How To Attract Younger Women If You’re A Much Older Guy – The #1 Thing You Must Do

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So you’re an older guy – perhaps much older – and you want to meet far younger women. It IS possible, so here’s the problem and the solution…

Most older gentlemen simply look OLD and don’t feel entitled to chasing women. They don’t do cold approaches are they’re just super-duper nice and they hide their true intent.

And if you’re over the age of 40, the number one thing you can do to not look like the creepy old guy is to get into great physical shape.

Because when you don’t work out, and you don’t eat right, it conveys to women that you don’t value yourself. Or that you don’t give a shit of what you put into your body.

(P.S. It’s perfectly NORMAL to desire younger women. Any guy who says, “Oh I’d never sleep with an 18 year old,” is either lying out of fear of being judged, or because societal reprogramming tells him to react that way. Because from a biological standpoint, men are driven to mate with the most sexually fertile women. In other words, younger women.)

What makes you look old, is not your actual age or the fine lines on your face, and gray hair can be easily colored back in, but actually how your body carries itself.

Because even having gray hairs and fine wrinkles on your face is sexy to young women. But it’s the lack of muscle, the lack of muscle keeping your posture straight, that’s what makes you look like “an old guy”.

And as you get older, and you’re someone who does not work out at the gym with heavy weights, what happens is you gradually lose muscle mass each year.

So in very subtle ways visually, your posture begins to show signs of age by bending inward, the skin around your shrinking body and muscles gets lax and loose, and your body begins to shrink.

So an older gentlemen over the age of 50 is really going to show his age, not because he’s 50, but because of the muscle shrinkage in his body. And instead of looking like a handsome 50 year old cutie, he’s going to look like a “old geezer”.

The other thing that happens as you get older and you don’t workout is you start putting on weight. You lose muscle gradually, your metabolism slows down as a result. And all those calories start going in as fat. Some guys put the weight on their bellies, most guys put the weight all over their body, but that weight gain is a glaring sign of old age to the girl, and a sign that you don’t care about yourself and you don’t care about dying from diseases like diabetes and heart disease.

And that’s where older guys go wrong, is that they just LOOK old in their profile, when they really shouldn’t if they were working out religiously. They’re really out of shape, and that’s a dead giveaway that you are low value, that you don’t respect your body, you don’t care enough to stay physically young looking and healthy.

So why would a young cutie girl have sex with you, and potentially have your children when you physically look like you could keel over any day.

Because older men can get diseases like diabetes and heart disease. So lack of muscle indicates to a woman on an older gentlemen proximity to death. And she doesn’t want to spend her best years being your nurse.

So it’s not a good genetic strategy for the young woman to have sex with you.

But, fortunately, you can rely defy this attraction decline, just by working out religiously. Because women will forgive just about everything else about your age as long as you’ve kept physically in really great shape and you’ve got the muscle of a younger man.

Because it’s that muscle that says you’re still healthy, that you take in your body and you’re proud of your body, that you have the physical ability to give her children, to protect the children, provide for the children, fend off rivals, and so on. A young woman wants to see that you are physically able, just like a guy who would be in his 20s.

And that physical fitness and retaining muscle and building new muscle is the key to staying attractive into your 40s, 50s and 60s. Period.

Because a young woman, ideally, wants to meet an older man with a younger man’s body.

A young woman wants to combine the maturity, status, and power of the older man, with the health and youth and vitality of the young man’s physical strength. That’s like the ultimate guy to most younger women.

So if you’re an older guy, and you want the “magic pill” to getting laid, the magic pill, if you want to call it that, is to have a good BODY.

A body that has good posture because muscle is key to posture, looks healthy, has a respectable amount of muscle definition, and is lean with minimal fat.

And for an older guy, a good body will get you far. A good body, with game, will bring you into Don Juan territory where you can literally blow away these younger guys because women want, ideally, to meet an older guy with a good body and game, not a younger guy who doesn’t know what he’s doing.

That means working out every day. It means lifting weights. It means eating very strictly nutritious and proper food.

Working out, eating right also gives you a sense of entitlement.

Because what’s holding back older gentlemen is that they know they physically look bad, they know that the girl physically looks good, and that there’s a fundamental mismatch there.

