Here’s how you quiet and calm the critical factor of a woman so that her mind accepts whatever you give it as real and true.
1. You Need to Have Rapport
In order to quiet the critical factor of a woman you need to have positive rapport with her.
If you lack positive rapport, she will not be suggestible to your commands.
If you lack positive rapport, she’s not going to listen to what you say.
For example, right now I have positive rapport with you, I assume, because if I didn’t you wouldn’t have gotten this far. If your feelings were negative toward me, you’d have thought to yourself, “Jesse Charger is a jerk!” and everything I tried to tell you would just bounce off the barrier of your critical mind.
Having rapport doesn’t even mean having love or friendship with the woman. Having rapport just means that there’s a positive energy between two people. You can have rapport with a total stranger in a matter of seconds if you just go up to them and say Hello and come across as a genuinely friendly human being.
But the deeper the rapport you have with a woman, the more she’ll trust you and the deeper the hypnosis.
2. You Need to Have Trust
To expand your woman’s envelop of sexuality she must trust you. Having trust means that the woman knows that you’re looking after her best interests at heart and you’re not going to hurt or embarrass her. With trust she can feel comfortable around you.
Her trust in you is earned by you demonstrating trust in her, total approval, and complete acceptance without critical judgment.
Without having trust she’s not going to let down her guard and accept your commands.
3. You Need to Have Authority
You can only quiet down her critical factor if you’re coming from a place of authority and respect.
If she perceives you as having authority, she’ll take what you say to be real and true, as opposed to someone who has little or no authority to her. I’m not talking about coercive or domineering authority, but authority that you have as a sexworthy and powerful man.
For example, a lot of people place an incredible amount of authority into the President or Prime Minister of their country. There’s a whole group of people who will agree with whatever a President says. It doesn’t matter what the evidence, you don’t question a President.
Even if you don’t like your current President whoever he or she is, he or she’s going to have more sway over your political opinions if he personally sat down with you- as opposed to a random homeless guy who just scrambled out of a dumpster.
We place authority into celebrities. That’s why television commercials love to get their hands on celebrities to endorse their products. That’s why George Foreman can sell cooking grills even though the two have almost nothing to do with one another.
When we perceive a person to be an authority figure, we tend to let go and surrender our critical judgment to whatever they have to say.
The Three Ingredients
You need rapport, trust, and authority to get the woman’s critical factor quiet and settle down.
With enough rapport, trust, respect, and authority you can reprogram a woman’s lifetime of beliefs that sex is bad in one single moment when you tell her otherwise.
Also keep in mind that any woman can be hypnotized. How suggestible a woman is has no relation to how gullible, trusting, submissive, or compliant she is. People who are hypnotized easily are not dumb or gullible.
In fact, if a woman is easily hypnotized, all it means is that she absorbs information quickly and efficiently and is comfortable in letting go of that critical factor to take in new beliefs and new information. Easily hypnotized women are often particularly intelligent because they’re efficient absorbers of what’s around them.
Hypnotic Inductions Aren’t Necessary For Trance Sex
During sex, all the requirements for hypnosis are met.
When a woman is having sex with her man, she has positive rapport with her lover, at least on some level.
For a woman to have sex with you, it presupposes she trusts you. Women generally won’t have sex with a man unless on some level she trusts him.
And that trust is intensified during sex, because she’s giving herself at the deepest level. During sex, you could get her pregnant and she’s putting her whole genetic lineage on the line with your genes. That takes an incredible level of trust and surrender for a woman.
When you’re with a woman in bed she has authority and respect for you. If she’s your lover, she looks up to you. She takes into account your opinions and they matter to her. She’ll change her beliefs and her habits just to better match yours and to win your approval.
And with rapport, trust, authority, a woman feels relaxed enough to let go, to surrender into an altered state. It’s not the altered state of feeling deeply relaxed like in traditional hypnosis, but the altered state of feeling sexual Bliss.
