How To Touch A Woman Friend To Get Her Horny In 3 Minutes Flat – Your Complete Guide

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I want to talk about how to initiate touch with a woman in a social party, at a bar, at a club, in any kind of party or nightlife situation, in a manner to generate HARD attraction with her- and get her horny within 3 minutes flat.

First of all, touching a woman causes her body to release a powerful sex hormone called oxytocin.

Oxytocin, what it does is increases a woman’s testosterone levels, giving her high sex drive. Oxytocin also causes a woman to feel a powerful bonding feeling with whoever is touching her. And it creates a desire to be penetrated; a woman spiked with Oxytocin has a sudden desire for intercourse.

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So you’re talking to a woman, and even if she’s cold to you at first, a few touches will make her start to feel hot and sexual, literally against her will, because it’s an automatic response women have to touch.

And it doesn’t matter where or how much you touch her, even a few small touches on the woman’s arm is enough to release a spike of oxytocin hormones into her body and warm her up to you.

What’s more, the oxytocin hormone gives her the desire to be touched even more, producing yet even more oxytocin, a reinforcing cycle of sex hormone escalation.

So if you keep touching a woman, she’ll quickly get to the point of wanting more and more touches and eventually warm up to penetration and sex.

And here’s the strange but wonderful thing about it; the Oxytocin response is FAR more powerful in women than it is for men.

That’s because Oxytocin affects the brain only in combination with estrogen. Without estrogen, Oxytocin has no effect. And women have far more estrogen in their bodies than men, particularly young women.

I mean, in your experience, have you ever noticed how a girl you were never really attracted to before, one day she touched you on the hand or shoulder and suddenly, suddenly, like a bolt out of the blue, blood rushed to your penis or you started to think about her differently, in a more sexual way?

Well, in women, that effect of a touch is literally 10 times more powerful!

A touch turns you from nice guy friend into potential lover instantly.

You can’t underestimate how being touched automatically and universally gets women in the mood for sex, literally and immediately, and for more touching and quickly for and penetration.

Oxytocin also decreases mental processes and impairs memory. A spike of the hormone brought on by a touch basically takes a woman outside of her head and into the moment. That’s why hugging a girl will typically defuse and melt away her “bitch shield” or cool her off from an argument; touch breaks her pattern, makes her forget her pain, and changes her state. Hugging a girl can instantly warm her up to you in a purely sexual way.

For all those reasons, it’s why touch is one of the KEYS for generating HARD attraction in women.

If she likes you, she thinks you’re awesome, you’re entertaining to her, she will feel light attraction to you. But unless you are touching her, you’re going to FAIL to generate HARD attraction, period, that hard attraction where the girl will literally chase you down.

And look, guys are naturally more physical than women. We’re sportier, we’re about 20% physically larger on average, and physically stronger.

Women are more in touch with their feelings and their feelings quickly change to the surrounding environment.

So it’s natural to stimulate women’s feelings, spiking their sexual hormones, through being masculinely physical. By touching a girl and her being receptive and having your touch affecting her feelings, you are being a natural man, and she’s being a natural women. So it’s completely natural to touch women, all women, when you meet them.

Touch The Girl Right Away

Now, when you’re in a bar or club or social party, it’s very important to touch a woman right off the bat, from the beginning of the interaction.

Because if you just stay in conversation land, and you talk, and you talk, and talk, and talk, and talk, and talk some more, the longer the conversation goes on, the weirder it’s going to feel to the woman in a way she can’t quite put her finger on.

And how long can you fucking talk a girl’s ear off? 20 minutes? You’re going to keep going for 40 minutes? And never make physical contact?

What happens is, if you never touch her, you just end up entertaining her to keep the conversation going. And that’s a sure-fire recipe for the conversation to eventually just die and go nowhere and you end up wasting your time.

The sooner you touch a girl from the first moment the conversation starts, the more NORMAL the touching and the conversation is going to feel to her.

Because if you touch her right away, it shows her that you are completely comfortable with touching, you’re not making a move, it’s just part of who you are, and what you do with everyone. And since it’s no big deal to you, it won’t be a big deal to her.

When you touch a girl right away, you’re showing her your sexual masculine intent from the very beginning and she feels in her gut that you’re a sexual man and a possible sexual partner, and not just a friend or a buddy.

But if you wait 20 minutes into the conversation, and THEN you suddenly try to lay your hands on her of nowhere, you’ll creep her out because it’s like you were pretending to be the “nice guy” for the first 20 minutes to make her like you, and only THEN once you felt you had her permission to go further, only then did you start touching her. And that’s WEAK and girls don’t like it because you suddenly changed personalities halfway through.

