Why When You Roll In Shit, You Hump The Hotties!

A lot of guys have this habit that, when they become uncomfortable, they feel that’s justification enough to just stop whatever they’re doing.

For instance, they go to a bar for the first time in years, and they feel uncomfortable and out of place.  So they decide that, “Bars just aren’t for me right now”, and they stop going all together.

Or they decide to start a business, and the first moment they get bored or it feels hard, they give up.

Or they want to write a book, until they meet resistance from writer’s block.  It feels uncomfortable, and they just let it drop.

But having some fleeting negative feelings is NOT a good reason to give up on something big.

Do you think that’s an attractive trait to women?

Imagine if it were caveman days ten thousand years ago, and you’re a young caveman trying to prove yourself to be sex-worthy to the other women in the tribe.

Argh, me so sexy to the ladies!

It’s cold in Ice Age Europe, and you’ve got to go out and HUNT some wild game.

So you step outside and it’s fucking COLD.

It’s fucking UNCOMFORTABLE.

This is going to be a fucking CHALLENGE.

So instead, you turn tail.  You go back into your cave at the first hint of discomfort.

You’re quick to give up to protect your “feelings”.

Instead, the rest of the cavemen go out without you to brave the elements and bring back meat to the women.

That’s how it’s done, caveman style.

You might FEEL comfortable this way, but you’re not going to get LAID this way.

What makes a MAN is that he *PERSISTS* in the face of physical and emotional discomfort.

He’s on a MISSION and NOTHING will stop him, not even his own fears and foibles!

He might not succeed, but he never stops and nothing holds him back.

Bars and clubs feel *uncomfortable*???

If that’s your excuse for not following through, you’ll never accomplish anything BIG… like have a smokin’ hottie on your arm.

Smokin’ hottie getting busy.

Because everything worth getting WILL feel uncomfortable at times accomplishing it.  That means boring and uncomfortable, with fear, uncertainty, and all the rest.

But following through in the face of a hurricane of SHIT is called being a MAN.

You can’t argue with the raw maniless of the Bear-Man

Because women want a guy who will stop at NOTHING to get what he wants.

Women want a man who doesn’t give up.

Women want a man who persists in the face of bad feelings and in the face of total shit.

That’s the kind of man that can provide her with strong children and spread her genes, even when the going gets tough.

Your Feelings Are Being Coddled and Pussyfied

Part of the problem is that we men are conditioned by modern conveniences for easy pleasures.

I used to program video games back in the day, so I know the deal.

That’s me, before Seduction Science.  On the right.

It’s called, “Easy payoff with zero risk.”

Turn on Call of Duty and you get the thrill of warfare victory and a sense of accomplishment with ZERO of the risk and ZERO of the discomfort… except maybe a sleepy leg.

You can press a button on the remote and instantly get good feelings and laughs watching Comedy Central or being entertained by television dramas.

Or fuzz out on the sofa watching silly videos on the Internet.  Again, zero effort.

We’re coddled by modern technology to have easy payoffs and easy feelings.

So when we meet anything that’s REAL and a fucking, hard-ass CHALLENGE – like starting our own business, writing our dream novel, or blowing up the bars and clubs approaching women – we GIVE UP at the slightest discomfort and resistance!

That’s why 90% of the Maxim readers out there are just looking for a “magic bullet” pickup line.

They want an easy “trick” that they can learn in 5 minutes that will magically make a woman spread her legs.

This magic-pill body deoderant will take you to “Paladin Level” with horny girls!!

It’s the same reason so many people buy “abdominal blasters” and diet detox shakes instead of just eating a sensible diet rich in vegetables and hitting up the gym three times a week.  They’re conditioned to seek easy feelings and magic bullets.

But to grow into a MAN, you have to let go of this idea that a feeling of discomfort is enough reason to stop something big and worthwhile.

Because it’s not.  Anything worth fighting for WILL make you feel a massive level of discomfort at first.

Hmmmm… yeah, it’s worth fighting for.

But you’ve got to blast through that wall, dedicate yourself to the long-haul, have dogged persistence, be consistent, and never give up!

And particularly never give up over “your feelings”.

Bad feelings will come and go.  You’ll have highs, and you’ll have lows.

But your mantra needs to be consistency, persistence, and dedication in the face of all adversity and resistance.

So are you going out and meeting women, despite internal resistance that you might feel?

Are you exercising and hitting the gym to stay fit healthy?

Yes, it’s fucking tough.

Yes, it’s a bitch.

And yes, it feels uncomfortable at first.

But that’s life man.  And that’s what brings success and reaps the REAL rewards in life – persistence in the face of those feelings and adversity.

So step up, follow through, be persistent, and NEVER fucking give up!!

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Anonymous
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Anonymous

sweet

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Great !
Keep your good work going.
Thanks.

mfm
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mfm

tnx Jesse.though it is exelent to never give up,but some women might see you as a stalker,that’s one thing we dont want.

KEITH GIBBS
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KEITH GIBBS

Want to Learn. Want to be the best at my game.

moodle
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moodle

Thanks, received better advice.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

hurt that kitten and you will regret it

Anonymous
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Anonymous

you are an asshole

Anonymous
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Anonymous

They are just awesome ….. 😀

Anonymous
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Anonymous

We need more wing-men in the world like you. I ready to take this challenge and it should work. I admit I’m not a coffee shop and bar person, (I hate coffee and new to drinking), but I will say bring it on. I personally hope this system works for me.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Am gonnq gt ma bitch

oss
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oss

Many thanks , but i understod nothing

sorry

Ty
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Ty

Thank you for the advise on this post

I noticed I get high by myself or look for advice on the internet to escape any feeling of discomfort.

