Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work

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You can also lower a girl’s social value in relation to yours with quick lines by negging women.

Here are some examples of negging women:

For a girl with a belly shirt: “Did your shirt shrink in the laundry?”

“Your roots are showing.”

“Your nose is a little red. You’re like an Eskimo. Cool.”

“You know, you look just like my little sister. Weird.”

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Effect of a neg on a hot girl illustrated

“You know, I like that outfit you’ve got on… but I don’t know… your shoes don’t really match. You should have gone with tan boots…”

To her guy friends, “So what’s special about this one.”

If she’s talking tell her friends, “So do you guys ever get a word in edge wise?”

“Hey… you look like that cartoon character… yeah that’s right, Rainbow Brite remember her?”

“I like your eyes. Hey… are you wearing colored contacts??? (before she can answer) Oh my god, no way, you are…”

“You know, your body language is all closed off. It makes you look like one of those newborns I saw on the discovery channel when they came out of the womb – all curled up.”

“Hey, you’re a goof.”

By negging women, you’ve indicated to her that you’re not interested in her over anyone else in the group. This is a new thing for her. She’ll feel the bitter sting of being just like everyone else. Her looks no longer give her all the power – because you’re not responding to her looks.

Because you’re demonstrating social value to the group at the same time she’s wondering, “Why isn’t this guy attracted to me? Why isn’t this guy paying attention to me? Who is this guy? How am I going to win this guy’s attention?”

Everyone wants to be liked. Everyone wants approval. No one wants to be ignored. The same holds true for beautiful women – even more so. Their whole reality is based on having power and having acceptance and adoration through their good looks. Take that away and their whole reality crumbles and they’ll do anything to get it back.

Negging women is ideal for really hot girls – 8s, 9s, and 10s. For an average girl (6s, 7s), you don’t want to use value zingers. All you need to do is demonstrate social value – you don’t need to lower hers. Hers wasn’t that high to begin with.

Negging women is unnecessary and inappropriate to use on girls who are already being friendly or giving you green lights. Don’t throw one out of the blue for no reason at a girl who is already responding well.

But if she’s super hot and you’ve just met her, that’s a different story. Use a neg or two on her.

Now, it’s critical to use negs right. Remember, you’re not out to damage the girl’s self confidence or put her down. You’re not out to mess up her self-esteem. Some guys in particular cross the line and start throwing soft insults and treating women like second-class human beings when they don’t deserve it.

The point is to make yourself stand out as socially valuable male and a challenge, not to make her feel bad. But used correctly, negging women is a powerful tool in your arsenal.

Update From The Author

I noticed that my post on negging “Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work” has drawn a lot of negative comments from women.

I understand the blowback.  I understand where some of you girls are coming from.  You see negging as a form of bullying or insults.

And most women are pretty sensitive to the idea of it, based on being bullied in real life.

Most women, particularly in high school, were teased, gossiped about, or bullied in some fashion – and usually from other women.  Pretty girls especially face negativity from their female friends, as pretty girls tend to hang in “pretty social circles” where there’s a lot of superficial cattiness, backstabbing, and competition.

Or even if you’ve never been bullied or teased yourself, you’ve seen the devastating effect it had on your classmates.  So naturally, you feel sympathy.

But anger at ‘negging’ is misplaced.

First, we are talking about a night club environment.  There’s lots of REJECTION involved, inherent to the environment.

And most of the rejection is aimed at the GUYS.

Haven’t either you or one of your friends ever ignore a guy?  Like, not even acknowledge his presence when he tried to talk to you.

It’s often pretty CRUSHING to the guy’s self-esteem that he isn’t given 10 seconds to acknowledge he’s another human being to talk to and say “hello”.  Ignoring a guy completely is much crueler than any neg a guy would dish.  (Like, “Hey girl!  You have some lint in your hair… look at that.”)

Then again, it’s a night club.  If a guy’s ego is so fragile, he shouldn’t go.

So please girls, if a guy told you that you had lint in your hair and that would “cut you down” or would “crush you”, and your ego is THAT fragile, then don’t go to night clubs!!  After all, the guys have to deal with MUCH WORSE from you girls!

In addition, Negs are for those glamour girls that have been spoiled all their lives by Daddy and have little sense of reality (like Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton for example).  These are the types of girls that enjoy shooting “nice guys” down.  It’s THAT kind of girl that negs are designed to attract.

So if you’re a normal-looking girl with a normal attitude, you probably will NEVER BE NEGGED in your life.  So for crying-out-loud, don’t worry about it.

Further consider that 99.9% of guys are SO damn nervous in clubs and bars that they can’t even approach a girl without wetting their briefs… let alone finding the balls to neg a pretty girl.

