Is It Okay To Date Far Younger Women, Even ‘Barely Legal’ Girls?

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The fact is, any red-blooded 85 year old man would make love to a teenage, 18 year-old girl if given half the chance and given her blessing.

And yes, it’s perfectly NORMAL to desire far younger women.

Any guy who says, “Oh I wouldn’t ever sleep with an 18 year old,” is either lying out of fear of being judged, or because societal reprogramming tells him to react that way.

Because from a biological standpoint, men are driven to mate with the most sexually fertile women.

And women are most sexually fertile when they hit puberty and continuing into their early 20s.

As a man, you’re programmed over millions of years of selection to be attracted to young women, with their budding breasts and widening hips.

Actual caveman evidence

And most men, regardless of their age, are exclusively attracted to younger women.

You’re not going to see Hugh Hefner dallying with 40 year olds, even though he’s over 80.

So it doesn’t make you “bad” or “creepy” to desire far younger women.  Men have always secretly desired very young women and they always will, regardless of what others think of it.

Yet many will label an older man “a pervert” for even admitting he’s attracted to younger girls.

That’s ridiculous.

Advertisers rub hyper-sexualized, young women into our faces non-stop to sell products, and then society tells us it’s wrong and shameful to admit our desire for them.

If 18 year-old girls were attractive back when you were 18, why wouldn’t you still be attracted to them because you’re 40?  Or 60?  …or 80!

So ignore those who think there’s something wrong with being sexually attracted to younger women.

It’s both natural and normal to sexually desire them, and you shouldn’t be ashamed or embarrassed by your natural desires as a man.

What Younger Girls REALLY Think About Older Men

In fact, as an older gentleman, you can actually pick up women 15 or even 25 years younger than yourself.

She’s on the hunt

In fact, most young women are LOOKING for older men.

Looking older, particularly if you’re still in physical shape, is an indication to women of status and power.

Age indicates maturity and decision making ability.  And women are attracted to an older man’s accomplishments, economic stability, and emotional maturity.

John O’Hurley, Age 54

Every young woman’s secret wish is to be taken care of.  I don’t mean just economically, but to find a guy that unconditionally loves her, is faithful to her, gives her attention, and is dedicated to her and making the relationship playful, fun, and make it work.

And that’s not something most young guys are really in a position to do.

How young women often picture younger men’s maturity

Young guys are still sleeping around, aren’t faithful, aren’t into self-development or figuring out how to make relationships work.  So most young women are very disappointed in their relationships with young men.

Young Women Or Older Women?

And usually it’s the youngest girls – ages 18 to 24 – who are the MOST attracted to older men.

In fact, a girl in her early 20’s is often easier to sleep with than a woman in her early 30’s.

That’s because a 19 year old girl is just out to have fun, she’s looking to have new experiences, and dating a much older man is an experience she’s looking to have.

She’s in that experimental age and she wants to explore.

But by the time a woman hits 30 and she’s still single, she’s feeling her biological clock ticking.  She feels her beauty is fading.  She’s looking more for a man who’s close to her own age because she’s more desperate to settle down and get married and have kids.

So often a 30 year old will be more resistant to hooking up with an older man than a 19 year old!

Older men are better for younger women

And objectively speaking, younger women are generally better off with senior men.

As an older gentlemen, you’ve got more to offer her.  Maybe you can’t have sex 3 times a day like you did when you were 21, but you offer stability, wisdom, comfort, meaningful companionship, and better sex… far more so than a young guy who isn’t developed.

In fact, studies show that marriages are far less likely to end in divorce when the woman is 10 to 15 years YOUNGER than the man.

So if you’re an older guy and you take care of yourself physically, you’ve got some BIG advantages when it comes to netting far younger women.  And you’re most likely a better fit for a younger girl than a boy her own age!

So don’t feel shy or shameful about desiring or seeking out younger women, it’s perfectly natural, good for you, and good for the girls too!

Is It Okay To Desire and Date Far Younger Women?

So exactly HOW to you meet and pickup younger women?

Well, if you’re an older gentlemen you’re probably running game “too nice”.

With just light conversation and banter you can generate a little attraction, but it’s not enough to jump into bed with a young hottie 20 years younger.

In fact most “game” you find on the net straight up WON’T WORK for getting sex for older guys looking to meet young girls.

Because you’re always putting on a “false face” of positivity, smiling, falsely agreeing, and subtle ass kissing that a younger girl will quickly ditch you for.

