hours ago

Both men and women owe each other basic respect and human decency, which includes (usually) a smile or some form of acknowledgement..anything else (i.e., surly silence, scowls, “in your dreams”, rolling eyes, giggling with your friends, etc) is just rude, passive-aggressive or a power-trip.

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Anonymous
2 days 22 hours ago

No

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Anonymous
14 days 1 hour ago

Men don’t owe a girl her self-esteem either.

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Anonymous
14 days 1 hour ago

And men don’t own a girl her self esteem either.

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Anonymous
2 days 22 hours ago

No, but he doesn’t have the right to talk to her. So if he didn’t talk to her, there would be no issue. Go fuck yourself, because you’ll never get an actual girl to do it.

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RJ00
24 days 6 hours ago

Lightly picking on a woman can be fun, and when they tease back it’s also fun. You have to know the right areas, some “negging” examples I’ve seen are idiotic and can be damaging. (I generally don’t neg on a woman’s looks or clothing, tread very carefully there fellas) Basically, I like to be polite and courteous, but a bit of playfulness goes a long way toward making everyone more comfortable.

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Anonymous
2 days 12 hours ago

EXACTLY! As a woman a lil playfulness is actually what makes sense to me versus negging. I just think it portrays insecurity from the man’s end but that’s just my opinion and it’s kinda irritating cause I can pick it up when those attempts are applied to me. Just be grown and say what you want. If you get rejected, you get rejected (for both guys and girls) and you move on.

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Just me
24 days 22 hours ago

I can see how these ideas would work. I do think the “what’s special about this one” could be offensive depending on how it was said but if someone asked me if my shirt shrunk I would find that funny.
I don’t think it’s bad for a guy to play the game to get a girl interested in him, girls do it all the time. As long as it’s not I’ll-willed or actually bringing anyone down which most of these examples are not then who cares?
And yes while ideally there should be “no games” I’m yet to meet a girl or guy who’s interested with no chase in either direction whatsoever. I’m sure they’re out there but I seriously doubt the whole population will change overnight where none of this is necessary.
I’ve also been at clubs and been a total b***h to guys just for talking to me which I feel bad about now but couldn’t have cared less at the time.
It sounds to me more like it’s subtle flirting without coming on too strong which is all good by me.

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Just me
24 days 22 hours ago

*ill-willed (thanks spell check)

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Kat
25 days 5 hours ago

You know, any guy that came up to me with those kinds of lines I would think was fake and desperate – even if I hadn’t known it was intentionally negging, something about it just wouldn’t seem right to me. I was only made aware of the technique after discussing an ex-boyfriend with another ex, however – who introduced me to the power of the Neg. I’m glad it’s been pointed out – hate “getting to know you” fakeness!

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Diagoras
26 days 23 hours ago

I was always told that if you didn’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. So no, I don’t think being ignored is worse than having someone actively be rude to you. No one owes you attention but to go out of your way to insult someone is just completely uncalled for. And no, it has no hope of working. You are completely delusional if you think this could ever work. I have been married for 18 years and my husband got me by being polite. Having manners is attractive. Try it sometime!

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Anonymous
1 month 1 day ago

This makes me so glad I’m a lesbian

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Anonymous
23 days 7 hours ago

I may convert

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Anonymous
14 days 1 hour ago

So being gay is a choice then?

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Anonymous
1 month 9 days ago

You know, why can’t everyone start compromising for each other and even if a guys is an unconfident one, he is not here to give girls any hard time. He does not just want to have sex with her. He also cares about her. He wants to be loved by her. I don’t understand what is all the issue here

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Anonymous
1 month 9 days ago

Yeah and then when girls reach their 30s, they will understand that they make a mistake for not listening

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Anonymous
1 month 13 days ago

I forgot how I found this website in the first place, but I wonder about two things. First, as negging has become more popular women are now aware of the practice, thus possibly rendering it ineffective. Second, what about the possibility that these techniques work on a certain kind of woman (one with emotional issues or issues in her personal history)?

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Anonymous
1 month 15 days ago

I really hope you’re trolling man, for your sake. It sounds like you have never listened to a woman in your life. (That’s how you really get them – trust). If you really do this, I bet women dump you pretty often huh? I’ve been in a good relationship for a few years and I can honestly say, I have never used a pickup line. Treat your girl right and she won’t leave you. Chicks see right through this shit, they get it all the time and believe me, it lowers your “social value.”

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Anonymous
10 days 4 hours ago

you must’ve never been to a club. it’s hard to believe, but not everywhere is just like sunday school

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Anonymous
1 month 21 days ago

My opinion was deleted.

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Anonymous
1 month 21 days ago

As a part time model who is used to being the complete focal point wherever I go, a recent “neg” DID effect me purely because I was in total shock, especially as it was aimed at my most celebrated and complimented features.

