Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work

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You can also lower a girl’s social value in relation to yours with quick lines by negging women.

Here are some examples of negging women:

For a girl with a belly shirt: “Did your shirt shrink in the laundry?”

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“Your roots are showing.”

“Your nose is a little red. You’re like an Eskimo. Cool.”

“You know, you look just like my little sister. Weird.”

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Effect of a neg on a hot girl illustrated

“You know, I like that outfit you’ve got on… but I don’t know… your shoes don’t really match. You should have gone with tan boots…”

To her guy friends, “So what’s special about this one.”

If she’s talking tell her friends, “So do you guys ever get a word in edge wise?”

“Hey… you look like that cartoon character… yeah that’s right, Rainbow Brite remember her?”

“I like your eyes. Hey… are you wearing colored contacts??? (before she can answer) Oh my god, no way, you are…”

“You know, your body language is all closed off. It makes you look like one of those newborns I saw on the discovery channel when they came out of the womb – all curled up.”

“Hey, you’re a goof.”

By negging women, you’ve indicated to her that you’re not interested in her over anyone else in the group. This is a new thing for her. She’ll feel the bitter sting of being just like everyone else. Her looks no longer give her all the power – because you’re not responding to her looks.

Because you’re demonstrating social value to the group at the same time she’s wondering, “Why isn’t this guy attracted to me? Why isn’t this guy paying attention to me? Who is this guy? How am I going to win this guy’s attention?”

Everyone wants to be liked. Everyone wants approval. No one wants to be ignored. The same holds true for beautiful women – even more so. Their whole reality is based on having power and having acceptance and adoration through their good looks. Take that away and their whole reality crumbles and they’ll do anything to get it back.

Negging women is ideal for really hot girls – 8s, 9s, and 10s. For an average girl (6s, 7s), you don’t want to use value zingers. All you need to do is demonstrate social value – you don’t need to lower hers. Hers wasn’t that high to begin with.

Negging women is unnecessary and inappropriate to use on girls who are already being friendly or giving you green lights. Don’t throw one out of the blue for no reason at a girl who is already responding well.

But if she’s super hot and you’ve just met her, that’s a different story. Use a neg or two on her.

Now, it’s critical to use negs right. Remember, you’re not out to damage the girl’s self confidence or put her down. You’re not out to mess up her self-esteem. Some guys in particular cross the line and start throwing soft insults and treating women like second-class human beings when they don’t deserve it.

The point is to make yourself stand out as socially valuable male and a challenge, not to make her feel bad. But used correctly, negging women is a powerful tool in your arsenal.

Update From The Author

I noticed that my post on negging “Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work” has drawn a lot of negative comments from women.

I understand the blowback.  I understand where some of you girls are coming from.  You see negging as a form of bullying or insults.

And most women are pretty sensitive to the idea of it, based on being bullied in real life.

Most women, particularly in high school, were teased, gossiped about, or bullied in some fashion – and usually from other women.  Pretty girls especially face negativity from their female friends, as pretty girls tend to hang in “pretty social circles” where there’s a lot of superficial cattiness, backstabbing, and competition.

Or even if you’ve never been bullied or teased yourself, you’ve seen the devastating effect it had on your classmates.  So naturally, you feel sympathy.

But anger at ‘negging’ is misplaced.

First, we are talking about a night club environment.  There’s lots of REJECTION involved, inherent to the environment.

And most of the rejection is aimed at the GUYS.

Haven’t either you or one of your friends ever ignore a guy?  Like, not even acknowledge his presence when he tried to talk to you.

It’s often pretty CRUSHING to the guy’s self-esteem that he isn’t given 10 seconds to acknowledge he’s another human being to talk to and say “hello”.  Ignoring a guy completely is much crueler than any neg a guy would dish.  (Like, “Hey girl!  You have some lint in your hair… look at that.”)

Then again, it’s a night club.  If a guy’s ego is so fragile, he shouldn’t go.

So please girls, if a guy told you that you had lint in your hair and that would “cut you down” or would “crush you”, and your ego is THAT fragile, then don’t go to night clubs!!  After all, the guys have to deal with MUCH WORSE from you girls!

In addition, Negs are for those glamour girls that have been spoiled all their lives by Daddy and have little sense of reality (like Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton for example).  These are the types of girls that enjoy shooting “nice guys” down.  It’s THAT kind of girl that negs are designed to attract.

So if you’re a normal-looking girl with a normal attitude, you probably will NEVER BE NEGGED in your life.  So for crying-out-loud, don’t worry about it.

Further consider that 99.9% of guys are SO damn nervous in clubs and bars that they can’t even approach a girl without wetting their briefs… let alone finding the balls to neg a pretty girl.

So don’t worry, it’s statistically unlikely to ever happen to you, even if you DO look like a runway model.  Most guys will never approach you, or they’ll just try to kiss your ass to get into your pants.  And that’s SO much better than those bad boys, right?