That’s not what a cool guy who trusts in his actions does, he doesn’t look for the girl’s permission to start touching her, he just does it from the very beginning because that’s just what he does with all girls.

So touch the girl right away, because if you wait and beat around the bush trying to get her permission and making sure that she likes you, the girl isn’t going to trust you.

But once a woman feels physical contact is there from the very beginning, once she sees it’s just part of who you are, she will accept whatever the fuck you do, because girls fundamentally like touch. And once touched, they want more touch.

The Initial Moves You Need To Make

Okay, now what I’m going to do is give you a give you a moves to begin touching a woman in a bar or club when you first open her and say hello.

The jewelry moves. After saying hello or introducing yourself and opening, you check out her jewelry. You just ask her about her jewelry while you touch her jewelry and by default brush her skin with your fingers. You do a jewelry inspection.

Or another initial first touch you can make, is when you introduce yourself, you shake her hand and you pull her in slightly.

Or you introduce yourself, say something that you like about her, and then you give her a hug, which conveys assertiveness, comfort, and sexuality.

Or when you open her, you put your arm around her shoulder as you do so.

So you want to pick some physical move that you start out every interaction with. And it can be the same move for every girl you meet. You don’t 5 different opening physical moves in your head at once. Just pick one, stick with it, they’re all effective, and they’re all good.

It doesn’t matter the first physical move you make, it just matters that you make a move. They’ll all triggering the Oxytocin response. That all convey assertiveness, leadership, comfort with oneself, trust, self-acceptance and convey sexuality. All of them. So just pick one. And get it down. Use it and recklessly bust it out on all the girls you meet.

For example, every time you open a girl, start inspecting her jewelry. For every single girl you meet.

Or, every time you say hello to a girl, put your arm around her shoulder. Even if she’s with other girls in her group, or whatever. Just make it a rule that when you introduce yourself, you put your arm around her shoulder.

Hugging every girl is damingly effective because girls likes hugs. And you make it the one minute hug rule. Within the first minute of any interaction, you MUST hug the girl! No questions asked. No scenario where this isn’t possible. No situation where it won’t lead to a better outcome.

So pick your opening physical move, and just stick with that move. And getting physical is exactly what sparks that HARD attraction.

(P.S. For even BETTER physical moves, check out my Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control program here)

The 1 Minute Hug Rule

Here’s how to make a girl horny in one minute flat…

Now most guys talk about what they should SAY to women, but really attraction and seduction is not in your verbal sparring with the girl, but in the physical interaction, the touching.

Because can’t really expect to talk your way into a girl’s heart. It’s got to be through physical touch. It’s physical touch that is what makes the girl wet and horny between the legs for you.

So rule #1 is, you want to touch the girl right off the bat. You don’t to be waiting 10 minutes into the conversation before you start thinking, “Oooh, wait a minute, I should be touching this girl.”

You need to initiate touch right from the beginning, and the second you start talking to her, you should be touching her.

It could be giving her a high five, or shaking her hand on the introduction, or tapping her on the shoulder, it doesn’t matter. You just want to set the precedent of touching her and giving her the idea that you’re okay with touch and that it’s okay to be touched by you.

And once that first touch precedent is set, you want to keep physically escalating!

And one good rule to follow is the hugging rule.

And the hugging rule is that you want to hug the girl within 60 seconds of meeting her. So within the first 60 seconds of any interaction, somehow you MUST hug the girl! So questions asked.

So even if people are looking, it doesn’t matter girls like to be hugged no matter what. You can hug the girl in front of other people. Girls love hugs.

Even if a girl has a boyfriend that you don’t know about, it’s still cool and socially accepted to hug the girl.

And you don’t need a good reason to hug the girl. Just for any dumb excuse you can give her a hug. She says something you like, and you say, “Hey that’s so cool of you! Come here, give me a hug for X Y and Z!” And you hug her.

And what hugging does is that conveys confidence, it conveys dominance, assertiveness, friendliness, sexuality, it conveys to the girl that you do what you want and you take what you want.

Hugging conveys that you’re not held back by what other people think or by society’s standards. It conveys that you’re comfortable with physicality and therefore sex.

It conveys that you’re a leader, and that you’re not worried about being judged by others.

And the cool thing about hugging the girl within 60 seconds is that it helps to overcome one of the biggest conversation problems, and that is the problem of running out of things to say.

