Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work

You can also lower a girl’s social value in relation to yours with quick lines by negging women.

Here are some examples of negging women:

For a girl with a belly shirt: “Did your shirt shrink in the laundry?”

“Your roots are showing.”

“Your nose is a little red. You’re like an Eskimo. Cool.”

“You know, you look just like my little sister. Weird.”

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Effect of a neg on a hot girl illustrated

“You know, I like that outfit you’ve got on… but I don’t know… your shoes don’t really match. You should have gone with tan boots…”

To her guy friends, “So what’s special about this one.”

If she’s talking tell her friends, “So do you guys ever get a word in edge wise?”

“Hey… you look like that cartoon character… yeah that’s right, Rainbow Brite remember her?”

“I like your eyes. Hey… are you wearing colored contacts??? (before she can answer) Oh my god, no way, you are…”

“You know, your body language is all closed off. It makes you look like one of those newborns I saw on the discovery channel when they came out of the womb – all curled up.”

“Hey, you’re a goof.”

By negging women, you’ve indicated to her that you’re not interested in her over anyone else in the group. This is a new thing for her. She’ll feel the bitter sting of being just like everyone else. Her looks no longer give her all the power – because you’re not responding to her looks.

Because you’re demonstrating social value to the group at the same time she’s wondering, “Why isn’t this guy attracted to me? Why isn’t this guy paying attention to me? Who is this guy? How am I going to win this guy’s attention?”

Everyone wants to be liked. Everyone wants approval. No one wants to be ignored. The same holds true for beautiful women – even more so. Their whole reality is based on having power and having acceptance and adoration through their good looks. Take that away and their whole reality crumbles and they’ll do anything to get it back.

Negging women is ideal for really hot girls – 8s, 9s, and 10s. For an average girl (6s, 7s), you don’t want to use value zingers. All you need to do is demonstrate social value – you don’t need to lower hers. Hers wasn’t that high to begin with.

Negging women is unnecessary and inappropriate to use on girls who are already being friendly or giving you green lights. Don’t throw one out of the blue for no reason at a girl who is already responding well.

But if she’s super hot and you’ve just met her, that’s a different story. Use a neg or two on her.

Now, it’s critical to use negs right. Remember, you’re not out to damage the girl’s self confidence or put her down. You’re not out to mess up her self-esteem. Some guys in particular cross the line and start throwing soft insults and treating women like second-class human beings when they don’t deserve it.

The point is to make yourself stand out as socially valuable male and a challenge, not to make her feel bad. But used correctly, negging women is a powerful tool in your arsenal.

Update From The Author

I noticed that my post on negging “Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work” has drawn a lot of negative comments from women.

I understand the blowback.  I understand where some of you girls are coming from.  You see negging as a form of bullying or insults.

And most women are pretty sensitive to the idea of it, based on being bullied in real life.

Most women, particularly in high school, were teased, gossiped about, or bullied in some fashion – and usually from other women.  Pretty girls especially face negativity from their female friends, as pretty girls tend to hang in “pretty social circles” where there’s a lot of superficial cattiness, backstabbing, and competition.

Or even if you’ve never been bullied or teased yourself, you’ve seen the devastating effect it had on your classmates.  So naturally, you feel sympathy.

But anger at ‘negging’ is misplaced.

First, we are talking about a night club environment.  There’s lots of REJECTION involved, inherent to the environment.

And most of the rejection is aimed at the GUYS.

Haven’t either you or one of your friends ever ignore a guy?  Like, not even acknowledge his presence when he tried to talk to you.

It’s often pretty CRUSHING to the guy’s self-esteem that he isn’t given 10 seconds to acknowledge he’s another human being to talk to and say “hello”.  Ignoring a guy completely is much crueler than any neg a guy would dish.  (Like, “Hey girl!  You have some lint in your hair… look at that.”)

Then again, it’s a night club.  If a guy’s ego is so fragile, he shouldn’t go.

