Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work

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You can also lower a girl’s social value in relation to yours with quick lines by negging women.

Here are some examples of negging women:

For a girl with a belly shirt: “Did your shirt shrink in the laundry?”

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“Your roots are showing.”

“Your nose is a little red. You’re like an Eskimo. Cool.”

“You know, you look just like my little sister. Weird.”

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Effect of a neg on a hot girl illustrated

“You know, I like that outfit you’ve got on… but I don’t know… your shoes don’t really match. You should have gone with tan boots…”

To her guy friends, “So what’s special about this one.”

If she’s talking tell her friends, “So do you guys ever get a word in edge wise?”

“Hey… you look like that cartoon character… yeah that’s right, Rainbow Brite remember her?”

“I like your eyes. Hey… are you wearing colored contacts??? (before she can answer) Oh my god, no way, you are…”

“You know, your body language is all closed off. It makes you look like one of those newborns I saw on the discovery channel when they came out of the womb – all curled up.”

“Hey, you’re a goof.”

By negging women, you’ve indicated to her that you’re not interested in her over anyone else in the group. This is a new thing for her. She’ll feel the bitter sting of being just like everyone else. Her looks no longer give her all the power – because you’re not responding to her looks.

Because you’re demonstrating social value to the group at the same time she’s wondering, “Why isn’t this guy attracted to me? Why isn’t this guy paying attention to me? Who is this guy? How am I going to win this guy’s attention?”

Everyone wants to be liked. Everyone wants approval. No one wants to be ignored. The same holds true for beautiful women – even more so. Their whole reality is based on having power and having acceptance and adoration through their good looks. Take that away and their whole reality crumbles and they’ll do anything to get it back.

Negging women is ideal for really hot girls – 8s, 9s, and 10s. For an average girl (6s, 7s), you don’t want to use value zingers. All you need to do is demonstrate social value – you don’t need to lower hers. Hers wasn’t that high to begin with.

Negging women is unnecessary and inappropriate to use on girls who are already being friendly or giving you green lights. Don’t throw one out of the blue for no reason at a girl who is already responding well.

But if she’s super hot and you’ve just met her, that’s a different story. Use a neg or two on her.

Now, it’s critical to use negs right. Remember, you’re not out to damage the girl’s self confidence or put her down. You’re not out to mess up her self-esteem. Some guys in particular cross the line and start throwing soft insults and treating women like second-class human beings when they don’t deserve it.

The point is to make yourself stand out as socially valuable male and a challenge, not to make her feel bad. But used correctly, negging women is a powerful tool in your arsenal.

Update From The Author

I noticed that my post on negging “Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work” has drawn a lot of negative comments from women.

I understand the blowback.  I understand where some of you girls are coming from.  You see negging as a form of bullying or insults.

And most women are pretty sensitive to the idea of it, based on being bullied in real life.

Most women, particularly in high school, were teased, gossiped about, or bullied in some fashion – and usually from other women.  Pretty girls especially face negativity from their female friends, as pretty girls tend to hang in “pretty social circles” where there’s a lot of superficial cattiness, backstabbing, and competition.

Or even if you’ve never been bullied or teased yourself, you’ve seen the devastating effect it had on your classmates.  So naturally, you feel sympathy.

But anger at ‘negging’ is misplaced.

First, we are talking about a night club environment.  There’s lots of REJECTION involved, inherent to the environment.

And most of the rejection is aimed at the GUYS.

Haven’t either you or one of your friends ever ignore a guy?  Like, not even acknowledge his presence when he tried to talk to you.

It’s often pretty CRUSHING to the guy’s self-esteem that he isn’t given 10 seconds to acknowledge he’s another human being to talk to and say “hello”.  Ignoring a guy completely is much crueler than any neg a guy would dish.  (Like, “Hey girl!  You have some lint in your hair… look at that.”)

Then again, it’s a night club.  If a guy’s ego is so fragile, he shouldn’t go.

So please girls, if a guy told you that you had lint in your hair and that would “cut you down” or would “crush you”, and your ego is THAT fragile, then don’t go to night clubs!!  After all, the guys have to deal with MUCH WORSE from you girls!

In addition, Negs are for those glamour girls that have been spoiled all their lives by Daddy and have little sense of reality (like Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton for example).  These are the types of girls that enjoy shooting “nice guys” down.  It’s THAT kind of girl that negs are designed to attract.