So n older guy sees a cute girl that is perhaps 10 or 20 years or even 30 years younger than himself… and what’s going to happen? He just freezes up. Or more likely, he won’t even allow the girl to catch him looking at her. Because he doesn’t feel entitled to even be talking to a younger woman.

Because he knows he looks old. He knows he eats badly. He knows he doesn’t work out or do anything to try to correct the situation. And he FEELS old. Fundamentally, he FEELS old.

So when you don’t feel entitled to have a younger woman, that holds you back. Not only do you not approach, but you avert your gaze.

Or, at best, you do a really timid Nice Guy, Fatherly sort of game on the girls. Where you’re always looking for IOIs to first make a move. You’re always really sweet, like a grandfatherly gentlemen to the girl. You’re always looking for permission to make a move. You’re really concerned about being liked and getting acceptance so you don’t do anything. You’ve got a big smile on your face, in a very supplicating, kiss-ass kind of smile that’s overly friendly.

And that’s the problem with older guys, is that they’re too nice, they’re too permission seeking, they’re too approval seeking, they’re conversational asexually like the girl’s Dad, but not physical, and they’re looking too much for permission and IOIs to escalate or continue.

That all stems from a complete lack of entitlement. And lack of entitlement comes from feeling physically old, looking physically old. And feeling and looking physically old comes solely from lack of lean muscle tissue, which is what makes you look good, makes you look young, makes you feel good, gives you good posture. But you’re lacking all of that, and you know it, you won’t feel entitled and you won’t get girls, period.

So hitting the gym and eating properly to put on lean muscle tissue is absolutely fundamental. And if you’re not 50 yet, you should start now. So that by the time you reach 50, you look fucking fantastic and you’re still can pickup up the teenage girls and the college girls and feel good doing it, and look congruent. Where at least if you’ve got a strapping hot body at 50, the really young girls will WANT to hook up with you, will WANT to talk to you, and you’ll still feel like a cool guy that hooking up with young girls feels normal and natural.

And that’s why there’s really no special “trick” or line or routine for an older guy to pickup younger girls. Because this is a strictly inner game issue that stems largely from how well you’ve maintained and built your body, or how you’ve neglected it.

So again, this is why physical fitness, and becoming that hunky older gentlemen, and starting now is so important.

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Lonely guy
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Lonely guy
9 days 6 hours ago

I’m 36 and sadly my wife of 7 years passed away last September (she was 9 years older than me), so now I feel like if I MUST start over, it may as well be with someone in her early twenties. Problem is I don’t really go anywhere but work, and I live in a very small town where you can’t really find decent women of any age. I liked this article very much, although very blunt, it makes me realize I really need to get into better shape in order to attract younger women. I don’t have any children, and I very much want to be with a woman that has 10+ healthy baby making years in her.

Kevin
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Kevin
1 month 2 days ago

Great article.

Dan
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Dan
5 months 23 days ago

This is a very insightfulk article. Hits the nail on the head. I’ve always contended that the thing that hold back older guys is their crappy shape. I’m 51, I’ve been working out for decades and now I even take testosterone supplements. I’m in better physical shape than 25 year olds at work and I see younger women checking me out.often enough to know it’s working.

Joe
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Joe
11 months 27 days ago

This is true! I have seen older men who are in great shape and even very young girls like them. I must take your advice.

Greg Wade
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1 year 10 days ago

This guy is no expert. what an awful article .

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 2 days ago

I hope you manage to break through that cognitive dissonance, mate

49ersfan4life88
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49ersfan4life88
1 year 2 months ago

think of the actor Steven Bauer, last year, in September, it was announced he has an 18 year old girlfriend while he is 57!

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 4 months ago

I am 65 and fucking 34 yearr old , best sex i have ever had. She was not so good at first but now simply great. she is married and i have a girl friend , we meet i fuck her 2 hrs ata time and that it.

