How Far Can Good Looks REALLY Take You With Hot Girls?

Some guys claim that looks are NOT a factor in picking up women AT ALL.

But the real truth is a little trickier.

The downside of having good looks from birth is that it makes you LAZY.   You have some easy lays in high school, but never develop your personality or your game.  You’re never forced to STEP UP.

That’s why you see a lot of good looking and famous guys with mediocre-looking women, just as kids born rich typically become spoiled brats and make for lazy and petty adults.

But what if you were REALLY good looking AND you were enlightened enough to pro-actively meet hot women…

Can’t the male-model hunk just walk into a bar or club and have it EASY meeting cute girls… and have the girls game HIM?

Don’t looks help… a LOT?

The short answer is, Yes.

BUT there’s a catch.

What If You Were A Male Model Hunk

Our male-model hunk (let’s call him Fabio) will have an EASY time with average-looking girls and even cute girls – the 6’s, 7’s, and even 8’s.

Because if you’re a gorgeous male model, you can be a real catch to an average-looking girl.  She’ll want you on her arm to show you off to her friends as a status symbol.

A 6 or 7 may also want to fuck you simply for validation – proof to themselves that they’re desirable and attractive.

And yet other women will still push you AWAY because they’ll think a pretty boy like you would only be interested in an average-looking girl for one reason, and one reason only: quick “fuck her and dump her” sex.

This is all assuming that you’re VERY attractive, in the top 1% of attractiveness among all men.

And you really need to be in the top 1% if you wanted to rely on your looks alone to pull women.  “Decently handsome” (in the top 10%) won’t cut it.

If you’re just “decently handsome”, girls will throw you indicators of interest, but that’s about it.  It’s not enough to make them game you based on your looks alone.  You’ll still need game, and you’ll still need to do all the work yourself.

But even IF you are dashingly-handsome, that will still only work on pulling girls that are 6’s, 7’s and some 8’s.

Because “good looks” does NOT work on the real female hotties – the 9’s and 10’s.

Here’s why.

Good Looking Guys And Getting 9’s And 10’s

Because no matter how good looking you are, it doesn’t change a simple fact – there are very FEW real female 9’s and 10’s out there to be had.

You see, women are mostly lazy.  They don’t want to workout, they don’t want to exercise, they don’t want to eat right, and they don’t want to dress up to look fancy.

So the girls that DO all that is like spotting a damn unicorn.  There’s just not too many of them.

And there’s WAY more men that are rich with money and hitting the gym, than there are really beautiful women.

For every knock-out stunningly beautiful woman, there’s about 30 dudes driving expensive cars and working out and taking steroids to kiss the girl’s ass to make her like them.

Douche-Baggery Example #1

And for every physically fit, tight-bodied female hottie who hits the gym, there’s about 30 dudes hitting the gym to get ripped up and buff to try to impress her.

It’s because men are simply more PRO-ACTIVE about getting laid than women are.

And for every girl at the gym working out hard to sculpt a kick-ass body, you’ve got 30 guys at the gym doing the same thing.

Douche-Baggery Example #2

Women are just generally passive creatures and don’t try that hard to become a “9” or “10” in looks.

So for the few real female hotties out there, really good looking guys are a dime-a-dozen to them.

So even if you’re hitting up the gym hard, even if you are rich, or even if you’re naturally tall and dashingly handsome, the problem is that there’s twenty OTHER dudes ALSO relying on their looks and money to get the SAME GIRL!

Douche-Baggery Example #3

So just relying on good looks and using a “hello” opener, still wouldn’t land you a super duper “10” hottie.

She may take notice of you, but it wouldn’t generate that HARD attraction that would make her chase you down.  To her, you’re still just another guy trying to kiss her ass.

That’s where Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control comes in, and why “ugly” guys can do BETTER at landing top hotties than “pretty boys”…

How Gaming 9’s and 10’s Breaks All The “Normal” Rules

When you walk up to a “9” or a “10” and you go right up to her, get up close to her face, smile, put your arm around her shoulder, push her away from you, pull her back in, and you’re relaxed like you OWN HER…

… she HAS to pay attention to you.

Because NO other guy will physically LEAD her like that.

She’ll just ASSUME that you’re the mutha-fuckin’ SHIT, no matter what you “look like”.

