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10 Reasons Why ‘Good Girls’ Secretly Want A Threesome With You And Another Woman

Having two really cute, loving girlfriends in your bed at once really IS possible.  And here’s why two girls can very easily be had when you are leading.

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#1: Women are naturally “bi-sexual”.

So let me explain this.  In their teens in high school, women naturally hold hands, they naturally kiss, and women experiment. Being on another soft girl feels perfectly natural to a woman.

Yes, at the end of the day, women want a masculine dominant man, YOU, but women naturally enjoy each other as well.

That’s why, in a very real scsense, all women are bisexual.  I don’t mean pro-actively bi-sexual.  Most women aren’t actively seeking out other girls to be with, or even fantasizing about being with other women all the time.  But there’s nothing in a woman’s innate programming that makes her go “ewww, sex with another woman?  Yuck!”  For the 5% of women that think that way, it is pure cultural conditioning.

They’ve done studies where they show to women… girl-on-girl romantic adult movies, and all women have heightened sexual arousal from watching those films.

So any woman that you know; most likely she’s already fantasized about being with other women and in principle it’s no problem for her to do it.

#2: women are looking for new adventure.

Most women nowadays have free time and material possessions like never before.  But, on the other hand, they tend to lead rather boring, unfulfilled lives.

They watch television, they buy things, they’re always chasing after the next “pick me up” to feel validated.

Women are BORED basically and they crave extreme feelings and being whisked away into great sex and a fantasy life of sexual adventure.

So it’s not that hard to show them that a far cooler world based on fun, wild sex with other cool girls exists.

And then you give them a taste of that amusement ground, when you make it fun and passionate and adventurous, women will jump on board and they’ll stick around for the ride.  They’ll want to be enthusiastic adventurers with you.  They’ll want to become starlight girls for you.

Because you’re by far the most exciting thing that they’ve got going on in their lives that’s actually real.

And especially when you’re giving the girl hot, dominant, alpha-man sex that she can’t get from any other guy, then that is definitely the adventure she’ll want to follow through with as long as she can.

And remember, every woman has two sides to her.

A woman has the artificial woman she SHOWS on the surface to the world that is proper and lady-like.

And she has the natural woman she FEELS underneath.

And once you understand how to tap into the natural woman, the core woman, the real, sexual woman, then you will understand that women enjoy being with women and that women enjoy sex and experimental sex.  And that it’s normal, and natural, and enjoyable for them.

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#3: Girls with girls is simply more accepted in our culture now.

You know, 50 years ago, even if you wanted to a relationship with two women, there was so much religious and social guilt and shame and potential scandal and embarrassment associated with it, most women would not even entertain the notion.

But in the last 15 years, acceptance of gay marriage among young people has risen dramatically, you have girl-on-girl kisses in the movies and on television, and especially with the ubiquitous spreading of instant-access and instant-download porn on the Internet, girls with girls has become pretty… you could say, normal.

Yeah, it’s still cutting edge, but I’d say that 80% of the social stigma of a girl with a girl has fallen to the wayside.

So just more social acceptance and less guilt, less resistance to you making it happen than ever before.

#4: Momentum

You know how it can be a challenge sometimes to get into a woman’s pants the first time.  If you haven’t slept with a woman yet, the momentum is against you and you’ve got to work to get her into bed.

But once you sleep with a woman the first time, now momentum is on YOUR side.  A girl would rather have sex with a guy she already knows, even if that guy has lots of flaws, than to take a risk finding another guy to have sex with.

Particularly if you’re a good lover, you’re a hard-to-find commodity and she’s going to try to please you and try to get your approval, so that you’ll remain in a relationship with her.

So when you pull a woman into having threesomes with another girl, she’s going to want to please you and get your approval.  She might put up resistance to it initially, but if you stand your ground of what you want from the relationship, a lot of girls will go along with it just to keep you.

So momentum is on your side when it comes to women you’ve already slept with.  And that gives you the advantage to make starlight relationships with two girls happen.  The power has shifted into your hands.

#5: A dominant guy who is so strong and alpha that he’s fucking two girls is a sexual turn-on to women.