So don’t worry, it’s statistically unlikely to ever happen to you, even if you DO look like a runway model.  Most guys will never approach you, or they’ll just try to kiss your ass to get into your pants.  And that’s SO much better than those bad boys, right?

But since those guys are NOT a challenge in the slightest, they’re not attractive to you.  That’s why you blow them off.

That’s what a neg does – creates a challenge to the female.  That’s what attractive guys do.  And ANY guy you’ve ever fallen for, on some level, you had to chase HIM.  Every single guy you ever had a crush on made YOU chase HIM.

I know it’s simple to latch onto a cause, leave a comment, and feel like you’re serving justice in some small way by taking a stand against the 1 in 10,000 guys that have the balls to neg a girl like, “Hey girl!  It’s funny how your nose wiggles when you talk!”  But really, it’s an empty cause!

P.S. If you still disagree with this assessment, please leave a comment, I welcome all opinions!  😆

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3 days 4 hours ago

Hey man, how long is your video about “speaking to her DNA?” Do you actually tell how to do it or it just examples of success stories?

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Sam
7 days 10 hours ago

Over 800 comments, good god! I didn’t know it was possible for the author himself to kick the hornets next the same way a troll does… just for the reactions. “If you still disagree with this assessment, please leave a comment, I welcome all opinions!” says the blogger who just told anyone angered by ‘negging’ that their feeling of anger is misplaced. And then made a blanket statement that anyone who has issues with ‘negging’ has taken on an “empty cause.”

Way to contradict yourself, dude.

And then there’s the circular and highly emotional argument that ALL girls found in nightclubs who are ’10s’ have irreparably damaged hundreds (maybe thousands) of male egos by being spoiled and thus these women deserve to be negged by virtue of the fact that by looking hot and being in a night club they have irreparably damaged hundreds (maybe thousands) of male egos by being spoiled.

Good luck with that attitude, man.

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Anonymous
10 days 1 hour ago

“How do I get this girl to like me? l know! I’ll insult her, then she’ll clinging too me in no time.”
There are few that ever get to the level of full retard. This guy has gone so far past it that it’s starting to redshift.

Nope
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10 days 5 hours ago

You are actually more disgusting than onision.

bec
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bec
10 days 7 hours ago

You just sound like your parents didn’t love you very much and weren’t interested in bringing you up right.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
10 days 9 hours ago

This HAS to be satire

What is wrong with you?
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What is wrong with you?
10 days 12 hours ago

What a fucking twat.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
10 days 13 hours ago

Boo hoo, the incel is mad because he couldn’t get any pussy.Oh sorry, I didn’t mean to hurt your poor wittle feewings like all those other feeeemales.There, I just gave you your 10 seconds of acknowledgement.Hope the next girl you neg gives you a good kick in the nuts…I mean after all, it IS a better alternative to ‘being rejected’, the WORST possible fate a man can suffer *muffled sobbing*

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siggy
9 days 41 minutes ago

Wow, there are some sick women posting here – such hatred and anger…it actually shows why this story is necessary – the contempt these women feel for men is the cause of the problem that this article addresses…wow, just wow…boy are there some ugly people out there – that delight in rejecting men.

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Anonymous
7 days 17 hours ago

It’s not contempt against men, just against the kind of sick men that encourage things like negging.Also, nobody ACTUALLY delights in rejecting other people.People don’t do it for teh lulz, they reject you because for one reason or another they just dislike you.I don’t know who’s rejected you so badly that you honestly have such a negative mindset, but it ain’t getting you anywhere.And FYI most women respond poorly to negging and other such techniques.You should get off the internet, stop reading these bullshit articles and work on improving your lifestyle.Then you’ll feel much better about yourself and the world around you 😐

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Siggy
7 days 14 hours ago

Lulz, I’m a 58 year old lawyer/psychologist with 2 kids! Stop projecting! The interesting thing to me is that you say “they just dislike you”…thats quite telling actually. What you mean to say is (I hope) is “they just don’t like you”…there is a difference…a big difference, lulzl. Read again my comment that you commented on…slowly. But thanks for the advice…I’ll give some serious thought!

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Gab
10 days 14 hours ago

Negging is stupid, plain and simple, i’ll not explain you why cayse many have, already.
But dude…DUDE if you say i look like your little sister then you hit on me i wont be like “oh no i have to prove to him i dont look like his female siblings!!!” and be more like “this guy has some fuckin incestual issues”
And if you guve me unasked fashion advice, you’re an asshole. And qorst if you talk about me in front of me without aknowledging me i wont aknowledge your existence like, ever.

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siggy
9 days 47 minutes ago

Wow – such hatred and anger…over suggesting playful banter??

Talk about “issues”.

Read the article again – slowly – then tell us who is the “asshole”.

And how many men have you hurt?