So as rare as female “9’s” and “10’s” are, a guy that will LEAD her physically is still even RARER.

For every guy that will physically lead beautiful women, you’ve got your choice of TWENTY turbo hotties!

And that’s what creates MAD attraction, regardless of your looks, regardless of your income, regardless of how funny your are, and regardless of your conversational abilities!

Compare that to “pretty boys” and rich guys.  There’s literally TONS of guys trying to game women by drawing their self worth from their looks and money – but too scared and wussy to make bold moves.

They’re a dime-a-dozen to pretty girls and they only look “try hard”.

But when you physically LEAD a beautiful woman, it’s such a RARE thing to find in a man that the hot girls find themselves ALL OVER YOU.

That’s why it all comes down to GAME.  And NOT conversational-based game, but nonverbal and physical LEADING game!

That’s why I created the 15 hour Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control program, to show you exactly how I do it, step-by-step.  It’s the culmination of my 10 years experience in the field for pulling the REAL hotties, REGARDLESS of your looks.

Just click THIS link here to download it.

So yes, if you were dashingly-handsome you could be real LAZY and get laid with some 6’s, 7’s, and the occasional 8’s.  Just walk into a bar, strike up a conversation, and let the girl chase you.

But your looks are NOT a factor when it comes to the turbo hotties.

If you’re going for the “gold”, for the models and super babes, you need the edge that NO other guy is delivering to these women.

Physical and Nonverbal leading, with ease and confidence… it’s that simple.

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I really hate when guys touch me before I’ve gotten comfortable with them. Hot guys have done that, and I always resented them a little for not respecting that I might be sensitive to that. I do agree however, that most guys nice guys never approach hot women.

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I Almost Completely Disagree With With Most Of The Things You Have Written Jesse. Not Being Stuck Up Here But Throughout My Life (20 years old now) I Have Had Average To Hot Young , And Old Women Compliment ME oN (Even MEN) My Physical Appearance. I Have Been Approached Countless Times By 6’s and 7’s sometimes But Rarely 8’S 9’S AND 10’S . Height 6ft, Tanned Complexion, Clear Acne Free Skin,Shoulders Are Wider Than My Waist , No Crooked teeth, Defined Jawline, Boyish Slight Feminine Look To My Face. Lean Muscular Physique ect. Nearly All Of Those Things Are… Read more »
Dude
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Dude

Can anyone verify this guy’s claim that you need to start touching these random stranger women?

It seems like physical harassment and could get you in trouble if you do it to the wrong person.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

While this article contains some truth,most of what’s been written is false. Hot women like 9s and 10s go for strictly money and power.

Dude
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Dude

It depends on her upbringing, mostly. The ones who never dated good looking men WILL want looks.

The ones who shagged a lot of models and athletes will no longer care about looks but will try to secure a future with a rich guy.

mike
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mike

Because you can get a picture in the bar with girls
it doesn’t mean you are good with getting girls, idiot

Anonymous
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Anonymous

nice everything

Anonymous
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Anonymous
well I kinda disagree a little 🙂 I’m in the top 2 percent in looks and I can have any effing chick I want literally. I have had to pry chicks hands off me in nightclubs and I never opened or whatever you callit first LOL, have had them tell me their horny in the unisex bathroom and start making out with me, ive been (and witnessed other VGL bodybuilders) directly propositioned for sex on the spot, I get smiled at a lot when I’m out and about etc. the reason why I’m saying all this is that it’s very… Read more »
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tomas
Jesse, I utilized this exact method on a underwear model in Costa Rica, 23 yrs old and I am 51 (reasonably attractive and in excellent shape) I had her over for a training session last nite she commented she had never been dominated physically before nor ever had an orgasm with a man. She had 3 in one session one she actually tapped out it was so explosive. It so happens she is an incredible mature intelligent beautiful fertile sexually open girl who now cannot get enough of me. Guy’s get your game on sign up Jesse I have used… Read more »
The Boss
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The Boss
Tomas : No 51 year old dude can land a 23 year old model and consistently do uber young hotties. Unless of course, you’re Brad Pitt or you’re a millionaire , which you’re obviously not, but hey you can always fantasize, and in your mind its reality . I don’t care how much botox and juice you do there, how intelligent your game/ vocabulary is, and how drunk a girl is …. This is BS. I’m not jealous of anyone , I just know anyone can post BS online . Keep dreaming though …..
naveen
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naveen

