3 Killer Eye Contact Techniques to Melt Her Icy Heart

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Eye contact is one of the fastest ways to build explosive sexual tension.

But most guys do eye contact WRONG.

Most guys look at the woman’s entire face as they talk with her, unfocused.

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Pretend her face has been hidden, and it’s just her eyes.

This is the “safest” way to go, because looking at her face hides your sexual desire for the girl.

But she won’t feel any sexual tension from you either, and she’ll put you into the “friends zone” pretty quick.

Instead, when you approach a woman, give her a smile and look DIRECTLY into her eyes.

On the approach, you don’t even need to “say” anything.  Just look into her eyes and hold it.  Right into her EYES.

She’ll start giggling.  Then introduce yourself and take her hand.

You’ve already shown your awesome coolness and sexuality just from your “eyes approach”.

The Eyes to Lips Technique

Now here’s how to make the girl feel strangely horny.

As you talk to her, hardcore look the girl into her eyes.  Focus in on her eyes like a laser beam.

Then alternate your gaze between her eyes and her lips.

Look at her eyes, and then look at her lips, and move back and forth.  As you look at her lips, imagine those lips doing down on you and giving you a wet blow job.

When the girl feels your sexual intent coming through your eyes, and you don’t waver or react… but you just HOLD it… that is VERY intense for the girl.  She’s met a real man.

And women go NUTS for that “swept away feeling”.  They literally get wet on the spot.  IF you can hold it!

What Guys Are Doing Wrong…

Another mistake guys make is that they look to get eye contact from the girl FIRST.

But, as the man, it’s YOUR job to initiate eye contact with girls.

That means you approach girls to say hello whether they’ve given you eye contact already or NOT!

Women are like Chinese takeout.  You need to make the first move to take it home.

Because most girls will NOT give you eye contact.   YOU have to be the one to start it.

You spot the girl, you say hello, and you look into her eyes and to her lips, indifferent to how she reacts.

And THAT’S what makes you stand out as a sexy guy.

Now that’s not an easy thing to do.

If you don’t feel entitled to the girl, you’ll have trouble approaching her, let alone make strong eye contact.

And there’s no “magic bullet” or “routine” for making eye contact.  It comes down to an Inner Game issue.  Do you feel entitled or not?

That’s why I created the Deep Inner Game program.  It’s 11 CDs of trances to install the 11 Deep Inner Game traits, including confidence, the bad boy, and sexuality, so that you can initiate and hold attraction-grabbing eye contact with even the most hottie cuties.

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  • frank sackey says:

    i have a girlfriend and she says she loves me but she doesnt want to have sex and not even a kiss.. So how can i get her to have with her or what i do.?

    • Anonymous says:

      Loves you yet doesent want to even kiss you? There is something seriously wrong there. To me that doesent appear(at first glance) to be an emotionally healthy person. Did she experience some sort of trauma? Ill be honest, unless you are for some reason deeply committed to this person, and I mean DEEPLY, I would cut your losses and move along. It will be alot less painful by comparrison. Also that is not to gaurantee things will work if you stick around. Personally I say dont be a martyr

  • david champine says:

    Does this one contact work best for older or younger woman?. My wife is. Going to be 30 and I’m going to be 22. So what do I need to know the most about older woman?

  • david champine says:

    I love trying new things with my wife. From role playing to the dirtiest sex talk ever. But this eye contact will be even. Funnier to try when doing her from behind and the old missionary pasition. Never really thought to much about it. Until I read this. But whatever. It is you can find. anything on here. Good luck and all ways try new things with your sex life

  • Freelovehighway says:

    Jesse you’re the man! But I have a question for you. How could I apply these tips if the girl has some sort of visual impairment? Im not the worlds best looking guy and I usually try and source my chicks from the local skills college for the blind. Will a blind woman respond in the same way to these techniques?

  • chad allen says:

    my exgirlfirend fell on ice and I think she has a crush on me. What do I do? I do NOT have a girlfriend now.

  • Redaroundtheneck says:

    Jesse, I found a girl that was more like a texas BBQ than a chinese takeout. She just kept me sizzling and cooking all day but always left before my juices ran dry. What can I do in order to get off of that hot grill and get left with a dirty, greasy box like a drunkenly purchased KFC dinner. Love your site Jesse. If you ever come to Arlington, TX I’ll be sure to let you drink some of my home brew.