That’s why I created the 15 hour program Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control to give you the exact tools you need to create HARD attraction in younger women and get THEM chasing YOU down.

Because unless the girl is chasing you, which is different than “light attraction”, you’re not going to sleep with her.  Sorry.

Just click THIS link here to download the program.

In the meantime, don’t be ashamed of your desires for younger women, use that as a source to drive you!  And never apologize for your desires as a man!

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2 months 24 days ago
It’s funny about this. Older men young women is so wrong. But yet older women are having sex with high school boys. But yet that’s ok. Then women of age say the young woman just wants money. I think if your a single man go have fun. Young women always want fun to live life. I read posts all the time from women oh my sex life is dead my husband didn’t think I’m sexy. So stop farting clean up shave yourself get to the gym dress sexy and be fun with your husband. And husbands do the same thing. Men like younger women for basic reasons great sex she looks good takes care of herself doesn’t hate on ex boyfriends. And they are fun to be with and around. If you look at a woman who is 40 see how she acts how she is then look at a 18-25 year old see how she acts around men. Men like women to be sexy and full of happy life. I won’t date a woman who is not sexy to me. It’s my choice and mine only. I take care of myself real good so in turn I want the… Read more »
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11 months 14 days ago
Great article on a “taboo” subject , my hat comes off to you for a timely & well argued article. This is a subject that will come under much more discussion as the population ages life expectancies increase, 60 being the new 40 and all that . I am a 64 yr old guy, living in Norway and regularly date young ( 18-28) beautiful women . Norway seems to be blessed with an over abundance of beautiful liberated , sensuous intelligent self aware young women, looking for adventure. I dont have to chase them, they seem drawn to me, often many tell me because younger guys just dont get how to satisfy them . Economics doesnt come into it….many a time the lady will actually offer if not insist on buying me a drink or even dinner…feminism has reached new levels here! I honestly often feel like an oak tree in a forest of saplings..maybe it the ” most interesting man in the world ” syndrome that is so attractive to them. Yes I am in good shape, have fairly OK natural game ( but know i could be even better if i worked more on it , i lead… Read more »
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mari2011
1 year 4 months ago

I’m 21 year old Latin Girl. And for me girls of my age who date old man, is just for economic stability. In terms that they don’t want to build a future on their own. They don’t want to work and manged to survive like rest
Which are very poor expectations about yourself. If feel like been with an older man is like selling my youth, these post make look older men like vampires than wants to suck younger blood. But If know it goes in both ways.
I am might be only openly to be with an older man for sexual curiosity.But I would never bring him into my life.

ημερολογια συλλογων
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It’s funny to find out how many blogs the internet has on this subject! I don’t know if I will ever need to come back here, but it is awesome to know I found the one that offers a lot of practical info if this ever comes up for me another time.

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Anonymous
1 year 9 months ago

Hi I’m the person who wrote the previous comment. I just was reading over it and wanted to amend one bit. Just because two people have a big age difference doesn’t mean they have “issues,” but I’ve heard of certain people in these types of relationships that certainly seem to have them. Just wanted to clear up that I didn’t mean for it to be a blanket term.

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Anonymous
1 year 9 months ago
Hi I just wanted to weigh in on this subject as I am a teenage girl. This was an interesting read for me as it comes from a perspective that’s very different from my own and doesn’t reflect my experience as a young woman. First of all I’d like to say that the percentage of young girls ages 16 (which I think is one of the younger ages of consent) to 19 who are interested in older men (ie 10 or more years older than themselves) is VERY VERY small. I don’t really know what it is like when you get into your twenties because I’m not there yet. I brought a boy to a party a little while ago and some of my friends were commenting that I had an older man with me (although somewhat jokingly.) This boy was 19. When my friends talk about dating an older boy they mean early 20s. The fact of the matter is many many young girls are going to be grossed out at the idea of dating someone significantly older than them. Honestly most girls my age would put a limit at like 21 or 22. I should probably mention that… Read more »
Ichigo
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Ichigo
1 year 9 months ago

weirdos older woman are way hotter

steve
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steve
1 year 10 months ago

I want a younger girl to make love to and teach. I would like to carry her around the house with my cock buried inside her

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Lyoungquist@gmail.com
2 years 4 days ago

I’m the older women with a younger man! In my case he has the money since my ex husband of 28 year managed to hide it from the courts! Thank god I for some reason haven’t lost my looks and found someone hotter and with integrity! So you younger girls can go ahead and have our leftovers that are from the generation of men that will leave his children in poverty! Yuck! Also you can’t take a site seriously that looks more like a spring break add for how all these girls got there “first” std!