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Anonymous
10 days 14 hours ago

It’s gotten to the point where I can predict if a guy is going to pull this type of shift before he even opens his mouth. You douchebags are that obvious. You’re so socially inept that you can’t just have a normal human interaction. It has to follow a formula, and there’s nothing more obvious and annoying. And how is a neg like “your roots are showing” supposed to work? That’s just called being a dick because of your own insecurity.

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9 days 49 minutes ago

“douchebags”…”inept:…”dick”…thanks for the insight into how you think and feel – and why playful banter is taken by you as a full-on assault upon….what?…maybe the glorified status of yourself in you head?

Wow, such ugliness.

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Anon
10 days 15 hours ago

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHSHAHAH WHAT A JOKE

Only a goddamn loser would treat a human being like this and anyone who follows this advice should seriously reevaluate why they feel the need to go to a “seduction science” website. So lame.

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Boop
10 days 15 hours ago

God damn that edit is pure cringe.
Do you visit r/Truecels much? God damn lol

Grow up or die alone
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Grow up or die alone
11 days 14 hours ago

You poor sad little man.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
11 days 14 hours ago

Omg you are fucked up.

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Anonymous
12 days 20 hours ago

Negging is proven to work and I have used these tactics many times with great results. Heck I even used it on my current girlfriend of 2 years and we’re still going very strong. The below comments are all from SJW sexist women who refuse to see the other side of the coin. Keep up the great work OP.

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Anonymous
10 days 12 hours ago

I’m sure you and your waifu are still going strong after two years. Cotton is very durable.

Boop
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Boop
10 days 16 hours ago

Jesus I’d hate to meet the type of woman who responds positively to this crap. I’ve had guys do this to me and it’s VERY off putting. Embarrassing your date is not a good idea, guys.

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Bee
24 days 16 hours ago

“But since those guys are NOT a challenge in the slightest, they’re not attractive to you. That’s why you blow them off. That’s what a neg does – creates a challenge to the female.”

You don’t need a high school diploma to know that the above quote is based on wishful thinking and nothing scientific.

How on earth would anyone know what is/isn’t attractive to someone? A neg does not “create a challenge” for the person being negged regardless of their sex because no one can know what is/isn’t/would/wouldn’t be a challenge to another person until they get to know them (and even then they’d still be guessing). Besides, if someone has that kind of power they’d be making a ton of money working for the NSA, not writing this kind of stuff. Sheesh, if humans were so predictable and manipulatable we’d have peace in the Middle East by now.

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Kristen
18 days 4 hours ago

Agreed. This is so gross and pathetic.

Jen
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Jen
24 days 17 hours ago

You know what I used to say to guys that would do this crap to me? “I’m sorry, I don’t speak English.” In perfect English, of course.

As a woman I must tell you this approach might work with some, but I can guarantee you that you’ll be getting the neediest, most insecure woman in the group. I guess if your goal is just to get laid that doesn’t really matter, but then you risk being hounded by an insecure, needy pain in the butt for who knows how long.

Here’s an old fashioned idea: Try introducing yourself, smiling and being sincere – that always worked on me.

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Anonymous
27 days 2 hours ago

I’m sorry dudes are literally bullying you but good GOD A GIRL MIGHT HAVE SAID NO TO HIM ONCE THE HORROR.

You\'re a gross fuck
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You\'re a gross fuck
27 days 7 hours ago

Please die

anonymous
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anonymous
18 days 4 hours ago

seconded.

ophelia
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ophelia
29 days 6 hours ago
lamest and most transparent lines ever. if any guy ever said any of these things to me, it would be an instant turnoff. barf. try developing a personality and a sense of humor. THAT is attractive and (if you want) seductive. or, if you don’t care if you screw a woman with no depth of insight herself, someone who would actually fall for this idiotic ploy, why not just get a rubber doll? you won’t have to buy her any drinks or waste any time on foreplay. i mean what the hell. why bother. mean girls may be popular, but not with the targets of their meanness. of course, i’m over 18. maybe this works for the little ones, but if you want to get laid the rest of your life, an authentic self-respect and respect for others will take you much further. and that isn’t something you can get from a book or a blog or a cheat-sheet. you actually have to work for it. develop your mind and your sense of self. some guy approaches me with this BS, i know immediately he’s got both no self-confidence or respect for me, and therefore i just walk away. you… Read more »
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Siggy
29 days 3 hours ago

wow – such anger. Why? It’s a harmless ploy. Read the article again – it doesn’t say to water board the girl! Or call her horrible names. Or kidnap her puppy.

If it doesn’t work for him – he can move on – or learn that this doesn’t work.

What are you really railing against?

It is, I think, the very thing that the article is addressing – the power imbalance that can occur by virtue of birth or circumstance.

