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When Talking Dirty To A Girl, Make Her Affirm “Yes!… Yes!…”

An affirmation is when a woman says, “Yes” to your command.

For example, when you say to a woman, “You like having my dick in your mouth, don’t you?” you can get an agreement from her like a nod of the head or a “Yes”.  This is an affirmation and her response makes the experience more real for her.

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When she’s highly aroused and you’re rubbing your cock at the opening of her vagina, tell her, “Baby, tell me how much you want my cock inside of you.”

She’ll affirm, “I want it inside of me”

Tell her,

“You want my tongue inside your pussy hole?  Tell me.”

She’ll affirm, “Yes.”

“You like it when I fuck that cunt of yours don’t you.  Tell me.”

She’ll affirm, “Yes.”

“You want me to fuck that cunt, right?”

“Please…”

“Who is that pussy made for?  Tell me!”

She’ll affirm, “You…”

“How hard do you want me to fuck it?  How hard do you want me to fuck it?”

She’ll affirm, “Hard… fuck it hard!”

For an even more powerful effect, especially when she doesn’t say “Yes” with enough conviction, have her give you a double affirmation or even a triple affirmation.

As you have her bend over with her ass and pussy up in the air, say to her,

“You’re a very horny little girl for your strong man aren’t you?  Tell me how horny you are.  Tell me you’re a horny little girl.”

She’ll say “…Yes…”

That’s the first affirmation.

Tell her,

“You didn’t say that with very much conviction.  I want you to tell me that you’re a very horny little girl for your strong man like you mean it.  Tell it to me.”

She’ll say, “…Yes, I’m a very horny little girl…”

That’s the second affirmation.

Tell her again,

“Tell me like you mean it.  Tell me how horny you are.  Tell me how much you want my cock inside you, you horny little girl.  I want to hear you say it.”

She’ll say, “I’m so horny I want your cock inside of me!  Please…”

And that’s the third affirmation.

Whenever a girl affirms something herself, it makes it for real and true for her, because now she has said YES to it.

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  1. sophia

    does anyone else find it hard to not get turned on when reading these articles? :oops:

    • Katie

      You are certainly not alone.

  2. Matt

    Anonymous is right :mrgreen:

    I did this with my gf for a few weeks every time I fucked her. Got her in the habit of saying yes to everything I did, making her beg for it. Once I felt like it was natural for her I moved onto rougher sex, again making her agree and begging for it. Before long she would give in to rough sex with no hestitation. Once I introduced anal she hesitated but I kept reminding her she begged for it and soon it was a regular for us too.

    Needless to say I now have a nice little sexually submissive girlfriend who knows my sexual needs always come first. Making your gf affirm and beg for your cock is a great training method. :mrgreen:

    • Wowie Kazowie

      Now you got me thinking. Is this MY Matt? This whole manipulation technique happened to me. So I go on BEGGING for sex, but my Matt almost NEVER satisfies me! No matter what we do, he still doesn’t satisfy me. Yes, now we have evolved into “Matt’s needs always come first”. And now, even though Matt thinks he has accomplished something wonderful, he’s left with a sex-starved girlfriend. Proud of yourself, Matt? So, Matt’s needs ALWAYS come first, and Matt ALWAYS cums first too! Being submissive comes natural to lots of women, but being selfish comes natural to too many men! So, I hope you’re real proud of yourself for turning your girlfriend into a sex-starved, unsatisfied horny beauty! Someone else is bound to notice her!

      • Sara

        You just need more training Wowie Kazowie. ;-)

  3. Anonymous

    This sounds more like a lesson in making a nubile girl consent to sexual slavery than a lesson in fellatio.

    • Jesse Charger

      that’s quite an image you put into my head

  4. Socialkenny

    Once again:a solid fucking post bro’.Where was your blog all this time lol?

    Affirmations are key when it comes to sex-play.Funny thing though,I used to believe that affirmations had to be “yes”,meaning the actual word yes.But affirmations are basically agreeances to what you ask.This post clarifies that for me.

    • Jesse Charger

      Yeah, any kind of positive response counts

  5. Roberto

    That was GOOD, Jesse. When she says YES to something sexual, it makes it even more REAL to her. It’s her sexual imagination!

    • Jesse Charger

      yep yep! :twisted:





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