hiiiiiii

alex
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alex
jesse, this is what most pickup coaches feed their students. actually, they go a step further and say “looks dont matter”. the unfortunate truth (for some) is that to the 9s and 10s, looks really do matter, more so than to the 7s and 8s. the fact is though, that in today’s society, where finding a true gentleman who looks good and has money in his pocket is even rarer than spotting a unicorn, women have become experts in “settling”. so when you see a hottie with a fat, short dumbass, you see her “settling” for his great personality, his… Read more »
A.IGNATIUS MASILARAJ
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A.IGNATIUS MASILARAJ

I like this advice of jessy charger very much because it’s all a harsh true facts of life…!

twoheadllama
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twoheadllama
Jesse’s right on this. I’m 1.66m, but have one advantage; I’m quite good-looking. But because I had no game, and was too terrified to touch girls; I didn’t get SHIT. Discovered Jesse in 2003..and he’s right. He’s absolutely right. I’m after one girl at the moment; a perfect-10..guys don’t approach her, month after month; ’cause she’s so damn intimidating [huge eyes, and a fiery intellect await you, should you get past her beauty…], she’s also a nice-girl, so goes for nice-boys. To get with a girl like this, you don’t even NEED great game..just better than 80% of other guys… Read more »
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Anonymous

I like cock

Anonymous
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Anonymous

😉 😐 😡 😈 🙄 😳 😮 :mrgreen: 😆 💡 👿 😥 ➡ 😛 😀 ❓ 😕 🙂 🙁 ❗ 😯 8)

JesusInBed
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JesusInBed

Just fucked a 10 with your tips. My life is complete.

jay
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jay

you just have to be 6 foot tall and over and look like superman you will get hot women all over you.

I think to get hot chicks:
– Height is a gigantic factor.
– Having a masculine face structure and body is a gigantic factor
– Having good hair or looking good bald is a gigantic factor.

As for shorter guys, you will have difficulty..the shorter the worse off, Average guys will have difficulty, tall fat guys not so much difficulty. tall super skinny guys maybe a little difficulty.

Jimmy
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Jimmy

Hey jay you do make a point…. It really helps because like Jesse said it shows dominate traits. But what people fail to realize is that alot times women might identify it by opening there mouth. And you just sit there like a hungry dog waiting for a response from her.

Andrea
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Andrea
I disagree that body and money/job are passive game. You have to work for a fit body and unless you were born with a trust fund, job/money shows ambition and its something you’ve worked for as well. I know I’m generalizing but there’s some truth to it. Looks is passive game to me. Being a hottie and sitting around while girls approach you is passive, but if it works and both end up together I’m sure no one complains. As a girl I’ll say, status is to women what beauty is to men. Status comes in many forms…looks, power, cars,… Read more »
Trey
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Trey

How does a guy who looks like Ronnie Coleman look to you?

Richard
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Richard
i only have scored a 10 once in my life but it was worth it. all my life people have said how good looking I am but im only 5 foot 7. i know i have to work on my game alot more. its living consciously everyday and getting balance. today i had a spare hour and i thought you what im always thinking about work and business. this is ridicuclous i need to think about having some fun. The sun was shinning so i approached 6 hotties within 1 hr. The more i did the confidence i felt, i… Read more »
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ella
Women are lazy and won’t do what it takes to be 10s. LOL. That’s because we know that being a 10 is something you’re BORN with. You can’t work out in a gym and become one. There are plenty of girls out there jogging, hitting the gym and what they’re doing is exercising their feminine curves away so they’re left with a boyish body and an average face. Also, men HAVE to be more proactive about getting laid and women don’t. I’m a six point five, but if I wanted some, I could go out to any bar today and… Read more »
Trey
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Yo, it’s possible for a girl to work her way to a 10 – it’s just that it’s grueling. Powerlifting, high protein and fat diet (low carbs), and tons of phytoestrogens build the hips, ass, thighs, and chest – sculpting a body fit for goddesses. There’s a decent site for this – I don’t have it off the top of my head, but if you’re a 6.5, you can be a 10 with just a little bit of work every week.