But since those guys are NOT a challenge in the slightest, they’re not attractive to you.  That’s why you blow them off.

That’s what a neg does – creates a challenge to the female.  That’s what attractive guys do.  And ANY guy you’ve ever fallen for, on some level, you had to chase HIM.  Every single guy you ever had a crush on made YOU chase HIM.

I know it’s simple to latch onto a cause, leave a comment, and feel like you’re serving justice in some small way by taking a stand against the 1 in 10,000 guys that have the balls to neg a girl like, “Hey girl!  It’s funny how your nose wiggles when you talk!”  But really, it’s an empty cause!

P.S. If you still disagree with this assessment, please leave a comment, I welcome all opinions!  😆


  • Is this negging still a thing? It used to be in the Mystery Method and hyped by The Game. I thought it was outdated years ago.

  • Lonnie says:

    Meh. As a queer woman, I just neg the fuckers back 100 fold.

    I also call out their negging game out loud. Neggers and their stupid little games amuse me and the ”self help ”miracle” books that they write make for a good hearty laugh at the Barnes and Noble over a latte. It’s even funnier to read them with friends.

    Because I am into fitness, wear make up and work out, and like pastel and frilly things and high heeled shoes, straight men assume I am straight. =.=

    One time, I was just sitting there minding my own business in the coffee section one day and one of those simpletons tried to ‘neg’ me. I guess it was because I didn’t look up from my book, drop everything I was doing and beg for his number and hop on his pin-dick or something. The little crap-stain said something about my shoes because they were alligator shoes, due to the pattern and that I was going to drive them to ‘extinction’. I told him, yeah, and I killed that gator, skinned him and didn’t give a fuck and now I have these nice shoes. I then asked him what was up with his own busted, scuffed goodwill loafers and that his sense of style was going to drive Salvation Army to ”extinction”. While he was trying to look cool and save face, what made this moment even more golden was that I was laughing it up over my favorite psychotic, yet hilarious chest-thump author, Roosh. I held up the book with a smile and exclaimed that we must be reading the same book and that we should talk about it over coffee. I said this loudly mind you. And there were guys laughing at the scenario.
    The greasy haired dude turned around and dashed like he had to take the most wicked dump in all his life on planet Earth.
    Probably off to the internets to rage and rant about Starbucks ”bitch-cunt-cunty-m’c-cunt-cunt” on the manosphere. Haw-fuckin-haw.

    If it’s a black dude, then the joke just writes itself. But even that joke’s from the bottom of the moldiest, scummiest, shameful neo-nazi barrel. I ain’t a racist, I fuckin’ swear. X’D. But even YOU have to agree that some black guy in internet forums claiming to know how to ‘neg’ them bitches good/ is a good negger is pretty damn amusing. (Yes, I saw this quite a few times. Hilariously tragic.)
    I can’t feel sorry for someone making as ass of themselves when they are assholes to begin with.

    And to me, neggers are the male equivalent to the female ‘nagger’. Only naggers, while annoying, usually incessantly have something worthwhile and important to bring up while neggers, a flat out pest, incessantly want to either get in your pants or ‘take you down a peg’ because you fall in the ”above 8, safe to hate” camp. Or maybe you beat them in something. Or you’re too smart. Or you’re not ”paying enough ”sexual” attention to them”. Oh the butthurt humanity. You know what? men really ARE more insecure than women. And attention whores to boot. =.=

    Christ, sexual attraction isn’t everything and not everyone on this planet is going to find you magically ‘attractive’ and ”irresistible”, no matter WHAT you do. No matter what cologne, fashion, style, makeup, trips to the gym, ‘swag’, ‘quick tips’, ‘pheromones’, ‘mind control woo-woo crap”. Bringing someone down just because they don’t give you a chance is stupid. I wouldn’t even call it sexist. Just stupid. Like Beavis and Butthead stupid. And the backhanded compliments are worse than two girls at the popular girl’s table. Most of us girls have heard it before. If anything, it’s just baffling to hear it come from some dude. Like shouldn’t you be off in your man-cave instead of making a petty quip at my lipstick color for fuck’s sake? I like my lipstick. If you don’t like it, then tough cookies. I don’t like neon colors, but they are here to stay aren’t they? Just let it go. Focus on your jobs and hobbies. Unless that is of course, your job and hobbies consist of negging and trolling for tail 24/7.

    Listen, ladies… if a guy wants to pull games or negging games in this case, just ignore him like that annoying little boy in school who made car sounds at his desk and steered an imaginary steering wheel, wiped his green boogers under his desk and ate all the paste.

