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Tip #1. Tell Her How Excited You Are
Tell her how she’s making you feel. Women get sexually excited when you’re sexually excited for them.
Basically, you’re describing to her the sexual feelings you’re experiencing behind the physical actions. And to a woman, the sexual feelings are just as sexy as the physical actions themselves. Tell her,
“Having you bent over with my dick inside you, you make me feel so good baby.”
“You make me so hot for you… I want to fuck you deep and hard.”
“It feels so good sliding my penis inside your pussy.”
Tip #2. Tell Her How “Bad” She Is
Girls love to be told what a bad, naughty, slut they are on the inside deep down underneath the “good girl” everyone normally sees in real life. Tell her,
“You’re a bad, bad girl, aren’t you?”
“Deep down you want to be naughty, deep down you want to be bad.”
“I know what you’re really thinking. Inside you have a dirty mind. You’re always thinking dirty thoughts.”
“You wear those hot clothes, do your hair, do your nails to attract the men and make all the girls jealous of you… you’re so bad…”
“Everyone thinks you’re this sweet, innocent girl. But I know the truth. I know what you’re really like, that you have all of these dirty, naughty thoughts.”
Tip #3. Highlight Taboo Contrasts
Highlight contrasts that might normally be considered taboo in “proper society”.
If you’re an older man with a younger woman tell her, “I love that young pussy… it’s so wrong an old guy like me is fucking that young pussy… that makes you so hot.”
If you’re a black guy with a blonde tell her, “You just loving wrapping your mouth around my black dick don’t you.”
If you’re a young guy with an older woman tell her, “You love younger guys don’t you… having a young stallion fuck you long and hard.”
If you’re a bad boy with a religious woman tell her, “You’re such a little devil, a bad girl for having such naughty sex… you dirty girl.”
Tip #4. Tell Her “This is bad…”
The theme here is to tell her how “bad” it is what you’re doing as you proceed with the act anyway. This is a big turn on for submissive women. Tell her,
“We shouldn’t be doing this… this is so bad.”
“I want to pull your panties off and eat you out right here… no I shouldn’t do that, that would be so wrong.”
“Hmmm… your hair smells so nice… no stop that, I have work to do… don’t turn me on right now… then again, your skin feels so soft and sexy…”
Tip #5. Cold Read Her Inner Desires
With a cold read, you state how the woman is feeling on the inside.
For example, cold reading her inner desires might mean telling her how much she really wants sex and how much she really wants to be dirty. Tell her,
“You know you want to suck your strong man’s cock.”
“It feels good, doesn’t it, you like that don’t you.”
“The more you feel, the better it is and the more you want it.”
“You enjoy to be told what to do by a man.”
“You love watching your dirty ass ride up and down on my hard dick. That makes you so fucking hot.”
Of course, you can’t know exactly how a woman is feeling inside, unless you’re a mind reader. Rather, you’re planting thoughts inside of her mind and passing them off as her own.
In effect, you can lead a woman into a thought or feeling just by telling her that’s the thought or feeling that she’s having.
Tip #6. Tell Her to Surrender Herself
Command her to surrender herself to you.
“Surrender yourself to me… surrender your mind, your body. Your body is mine.”
“Your pussy is all mine.”
“Surrender yourself to your strong man, baby. Just let go.”
Tip #7. Tell Her That She’s Yours
Deep down, a submissive girl who is emotionally attached to you wants to be “yours” and belong only to you.
Call her “your” naughty girl or “your” sex doll, rather than just calling her a naughty girl or a sex doll. She’ll feel more dominated if you imply that you possess her.
Tell her as you rail her hard, “That pussy is mine, I own that pussy.”
“You belong to me.”
“Your pussy is only mine and I’m the only one who can fuck it.”
“The only reason you exist is to take MY dick deep inside of your pussy.”