You take it as a full-scale attack on humanity – why?

Why feel so threatened? You seem a smart person – work it out…you might learn something too.

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4 days 6 hours ago

You keep defending the guy that insults women in an effort to fool them into sleeping with him. Let me just say that again; He insults women in an effort to fool them into sleeping with him.

His policy is that a girl with high self esteem is a blight on all men at a night club. As such, her self esteem must be attacked so that she can debase herself by sleeping with someone who has no respect for her. You said in an earlier comment that you have a wife. I feel sorry for her. Does she know you think that pretty women need to be taken down a peg just for being born pretty?

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Siggy
2 days 6 hours ago

Oh dear. Firstly, everybody “fools them into sleeping with them” in one way or other! This is just one way to do it – and secondly, I am not here to defend the guy, I’m here to create balance amongst all the vitriol being spewed by (presumably) women who seem to feel emotionally crushed and violated and furious because some guy says men should tell hot women that their nose is red…WTF?!…but I can see, fourthly, you don’t get it, and you haven’t answered my question which was; why so much anger?? I doubt you are at a stage in life where even the question makes sense, and as such, nothing I can say will make you see what is really at play. Not that I am some sort of ORACLE! Just that when you get to my stage in life, you’ve seen and done enough (as many have) to know when people’s agendas and MOs are revealed, they attack with a mighty righteousness which in the end simply proves the point being made. Think about it petal, in that dark deep place where the truth lies.

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anonymous
18 days 4 hours ago

Not really. In fact, these are all pretty limp-dicked compared to what most intelligent, popular females hurl at each other on the reg anyway.

I guess that’s my problem with this though. It’s all so far-fetched and obvious. I mean, I can’t even really imagine some medium guy walking up to me or one of my hot friends and actually saying “your roots are showing” or “your shoes don’t match your purse.” Like, lol, who the fuck asked you, pencil dick?

So, yeah, the author’s probably right. It’s essentially harmless. I mean, the idea of a 7 or lower guy working up the nerve to try this? Pretty long shot. And the idea of it actually working? Adorable.

But hey, more power to you if you do. Definitely, give it a shot. My guess is if you were desperate enough to do this, you’re used to girls laughing at you anyway. What have you got to lose?

-XOXO

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Anonymous
1 month 2 days ago

It’s funny mean girls do this all the time… it’s why they’re popular

Bethany
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Bethany
18 days 3 hours ago

And why no female would actually fall for this. We’ve seen this game since 6th grade.

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Anonymous
1 month 4 days ago
I thought reading this would be a waste of time but now I’m happy I did so that if any guy says dumb shit like this to me in the club I know it’s not a reflection of me, but instead of his low self-esteem and glaring insecurities if putting me down makes him feel better. It’s hard to believe, but sometimes girls can go to a club or bar with my girl friends and just want to dance with my FRIENDS and not get hit on by guys at all. There are nights when I turn down any guy, no matter how ‘hot’ he is. I’ve had a guy offer to buy me a drink once and I politely said “no thank you” and had him call me a jerk for it… I would rather politely say no and go back to hanging out with my friends, let you save some cash, instead of saying yes and being fake, taking your money, and then spend the rest of the night trying to figure out how to get rid of you. If you’re hitting on a “Paris Hilton or Kim Kardashian type” who you clearly have internalized resentment for, then… Read more »
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Grow up or die alone
11 days 14 hours ago

Yessss

anonymous
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anonymous
18 days 4 hours ago

Right? It’s like “wow, he thinks I’m out of his league and can cut me down enough to touch his shriveled dick.”

Great plan, Lol

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 8 days ago

Correct me if I’m wrong. I summarized this as, “Try to knock her down a peg and she just might sleep with you.”

anonymous
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anonymous
18 days 4 hours ago

Yeah, but only if she’s clearly hotter than you. That was the important bit.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 10 days ago

I…I don’t understand…why must you be an asshole to attract women? And why would you even want to attract the type of woman who would only respond to this strategy?

I really don’t get how this works…if someone said these things to me I’d probably just laugh it off nervously but secretly feel like they’re an asshole and avoid them.

It’s not like I know anything about “picking up girls”…but I think people should just be nice, and instead of trying to get a “hot” girl who wouldn’t respond to politeness, try to approach a decent girl who would be nice back. ^^

I hope there are guys out there who feel the same as me.

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10 days 15 hours ago

I’ve had guys use some of these on me. I immediately thought “what an asshole”. This would only work on women with the LOWEST self esteem possible. Attractive women, who get guys all over them, are not gonna settle for a guy that insults them.
This is straight outta r/Truecels. Guys that insult women because they can’t get laid.