So please girls, if a guy told you that you had lint in your hair and that would “cut you down” or would “crush you”, and your ego is THAT fragile, then don’t go to night clubs!!  After all, the guys have to deal with MUCH WORSE from you girls!

In addition, Negs are for those glamour girls that have been spoiled all their lives by Daddy and have little sense of reality (like Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton for example).  These are the types of girls that enjoy shooting “nice guys” down.  It’s THAT kind of girl that negs are designed to attract.

So if you’re a normal-looking girl with a normal attitude, you probably will NEVER BE NEGGED in your life.  So for crying-out-loud, don’t worry about it.

Further consider that 99.9% of guys are SO damn nervous in clubs and bars that they can’t even approach a girl without wetting their briefs… let alone finding the balls to neg a pretty girl.

So don’t worry, it’s statistically unlikely to ever happen to you, even if you DO look like a runway model.  Most guys will never approach you, or they’ll just try to kiss your ass to get into your pants.  And that’s SO much better than those bad boys, right?

But since those guys are NOT a challenge in the slightest, they’re not attractive to you.  That’s why you blow them off.

That’s what a neg does – creates a challenge to the female.  That’s what attractive guys do.  And ANY guy you’ve ever fallen for, on some level, you had to chase HIM.  Every single guy you ever had a crush on made YOU chase HIM.

I know it’s simple to latch onto a cause, leave a comment, and feel like you’re serving justice in some small way by taking a stand against the 1 in 10,000 guys that have the balls to neg a girl like, “Hey girl!  It’s funny how your nose wiggles when you talk!”  But really, it’s an empty cause!

P.S. If you still disagree with this assessment, please leave a comment, I welcome all opinions!  😆

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Thanks, I now know to stay away from men with the mentality of a 12 year old.

Katherine
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Katherine

If you had come on to me like this I wouldn’t have been offended – I’d assumed someone had dropped you on your head as a baby or something. Or at least had some kind of personality deficiency. Your misogyny is showing and it’s the exact opposite of appealing.

Bengu
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Bengu

Rejection is something and insulting is another you piece of shit. Oh no, I’m not insulting you, just rejecting your idea.

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I think you are a huge asshole

Anonymous
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Since when are women obliged to talk to men approaching them? Take it from an average woman: turn down a man, cause you just don’t want to talk and 99% of the time he gets salty. Sorry, but if your ego is crushed that easily, the go back to momma. If I don’t want to talk to you for whatever reason, then no negging in the world will help you, insults even less. Take it in your stride, walk away and try to talk to someone else. It is that simple. And it will make you look less of a… Read more »
Almo
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Almo

Just another keyboard warrior hiding behind an anonymous profile so they can talk rubbish about things that have nothing to do with this article. Please take a seat

(oh & read between the lines next time)

Anonymous
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Anonymous
Ooooohhh my gooood I’m trying to be the better person with people like you but I just can’t!!!! Are you actually calling crazy and not-suitable for respect the women who insult you for the crap you have in your fucking head? You little piece of shit? Guess what bitch, if you were a stable and attractive person you wouldn’t need “negging” in the first place to get laid. I can’t even understand the way you’re thinking! How the hell can you think the stupid things you say are OK? People like you and anyone “negging” should have their fucking dicks… Read more »
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Dude just fyi, your little “update” made you look a million times more A DICK. And you were already a pretty big one.
P.S. you must be a really sad person.

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THIS SITE IS TRASH

Harry
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Harry

Should change the title to “How to be a dick.” Seems far more appropriate.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Yes and all PUA advice, the Red Pill community and Return of Kings should follow suit. It’s pretty much ‘How to be a psycho manipulative dingus 101’ or could also collectively be called: ‘Intro to ted bundy’s thought processes’.

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Negging is clearly using the sociopathic manipulation technique of devaluation.

Any males that would need to use this technique are little insecure beta boys and should focus on finding their balls and learning to be Alpha Males.