So if you’re a normal-looking girl with a normal attitude, you probably will NEVER BE NEGGED in your life.  So for crying-out-loud, don’t worry about it.

Further consider that 99.9% of guys are SO damn nervous in clubs and bars that they can’t even approach a girl without wetting their briefs… let alone finding the balls to neg a pretty girl.

So don’t worry, it’s statistically unlikely to ever happen to you, even if you DO look like a runway model.  Most guys will never approach you, or they’ll just try to kiss your ass to get into your pants.  And that’s SO much better than those bad boys, right?

But since those guys are NOT a challenge in the slightest, they’re not attractive to you.  That’s why you blow them off.

That’s what a neg does – creates a challenge to the female.  That’s what attractive guys do.  And ANY guy you’ve ever fallen for, on some level, you had to chase HIM.  Every single guy you ever had a crush on made YOU chase HIM.

I know it’s simple to latch onto a cause, leave a comment, and feel like you’re serving justice in some small way by taking a stand against the 1 in 10,000 guys that have the balls to neg a girl like, “Hey girl!  It’s funny how your nose wiggles when you talk!”  But really, it’s an empty cause!

P.S. If you still disagree with this assessment, please leave a comment, I welcome all opinions!  😆

headshotYour pal, Jesse

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4 hours 1 minute ago

this is horrible. just because a girl is very pretty doesn’t mean she doesn’t already have low self esteem/ self worth. why are men out there buying into this shit? how about just having a conversation with a girl, without mentally grading her on her looks. maybe you might even make a genuine connection?!

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Motherfucker-Jones
23 hours 49 minutes ago

To the anonymous women that have been posting idiotic shit on here: Men are talking here, so know your place and go wash dishes or something.

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Anonymous
1 day 25 minutes ago

We should all stop commenting on this bullshit. This guy obviously loves the attention he’s getting and he doesn’t deserve it.

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Anonymous
8 days 17 hours ago

“And most of the rejection is aimed at the GUYS.” There’s a difference between expressing genuine disinterest and being an a-hole. Also, if negging seems like an reasonable course of action, it might point to the part of your personality that is inviting rejection in the first place. Maybe try some introspection and work on the self before endeavoring to tear others down.

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Anonymous
10 days 22 hours ago

As someone who has been negged before (when under no circumstances was I being rude or dismissive because that shit is annoying in it of itself) I can tell you that this misogynistic bullshit is bullshit. I can tell you that in my lifetime of having friends, I have never once had any of my best friends admit her ‘uncontrollable sexual desire’ to some insecure asshole who thinks that the only way he can hook a girl is through devaluing her and making her feel as though she has to settle for some loser who thinks this is an acceptable way to treat another human being. The good news is that I can rest easy knowing that the only guys who would use this stupid shit are the guys whose dicks are so tiny I wouldn’t give a shit about them anyways. Next time any dickhead negs you, remember it’s fair warning that they’re packing half an inch tops!!! :)))))

Yolo
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Yolo
8 days 7 hours ago

Hey girl 7 and a half inches here.
I bet you’re pretty but you have a nasty attitude.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 day 29 minutes ago

Lol was that a neg?

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Anonymous
13 days 8 hours ago

This boils my blood. What kind of misogynistic paradigm are you spewing to impressionable young men everywhere? The idea that it is ok to treat beautiful women as conquests; ones who require bait and switch tactics. Are you seriously telling me you’ve developed strategies in order to “trick” women to giving a damn about you? How little do you think of women; are they just commodities for you to win over by passively aggressively kicking them in their ego? What an idiotic fuckboy psychology; where did you get this idea from? the old “women only like assholes” routine? Moving forward I implore you to do the human race a favour and refrain from propagating the species with your offspring. Next thing you’ll tell me that in order to keep a woman from losing interest you need to send her dick pictures #byefelipe.

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Anonymous
17 days 2 hours ago

negging is just really rude and disgusting overall tbh.

Jujubi
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Jujubi
16 days 8 hours ago

if you’re getting all worked up about it, it’s because it actually works!!

Anonymous
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Anonymous
8 days 46 minutes ago

Yes. It can’t be that women simply don’t like being insulted. 0r the idea that we’re just conquests to be manipulated. People ONLY dislike rude behavior when it bucks them into sleeping with someone.

it must be your amazing smarts that lure in all the ladies, eh?