So you don’t ever need to do a formal hypnotic induction on a woman to get her back to that age of five years old where her critical factor vanishes and everything can become real and true for her again. A formal hypnotic induction like “You are getting very sleepy” or “You are getting very relaxed” is completely unnecessary.
Simply get her into a sexually charged state. That’s an easy one, just have sex with her, so that she’s in the altered state of hypnosis, and her critical factor will go quiet.
And it’s in this state of hypnosis, a highly suggestible, highly charged sexual state, a state naturally occurring when she’s having regular sex, that you will train your woman and install new programming.
A formal hypnotic induction is not necessary to allow a woman to experience new roles and new identities, or to have an instant orgasm on command. Just having rapport, trust, and authority so that she enjoys the sex with you enough to go into the altered state of lovemaking is all that’s necessary.
Of course, if she despises you and just has sex to get it finished with, or she sees you as wimp to walk all over, her critical factor will not quiet down even during sex.
So it’s important to only start a hypnosis training program with a woman in a relationship that’s already healthy enough where there’s a climate of mutual trust and respect, or in a new relationship with a woman whom you’ve just recently met and who sees you as fresh and new and exciting with that starry-eyed young love in her eyes.
Is Hypnotizing Women For Sex Possible?
Hypnosis is when the woman’s critical factor is put asleep and new thoughts and behaviors and programming can enter in without the critical factor blocking it.
Hypnotized subjects are like very young kids. They’re playful and imaginative and can fully embrace all kinds of suggestions they’d normally be very embarrassed at.
Whatever you experience under hypnosis is perceived as direct sensory input just as if you were actually doing it, just as if you were actually having the experience.
And when a woman is in a state of hypnotic trance, unlike merely pretending or playacting a sexual fantasy, her feelings and experiences of happiness, excitement, lust, and pleasure feel real and genuine. Through hypnosis, you can create new realities for a woman that engage her emotions on every level.
Her skin’s sense of touch will be heightened.
You can trigger erotic sensations like the taste of chocolate, the touch of feathers, or the smell of rose petals.
She’ll be able to let go of sexual hang-ups that might normally inhibit her.
She’ll take part in highly imaginative, pleasurable sex that she would normally never allow herself to do.
In a state of hypnosis, she’ll tune out worries and doubts that would normally keep her “bad girl behavior” in check.
In a state of hypnosis that little voice that normally says, “This isn’t me,” or “What if I look like a slut” is turned off.
She can think anything you want her to think. And if you guide her to it vividly and intensely enough, she can BE anything you want her to be. A woman can imagine any role or reality she desires. If she imagines it vividly enough while the filter of her critical factor is turned off, she can become and believe that role or reality. Anything can be made real and true to her.
We’re not talking about acting or role playing. You can actually make fantasies and roles vivid and shockingly real in her mind.
Want her not just to imagine, but truly believe, that she’s a virgin again?
Want her not to just act, but become your own personal stripper?
Want her not to just put up with going down on you, but actually have an orgasm herself every time she gives you a blowjob?
Look at it this way. Much of what we think of as our identities as to whom we are or what we’re allowed to do or be is really an illusion inside our own heads.
No one’s stopping you from being a whole other person. One time I dressed up in a crazy rock star get up, leather pants, exaggerated South Beach glasses, necklaces, leather boots, spikes on my wrists, dyed spiked hair, and a crazy shirt that listed the Seven Sins and I walked into a Kinko’s copier store. Two girls came up to me asking what band I was in.
Likewise, a woman acts as prudish or as sexual to the extent that she believes her identity is. What she calls reality is only what she has made up about herself.
But in truth, a woman’s reality is infinitely plastic and she can be whatever or whoever she wants to be. And when you learn to tap into that deeper level of the woman’s mind, watch out.
Because once that faucet starts to drip, it quickly turns into a gush and then the whole damn breaks. And once that happens, your woman won’t be able to wait to explore and try new fantasies and roles with you.
Your pal, Jesse