Alpha Males close the deal because they are confident and women are drawn to them and don’t need to be mind fucked to want to be with them.

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Well, ladies: if nothing else, we have all been informed of this technique and we can respond how we choose when presented with it. We can’t control anyone else but ourselves. Thanks, Jesse! Education is power!

Anonymous
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Anonymous

your points are interesting… still not okay. come on. you know this.

Jim
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Jim

And this is why you are still a virgin

Anonymous
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Anonymous
As a “hot girl” who was literally called a 10 out loud by some PUA (POS) creep mastermind… What you’re all doing is cruel, inappropriate, and down right wrong. You are using powerful emotional and psychological tools to systematically attack a woman’s self worth, autonomy, individuality, free will, as well as her mind and body. Negging is a deplorable practice and is precisely the kind of chipping away psychological abuse that can lead to devastating outcomes for women with tumultuous pasts or difficult lives. These triggers are powerful and downright dangerous and irresponsible to use on people. You never know… Read more »
Siggy
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Siggy

Seek help. Seriously, you need help. If this is a reflection of your inner world and dialogue, you are a disturbed person. You’d think the suggestion was dragging women to Room 101 from “1984” (read the book – Orwell)…honestly, your rage needs to be dealt with or you’ll continue being you…

Psycholuver
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Psycholuver

Sickie,
Guys like you with petite, delicate, bird-like body frames have to get women somehow, right? I think it’s so cute how tiny you are! …wanna fuck?

I’ll bet you and the ‘clientele’ at which this article is aimed wouldn’t be able to ‘perform’ after a neg like that..

But, it’s just a comment saying you have a small frame! I don’t understand why there should be an issue with it?! Haha

Kimo da Hapa Haole
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Nothing she said was wrong. Negging, when it’s done in a relationship and not by some random asshole with a bald patch you meet in a bar and never see again, can seriously undermine a woman’s self worth and make her accepting of more damaging types of abuse. It might seem like one small comment won’t do that much harm, but when it goes on for months at the hands of someone you trust and love, any woman will start to have lowered self-worth. At best, negging is like a little 6-year-old boy going up to a pretty girl on… Read more »
Siggy
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Siggy
Where in the article does it say that negging is to be done “in a relationship” and “for months”? And (I ask for what seems the hundredth time) how can saying that you have am Eskimo-like red nose equate to “systematically attack a woman’s self worth, autonomy, individuality, free will, as well as her mind and body”??? Seriously?? – you can’t see a problem when there is such a hysterical and histrionic response (here and below) to telling someone their t-shirt looks like it has shrunk…you really thing that is a proportionate response to this mild albeit tacky article? Really??… Read more »
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Psycholuver

Guys like you with petite, delicate, bird-like body frames have to get women somehow, right? I think it’s cute that you’re so tiny! …wanna fuck?

I’ll bet if a female negged you, or other PUAers who utilize this technique, in this fashion you wouldn’t be able to ‘perform.’

But, but..all I said was some harmless little comment regarding a body size! How is that offensive?!

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Let me illustrate the difference to you between teasing and taking a dig at a girl’s self esteem: Teasing-“Hey your stomach is showing a little, not that anyone’s complaining. I know I’m not. ;)” Negging-“What’s wrong with your shirt? Did it shrink in the dryer? Do you know how to do laundry?” There is a clear difference. In the tease, you are being playful and letting her know you find her attractive and you’re only joking. In the neg, you are deliberately obscuring whether you’re joking or not and you are insinuating on purpose that you do not find her… Read more »
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Siggy
Well you started off using a reasonable tone, pointing out the (supposed) difference between teasing and negging (which, let me say again, I would not use personally, and, as I’ve said below, I think is tacky) but then you slip – as so many do here – into talk about it equating (in your opinion, inevitably) to ‘rape’ and ‘violation’!…it is this ANGER of yours that I am interested in…for example, you elide seamlessly from a what is talked about in the article above, namely, a one-off neg to a ‘hottie’, into psychological torment ‘over the course of months’ which… Read more »
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Why are you girls here in the first place?This is supposed to be a men’s only site.Its like you girls sneaking into a boys’ locker room and eavesdropping on them.