Siggy
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Siggy
16 days 15 hours ago

No it’s not. It’s ‘provocative’ but hardly “REALLY” rude or “DISGUSTING”! Read the article again, only more objectively.

This common reaction of shock and horror is not because of what is being promoted by the (rather innocent) article above, it is because of what it THREATENS, namely the hegemony that ‘beauty’ currently occupies.

The vitriol therefore proves the thesis.

w/luv from a random chick
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w/luv from a random chick
19 days 14 hours ago
I get where you’re coming from with this, but dating tips should really focus on self-confidence. Girls can smell desperation like the stank of a skunk. It clings to men, especially men approaching a ’10 woman’. If a man acted undisturbed by a ’10 woman’ ‘s attractiveness, he would be novel and interesting because as you say, a lot of men don’t have the balls to do much but drool and fall over themselves. Have some self respect and try to come across as confident and relaxed. Women are attracted to confidence… but not arrogance. Going the extra mile to backhand compliment her seems like a bad idea for 2 reasons: a lot of guys will mess it up worse than if they just said hi, and if a woman feels she is being manipulated she will avoid you like the plague (because in part we women are taught to avoid potential rapists – which is what desperate and manipulative men flag themselves as to us). Unless she’s not very confident of herself, or is maybe some kind of raging superbitch, coming across as insulting seems like it wouldn’t work. And in the latter case… Uh, don’t stick your dick… Read more »
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Watchout
19 days 18 hours ago

LOL I cannot wait for a little boy like you to try this on me. I have a tight body, long blond hair. I’m also a veteran, a welder and plumber. I don’t talk to people… I just laugh at everything…especially at assholes like you. If you walked up and said something like this to me,I guarantee the last thing you would see that day is me laughing as I shoved your front teeth down your throat with my fist.

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All Lies.
17 days 21 hours ago

lol yeah right, are you hell all of them, welder – years of practice to be good enough to say i can do this, plumber the same, “veteran” isn’t just 2 years service darlin. So by this you’re shooting past your prime already, so don’t worry no one will neg you, but you should look to get your mirror fixed.

From a 10
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From a 10
21 days 4 hours ago

The girl will eventually be able to spot when guys neg, and it won’t work.

You don’t mention anything about girls who have received negs over and over again.

I appreciate you covered that a guy shouldn’t unnecessarily do it, but I’ve had people who have negged well after giving them the green-light. I kinda wanna share this article with them to get them to stop.

Frustratingly, whenever I hold them up to it, they ALWAYS reply ‘negging?!?!’.

I no longer know if they intentionally neg, or just teasing like most of us probably do at some point.

It’s handicapped me in my interaction with guys.

Jujubi
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Jujubi
21 days 4 hours ago

Interesting POV from a female… thanks!

Jade
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Jade
21 days 9 hours ago

“Douchebags – They’re Everywhere”

Anonymous
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Anonymous
22 days 21 hours ago

This is so stupid. That is all.

Zephyr
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Zephyr
23 days 19 hours ago

So this is essentially your strategy for nailing women outside of your league looks wise – neg them so it brings them down a notch or two. Which means you idealised them in the first place. This is why you fail.

The point is to see the person as “normal” and treat them “normally” – not idealised, not fawning, but see them first as a human being, not some stuck up bitch or fairy princess that requires a long ass strategy involving pick up lines with a hint of humilation to get her attention. All you’ll bag is an insecure woman, and as others have said, nothing is sadder than manipulating such people.

The fault is you see this person higher than you, and because you lack confidence and are not interesting to hold their attention normally, you engage them with subtle insults. LOL Really how pathetic is that.

You need to work on yourself before dishing out advice to ANYONE about ANYTHING bruh..

From a 10
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From a 10
21 days 4 hours ago

I agree, treating them as normal people will be a unique and pleasantly welcomed experience.

Siggy
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Siggy
23 days 16 hours ago

Wow, pal – go back and right “Update From The Author” again – it really is pretty airtight and largely correct. The suggested approach (dorky or not) is just ONE type of relatively innocent gambit in the games people play, but your comment and those below betray your own attitudes by virtue of the extreme extrapolations and projections upon on the writer, Jesse, and the article and other comments.

In other words, unbeknownst to the commenters – you included – the “button” pressed on your forehead proves just about everything said in the original article….Maybe I am being too subtle?