    However, if they really are that prevalent and won’t go away no matter how much OFF spray you cloud the room with, I’ll give you a few tips:

    *************Stupid Bloke: You know, I like that outfit you’ve got on… but I don’t know… your shoes don’t really match. You should have gone with tan boots…”

    You: My, MY, what a QUEER eye you have! 😀
    But I like my outfit, so how about that queer eye guy? Sorry, your show’s canceled. (Smells the air): Oooh….When’s the last time you washed your clothes? Don’t tell me your MOMMY washed your clothes all the time? For SHAME. (Walk away)

    (For the next one, you really can’t control what people say behind your back. And if you are not present then… um… woe is me? If your friends are true friends, they will see this stranger doesn’t know you, or them and doesn’t know shit or what he’s talking about.)

    **********************If she’s talking tell her friends, “So do you guys ever get a word in edge wise?”
    (In most situations like these, the girlfriends would just give the bumbling doofus ”group glare”.)

    If they are guy friends, just say ”No, they don’t. Not with YOU interrupting, That’s RUDE. Now where were we again? (ignore and turn back on him and continue A+B conversation.)

    *******************“Hey… you look like that cartoon character… yeah that’s right, Rainbow Brite remember her?”

    You (Over-exclamation): “Oooooooo!!! I LOVE Rainbow Brite!!” And since he brought up ”remembrance”, yammer his ear all off with nostalgia of the whole show, the merchandise, your plushies, everything down to the goddamned cereal…. until he can’t take it anymore and goes away. If he tries to shift the subject, sing the theme song and shame him for not knowing it. This might be tricky if you are not into animation or don’t like cartoons, but if you know nothing about the show, talk about the beauty of rainbows. If you are a gay gal… then well… it’s far too easy then.

    ****************** “I like your eyes. Hey… are you wearing colored contacts??? (before she can answer) Oh my god, no way, you are…”

    If you are” Do an over the top Vally girl voice, take one of the contacts out and exclaim, YOU CAUGHT ME and laugh. Put it back in and Go on with life.

    If you are wearing prescriptions: Flutter your eyelashes and tell him ”Yes, I am wearing contacts. But you must’ve failed colors in grade school. These are clear. And I need them to see those punch-holes you call eyes. 😀

    If you are not wearing contacts,, just say you are anyways, or shrug at his over-reaction. It’s an eye color. No biggie. If he’s paying enough attention to stare deep into your eyes to get their color, then maybe he’s not as ‘disinterested’ as he wants to come off as. And of course, you are uninterested. That’s why he’s ‘negging’ you in the darn first place. If he hangs around long enough to know that everyone knows you have natural blue/green/violet/hazel/brown eyes, then it’s just funny. If he looks at your baby pictures with you with your blue/green eyes, turn to your parents and ask them about the baby-sized contacts they got you for your 1st birthday. He may act like he doesn’t remember, but trust me, he will.

    I’ve also noticed that with Asian/Hispanic/black people, if one of them possesses blue/green eyes and they prove to be true, the negging male will either get a sour-puckered ‘hate’ face or an ”ooooooooooooo,” face. Though I can’t blame the ”OOOO-ing’, because icy blue eyes with dark skin is simply gorgeous.

    (I am EXTREMELY observant of people and human behavior.)

    At the end of the day boys and girls, negging. Is STUPID. Negging it nagging with an ‘e’. Negging is annoying. Negging is a barrage of projections and insecurities no one asked for and it should be met with a triple dose of poison or a big dallop of IDGAF. Negging is sibling rivalry level bullshit that is in no way ‘sexy’. But because we can’t always escape idiots, I suggest you ”neg” them right the fuck back. And while some may call ‘foul’ or say that’s not fair because ”you’z a female and gots da looks and da pussy and can get it anytymez”. That’s no excuse. No one asked to be born a girl. No one asked to be born a boy. In my opinion, each gender has its pros and cons. Well, more cons for ME at least, because male ‘attention’ is unwanted and uncalled for. And on my side of the fence, negging is easy to pick apart and see it for the utter retardation that it is. And that’s just the TIP of the iceberg when it comes to stupid shit some men do.

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  • Anonymous says:

    Dear Commenter’s,
    You’ve all made some very good points… for me to poop on.

    God bless.

    • Anonymous says:

      Ive read through a lot of the posts and what strikes me is that negging is basically a behavior that reflects a fundamental lackof rrespect for the feminine. Its for unevolved men who wouldn’t know what to do with a real woman and will never get the chance to learn because if they are hunting women using these pathetic “techniques” then they are going to stay little boys forever.Its encouraging to see that some men are also disgusted by these pick up strategies. A good man listens to wisdom not fucked up mind manipulation for jerks.

  • cat says:

    I’ve noticed guys who use negging use the same lines. Over and over again. I kind of feel embarrassed for them. Though it’s also very douchey.

  • Anonymous says:

    I am 35 and just learned of the existence of negging! This blew my mind! I just thought I ran into a bunch of mentally ill guys! The effect it had on me was that I just wanted to avoid any situation with them where they might speak to me again.

