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How To Touch A Woman Friend To Get Her Horny In 3 Minutes Flat – Your Complete Guide

I want to talk about how to initiate touch with a woman in a social party, at a bar, at a club, in any kind of party or nightlife situation, in a manner to generate HARD attraction with her- and get her horny within 3 minutes flat.

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First of all, touching a woman causes her body to release a powerful sex hormone called oxytocin.

Oxytocin, what it does is increases a woman’s testosterone levels, giving her high sex drive. Oxytocin also causes a woman to feel a powerful bonding feeling with whoever is touching her. And it creates a desire to be penetrated; a woman spiked with Oxytocin has a sudden desire for intercourse.

So you’re talking to a woman, and even if she’s cold to you at first, a few touches will make her start to feel hot and sexual, literally against her will, because it’s an automatic response women have to touch.

And it doesn’t matter where or how much you touch her, even a few small touches on the woman’s arm is enough to release a spike of oxytocin hormones into her body and warm her up to you.

What’s more, the oxytocin hormone gives her the desire to be touched even more, producing yet even more oxytocin, a reinforcing cycle of sex hormone escalation.

So if you keep touching a woman, she’ll quickly get to the point of wanting more and more touches and eventually warm up to penetration and sex.

And here’s the strange but wonderful thing about it; the Oxytocin response is FAR more powerful in women than it is for men.

That’s because Oxytocin affects the brain only in combination with estrogen. Without estrogen, Oxytocin has no effect. And women have far more estrogen in their bodies than men, particularly young women.

I mean, in your experience, have you ever noticed how a girl you were never really attracted to before, one day she touched you on the hand or shoulder and suddenly, suddenly, like a bolt out of the blue, blood rushed to your penis or you started to think about her differently, in a more sexual way?

Well, in women, that effect of a touch is literally 10 times more powerful!

A touch turns you from nice guy friend into potential lover instantly.

You can’t underestimate how being touched automatically and universally gets women in the mood for sex, literally and immediately, and for more touching and quickly for and penetration.

Oxytocin also decreases mental processes and impairs memory. A spike of the hormone brought on by a touch basically takes a woman outside of her head and into the moment. That’s why hugging a girl will typically defuse and melt away her “bitch shield” or cool her off from an argument; touch breaks her pattern, makes her forget her pain, and changes her state. Hugging a girl can instantly warm her up to you in a purely sexual way.

For all those reasons, it’s why touch is one of the KEYS for generating HARD attraction in women.

If she likes you, she thinks you’re awesome, you’re entertaining to her, she will feel light attraction to you. But unless you are touching her, you’re going to FAIL to generate HARD attraction, period, that hard attraction where the girl will literally chase you down.

And look, guys are naturally more physical than women. We’re sportier, we’re about 20% physically larger on average, and physically stronger.

Women are more in touch with their feelings and their feelings quickly change to the surrounding environment.

So it’s natural to stimulate women’s feelings, spiking their sexual hormones, through being masculinely physical. By touching a girl and her being receptive and having your touch affecting her feelings, you are being a natural man, and she’s being a natural women. So it’s completely natural to touch women, all women, when you meet them.

Touch The Girl Right Away

Now, when you’re in a bar or club or social party, it’s very important to touch a woman right off the bat, from the beginning of the interaction.

Because if you just stay in conversation land, and you talk, and you talk, and talk, and talk, and talk, and talk some more, the longer the conversation goes on, the weirder it’s going to feel to the woman in a way she can’t quite put her finger on.

And how long can you fucking talk a girl’s ear off? 20 minutes? You’re going to keep going for 40 minutes? And never make physical contact?

What happens is, if you never touch her, you just end up entertaining her to keep the conversation going. And that’s a sure-fire recipe for the conversation to eventually just die and go nowhere and you end up wasting your time.

The sooner you touch a girl from the first moment the conversation starts, the more NORMAL the touching and the conversation is going to feel to her.

Because if you touch her right away, it shows her that you are completely comfortable with touching, you’re not making a move, it’s just part of who you are, and what you do with everyone. And since it’s no big deal to you, it won’t be a big deal to her.