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Dan ,as I said before,I`m a woman and can tell you from my own experience:look doesn`t count at all to me.What counts is the brain rather than other :money,status,power,etc…..This average looking Joe very often has much more to offer than his muscles.He reads books ….or knows so much that his woman never gets bored…and the fact that Joe is shy -just a plus~because there are too many overconfident guys over there thinking they own the world….shy people tend to hide behind this shyness so much “goodness“ like imagination,fantasy,creativity….This shy Joe probably spent lots of time thinking ,reading,exploring when he was… Read more »
Henry
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Henry

Ah shuttup. Who cares what u have to say

Dan
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Dan

I think if you are an average looking Joe who is shy, you are s o l Average looking is on the ugly side now a days that’s how shallow women are.

Eagle
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Eagle

Yes, PASSIVE GAME (looks, clothes, body, sportscar, money, job title) doesn’t really work on its own.

ACTIVE GAME is what gets the results.

Aggressive active game backed up by powerful passive game is what gets spectacular results.

Some guy here said that women are drawn to power. That’s true. But power is active not passive. Powerful people are influencers, who move and shake (= game) their environment.

jacob
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I forgive her and don`t hate that woman or any woman for not liking me.I am incredibily attracted to that 6ft.tall east indian goddess born under the sign of leo the lion named sherry.I wish I was tall and handsome like people magazines`s sexiest man alive 1986 mark harmon and I was rich and charming and I could seduce and get that 6ft.tall east indian goddess.

jacob
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beautifull women are attracted to men`s looks,intelligence and personality.If you are a goodlooking guy that knows how to talk to women and say smart and interesting things they like they will be attracted and addicted to you.A woman`s libido depends on two things a man`s muscularity and his dick size.Not all women are going to like you.You have to like and start relationships with women who like you and stay away from women who hate you and are the wrong women for you.One mean bitch told me and she is a knockout born under the sign of aries the ram… Read more »
jacob
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jacob

not only did her comment hurt my feelings and crushed my self esteem,but it has given me a negative perception of women.Now I don`t feel sorry for women who get abused by cruel men,because that woman could be the devil who hates me or will disrespect me because she don`t like me.

Dude
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Dude

That’s it? All she said that there are better looking men and you break so easily? Man, I’ve been called gross, ugly and even I have more strength than you. Women call each other ugly all the time, so as men we should be able to handle the criticism.

Ryan
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Ryan

But she is hot but im not and a good looking boy (to her) likes her too what do ii do ❓

Ryan
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Ryan

what should i do about this hot girl thats allways with her friends but when i try to talk to her i freeze up like this 😯

CarlosMoran
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CarlosMoran

😳

Skkrottumm
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Skkrottumm

I like to suck my own cock all day, it’s more rewarding than chasing hotties.

Dan
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Dan
Women think differently to men Kent. Most man are turned on by hot sexy looking women (the outer picture). Where as, women are turned on by the feeling and the visual stories within their mind (The inner picture). If you creating an image of you in the woman’s mind that she finds arousing mentally and/or physically, you have a much higher chance of success than a guy with the most ripest body and the cutest face. That’s just the facts. Go to yahoo answer and ask the question… “What makes the man in the women’s minds… The body or the… Read more »
larry
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You guys are pretty funny. I am 59 years old, 5-10, bald, 30 pounds too much If you can handle the truth, keep reading My live-in girlfriend is a bi-sexual babe ex-swimsuit model The last threesome that we had was with a 23 year old Latina stripper from the hottest club in San Francisco My other regular girlfriend is an ex Miss Vermont (27 years old) Last summer I had a few very hot dates with a Brazilian model that I met at Lake Tahoe I could go on, but it is all about CONFIDENCE, Personality, and the guts not… Read more »
Henry
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Henry

Youre full of shit. Why dont you prove it. You can’t cos youre full of shit

In The Shadows
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In The Shadows

Or could it be that if she is a true 9 or a 10 leading her physically will work, but if she is anything less than that, trying to lead her physically too soon may not work well??

In The Shadows
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In The Shadows

Well aren’t we talking about walking a fine line here? On the one hand you may very well pull that hottie, but on the other what are the odds that she freaks out because you toched her and calls the badass bouncer. U might just get beaten up or thrown out of the club or both??

HowToMack
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Great Post.