They enjoy it. When a girl finds herself in a position where a strong, alpha man is fucking her AND another woman in the bed, it’s like you are being social proofed automatically.

By the very fact that you have two women in your bed, suggests to the girls that you are in-demand and worthy of fucking because how many guys have two women in their bed?  Like none.  Except for you.

In other words, the very fact that you are having sex with her AND another woman automatically pre-selects you as being a powerful alpha male, which is what women ultimately want and find attractive in a man, and both girls unconsciously assume you’re highly valuable.

Just like being lifted off the ground, pushed up against the wall, and having her panties ripped off, and beings “taken” by a strong man is hot and animalistic to a woman, and the stuff of steamy romance novels, being “taken” with a second woman is also just as hot.

#6: Women follow the strongest reality.

Look. if you present to women a strong reality and you don’t buckle when they initially congruence test you on it, they will follow you and will follow your lead.

So if you make it clear from the beginning to a woman that you are perfectly okay with girls being with other girls in bed, and you’re okay with it, girls will be okay with it too.

Look, women in general, are extremely open and malleable. Women are experimental, especially young women. They’re cool with kissing and being with other girls. They’re ready to adapt to new situations… IF you present to them a dominate frame with absolute certainty that this going to happen and that this is good and normal for them.

Take meeting girls in a bar for example.  If you go up to a woman all relaxed and positive, most likely, the girl will respond back relaxed and positive.  She’s going to naturally mirror your state.

And if she’s instead being bitchy for whatever reason, as long as you remain relaxed and positive in the face of her negativity, as long as you don’t react to her, eventually you can turn most women around.  As long as you remain positive, the girl will become positive too and warm up to you.  As long as you present the stronger reality by not reacting, you’ll lead the girl whether it’s at a bar or into starlight relationships with you.

#7: With more than one girl, the sex is better for both the girls.

Look, you’ve only got one penis and it’s an effort, a real effort, to do all the work yourself especially when there’s two young, energetic girls in your bed.

But with two girls you can command the girls to pleasure each other and they’re more likely to reach orgasm and have satisfying sex with each other, which is especially great on those occasions when you’re pooped out and tired.

That’s what’s great about relationships with two starlight girls… is that the girls can takeover doing most of the work of getting each other off as long as you are leading them and directing them to do so, and you can just relax, and watch, and have fun.

So the girls win, and you win.

#8: Women are social creatures.

Women like to make new friends with other girls.  Women like to make deep connections.  Women enjoy sharing love.  Girls love to love.  It’s pure feeling to them.

And that includes girls loving girls.  They become special sisters in a way.  They’ve shared something intimate together.  They’ve shared a secret.  So when two girls really hit it off in bed, you’ve given them a real gift to the girls and they both win.  And they come to love you for that.

And when they have enough experiences like that, they’re not even interested in going back to regular monogamy again because they enjoy sharing you with their new starlight girlfriends.  So it can be a real win-win situation for all the women involved.

#9: Jealousy does not have to a big issue.

Yes, if one girl has an insanely jealous disposition, the relationship would have a negative vibe and it wouldn’t even get off the ground.  And you just don’t include that personality type in your plans if the girl goes off the walls in mad rages of emotional explosions.

But a little bit of jealously, a normal amount of light jealousy, which is what you’ll find in most girls, like 95% of them, which you’d think would be a bad thing, is actually NOT a bad thing.  A little bit of jealousy actually works FOR you in making the relationships hotter between the women.

Two girls in bed together with one man creates competition and a little jealously. This is actually a GOOD thing.  Because a little jealousy makes a woman wet between the legs and hot.  And they’ll fuck you even harder.

So it’s actually something that you want to have happen and you can channel that emotional energy into even better sex which I’ll show you how to do later.

#10: Momentum again.

Once the girls do a threesome the first time with you, it’s no longer taboo, it’s no stronger strange, it just becomes part of their identities of who they are.

Now they’ve had sex with another woman.  It’s already done.  And after their first time they become really easy and cool about it.

Once they’ve done it the first time, a woman will often embrace other girls very easily and without resistance.

So once you get over that initial speed bump of the girl’s first threesome experience, it gets very easy from there on out.