Put it this way: you guys are all saying (regarding a really quite harmless niggling tactic) “I AM HORRIFIED THAT YOU “(CHOOSE DEROGATORY WORD)” COULD EVER SEEK TO CHANGE THE (DARWINIAN) STATUS QUO!! HOW DARE YOU EVEN TRY!”

So, “bruh”, despite your apparently reasonable platitudes, you are part of the problem. And don’t know it.

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MmM
25 days 19 hours ago

I can always tell a negg. Smell a negg. And see a negg when it’s coming. And the ones always geared at my appearance are ridiculous. That in itself is the insult. The fact that you assumed that I’m that self absorbed type of chic just because I was visually appealing to you is disgusting, dissapointing, and if I think about it for two seconds brings out my gangsta side. Ha! What a joke!!
But for bitches fucked in the head, dumb, narcissistic (that’s self absorbed), then yeah that shit works. Congrats guys! Congrats on being a troll! ‘my precious’ And congrats on nailing a crazy chic. (I get it ‘the sex is good’)
At the end of the day it’s still just a phenomenon that you’re lucky to benifit from if at all. And the social damage it’s doing to real human interaction is probably immeasurable. So go ahead keep feeding the narcissists and letting then f**k up everything for the rest of us. What does that make you for pursuing that? …..
Sad sad little duckling

Zephyr
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Zephyr
23 days 19 hours ago

Great comment ever.

If seeing an attractive woman makes a guy so insecure he feels the need to insult to get her attention, that dude needs serious help.

Jujubi
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Jujubi
27 days 4 hours ago

Jessee is dead on… Negging works much better than being nice… Dont ask me why… It just does!!!

siggy
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siggy
29 days 4 hours ago

Why do you enjoy abusing men by calling them “small minded” and “immature”?

siggy
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siggy
29 days 4 hours ago

Your post shows two things; you did not understand the article and you enjoy abusing men.

Diesel
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Diesel
1 month 2 days ago

It really works lol. But you gotta do it right. Always go after their appearance. Say they look like a movie star. Not one like Megan Fox, but say, Lena Dunham or Amy Schumer.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 3 days ago

Hey, thanks brother man. Ill try it A.S.A.P.

Jo
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Jo
1 month 3 days ago

What a load of utter crap. ‘Negs’ do not have the effects stated here. They simply indicate that the jerk uttering these stupid remarks has an inferiority complex (or is straightforward inferior) and is trying to lower the girl to his gutter level so that he can feel a bit better about himself. It’s not manly behaviour but the insecure desperation of a little boy.

If it ever ‘succeeds’ the it’s only because the girl in question already has low self-esteem on some level (or is not very bright) in which case it’s like taking advantage of a child or mentally ill person. Not cool. Not clever. Not masculine or sexy. But, for some reason, it makes these sad little guys feel better about themselves. What a pain that girls can’t go to clubs etc without these creeps and losers hanging around.

Teila K. Day
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29 days 8 hours ago

I suppose if a guy is after the self-absorbed, twit-brained type, then negs probably work; but for self respecting, educated women who have something going for them more than just the run-of-the-mill meat market night club on Saturday night…. negs aren’t going to have the slightest positive affect in most cases. You’ll just confirm how stupid and inconsiderate you are to even dare utter such lame speak.

Lily the avenger of .. oh, what the hell.
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Lily the avenger of .. oh, what the hell.
1 month 1 day ago

“What a pain that girls can’t go to clubs etc without these creeps and losers hanging around.”
Thanks!! A knight in shiny armour!! The very, very few attractive guys who really know how to tease girls in a fun way while not being a mean idiot, are NOT the hordes of aggressive pick-up-proselytes, who turn urban dance floors into no-go areas.
Clubbing used to be nice.

Paige
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Paige
1 month 12 days ago

I will never understand heterosexuality. You had to write a whole article about how to be an asshole to women, meanwhile I’m over here fucking your girlfriend, so.

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YouCan\'tBeSerious
1 month 15 days ago

Why are you guys criticizing his philosophy and ignoring how hilariously dumb and absurd these supposed “negs” are? “Hey, you’re a goof”? No one on the planet talks like this. “You look like an Eskimo”? Why the hell didn’t he just say “Rudolph”? “Your shoes don’t match”… complete with alternate suggestion? Honey, she’s going to think you’re gay. “One of those newborns I saw on the Discovery Channel”? I guess he means giraffes or something, but it sounds like he’s talking about human babies, which perfects the impression that he’s some alien life-form unacquainted with human speech and social behavior. This shit is too good. At making me laugh, that is; I’ll bet it’s crap at picking up women.