Once you hug the girl, there’s a level of sexual tension, and then it doesn’t matter what you say. Because even talking about your job or what the weather is going to be is going to be far more sexually charged, and therefore very interesting to the girl.

So instead of trying to be interesting by having the most interesting or funny things to say, instead touch her right away, hug her within the first minute, and then you’ve created a low level of sexual tension and then even the most boring topics will seem interesting to the girl because your are physically attractive to her and there’s a physical attraction going on.

And be setting the physical groundwork early, it makes it much easier down the road to cross that barrier into kissing and sex.

Because if you don’t touch her early on, it gets very hard later on to try to go for that first kiss. But if touching is already there, getting to the kiss is more of just a natural extension or next step of the physical escalation.

So remember, touch the girl right away, even if it’s just with a handshake, and hug the girl within the first 60 seconds.

It makes the interactions so much easier and getting to that first kiss, and you don’t have to worry about what to say so much.


  • spank her in public says:

    Men if you are going to pee yourself every time a women comes around you will never have any luck. You need to know one thing….they are only women. They fart, burp, poop, pee, eat, and sleep. They do not have super powers keeping you from them. The only thing stopping you from talking to them is you. You do not need women training, you just need confidence training. Women want to know that you are not going to fall apart over life’s day to day operations. That is why little things like talking to her and being able to touch her matter. If you cant do those things then what are you going to do when the car breaks down on a long trip in the middle of nowhere. Or what are you going to do when her boss makes passes at her. Women think all of these things through when you first meet them and make a decision on where to put you…freak,friend or fuck partner. So man up… follow this advice….. and get some tail.

  • spank her in public says:

    Mr. Green grow some balls and become an Alpha. Women like men who are confident and know what they want. When you first met her she put you in the friend zone because she is waiting for someone to walk up to her, grab her hand, and walk her into a paradise. She doesn’t feel like you will provide for her and protect her so you are only friend material. Stop trying to change her mind and change yourself….she may just come around

  • MR. Green says:

    i fall in love with a unmerried woman who is one year elder then me, we know one another from 2004, at is about Nine years, already she knows that i m fall in love with her, as she got be a good friend or a reliable younger brother she can’t get me as a lover, but i want to marry her.. and i told this her but she got angry with my behavior. now what should i can ………

  • AMAZO says:

    I touch my girlfriend all the time. Usually with the back hand cos she hasn’t finished the washing up. Does this count? Is she being aroused do you think whilst I caress her face with my hand, impacting her at bruising velocity? I used to think I was smacking my bich up, but now I know I’m turning her on, I will have to engage in this activity more often. What that?……Dinner?……(SMACK)……..You call that dinner? She must really be hot for me.

  • Anonymous says:

    This was a amassing and interesting article my only question is where is the best place to touch a girl and how to make a excuse to hug her?

  • ~girl~ says:

    Isn’t this just a little bit sexist? Yes. Yes it is.

  • sipho kabelo says:

    😉 how do turn a girl on

  • Ananth says:

    Hey friends, I li 😆 😆 ke to have sex with my girl friend, but she is shying to kiss me only, by that do u think taking her on bed is easyer?

  • Anonymous says:

    Yes I would like to ask how do you get past the friend part. I have a roomate I care about and am attracted to . She says she is not into me as anything more than a friend . Any suggestions to get past that?

  • Anonymous says:

    Hey jesse. I’m going to try this tomorrow on a girl – like at a drugstore. So exited to see what happens

  • Hughs MD says:

    I don’t understand, this- touching a woman causes her body to release a powerful sex hormone called oxytocin. Since when oxytocin become sex hormone? You should say pleasure “orgasmic” hormone. Only sex hormones are estrogen, progesterone and testosterone and its derivatives DHT. Testosterone is most important hormone for libido (desire) hormone in man and woman. Thats I could understand but not oxytocin. First to make woman to look at you its how you look and how you speak, if you had pretty sexy speech all ladies would be yours.

  • Mdson says:

    It was a real brain storming stuff, nd it really educative. It make me feel as if to go out there and chat up a lady. Tnks man

  • king says:

    :cool::cool:..Nice ideas..thank u bro..

  • red says:

    I met this woman older than me , she is inviting me to her house. She loves me n I wanna pound her hard that she will never forget me. Can u gv me some tips on how to make her like me in bed more

  • Clitz says:

    Sir, here, take my like!!! I don’t know why, but this is one of the funniest article i’ve come across. The way you wrote it makes sound very promising and you make it look so easy. Thanks man, i’ll share this on twitter. Or not! Should I? The girls too would love this article anyway. LOL

  • mac says:

    Best way to get a girl wanting you, is the way you look in her eyes, it trigger some in her head, look at a girl right.