Is there anything I can do to toughen up with my escape of comfort so I can set my priorities to be more of a man?

Anonymous
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Anonymous
Thank you for this open honesty. You mentioned TV or video games for easy comfort. I noticed that my escapes are 2 things. Getting stoned by myself instead of socially, and also I browsing the internet looking for “how to” stuff how to “find a girlfriend”, “make money”, “find balance”, basically stuff like this, for my comfort zone… also Facebook sometimes Do you have any advise on what I can do to to get my priorities straight and toughen up to be more of a man? I like yours because your just sharing your opinion. not some book to sell… Read more »
Jon
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Jon

I’m a 52-y.o. man who tries to live this principle, but haven’t applied it to all areas; e.g. I work out like a demon, but then use the resulting negative aspects of it (like massively perspiring and perhaps not smelling very fresh) as an EXCUSE to not approach women because of potential rejection. But after reading this post, not anymore! I’m going to just get in the game with confidence and absolute positivity.

Faris
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Faris

WAIT A SEXOND so your telling me all i have to do is roll around the dirt infront of the girl i wana have sex with while shes watching and ill get laid? rolling on dirt makes a girl horny??? WTF BEST WEB EVER!!!

arsham
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arsham

nice your right we really need to man up a little
and then a little more and then more and them more and ….
untill we get into the ultimate shit its going to be tough but when we look back we see what we have done and what we can do again with less hardship

Anonymous
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Anonymous

It should work and relax the girls as well. It’s worth going after.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

No doubt that persistence is a key factor in anything that we wind up accomplishing in life in any catagory.

steve
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steve

So what!!!! You told me absolutely nothing…FUNNY

Tutor
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Tutor

Well it all sounds good but does it work.I been working on this girl for I don’t know how long. I haven’t given up but I haven’t gone none either. Prove me wrong please

javier
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javier

How can you make a girl wanna fuck u

George the Lover
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George the Lover

GTL I’ve got my soulmate just looking to keep her humping my brains out

Anonymous
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Anonymous

GTL I’ve got my soulmate just looking to keep her humping my brains out

Anonymous
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Anonymous

you mean i subscribed to this shit -give me something sensible

VIJAY KUMAR Gupta
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VIJAY KUMAR Gupta

How to convert friend to girl friend

vijay
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vijay

Hello
i have crush for one, how can i make her attracted to me

ralph boon
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ralph boon

awesome stuff , Jassie

ed
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ed

I requested info on the 30 challenge but just recieved this email.

Anonymous
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sir i m n a distance relation ship so how shall i keep my girl attracted towrds me

Winfred
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Winfred

How do you face a girl who is on and off in love?

Anonymous
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that’s you next to steve jobs? full of shit.

kolade
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kolade

I am a 22year old student in Nigeria.well I don’t think it will work for me because our girls do not open up because of societal laws e.t.c

kolade
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kolade

I’m a 22 year old student and I live in Nigeria.I tink our girls are different well because of societal laws and sh*t so I dont. Think its gonna work for me.

Ralph H.
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Ralph H.

Well , I just wanted to say I found your page by my little “stumbleupon” button , I have been with the same wonderful woman for 30+ years now , and thats no easy trick. I have always made our love a priority , we share like best friends , and what I love is to find some new twist to keep the flame hot.

JT
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JT

You are right it’s tough but if you sit on your ass and don’t something about it the guys at the club feel you don’t got the goods to deliver

nickolai
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nickolai

It’s all phsycology and how you perceive things. It’s also how women perceive things.. your right about the technology. It’s a excuse for pleasure that could fuck you over. All you gotta do is try.

RILEY
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RILEY

100% agree with you. better go out there and deal with this fear…..

chuck
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chuck
I know I m a attractive fit older man who stays in shape, but still feel attracted to younger hot women in late twenties and thirties, ok I m fifty went through a divorce but still have these desires for younger women and don t know how to seduce younger women and maybe feel wrong I do. I feel I still have the look but know skills to attract them, I m lost I what to do or what to say to get them interested or maybe I wasting my time. hmmm just confused and lost jesse and maybe you… Read more »
Adam Ito junior
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Adam Ito junior

Yes..Thank you Mr.Jessie charger… You rock!..Thank you once again..& hoping to learn more from you.

Adam from Papua New Guinea

Rich
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Rich

Push out of your comfort zone!

Collinz
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Collinz

Well thanks jesse charger but i did not understand the book it all worthless in reading it again i had only requested on how to make a girl laugh. But i guess i asked the wrong person i will be glad if u sent me that book.
THANK YOU

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Useless – What does this have to do with “Endless Conversation” ?

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Good pep talk, how bout the juicey stuff

Pshemek Janovich
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Pshemek Janovich

Good that some people still inspire men how to be real MEN! Great article. Keep it up! Not many of us left these days anyway..

mike
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mike

Thanks man…I need help gettin back into the game. ..its been awhile for me…im going through a break up that caught me off guard and I wanna make her regret it

BASHIR
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BASHIR

very cool

BASHIR
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BASHIR

THANKS FOR THE ADVISE BRO

TJ
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TJ

I love this man. I’m all about motivational shit. I’m going to try and watch this every morning and every night.. just have it engrained in my consciousness

Emperor
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Emperor

I have hooked up with the most gorgeous lady whom I have been courting for almost 6 months but she is too shy and freezing when we are together but over the phone she is comfortable.How can I make her hooked into me and comfortable when we are together?

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