Teila K. Day
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29 days 8 hours ago

At least you’re smart enough to recognize stupidity flying from someone’s mouth when you hear it, or when you see it written. Only a small-minded person would speak like that to another person and not feel embarrassed for sounding so immature.

SH
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SH
1 month 18 days ago

The flaw in this logic is that if a woman actually responds positively to this kind of insult, she probably isn’t worth dating. She probably has low self esteem. Nice girls like nice guys.
Beauty fades, but dumb is forever.

Mark Mizrahi
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1 month 18 days ago
None of this is conducive to actual success with women, in a deep and abiding way. It’s childish school yard games that may get someone badly fucked by someone with too much vanity and not enough self-esteem, but lead to nothing beyond that. It’s a cheap parlor trick, that may work on some drunk girl, but is grounds for long term failure and lack of satisfaction. Real engagement comes from being interesting, actually valuable, and able to listen and engage women as friends, lovers, and partners. Your advice is the equivalent of telling a man who has chopped his fingers off to get a band-aid. It’s disingenuous at best, and sinister at worst. If you believe your ludicrous adivce I feel bad for you and would willing share ideas about how to improve your horrendous conversation skills. I have years of experience having been a professional Dominant and currently in a beautiful functioning relationship with 2 wonderful women that know of each other. I am not some kind of model-looks man to have accomplished this either. Simply I understand that relationships, both those long and brief, sexual and non-sexual, are a give and take built on mutual respect, understanding, and… Read more »
Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 18 days ago

If you can’t handle being called out for being a dick, stop being a dick.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 20 days ago

you’re so bitter its hilarious

Siggy
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Siggy
1 month 19 days ago

The bitterness you seek to project upon the writer is almost certainly your own, and the hilarity you profess to experience, but almost certainly don’t, is the type of attitude that leads young men to devise methods such as “negging”…namely, one of sneering deprecation. But you won’t get it.

Anon
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Anon
1 month 16 days ago

No, the person above is calling out the individual at hand. I can promise you that I’ve never treated anyone with anything other than respect and love. Life is far too short, and I definitely would not respect a person (man or woman) who had to manipulate others in order to gain some sort of social advantage. Perhaps this negging technique works with some people, but most individuals will be turned off by it. As has been suggested, it isn’t the way to have a loving, long-term relationship with an equal partner. It’s manipulation, And you have shown your colors by defending it. I hope you don’t use it because most people prefer a genuine person who loves themselves and others.

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Anonymous
1 month 26 days ago

Negging assumes that the woman will want to earn your attention. There is a serious flaw in this logic: Beautiful women have no need to look for anyone’s approval or seek validation from anyone. They don’t have time for a jerk who insults them, they already have plenty of guys in line! Bye jerk!

Siggy
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Siggy
1 month 25 days ago

They ABSOLUTELY need “approval” and “validation” from their adoring masses – they (truly beautiful women) are (unfortunately) ignorant of their narcissism the way fish are ignorant of the sea. Negging is precisely aimed at puncturing that bubble of humongous self-regard, and hopefully, shaking them out of the exact attitude that lies at the heart of the problem, namely, that all men are “jerks” even before opening their mouths, and anything they say that challenges their complacency proves it! You don’t get it. You will never get it…let me say it again – no one is a “jerk” – they are men struggling in the brutal game of “love and loss” – what YOU are really evincing is an attitude of NOT LIKING MEN…and using whatever evidence you can to support your unfortunate attitude, that in many women, will see them dating endlessly and never finding what they hope will be a non-jerk. Who is therefore, really being the jerk here?

Your Pal
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Your Pal
2 months 5 days ago

Great ocean pic, Jesse. You’re wearing plenty of sunscreen, though, right? Because you look like the freckly/sunburny type. Body surfing’s great for doughy shoulders, but it’s no fun if you’re peeling and blistering afterward.

Nice beard, too. Way to camouflage the weak chin and chipmunk jowls.

BTW, is Jesse short for your full name? I’ve honestly never heard of a man named Jesse.

Nah… I couldn’t get used to this. It feels too mean.

Rosemary
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Rosemary
1 month 18 days ago

Brilliant.

Dee
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Dee
2 months 17 days ago

Nope. As a fairly attractive thirty something, this tactic hasn’t worked on me since my teen years. It’s disgusting. If you like a woman, treat her with respect. No need to be an ass. If she doesn’t like you, move on.