When you touch a girl right away, you’re showing her your sexual masculine intent from the very beginning and she feels in her gut that you’re a sexual man and a possible sexual partner, and not just a friend or a buddy.

But if you wait 20 minutes into the conversation, and THEN you suddenly try to lay your hands on her of nowhere, you’ll creep her out because it’s like you were pretending to be the “nice guy” for the first 20 minutes to make her like you, and only THEN once you felt you had her permission to go further, only then did you start touching her. And that’s WEAK and girls don’t like it because you suddenly changed personalities halfway through.

That’s not what a cool guy who trusts in his actions does, he doesn’t look for the girl’s permission to start touching her, he just does it from the very beginning because that’s just what he does with all girls.

So touch the girl right away, because if you wait and beat around the bush trying to get her permission and making sure that she likes you, the girl isn’t going to trust you.

But once a woman feels physical contact is there from the very beginning, once she sees it’s just part of who you are, she will accept whatever the fuck you do, because girls fundamentally like touch. And once touched, they want more touch.

The Initial Moves You Need To Make

Okay, now what I’m going to do is give you a give you a moves to begin touching a woman in a bar or club when you first open her and say hello.

The jewelry moves. After saying hello or introducing yourself and opening, you check out her jewelry. You just ask her about her jewelry while you touch her jewelry and by default brush her skin with your fingers. You do a jewelry inspection.

Or another initial first touch you can make, is when you introduce yourself, you shake her hand and you pull her in slightly.

Or you introduce yourself, say something that you like about her, and then you give her a hug, which conveys assertiveness, comfort, and sexuality.

Or when you open her, you put your arm around her shoulder as you do so.

So you want to pick some physical move that you start out every interaction with. And it can be the same move for every girl you meet. You don’t 5 different opening physical moves in your head at once. Just pick one, stick with it, they’re all effective, and they’re all good.

It doesn’t matter the first physical move you make, it just matters that you make a move. They’ll all triggering the Oxytocin response. That all convey assertiveness, leadership, comfort with oneself, trust, self-acceptance and convey sexuality. All of them. So just pick one. And get it down. Use it and recklessly bust it out on all the girls you meet.

For example, every time you open a girl, start inspecting her jewelry. For every single girl you meet.

Or, every time you say hello to a girl, put your arm around her shoulder. Even if she’s with other girls in her group, or whatever. Just make it a rule that when you introduce yourself, you put your arm around her shoulder.

Hugging every girl is damingly effective because girls likes hugs. And you make it the one minute hug rule. Within the first minute of any interaction, you MUST hug the girl! No questions asked. No scenario where this isn’t possible. No situation where it won’t lead to a better outcome.

So pick your opening physical move, and just stick with that move. And getting physical is exactly what sparks that HARD attraction.

(P.S. For even BETTER physical moves, check out my Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control program here)

The 1 Minute Hug Rule

Here’s how to make a girl horny in one minute flat…

Now most guys talk about what they should SAY to women, but really attraction and seduction is not in your verbal sparring with the girl, but in the physical interaction, the touching.

Because can’t really expect to talk your way into a girl’s heart. It’s got to be through physical touch. It’s physical touch that is what makes the girl wet and horny between the legs for you.

So rule #1 is, you want to touch the girl right off the bat. You don’t to be waiting 10 minutes into the conversation before you start thinking, “Oooh, wait a minute, I should be touching this girl.”

You need to initiate touch right from the beginning, and the second you start talking to her, you should be touching her.

It could be giving her a high five, or shaking her hand on the introduction, or tapping her on the shoulder, it doesn’t matter. You just want to set the precedent of touching her and giving her the idea that you’re okay with touch and that it’s okay to be touched by you.

And once that first touch precedent is set, you want to keep physically escalating!

And one good rule to follow is the hugging rule.

And the hugging rule is that you want to hug the girl within 60 seconds of meeting her. So within the first 60 seconds of any interaction, somehow you MUST hug the girl! So questions asked.

So even if people are looking, it doesn’t matter girls like to be hugged no matter what. You can hug the girl in front of other people. Girls love hugs.

Even if a girl has a boyfriend that you don’t know about, it’s still cool and socially accepted to hug the girl.