Okay, so those are the 10 quick reasons why you can make relationships with two starlight girls work and have two girlfriends on your bed at once, and have confidence in the next lessons and what I’m going to tell you to bring it all together and make it happen in your own life.

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  1. matt

    very cool! might give it a try.

    • Jesse Charger

      Yes, do !

  2. Tantric-Master (57yrs)

    Just read your , lesson refering to Starlight, girls (is that what you call them in the USA ?), How true , and to the point. To have a 2nd girl to join ones twosome, requires that your original twosome partner, has 100% trust in you as a guy, knowing you will respect, her , her mind, and her body..and she will have had girl on girl thoughts, and fantasies, after all girls are “Lovers” moreso than fuckers, but if they can get and give both , their sex lives will be more fulfilling.True they only have one penis, but when taken in turn as being the center of attention so far as pleasuring is concerned , one penis , two sets of hands , two tongues, and the closeness of two loving caring bodies connecting, is better and more intense than one on one, taking sex to “another level”.Multiple Orgasms can be expected for each girl in turn, on the menu , so to speak. and when they have both been taken there. an extra 0rgasm for each ,male stimulated , can sometimes be timed to be simultaneous for each girl, and when they both “Cum” together , the Alfa guy is king, but it was not really down to him, it was down to what went on before as a threesome, that had heightened the level of sexual arousal, so much so that one more for each girl, sincronized to go off at the same time, ain`t too difficult .So if there are any girls in the uk wanting to try,…l`m the guy.

  3. Roberto

    There is one point that is rarely mentioned..and it’s STDs.
    Yeah, I know it’s a downer subject..but, it’s real.
    For some reason, in our society, STDs are rarely mentioned.
    It seems to be such a taboo subject that, almost, no one wants to talk about it and we seem to be in denial.
    I wouldn’t feel safe with a woman who doesn’t address this subject or who doesn’t get tested, regularly.
    I have noticed that it is difficult to get concise, easy to understand info about STDs and good guidance.
    People who are concerned about their health and want to have various partners, group sex, etc., will pay special attention to STDs and people they can trust.

    • Bruce

      Well said Roberto, condoms all the time for me, no problem, don’t know what sex feels like without them…..when I have condoms on I worry about nothing and if you are a jesse Charger reader you would know that he Really promotes the use of condoms

    • Lily

      Sorry to be a downer but unfortunately, condoms (assuming no slip ups) aren’t enough as they don’t protect against herpes or HPV (which leads to cervical cancer). Also the girls could get from each other. When you’ve known someone who has died from cervical cancer as I do, you tend to think about these things a bit more.

  4. H

    Very very interesting stuff!

  5. brah

    Your article is so full of it my gf would never have a 3 some. You say women are social creatures sure my girlfriend has close bonds with her bffs but that doesn’t mean they are going to get naked and have sex with each other. LOL life is not some porno and thankfully most women are straight.

    • Jesse Charger

      Sounds like you’re worried about being cheated on by your girl

    • J L

      My GF loves the occasional threesome. They bring us closer together.

    • Mia

      I bet she is having sex with each other and leaving you out!!! Poor thing you!

  6. brah

    “In their teens in high school, women naturally hold hands, they naturally kiss, and women experiment. Being on another soft girl feels perfectly natural to a woman.”

    What is cultural conditioning is what you just mentioned. In my family its normal for men to kiss each other on the cheek as greeting that is cultural and people in the United States might see it as being homosexual but its not. In the United States its ok for girls to be close and they do it for attention mainly.

  7. Anonymous

    Actually, I am showing my boyfriend this because I want us to have fun with another girl. I totally agree about women being very loving (we are emotional) creatures and wanting to share it. We are sensual but years of reoression tell us it’s only ok for men to have sex outside of relationships with mistresses etc. I want to be open and honest with my boyfriend inviting a woman to the bedroom.

    I totally agree all women are bisexual… They are just in denial. It’s annoying when ‘straight’ women tease and lead you on, you KNOW they want to have sex with another girl but tell themselves they were just doing it ‘as a joke’.