Siggy
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Siggy
2 months 17 days ago
THIS IS WHAT I WROTE BELOW TO ANOTHER OBVIOUSLY ANRGY AND ABUSIVE “30 SOMETHING” – IT GOES FOR YOU TOO – Well, let’s break this down a bit…firstly, “anonymous” is 35 years of age…and dating. What does that say about her? And the very idea that some playful, negative jest “blew her mind” suggests that she expects every comment aimed towards her (no doubt) galactic beauty to be pure anodyne adoration. Anything else is inconceivable! Then she exhibits extreme and abusive judgmentalism in that, anyone who tries something different, must be “mentally ill”. Then, rather than deal with such an event like a grown up, she orders them to “move on” so as to silence the offenders for…for…for…what precisely?? What heinous crime or sin did they commit in a game “where all is fair in love and war”?? Why such excruciating and egregious over-sensitivity? Can you put your feeling into words that are not abusive or derogatory? What – PRECISELY causes you to order some one away if they, for example, were to say to you; “you have a red nose – are you an eskimo?!…”?? What makes such a person a “retard” whose further communications would further “blow” your… Read more »
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Sass
2 months 17 days ago

Lol this entire post was a neg. what a chump

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 20 days ago

You’re such a sad person.

chrissia.victors@gmail.com
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chrissia.victors@gmail.com
2 months 21 days ago
OK, as a woman, I am pretty horrified at this “flirting” tactic. I am pretty attractive. I know this sounds conceited, but it’s not! I’m just very confident and I know that I have put in work to get a nice ass and body in general. I have fairly big boobs lol and I was a lip model for a while, so I know I am pretty attractive. And let me tell you, I have NEVER hooked up with a guy who “negged” me. It’s just an insult, plain and simple. I HATE being negged. Rejection is a fact of life, not an insult! I’ve been rejected two or three times, and yeah, it does sting a little. GET OVER IT. It is not personal, I’m just not attracted to you, plain and simple. But, telling a woman that it looks like her shirt shrunk, implying she is fat, is insulting no matter how high or low her self esteem is. At this point, when a guy neggs me, I literally laugh in their face. Rejection is not an insult and guys need to quit being piss babies when they get rejected. Women don’t owe you a hello, you put… Read more »
Nick
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Nick
2 months 16 days ago

Head of surgery and residency director? Really? Pretty interesting prose for such an esteemed position. Surely you realized that a real physician would read this. You do know it’s illegal to pose as a physician, right?

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 18 days ago

word!

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 months 22 days ago

I find this all hilarious, both the article and the comments. I didn’t see anywhere in the article where it mentioned that this tactic wouldn’t work with anyone who had any healthy self esteem…or who are intelligent enough to see through the tactic. Hey, if that’s the kind of girlfriend you’re looking for..insecure and vapid usually equals high maintenance. The original poster’s response to comments was the greatest comedy of all, though: backtracking to say the negging was intended for a nightclub environment when that was not mentioned in the original post/article at all, and then tipping his hand with his all-caps resentments and hurt feelings about how men get treated, so this is appropriate retaliation. Thanks for the laughs!

Renny
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Renny
2 months 25 days ago

lmao, those are the stupidest lines I’ve ever heard and would just look at you like you’re a retard.

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Grant
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Grant
2 months 27 days ago

Fuck you, OP. You’re a misogynistic douche and you’ll never know a meaningful relationship in your life with this attitude toward women.

Linda
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Linda
3 months 18 hours ago

If a guy talk about my roots or my shoes/clothes, I’ll automatically assume he is gay. Real men don’t notice these stuff.

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Anonymous
2 months 20 days ago

Regular middle-aged married guy here, not pick up artist douche (never was, never will be). I came here to see the fireworks. But I must correct you. Some of us do notice hair, clothes, make-up and we aren’t gay. I do my wife’s makeup from time to time. She likes the work I do on her. When I was younger and dating, I would always remember what women wore (clothes, jewelry, accessories, etc…) so I’d have a clue what to buy them when getting a gift. And if you were to ask my wife if I’m a real man, she’d give you a resounding yes.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 months 4 days ago

Women don’t owe men ’10 seconds’. Women don’t owe men smiles or even acknowledgment. Women don’t owe men anything. How is that difficult to understand.