And you don’t need a good reason to hug the girl. Just for any dumb excuse you can give her a hug. She says something you like, and you say, “Hey that’s so cool of you! Come here, give me a hug for X Y and Z!” And you hug her.

And what hugging does is that conveys confidence, it conveys dominance, assertiveness, friendliness, sexuality, it conveys to the girl that you do what you want and you take what you want.

Hugging conveys that you’re not held back by what other people think or by society’s standards. It conveys that you’re comfortable with physicality and therefore sex.

It conveys that you’re a leader, and that you’re not worried about being judged by others.

And the cool thing about hugging the girl within 60 seconds is that it helps to overcome one of the biggest conversation problems, and that is the problem of running out of things to say.

Once you hug the girl, there’s a level of sexual tension, and then it doesn’t matter what you say. Because even talking about your job or what the weather is going to be is going to be far more sexually charged, and therefore very interesting to the girl.

So instead of trying to be interesting by having the most interesting or funny things to say, instead touch her right away, hug her within the first minute, and then you’ve created a low level of sexual tension and then even the most boring topics will seem interesting to the girl because your are physically attractive to her and there’s a physical attraction going on.

And be setting the physical groundwork early, it makes it much easier down the road to cross that barrier into kissing and sex.

Because if you don’t touch her early on, it gets very hard later on to try to go for that first kiss. But if touching is already there, getting to the kiss is more of just a natural extension or next step of the physical escalation.

So remember, touch the girl right away, even if it’s just with a handshake, and hug the girl within the first 60 seconds.

It makes the interactions so much easier and getting to that first kiss, and you don’t have to worry about what to say so much.

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  1. Jesse Charger

    Leave your comment below…

    • ava

      don’t you think by commenting on her jewelry it might come off a bit fruity? also hugging a girl you’ve just met for an entire minute seems excessively long, friends have a tough time embracing in a hug that long…honestly i think these tactics are a bit flawed, unless you have personal evidence to defend these tips?

      • Facepalm

        not an entire minute. within the first minute…

      • Anonymous

        Some girls could have been abused sexually and reserved in the whole sexual area manipulations not good

      • sione

        Mate if you don’t try them you don’t know lots of people like my self can pull it off if you think like that than of course you can’t pull it off

    • mxls

      Is it oky to touch her booty while huggin her first time?

  2. Iven

    great advise the way to get any girl is to meet her and hug her within a minute and get her oxytocin to rise and than hold her hand and walk her to wereever and than hug her and now slowly move your hands up and down her shoulder and when she laughs thats were she like it now move your hands slightly over it and ask for a kiss and than she will have to give it to you you have to ask becouse if she does not want it than you keep doing this but in not enought than you will get slapped so ask her for a kiss and than kiss her on her neck and than go slowly with you tounge all the way up to behind her ear and than kiss her there and do it with your tounge and than she will want sex so go and give it to her

    • Jesse Charger

      Iven, do a search on the site for ‘touch escalation’ for a formula

    • Anonymous

      What the hell man. Try using punctuation.

    • kaiwan

      I really like this conversation
      Its hot and sexy
      Because I am burning! Inside
      Yes inside,
      I look for a hot girl.

  3. penis

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    • Jesse Charger

      You sound really excited Mr. Penis

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  5. ALISON

    thanks men your techniques realy works

    • Jesse Charger

      Thanks Alison

  6. Anonymous

    Just fuck her right away in the womens restroom

    • Anonymous

      Agreed!!!!

      • Anonymous

        I’m down ;)

  7. Socialkenny PUA

    Powerful Jedi-mind shit here bro’!

    Although I’m an advanced PUA/coach,there are nuggets of gold in this article which makes me wanna revert to my newbie days and pull out the pen and pad lol.

  8. Anonymous

    A girl usually come to pee and she older than me how can I make her want sex without conversation?

    • Jesse Charger

      huh ? :?:

  9. Robey

    hey i like my buddy’s cuzin and im pritty sure she has a thing for me. i have been teasing her by not paying attention to her and her doing the work to get my attention. i was wondering how can i pull this off when theres alots of people around such as my friend

  10. Robey

    plz reply as soon as possible cuz i want to get some things done ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;)

  11. smart d

    please sir how can i make go to girls that like me already?

