It’s critically important to physically touch a woman early on in an interaction.
Touching a woman causes her body to release a powerful sex hormone called oxytocin. Oxytocin increases a woman’s testosterone levels, the hormone responsible for her sex drive. Oxytocin also causes her to feel a bonding with you and to feel good around you. It’s called the Oxytocin response.
Even for a woman who acts cold at first, a few touches can make her feel hot. It doesn’t matter where or how much you touch her – even a small touch on the arm is enough to release oxytocin hormones into her body and warm her up to you.
What’s more, oxytocin gives her the desire to be touched even more, producing yet even more oxytocin – a reinforcing cycle of sex hormone escalation.
And this oxytocin touch response is MUCH more powerful for women than it is for men. Oxytocin requires estrogen to work. Without estrogen, it has no effect. And women have much more estrogen in their bodies than men. Ever notice how a woman you never noticed before touched you on the hand or shoulder and suddenly you started to think differently about her – in a sexual way? Well, in women the effect is 10 times stronger! Don’t underestimate how one or two well-placed touches can make her start thinking about you or even get her wet between the legs.
Okay, here is how to use touch to get women hot without having them resist you.
First, be the kind of guy who is comfortable touching women from the moment you meet them. Be a physical kind of person. Act as if touching a woman is a normal thing you do all the time and women will accept that. Because only if you start touching a woman all of a sudden after a few weeks, it will seem weird to her, so start from the very first time you meet her.
Begin with small touches on the hands and arms to make her oxytocin hormones kick in. The more you touch her in a playful take-charge way, the more she’ll want more touches and then even more.
My first contact will often be a high five. Like I ask her where she’s from, she might say, “Montreal” and I’ll say, “Awesome, Montreal is a cool city… high five!”
I’ll also say ‘Give me your hand.’ Then, spin her pirouhette style.
She says something in a way you enjoy – and you say ‘That’s so cool.’ Or ‘You’re awesome’ and give her a one-armed hug around her shoulder or her waist, the way you would a kid sister.
Find out how she feels attraction run through her body – then trace the route with your fingers, narrating her attraction rising the whole time.
Get her touching YOU – like if you’re dancing, you can place her hips on your waist.
And her oxytocin response will kick in and you’re golden!
Your friend,
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