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In a sense, we are trance machines. You go to a club and you want to approach a woman and you keep running the same stubborn trance inside your head over and over like a broken record- “What do I say?” or, “She’s obviously busy with her friends.” And so on. Or maybe you’re ass is just fucking frozen there.
That’s why sometimes you need a COACH.
I use coaches when I need them. And I invest good money in myself.
But they’re WORTH it.
When you’re in that club and the coach speaks into your ear, “Approach that set and bust it open… now!” your old trance is broken.
Sometimes we NEED other people to break our old trances. Some guys can do it all on their own. But a lot of guys can’t. The script they’re running inside their head is powerful with years of practice and reinforcement. They need a script breaker. They need a script smashing. They need a friend who will take that old trance inside their head and smash it into a million pieces.
I don’t need to be physically fit and muscular to meet girls, but I like to be muscular to give them the best sexual fantasy- to be fucked good and hard by a physically powerful man.
But some months ago I was stuck in a RUT. I wasn’t getting the right energy to hit the gym, my workouts were lackluster, and my body had adjusted to my old workout routine. I was putting on weight- 20 pounds to be exact. I was starting to feel down about my body and it was affecting my inner state and identity.
For some reason I *couldn’t* get back to my previous fitness levels on my own. And I was trying and trying hard.
So I had to bite the bullet and get a gym coach. Was it expensive? Yeah. Was it worth it. YES.
In one month of working with the trainer every other day I was back in shape, tearing up the gym, and had the testosterone pumping again. I had some new routines to work on.
And best of all, after that one month I didn’t need the trainer any longer.
The trainer had given me the fresh perspective and momentum I needed. And he gave me a new TRANCE inside my head, because he worked my ASS OFF no matter how much my body wanted to laze.
So if you’re doing pickup, you may need a coach to give you a shake up, to shout into your ear on the approach, to push you into sets and lead you.
Of course, you might be one of those people who can do it all on your own. Good for you. But remember, there’s no shame in getting a little help. We all need it sometimes.
And even if I can’t be there in person for you, you can get the next best thing- the sound of my voice walking you step-by-step through every stage of the seduction process, from meeting the girl to how to get her undressed once she’s in your bedroom.
Don’t let your life whiz by. Sometimes you need a little friendly help to break you out of your old trance and frame of mind. Sometimes you need that little “push” from the outside before the hero inside of you can really shine. Now’s the time to make it happen.
~ Jesse
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Leave your opinion below…
Yeah a dating Coach does help considerablely.
I attended a Bootcamp twice in 2012 in Santa Monica.
The biggest issue that I was having with women is that I was not connecting with them. I was not present or in the moment. I was in my head. This was my biggest issue and finally at the age of 27 I final realize that I was making that mistake, worst part is it I never even realized it.
The other issue that I had to over come was trying to validate myself when approaching women. I tried being a comedian, I thought I had to make her laugh every 10 seconds, I though I had to befriend her for the first 5 hours before making a move.
I think that Mothers and the Media do their sons a great diservice when they lay the guilt trip on labling them as pigs for looking at their bodies and having sexual desires. It handicaps mens potential from a early age.
A dating coach is expensive but when your on your death bed and you look back in life are you going to be burden with the fact that you didn’t approach that women that you should of approached. Fuck playing it safe, you only have one life to live.