  • Teresa says:

    One guy came up to me and said “you look soo angry” found out he was my best friends friend, whom she had a little bit of a crush on. He wanted me to give him my number later that evening and when I declined because I was taken he wouldn’t believe me. What? I look so fucking angry that it is like so unlikely for me to have a boyfriend?? I was quite pissed and sad for my friend as well, but when I told her she said she doesn’t like him that way anymore, because of all that.

  • Anonymous says:

    That’s so fucking repulsive and sick, you’re disgusting… They’re human beings and not your toys (I’m male btw)

  • Lucy says:

    Guys. Guys, guys. Speaking as a girl, I can tell you that your ‘social value’ is determined by… how hot you are! If you’re tall, muscular, symmetrically featured and so on, go ahead. If not… sorry. Your best chance is to be nice to everyone and you might find a girl (or guy) who is equally socially challenged and willing to fall in mutual weirdness with you. But that only works if you’re nice. If you act like a twat and you’re also ugly, let’s face it, you’ll probably die alone.

  • Ella says:

    I don’t think ‘negging’ is going to work, is it? When I go out with my friends, we are ALREADY super-attuned to the existence of dickheads, PUAs etc. We are already on our guard. The only time guys have a chance in nightclubs is if they come across as genuine, decent people. PUA’s, your window has gone. Women know about you. We think you are creeps. You ARE creeps. Please fuck off and die. Or, failing that, just try and act like normal human beings and who knows, if you’re not ugly we might give you the time of day.

  • Anonymous says:

    Thought this was fantastic! Great advice clicked the minute you showed me examples now much appreciated!

  • Anonymous says:

    Your defence of your own article is hilariously bad. Way to dig an even deeper hole. You live in a patriarchy and you are the definition of a jerk, as is any guy who even wants to read the dust jacket of “The Game” (whereas all women should read it for protection). But, please don’t respond and no one else should post here either – best medicine for trash is to ignore it, sheeple. Signed – a real man.

  • Anonymous says:

    As a male myself, I find this site and particularly this article quite repulsive. I understand the arguments being made and I’m not here to debate strategy.

    Rather, the philosophy behind all of this I find disgusting. What’s wrong with being a genuine person who doesn’t need to resort to creepy shit like this?

    This whole article reeks of /R/TheRedPill. (Sympathizers of the Santa Barbara shootings; men who believe in that women are stuck up and never give them the time of guy despite being allegedly “nice guys”. Men who feel Entitled. That they deserve Hot women and feel strategies such as this are necessary to obtaining the holy grail of vaginas…. –fucking crazy…)

    • anon says:

      It’s also repulsive because it not only targets females’ sense of self confidence, but targets males who struggle with self esteem issues as well. It targets all people who struggle with being happy with themselves.

      “Poor self esteem? Be an a**hole to other people. It will get you sex.”


      This is a fallacy and there is no scientific evidence to support it. Will it randomly/maybe/who knows work every so often….? Sometimes perhaps.

      Nevertheless, PUA’s endorse it like crazy so that men, who more likely need to speak to a therapist, will fork over the $$$ to subscribe to it. PUA’s are vampires and they bleed these men dry. They don’t care about them. Who thinks that people like that actually, deeply care about others? They don’t. They want other dudes’ money. That’s it. And they know that they can emotionally manipulate men into forking it over with empty promises of sexual grandeur via flashy/edgy ideals, presented in a game-like structure.

      It’s kind of disgusting and it actually makes me feel very sorry for men who become victims of this.

    • Anonymous says:

      YES, thank you Dx

  • Jen says:

    It’s really sad to me that you boys have to resort to silly little tricks to get pussy. This whole website is tragic. You should rename it from “Seduction Science” to “Help for Sad Douchebags Who Have Never Gotten Their Dicks Wet.”

  • Anonymous says:

    Well… I’m sorry but negging is a form of abuse, and many women who got seduced by this kind of technique ended up in abusive relationships, they were beaten, raped, etc. I knew two girls who lived this hell by men who used negging to get them, and myself I have been nagged by a guy who fancied me and tries to seduce me by insulting me, my appearance, personnality, etc. I always used to avoid him as much as possible because I’m clever enough to avoir disrespectful people.
    One day I had to work (I was a barmaid) and he was present, because I didnt agree with him over something extremely trivial, and despite I was very polite, he grabbed me by the collar and was ready to punch me in the face, fortunately, one of the costumers stopped him.
    When I started dating a man, he would go extremely jealous, and today, on the rare times I see him (because we still live in the same city), he still tries to seduce me, but too late. I guess that even years after, he didnt understand that I am a woman who wants respect and who holds grudges and who knows that abusers will always be abusers.

