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Getting women is not a passive course.
You must do the work.
You must practice.
I’m shocked by the number of people who go through life expecting something and doing nothing. I can help guide you along in the right direction, but in the end you are responsible for making it happen, for changing your own habits and behaviors. Because you only become good at what you practice.
At the beginning you’ll have what’s called unconscious incompetence. At this stage you don’t realize how poor your skills are or know how to go about improving them. You don’t know what is even possible.
But with practice you move on to conscious incompetence. At this second stage you’re trying new stuff out and you may feel a little awkward. You may get the feeling that, “this isn’t you.”
This is the most difficult stage and where some people tend to give up. Conscious incompetence is like trying to ride a bike but you keep falling down. You have a goal, you know where you want to go, but it always seems like you’re getting bruised. But don’t give up. Everything new will seem a little weird at first.
The real rewards come shortly after, at the stage of conscious competence.
When you reach conscious competence, you’ve got inside your head a whole host of new skills. They begin to feel comfortable to you, like part of your natural skin. But you still need to remember, concentrate, and focus on expressing your new skills out to the world around you.
After about two or three months of practice you may begin to reach the stage of unconscious competence. This is where you eventually want to be. With unconscious competence, the new skills, habits, and behaviors have fully become part of you and you’re completely natural with them. You use them without even thinking about it.
If you’re still a little confused, here’s the difference between conscious competence and unconscious competence.
The left side of your brain processes through conscious reasoning. The right side of your brain processes through unconscious emotion. When acquiring any new skill, you want it to be so ingrained that it’s your unconscious right brain processing it.
An adult who plays a little piano but has to consciously think about what key to press next is using their left brain to play. They may be able to competently churn out a tune, but they will never be a virtuoso who has an intuitive sense about music and piano playing.
On the other hand, an adult who learned piano as a child can play the exact same music – but with a different part of their brain, the right side of their brain. They “see” the music all at once and their fingers just know where to go intuitively. This is the difference between conscious competence and unconscious competence.
Everyone has skills of conscious competence, including you. For example, when you walk you don’t think to yourself, “okay first my left foot, then my right foot, then my left foot again.” No, you just walk and your feet know where to go all by themselves. You don’t think about it or worry about it.
But that level of proficiency only happens over time and with plenty of practice.
Also, keep a journal. I keep one. I write down everything that I’ve done that day, the people I’ve approached and what happened in the interaction. I’ll jot down my thoughts, feelings, and where I could have improved.
So I encourage you to keep a separate journal for seduction and seduction alone. Write in it every day detailing your encounters with women.
Having a journal as a constant reference to look back on and gauge your progress is invaluable. Plus you learn a lot faster when you write things out. A busy mind comes up with great ideas, but instead of loosing them you’ll have them on hand in your journal. I can’t tell you how many great ideas are lost when you don’t give yourself permission to write them down!
~ Jesse
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