John
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John
1 year 4 months ago

Thank you so much. I am 46 myself and am actually attending a state university at the time and although I don’t think I am after the very young girl students I wouldn’t mind dating some in their late twenties or thirties. My problem and behavior is just as you describe it; I am acting like an overly friendly and supportive father figure because I don’t want to act like a creepy perv. I still have my full set of hair and figure, I do yoga and martial arts, and always wear the best of clothes, but yet still don’t feel entitled. My feeling is that the yoga thing might make me look gay? Anyway, thanks again for the advice, I will start lifting weights again and work on my tone.

Willem
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Willem
1 year 7 months ago

The movie is called “A Girl Cut In Two”.

Ricky
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Ricky
1 year 8 months ago

By the way, I have no money but I do love to look like I have a little which helps. I’m generous and I never mind paying on the first date.

Ricky
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Ricky
1 year 8 months ago
I’m 51 and I have dated a girl who is now 24 for 2.5 years. My previous girlfriend before that was 19 (6 months), the one before that 23 and the one before that 20. We had a break with my current girlfriend for 2 months and in that time I met about 20 girls that were all under 30. Most were between 19 and 23. I slept with 3/4 of them. When she seen how many girls were always texting me etc she wanted me back and we are now back together. Yes I work out but not at a gym, I work out at home just a little doing press ups and non weight exercises. I’m lucky that I have a good build and also eat healthy food most of the time. I work hard on my shoulders, abs and legs and they are in good shape. I wear young clothes but I never try to look like a young guy, I look like me, confident in tune and feeling good all the time. Also, having lots of sex with beautiful young women makes one more attractive to young women, it’s the way it works. I don’t intend… Read more »
lucy
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lucy
1 year 9 months ago

I think sex is overrated calm down ladies and gentlemen ok

Pops
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Pops
1 year 9 months ago

If that were the case, the world wouldn’t be overpopulated.

lucy
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lucy
1 year 9 months ago

I think men 60’s should stay with their own age group I dated a man 17 years older ot was terrible he treated me older like him I was abuse because I was younger he was very jealous of me so ladies stay away they mean you no good I lived it nightmare

Paul
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Paul
1 year 9 months ago

Is that the best you can do with respect to grammar? Who could take you seriously?

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 9 months ago

Thanks for the straight talk

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 10 months ago

SO I am 43, My last GF was 26. I am single now. Where do you guys usually meet these younger women? I met my last girl at work. I lift 3 days a week and cardio 5. Let me know how to get back in the game 🙂

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Anonymous
1 year 10 months ago

Hi I’m 45 go to the gym I think I look good and am able to talk to all ages ,I’d love to have a 20 something girl but the ring says I can’t ,the question is ,is it wrong to want and take youth not for love but just for pleasure,girls do u dislike me for the way I think.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 10 months ago

While there are younger women who like older men. The picture doesn’t represent what most younger women are looking for. This picture is not that of a silver fox who is aging gracefully at all. The picture selection doesn’t doesn’t do anything to make possible what younger women are looking for.

Alex
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Alex
1 year 10 months ago

I’m a white man in my mid fifties. My looks are middle-of-the-road. I am very clean-cut and very well groomed. Men say I’m attractive as do foreign women, but almost never have I heard it from American women. I am very outgoing and I have the gift of gab along with that I have the confidence to approach any woman and strike-up a conversation. I am above average intelligence and very well read. I have an eternal sense of humor.

I have been natural body building for over 30 years. I’m 5’10” and weigh 240 pounds. I train harder than any man I’ve ever seen in any gym I’ve ever belonged to. I am an animal in the gym. I dress skimpily in the summer. My body turns heads. I don’t want to sound egotistical; I only want to sound truthful and accurate. I am a very physical and sexual man.

I have been intimate with a woman ONCE since 1994. That’s once in about the last twenty years.

So much for your theory of women being attracted to physically fit men.

You are giving women FAR TOO MUCH CREDIT!
America is now an abject piss hole, in more ways than one.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 6 months ago

Only 5’10”, but 240? And train harder than any man in the gym and wear skimpy clothes in the summer? Dude….you are scary!! You scare me and I haven’t even seen you! No wonder… women are afraid of you…you are too hulky and built…not normal….i.e. freaky!! There’s physically fit…and then there’s you….Mr. Beastmaster!! Probably too late for you to change…don’t die young of a heart attack!