    So learn to respect women, you fucking immature and abusive loser who doesnt know other techniques to get a girl.

  • Anonymous but f you says:

    So many fucked up things about this articles and these comments. This is ridiculous, maybe just consider that “you guys” aren’t as hard-done by as you think you are. “Us girls” are not sitting there thinking “hmm, how can we deceive this guy so we can then shut him down”. Often girls go out to hang out with friends and to unwind after a long week at work, not just to find a willing penis to shove into them. Seems like the opposite is the case for you lot. In fact, often the things girls dread the most are the creepy guys who will try shit on them and then blame them for not being interested. It’s downright annoying and unpleasant. News flash: YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO A GIRL JUST BECAUSE YOU THINK SHE IS HOT. She is not obligated to pay attention to your disruptions just because she is a “8, 9 or 10”. And for that matter, fuck the rating system, you think all “8s, 9s and 10s” are spoilt little rich girls who were popular at school? Is this why you are going for them, to increase your own social standing or to somehow prove that you’re still in your primes, that you got what it takes? Gee, can’t think why girls are rejecting you. -.-
    Women are not “being deceptive” by wearing makeup, I’d like to see your reaction if all women stopped wearing makeup – you’d be whinging about how fucking ugly all these girls are. So maybe if you all could quit judging a woman’s value by her looks, and understand that women would face more harassment for not wearing any make up, you wouldn’t feel deceived.
    And lastly: negging. What the actual fuck. It’s not just “harmless teasing”. It is putting someone down to make yourself feel more powerful, and what’s worse is that you are perpetuating a system where men get to dictate to women how they feel about themselves. As a man, you think your comment will just be laughed off? Well try being on the receiving end of negs for years on end. Not to mention extensive social conditioning from the media and other sources that says YOU ARE VALUABLE ONLY IF YOU LOOK PERFECT, which is the only reason negging makes us stop for a second to worry. Because you are sitting there laughing as you pull apart the crafted front demanded of us just to be cruel. Yeahhh your self esteem would be in great shape I’m sure.


  • Anonymous says:

    So it’s an insukt to be neged, but it’s an insult to not be neged?

  • Marie says:

    How to be fake charming and win fake admiration when you have nothing going for you.

  • Esmeralda Moberg says:

    I guess this has to work some of the time otherwise the technique wouldn’t be talked about. But anyway:
    There’s a flaw in the reasoning: When you get comments like the ones listed above you don’t feel neglected or “like everybody else”. That someone actually takes the time and effort to make a comment like that up, and the effort to say it is a giveaway.
    And it always makes me think “Well since you obviously want to talk to me and this is your chance, why didn’t you take the opportunity to say something worthwhile? Something that would spark my curiosity about who you are”

    Unfortunately the bigger risk in negging is that you come across as just looking very strange. My friends had to explain to me that it’s a technique, I was just shaking my head wondering why some guys just completely wasted the moment for a warm sparkly playful exchange that could leave both boosted and happy. And I always find it utterly repelling.
    When I can be with people who make me laugh, make me interested and happy, why waste time on someone who doesn’t seem genuine, strange or just like they have no manners?

  • Stuart says:

    I think people who use this method are the lowest form of scum. I am a male that has been relentlessly sexually harassed in the workplace. I now do not work, have had to give up all social activities. Having a lot of people do this to you totally destroys you as a person and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. Please engage only with people who are interested in you. Sexuality is a ponzi pyramid scheme and the ones on the top suffer more than you would believe. There is nothing worse than constant unwanted sexual attention. People commit suicide from this – if people are not interested in you LEAVE THEM ALONE.

  • Emanon says:

    Negging. *chuckles* If you hadn’t wasted all your time fruitlesly chasing and failing to get pussy endlessly, you’d discover you could have been using that time building yourself up to being a man a woman would find attractive and would want without tricks the unemployed boys in the park try and fail with.

  • Jesse is pretty clearly making a distinction here that negging is basically lightly teasing someone. A this kind of neg is not an insult. It’s actually treating women the same way men treat men. We poke fun at each other all the time, and the better friends you are the more aggressive the teasing. So getting all huffy over this is bullshit.

    There is, however, a problem with verbal abuse, and it’s pretty wide spread. Teasing, whether between men and women, or between men and men, is never intended to hurt. If someone is putting you down and intentionally making you feel like trash, you need to get out of that situation. Teasing is only teasing when everyone knows it’s a joke. It’s a game that is supposed to be fun for everyone. “Negging” is meant to catch a girl off guard. When the vast majority of guys are coming and dropping lame pickup lines or just being creepy, a guy who instantly treats you like “one of the gang” is going to throw a pretty girl for a loop. It may seem manipulative, but the reality is you have no chance in the dating scene if you can’t catch someone’s attention, and playing games like this does that very well, and when done PROPERLY it’s fun for everyone and nobody gets hurt.