  • Snowblaze says:

    I am accustomed to this technique and as a chick, I have even learned how to make men use this technique on me once they do Ive taught myself with lots of practice to blush and look down only to look back up with a wild, lost, caught red handed look it drives them absolutely crazy now i have played this on a guy which absolutely melted away, showered me with compliments ( youre gorgeous, your eyes are amazing, you are way too pretty, you shouldn’t have eyes this mesmerizing, you cant keep looking at me with these eyes etc)all night but never actually made a move except for a few fleeting arm rubs and semi trying to put his arm around my waist without never actually doing so what was that all about? He’s the kind of guy I always thought was way out of my league but the whole time we were talking or gazing at each other i thought he was gonna kiss me . Where did i go wrong?

  • Adam says:

    thanks jesse, but is there a technique to trigger a girls limbic system making her not really control the sexual feel and desire your sex

    • Whatever happened to romance? says:

      You need to fuck with her amyglada and orbitofrontal cortex. You can do this using your deep inner game if you can get it to a specialist level. Alternatively, you could study to be a brain surgeon and carry out mind altering surgical procedures in your garage that turn women into remote controlled sex machines. Toss a coin!

  • Anonymous says:

    oh gosh, yeah. The guy making sexy hot eyes at me, and feeling like he’s the love of my life. It was almost surreal!

  • Necropihliacs anonymous says:

    I thought that i’d mastered all of your techniques Jesse until I met this one girl. I tried everything to melt that beautiful icy heart of hers but however much I worked on my deep inner game I just couldn’t get below her surface. Then I realised that she had been cryogenically frozen in a romantic death pact with Walt Disney. Its her loss if she doesn’t want to be on the receiving end of some real strong man love, but jesse i was wondering if you had any tips for dealing with frozen women?

  • Manwhore says:

    Your tips work a little too well. I was on a visit to the local wildlife park and I found myself being rampantly followed by two goats, a zebra and a star nosed mole. How can I learn to control my wild and undefined sexuality?

    • Inner game player in the deep end says:

      Great story manwhore! I had a similar experience with a flock of wild geese. My deep inner game is so strong that I’m picking those fuckers off from over 500 metres away.Fox news have promised me my own weekly slot in which I use my deep inner game techniques to pick up inanimate objects in social situations. Remember guys every hole is a goal even if its in a modern kitchen utensil.

  • Anonymous says:

    This article is from 2011, however I find it to still be accurate, the natural human interaction works this way and it’s probably a good ‘fake it till you make it’ approach even for shy guys. – I forget this technique some times, I forget to put it in use so my advice, constantly remind yourself of this article content (it’s short and sweet anyway so should be easy to anyone). Congrats on the great article!

  • Nikhil says:

    Good tip

  • ASHWIN says:

    Its interesting but horrer

  • Mickey says:

    Haha good tips.
    Unfortunately for me, my girl didn’t quite giggle cutely. She instead scoffed and called me a weirdo and a loser. Think I’m doing it wrong…

  • Anonymous says:

    Hey bro..I read you stuff n I like its details about seduction…I am regularly practicing your tips of eye contact…and now a days I am trying a trick myself without knowing much about it..how it affects my chance with women? What exactly woman feel when I do this trick on them? And that trick is when ever I just made eye contact with women I focus on her eyes and little raise my eyebrow tilt my head little back..and mostly women maybe little close to every women I tried this on react to me surprising . They forget to close their mouth and my this trick open their eyes wide and they just hold their gaze at me. The point to note is they didn’t give me smile but look like with lust or maybe with anger? I don’t know..if you ever encounter with this situation so plz let me know..coz I don’t know how to react on this situation..sometimes I fear like she is going to slap me for this bold step of eye contact flirting of me…waiting for a reply from you

  • Lonny says:

    what ever happened to Jessie?

  • amam says:

    Hellow,sir I like ur seduction science .
    I want ur help please help me I said a girl I like u and ask her do u like me she replied no. And she told me tommrow that are u serious .