Tip #8. She Has No Control
Most women love that they hey cannot control what’s happening to them. Tell her,
“I’m fucking you now, and you cannot control what’s happening… you’re at my mercy… you’re just being fucked hard…”
“You like being fucked hard by a strong man? What are you going to do about it? You’re getting fucked right now by a strong man.”
Tip #9. Request Obedience
Women want to be led in the bedroom and you can explicitly request obedience from her.
Tell her, “You’ll do as I say. I have the master cock, you’ll do what I tell you naughty girl. You like that don’t you.”
“You just love doing everything I say, don’t you… that makes you so hot being obedient to my strong will.”
Tip #10. Who Is Your Master?
Have her call you “Daddy”, “Master”, or “King”.
Women love being under your control in the bedroom. Tell her, “Who’s your master, your strong man, your daddy.”
Have her say, “Yes Master,” when you tell her to do things or move into new positions.
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Have your own dirty talking tip you use? Please share it with us!
I work them up to the point where they ask to be dominated – it opens everything up. When I tell them to say dominate me and they say “Dominate me” and I’ve got a hand full of their hair I pull their head down where they can’t look me in the eye and tell them what I’m going to do – spank them – slap them – bite them – plunder them – take everything I want because in this room it’s mine. Tell them they are going to love it. If you’ve worked them up right they love the talk and you’ve already got them to agree to what’s happening next. It it’s not a first time thing with most girls unless they are freaks our you are way better than me. I’ve gotten bible college girls to go for it after working them up to it. It’s way powerful the”nicer”the girl is!
Just reading that comment got me so hot! You sir , definitely know what you’re doing.
I don’t know about “daddy” that would turn me off. But, “master” is okay.
yeah daddy is a turn off but master is hot as hell, i just used these tips last night and we both came over 8times. i never knew how kinky my girl was
sir works as well
could you possibly use same words on a lady you plan marrying?
Wouldn’t she complain later of how you insulted and disrespected her and all that?
please reply
Ato
icpmsu@yahoo.com
Of course…just be gentle with the words i.e. Yah, that feels so good! I love your tight little pussy around my cock! Damn, have I told you how warm and nice you feel inside! If your girl has stretch marks, relaxed vagina (loose), or small breats try to lick, kiss, caress and touch those parts. Uplift her/his insecurities by knowing what they wanna hear and thats by learning to LISTEN!! If you talk dirty from time to time it will keep your marriage alive! Dont come home fuck her and go to sleep, wake up fuck her and go to work! Seduce her like the first day!
Hell yes – own her – that is what marriage is. Tell her she’s yours. It’s your pussy. She’s your private nasty girl forever. All the stuff above. Just don’t launch into it out of the blue. She wants to be fucked too – I guarantee it. Make sure she’s good and horny and declare ownership. Next time ramp it up a little. I like to get them to say they want me to dominate them. “Dominate me” – that it’s sexy as hell coming out of a girls mouth while she is on her knees sucking your cock. It sets the stage for what is happening next!
Yes exactly women like to be ‘owned’. She won’t find it disrespectful, they want you to desire them.
Im getting married in may. I love for my man to tell me my pussy belongs to him. For hin to slap or spank me. I love being dominated, hes starting to open up A LOT more with it and when we are in the bedroom I am his and I do as he says whatever he says.
I happen to be a girl. Just recently found myself in a bit of a role reversal than the typical (I like it, but new territory:), hence found my way here. I can say even if you are going to marry the lady she won’t feel disrespected. After maybe over coffee just touch base saying this really turned me on, and I love you that you are my sexy naughty girl, but let me know if I cross a line, OK? That gives her permission to speak up, but not in the throws of it all ruining the dominance. I find the worse lovers I have ever had are lousy, because they refuse to try new things, or speak up. I am pretty willing to to whatever, even twice just in case done badly before always willing to try at least a second to confirm my decision. Many people are no like this, so I get it, but if she if she isn’t sending you dirty messages on where she wants it, than definitely she’ll submit to you:) Good luck best of wishes cheers .