Initially I WAS physically attracted to this guy but will NOW just view him as an asshole to be avoided.

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Anonymous
1 month 13 days ago

it’s affect not effect

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Anonymous
1 month 9 days ago

bitch grammar police

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Anonymous
1 month 27 days ago

Any men that uses this to seduce women is a dick. You know what is attractive and seducing for a woman? Good manners, intelligence, sense of humour, sense of justice, authenticity, and just in general, being nice. Not being a dick.

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Leeroy Castillo
1 month 8 days ago

Yeah right lol to all u men reading this chicks comment remember this never listen to what woman says she wants cause they dont know what they want if ur a regular nice guy and ur value is not higher than hers she will never be intrested in u sexually ull just be another nice guy nice doesn’t equal pussy woman want men who are winners not nice the way we look at a woman for her looks is the same way a woman looks at a man for his value example money social status etc…

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Diagoras
26 days 23 hours ago

Fine, if you don’t trust what she says then look at who she marries. I’ve been married 18 years and my husband is polite. He never used negs on me, only compliments. I was attracted to him because I loved the way he treated me and because he has manners.

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David
1 month 30 days ago

I find that buetiful women are almost every time instantly seduced by my powerful negs. Will definitely try out these sly and seductive negs my next time out in the town :^)

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China love USA
1 month 30 days ago

I am try to using this information for getting American friends and make sex! Thank you

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Anonymous
1 month 30 days ago

He clearly KNOWS women. That’s why he’s all ALONE at the beach in HIS author pic. Not a successful negged babe in sight. Clearly negging won’t ever work FOR you Jesse, but your sense of humor oughta do it. This ARTICLE was hilarious!

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chris
2 months 11 days ago

This is ridiculous. If a guy came up to me a bar and started “negging”, I would find the attempted manipulation obvious. Men who find themselves repeatedly rejected are the guys that are going out trying to manipulate women into bed. Smart women can sniff that out a mile away, and it’s a turn off. Confident women are not about to allow themselves to be used as belt notches by shallow guys whose biggest accomplishment is they troll bars for easy, meaningless sex. Women prefer REAL men.

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Yo
2 months 14 days ago

Did you seriously try to justify insulting women due to them being ‘evil’ and ignoring ‘nice guys’ like you in the club? You are a complete idiot, no sane woman would actually want to sleep with a guy who tells her she looks like his little sister or any of this other bullshit. None of this is really ego crushing or anything, just fucking stupid. Yeah some girls can be complete assholes but why treat us all like shite? Sorry to tell you this but people are entitled to say no when they get hit on, you just move on, not act like a whiny little ‘nice guy’ bitch.

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Anonymous
2 months 28 days ago

Wow, this is completely disgusting. Congratulations on being a foul human being.

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2 months 30 days ago

I want a girl in dating and you help me. Thank you :):):) : )

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Anonymous
3 months 23 days ago

This isnt a guys vs girls thing!

MOST PUA’s are socially clueless, some are really great guys with no confidence… some are complete cunts. A neg is a tool to bring a girl down to your level, to get your foot in the door

alot of girls are cunts too… all of this is apparent in this comment section. but YES its 2015 and being confident, genuine and perceptive is your best chance of pulling.

… And LADS! Your social value is not set! Get a gym membership, get an education, get a promotion, go out and become outgoing… girls wear make up, high heels, push up bra’s! If you want to stand a chance, if you want that genuine unshakeable confidence, then WEAR SUCCESS LIKE NOTHING ELSE FITS YOU!

Not rocket science.. :)

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Tom
3 months 30 days ago

Am I the only one who knows that this is backwards?

The whole point of showing interest in women is to SHOW value. It’s calling being the dominant aggressive alpha male.

The “nice guy” is the one who’s afraid of pursuing women.

Why else do you think it’s called the thrill of the chase and why feminists envy the power of it? It’s fun to be the hunter

Being chased is emasculating.

Seriously, every normal person knows this…

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4 months 18 days ago

Is this negging still a thing? It used to be in the Mystery Method and hyped by The Game. I thought it was outdated years ago.

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Lonnie
4 months 19 days ago

Meh. As a queer woman, I just neg the fuckers back 100 fold. I also call out their negging game out loud. Neggers and their stupid little games amuse me and the ”self help ”miracle” books that they write make for a good hearty laugh at the Barnes and Noble over a latte. It’s even funnier to read them with friends. Because I am into fitness, wear make up and work out, and like pastel and frilly things and high heeled shoes, straight men assume I am straight. =.= One time, I was just sitting there minding my own business in the coffee section one day and one of those simpletons tried to ‘neg’ me. I guess it was because I didn’t look up from my book, drop everything I was doing and beg for his number and hop on his pin-dick or something. The little crap-stain said something about my shoes because they were alligator shoes, due to the pattern and that I was going to drive them to ‘extinction’. I told him, yeah, and I killed that gator, skinned him and didn’t give a fuck and now I have these nice shoes. I then asked him what was… Read more »

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Strawb
3 months 3 days ago

I real like your annalysis. Good for you and thanks for explaining this for the fraud that it is :)

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4 months 25 days ago

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Anonymous
5 months 3 days ago

Dear Commenter’s,
You’ve all made some very good points… for me to poop on.