Sam
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Sam
2 years 19 days ago

Almost any gal 20 years younger than me is hot to me. Im pushing 60! I am extremely fit, no belly, still buff, but my face is full of wrinkles and age and I notice that young gals rarely register me visually . I have a hard time convincing myself an 18-24 yr old would look at me.

Loong Wang
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Loong Wang
1 year 7 months ago

Face lift.

Rajeev
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Rajeev
2 years 1 month ago

Hats off..sir, ur expirience is really best.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 1 month ago

Based on the biological standpoint theory (men being biologically driven to feel attracted and mate with younger, more fertile women), doesn’t the extension of that theory mean that when an older guy “scores” a younger girl and sleeps with her, he should get her pregnant and then move on ASAP? I mean, you said this is an evolutionary thing because men who sleep with young, fertile women have more babies. When you sleep with 20 years old, do you try to get them pregnant? And then move on and get the next girl, say 18, pregnant as well?

neopolitic
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10 months 2 days ago

yes, anon, you’re right. Biologically speaking, a man’s best and most efficient and effective genetic tactic is to impregnate as many women as possible and leave another man, beta male, to care for and raise the child. Not very PC, but then nor is nature…

faithful
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faithful
2 years 1 month ago

Its a fact tre girls go fo the older guy as a matter of financial security,and they can be very clever,at time in dealing with your cash when entrusted,they can wreck your credit /debit,and attain a healthy bank account,leaving you in shamble.the key factor here is not /or should not be age,but honesty .whether the relationship is short term,or longterm.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 2 months ago

Love young women

j
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j
2 years 2 months ago

Im 20 in September I turn 21 and this girl im talkimg to is turning 17 on may 12 shes really cute nice but. Im not sure if shes gonna be mature enough.. and because shes only gonna be 17 and 8? Gonna be 21 is that too much of a problem. Its only 3 years sorta but the thing is shes a minor. Idk what do do or to go with this

Dedo
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Dedo
2 years 3 months ago

I am 30 and dated a 18 year old girl a few months ago. It was amazing but didnt last cause we live in different countries. Nearly all friends my age said they were even a bit jealous but reacted in a postive way. The only persons who attacked me were some women my age. I think its just a unconsious fear of those women, because they know younger girls often are more attractive then them.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 4 months ago

I only screw girls half my age or less. I’m 63, living in Bangkok, so it’s not hard to do.

John
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John
2 years 5 months ago

Hey Jesse
As being on the north side of 50, I have been chatting up a cute 17 year old. High fiving and such but that’s all. We’ve kidded about her being naughty when she turns 18. We’ll see where that goes, birthday is still 8-9 months away.

I really doubt I’d be interested in deflowering her due to the likelihood of major emotional reaction, however if some high-school Harry has already been there, well then that’s a different story. But only after I check her drivers license.

There’s another younger (than me) chick I’d like to bed & I’m working to that end. That’s why I want to fly under her radar to stroke her reptilian brain. She is MAJOR hot.

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Anonymous
2 years 5 months ago
Please help..I Know its normal for men and women to like attractive younger people. Women in their 40’s want a chance at the twilight guy Jacob. I don’t think being 18 legal age is not a magical number that makes it ok. It depends on more than that an older person should consider that the life of the younger person is changing more rapidly than there own and that settling them down isn’t going to be all they dreamed off.. Ok that being said my real question is this.. If a man was in his early 30’s was with a 15 year old who said she was 18 and later was arrested convicted and now has to register for life. He has not been with another minor claims he was at a messed up place in his life he found out her age but didn’t know what to do with her she came from a bad family he didn’t want to put her on the street etc.. they continued to have sex after he found out…now he is 53 has never committed another crime like that, but you see that he comments on women’s photos that are between 18 and… Read more »
Loong Wang
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Loong Wang
1 year 7 months ago

Yes, you are b@ts#!t crazy; find a dick and suck till you forget your name… you’ll be okay.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 5 months ago

I’m 17 almost 18 and I loveeee older men. I wouldn’t mind it one bit to be with one 😉

Nicole
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Nicole
2 years 6 months ago

Hi I’m 22 years old and like older men just don’t know where to meet them any help?