You have to respect her outside of the bedroom. If you don’t respect her outside the bedroom she will not let go and will not allow herself to become the slut she wants to be, it will also mean that you just use her as a sex object. To sum it up, if you don’t respect her outside the bedroom, you can’t talk dirty to her. If you don’t talk dirty to her in the bedroom, the sex will quickly become boring, and as a result she will cheat on you with a more exciting guy.
Yikes so true.
Agree Jessee, she will follow you around everywhere with the fear of loosing you to another woman. I have felt that with my own wife.
Jesse-They were ALL very good pointers to say to a woman…I use almost all of them. :>)
Like, Ato, most men don’t think that it is OK to talk dirty to a woman, even, the woman they are going to marry. Men must treat women with respect outside of the bedroom, but, in the bedroom, this is when the woman can become a slut.
Exactly, in the bedroom they want to try on different roles. It’s all about fun and play and stepping into new identities.
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This has nothing to do with respect…cut the hypocrisy. We are all here to find out what we can learn, and more than often it involves attracting women. The truth is that evert woman wants to be submitted…yes! A man has to go in for the kill like a hungry tiger preying on sheeps. Sex is the most natural instinct one can have as a human being after all we are civilized animals.
Now…the most arousing part about talking is being able to say what we feel instead of thinking of how we feel. Silent bedroom sex is a NO, NO! Take control like you know what your doing let the moment take place…insecurity sucks, therefore, you gotta not give a DAMN in order for the girl to be like WOW!
yep yep yep…
I found that lots of foreplay will drive her crazy and NEVER with a new date fuck her until she begs me, out loud.
Often they something like : I wanna feel you inside of me’ and I just laugh and say ‘Sure you do, but not till I’m ready and you’re begging me!’ and I’d just go on nibbling her clit or (whatever I feel like)
She might say something like ‘You’re crazy, I’ve never begged a man to fuck me’
Just ease back long enough to smile and say ‘YET!’
Sex is a head game eh … run their heads and you can have everything!
Thanks for your input kit, you’ve got this down
Someone tried that with me before. I told him to shut up and keep giving me head.
OMG pretty “nervy” Kit but that’s H-O-T
“If you’re a black guy with a blonde tell her, “You just loving wrapping your mouth around my black dick don’t you.”
isn’t that just precious. your a natural cuckold.
long stemmed roses are the way to her heart,but you first have to start with her head.All this dirty talk and passionate ,sexy verbal sexual intercourse drives women wild and makes them your love slave, personal whore and sex goddess.
Yes, get the roses after you rail her and call her your whore
Haha, yeah been given just the roses, or whatever token of I adore you. Been engaged 4 times, and broke it every time, because a guys just adoring me is boring. Give me great throw down sex, and I’m more likely to keep you around longer. So yes I agree, but just remember out of the bedroom I am equally powerful, and very capable of stealing your role, so be careful if you find a girl like me
yes roses are really thorny
It is all very true, I know from both personal experience and from simply being a woman. You have very good points that touch on a very simple reality that women prefer men that know what they are doing and are confident.
Keep up the good work.
Justine.
Thanks Justine
Exactly what I do with my gf. She loves it and even tells me to use her however I want and so on.
really cool post!
I haven’t tried the Tell Her “This is bad…” and
Tell Her to Surrender Herself
What worked great for me lately was “I’m gonna do with you whatever I wanna do with you” and so on
The important thing is picking up on things she says with lots of emotion and go from there… I find there are some words they really react to much better (personal for every girl) than othhers like a girl I was with really reacted to “delicious” cock, the world delicious seemed to resonate with her instead of “hard” cock
I think key is presence and observing her reaction
Jesse I wish more guys read this. Spot on! My guy uses all of these techniques on me and it’s fantastic. Agree you need to read her reactions… #5 is a great tip.. my lover has got me doing things I thought I’d never do.. and I love them all.