  12. Anonymous

    :cry: :evil: :arrow:

  13. legacy

    i have a girl who tells me she loves but anytime i try kissing her she avoids me,although i have kissed her before but it wasn’t that willing from her,already she had told me about some attempt to rape by her best friend and her dad’s close friend when she was a kid and has been appearing in her dreams in the night,so she says she feels uncomfortable with kissing and not even going down on her or having sex will work because she has called a stop to kissing and i accepted so now she doesn’t come to visit me,so we only talk on phone,but am really not feeling well with that,so please what should i do?because i love her and i want sex too.

    • Jesse Charger

      she’s using it as an excuse not to have sex with you, because if she meets a guy she really likes, she WILL have sex with him! click on the links to the forum and we can discuss more

    • X

      from now on, it’s like waiting for an asshole to self-lubricate, without knowing that the only way that’s gonna happen is by letting shit out (if someone’s iq is under 40 i mean the sex won’t be good if, and i repeat, if it happens). So Fuck her, metaphorically, and GFTOG litterally, and u’ll see how she’ll come back after she sees that to toss ur salad while ur brushing her away.

      Much love to all the self improvers,
      Fuck your egos Mathafackass, and go out and get ur fuckin hands dirty- Lord Jesus-

    • Anonymous

      If you truly love her then you can wait until she is ready to have sex.
      She trusts you because she told you about her attempted rapes when she was a kid. That shows that she sees a future with you to have trusted you with such personal info.
      You have a penis. You can masturbate while you wait for her to be ready. You have to think about her feelings and her perspective on this. This must be very hard for her. You should talk to her about your feelings too. Don’t tell her you Love her if you don’t really mean it, and are only after sex because that would just make you a horrible person. Especially since you already know that she is feeling scared about sex.

  14. Anonymous

    ;)

  15. Drake

    how do i penetrate a girl?!

    • Yo Brother

      You can’t haha

    • Chief Keef

      Put your nose in her ear and sniff as hard as you can.

  16. I eat played oh

    Your advice explains a lot of what I did wrong with the last girl I was with. I still don’t quite know how to just come up outa nowhere and strike up convo with a girl. Whether it be Hastings or anywhere people usually go and not just the club or night life situations. That’s probably the hardest part for the majority of guys.

  17. Anonymous

    8)

  18. samuel juma

    Gud n fab lecture. Plz notify mi of anytin gud upcoming thro MA email. Thank buddie.

    • grammar police

      *Good *and *please *me *anything *through *my *thanks *buddy

  19. Anonymous

    :roll: :o ;) :evil: 8) 8O :!: :( :) :? :?: :| :twisted: :arrow: :cry: :cry:

  20. Jonathan

    Great to see some techniques~~but the hugging part, wouldnt it seem wierd to just hug a girl that you have just met? I am sort of afraid that i might get a wrong/ bad reaction… I do want a girlfriend or flirtatious girl who likes to play around with me… please give some tips how

    • Jesse Charger

      ask me on the forum !

  21. confused

    Hey i got this friend that has a crush on me and a boyfriend how can i make her feel comftiable enuff to wanna jump in tha bed if you could tell me how to do that id be in there lik swimwear

  22. Anonymous

    ive hugged tons of of girls becaful when you hug them thelr smarter then you give credit but other then that thisis great advice

  23. DrSex

    Fantastic advice, and it all makes perfect sense when you recall the situations when a guy has just walked in and pulled a girl right out the group. Now I think of it, all the touch elements were in play…

  24. Anonymous

    The g spot is in the butthole

  25. School Boy and Swimmer Girl

    I cannot believe this actually worked!!!! And I didn’t even know that I was doing it!!! There was a group in girls in high school that absolutltely loved me! They would wait for me during snack and lunck/ worry and ask why I wasn’t there! I never had this in my life and it all happened when I was trying to be more acertive. I have broken the boundary with hugs, and not even known it! Also when it came to the time I spent with them, I would touch them on the arm and even rest mine on their shoulders. ONLY IF I HAVE KNOWN THIS SOONER!!! I WOULD HAVE BEEN UP WITH ALL THOSE “PRETTY BOYS” THAT WOMEN SWOONED OVER!!!!!