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Also what is the difference between attempting to “lower a woman’s social value” in relation to you and attempting to target and lower a woman’s self esteem? The fact you are using words like “hysterical” and “histrionic” to describe my response just speaks to my point even more.

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Kent
To be fair, I kind of see where you are going with this, but this doesn’t work like you say it does. Most of the time, if you act like an asshole, girls are simply gonna assume that you are just an asshole. Being an asshole is not attractive, no matter your gender. To get the ones you are talking about, you need looks yourself, or some other thing that attracts them. I know you think this reverse-psychology bs sounds cool and all, but its not a bulletproof way of doing this as there is no merit to it. Sure,… Read more »
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Saying ‘You probably won’t get negged’ is negging. You’re trying to set up girls to feel proud to be negged, because if they’re negged it means they’re valuable. It’s pretty transparent. And negging is transparent. We’re not stupid. Not even us hot girls. We see a guy negging and know that he doesn’t have enough character to attract women. He has to resort to tricks. It’s actually pathetic, in the true sense of the word. As is this piece.

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What a sad boring wanker

Robin
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Robin
Playful teasing can be a normal part of flirting, and part of the mutual “chase”. But this is completely different. This is not playful teasing. It is intentionally making a vulnerable woman feel bad so you can hope to win her back. It is psychological manipulation and anyone who tricks or manipulates a vulnerable woman into bed is a sociopathic soulless immoral damaging fucking asshole IMHO. Ultimate cowardice. How can you even enjoy the sex when you know she is not actually attracted to you? Surely genuine, open lust is the biggest turn on? If a girl is fucking me… Read more »
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This is what mental illness looks like. Dude, seek help.

Leah
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Leah
If you respect women, and particularly want to be with a beautiful woman, have honest intentions, it shows in the quality of the content in your speech, and your verbal/body language – including your inflection, intonation, and volume. How you speak is a powerful, persuasive linguistic skill that goes a lot further than making implications about her appearance (ex. assuming she is wearing contact lenses, questioning the quality or color of her hair, etc.). No one likes being “teased” by a stranger. You need to step your game up, improve the quality of your conversation and add genuine attitude that… Read more »
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Siggy
Firstly, women who claim they are “hot” rarely are. Secondly, this is more often the case when they are engineers, ha, ha 😉 Thirdly, the point of the article is that negging – despicable act that it seems to be to most women posters here – can be used by a dude precisely when talking about the MIT DNA store (huh?) to a “hottie” DOES NOT WORK. That’s all. Pretty simple really. One (questionable) tool in the armamentarium. The rest of what you write is therefore irrelevant, and an excuse to lecture us all, and also to make you feel… Read more »
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Chrissi
Average or ugly guys being hung up on getting a woman just for her looks is just hilarious. Last thing you need is attitude but if you want to get somewhere you should kiss up to her. If a woman wants a “challenge” she’ll just go with the average hot guy/bad boy i guess you never thought of that in your genius plan. And what’s up with these ratings? No normal person rates someones looks by nrs what a huge d-bag sign. Worst of all you’re not even willing to listen to well meant advice and then complain no one… Read more »
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Siggy

“Ugly”…”troll”…”d-bag”…wow, what a wonderful human being you are. Great catch! Definitely deserving of “kissing up” and “respect”..(which BTW is what you fear losing – which is the point of the article…but obviously you missed this subtlety)
0/10

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I’m not sure who the target audience is here for this blog.. angsty teenage boys competing for women’s numbers? Hermits with difficulty speaking or respecting women? What makes you think women can’t see the ulterior motive behind negging when they’re out in a social setting? Expect negative feedback from repulsive negging tactics like in this kid’s blog. Honestly, who do you expect to pick-up by making comments like “it looks like your shirt shrunk in the dryer” or “your roots are showing”? Do you honestly believe a “10” is going to pay more attention to an average Joe bc you… Read more »
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Eve

Here’s a crazy idea: treat women like human beings & don’t be an asshole.