I also love that a man would take the time and effort to get to know my inner desires and bring out the slut in me, ironically it shows respect and great sexual understanding that he actually wants to spend time molding me to his wants and releasing me. Great post!
thanks Katie
patrick, give it a try !
I’m one of those “GOOD” catholic girls …. yes I do love sex but I can tell you from experience which ones of these above work and don’t work with me …..
What does work #1, #5, #6, #7, #8, #9.
What doesn’t and why #2, #3, #4, #10 – I dont like to be called bad, or slut, or anything negative …. but tell me I’m an ANGEL and I’m beautiful doing whatever we’re doing …. and you get a whole new GEAR and I’ll fuck you forever ! Don’t even try #2 – #4, or #10 … because I turn right off. #10 … my only master is myself and God ! You start trying to tell me this and I’m out the door !! gone from your life !!
Shut up slut, i am your master and you will suck my testicles as i please
LMAO to Mickey McDicky. Your fucking funny… That really shut her catholic girl up, lol.
Thanks to everyone for their input, experiences and thoughts. I came across this post while just looking for some ideas on how to have my wife really take on the role of the sub. She is already submissive to me by nature but I am looking to “step my game up” so to speak and really get her worked up. I have blindfolded, handcuffed, and spanked her and all of those moments were great. I think these tips will help out and I believe we will enjoy them. Thank you all again
Try watching Pierre Woodman porno on the net. ALL your questions …well most of them at least. 8)
thanks for the tip
these tricks would work on me i guess i need a master right now.. anyone up for it please reply soon!! i live in the south west of sydney if ur anywhere near..
As someone who has been dominant for a long time and explored being sub as well, I find a lot of what you wrote in the above article to be self esteem bashing and not at all what dominance is truly about. You are suggesting triggering “bad” feelings of shame, which sure, may be what the odd sub is seeking but not all of them. There are more out there who are actually seeking acceptance of their kink and not shame.
Shut up slut and suck my balls for your stupid thoughts I will cock slap you until you learn to good, you little wining bitch.
These are all one directional;a girl who wants to have a dirty fuck. It wont go with every girl but what will is painting a naughty story as you do stuff. “we’re in the park and I notice your big tits” then you grab her tits. Or any story, works with any girl anytime
very effective.
I’ve read this 4 times now since finding if 4 days ago……..just for my own personal pleasure. Spot on for me. I wish I could find someone to talk to me like this.
hi jane
i would like to speak to u and know about u
but i live in egypt so what is ur idea we can manage speech on net to know each other
i had before an slave
Jane add your location I’m pretty sure you will find some volunteers to dominate that pussy of yours. If you really want to be dominated come to O.C. California and I will show you some good domination. Trust me the steps 1-10 are just the beginning on some of the stuff I have for you.
Submissive girls love to feel owned. Anything that say we’re yours and yours alone can have us on our knees.
Here’s my new poem.
Wrapped in unconditional love:
Livin’ in a fantasy-land, wishin’ she could trust a man.
With sex’s first impression, from a little girl land.
What happens next,
She’s not yet at her best;
But little girls learn and grow.
She’ll show what she knows.
When naughty girls get all the attention,
Spanked with love and affection.
Taught to be a naughty-girl fuck.
Now doesn’t that give you all the luck?
When naughty-girl lessons turn her on,
Things she’s too young to know.
Naughty girls get all the attention,
Spanked with love and affection;
That’s all she’s needs to know.
Can she tell you all her pain?
Trust you in her fantasy-land?
Will you step up and be her man?
Love her as best you can?
She’s a big girl now, still stuck in first impressions.
So spank her with love and affection.
She’s still willing to learn and grow.
Naughty girls get unconditional love.
That’s all she needs to know.
Love her with a stricter hand…
Then fuck her all you can.
For unconditional love a naughty girl will learn and grow.