    -Lesson learned.. touch, touch and HUG!!!

  26. Barry Sewall

    Thanks 8)

  27. Anonymous

    friends i want to have my girl friend give advice praveen.badguyz@yahoo.com

  28. Ay

    hi! there. there is this girl i asked out in my class in skool that refused me on the account of having a boyfriend but we still have lots of fun and i have even tried kissing her but she refused but we hungout at a friends house one particular day and it was all about cuddling and breast touching and she told me that she likes watchin porn and she also sid we were going to discuss about it wen we resumed skool and it is tomorrow we are resuming plz how do i go about making her horny and dripping wet

    • Anonymous

      I would say to just follow what this says! just when you touch her do it super gentlyand slowly and you can touch her anywhere really and you can touch her a lot! that would probably get her wet =)

  29. styler

    my step sis is always giving me hugs and trying to be friendly towards me what is her deal she always hugging me….btw hugging me don’t work on me lmao maybe it’s just women

    • bob

      i get a boner when my sis in law hugs me

      • Anonymous

        Hahahaha ha the female is a extremely interesting breed of humans but one way I always pick my woman up is by remembering one quote “baby you and me ….. We’re just mammals …. Lets do it like where on the discovery Chanel …” -truth

  30. jay kamal

    I know this girl from skul and really want to have sex with her, that girl
    Gets horny easily. And I’m really Good friend with her but the thing is I’m afraid to ask her out or we are good friends abs I feel embarrassed. What can I do please help me.

    • Anonymous

      wats her full name?

    • rohit

      wats hr full name?

  31. jay kamal

    How do I get a girl horny when she is sitting next to me

  32. kyle

    Ok, my girlfriend wants sex nearly everyday now, and Its really getting quite irritating now, why does she want this?

    • Helpful person :)

      Dude, why would you ever complain about something as beautiful and wonderful as sex? But still. Just tell her that you don’t want to have it as often cause you’re tired or stressed out. But don’t make it think your tired or stressed out cause of her lol. Sex every day could get pretty tiring I’d imagine. So yeah, just tell her how you feel I guess. But be cautious of how you tell her :P

      • Anonymous

        Give me her number lol

    • Jesse Charger

      get her a second girlfriend to play with ;)

    • Anonymous

      Give me her number

  33. Anonymous

    you guys are so stupid, you never even thought about the spiritual side.

    • Banana

      What do u mean

  34. Theophilus

    the is nothing important like being loved by a girl that is willing to do anything for u just becouse the way u touch her makes her wet each time she see u

  35. mac

    Best way to get a girl wanting you, is the way you look in her eyes, it trigger some in her head, look at a girl right.

  36. Clitz

    Sir, here, take my like!!! I don’t know why, but this is one of the funniest article i’ve come across. The way you wrote it makes sound very promising and you make it look so easy. Thanks man, i’ll share this on twitter. Or not! Should I? The girls too would love this article anyway. LOL

    • Jesse Charger

      They’ll like it why not .. ?

      • Anonymous

        Thanks bro! Makes sense.

  37. red

    I met this woman older than me , she is inviting me to her house. She loves me n I wanna pound her hard that she will never forget me. Can u gv me some tips on how to make her like me in bed more

    • Jesse Charger

      check out blissnosis !!

  38. king

    :cool::cool:..Nice ideas..thank u bro..

  39. Mdson

    It was a real brain storming stuff, nd it really educative. It make me feel as if to go out there and chat up a lady. Tnks man

  40. Hughs MD

    I don’t understand, this- touching a woman causes her body to release a powerful sex hormone called oxytocin. Since when oxytocin become sex hormone? You should say pleasure “orgasmic” hormone. Only sex hormones are estrogen, progesterone and testosterone and its derivatives DHT. Testosterone is most important hormone for libido (desire) hormone in man and woman. Thats I could understand but not oxytocin. First to make woman to look at you its how you look and how you speak, if you had pretty sexy speech all ladies would be yours.