– advice from a hot woman

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No one cares

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Melissa

When guys neg, it’s an instant red flag that they’re not worth mine or any girl’s time. It’s a pathetic “look at me look at me” move and insulting. The fact that guys actually believe it would work is just beyond me. Honestly forget pick up con men (and the nightclub scene that this apparently works in) and just pick up a hobby that will likely have female members. It’s much easier and way less manipulative to just be a goddamn genuine human being with a girl and find a connection that way. Trust me, negging does NOT work.

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Personally I would never treat a woman that way. And any woman who falls for that crap is not someone I want to be with. That sh*t is fine when you are 19 and looking for a one night pick up, but when adults do it…it’s just pathetic to be honest. If you need to undermine a woman’s confidence to get her to sleep with you then it says a lot more about you than it does about her. fwiw I’ve never ‘negged’ and would be disgusted by any of my friends who did.

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No one cares

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Shae
OMG! How condescending can one human being be? You might as well have said: “don’t worry if a guy hasn’t negged you: it’s because you’re just not that hot, that he should even bothered!!!!Should a beautiful woman feel honoured somehow that a man has negged her ??? Jesse it doesn’t sound like you like women very much. I am sorry I am not crying a river because women don’t give some men the time of day. But that implies that all men acknowledge ALL women even the ones they don’t feel attracted to. Now that’s not true, and you know… Read more »
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Negging is psychological warfare, which to me, is close in form to gaslighting, because when you call a guy out on negging, he then accuses you of being “crazy” because he meant it as a “compliment”. Anything designed to mess with someone’s head is abuse. What is the end goal? To trick a woman into sleeping with you? So this “mind-fuck” is actually “mind-rape”? I am not a super model, but I have been the victim of negging for over 6 years and am finally able to define what this person has been doing to me. It is mental manipulation… Read more »
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I just searched up “negging”. Call me ignorant, but I had no idea it had a term. I personally have never used this. I’ve seen other guys do it though and thought it a little odd and obvious. I’ve also had it done to me, from females, but I knew they were just playing around. Didn’t realize it’s a means to an end. Maybe I’m oblivious. Anyway, Not sure if these would really work on a girl..at least not most of the time anyway. I’ll sometimes throw some shade in a banter-esque style but only after talking to her for… Read more »
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Maud

So,you’re saying it’s ok for men to neg women because after all,they have to deal with worst from women?
How is it different from simply put her down?

Alix
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Alix
Jesse don’t listen to any of these whiny cry babies who have you completely misunderstood because they can’t handle the truth. No one here is talking about destroying self-esteem & making insults, it’s meant to be playful & challenging banter & it’s based on the push & pull principle. Tension is an important & normal part of seduction. This dating game is not a fairy tale where being a nice guy will & putting on her on a pedestal will get her attracted to you. At the end of the day you’re trying to win her over & that doesn’t… Read more »
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Alex,when those “techniques” are hugely used by assholes who play mind games to take control over women and the relationship,people have all the reasons to be “cry babies” as you put it.

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Alix

Hi Maud, i can understand what you’re saying, the issue here is that most people are dismissing this technique in it’s in entirety (without really understanding what it is)
& not its misuse

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Anyone who would do even half of what this pathetic loser is suggesting must be a complete sociopath, if they would turn to this because they were alone, maybe they deserved to be alone in the first place.

Siggy
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Siggy

Please see every reply I have made here!