Never too old, to be told she’s yours to own.
KoloheKailani
Sweet, don’t get too may poems on here
all the pory good, im very intrested in what everyone has said. i am a sub to a point, i give the man what he thinks he wants but also i challange him, and he just gets more turned on. if he say come here so i can spank u i will look at him, smileing telling him if he wants it to come get it. and so on some men may not like this but iv had no complants so far xoxoxo
I am currently single with
(1) a male follower who worships the ground that I walk on and would do anything that I ask
(2) a male follower that wants to be my “Master” and says one of these days I will give in….
Since I am a very capable, independent, assertive person catering to my every beckon call drives me insane while I laugh at someone being my master because I control every aspect of my life. Is there a middle or should I just start saying “Yes Sir”
Just say yes sir men love that
My girl loves to be sexually dominated, and this type of dirty talk really works. We even use it when sexting. Ive gotten her so hot that she has masturbated at her desk at work with her door open!
In bed, she does love to be told what to do. How to suck me, or how i will fuck her next.
Ive found that the more intelligent and powerful a woman is, the more she responds to sexual dominance and this type of dirty talk.
ok this is what it comes to when i look up porn this weird but useful website ok
Wow… It’s nice to see that i’m not a freak or something… I mean, I’ve always known that I’m not, especially after some experiences, but when I have a girlfriend, if i’m with her, If I chose her, it’s because I wanna be with her emotionally and physically – I want to turn her inside out in the most intense way I can imagine. I want to know her innocence as much as her wickedness. I stay quiet and receptive many times and apparently “turned off” while I’m letting myself being excited by her way of thinking, her hands, her lips, her eyes, her voice, her ways, while i let myself being hurt by doubt, the doubt she has about me, about us, and the feeling that I want her so bad but i’m afraid that she’ll go away the moment i give in. If she manages to stay around, “suffering” as much as I do, I unexpectedly show it in a slow way, so slow that she’s not actually sure that I want what she wants too. Then she knows. Then, when she’s about to breakdown, just like I am… BOOOMMMMM! there’s no turning back….. and I don’t wanna think how It will end, because I’m yours if you can stay mine.
Not that it matters, but a couple of girl friends said to me that I’m a scorpio in the “true” meaning of scorpio sign, that I act, talk and look like one. I wonder if this is from being a scorpio or not… I don’t tend to believe in astrology and I only remember this life in this mind and this body.
John are you single and needing a sub?
Livin’ in a fantasy-land, wishin’ she could trust a man.
With sex’s first impression, from a little girl land.
What happens next,
She’s not yet at her best;
But little girls learn and grow.
She’ll show what she knows.
When naughty girls get all the attention,
Spanked with love and affection.
Taught to be a naughty-girl fuck.
Now doesn’t that give you all the luck?
Ok, here’s my problem. I’ve been with a lovely woman for almost 5 years now. Our sex life has always been spontaneous because of our children. We have 7 total in our blended family.
At the beginning, she would drag me off to the bathroom for a quick romp, wear sexy outfits to bed after lighting candles etc. Now she rarely ever wants to have sex. When you even mention the thought, she gets disgusted by it. She has never turned me down, but let me know very straight that she wasnt going to participate and it was all “just for you.” She’s even started smoking lately and I tease her about it. She made an agreement that before she smokes, I get a 7 minute blowjob.
It’s nice to know that anytime I’m ready, she’ll at least give it up. That gets old though.
I’ve got her to cum and enjoy it a few times even though she was hesitant at first, but those are few and far between. Once a month or so when she’s in the mood, she’ll cuddle up on my shoulder and ask why I’m ignoring her. By her, she means her pussy. That’s my clue to start being frisky. Any other time it’s “hurry the fuck up”. She gets mad when i drag it out past 10 minutes. She gets mad if I want foreplay, if I initiate foreplay on her, if I look at her, if I dont look at her…..