Loong Wang
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Loong Wang
1 year 7 months ago

Go to the gym

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 6 months ago

I only read this because I am 66 and tomorrow I have a date with a 29 year old young lady who can’t wait share a hotel room with me.

lovegoddess
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lovegoddess
2 years 8 months ago

I KNOW.MY.STORY.IS LONG BUT PLEASE READ AND RESPOND! I NEED HELP AND NOT MANY PPL UNDERSTAND!!!

lovegoddess
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lovegoddess
2 years 8 months ago
Hello, I am an 18 y/o girl who recently broke up with my 38 y/o bf. When we met we were instantly attracted to each other, to me he looked no older than 24! When we met I was 17 and he was 37, but when I told him my age he had absolutely no problem with it so we exchanged numbers and took it from there. Initially I thought it was kind of weird, I thought “what would this grown ads man want with a girl young enough to be his daughter” right. But when.I mentioned yo him my concern he reacted as if age is nothing but a number to him. Mind you he was a very very very handsome man, ricosuave type so I’m like I’m sure there are many woman his age that would love to be with him! Why me? I understand that I am very attractive especially yo be a young black woman, but I see past that. The catch is this man spent 20 years in jail.. two separate 10 year sentences but the longer we stayed together the deeper I fell in love. At first I tried to make it strictly about… Read more »
Lysse
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Lysse
2 years 8 months ago

I’m a 20 year old woman who loves sex. I only date older men. I love them. I think they are so sexy and the sex is so much better. Currently I want to fuck a 40 year old man but I think he thinks I am too young for him. He’s hot and in great shape, and so am I. I’d love to have him as my next partner. Hopefully he makes my fantasy come true. 😉

((eyes roll))
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((eyes roll))
1 year 7 months ago

I know a very hot 22 year old girl that got married to a 51 year old dude earlier this year. HER dad is 47. This is the groom’s first marriage. She was a virgin (Surprising). Their first child is due in April 2015.

Btw, she is 5’2″ 105 lbs tanned, medium complexion. He is bald, 5’10” and weighs around 300 lbs and pasty white. He has a stable US Gov job in Maryland and she graduated in May.

True story.

lovegoddess
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lovegoddess
2 years 8 months ago

Read my story I’m 18 and my nd was 38. So when I’m 20 he’d be 40 like you and your guy.

Thor Perun
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Thor Perun
2 years 8 months ago
I can’t wrap my head about something. I may be in trouble, I don’t know… I am a guy, 59. Preface… Was married twice, first wifey was the same age as me, the second one 11 years younger (I was 41). We separated some 7 years ago. I have two daughters (27 and 17, from each wife respectively). The only creep factor that worries me is theirs, but they live a half continent away (east and south). So, almost two years ago, I met this 23, drop gorgeous lady–if she lived in Botticelli times he would paint her in the Birth of Venus instead. She was here on work visa, from my former country. Despite speaking a decent English, I nailed her accent right away. We got talking in our native tongues and she switched fluently to mine. She was here for three months at the time, but beside work, she did not have much opportunity for some fun time. Except some local young dude she met and it ended up badly. She did not want to talk about it, so I did not push it. We spent some time together on friends terms, but not long after we met… Read more »
Thor Perun
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Thor Perun
2 years 8 months ago

Ok, maybe I was a bit overwhelmed and anxiety kicked in.

They keep coming, though, especially the 20-somethings. There are two types, it seems. One with the standard fare of misspellings and grammar errors I see everyday from native English speakers and another group, a bit more of it, beside sometimes odd syntax and messed up tenses. I think those may be Ukrainian/Russian young ladies. They are also the prettiest and with a hint of Slavic heritage in their facial features. Nothing’s wrong with being from Russia/Ukraine, but there may be a bit of covert calculated motivation behind the overt interest.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 5 months ago

Idk im a bit old fashioned I don’t chase men never have really. I have to say that Im sure there could be some genuine interest but young peoples lives change faster than older peoples do. so they are unstable and unpredictable and the ones that are foreign well 99% are really looking for a ticket to America or at least to keep options open, or stay here etc.. Trust me I know something about that I am an american but I have spent time around many foreign people and this is a very common issue.