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Her: Hey you look like that cartoon character.. Herald Berman, remember him?
Her: Your eyes are a little red. You’re like an Albino. Cool. lol
Her: Your boxers are showing.
Her: Did your baseball cap shrink in the laundry?
Her: You know, you look just like my little brother. Weird.
Her: I like your hair. Hey… are those frosted tips??? (before he can answer) Oh my god, no way, they are…”
*speaking to his DNA*

Siggy
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Siggy

Honestly, why do you want to prove my article – each of these lines would create nothing but intrigue in me. Honestly.

Leah
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Leah

if THAT is intriguing to you, you are a sad, boring creature lol. i feel secondhand embarrassment for you.

Siggy
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Siggy

The fact that I would find a woman intriguing for saying “your boxers are showing” (and trust me, ANY guy is going to be intrigued by such a line, especially from a “hottie”) says less about me, and more about the passive, blandness of most commentary/conversation from girls at clubs…oh, for a witty woman! So HOT! Especially, if she does not use “lol”. Girls – want the bright guys? Work on your banter! Why do we have to do all the work??

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shameful tactics say alot about yourself ladies. remember that

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Carol

Hey Jessie you are a wanker, I hope they call you on your behaviour and tell you to fuck off!

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I know a woman who was negged long-term by her boyfriend… he did all the things described. She always believed he was just joking… the little jabs at her self-confidence were the norm. Her friends tried to tell her he did not seem to be joking… that he meant all that he said on some level. But he kept the tone light so as not to aggravate her too much… it was more a control/ status thing. The two of them had had a child together; she brought her child to another town and saw the situation more clearly while… Read more »
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Predatory behavior towards women is sickening.And this is predatory: setting your sights on a woman and doing whatever it takes to get what YOU want. Ick. If you think this mentality isn’t a stepping stone to more aggressive behavior, you are fooling yourself. Example A from real life experience: I guy pulls this crap on me in a bar. I let him know that he is impolite, I didn’t ask his opinion, and ask him to go away… I guess it was the final blow to his ego, because next thing I know I’m being yelled at, threatened, and called… Read more »
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Siggy

Seriously? Someone needs therapy for saying someone else has a red nose? Wow. There are some weird people out there so angry they create these straw monsters in the hope they will burn. Where in the article does it say it is OK to scream and threaten?? The argument posed by this post is like saying we should ban gelati ocean swimming for all because it contains sharks. Get a grip please. Or, in fact, therapy.

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Adrienne

I have been paying a dermatologist to treat broken blood vessels around my nose caused by aggressively squeezing blackheads when I was a teenager. If some guy pointed out the very thing that I am insecure about, I would A) think he was rude B) feel embarrassed and discontinue the conversation. I would not feel bad about myself, I would think poorly of the person who has pointed out my physical flaws instead of initiating a conversation aimed at getting to know me.

Siggy
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Siggy

…and entirely fair enough. That would be a reasonable and measured response.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

This is disgusting.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

I’m a guy and you’re a pig. Douchebag!

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Matt
Like I can see in weird situation that this might be successful, but do you really want to date someone only into you because you prey on their insecurities could and making them feel like the reacher instead of the settler? Any time I’ve gone out with girls they play nice with the either the faux “nice guys” and neggers to avoid a conflict but do everything they can to get out of that situation, eg fake numbers. Why? Because women learn quick that predatory men are not suitable. But ones who are generally interested and friendly are seen as… Read more »
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Anonymous

I’m a woman and not sure if I agree. Just because a man seems interested and friendly it doesn’t make them more attractive – a little mystery and uncertainty is more interesting and fun.

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Anonymous

I’ve only just seen this and haven’t read the hundreds of comments but don’t understand why a person wants another person to feel shitter than we all do about ourselves anyway

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Lovernotafighter

love your woman, respect your woman, treat her like a queen genuinely and with no motives, and she will treat you like a king. IV been married for 20 years to my queen and would never dream of treating her with such disrespect.