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Rosemary
1 month 18 days ago

Spot on.

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siggy
3 months 3 days ago

Both men and women owe each other basic respect and human decency, which includes (usually) a smile or some form of acknowledgement..anything else (i.e., surly silence, scowls, “in your dreams”, rolling eyes, giggling with your friends, etc) is just rude, passive-aggressive or a power-trip.

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Anonymous
2 months 20 days ago
TLDR; PUAs and rude girls (those who think they have the right to be rude simply because they find a guy unattractive)… you lead a sad existence. Siggy, you are exactly on target. Anyone, man or woman, who is rude to someone just because they find them unattractive has some serious issues and will forever be incapable of establishing a successful and sustainable romantic relationship. From what I’m seeing here negging from men and bitchy rude behavior from women are essentially from the same playbook but used for different reasons and are based one one thing: the subjective attractiveness of the people involved. This is very problematic, because looks fade. No matter how good a man or woman looks at 18, 25, 35, you can be guaranteed that eventually those looks will no longer continue. I’m 45 and am essentially invisible to people younger than I. It doesn’t bother me, but it’s not unnoticed. My wife is closer to 50 and noticed the effect herself at around 45. It’s not a bad thing if you have someone who values you for more than your looks. Any guy using pick-up artist methodology, or any girl who thinks she has the right… Read more »
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Anonymous
2 months 23 days ago

No

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Anonymous
3 months 3 days ago

Men don’t owe a girl her self-esteem either.

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Anonymous
3 months 3 days ago

And men don’t own a girl her self esteem either.

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Anonymous
2 months 23 days ago

No, but he doesn’t have the right to talk to her. So if he didn’t talk to her, there would be no issue. Go fuck yourself, because you’ll never get an actual girl to do it.

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siggy
2 months 20 days ago

Wow, you are seriously disturbed. Or pretending to be disturbed — which (if you think about it, and you probably don’t) is also disturbed. I am in psychology and can recommend someone if you like. I am also a lawyer and can tell you that abuse is abuse whether or not you are hiding behind anonymity…you are an abuser – ironic heh, given the topic under discussion.

Can’t wait for your reply – it should be so original and constructive, ha, ha…

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Anonmymous
2 months 20 days ago

Whoa… hold your horses there. Everyone has a right to talk to someone. But everyone also has a right to NOT respond. There is a difference between not responding and throwing out some hostility, which you seem to have problems with as your post is pretty hostile. Imagine if a woman went up to a guy she found attractive and said hi and her responded with, “Get away from me you ugly bitch” or “Hah. As if a dog like you would ever have a chance with a guy like me”. And this happened over and over and over to many women. Imagine the uproar that women would, rightly, have over that kind of treatment. Double standard much?

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RJ00
3 months 14 days ago

Lightly picking on a woman can be fun, and when they tease back it’s also fun. You have to know the right areas, some “negging” examples I’ve seen are idiotic and can be damaging. (I generally don’t neg on a woman’s looks or clothing, tread very carefully there fellas) Basically, I like to be polite and courteous, but a bit of playfulness goes a long way toward making everyone more comfortable.

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Anonymous
2 months 23 days ago

EXACTLY! As a woman a lil playfulness is actually what makes sense to me versus negging. I just think it portrays insecurity from the man’s end but that’s just my opinion and it’s kinda irritating cause I can pick it up when those attempts are applied to me. Just be grown and say what you want. If you get rejected, you get rejected (for both guys and girls) and you move on.

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Just me
3 months 14 days ago

I can see how these ideas would work. I do think the “what’s special about this one” could be offensive depending on how it was said but if someone asked me if my shirt shrunk I would find that funny.
I don’t think it’s bad for a guy to play the game to get a girl interested in him, girls do it all the time. As long as it’s not I’ll-willed or actually bringing anyone down which most of these examples are not then who cares?
And yes while ideally there should be “no games” I’m yet to meet a girl or guy who’s interested with no chase in either direction whatsoever. I’m sure they’re out there but I seriously doubt the whole population will change overnight where none of this is necessary.
I’ve also been at clubs and been a total b***h to guys just for talking to me which I feel bad about now but couldn’t have cared less at the time.
It sounds to me more like it’s subtle flirting without coming on too strong which is all good by me.