God bless.

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Anonymous
4 months 27 days ago

Ive read through a lot of the posts and what strikes me is that negging is basically a behavior that reflects a fundamental lackof rrespect for the feminine. Its for unevolved men who wouldn’t know what to do with a real woman and will never get the chance to learn because if they are hunting women using these pathetic “techniques” then they are going to stay little boys forever.Its encouraging to see that some men are also disgusted by these pick up strategies. A good man listens to wisdom not fucked up mind manipulation for jerks.

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cat
5 months 5 days ago

I’ve noticed guys who use negging use the same lines. Over and over again. I kind of feel embarrassed for them. Though it’s also very douchey.

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Anonymous
5 months 13 days ago

I am 35 and just learned of the existence of negging! This blew my mind! I just thought I ran into a bunch of mentally ill guys! The effect it had on me was that I just wanted to avoid any situation with them where they might speak to me again.

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Teresa
5 months 16 days ago

One guy came up to me and said “you look soo angry” found out he was my best friends friend, whom she had a little bit of a crush on. He wanted me to give him my number later that evening and when I declined because I was taken he wouldn’t believe me. What? I look so fucking angry that it is like so unlikely for me to have a boyfriend?? I was quite pissed and sad for my friend as well, but when I told her she said she doesn’t like him that way anymore, because of all that.

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Anonymous
5 months 23 days ago

That’s so fucking repulsive and sick, you’re disgusting… They’re human beings and not your toys (I’m male btw)

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Anonymous
4 months 27 days ago

I agree

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Anonymous
1 month 9 days ago

Me too

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Lucy
5 months 30 days ago

Guys. Guys, guys. Speaking as a girl, I can tell you that your ‘social value’ is determined by… how hot you are! If you’re tall, muscular, symmetrically featured and so on, go ahead. If not… sorry. Your best chance is to be nice to everyone and you might find a girl (or guy) who is equally socially challenged and willing to fall in mutual weirdness with you. But that only works if you’re nice. If you act like a twat and you’re also ugly, let’s face it, you’ll probably die alone.

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Nick
4 months 14 days ago

Wow. And the award for the most depressing cunt under heavens goes to… ‘Lucy’!

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Nick
4 months 13 days ago

Lucy, I apologize for the insult. I guess I was feeling offended by the perceived lack of love in the comment.

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Jim
4 months 25 days ago

And its bitches like you that get negged….

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Ella
5 months 30 days ago

I don’t think ‘negging’ is going to work, is it? When I go out with my friends, we are ALREADY super-attuned to the existence of dickheads, PUAs etc. We are already on our guard. The only time guys have a chance in nightclubs is if they come across as genuine, decent people. PUA’s, your window has gone. Women know about you. We think you are creeps. You ARE creeps. Please fuck off and die. Or, failing that, just try and act like normal human beings and who knows, if you’re not ugly we might give you the time of day.

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Anonymous
5 months 30 days ago

Thought this was fantastic! Great advice clicked the minute you showed me examples now much appreciated!

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Anonymous
5 months 30 days ago

Your defence of your own article is hilariously bad. Way to dig an even deeper hole. You live in a patriarchy and you are the definition of a jerk, as is any guy who even wants to read the dust jacket of “The Game” (whereas all women should read it for protection). But, please don’t respond and no one else should post here either – best medicine for trash is to ignore it, sheeple. Signed – a real man.

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Anonymous
6 months 15 days ago

As a male myself, I find this site and particularly this article quite repulsive. I understand the arguments being made and I’m not here to debate strategy.

Rather, the philosophy behind all of this I find disgusting. What’s wrong with being a genuine person who doesn’t need to resort to creepy shit like this?

This whole article reeks of /R/TheRedPill. (Sympathizers of the Santa Barbara shootings; men who believe in that women are stuck up and never give them the time of guy despite being allegedly “nice guys”. Men who feel Entitled. That they deserve Hot women and feel strategies such as this are necessary to obtaining the holy grail of vaginas…. –fucking crazy…)

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Anonymous
6 months 4 days ago

YES, thank you Dx

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anon
6 months 9 days ago

It’s also repulsive because it not only targets females’ sense of self confidence, but targets males who struggle with self esteem issues as well. It targets all people who struggle with being happy with themselves.