    Seriously though, if some guy walks up to you and starts telling you how shitty you look, then slap him, throw your drink in his face, and kick him in the balls before moving on. He deserves it. That’s not negging.

  • GreatWhiteBuffalo says:

    To all the girls saying that negs are stupid and don’t work, I disagree. If you use the right type of negs at the right time, they can work wonders. Saying “You have a beautiful dress! My mom has one just like it.” isn’t a great neg (It would take too many words to explain why). “It’s cute how your nose wiggles when you laugh” is a much better neg. Whether it’s true or not, every time she laughs now she is going to become somewhat shy and be thinking of her nose. Notice how this neg was in no way an insult, although it could easily be misconstrued as one. If you understand negs, they’re amazing. The point is, negs work.

  • Tyisha T says:

    This is the first time I’m hearing about this shit. This “negging” is ridiculous. If you have to put a women down to get her attention, then how far do you think you going to go. Maybe women should start “negging” men. “Your pants are to tight, do you have enough room for yout balls”. Great fucking idea. Target 8’s 9’s and 10’s. They clearly put you down for a reason. This is really a load shit. Women already face nonsense and other criticism from women. Now we have to worry about it from the opposite gender. How great!

    • GreatWhiteBuffalo says:

      If you don’t like it then don’t respond to it…The only problem is, if guys do it right you wont be able to tell they’re are doing it. You’ll be too worried about yourself at that point! Shit works 😉

      • Jodi Hillhouse says:

        Oh.. I do better than that. I do it back to them. If a guy gives me negative feedback on my looks when I didn’t ask for an opinion.. I make sure to find two things about him to mention back for every one thing he says to me.

        Might I add, that the author of this is a pathetic twatwaffle. He says that women are doing so much more worse by not letting a guy pick them up than they are doing to deliberately fuck with a girls self image. He’s that much of a pussy that just not being able to have sex with whoever he want crushes his poor pathetic ego.

        Only happens to hot chicks? Only happens in clubs? It’s “new” technique? Not likely to happen? Bullshit.

    • Jodi Hillhouse says:

      Your pants are so tight that I can’t believe that I can’t see your ball bulge works better. 😉

  • John$ says:

    Another great idea is to target the daughters of loser dads.

  • the wolf says:

    i think it’s not the neg who make women feel bad and feel insulted i think it’s the attitude of the guy, the vibrations and waves who are plenty of insecurity when the neg is delivred by the guy in an insecure way and from an insecure place !
    i think guys who are insecure should not use any technique on a woman who want to seduce because they will only increase the insecure vibrations and stress by using techniques first they don’t understand and can’t understand yet and second they don’t master enough so they will be confused and be more insecure, they should work fon their confidence first and specially work to be in a good waves and vibrations when they are talking to a woman no matter what she look a woman should not afraid a guy to go talk to her, if the guy is afraid this mean he think she is better than him and this will lead him to fail no matter what he will do maybe if he succeed for some reason the girl want to give him her number because she was so alone and single for months and the guy seemed to not be so ugly after all why not but he will fail on the date she will omg what im doing here and leave him give him an excuse and go, so forget techniques guys for the moment and concentrate only on you ! on what you feel what you project and what you show to a woman, there is alot of guys who suceed with hot women and they don’t ”use” techniques they didn’t learn anyone and probably if you ask them how they do how they seduce they will for sure not be able to answer you because they even don’t know how and what they are doing because they are themselves naturally good by being themselves by not being afraid of being themselves around women, if you will act like an insecure guy who is trying to seduce a girl who are afraid from inside of him the woman will feel what you think of yourself she will feel your insecurity no matter how good you are in hiding it will come a moment where she will see how insecure you are ! i think the most important thing to know about seduction is youre real or fake, youre strong to be yourself or weak, you are a man who can feel and understand women or just another guy who don’t understand them..
    from here you can know what to work on, if you are fake work on being real ! if you are weak work on being strong and if you don’t understand women go practice and talk with alot of women talk be with them know them live with women understand them have friends and sex friends have a girlfriend and understand her mind understand who she is, the only way to seduce women is being yourself the real you not the actual insecure guy, understand women and you wil be confident with them, i think this is all you need, and it’s not a work of 2 days guys it’s a dedication it’s a motivation it’s a love for seduction and women :)

  • Ruby says:

    I’d messaged a guy I thought was ‘kind of’ cute; especially because of some nice, hand picked quotes he’d posted on the dating site, and I guess rambled on a bit about how I had the habit of reading when I was younger..etc. I added that his pit bull was v.cute (it was).
    He comes back with a one liner: “Are you a virgin?”
    I’m with my guy friend at the time, and he tells me this idiot was ‘negging’ me, and to ‘ignore’ him. I was too steamed to do that, so I just came back with a, “No, but I’m guessing you’re a prick. Thanks for the heads up,” then blocked the piece of turd.