Alex
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Alex
1 year 2 months ago

I hope I don’t sound vain. I’m actually very down-to-earth. It’s just that I love bodybuilding and take it very seriously.

Alex
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Alex
1 year 2 months ago

Thanks Anonymous. And that 240 is down from 250-255 where I was for maybe twenty years.

And I think you may be correct on the intimidation aspect. And it’s not that I try for that, because I would love to get my fill of sex and affection.

I’m 57 now and training harder than ever. My only limit is the quality of the gym, and where I am now, it’s limited. Bodybuilding is passe, so gyms that cater to bodybuilding are disappearing. The area of the gym where the dumbbells (is the origin of that term derogatory?) are located and where I train my shoulder slowly clears out when I’m training there. I hope it’s just coincidence.

And I had my first treadmill/stress test/EKG a couple years back and it indicated I’ll have less than a one percent chance of pulmonary problems within the next five years. I do train without steroids. Thanks for your concern.

I started training in 1983, and I’ve only received two compliments from women in all that time. To say I’m disappointed in women as a whole would be a gross understatement.

Having Fun
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Having Fun
4 months 28 days ago

Dude, you have a super negative attitude toward women, so you fail with them. It’s not complicated. Physical appearance is only a small part of success with dating. Most of it is attitude and game. I am not in perfect shape but I love women and always try to see the best in them. My biggest problem with women is saying no because there are simply too many who want to get with me and my hot bi wife and they don’t take rejection as well as men do.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 11 months ago

or you can get a young wife in a foreign country

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 6 months ago

Absolutely! Mine is 25 years younger than me..and we couldn’t be happier!

Colin O'Riley
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Colin O'Riley
1 year 11 months ago

Awesome advice! Honest and inspirational, especially the part about how any middle-aged dude who says he’s not turned-on by an eighteen year old chick is lying. That, combined with the fact that young chicks dig fit older dudes is great news for any determinedly single man. Thanks.

Robert Shaw
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Robert Shaw
1 year 11 months ago
a man in his 50’s dating a woman in her mid 30’s 40’s isn’t unusual in the least..who’mever the hell says It is must not know very many people those ages.It’s never been unusual in fact.women in their 30’s and 40’s have been dating men 10 and 15 years their senior for years.i’m 59 and most people immediately judge me as being in my 40’s..i date women in their 30’s and 40’s routinely.Many men and women as well look younger than they really are,which has accounted many times in the past for vast age gaps between partners.nothing wrong with it.20 somethings are more concerned with numbers(age) than any other age group.Even though I’m 59, i don’t immediately admit my age to girls that show interest..i mean what man actually says to a 35 girl that’s just hit on him”and btw,i’m 50 years old”..usually they inquire of my age long after we begin talking..she asks and I reply”how old do I look”? whatever her reply is (usually between 40 and 43)I just say “that sounds good”..we then go out,have fun,if it turns into something it does,(so far it’s just been dating however)..am having a great time dating needless to say.And btw,America… Read more »
Alex
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Alex
1 year 10 months ago

Is there a good reason you can’t space properly between words and punctuation?

I gave-up reading you post due to the difficulty.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 2 months ago

MAINTAINING A FIT BODY IS NOT AS DIFFICULT AS BECOMING
MATURE AS YOU AGE.

Anton
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Anton
2 years 3 months ago

Why would you upload such a badly written column?
You need an editor to start proofing your posts. This good advice is overshadowed by bad writing.

Vince
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Vince
2 years 3 months ago

I am going on 52, been divorced for about the laslt 4 yrs…i’ve had three girlfriends all up 15 years younger…they all chased me. I work very ha es d all the time outdoors, that is what keeps me in shape. I eat whatever i want and dont buy into any social programming bullshit.

anonymousH
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anonymousH
2 years 3 months ago

The article is correct, if a man, any age hits the gym and has muscular physique, he Wii stand out from the crowd and women will be attracted to him. However, the vast majority of middle aged men and women let themselves

By the way, I am a 50 year old woman and I work out consists my with weights, my body is firm, toned and looks like the body of a fit woman in her 20s. Recently I had face surgery so that my face would match my body.