Vladyx
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Vladyx
2 years 9 months ago
ok, i need HELP here… i mean ASAP. and i beg you jesse, or anyone who read this, to try to help me with advice! i was so happy when ive found this page, and i read lot of things i agree with. ok. now the story – (i know we dont particulary talk about online dating here, but this is how it happened) – im 45 years old guy from europe. more than 2 years ago I met that 18 yr old girl from USA, in some virtual world, but did not paying attention. only gave her my fb. she has found me on fb. started sending me messages. i was answering. but. i COULD NOT COMPREHEND that our rship is even possible, not cause of distance, but cause of years. But she didnt wanna giveup. i gave her my skype, we started to talk on cam .. for whole nights.. days..etc.. i needed time but i accepted possibility of relationship. especialy cuz shes gorgeous, and since the day one she gave me all the love of the world. in time i fell in love with her. she said that her parents will never let her to be with… Read more »
Been there... done that
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Been there... done that
1 year 7 months ago

Sooo… moooove the f#@k on.

Would you want to get her pregnant only to find out that she wants to raise the kid near her family… AND be married? Can you even begin to comprehend how f#@king bad that would be for you, for her, for them, but most of all, for the kid?

Move on.

Bob
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Bob
1 year 8 months ago

She is considered an adult in the U.S.A if she is 20 years old. All she needs to do is report her passport lost and go get a new passport. She does not need her parents permission.

Don’t marry her or let her move in with you until you spend some time and get to know her for real. A webcam does not give you enough information to take that big of a step. Slow down and meet her.

Don’t tell her parents anything until you meet her and get to know her i person. She may not eve like you either LOL. Slow down and make it real instead of just a story playing in your head. Real love happens after two people meet in real life, not just from talking over long distances.

Remember, one step at a time!

Vladyx
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Vladyx
2 years 9 months ago

ops… and one more important thing – the main and only reason why they dont want to let her be with me – is the fact that im 25 years older!

Joe
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Joe
2 years 10 months ago
I’m 43 and had a brief but wonderful relationship with a 21 year old who is smoking hot. I wasn’t at the time. I really wasn’t looking for a romantic partner at the time, but it just sort of happened. I think this relationship was life altering as it has motivated me to start taking care of myself physically and mentally. I stopped drinking, have lost 30 pounds so far and am getting into the best shape of my life. After we ended, I got to thinking about how it could have even happened. It got me interested in learning more about relationships and human behavior in general which I find very interesting and I know will make me a a better partner in the future. Also, I’ve basically gone from being a depressive man who wished he was younger and thought he was just hanging around this planet taking up space until he dies to a new man, comfortable with his age and believing that his best days, and best gal, are still ahead of him. If you can find a young woman who is a good person I highly recommend going for it.
Bradley G. Barnett
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Bradley G. Barnett
2 years 10 months ago

I completely agree with your video. I agree though,that IF an older man is looking for pretty younger women;he most of the time should be in great physical condition. It helps to be good looking too;BUT I think the key is physical ‘shape’.

Experience,success,having money are all desirable to have in your quiver. Many ‘things’ that should NOT be important are i.e.. driving a nice car,dressing well etc.

Jamie
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Jamie
3 years 6 days ago

I am 70 and desire/want sex with a young female from legal 16 up to say 30, but I am socially regarded as an old pervert. Sure but I can give great passion, foreplay, body touching and massage, breast stroking and nipple sucking, oral pleasure, fingering the clit for proper stimulus, and have a reasonable size appendage which gets up and goes well. I have all the experience as to how to please a female. So why am I a social outcast and looked upon as a pervert ????

sibghat
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sibghat
3 years 23 days ago

Jesse i totally agree with u,my age is 35 and i m enjoying the sex with my 18 year girl.

lovegoddess
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lovegoddess
2 years 8 months ago

Please read my story! I’m 18 my man was 38!!