  • Theophilus says:

    the is nothing important like being loved by a girl that is willing to do anything for u just becouse the way u touch her makes her wet each time she see u

  • Anonymous says:

    you guys are so stupid, you never even thought about the spiritual side.

    • Banana says:

      What do u mean

    • ClaudeA says:

      Maybe I’m just selfish, but I’m thankful most guys use their cock to think about sex! That leaves a whole lot of ladies desperately ready for the guy – me – who understands it is the spiritual that your awesome ladies focus on for sex, and, baby, I’m happy to oblige you!

  • kyle says:

    Ok, my girlfriend wants sex nearly everyday now, and Its really getting quite irritating now, why does she want this?

    • Helpful person :) says:

      Dude, why would you ever complain about something as beautiful and wonderful as sex? But still. Just tell her that you don’t want to have it as often cause you’re tired or stressed out. But don’t make it think your tired or stressed out cause of her lol. Sex every day could get pretty tiring I’d imagine. So yeah, just tell her how you feel I guess. But be cautious of how you tell her 😛

    • get her a second girlfriend to play with 😉

    • Anonymous says:

      Give me her number

  • jay kamal says:

    How do I get a girl horny when she is sitting next to me

  • jay kamal says:

    I know this girl from skul and really want to have sex with her, that girl
    Gets horny easily. And I’m really Good friend with her but the thing is I’m afraid to ask her out or we are good friends abs I feel embarrassed. What can I do please help me.

  • styler says:

    my step sis is always giving me hugs and trying to be friendly towards me what is her deal she always hugging me….btw hugging me don’t work on me lmao maybe it’s just women

    • bob says:

      i get a boner when my sis in law hugs me

      • Anonymous says:

        Hahahaha ha the female is a extremely interesting breed of humans but one way I always pick my woman up is by remembering one quote “baby you and me ….. We’re just mammals …. Lets do it like where on the discovery Chanel …” -truth

  • Ay says:

    hi! there. there is this girl i asked out in my class in skool that refused me on the account of having a boyfriend but we still have lots of fun and i have even tried kissing her but she refused but we hungout at a friends house one particular day and it was all about cuddling and breast touching and she told me that she likes watchin porn and she also sid we were going to discuss about it wen we resumed skool and it is tomorrow we are resuming plz how do i go about making her horny and dripping wet

    • Anonymous says:

      I would say to just follow what this says! just when you touch her do it super gentlyand slowly and you can touch her anywhere really and you can touch her a lot! that would probably get her wet =)

  • Anonymous says:

    friends i want to have my girl friend give advice

  • Barry Sewall says:

    Thanks 8)

  • School Boy and Swimmer Girl says:

    I cannot believe this actually worked!!!! And I didn’t even know that I was doing it!!! There was a group in girls in high school that absolutltely loved me! They would wait for me during snack and lunck/ worry and ask why I wasn’t there! I never had this in my life and it all happened when I was trying to be more acertive. I have broken the boundary with hugs, and not even known it! Also when it came to the time I spent with them, I would touch them on the arm and even rest mine on their shoulders. ONLY IF I HAVE KNOWN THIS SOONER!!! I WOULD HAVE BEEN UP WITH ALL THOSE “PRETTY BOYS” THAT WOMEN SWOONED OVER!!!!!

    -Lesson learned.. touch, touch and HUG!!!

  • Anonymous says:

    The g spot is in the butthole

  • DrSex says:

    Fantastic advice, and it all makes perfect sense when you recall the situations when a guy has just walked in and pulled a girl right out the group. Now I think of it, all the touch elements were in play…

  • Anonymous says:

    ive hugged tons of of girls becaful when you hug them thelr smarter then you give credit but other then that thisis great advice

  • confused says:

    Hey i got this friend that has a crush on me and a boyfriend how can i make her feel comftiable enuff to wanna jump in tha bed if you could tell me how to do that id be in there lik swimwear

  • Jonathan says:

    Great to see some techniques~~but the hugging part, wouldnt it seem wierd to just hug a girl that you have just met? I am sort of afraid that i might get a wrong/ bad reaction… I do want a girlfriend or flirtatious girl who likes to play around with me… please give some tips how

  • Anonymous says:

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  • samuel juma says:

    Gud n fab lecture. Plz notify mi of anytin gud upcoming thro MA email. Thank buddie.