I am in s similar situation with some of the men here, that is, I am not at all attracted to men my own age or older, I have tried to force attraction but it did not work. I only like dating younger guys, 20s and 30s and it works fine for me, I have been in a bad marriage for a long time and have no I tension of remarrying.

popone pardue
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popone pardue
2 years 4 months ago

I am a 52 year old black man and i love all women young old as long as they look good and nice and physiclly look good that is why i work out 4 time a week so i can attract white women black women all the women that like me and one thing dance daceing is a good way to get awork out for men in his 50s

David Jewels
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David Jewels
2 years 4 months ago

WOW!!!!! So true!

Joe
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Joe
2 years 8 months ago

Never enjoyed sex this way waw, young girls rocks. I am 54 and madly in love with a 23 year old. I love this girl to bits.

clark
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clark
2 years 11 months ago
I enjoyed reading the comments and can recall a time in my mid-40s when it was easy to hook up with women ages 19-29. Now in my mid-fifties I’m struggling with weight (50 lbs more than a decade ago) and being obviously older (grey hair, a few wrinkles.) I do go to the gym and lift weights and can lift more than a lot of the younger guys with their pretty-but-weak muscles. I realize I need to dump the extra weight, but I’ve also been mulling over the “fun” aspect of seducing a young woman. I’m a grandpa and not interested in starting another family per se. I’m definitely interested in having sex with women in their 20s and figure that it won’t be a steamy 6 month relationship like before, but more of a fun encounter. (Hopefully not charity sex…but hey!) I believe it is possible to catch a sexually active 20 year old in the right mood and partake of that fountain of youth, if but for a night. I refuse to pay for it directly because the thrill of the chase and subsequent sense of victory surpasses just getting my rocks off with a young woman for… Read more »
Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 11 months ago
I am 57 & work out daily. No gray hair & my face is as smooth as someone 35. I get judged at 38-42, max is 45. So I feel great about my body, my face & my hair color. I also have an attractive goatee that young girls play with. My body is actually in better shape than when I was married in my early 30s. Younger women that are slender & innocent are the main attraction to me. I like women my own age, but could never satisfy them sexually or myself & have tried. I am not going to throw in the towel because one out of 2 of my kids think I am a pervert. I hope that older women have someone, I truly do, but its not going to be me. I do not wish to hurt someone so I won’t try it again. The odds are very difficult to find someone for me in their 30s, but I have gotten a few that I was attracted to. 40s is easy for me, but even they have little appeal for the most part. I do think more & more 20-40 year olds are dying for… Read more »
Carew
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Carew
3 years 1 month ago
The #1 you can do to attract a younger woman is to have $$$ money. Lots of it. Not upper middle class engineer money (unless you’re looking for a mail order Filipino bride), that will not be enough to overcome the peculiarity a younger girl feels at the thought of kissing a guy her father’s age. An older man should be a famous actor, rock star, and/multimillionaire to successfully land younger women. Preferably good looking and fit, but is he is rich, it will override the necessity of looking good, to a point (unless he is mega-rich like the sultan of Brunei) The truth is that women are even pickier about looks than men. It is a myth that men are more superficial. If a woman is looking for a fling or a one night stand, she will always go for the studly, good looking guy (especially if she is out with her friends, their opinion is important to her). If she is looking for a relationship, she will forgo looks somewhat in favor of a man who is financially secure and stable. But she will not (unless he’s filthy rich) completely ignore his looks and fitness, she will keep… Read more »
Matthew
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Matthew
1 year 10 months ago

Right on the mark, Carew! Glad to see someone out there is perceptive and paying attention!

I say it’s 1/ a pretty face 2/game playing (which I despise) 3/ a fat bank account.

A nice body doesn’t even consider in the top three.