  41. Anonymous

    Hey jesse. I’m going to try this tomorrow on a girl – like at a drugstore. So exited to see what happens

    • Jesse Charger

      keep us updated :smile:

  42. Anonymous

    Yes I would like to ask how do you get past the friend part. I have a roomate I care about and am attracted to . She says she is not into me as anything more than a friend . Any suggestions to get past that?

    • Jesse Charger

      Getting past the friends part has everything to do with physical touch. Friends don’t touch… potential lovers DO

  43. Ananth

    Hey friends, I li :lol: :lol: ke to have sex with my girl friend, but she is shying to kiss me only, by that do u think taking her on bed is easyer?

  44. sipho kabelo

    ;-) how do turn a girl on

  45. ~girl~

    Isn’t this just a little bit sexist? Yes. Yes it is.

  46. Anonymous

    This was a amassing and interesting article my only question is where is the best place to touch a girl and how to make a excuse to hug her?

    • Jesse Charger

      you don’t need an excuse to huge the girl. just do it, like a greeting when you first say hello. If you act like it’s normal, she’ll think it’s normal.

  47. AMAZO

    I touch my girlfriend all the time. Usually with the back hand cos she hasn’t finished the washing up. Does this count? Is she being aroused do you think whilst I caress her face with my hand, impacting her at bruising velocity? I used to think I was smacking my bich up, but now I know I’m turning her on, I will have to engage in this activity more often. What that?……Dinner?……(SMACK)……..You call that dinner? She must really be hot for me.

  48. MR. Green

    i fall in love with a unmerried woman who is one year elder then me, we know one another from 2004, at is about Nine years, already she knows that i m fall in love with her, as she got be a good friend or a reliable younger brother she can’t get me as a lover, but i want to marry her.. and i told this her but she got angry with my behavior. now what should i can ………

  49. spank her in public

    Mr. Green grow some balls and become an Alpha. Women like men who are confident and know what they want. When you first met her she put you in the friend zone because she is waiting for someone to walk up to her, grab her hand, and walk her into a paradise. She doesn’t feel like you will provide for her and protect her so you are only friend material. Stop trying to change her mind and change yourself….she may just come around

  50. spank her in public

    Men if you are going to pee yourself every time a women comes around you will never have any luck. You need to know one thing….they are only women. They fart, burp, poop, pee, eat, and sleep. They do not have super powers keeping you from them. The only thing stopping you from talking to them is you. You do not need women training, you just need confidence training. Women want to know that you are not going to fall apart over life’s day to day operations. That is why little things like talking to her and being able to touch her matter. If you cant do those things then what are you going to do when the car breaks down on a long trip in the middle of nowhere. Or what are you going to do when her boss makes passes at her. Women think all of these things through when you first meet them and make a decision on where to put you…freak,friend or fuck partner. So man up… follow this advice….. and get some tail.

  51. Anonymous

    Hey I hv a frnd to whom im really attracted to. I meet her everyday how do I get her to hv sex with me?

    • Jesse Charger

      Start touching her everyday, casually… like I explain :!:

  52. MstrChf117

    Lets say my Gf been mistreated by men years ago. Shes been sex free for 2 years. Now she’s tryin to stay away from sex, but wants in. She moans when she sleeps in my arms & I rub her. How do I go bout turnin her on? Where r some pin point locations on her body to get her interested in sex again? To bring it, the old her, back out?

  53. anon123

    Some questions: Girl doesn’t wanna be isolated from the rest of the group (cos I find it awkward to escalate beyond the touching on and off, especially amongst a group of people that talk about those coming just to pick up girls – i don’t wish for the word of mouth to spread about me like I’m a bad apple or sth) or sometimes I find that girl pulls her hand away (when I try to hold her hand) or that she push my hand slowly away when I put my hand on her shoulder (at some point, not immediately). How do I go about escalating in this cases? I notice that most guides lead men to have sex on the first date or first day of meeting a woman (though through my past experiences, they became more of a touch n go relationship – I sorta just am looking for more dates with one single person, but just wish to be viewed as being more than a friend, where sex would come eventually though not on first date cos ppl said that if sex happens on the first date that the woman would not view the man as any serious material but a fling. Correct me if i’m wrong in any of these :) Thanks!