ALLAN
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ALLAN
3 years 1 month ago

I”M WORKING ON ONE NOW THAT WORKS AT STAPLES, THERE ARE A COUPLE OF THINGS GOING ON, ONE SHE NEVER HAD A FATHER SO TO SPEAK. I LET HER KNOW I WAS INTERESTED AND THEN I WALKED AWAY. THE NEXT TIME WE MEET SHE FLERTTED THE HELL OUT OF ME. SHE WANTS TO DO THE DIRTY DEED WITH ME. SHE HAS GONE AS FAR AS SHOWING ME A TATTOO WRIGHT ABOVE HER CUCEE. PROBLEM IS I”M TRYING TO FIGURE OUT MY NE3XT MOVE. PLAY SOME MORE GAMES OR COME RIGHT OUT AND ASK HER (LETS HOOK UP ) ANY IDEAS

DaddysPrincess
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DaddysPrincess
3 years 3 months ago

I was feeling kinda alone because theyre arent many older men younger couples here whwre we live or websites to talk on then I came upon this article and loved reading the comments. I’m now 24 years old married to the love of my life who is 44. Married 12/12/12! We got a 20 year age difference and it doesn’t bother us one bit. He got over it a long time ago when I was 20. If I were to give older men advice It would be to be yourself, not fake. We started off as friends when I was 18 because we worked in the same building ( different companies) I never really got along with guys my age simply because I wanted to settle down. I’ve never been the party type and sex was ok. Now we have a home, 3 dogs and amazing sex. Older men seem to know what they want. They’ve been there and done that and learned from their mistakes and hopefully sowed their wild oaks.

DaddysPrincess
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DaddysPrincess
3 years 3 months ago

Oops and almost forgot. He does have a daughter who is lovely and one year older than me but we get along fine.

Ken
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Ken
3 years 3 months ago

Hello to all, my name is ken i am a 57 year old white man engaged to a 27 year old black girl, my last 3 girlfriends were 24, 23, 28 with Sharnice being my longest relationship of 2 years, i am 6’5 250lbs strong and in relativity good health, sexually active, stable income but not rich by any means, not overly handsome, i just love and worship women. My Fiance and i are planning a family . I am in love with her and totally believe in her sincerity, i also much more lean and and attracted to black women for many reasons, i believe that if a man puts the womans desires first, provide, protect, be a knight to her, give his life for her and our children that that is so fulfilling, please any feedback is encouraged and again putting her ahead of everything dispite my mistakes. We live in a much different world, thank GOD.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 5 months ago

Good for you, man.. Hope it goes well for you..

(. I’m married to a 27 year old black girl, am 47 , white guyand live in a racist ( asian) country… Screw what other people think, I say..)

Small minds constantly consider it their right to commentate on other people’s lives..proving incontrovertibly they do not have a right..

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wly38
3 years 3 months ago

I’m very attracted to one girl that is not even out of high school yet. In Texas 17 yrs old is legal age, and she seams to be attracted to me and I’m 38 yrs old and I find her very hot and sexy. Just not sure what she wants yet, I want nothing more than to have her as my girlfriend then marry her. her mother seams to notice that I like her daughter and both are Latina so I know that most Hispanic mothers like to marry off their girls as young as 17 or 18 to an older man that would take care of them in every way. So I’m trying to figure out away to get her attention more. if anyone has suggestions please let me know.

lovegoddess
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lovegoddess
2 years 8 months ago

Read my story please! It is very similar to yours! I’m 18 and man was 38 and just as attracted to me as you are to the girl that you speak about!

mother of 2
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mother of 2
3 years 3 months ago

I have been in a relationship for almost 9 years with the same man. He was 59 when we started messing around and I was 18. It was just supposed to be sex but turned out different. He has now fathered both my children – 1 boy 3 months old and 1 girl who is 14 months old. I love him and he loves us

Bebe
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Bebe
3 years 4 months ago

Men who date much younger women are looked down on in society.

If you want to date a much younger women, the pay off is being treated like a sleazbag by society.

A CEO of the Aviation company I work for recently married a russian 20 something. He is in his 50’s and was made a laughing stock. People no longer view him with authority or respect. (this is a male dominated work environment)

I like older men, but dating MUCH older seems to effect your reputation negatively.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 5 months ago

That’s more an indictment of the society than the person, I think.. Generally, women are much more susceptible to social pressure , I think.

..in this case, I bet those guys are more jealous than anything..

This same scenario could apply to any bigotry.. People should have courage to make thier own choices, I think..

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 years 4 months ago

I am 31 years old and I am dating a 18 year old girl and we are absolutely happy! I really think it is based on maturity level. Some people look at it as “oh your robbing the cradle”, but what they don’t seem to realize is life is about happiness. I was married to a lady for 12 years only for her to leave me for a older man… MUCH OLDER she was 33, and he is in his late 50’s. She said she just wasn’t happy and I go to thinking maybe she is on to something if your not happy in your current situation change it. Age is just what it is a number of how long you have been here on earth, and should not define your happiness.