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Just me
3 months 14 days ago

*ill-willed (thanks spell check)

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Kat
3 months 14 days ago

You know, any guy that came up to me with those kinds of lines I would think was fake and desperate – even if I hadn’t known it was intentionally negging, something about it just wouldn’t seem right to me. I was only made aware of the technique after discussing an ex-boyfriend with another ex, however – who introduced me to the power of the Neg. I’m glad it’s been pointed out – hate “getting to know you” fakeness!

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3 months 16 days ago

I was always told that if you didn’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. So no, I don’t think being ignored is worse than having someone actively be rude to you. No one owes you attention but to go out of your way to insult someone is just completely uncalled for. And no, it has no hope of working. You are completely delusional if you think this could ever work. I have been married for 18 years and my husband got me by being polite. Having manners is attractive. Try it sometime!

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Anonymous
3 months 21 days ago

This makes me so glad I’m a lesbian

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Anonymous
3 months 13 days ago

I may convert

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Anonymous
3 months 3 days ago

So being gay is a choice then?

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Anonymous
3 months 29 days ago

You know, why can’t everyone start compromising for each other and even if a guys is an unconfident one, he is not here to give girls any hard time. He does not just want to have sex with her. He also cares about her. He wants to be loved by her. I don’t understand what is all the issue here

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Anonymous
3 months 29 days ago

Yeah and then when girls reach their 30s, they will understand that they make a mistake for not listening

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Anonymous
4 months 3 days ago

I forgot how I found this website in the first place, but I wonder about two things. First, as negging has become more popular women are now aware of the practice, thus possibly rendering it ineffective. Second, what about the possibility that these techniques work on a certain kind of woman (one with emotional issues or issues in her personal history)?

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Anonymous
4 months 5 days ago

I really hope you’re trolling man, for your sake. It sounds like you have never listened to a woman in your life. (That’s how you really get them – trust). If you really do this, I bet women dump you pretty often huh? I’ve been in a good relationship for a few years and I can honestly say, I have never used a pickup line. Treat your girl right and she won’t leave you. Chicks see right through this shit, they get it all the time and believe me, it lowers your “social value.”

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Anonmymous
2 months 20 days ago

I’m with you. Long term relationships are where it’s at if you’re looking for love (which comes with sex BTW.) But these guys and girls aren’t looking for love or they’ve confused infatuation with love. Hence the bright but short flame before it all dies. For a lot of the guys, a long term relationship is the last they they want. They want variety in their beds. Fine. But no one should confuse this whole negging thing as a way to meet someone for a long term relationship. I’ve been with the same woman for almost 25 years now. It’s great. The sex only gets hotter because she’s doing things she never would have when I first met her. My male friends who were PUA types when we were younger are unmarried, alone and not “pulling” like they used to. I don’t think I’d want to be them at this point. Look ahead a few decades and prepare yourself for the inevitable.

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Anonymous
3 months 22 hours ago

you must’ve never been to a club. it’s hard to believe, but not everywhere is just like sunday school

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Anonymous
4 months 10 days ago

My opinion was deleted.

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Anonymous
4 months 10 days ago

As a part time model who is used to being the complete focal point wherever I go, a recent “neg” DID effect me purely because I was in total shock, especially as it was aimed at my most celebrated and complimented features.

Initially I WAS physically attracted to this guy but will NOW just view him as an asshole to be avoided.

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Anonymous
4 months 3 days ago

it’s affect not effect

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Anonymous
4 months 13 hours ago

bitch grammar police

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Anonymous
4 months 17 days ago

Any men that uses this to seduce women is a dick. You know what is attractive and seducing for a woman? Good manners, intelligence, sense of humour, sense of justice, authenticity, and just in general, being nice. Not being a dick.

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Leeroy Castillo
3 months 29 days ago

Yeah right lol to all u men reading this chicks comment remember this never listen to what woman says she wants cause they dont know what they want if ur a regular nice guy and ur value is not higher than hers she will never be intrested in u sexually ull just be another nice guy nice doesn’t equal pussy woman want men who are winners not nice the way we look at a woman for her looks is the same way a woman looks at a man for his value example money social status etc…

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Diagoras
3 months 16 days ago

Fine, if you don’t trust what she says then look at who she marries. I’ve been married 18 years and my husband is polite. He never used negs on me, only compliments. I was attracted to him because I loved the way he treated me and because he has manners.

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David
4 months 19 days ago

I find that buetiful women are almost every time instantly seduced by my powerful negs. Will definitely try out these sly and seductive negs my next time out in the town :^)

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