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Chris

I feel sorry for the poor sap who wrote this article. You must lead a very sad lonely life. I once had troubles getting good women until I grew some balls and learned how to pick out quality women who I could respect and love. I would never speak down to a woman to gain power because I am secure with myself and desire the same in a woman.

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Let’s all admit that this website is actually the worst, kay?

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My f*cking god, you dumbass

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“Negging” only works if you have an attractive quality (look or style) to begin with. You have to say the “neg” with confidence and a smile while looking her up and down with a swagger. Like the post says only say 1 at the start or near the start to grab her attention. And also come up with better negs that actually relate to the girl in which slightly teases her. Only the first one about the laundry will get her interested in a conversion – important as that is all what negs do! FYI I have been told by… Read more »
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a lot of self proclaimed nice guys don’t realize that they aren’t as nice as they think they are. Guys that are genuinely nice are already in relationships because they know how to treat women, just because a guy has a hard time picking up women does not automatically put you in the “nice guy” category, it’s generally the opposite. Self proclaimed “nice guys” are the bitter ones that can’t pick up a women and then hate on them for it. A genuinely nice guy is secure and loving and would have no trouble getting a woman, and would never… Read more »
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Siggy
Oh dear – “nice guys” are “bad guys” and (really) “nice guys” are “nice guys” when in fact (the real) bad boys (not mentioned, you’ll notice) are often the real winners…but here is the horrible super-controlling element to all this – the statement that: “…make necessary improvements and the ladies will follow…” This is a despicable attitude….can you imagine saying that to a woman; “change yourself, learn to treat me nice or else”….and so THIS post finally gets to the heart of the reason behind all the vitriol spewed by women here.,.,,and it is this attitude; WE HAVE ALL THE… Read more »
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ThisDoesn\'tWork

No, no, no… Being a nice guy is actually kind of the BEST fucking strategy. If you’re looking for someone intelligent, then don’t “neg” her. She’ll run faster than a motherfucking train.

RingMaster
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LMAO Ladies and gentlemen, step right up… 5 cents for admission to the freak show, not for the faint of heart… My friends, I present to you a sad sack of a man who has thus far been a failure with every social aspect of his existence, therefore attempting to create a new persona for himself online in order to impress other sad sacks as an “expert” …Watch how he responds to my clicker for a treat! Down boy…don’t get too close, fellas, however, his disease may be catching…We utilize cattle prods for your safety, but fear not. This underdeveloped… Read more »
Alix
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Alix

lol, is that the best you’ve got? just crawl back into that little box where you came from cos the real person who isnt adding any value to the discussion is you

Sangie
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This is fucking sick…. wow.

hiroshi
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hiroshi

This is actually interesting. I came up with my own theory that this might work, a little while ago, before I heard of “negging”. What prompted the idea was how many, many times being really nice just fosters disdain.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Use that ? on me and you’ll be walking away from me with a red cheek, asshole. Only an idiot would put up with emotional and verbal abuse.

ThisDoesn\'tWork
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ThisDoesn\'tWork

HELL YEAH

Siggy
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Siggy

…and only a pathologically angry person (the ones that guys only identify when it is too late) that threaten physical violence if some suggests that they have a “red nose”. Seriously, you are the embodiment of what this article is about: those women that use the power imbalance in relationships, and that can occur between men and women (a power imbalance that this article seeks to mildly redress), as a weapon, that if eroded, become psychotic. Get some help for your rage.

RingMaster
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AHHHH Here we have another specimen… One who utilizes moral outrage when faced with conflict, yet has the strange ability of a lack of self awareness on his part of said conflict…Another sad sack seeking advice from the sad sack “writer”, frustrated at his lack of prowess with all social situations indefinitely…Ladies and gents, we call this specimen a “hypocritical splooge tank”….5 cents, ladies and gents! Hurry, hurry, hurry, step right up!

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Bitches be flockin’ to me now

Anonymous
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Anonymous

same. every since i read this article it’s like “women hate this guy, find out why in just 3 easy steps”

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