    • Jesse Charger

      Smaarrrt

      • Vanessa

        Smart? You mean, in a misogynist way? If so, then yes, sure, she’s “smart”! :)

    • Mia

      I agree with you! I always have sex with my husband and sexy girl friends!
      We have fun all together! We, girls know how to share ;)

    • Vanessa

      I’m pretty sure why you want to have a threesome with your BF and another girl…the reason is obvious!

      You want to use this against him when he denies you an MFM threesome…so pathetic, if you want to do something ask for it. If you don’t want to, then don’t do it just for the seek of your BF!

    • Syzygy

      Well, NO! Ew! Call me a homophobe, if you like, but I’m not “in denial”, thank you. I’m very straight. I’ve never even fantasized about another woman. I can appreciate the beauty of the female body but for me, there’s nothing sexual about it. IF I were bisexual, I would rather just sleep with a woman (“twosome”), than stroking the ego of some supposed “Alpha man” by kneading the breasts of a supposed “bisexual woman” and watching him fuck her before my very eyes. Three is a crowd. IF I had to do a threesome, it would be with two men.

  8. sky

    I am concerned why my girlfriend wants a threesome. I think it’s possible that she’s wanting to re-live her previous experiences as having the really kinky sex life but also have the stability she has with me. I have wanted a threesome for years, but it is something I would have never asked my girlfriend for because it is not normal, in my eyes. I care about her so much, and this makes me worried that I shouldn’t have her in my future if she is fine with me having sex with another girl right in front of her. What would ever make it okay to have sex with another girl?

    My main concern is that it would somehow ruin our relationship if we did it, but the fact that she wants to do it is enough to bother me. What advice can you give me?

  9. sky

    Jesse, I have also heard of couples that have done it and it becomes a slippery slope, considering the initial boundary was crossed. At what point does it become okay for all of this to go down? I don’t want to become a swinger with my girlfriend, but it would be fun relationship. It is the dream, especially when she wants to bring hot girls in with us. However, I don’t think this kind of thing is consistent with two people that truly care about each other. I feel like if we start down this slippery slope I will automatically exclude her from my future. Why would it be okay for my wife to have watched me cheat on her right in front of her?

    On a side note, her bringing this up has honestly made me really self-conscious about my past, because there is a lot a have not experienced, and her surprise at the fact I haven’t makes me there is something wrong with me for not accomplishing it. The fact that my girlfriend has done so much more sexually in her past is not ideal, but I love her and of course I’m not going to judge it. It’s just difficult to get past in some cases because I start envisioning some asshole who doesn’t care about her railing her.

    This whole thing leads me to two questions: 1. I want to do it because it sounds fun, but would it be good for the relationship? 2. Should I be concerned that she wants to do this?

    • Jesse Charger

      Sky, this requires an involved answer, copy and paste all your questions to the forum area here:
      http://www.seductionscience.com/lounge/

    • Mia

      It is perfect for the realtionship! It is not cheatting if you are both
      Mature! And you are all having sex with each other in the same place and time!

  10. sky

    I need advice on this Jesse, I can’t get it off my mind. I am going to try to get a hold of some psychological help for guidance, but I am unfamiliar with my new health care plan, and I haven’t figured out how or where I would get that help.

    I have been reading your site for quite some time now, and maybe you remember my long post on your article about negs (by the way I tried posting on the forum like you said and I did not have very good luck with people giving advice).

    I would consider you an expert and trust your advice, and if you could best try to answer those two questions above ^ then that would help me a lot. I’m searching for advice in a number of different avenues and I wanted to ask you too.

    Threesomes are somewhat taboo and maybe that societal belief is why it’s stressing me out, but it undoubtedly is also why I didn’t know how to respond at first too.

    Please help me out Jesse!
    -sky

  11. Anonymous

    I am a man, who wants to find two bisexual girls to join me !
    I have not found them yet, do they exist ?
    I am waiting for you girls !

    • Vanessa

      Give up, buddy, not gonna happen! :)

  12. viejo

    My gilfirend.. soemwhat older.. says it’s been a life long fantasy of heres.. to have hot chick joing us.. no specificity as to how hot.. but she wants the experience. I am not a prude… but have always been monogamous in mind and body. Inviting another into our shared intimacy seems to only dilute the strong feelings I have for her.. her pleasure is mine also but with a third party for her to devote attention to seems a bit diluting to the passions I have for her.. I have always been dedicated to her needs.. but a third party results in upstaging my desire to please her. Another woman in the room giving and receiving pleasures relegates me to the “bench” and must patiently wait my turn at “bat.” Thus I am conflicted about transforming “us” into “we” as it says I am not enough. And, that is the locus of my insecurity.