Noodles123
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Noodles123
3 years 1 month ago
Article is a combination of truths mixed with some creepy overtones…The Good: OUR society is look driven, confidence will get you attention and don’t fall into the “Sweet Guy Category.” The Bad: Many guys here seem to want to brag but I have a feeling they maybe the old guy at the bar who doesn’t realize how pathetic they look trying to “Look Young.” No one wants to see an old dude in an skin tight Affliction t-shirt with his cap backwards calling me “Bro.” Story time!…At 36 I divorced after 11 years, I looked swollen, dumpy and sad…Yes that’s what some marriages do to you…I slapped myself got fit, dressed up, moved up with in 2 years I had my body AND MIND back to where I wanted. I took a different approach…I had grown poor and always secretly liked the preppie look: suits, dress shoes, ties, blazers…I actually like my gray and aren’t bald at all…Kind of the Mad Men look…Most young women don’t like that yet the ones that do are usually AMAZING and so smart! Anyone can hit a gym and wear Tap Out t-shirts and drive a fast car in the quest to look young…Why… Read more »
Skimmy
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Skimmy
2 years 4 months ago

If your ever in Sydney lets meet (this is like a dating site lol) so many of u in one place woo hoo

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 years 1 month ago

Reality doesn’t bite if what you are is “true”. Good statement.

Geoff Morris
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Geoff Morris
3 years 2 months ago

Dont knock it until youv’e tried it!!

Middle aged Valentino
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Middle aged Valentino
3 years 2 months ago

Anonymous girl very obviously must have been pumped n’ dumped by an older guy who couldn’t get away fast enough once her deep insecurity and borderline psychosis rose to the surface.

I’m 44 and date girls 15+ years younger all the time. They chase ME down. I barely have to even try. I am successful, intelligent, and have body fat in the single digits. People usually think I am around 35 years old. Right now I am dating both a young 30’s yoga instructor and a 26 yr old grad student. Both of them worked VERY hard to get my attention and both of them made the first move. I just sat around being handsome and intelligent, and they couldn’t resist.

Plenty of girls don’t like me for various reasons, but plenty sure do!

Skimmy
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Skimmy
2 years 4 months ago

Dating two chicks at once….I can c why plenty of girls don’t like u plus if your body fat is in the single digits, go get yourself 200 grams of chicken or fish because u would be way too shredded you would look like your from a third world country…someone feed the cheat

Javier
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Javier
3 years 3 months ago

I think the highest level of sexual chemistry if often between older men younger women. Let’s face it, men like to tech and protect, women like to learn and be protected.

A guy who takes care of himself can date any young lady with no trouble.

And the sex is much better.

Skimmy
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Skimmy
2 years 4 months ago

Agree, that’s exactly what I’m after

Paul
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Paul
3 years 3 months ago

PS – what’s an IOI?

Paul
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Paul
3 years 3 months ago

This article makes perfect sense. It’s obvious really! The one thing I’d add though is this – it’s not just getting muscles, it’s using them to hold yourself properly. What’s so important if you’re older is your gait. Pulling your shoulders back may feel strange, but look in the mirror and you’re actually only standing up straight!

Skimmy
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Skimmy
2 years 4 months ago

So so true, the hunchback look works against u

YoungMama
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YoungMama
3 years 3 months ago

I don’t know who you are, Steph but you sound like a cool man. hi definitely agree, that a strong physical physique may attract younger women to older men, but even more important than that, is the financial securitie an older man can provide, advice, with them and life lessons, apparent confidence, and commitment, which a lot of younger men find hard to do.

Skimmy
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Skimmy
2 years 4 months ago

Disagree, it’s none of that I want. I have my own money

Steph
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Steph
3 years 4 months ago
Hey. I dig the visual aspect of the smooth skin, tight body woman. At 62, I am a ‘ been there, done that (got the t-shirt)’ dude. Married (divorced) a Latina 16 years younger. Fiancé ( finance) visa. That was 20 years ago. Since, match dot. Even women 20 years younger do not look so great. One profile I read said ‘ no luggage or baggage’. I had to write and ask is there really a difference? She was indignant as I made the mistake of mentioning I read hundreds of profiles.. ‘ If you have read so many profiles, you should know luggage is rugrats! brats! kids.Baggage’ yadda yadda… I am sure the more income/education attracts the lookers but then comes the issue of children! I am leading up to the elusive temperament of a younger(?) Asian/Chinese woman. Who can afford to ‘ climb’ the Great Wall? Travel back and forth, learn another culture while she forgets any marital priorities. Some rich fat bastard can buy his dream wife unspoiled in Western ways. He could buy love. I understand the concept of security and stability concerning a younger woman’s attraction to a 20+ older man, but the temperament of… Read more »
Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 6 months ago