Tom
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Tom
1 month 10 days ago

It’s not being “polite”. It’s an advance. Being dominant.

anonymous
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anonymous
18 days 4 hours ago

Right, but my question is what do you do when it’s time to show the hot girl your disappointing penis?

Tina
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Tina
18 days 3 hours ago

Hmm. That’s a good point. Guys sad enough to find this blog, what say you?

Siggy
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Siggy
18 days 2 hours ago

I say this: you miss the point of the article (and probably, life).

So, in order to “castrate” the “sad” readers you pretend that social confidence in some way correlates with penis size – and therefore it is risible. It must be “pretend” because the only other option is that you actually believe there is a one-to-one (inverse) correlation between social anxiety and anatomical dimensions – in which case, wow.

And you make the (supposed) bedroom scene some sort of magic act where the penis is, at some point, presented to the girl for inspection. In other words, in your imagining of things, its all about the penis and size. This is extraordinarily shallow. And studies show (and men know) the penis size has very little to do with intimacy – true intimacy.

If the girl is in fact a “size queen” then that (to me) indicates a problem, either in psychology or physiognomy (anatomical compatibility) and that problem might not be ably to be avoided after showing the “hot girl your disappointing penis”…

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1 month 10 days ago
The idea of putting someone down to “lower them” socially is so manipulative it’s kinda despicable. If you feel it’s ok to belittle someone in order to get in their pants, makes me wonder what’s your next step after you accomplished that. Maybe you continue to “neg” the poor person throughout the whole relationship and also manipulate them in other ways as well? As a girl who is attracted by stereotypical manly man, I have to say that you’re lowering yourself by showing me that you feel the need for these kind of manipulative little games. I do think that praying on girls insecurities reveals about you that you don’t feel confident enough about your game, like is that something you always need to do in order to get laid? I don’t know if I’m a 6 or an 8 or whatever but girl friends I go out with are definitely 9-10 and I do know that what all of us desire is to be approached by a CONFIDENT guy, someone above the petty little games, who respects himself and therefore respects girls he’s attracted to. Who acts genuine and with integrity, clearly stating his intentions and boundaries, finding out… Read more »
Tom
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Tom
1 month 10 days ago

No…You miss the irony just like he does.
He thinks being the prize is the dominant role. Literally calling calling it being a prize for someone and still missing the irony.

They talk about social “value”, like they’re supposed to want to be objects like items on a store shelf. Because no one ever told them that dominant/alpha is about position. And that the pursued is the lower position, as the “prize” to the pursuer.

Showing interest is confidence. That is the misogynistic/douchebag alpha thing to do. The risk of being threatening, creepy etc. Why do you seem to miss the irony like he does? Even while attacking him.

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wiseass
1 month 10 days ago

Haha well I don’t really think that’s the irony because I would disagree with your point of view that being pursued is the “lower” position. If anything, I would say you’re the dominant one if you are the pursued one, being in a position where you can make decisions. Being perceived as “the prize” can be sexist and objectifying (so I see what you’re getting at), but it doesn’t have to be that way – you can perceive someone as a prize and worth pursuing because you acknowledge and appreciate their personality too, wouldn’t you agree?
Btw I don’t think that hitting on someone should be about “pursuing” at all, but about having a straightforward chat and expressing mutual interest, if there is any.

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Tom
1 month 10 days ago

The pursuer is the one in the position to make decisions. The decision to pursue. Simply having the right not to be forced does not mean making decisions

And being a prize literally means being an object. It’s semantics. Dominant in this context means the pursuer. The position of consequence. The “main” force. Whatever you value someone for, advancing on them is what dominant means. Don’t overthink it! You can pursue if you want

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Anonymous
1 month 14 days ago

lesbian

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 16 days ago

And this, right here, is why I don’t go to clubs.
Microaggressions turn me off.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 23 days ago

I thoroughly enjoyed all of the outrageous comments made, presumably by guys who are not getting laid, and want to feel like they are heroes of a gender that doesn’t need their defense, or women who don’t get hit on as often as their compatriots.

From the article/blog post:
“I like your eyes. Hey… are you wearing colored contacts??? (before she can answer) Oh my god, no way, you are…”

Comments section:
WHOA, WHOA!! Don’t put a girl down like that you MISOGYNIST pig (the fuck??) You must have a really small penis! Calling the men ankle biters, losers, and worse. Anyone know where I can find some irony?

I came wanting to know what negging means.
I left reminded of the pond-scum that litters the interwebs.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 8 days ago

“I came wanting to know what negging means.
I left reminded of the pond-scum that litters the interwebs.”

I must be a time traveler.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 24 days ago

Women already do this to each other and look at how well that turns out.