What am I missing here? What do i not see or is this just her game? We’ve talked about this and she just says it’s not her thing. As for household chores etc, she really doesnt do much except pay bills and shop. I do most of the cooking, kids do cleaning. I do laundry etc just trying to work them brownie points up for another boring lay.
Any suggestions?
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shes fucking the next door neighbor
That pussy is done especially with 7 kids, find yourself a slut/woman around your neighborhood and fuck the shit out of her. IF she ever catches you then tell her it’s your fault for not fucking me.
I have been this guys girl for 5 years. I got the same way with him. I would get so irritated if he would try to have sex with me. I started being mean to him even . He started getting to the point where he was just being overly nice and would do anything for me. I liked that part. But was overall annoyed by him. Then one day I am doing my makeup and had an attitude with him. He came in grabbed me by my hair and said in my ear “did you forget who’s the man and who’s the woman here?” I shook my head no he said “huh?” I said ” no I didn’t forget”. He told me to get on my knees. I did. Then he made me look at him and say sorry for talking back to him and I won’t do it again. He made me say sorry with his dick in my mouth and said he couldn’t hear me. I tried to say it clearly so he could hear me but every time I tried he put his dick in my mouth again. He would put it as far as he could and hold it there then give me a second to breath. Then he came on my face and told me to lick his balls and dick clean. When I was done he told me to go wash my face and don’t forget again that I am his. He made me tell him I understand all this while I was still on my knees and look at him when I said it. Then I washed my face and never denied him again. I’m waiting for him to get off work right now because he always likes dinner ready and head while he eats his dinner. So I am about to touch up my makeup. He ALWAYS respects me in front of others. No one would live to see the next day if they disrespected me in front of him. But I can’t help it now. I have to do whatever he wants! He always makes me tell him that while I’m on my knees in front of him while he’s sitting on the couch. And I have to look at him while I say it.
Epic post Katie
I love #’s 1, 2, 3, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, and 10
I hate words like daddy, little pussy, and naughty girl during sex, it just sounds too pedo to me, that’s also why I hate the poem; I couldn’t finish reading it because it turned my stomach…
#4 is just kind of lame…sorry
Fatima, it’s not hypocritical to want a woman to submit to you and yet you still treat her as your equal when you’re not in bed. Mike is absolutely right on this point, for as much as I wanted to be submissive to my ex-husband (a white guy), because he didn’t respect me outside of the bedroom I could never trust him with my submission! Yet, you are right when you say “Take control like you know what you’re doing let the moment take place…insecurity sucks, therefore, you gotta not give a DAMN in order for the girl to be like WOW!”
“Strong will” and “strong man” seem just a little too contrived but the sentiment is wow! Maybe just leaving off the word “strong” would work since he has let her know up front, who’s in control. JMHO But I do think using powerful and cock together is a “powerful” combination. lol
#2 Love the first sentence and the last paragraph only
#3 and #5-10 are so damn hot just as a woman hearing those things but especially as a black woman who likes a white guy. Yeah, I’d submit to him in a heartbeat because I couldn’t help myself! But…
#10 Master is tricky. I mean, how does a white guy dating or married to a black woman even initiate such dialog – Unless that’s all part of the submission process? (see Fatima’s point above)
What happens if the lady responds positively to him but accidentally (by default) changes master to “massah” and he uses the term “wench” with her, with all of their historical connotations? What do you do? I would really like an opinion on this one please.
Ditto on #10, as a white guy dating a black chick. Would be interesting how far that one could go.
@2X
Have you always felt this way (dominant) or has it just come out since you’ve been dating a black woman?
I’m just curious because I’ve just started having these thoughts within the past couple of years.
Just wondering how this type of thinking comes about/evolves…
@Gina4whiteguy
“just started” and “within the past couple of years” is kind of funny.
I’ve always felt this way, since I was a kid.
I think it’s less about coming about and evolving, and more about disinhibiting myself, and not preventing myself from doing what I want to do.