    I just think the guy has issues, and is a ginormous a-hole. That wasn’t negging. He just has a mean streak.

    • GreatWhiteBuffalo says:

      hahahah “Are you a virgin?” isn’t a neg… A neg is something that gets a girls attention and is in a way a compliment but could be easily misconstrued as a bad thing. This leads most girls into thinking it was a bad thing. He’s a dick, but you need to ease off negs. They’re good and bad…

  • Kelli says:

    Pretty girls, more so than others, deal with this type of behavior within their social circles. Therefore I don’t subscribe to the idea that this is going to damage their self worth.

    I’ve had guys do this in the past and it has never worked out the way they intend. I always come back with something equally as snarky – and as you know, pretty girls are really good at being bi tchy. I never understood why men would do this until I read this article. I assumed they were ignorant and lacked social etiquette. How misunderstood you men really are.

    Best of luck in your endeavors.

  • Q says:

    “In addition, Negs are for those glamour girls that have been spoiled all their lives by Daddy and have little sense of reality (like Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton for example). These are the types of girls that enjoy shooting “nice guys” down. It’s THAT kind of girl that negs are designed to attract.”

    So if this is only for a small, shallow minority, why is it a major focus for you? Why do you want the girls that shoot nice guys down? Hmm are you responding to negging yourself while also being a shallow asshole only wanting to hook up with a woman based on her looks?

  • Kris says:

    If the concept about negging women in a club environment is so fucking important perhaps you should place that as the title dumb shit. I, a nice girl who is surrounded by men (which is 97% the office) NEGS ME ALL THE FUCKING TIME BECAUSE PIECE OF SHITS LIKE YOU POST THIS GARBAGE. I’m nice to all of them and still get back-handed compliments FOR NO FUCKING REASON. Tell me EXACTLY how THAT IS FAIR.

  • sarabellum says:

    “Most women, particularly in high school, were teased, gossiped about, or bullied in some fashion – and usually from other women” by the vicious girls in the “pretty social circles.” Women are not gentle creatures. There is no need to go easy on them. If they weren’t hostile and self- absorbed, men would not have to use “negging” to counter- act their bitchy acts, because women would take responsibility for their sexuality by approaching men.

    Even 6s and 7s throw up “shit tests” and actively try to sabotage your effort to reel them in AFTER they have shown themselves responsive by qualifying themselves, i.e. stating why they find you attractive. Either she get’s negged by a beta or the assertive male shuts her down with hard seduction, “I want you and want to _______ to you.”

  • Amanda says:

    lol and guys wonder why girls think they’re fucking idiots.

  • David says:

    Negs can work there is a fine line to be walked with this technique and certainly a relationship can’t be built no this at all. But using one or two mild well placed negs in a conversation can work. Heck some women even admit that it works. And the reason many women say it doesn’t work is for the same reason women won’t tell their male friends that what women really want is intimate dirty sex. It’s taboo, that can’t admit it. Likewise women will rarely if ever admit that negs work.

    Here are my top negs. You tell me what is wrong with these?

    Awh I like the way you laugh your nose goes all crinkly like a little bunny rabbit.

    You know you blink alot.

    I just saw a girl outside wearing the exact same outfit.

    You neg haters can’t tell me that these comments are degrading women really. In fact they are likely to laugh.

  • Anonymous says:

    you people really don’t get it, and i can only assume 1) you are either a white knight who will reside in the friend zone of every girl you meet until they hit their wall at 30, and start looking for someone malleable and with money to support their life styles. or 2) you are females. Negging is not blatantly being an asshole or putting a girl down to try to make her feel bad. It has to be done in a playful manner about things that are very superficial and not truly going to make them feel bad about themselves. it can also be called banter. yes some men are horrible at it and don’t understand how to use it correctly, so they just come off as over compensating dickheads. It is all part of the game, and you women take just as much part in it, if not more so, than males do. You want to bitch at us about “running game” or deceiving you, but at least you can see what you are going to get. On the other hand you ladies are so deceptive that i might fall asleep next to a 10, and wake up next to a 5. hundreds of example videos on youtube of makeup tutorials making a woman look absolutely nothing like what she really looks like. Pounds of make up, fake eye lashes, tans, pushup bras, fake hair extensions, high heels, you name it. i mean god you ladies are the epitome of deception when it comes to the sex game. to make matters worse, modern day feminism is shitting on the male population and making things even more difficult for men if they aren’t in the top 10-15 %. i have friends that have absolutely no chance to hook up with a girl when we go out because they will get ignored from the get-go, simply because they aren’t over six feet tall, have a six pack, and aren’t a ceo of a company, as just about every woman things she is entitled to now. you want to talk about shallow just look in the mirror, and the feminist dominated media is just diluting the minds of the younger generation more and more, so these trends are only going to get worse. Men need at least some tools of the trade since we can’t literally modify our entire appearance before we head out to a club.