Gab
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Gab
10 days 14 hours ago

And thinking adult women dont recognize negging right away is naive for this exact reason

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Anonymous
2 months 1 hour ago

I was really shy when I hit college. Around when I turned 21 mystery and his method came into my life. I used negging to great effect to build a lot of self confidence but also some animosity that it worked so well. Eventually I stopped negging much when it dawned on me, I was pretty decent looking just really shy, the negging just helped get me used to talking to women.

I highly recommend negging as a way to arm shy guys to get over their fears. It’s also important to remember that the 1 in 7 rule works. Play the odds, the fish will bite eventually.

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Anonymous
2 months 12 days ago

and the misogynist stuff is old. Men have lost so much self confidence because of female manipulation. It’s time Men stop listening to this crap and take back what we had before.

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Anonymous
2 months 12 days ago

All yall women need to chill out. One form of dishonesty isn’t better than another and there are many women who are just dishonest. It’s the same games just played in a different way. Stop getting all mad because this particular one is offensive.

Gab
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Gab
10 days 14 hours ago

“People are assholes so i’ll be an asshole, that’ll show them!!”
2 wrongs dont make it right

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siggy
9 days 44 minutes ago

Playful banter is not being an “asshole ” (you seem to like this word)

Calling people an “asshole” is being an asshole.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
4 days 6 hours ago

Didn’t you just call her an asshole in a roundabout way?

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 13 days ago

Please just be nice. If the lady is not polite to you in return, she’s not a good person. Walk away feeling good about yourself.

Tom
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Tom
1 month 10 days ago

Hitting on someone is not “nice”. It’s for yourself. Not for her. It’s assertive. Being dominant. These pick up artists don’t see the irony in their stupidity

Kitsune
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Kitsune
1 month 10 days ago

Agreeee 🙂

X.
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X.
2 months 4 days ago

right on!

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 14 days ago

As a women, I completely agree with the notion of the chase and liking guys who give me a challenge, but in all honesty I would probably be put off by the back handed insult I’m receiving and simply want nothing to do with him. It would really come off as insensitive, arrogant, and straight up douchy to think that I would care about a stranger’s opinion on my personal choices, i.e. my outfit etc.. Just a thought, might be different for some.

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Tom
1 month 10 days ago

Why do you want a guy to be a wimp and NOT pursue?

anonymous
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anonymous
18 days 4 hours ago

Give your vagina to people who insult you, duh!

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 14 days ago

The guys that I’ve had to chase didn’t make me feel like anything less than what I am, which is an attractive, competitive, and aggressive lady who doesn’t even listen to horse shit (like negging) from the children who try it.

I try not to begrudge people who use different methods or have different personalities, but I’d never fall for bullshit like in your article because I don’t have the patience for someone who can’t keep up. I feel bad for the girls it does work on because you’re doing nothing to help lift them up, only continually ankle biting because that’s where you are. On the bottom of the ladder and jealous as fuck of anyone above you.

Tom
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Tom
1 month 10 days ago

Why doesn’t everybody just tell these pick up artists about the irony? That the pursuer is the dominant position. Assertive. It’s literally called being a man and they still don’t get it.

They think being wanted is the dominant position. Even when they literally call it being a PRIZE. They still don’t get that it’s the lower position.They’ve never even heard of something like sexual harassment.

Siggy
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Siggy
2 months 13 days ago

and “modest”, you forgot modest, ha, ha

(and angry as heck)

Shane D\'souza
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Shane D\'souza
2 months 12 days ago

The article and the comments – they each have their uses, good as well as bad, in the quotient of impressionability. However, this bloke calling himself Siggy – self-aggrandizing himself as being of some considerable expertise in the realm of psychology and the law – is yet to be deciphered as to what chip on his shoulder he’s bringing to the table…
As for some consistency in his majorly unsympathetic comments, there’s but one – “you don’t get me, you never will, unless you (ask – apparently makes for a negging symptom).

Siggy
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Siggy
2 months 12 days ago
hmmmm, how to reply? Well yes, I have spent 30 years in psychology (mainly psychoanalysis) and the law (as a lawyer). Can’t escape that. And yes, that makes me a pretty old “self-aggrandising” dude. So that can bring with it some perspective on the “battle of the sexes”. I’ve seen a lot. And for some reason (and who can be totally objective about it?) I have taken an interest in this article probably because (presumably) of my own “scars” from the relationship “trenches”. As for being “unsympathetic”, I’m not so sure – reading some of my comments, I think, shows them to be pretty balanced. But “chip” on my shoulder? Maybe. Perhaps I bristle at the way the article’s, let’s face it, pretty mild suggestions are met with such vehemence from (presumably) women that don’t want the power imbalance implied in the article, tipped in the man’s favour. It maybe that they want total worship 100% of the time. And if my view is an echo of some psychopathology on my part it might be because I have been stung in the past by the power that beauty has to ensnare, bewilder, and in many cases, hurt. Some women revel… Read more »
Tom
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Tom
1 month 10 days ago

Being a sex object is not power

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 18 days ago

Or you could always try being a decent human being and showing women some fucking respect.
There’s a thought.