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joel
3 years 5 months ago

If you poll a few girls that are age range 0f 19-28 that have had a few sexual partners , they almost ALL say they want to find an OLDER guy in their 40’s who has money. The goal of most of these girls is to NOT have to work anymore. The girls that are career oriented or own their own business, Have their own money, do not have this goal of meeting an older man.

neopolitic
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10 months 2 days ago

Unfortunately, I think you are right Joel. (Much) older men may like to kid themselves that very young women are attracted to them, but the reality is that they would prefer a man nearer their own age if he was able to offer them the same amount of ‘security’ (a euphemism for ‘money’ as far as I can see). I think a good age difference is 7 – 10 years – much above that an the relationship starts to look a little more like a kind of prostitution. Nothing wrong with that BTW as long as both parties are honest with themselves and each other about what is going on.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 years 5 months ago

Possibly in a minority, but I think your “What younger women think” section is off the mark. As far as I know, neither I nor my girlfriends have dated guys more than five older than ourselves (I’m in college)… TBH I think the idea of dating a dude who’s almost old enough to be my dad is kinda gross! I mean, George Cluny & Robert Downey Jr. are seriously hot, but I think I’d feel weird dating them. RDJ has a son who’s almost my age… We’re in such different stages in our lives.

Right now I’m dating a guy who’s almost 27–it’s nice because he’s mature, experienced with relationships and has a good job, but he’s still young. There are exceptions, but I think most college-aged girls would prefer “older men” in their mid 20s-early 30s. A lot of girls my age love living it up and partying till 4am, which most older guys aren’t into.

I do know one 21-year-old girl who prefers to date guys in their 30s, though, so they’re out there.

neopolitic
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10 months 2 days ago

yes, anon, you are right – please see my reply to Joel, above

derek
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derek
3 years 5 months ago

My usual difference is 7-8 years. I’m early 30ties.

John
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John
3 years 6 months ago

Well I’me 49 and about to go to the Philippines to meet my 31 yr old gf that I have been chatting with for the last 18 months. I wil be there for 8 days I will propose to her of course and she is so looking forward to it, I meet her family and we will be spending most of out time playing ‘Doctors and Nurses….:-)….lifes good…

David
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David
3 years 5 months ago

Good luck on your Philippine romance John. I once had a Philippine wife and her dependent family so be careful as Americans are considered rich and a ticket out of poverty.

Kit
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Kit
3 years 3 months ago

Totally support David’s words of caution !

Many men here take on Phillipina girls without understanding the Island Culture and Ethic.. if one member of the family ‘does well’ then they are TOTALLY expected to send money back to the islands to support the family (and ‘family’ can be a very very wide net there)

And of course ‘doing well’ means living a better life in another country so it’s the (usually unsuspecting) amrican / european partner who’s sending that money.

It’s all OKAY if the commitment is completely understood from the outset, and if the relationship with the woman is ‘all good all the time’

But, from observation, if there’s any trouble ‘at home’ then the issue of sending money overseas to relatives very soon becomes a burden and a huge wedge of resentment between the couple!

marie
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marie
3 years 6 months ago

hi, im 18 in a relationship with a 45 year old man. we’ve known eatchother for a long time before that.the’s amazingly sweet,compassionate and WOW we have the best sex ever. honestly i never cared what anyone thought about us. and it was weird for me at first because i never fell for anyone who was older and it was weird for him cause he never fell for a younger women. we have been together for 10 1/2 months but it feels like ive been with him forever i’m gonna be 19 this friday. i’m lucky to have friends and family that are being supportive of this. i dont think ill ever go for guys my age. now a days all they care about is “swag”, being complete jerks, or just being with a girl to fck ive been hurt so many times by these d-bags that i went for him

lovegoddess
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lovegoddess
2 years 8 months ago

Read my story please my situation is a lot like yours! AMAZING SEX HE GAVE ME FEELINGS I NEVER FELT BEFORE! I’m 18. He’s 38

Kurt
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Kurt
3 years 6 months ago

I am 45 myself and I have tried dating younger women (say 25 to 35) for the last 5 years and have not been on one date nor even one number. I dress well, keep myself in good shape, good humored, social but when women find out I am 45 (I look late 30’s), they shy away. I ask them why and they tell me that they feel weird being with an older guy and its creepy. I have friends in my age group that go thru the same thing. So I have no idea where all these response are coming from or even if they are true. I have not seen it and from experiences younger women want very little to do with an older guy unless he is maybe a Hugh Hefner (that is an extreme case) or they guy is of a very high social level.