  • I Hate Numpties says:

    How sad you think this is a good way to attract a woman. What happened to good old fashioned proving yourself a decent enough person to want to be with? So what if high maintenance girls put you down in nightclubs — Don’t talk to them. If they are so awful they are obviously not worth it so why don’t you concentrate on finding nice girls who won’t, then concentrate on positive interaction instead of negative doesn’t-do-anyone-any-good snarks. The behaviour you promote in this article is exactly the sort of tactic abusers use to bully and control their abuse-es. Have some F-ing sense of responsibility you numpty.

  • xtine000 says:

    Oh I’ve had douches try to “neg” me my whole life, even though I grew up in an abusive household and have seen my share of the bad side of the USA. It IS ****EXTREMELY*** transparent and pathetic. How many times do they think we’ve heard this shit before??? It’s a way to say “Hi, beautiful woman. I’m an insecure Douchebag”. The ONLY way to win a woman is to sincerely deliver many, many compliments about her good qualities and beauty, be loyal and faithful, and get down on your knees and thank God that you ever had the chance to even be near her let alone sleep with her. Chances are, you’ll never, never have such an opportunity again so if you like it, put a ring on it LOL LOL Oh and women have a very sharp memory for who has ever tried this before. Should you try something like this and it fails, which it most certainly will, you will forever be a “marked man” and avoided like the plague -not only that, her circle of friends will be secretly informed and you will be laughed at and banned from the entire group. And trust me when I say, the word about this spreads like wildfire. You might as well get used to sleeping alone if you become known for this sort of thing in any way. So you’d be best off being sincere and very, very complimentary right from the start.

    • John the negger says:

      Hey girl……did you break out of a mental institution?

      • David says:

        That’s not a respectable neg man.

      • Lonnie says:

        No, she sounds pretty reasonable to me.

        Really, it’s like a ringtone that won’t shut off for years and years.

        It’s predictable. You know it’s coming…. from that little gleam in their eyes from a mile away.

  • Hester Jones says:

    You win sex, IF you don’t show indications of thinking of the woman as a soft, warm spot on legs. And, seriously, just because you are only doing it to a select group of women doesn’t mean it’s not bad.

  • dan the man says:

    now that you explained negging to all the dam women on earthm it isnt going to work on them anymore, duh! do you guys want to know what will really work on women? BOYCOTTING THEM! thats right, keep it in your pants for a few months, ignore the women, ALL of you guys, and see if we dont then have a complete power shift. but you guys CANT keep it in your pants, cuz you are weak, arent you! thats why all of us males end up LOSING this battle of the sexes.

    • Lol…yeah, if you hate women, leave them alone….THAT’LL SHOW ‘EM! #derp

      • Anonymous says:

        yeah that’s clearly what he is saying, that he hates women. did you even read what the fuck he wrote? you women have no fucking idea what you want. you have no idea what it is like to approach a woman and have no idea how she is going to respond. you all get so pissed at men for “running game” and trying to figure out how to get you to respond, while you have a face full of make up, fake eye lashes, fake hair extensions, a pushup bra and god knows what else going on. get the fuck over it. the game is how the game is and men have it WAAAAYY more difficult. until women are the ones that have to approach men, buy them drinks, and do all the other shit just shut the fuck up and stop complaining about men giving you attention, and then complaining when they aren’t giving you attention as well. as i said in the beginning you really don’t know what you want, you contradict your selves more than you even know.

    • Stan the Man says:

      I 100% concur with this plan. Boycott those bitches. Every single last one until they are begging for sex. Let’s do this.

      • Anonymous says:

        You better hope you can wait a while, in my experience women aren’t the ones who loses the waiting game.

    • Lonnie says:

      NOOOOW you’re getting it.

      However, there’s always dildos and ”girlfriends” if you get my drift.

      Maybe if you guys kept your willies in the pants for a few months, you won’t see a power shift… but a change for the better. More productivity, less rape and less STD’s. However, I am 100% certain of two polar opposites… you men behave like sinless monks… or you start mace-wielding anarchy in the streets as the city burns to the ground from your frustrations.

      Women and their honey pot’s aren’t a business to ‘boycott’. If anything, that belongs to paid prostitutes, which I’d reckon all women besides your mother are anyhow.

      You’re also forgetting most women are not oversexed as males are. We can last a few months without going complete and utter bonkers with sudden bursts of rage and vagina, tits and ass mirages materializing out of nowhere. We don’t hide out in the brush like a damn safari waiting for our next ‘prey’. Nor is there any getting involuntary ‘stiffies’ and wanting to go shoot up the place to take vengeance on those ”sex withholding, attention whore, hard-to-get men.) =.=

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