  13. Ada

    Of course every woman want a threesome, with 2 MEN, it is a part of our identity, of who we are…
    Not sure if I will ever fulfill that fantasy, …how sad

    • Vanessa

      Finally someone speaking true!

      Threesomes with 2 men are better than threesome with 2 women, for us, women!

      The only reason why guys say that women are bisexual, is because they like to think that their GFs will have a threesome with them and another girl…WAKE UP GUYS, THAT’S NOT HAPPENING! :) or at least not with a girl like me ;)

  14. Mia

    We, girls love yummy sexy shaved pink….my theory is, the ones that do not admit it, is becasue they do not have enought security of themselves, and because of that, they miss a whole lot of fun. p.s: awesome wives know how to share ;)

  15. LittleWolf

    I agree with most things in the article apart from liking a man pushing me against a wall and ripping off my panties because he is an alpha male.

    My boyfriend is the shyest, sweetest creature ever and was a virgin when I met him. I do like bringing the animalistic side out of him but I like him being sexually aggressive because he can’t keep his hands off me and I stir those feelings in him, not because he’s some arrogant prick. Admittedly I like it when other women flirt with him and he gets a bit of an ego boost. Bot because I think I have snagged the best one to make babies with, but for his emotional well being. Ultimately I don’t want an alpha cave man. I like taking care of him (sexually…and making him cake, cleaning etc of my own accord)

    I do really want a threesome with another woman though. I am extremely attracted to women sexually, morseso than men and I think it would give him a confidence boost. I am love with him for who he is and not by what he looks like. He will never be in competition with anyone else emotionally and I fully trust him to enjoy other women sexually, because I know he loves me.

    Women are naturally bisexual, but social discourse dictates that we suppress it. This is less of an issue nowadays because of lesbian porn.

    I want to share this fantasy with his so bad for both our enjoyment…

  16. stacey

    Thank you,,,,,wish me luck on my threesome

  17. Bill

    My wife won’t budge! I’m gonna try this!

  18. Vanessa

    Alright, I’m a straight woman. I’ve never dated/kissed/flirted with women, but I have fantasized about that, not gonna lie.

    However, I haven’t fantasized with a FMF threesome as much as I have with a MFM.
    Call me a slut, call me a whore, call me a bitch…you can call me whatever you want, but a liar.
    Because the truth is that MOST WOMEN FANTASIZE MORE ABOUT HAVING SEX WITH TWO MEN THAN HAVING SEX WITH A MAN AND A WOMAN.

    It’s funny because people nowadays (mostly men) are OK with a guy having a threesome with two girls, they even applaud him to do so!
    But when it comes to women having a threesome with two men, it’s almost impossible not to hear comments like “she’s such a whore”, “I’d never date a girl like that”, “the men are probably gay”, “what a slut”, “she was probably just being used by them”, “LOL! That’s not a threesome, that’s a train!”, etc etc.

    And just so you know, I WOULD NEVER AGREE TO HAVE A THREESOME WITH A GUY AND ANOTHER GIRL JUST TO KEEP THE GUY. That is just silly! Some women aren’t that insecure, or at least not me… ;)

    If a guy wants to have sex with another girl that just means two things:
    1-He either isn’t satisfased with out sex life
    2-Or he thinks our relationship isn’t serious and wants to fulfill his fantasy before breaking up with me

    Oh, and a quick funny story; I had once a boyfriend who asked me to have a threesome with another girl, I said no, he kept insisting, he bought a chick home and she started flirting with me, I told her to fuck off, I DUMPED HIM, and next week I was having a threesome with two men!
    And the best part of all of this, is that he accidentally walked in on us having sex! LOL! You should have seen his face, it was hiliarous! xD

    Hahaha, me sharing my man? No way…

    Have a nice day! :)

  19. Anonymous

    Laughable

  20. Syzygy

    Wishful thinking.

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