  • I eat played oh says:

    Your advice explains a lot of what I did wrong with the last girl I was with. I still don’t quite know how to just come up outa nowhere and strike up convo with a girl. Whether it be Hastings or anywhere people usually go and not just the club or night life situations. That’s probably the hardest part for the majority of guys.

  • Drake says:

    how do i penetrate a girl?!

  • Anonymous says:


  • legacy says:

    i have a girl who tells me she loves but anytime i try kissing her she avoids me,although i have kissed her before but it wasn’t that willing from her,already she had told me about some attempt to rape by her best friend and her dad’s close friend when she was a kid and has been appearing in her dreams in the night,so she says she feels uncomfortable with kissing and not even going down on her or having sex will work because she has called a stop to kissing and i accepted so now she doesn’t come to visit me,so we only talk on phone,but am really not feeling well with that,so please what should i do?because i love her and i want sex too.

    • she’s using it as an excuse not to have sex with you, because if she meets a guy she really likes, she WILL have sex with him! click on the links to the forum and we can discuss more

    • X says:

      from now on, it’s like waiting for an asshole to self-lubricate, without knowing that the only way that’s gonna happen is by letting shit out (if someone’s iq is under 40 i mean the sex won’t be good if, and i repeat, if it happens). So Fuck her, metaphorically, and GFTOG litterally, and u’ll see how she’ll come back after she sees that to toss ur salad while ur brushing her away.

      Much love to all the self improvers,
      Fuck your egos Mathafackass, and go out and get ur fuckin hands dirty- Lord Jesus-

    • Anonymous says:

      If you truly love her then you can wait until she is ready to have sex.
      She trusts you because she told you about her attempted rapes when she was a kid. That shows that she sees a future with you to have trusted you with such personal info.
      You have a penis. You can masturbate while you wait for her to be ready. You have to think about her feelings and her perspective on this. This must be very hard for her. You should talk to her about your feelings too. Don’t tell her you Love her if you don’t really mean it, and are only after sex because that would just make you a horrible person. Especially since you already know that she is feeling scared about sex.

  • Anonymous says:

    😥 👿 ➡

  • smart d says:

    please sir how can i make go to girls that like me already?

  • Robey says:

    plz reply as soon as possible cuz i want to get some things done 😉 😉 😉 😉 😉 😉 😉 😉 😉

  • Robey says:

    hey i like my buddy’s cuzin and im pritty sure she has a thing for me. i have been teasing her by not paying attention to her and her doing the work to get my attention. i was wondering how can i pull this off when theres alots of people around such as my friend

  • Anonymous says:

    A girl usually come to pee and she older than me how can I make her want sex without conversation?

  • Powerful Jedi-mind shit here bro’!

    Although I’m an advanced PUA/coach,there are nuggets of gold in this article which makes me wanna revert to my newbie days and pull out the pen and pad lol.

  • Anonymous says:

    Just fuck her right away in the womens restroom

  • ALISON says:

    thanks men your techniques realy works

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  • Iven says:

    great advise the way to get any girl is to meet her and hug her within a minute and get her oxytocin to rise and than hold her hand and walk her to wereever and than hug her and now slowly move your hands up and down her shoulder and when she laughs thats were she like it now move your hands slightly over it and ask for a kiss and than she will have to give it to you you have to ask becouse if she does not want it than you keep doing this but in not enought than you will get slapped so ask her for a kiss and than kiss her on her neck and than go slowly with you tounge all the way up to behind her ear and than kiss her there and do it with your tounge and than she will want sex so go and give it to her

  • Leave your comment below…

    • ava says:

      don’t you think by commenting on her jewelry it might come off a bit fruity? also hugging a girl you’ve just met for an entire minute seems excessively long, friends have a tough time embracing in a hug that long…honestly i think these tactics are a bit flawed, unless you have personal evidence to defend these tips?

      • Facepalm says:

        not an entire minute. within the first minute…

      • Anonymous says:

        Some girls could have been abused sexually and reserved in the whole sexual area manipulations not good

      • sione says:

        Mate if you don’t try them you don’t know lots of people like my self can pull it off if you think like that than of course you can’t pull it off

    • mxls says:

      Is it oky to touch her booty while huggin her first time?

    • ABC says:

      could u tell me how can i touch a girl in my class and get her to like me??i know this sounds like a stupid question as you have many posts on it but the problem is i am from INDIA,and in india it is not accepted to do hugs and stuff,so could u plz help me out?

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