Cherishing rituals are almost like Valentine’s Day gifts, because when a woman feels close and bonded to you, she feels more fully completed, fulfilled, and happy about the relationship.
With the Hands of Fire ritual, you’re building a powerful connection to a woman through a series of touches.
Exteroceptors are the skin’s sensory nerves that sense touch. Women have millions of exterceptors all over their skin and most are concentrated around her lips, hands, and her erogenous zones.
By stimulating a woman’s erogenous zones, you’re not only telling her subconsciously that you’re an incredible, experienced lover, but you awaken her sexual drive and lust.
Here’s how it works. Tell her, “Did you know that you have special ‘hot spots’ all over your body? I’m going to show you where they are and how to awaken them.”
As you do the Hands of Fire ritual, imagine that hot, white light and fire is burning out from your fingertips, warming whatever they touch.
Touch her slowly, softly, and gently. Linger. Enjoy each moment for the sake of the moment. Focus on enjoying the process, not on the completion.
Tell her that her first hot spot is her wrists. Lightly caress them for they’re full of exteroceptors.
Insides of Her Elbows
The INSIDES of her elbows, where you feel the soft connective tissue, are extremely sensitive to touch and a prime erogenous zone. This is the next area to lightly caress. Tell her exactly what you are touching and why.
The Lower Back
Reach around to her lower back. Again, with each of the caressing touches, tell her what you’re touching and how it’s another hot spot.
Back of the Neck
Gently stroke the back of her neck. The back of her neck carries a lot of muscle tension that touching releases.
The front of the neck and the ridge of the jawbone is an extremely sensitive part of the woman. Lightly trace along her jawbone and the front of her neck with your fingers.
Caress the area around her eyes. As you touch them, keep your eyes open and gaze steadily into hers, even if she drops her eyelids. Keep eye contact to maintain a sense of connection with her.
Nose and Lips
Lightly caress her nose with your fingertip. Gradually extend the caresses down to her lips, and then back up to her nose.
Begin from beneath the eye and lightly stroke down her cheek.
The Ankle Hollow
Caress the hollows on both sides of her left or right foot, located between her Achilles tendon and the anklebone.
The Hands of Fire cherishing ritual touches the woman in ways that most men never bother to explore. No man will ever have taken the time to touch her like that before in her life.
If she wants to man-eat you alive by now, begin a passionate lovemaking session.
Otherwise, don’t push or initiate anything more and let her sit there and burn with the new, amazing sexual feelings.
You don’t need to have the entire Hands of Fire ritual perfectly memorized. Add a few hot spots or improvise as you go. It doesn’t really matter WHAT parts you’re touching as long as you’re touching. You may also want to keep a small note card by your side listing all the erogenous zones so that you don’t forget them.
And as always, your woman must know that you believe that every part of a woman’s body is sensual. Every part of a woman’s body is responsive. Everything is natural and normal.
Make that your Valentine’s Gift to her!
Your pal, Jesse