You’re just wrong. Plus you are too judgemental about other cultures. “Slurping” your soup is a sign of liking the meal in Asian cultures. But if you are trying to meet a woman to be your wife…I would steer clear of Chinese. They are a WHOLE other mindset and culture. Seriously wacko in my opinion!. Try a Filipina or Thai, or even Vietnamese. They are MORE than willing to find a husband your age and stick for life. (Latinas..no!) Pleanty of online sites that specialize in those countries. But yes…you have to go there and meet them.

Skimmy
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Skimmy
2 years 4 months ago

If u can afford it go overseas and bring/ save a young girl from a harsh life, look after her gently and well.

I love them older but I’m far from submissive

Anna
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Anna
3 years 4 months ago
Anonymous Girl, While I appreciate your right to your own opinion, and understand why you might feel that way, I must respectfully disagree. I am quite young, and find myself always attracted to older men, whom of which are usually old enough to be my father. It’s not because I’m a gold digger; it is simply because I find it easier to connect with them on an intellectual level. I don’t have to explain my jokes or references, and it’s much easier to talk to them than it is to talk to someone my own age. I just get along better with older people, and they seem to like me. For the men I talk to, it might be about the physical aspects of a relationship, but it can’t be solely about physical attraction when we spend hours talking to each other. By the way, pedophelia is the act or fantasy on the part of an adult of engaging in sexual activity with a child or children. In short, it’s an adult being sexually attracted to children. Someone being attracted to a person in his/her twenties is far different from a fully grown and matured adult having sexual fantasies that… Read more »
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creativity
3 years 4 months ago
ANONMous GIRL, you say that: “But i am just saying that I would never ever go out with a fifty year old. I would rather slit my on throat because I do not “appreciate” your age as you say. Your oldness does not make you sexy to me in fact it makes you ugly as it should” From this comment, I think you make a very clear point that you would not want a fifty-year-old as a boyfriend, given that you do not feel attracted to people that age. Therefore, given a (hypothetical) situation where you couldn’t go out with men younger than 50, I guess you would prefer being alone rather than having a boyfriend that you do not feel attracted to. If this is the case, why do you expect older men to settle for a woman their own age? Quoting your own words: “In conclusion it is pathetic guys why don’t you be real men and go for a girl that is your own age for once in your life.” Why would they do such a thing and who are you to tell them what to do? I mean, let’s say their dislike towards women “their own… Read more »
Skimmy
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Skimmy
2 years 4 months ago

Come here so I can cuddle u. I luv em older ….if he looks after himself, anyone care to lift with me xoxo

Anna
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Anna
3 years 4 months ago

Just for your proper use of the word “pejorative” in a sentence, I award you 100 internet points. Also, you get a virtual high-five! 😀

farkel
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farkel
3 years 4 months ago

ANONMous girl can’t even spell how can anyone expect her to think in a mature and rational fashion? Just look at Brigitte Bardot she was one of the sexiest screen stars when she was in her 20’s now look at her! Or even someone in your same generation like Britney Spears. One day you will lose those good looks ANONM I just hope either you change your attitude before that happens so you can get a guy with a good career and lots of money or learn to spell so you can get a good job!

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OnceUponaTim
3 years 5 months ago

After reading these women’s posts, I say “femenazi” these women are under the influence of the man hating faction of women. I am 50+ and dated women that were in their early 20s. What these women are pissed about is that their “assets” are depreciating and men only get better as they mature (appreciate). Women are genetically programed to be attracted to older men as their genes are “proven” but are sociatally reprogramed to be prejudice against a mans birthdate. Only a women’s group could get away with this and only against men…

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 9 months ago

Completely agree, and it’s very shallow to say words such as pathetic and disgusting. An older, refined man knows much better how to take care of a younger woman. To state disgusting sounds like she doesn’t even have the simple understanding that two people of different ages can have great chemistry and pure intentions toward each other.

Skimmy
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Skimmy
2 years 4 months ago

You sound as deluded as the princess.