Tom
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Tom
1 month 10 days ago

Showing interest in them is not “respect”. Pursuing is assertive. That’s the irony in this loser’s article. He thinks being the object is the dominant position. Even though it’s literally called submissive.

Carmen
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Carmen
21 days 6 hours ago

Indeed…

Kitsune
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Kitsune
1 month 10 days ago

Glad there are people like this with common sense c:

Tom
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Tom
1 month 10 days ago

You seem to miss the irony like he does. Do you realize he thinks the object is dominant?

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 20 days ago

Does negging really work? Seems desperate and transparent kinda like trying to get a girl’s attention with a magic trick.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 21 days ago

this is horrible. just because a girl is very pretty doesn’t mean she doesn’t already have low self esteem/ self worth. why are men out there buying into this shit? how about just having a conversation with a girl, without mentally grading her on her looks. maybe you might even make a genuine connection?!

Kitsune
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Kitsune
1 month 10 days ago

^^^ so true

Motherfucker-Jones
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Motherfucker-Jones
2 months 22 days ago

To the anonymous women that have been posting idiotic shit on here: Men are talking here, so know your place and go wash dishes or something.

Gab
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Gab
10 days 14 hours ago

Just some anonymous coward like nany others

anonymous
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anonymous
18 days 4 hours ago

Hey, the 1940s called and they don’t want you either. Ass clown.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 10 days ago

Aww…man, that’s really mean…I feel sad that there are people like this in the world 🙁

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 22 days ago

We should all stop commenting on this bullshit. This guy obviously loves the attention he’s getting and he doesn’t deserve it.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 months 1 hour ago

“And most of the rejection is aimed at the GUYS.” There’s a difference between expressing genuine disinterest and being an a-hole. Also, if negging seems like an reasonable course of action, it might point to the part of your personality that is inviting rejection in the first place. Maybe try some introspection and work on the self before endeavoring to tear others down.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 months 2 days ago

As someone who has been negged before (when under no circumstances was I being rude or dismissive because that shit is annoying in it of itself) I can tell you that this misogynistic bullshit is bullshit. I can tell you that in my lifetime of having friends, I have never once had any of my best friends admit her ‘uncontrollable sexual desire’ to some insecure asshole who thinks that the only way he can hook a girl is through devaluing her and making her feel as though she has to settle for some loser who thinks this is an acceptable way to treat another human being. The good news is that I can rest easy knowing that the only guys who would use this stupid shit are the guys whose dicks are so tiny I wouldn’t give a shit about them anyways. Next time any dickhead negs you, remember it’s fair warning that they’re packing half an inch tops!!! :)))))

Yolo
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Yolo
2 months 29 days ago

Hey girl 7 and a half inches here.
I bet you’re pretty but you have a nasty attitude.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 16 days ago

Sure you weren’t using the centimeters side? 😉

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 22 days ago

Lol was that a neg?

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 months 4 days ago

This boils my blood. What kind of misogynistic paradigm are you spewing to impressionable young men everywhere? The idea that it is ok to treat beautiful women as conquests; ones who require bait and switch tactics. Are you seriously telling me you’ve developed strategies in order to “trick” women to giving a damn about you? How little do you think of women; are they just commodities for you to win over by passively aggressively kicking them in their ego? What an idiotic fuckboy psychology; where did you get this idea from? the old “women only like assholes” routine? Moving forward I implore you to do the human race a favour and refrain from propagating the species with your offspring. Next thing you’ll tell me that in order to keep a woman from losing interest you need to send her dick pictures #byefelipe.

Tom
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Tom
1 month 10 days ago

Ironically, it’s about making himself the conquest. These pick up artists think being the prize is the dominant position. That’s why they’re against being assertive and pursuing like a man. If only someone told them the irony

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 months 8 days ago

negging is just really rude and disgusting overall tbh.

Jujubi
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Jujubi
3 months 7 days ago

if you’re getting all worked up about it, it’s because it actually works!!

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 29 days ago

Yes. It can’t be that women simply don’t like being insulted. 0r the idea that we’re just conquests to be manipulated. People ONLY dislike rude behavior when it bucks them into sleeping with someone.

it must be your amazing smarts that lure in all the ladies, eh?

Siggy
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Siggy
3 months 7 days ago

No it’s not. It’s ‘provocative’ but hardly “REALLY” rude or “DISGUSTING”! Read the article again, only more objectively.

This common reaction of shock and horror is not because of what is being promoted by the (rather innocent) article above, it is because of what it THREATENS, namely the hegemony that ‘beauty’ currently occupies.