    Thanks!

  54. Alex

    Hey, this is the meat here. Very good information, thanks man!

  55. Fuzzbuster

    This guy knows his stuff! If I am sexually interested in a woman, I like touching her shoulder – and yes, within the 1st minute of meeting her. I do this very gently while looking her in they eyes and asking whether I can get her anything, or ask if she minds walking this way so we can talk, or whatever – it doesn’t matter. The jewelery thing works too – but you have to be careful not to come off as a fruit. “Oh, I just love those earrings” – ehhh, that gets her wondering if you’re a homo. But, “Ahh, that looks really tribal…” something along that line does work. I never really knew why touch works on women, but it does. Thanks for providing details on this.

  56. Cadencia

    some girl doesn’t like to be hug but handshake can easily be done to them.

  57. Brianna

    I never let guys hug me, that’s not my thing. And this exactly WHY I don’t let guys hug me. On a side note, I’m sure touching and closely hugging him could make him horny too!

  58. View IM

    You are right man. Women love a touch, but I think we have to find a good reason to hug him. :)

  59. peedldee

    Jesse

    Get the feeling you are much younger than me but knowledge often comes from the most unlikely places. I am not necessarily attractive but have always been very self aware and confident. I have had woman half my age often. I always wondered what it was that attracted them and now I know- always greeted them with a hug!! thanks for the clarification. My conquests have always told me I am very sexy…

  60. peedldee

    Oh, and guys, pics and texting do not work- REAL TIME INTERACTION- press the flesh!!

  61. M.Hardman

    Bro… Here in South Africa, the hug is used as a greeting… If we touch anymore its going to be seen as awkward..so yea this advice is great I’m sure.. But not in all countries :( us africans have it tough here with the competition. Where are the boobies :(

  62. Anonymous

    I don’t know how to start conversation with a girl. If I will able to start conversation I can easily go ahead. Can you please give me tips ?

  63. Anonymous

    WHAT DA FUCK HOW DA HELL DID I GET TO DIS PART OF THE INTERNET O_O Dont listen to dis stupid ass you just get to know a female nd fuck whatever happens happens :I

  64. Anonymous

    this is wrong. Oxytocin is a hormone stimulated by only the females pituatary gland and it is what puts her into labor. thats why if women dont go into labor the hospitals induce them with ptocin im in the medical profession

    • Anonymous

      Oxytocin is involved with childbirth but it also plays a vital role in orgasms and feelings of trust and intimacy. Do the research yourself and see

  65. Dick Whetmore

    Walked up and hugged this girl just like you said and it worked! But within 5 minutes after commenting on her ring and lightly brushing her hand as I did so her fiancé was beating my ass. Now I’m in a full body cast and no way to get laid for at least 6 months.

  66. Richard

    Wha if you touch the Gril in the frist muntie and she tell you to stop tat .

  67. Anonymous

    Does this work with 40 year olds?

  68. Rob

    Good stuff! Thanx

  69. Ankita

    wats hr full name

  70. Jeff

    No wonder I’ve been so unlucky over the years.. :).. Nice article.

  71. Elvis k

    Good advice,its amazing how women relate to being touch.
    I’ve been recalling my previous interactions and not touching the girl lead to the most boring social encounters.

  72. Anonymous

    I think that guys can touch and hug women, but I also think that they should not do that to women who they are just meeting. I think that they should ask the women whether or not she wants to get horny. They should ask women before they touch her because I view it disrespectful for a man to touch a woman without asking her permission first. Also the guy doesn’t know whether or not she is mentally ill, so by touching her and getting her all horny he could make it so that she has a mental breakdown. Causing a woman to have a mental breakdown is not a very nice thing for a guy to do to a woman.

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  74. nunya

    Lmao..This Is Pretty Generalized And Manipulative. Imma Woman And Ive Been Around Jackass Men Who Are Overly Friendly And Touchy And More Often Than Not I Am Not Impressed Or Turned On And I Have A Rather Healthy Appetite For Sex. Asking To See Jewelry? ThAts Just Fucking Weird.I Think The Only Way This Could Work For Me Is The Guy Would Have To Be In My Opinion Smoking Hot. Otherwise, NaH. This Is Why So Many Men Fail With Women. They Listen To Advice Like This.