  • Jeremy says:

    How about strangers (women)? For example, when walking down the street or when your at the train station…
    btw, I am in college.

  • Reader says:

    You may be on to this.

  • Dr. Bapan Choudhury says:

    Hello, respected sir,
    I wanna know one thing that is it very important to think kissing her lips while making a eye contact ? If it yes, then how does it help or what is the secret behind it ?

  • Anonymous says:

    Hello, respected sir,
    I wanna know one thing that is it very important to think kissing her lips while making a eye contact ? If it yes, then how does it help or what is the secret behind it ?

  • Leo says:

    Jesse I thought I was the only man who worked that Mojo-juju. I call your eye-lip technique. I do add a few more tricks. what I THINK, when gaze into her eyes and at her lips. I tilt my head to the right, as to get a better look at her. Not to brag confidence is a big help and the more I practice, the better I get. There have been many times I get a kiss and a number. I have a particular Bar I frequent, ladies approach me.

  • JustAnotherGirl says:

    Wow. This guy I think’s really good looking gave me this gaze ever since I first layed eyes on him. How am I supposed to know if he’s doing it on purpose or just subconsciously?xD

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  • waseem says:

    i like this….

  • hairythumbooty says:

    Booboo peepee

  • hairythumbooty says:

    I like the smell of dirty pussy in the morning

  • Sir Likesdickalot says:

    I like dick.

  • Mitch says:

    Great post! I had forgotten about this. My senior year in high school, I was in an empty classroom with 2 guy friends, and 2 girls from our class. We were listening to music, joking around and what have you. At one point, I sat back leaning against the wall in a very relaxed manner, and just stared in the eyes of one of the girls. She stared back smiling. I just held my stare. After a short while, she didn’t know what to do, so she giggled a little and decided to keep staring back. I just held my relaxed pose and kept staring comfortably. Finally, everyone in the room picked up on what was going on and started joking about it. The girl and I just kept staring almost like in our own bubble. Then, after a while, she got up, came up to me and kissed me. My boys couldn’t believe what was happening; they thought I had used some kind of magic on her or something. That stare was all I ever did to score this chick.

  • Anonymous says:

    What does the girl interpret it as when you look at her eyes and then her lips? how does it make her feel?

  • zaheer says:

    i did eyes contact but her eyes go down when look at me!

  • Sean says:

    Hi Jesse, what happens when a girl glances at your lips after you glance at hers? Does that mean you’ve turned her on?

  • Zelda says:

    One thing about eye contact that I’m wondering about. Someone has to break first, either the male or the female otherwise you’d be frozen forever. I have it in my mind that if the male should not look away first because you want to show the female you’re strong and not weak.

    What happens if you have conctact for over 5 seconds,10 seconds or 30 seconds which happened to me once? Should the male always break contact last?
    And if you do happen to go by this rule of not breaking eye contact first, how would looking at the lips than going back to the eyes factor into this? Just thinking back to a week ago, I know I did this to a woman I am attracted to. It was eye contact and than I remember my eyes going down to her lips automatically. I can’t remember where they went after that. They were happy. I know that.

  • Anonymous says:

    great tips man! i got a question though. Once you have started a relationship with the girl, would you need to keep paying attention for eye contacts moment with her? Or once you establish your feelings it wouldn’t matter anymore.

  • Silkie Sound says:

    Thanks! 😳

  • Silkie Sound says:

    Here’s a practical question: When looking into eyes should I zoom in on ONE eye? The reason I ask is, as an actor, you are taught to only look ONE eye of the actor you are talking to. If you don’t, it will appear that your eyes are ever so slightly darting back and forth and this projects weakness. You think you are looking at both eyes (which is of course impossible) but in actuality your eyes are darting back and forth.

    What says you?

  • sam says:

    could you tell me what to say to her before i stare at her eyes and lips, also can i speak to her while staring at her. ??


  • Whitguy says:

    This trick works for me 90 percent of the time! Simple, yet effective way to get into a girl’s panties.

  • Jef-friq says:

    Gr8 and on addition Body language must sing as well. and licking your lips.

  • Sir Chival Regal says:

    I can only look at one eye at a time . Is that a problem. ????

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