I feel like I am on a different planet reading all this…I have never seen this at all….

neopolitic
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10 months 2 days ago

Kurt – I wonder if you are American? The reason I ask is that this ‘creepy’ allegation you refer to is a symptom of an immature and puritanical society. This kind of thinking is not found in most of the rest of the world, although is beginning to seep into other societies, to their great detriment. It saddens me that media shove images in our faces of perfect young woman all the time (usually to sell product), and then tell us that we are perverts for desiring those same women. It’s a kind of very unhealthy ambivalence that is based on lies and the deception of both ourselves and others.

Loong Wang
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Loong Wang
1 year 7 months ago

Penthouse Forum dreams 😉

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 years 6 months ago

i am a 46 year old male and i have never even been on a date or anything like that, nothing. about a week ago i posted a comment on another website about how i don’t want women who are over 40 years old. i said that i only like women who are in their 20’s and 30’s. my simple comment received more than 25 replies (all negative) in the first day that i posted the comment. i was accused of many things including being a dirty old man predator and a criminal of some type. i explained again that i was only talking about adults in my comment and my comment was already very clear. their answer to this was that people in their 20’s and 30’s, people from 21 years old up to 39 years old (are in their opinion) still not really adults and are not grown up. they gave some crazy reasons to why they think this. i could not get anybody on that website to admit that they are an adult when they are in their 20’s and 30’s.

neopolitic
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10 months 2 days ago

Hi Anon – sympathies…it may not be much consolation, but the people giving you all this negativity are just plain stupid and narrow-minded, so you have not missed much!

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 years 5 months ago

during my debate with the people on that website they said some things that sound crazy to me…they tried to say that people in their 20’s and 30’s are not yet adults and they don’t consider those ages to be grown up yet. i am thinking hell i felt pretty damn old by the time i was 20’s and i felt really old by the time that i was over 30. i considered myself to be an old man when i was 30. i don’t know what this world has become when people can’t even admit to being an adult until they are over 40 or 50 years old.

lovegoddess
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lovegoddess
2 years 8 months ago

Read my story PLEASE! I’m need feedback! I’m 18. My man was 38!

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 years 6 months ago

society has really corrupted.. now we have a society of evil don juan’s running loose everywhere.. i will be scared for my daughter if i ever have one.. lol

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 years 6 months ago

I don’t see anything wrong with two consenting adults, but I do think it’s bad that young/old guys are having this attitude as PUA’s to run through as many young and beautiful girls as possible. They don’t care about the girls really and it’s a game, their life is a game. I met guys like this.. they may have had sex with thousand woman, but have 0 children. You ruin the lives of all these women aged 18 to 25 that were innocent.. you ruin it for the guys that wanted love in their life, and now in europe and usa there is population crisis because of these kinds of assholes that are being born..

-anonymous

neopolitic
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10 months 2 days ago

totally agree – there is a name for men like this – psychopaths.

Terry
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Terry
3 years 6 months ago

😀 Im 70 fit as still never felt healthier n Im living in the Philippines
n married to a 33 years old , She totally adore me as I do her and I
have so much of all guys could desire in one woman one man relationships and yes everything works wonderful n often .. As well I am surrounded by young angels that I could have in no time at all but perfectly happy with my one beautiful wife love of my life as she is with myself . Being married to her and us both loving each other as we do is priceless for mind body and soul .. And if any disagree they’ll be older women and older women are always seeking younger guys if the womans married or not if they are honest ..

Kurt
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Kurt
3 years 6 months ago

Philippines is not the norm for the world. I will tell you why. I have traveled to the far east several times and know many of the various cultures. Philippine women are like what women here in the states were say in the 40’s and 50’s. For women to socially and economically make it, they needed to marry and hopefully marry a guy with some coin. Its survival for them. So I am glad for you but it is not the norm.

naveen
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3 years 7 months ago

jesse…. once u come to india dude !!! here v can find some hottie chicks..

sachin ghadage-patil
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sachin ghadage-patil
3 years 8 months ago

overall i have read ur article …70% i agree with u …But i can’t have believe on that …in which way girls want older man for sex

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