Older men drive me wild. I love them anywhere between 35-55 years of age and i dont have daddy issues, am successful in my career and have a killer body and an attractive face but if any spoke like u , it wouldn’t be the age that turned me off, it would be the attitude, more reading for u.

ANONMous GIRL
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ANONMous GIRL
3 years 5 months ago

Ew this website disgusts me and so does the author. Even if an old guy was muscular I still wouldn’t fucking date him. It is like saying that a young man will date a 50 year old women as long as her body is good never mind if her 50 year old face sags to the floor. Ew I feel sorry for the girls that actually go for 50 year olds it doesnt matter how much muscle you have YOU ARE STILL ALWAYS GOING TO BE 50, and you will never look as good as a 20 year old.

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jean-pierre mercier
1 year 2 months ago
i relate a little anecdote a friend of mine shared with me. it is concerning hypocrisy. this fellow, from quebec, 56 yrs of age travels to cuba on a regular basis, 10-12 times a year for 2-week vacations. younger cuban women, say 20-40, make themselves available as companions on the internet to meet men upon their arrival in cuba. there are slobs who drool and generally comport themselves as such in public in bars and resorts on vacation and there are those who don’t look upon the local women as throwaway. my buddy is in the latter group. and he looks great for his age. he relates that when he is with his current date in cuba, and she maybe someone he is meeting for the umpteenth time, he is judged as “look, another old guy with a young chick, disgusting.” by women he identifies as being from quebec as well because they don’t realize he speaks french as well as fluent spanish. but he’ll see some of the same two-faced women carrying on with younger cuban men later on in clubs and other establishments. these women are usually in pairs or more, on vacation, and looking for younger latino… Read more »
Bingo
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Bingo
1 year 8 months ago

You and me ,everyone will get old one day, I guess you still young, you probably have a different attitude and mind set in 20 years time so you probably would agree when your time comes, mind you I was like you went back 20 years ago!

Skimmy
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Skimmy
2 years 4 months ago

Don’t worry sweetie, those men will likely see your entitled princess personality and you will be dis guarded back to the guy who will just use u for sex….less competition for me and my girls….I’ve got some roid heads for u.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 years 3 months ago

Uh, you really don’t know men well. Most men will get with a hot woman regardless of her age. Actually, many young men are attracted to an older womans confidence and maturity…just like young women are to older men.

ANONMous GIRL
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ANONMous GIRL
3 years 4 months ago

Really I don’t think it is my loss dude. I just want to say that what you write is pathetic and disgusting and this is why men stare at pretty women that are way way out of their league and think hmm maybe I have a chance. When mostly these young girls are looking at you and thinking ohhh I feel sorry for that old guy. So no I actually don’t think it is my loss. I think that it is a loss that old ass men think that they can get with pretty young women, I think that is a loss.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 years 2 months ago
Actually, anonymous , historically , women have married, dated, mated, older men. My older friend is 15 years older than me, he is 40. He works out at the gym w,me and benches 350, while i can only bench press 250.He has six pack abs, and muscles ripped, i have big arms and and pecs but no six pack. When we go out for drinks , women are more attracted to him than me and i have been told i am cute. He gets laid or has sex with younger women like,my age 25 and even 21 yr old hot chicks have sex w him. I have not had sex for six months . He has sex w attractive younger girls 4 times a week. Our society is shallow , looks matter, and i agree w the author, if an older man has muscle tone , he looks better and younger to attract younger women. Even older women who work out and take care of themselves are called cougars and young guys like me have been attracted to them, and had sex w them. So stop hating on the author , or i will need to have my older ripped… Read more »
Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 years 6 months ago

Continuation….
not the least physique. His manly body always tells me that he is protecting me. Everything that’s been said is correct. I so agree!!!!

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 years 6 months ago

I’m 37 now my husband of 14 years is now 64. I was just 22 when i met him. We got married when I was 23 and he was 48. I’m still attracted to him up to now because of his gentle touch, kindness, love and last but n

Rebeca Kasak
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3 years 6 months ago

In addition to the above tips, I believe that the best thing a man can do to attract a younger woman is to maintain his physique and appearance.

superdave
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superdave
3 years 7 months ago

What movie is the picture from?

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