People don’t change over time, they merely become more or less inhibited in showing themselves.
What triggered it for you?
@2x
Your question caused me to think back over my dating life, and honestly, I have to admit that I’ve always been sexually submissive even when dreaming about marriage as an older teenager. After conducting many Internet searches, I found this site that actually helped me to put a name to my thought/feelings. However, when I say sexually submissive I just mean that the husband is in control in the bedroom – I’ve never been or ever will be into BDSM; it’s just not my thing…
I guess, in saying “I’ve just started having these thoughts within the past couple of years,” I really mean that I’ve become more desirous of being submissive to a white man as I consider getting married again. I’ve only been married once (to a white guy) but I could never express those feelings/be myself because he wasn’t trustworthy.
Unlike you, I do believe that people can change for better or worse, but I do agree that over time people allow their inhibitions to show more.
@Gina4whiteguy
What ever floats your boat. Just for clarification: I am neither dominant, nor submissive, nor a switch; I am myself. Sometimes I want to X, other times I want to do Y, and other times I want to lean back and do nothing.
24/7 “BDSM” is bs. tl;dr… it’s all reversed… D = s and s = D
I happen to be a woman. I love it calling my guy daddy, but I love it when he calls me a good little girl (or tells me to do something like a good little girl) i.e. “spread your legs for me like a good little girl”. His approval and compliments are a turn on. I guess I have daddy issues, but I love it.
What are your daddy issues? I love psychology.
How can I get my husband to think this way about me? He will talk like that to me when are having sex, if I tell him it turns me on. He never has any of his own ideas or passions. He loves it while we are doing it, but its like he completely forgets I like this every time.
Your husband sounds submissive. Can’t make a submissive person dominant. What ends up happening is you are becoming a bottom from the top. You’re telling him what to do, and he’ll do it for you.
If he’s dominant, then he’s not really in to it. If he’s submissive, then the best you can do is tell him you like it to happen every time. But that’ll get boring since he won’t know how to make it interesting.
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I am a submissive femàle who basically would love most of the above. 8, also have began to slowly let these desires out. I have had a dominant partner who loved my submissiveness, but seemed to stop at a point where it may cross the line into disrespect. I want to be treated like a slut, desired, owned but I don’t want my partner to feel like I really am a no good whore who’s done this all over town? Haven’t)So ladies & guys, how do I tell/show this to my sex partner? How do I attract a dominant Guy? If the guys appears uncomfortable ?
All these people giving sex advice… I can tell that a lot of you are virgins or people who have cyber sex lol
Hi there!
I just found this thread on google. I have only just, for the first time in my life, fully discovered and admitted I’m a submissive woman ( I’m 50!) I met a guy on – line and had sex on a first date- that is something I have never done before! All because it became very clear, very quickly that he was an experienced Dom and ‘brought out’ the slut un me!! I still see him – just for sex frankly, but I’m hoping it might develope into a more regular, ‘relationship’ he does all of the above and more or less said on our first date ” if you go into the rest room, take off your panties, give them to me, accross this table, you will be surrendering yourself completely to me and I will own you for the whole night” how hot is that?!?! Needless to say, I did just that- the sex was amazing and I’ve never looked back! No more vanilla for me!! Who knew?!?!
Hot story
thanks for sharing it 
Great pics. Not-so-great post.
I had only been with submissive men until a year ago. I finally met a dominant one. He was very respectful outside the bedroom, and timed his moves very slowly & carefully. It took 2 years, but then I finally gave him the opportunity to drive me home after some drinks.
He whispered to me “just relax”, then picked me up and pinned me against the wall saying “is this what you’ve been fantasizing about?”. Afterwards he had to go to a meeting, tied me up, and told me “I’ll be back to spank you later”.
To this day, my knees still go weak just hearing his voice.
Great site, exploring the sub within me and lovin it, wish I’d have been brave enough to explore years ago