The vitriol therefore proves the thesis.

w/luv from a random chick
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w/luv from a random chick
3 months 10 days ago
I get where you’re coming from with this, but dating tips should really focus on self-confidence. Girls can smell desperation like the stank of a skunk. It clings to men, especially men approaching a ’10 woman’. If a man acted undisturbed by a ’10 woman’ ‘s attractiveness, he would be novel and interesting because as you say, a lot of men don’t have the balls to do much but drool and fall over themselves. Have some self respect and try to come across as confident and relaxed. Women are attracted to confidence… but not arrogance. Going the extra mile to backhand compliment her seems like a bad idea for 2 reasons: a lot of guys will mess it up worse than if they just said hi, and if a woman feels she is being manipulated she will avoid you like the plague (because in part we women are taught to avoid potential rapists – which is what desperate and manipulative men flag themselves as to us). Unless she’s not very confident of herself, or is maybe some kind of raging superbitch, coming across as insulting seems like it wouldn’t work. And in the latter case… Uh, don’t stick your dick… Read more »
Watchout
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Watchout
3 months 11 days ago

LOL I cannot wait for a little boy like you to try this on me. I have a tight body, long blond hair. I’m also a veteran, a welder and plumber. I don’t talk to people… I just laugh at everything…especially at assholes like you. If you walked up and said something like this to me,I guarantee the last thing you would see that day is me laughing as I shoved your front teeth down your throat with my fist.

All Lies.
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All Lies.
3 months 9 days ago

lol yeah right, are you hell all of them, welder – years of practice to be good enough to say i can do this, plumber the same, “veteran” isn’t just 2 years service darlin. So by this you’re shooting past your prime already, so don’t worry no one will neg you, but you should look to get your mirror fixed.

Watchout
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Watchout
2 months 16 days ago

Aw, the truth hurts the little boy’s ego. I’m not old, I just started early like all ambitious folks do.. But you need to wake up and smell the coffee. A lot of of gals are lawyers, doctors, and cops too…they’re hot, educated and they hold real power on this world. You better watch out because you’ll never really know who you’re really approaching on the street.

From a 10
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From a 10
3 months 12 days ago

The girl will eventually be able to spot when guys neg, and it won’t work.

You don’t mention anything about girls who have received negs over and over again.

I appreciate you covered that a guy shouldn’t unnecessarily do it, but I’ve had people who have negged well after giving them the green-light. I kinda wanna share this article with them to get them to stop.

Frustratingly, whenever I hold them up to it, they ALWAYS reply ‘negging?!?!’.

I no longer know if they intentionally neg, or just teasing like most of us probably do at some point.

It’s handicapped me in my interaction with guys.

Jujubi
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Jujubi
3 months 12 days ago

Interesting POV from a female… thanks!

Jade
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Jade
3 months 12 days ago

“Douchebags – They’re Everywhere”

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 months 14 days ago

This is so stupid. That is all.

Zephyr
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Zephyr
3 months 15 days ago

So this is essentially your strategy for nailing women outside of your league looks wise – neg them so it brings them down a notch or two. Which means you idealised them in the first place. This is why you fail.

The point is to see the person as “normal” and treat them “normally” – not idealised, not fawning, but see them first as a human being, not some stuck up bitch or fairy princess that requires a long ass strategy involving pick up lines with a hint of humilation to get her attention. All you’ll bag is an insecure woman, and as others have said, nothing is sadder than manipulating such people.

The fault is you see this person higher than you, and because you lack confidence and are not interesting to hold their attention normally, you engage them with subtle insults. LOL Really how pathetic is that.

You need to work on yourself before dishing out advice to ANYONE about ANYTHING bruh..

From a 10
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From a 10
3 months 12 days ago

I agree, treating them as normal people will be a unique and pleasantly welcomed experience.

Siggy
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Siggy
3 months 15 days ago

Wow, pal – go back and right “Update From The Author” again – it really is pretty airtight and largely correct. The suggested approach (dorky or not) is just ONE type of relatively innocent gambit in the games people play, but your comment and those below betray your own attitudes by virtue of the extreme extrapolations and projections upon on the writer, Jesse, and the article and other comments.

In other words, unbeknownst to the commenters – you included – the “button” pressed on your forehead proves just about everything said in the original article….Maybe I am being too subtle?

Put it this way: you guys are all saying (regarding a really quite harmless niggling tactic) “I AM HORRIFIED THAT YOU “(CHOOSE DEROGATORY WORD)” COULD EVER SEEK TO CHANGE THE (DARWINIAN) STATUS QUO!! HOW DARE YOU EVEN TRY!”

So, “bruh”, despite your apparently reasonable platitudes, you are part of the problem. And don’t know it.

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