Let me introduce you to a critical principle of the Bedroom Bull – the Sweet Pain principle.
A woman’s evolutionary purpose is to have babies with a strong man that can protect her and her children from danger, allowing the woman to successfully propagate her genes into future generations.
Thus a woman’s world revolves around her strong man and the future children she may have with him. She will do whatever it takes to be sexually desirable for him and to keep his cock returning to her vagina, and not straying to another woman’s.
What this means for you, the man, is this: a woman is there to be your pleasure palace. Her sole purpose is to have your babies and do whatever it takes to sexually get you off.
In return, she gets the safety and warm arms of a Bedroom Bull.
And it’s that sexual polarity that makes both yourself and the woman most happy and fulfilled. Remember, sexual polarity = happiness.
So by guiding a woman to express her femininity in how she dresses, in how she walks, you bring to her real happiness and inner fulfillment. And she’ll LOVE you for that. It’s a GIFT you bring to the woman. Your guidance and leadership is what will make her go to ends of the Earth for you with respect and gratitude.
Remember, as a man, it’s your JOB to bring out the sexual polarity in the relationship – and that includes things like giving her permission and having her wear high heel shoes and sexual clothes as a matter of regular habit.
And it’s not always comfortable. In fact, many times it’s uncomfortable. Many times it can be downright PAINFUL. Like high heel shoes – I’m not making any claim that they’re comfortable at all.
But with all beauty comes a little bit of PAIN.
Taking her free hour to get her hair and nails done to turn you on? That’s PAIN.
Wearing high heels for an hour as a sexy slave while she cooks you dinner to turn you on? That’s PAIN.
Putting all her weight on her knees as she takes your cock gagging down her throat, defiled and used for sex while you call her an oral slut? That’s PAIN.
Holding her tongue and instead speaking in a sweet, soft voice to follow her strong man’s lead? That’s PAIN.
Hitting the gym or getting big, fake tits so that her body turns you on? That’s PAIN.
The life of a feminine woman, a wicked Mistress, who’s sole purpose is to be her strong man’s pleasure slave, is one of PAIN.
But it’s a SWEET pain. A woman derives deep, deep pleasure for making a man sexually happy with her and keeping his cock coming back to her vagina. It’s in her core evolutionary programming to do so.
She may feel physical pain while on her knees, but the excitement of being sexually used for sex by her strong Bedroom Bull far outweighs the discomfort.
She may feel uncomfortable wearing heels, but knowing she’s turning her strong man on and will be ravished for doing so far outweighs the slight burn.
In the short term, getting breast enhancements is certainly painful, but the thousands of ogling eyes from men that reinforce her identity as a sexually feminine, wicked Mistress will far outweigh the temporary hurt, particularly if her new breasts please her strong man.
They’re soft and sweet on the outside. But they’re willing to be sinful, wicked creatures for the long term gain of their man, even if it causes them short term pain. It’s painful yes, but yet it feels so GOOD to be bad… that’s the lesson of Sweet Pain.
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So yes, it may be uncomfortable for a woman to wear high heels or dress sexy for you. It takes up her time and it’s not always physically comfortable. But if you’re playing this game right, it will be her greatest sweet PLEASURE to acquiesce to your wishes.
“The Boss” and “The Slave Girl”
Having feminine polarity is resource intensive and can be painful. It can mean wearing high heels, wearing lingerie, talking dirty in bed… it may mean working out at the gym to get in shape or doing her makeup.
But a woman, left to her own devices, without leadership and direction, will tend to be lazy. She’ll want to keep you attracted, but with minimal effort on her part.
That’s why you want to have a mentality of being “The Boss” and treating your Mistress like “The Slave Girl.” Meaning you lay down the rules, she follows your lead, and you play boss to make sure actions are followed through.
If you’re not giving her tough leadership, a woman will often not follow through. At work, the boss sometimes has to play dictator to make employees follow through; likewise, at home sometimes you have to play boss dictator to make your woman follow through. Don’t be afraid to enforce discipline.
That’s what she wants you to be, deep down, to be the enforcer and disciplinarian over her bad habits. It’s that very quality that makes you the masculine, leading, Bedroom Bull. You don’t take her excuses.
That’s what makes Sweet Pain both Sweet and Painful. Painful because you’re forcing her to do it – and Sweet for the very same reason – because you’re forcing her to do it.
Don’t let her eat a box of Oreos while watching television on the couch. Don’t accept her whining or bad attitude. Don’t accept that she won’t dress up for you and suck you off on demand. She’s your wicked Mistress – she has to act like one. Your enforcement of the rules is what makes the pain so sweet. Your enforcement of the rules is the very quality that makes you a sexy Bedroom Bull.
Being the boss has nothing to do with being a jerk. You don’t give her ultimatums to get your way. You don’t yell and scream to make her act. You don’t sleep with her friend to get revenge. You don’t walk away and act grumpy. That’s all child pettiness, the very opposite of being a Bull.
You’re a gentlemen… yet an enforcer. Always playful, always fun, always smiling, always cool… but you don’t take bad behavior either. That’s what makes her pain feel so, so sweet.
Your pal, Jesse