  75. monwabisi

    it was good and educational

  76. Why do you care what my name is

    Well this is not bad it has good info but will this really work?

  77. Raja

    I want to know in which way we give the oxitocin for a girl

  78. Mr Not Sure

    how to sleep because i cant sleep with this topic you post O_O

  79. kelvin

    nyc tips

  80. kelvin

    Wow nice tips but I dont think the hand shake will work

  81. Anonymous

    Oriental conceptions about interaction between males and females, about touching are completely different. And oriental ladies have their educational, familial conceptions about interaction and touching : they just don’t allow these kinds of touching which are rude, unacceptable to them. So your theory will absolutely, completely fail, and worse, will create a very bad impression from them (and this is a complete turn off), if you touch them boldy and roughly….I think you should have other methods which can apply to women in general in the world, because your current methods may (I said “may”) be reliable to all occidental women.

  82. Anonymous

    :o :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :smile: :smile: :smile: :smile: :smile: :smile: :smile: :smile: :twisted: :twisted:

  83. 4n0nym0us

    lik mah sak wurks

  84. 4n0nym0us

    also try viagra and horny goats

  85. 4n0nym0us

    and comment on her tonsils. i would know i had the sex once

  86. Anonymous

    Haha this is what I already do and trust me guys it works

  87. Anonymous

    :O

  88. black Jesus

    Hah great advice thanks

  89. casperdexter

    cool..i hp it wksi

  90. P M

    In Islam and muslim culture it is forbidden for a man to touch a woman if they are not married, before praying they should wash face, hand and feets, if you touch a woman between this washing and praying ritual, the pray will not be accepted. This should explain the points made in this article. Touching a woman before the pray will invalidate the pray. This article is logical and makes sense. Now One can see why touching is so sensitive in muslim culture.

  91. Anonymous

    Wow everyone on here is an idiot women are easy finding one u can put up with for ever is the real trick

  92. Danny

    Nice to hear that, Can that work with older women?

  93. Boom Pow

    Boom!

  94. ROOSHV

    BANG BUS!

  95. Anonymous

    drop your wad,i mean your money then show her yours,and ask her to see hers,then ask her if that dosent work to go and set your alarm in your bedroom to get up for work the next day.women like men who work and oh looky here she is in yo bedroom.

  96. Daniel

    Perfect, works all the time.

  97. Lottie

    you sure this stuff works on black people?

  98. Ser_Mark

    Excellent text, it all makes perfect sense. It’s a good trick to check out jewelry, girls like compliments about jewelry. I’m gonna start doing that

  99. Anonymous

    I have this girl I am in love with and she says she doesn’t want a boyfriend, how do I earn her trust and make her want sex?

  100. Kapuccini Bentali

    I heard that in some countries women like to play on fours, hehehe
    From a seduction teacher I learned that women to feel it hard against their body. Should I put the dong out for them to love-see?

  101. Kapuccini Bentali

    I would like that Moira, my neighbor, gives me head. Preferraby ike a pro-shafter, ie those that lick the tipbase of the man-symbol.
    Here in Breasty everything is sexy.

  102. Dixie DeckenheartNo wonder why I had a girl lovin on me.

    No wonder why I had a girl lovin on me.O wonder why I had

  103. Anonymous

    What if im the girl? What do i do then?

  104. Anonymous

    This is one impossible move to do when its your first time seeing that girl, might I prefer eye to eye contact then you talk to the girl.

  105. petersen

    wow it worked 4 me,iam 29 and she is 52 bt i turned her on..oops thanx a lot

  106. Gama Xul

    It’s all about the numbers, and those numbers for touching are in the mans favor. Most women do like touching and it’s a primary reason why they wear jewelry. We can “inspect” them. They want to be noticed, appreciated and “handled”. This information is dead on. And if you want to talk about “manipulation”, that ball is in the woman’s court most of the time. I adore women, and there is nothing wrong with letting them feel it.

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