“Poor self esteem? Be an a**hole to other people. It will get you sex.”

False.

This is a fallacy and there is no scientific evidence to support it. Will it randomly/maybe/who knows work every so often….? Sometimes perhaps.

Nevertheless, PUA’s endorse it like crazy so that men, who more likely need to speak to a therapist, will fork over the $$$ to subscribe to it. PUA’s are vampires and they bleed these men dry. They don’t care about them. Who thinks that people like that actually, deeply care about others? They don’t. They want other dudes’ money. That’s it. And they know that they can emotionally manipulate men into forking it over with empty promises of sexual grandeur via flashy/edgy ideals, presented in a game-like structure.

It’s kind of disgusting and it actually makes me feel very sorry for men who become victims of this.

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Jen
6 months 24 days ago

It’s really sad to me that you boys have to resort to silly little tricks to get pussy. This whole website is tragic. You should rename it from “Seduction Science” to “Help for Sad Douchebags Who Have Never Gotten Their Dicks Wet.”

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Anonymous
6 months 26 days ago

Well… I’m sorry but negging is a form of abuse, and many women who got seduced by this kind of technique ended up in abusive relationships, they were beaten, raped, etc. I knew two girls who lived this hell by men who used negging to get them, and myself I have been nagged by a guy who fancied me and tries to seduce me by insulting me, my appearance, personnality, etc. I always used to avoid him as much as possible because I’m clever enough to avoir disrespectful people. One day I had to work (I was a barmaid) and he was present, because I didnt agree with him over something extremely trivial, and despite I was very polite, he grabbed me by the collar and was ready to punch me in the face, fortunately, one of the costumers stopped him. When I started dating a man, he would go extremely jealous, and today, on the rare times I see him (because we still live in the same city), he still tries to seduce me, but too late. I guess that even years after, he didnt understand that I am a woman who wants respect and who holds grudges and… Read more »

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Anonymous but f you
7 months 5 days ago

So many fucked up things about this articles and these comments. This is ridiculous, maybe just consider that “you guys” aren’t as hard-done by as you think you are. “Us girls” are not sitting there thinking “hmm, how can we deceive this guy so we can then shut him down”. Often girls go out to hang out with friends and to unwind after a long week at work, not just to find a willing penis to shove into them. Seems like the opposite is the case for you lot. In fact, often the things girls dread the most are the creepy guys who will try shit on them and then blame them for not being interested. It’s downright annoying and unpleasant. News flash: YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO A GIRL JUST BECAUSE YOU THINK SHE IS HOT. She is not obligated to pay attention to your disruptions just because she is a “8, 9 or 10”. And for that matter, fuck the rating system, you think all “8s, 9s and 10s” are spoilt little rich girls who were popular at school? Is this why you are going for them, to increase your own social standing or to somehow prove that… Read more »

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Anonymous
7 months 15 days ago

So it’s an insukt to be neged, but it’s an insult to not be neged?

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Marie
7 months 18 days ago

How to be fake charming and win fake admiration when you have nothing going for you.

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Esmeralda Moberg
7 months 20 days ago

I guess this has to work some of the time otherwise the technique wouldn’t be talked about. But anyway:
There’s a flaw in the reasoning: When you get comments like the ones listed above you don’t feel neglected or “like everybody else”. That someone actually takes the time and effort to make a comment like that up, and the effort to say it is a giveaway.
And it always makes me think “Well since you obviously want to talk to me and this is your chance, why didn’t you take the opportunity to say something worthwhile? Something that would spark my curiosity about who you are”

Unfortunately the bigger risk in negging is that you come across as just looking very strange. My friends had to explain to me that it’s a technique, I was just shaking my head wondering why some guys just completely wasted the moment for a warm sparkly playful exchange that could leave both boosted and happy. And I always find it utterly repelling.
When I can be with people who make me laugh, make me interested and happy, why waste time on someone who doesn’t seem genuine, strange or just like they have no manners?

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Stuart
7 months 22 days ago

I think people who use this method are the lowest form of scum. I am a male that has been relentlessly sexually harassed in the workplace. I now do not work, have had to give up all social activities. Having a lot of people do this to you totally destroys you as a person and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. Please engage only with people who are interested in you. Sexuality is a ponzi pyramid scheme and the ones on the top suffer more than you would believe. There is nothing worse than constant unwanted sexual attention. People commit suicide from this – if people are not interested in you LEAVE THEM ALONE.

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Emanon
8 months 12 days ago

Negging. *chuckles* If you hadn’t wasted all your time fruitlesly chasing and failing to get pussy endlessly, you’d discover you could have been using that time building yourself up to being a man a woman would find attractive and would want without tricks the unemployed boys in the park try and fail with.

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