I’ve found that the best looking girls can actually be some of the easiest to pull because, most guys just don’t have the balls to step to them boldly. If you can step up like a man, you definitely do not need great looks or dough.

These guys complaining about what you say make me laugh. Everybody has got an excuse for why they can’t succeed. What can I say Jesse, you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink!

shadlove
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Jesse, most of what you say is true. Leading physically to show that you’re an alpha male IS the most powerful asset you can show to pull the hotties BUT that doesn’t change the fact that good looks, money, conversational ability, reputation, fame, etc will certainly help if you have these assets in addition to the status you’ll display via physical leadership. This is why most “Dating Gurus” do reccommend getting in shape, dressing well, taking dance lessons, paying attention to posture, taking steps to attain a good career, etc. Yes, women don’t get as attracted to good looks as… Read more »
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Hello guys what Jesse has been teaching is 101% true.I have followed this dating series for four years in my campus live.I am a perfect example.I used to rely on good looks(clothes,hair styles,money..) but that did not work.The inner confidence that Jesse has taught me has changed my life.Currently i have a shaggy hair,not much money(am a student) but the non -verbal sexual mind control is working.I no longer go for what the society thinks is right but for what i want.The game is all about confidence.It’s either you have it or not. I can now stand on a street… Read more »
Kent
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Kent
Jesse, I appreciate your rebuttals on this but I have to say I have never experienced hot women even when I was or have had status. Hell I have friends that play in bands (like I have) that are fairly successful and have “game” if you will and we have all struck out. It was always the pretty boys that were our roadies or side guys that got the girls. No I am sorry women about as visual as men (maybe a little less but not much) and they go for looks first. The leadership thing has merits but that… Read more »
Dude
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Dude

No. I’ve seen beautiful women “revenge date ” by going out with unattractive men simply because they want to make other men jealous. That is right, these same women who would have screamed at the thought of dating unattractive men when they were teenagers, are now getting to bed with them. I KID YOU NOT.

liv
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liv
HI ! Well I know maybe it`s a bit late for my comment here but I am a woman and believe that looks don`t count much.Specially to me.I can see all those guys with big muscles and think “how desperate they must be ?!“.It does not mean they are disqualified )…but these never get my attention.You know what it means in reality?Less time with this muscle guy as he must stay in the gym to keep his “good looks“,it means they might be slightly “off balance“ or thinking too much about their looks or a bit shallow…So this is my… Read more »
Shawn
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Shawn

Thanks Jesse enjoyed it. I worry too much about my looks which only holds me back in a terrible way, and I’m a relatively good looking guy. And you’re right, I get some looks from girls but that’s about it. I need to step up!

Alexander.
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Alexander.

I believe what Kent said.Even in Nigeria,Africa,women pick for power.Now,prove all that Kent said is wrong.Prove it.

Kent
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Kent
I also forgot that hot women like to parade their hot guys around friends. I have seen this in my social circle often. They date some tall good looking dude and bring them to parties, around friends – its like a sport to them. Absolutely. They like the attention it gives them. Being a hot woman today is sheer power. They can pick any guy they want (for the most part – if the guy is not married but even then…), choose when and how to be with them and its their world. Game is not what does it. Trust… Read more »
Kent
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Kent
I just do not believe this at all. 9’s and 10’s go for wealth, status or looks because THEY CAN. Thats very important. These women know they can get that and they do. Its evolutionary. This is completely wrong. Not from my experiences and I am about as well traveled as you are Jesse. What do you base this article on? Do you have facts to back all this up? AND Women today are aggressive. I was out tonight at a bar with my studly 6’2 good looking friend and three women approached him. He got two numbers. Pretty good… Read more »
Eric
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Eric

Hey Jesse I have to ask you this: so I’m a pretty good lookin guy and I’ve heard this all of my life but there’s one problem I have like buck teeth and I’m really hate it like Im always thinkin if she’s lookin at them so do you have any advice for me?

Martin
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Martin

You’re right on the mark Jesse. It’s all about status, not looks. Good looks can be an indicator of status but nothing more and it’s not enough for the really hot girls.

I’ve got a friend who’s good looking but he’s too scared to open girls so he just hooks up with the random 6’s and 7’s.

I’ve got another buddy who’s very social, but very average in looks, and he’s with much more attractive girls. Why? Because he leads them, physically and verbally.

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