3 Killer Eye Contact Techniques to Melt Her Icy Heart

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Eye contact is one of the fastest ways to build explosive sexual tension.

But most guys do eye contact WRONG.

Most guys look at the woman’s entire face as they talk with her, unfocused.

Pretend her face has been hidden, and it’s just her eyes.

This is the “safest” way to go, because looking at her face hides your sexual desire for the girl.

But she won’t feel any sexual tension from you either, and she’ll put you into the “friends zone” pretty quick.

Instead, when you approach a woman, give her a smile and look DIRECTLY into her eyes.

On the approach, you don’t even need to “say” anything.  Just look into her eyes and hold it.  Right into her EYES.

She’ll start giggling.  Then introduce yourself and take her hand.

You’ve already shown your awesome coolness and sexuality just from your “eyes approach”.

The Eyes to Lips Technique

Now here’s how to make the girl feel strangely horny.

As you talk to her, hardcore look the girl into her eyes.  Focus in on her eyes like a laser beam.

Then alternate your gaze between her eyes and her lips.

Look at her eyes, and then look at her lips, and move back and forth.  As you look at her lips, imagine those lips doing down on you and giving you a wet blow job.

When the girl feels your sexual intent coming through your eyes, and you don’t waver or react… but you just HOLD it… that is VERY intense for the girl.  She’s met a real man.

And women go NUTS for that “swept away feeling”.  They literally get wet on the spot.  IF you can hold it!

What Guys Are Doing Wrong…

Another mistake guys make is that they look to get eye contact from the girl FIRST.

But, as the man, it’s YOUR job to initiate eye contact with girls.

That means you approach girls to say hello whether they’ve given you eye contact already or NOT!

Women are like Chinese takeout.  You need to make the first move to take it home.

Because most girls will NOT give you eye contact.   YOU have to be the one to start it.

You spot the girl, you say hello, and you look into her eyes and to her lips, indifferent to how she reacts.

And THAT’S what makes you stand out as a sexy guy.

Now that’s not an easy thing to do.

If you don’t feel entitled to the girl, you’ll have trouble approaching her, let alone make strong eye contact.

And there’s no “magic bullet” or “routine” for making eye contact.  It comes down to an Inner Game issue.  Do you feel entitled or not?

That’s why I created the Deep Inner Game program.  It’s 11 CDs of trances to install the 11 Deep Inner Game traits, including confidence, the bad boy, and sexuality, so that you can initiate and hold attraction-grabbing eye contact with even the most hottie cuties.

Just click on THIS link here to download the program.

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billy
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8 months 15 days ago

one time i did this to a girl without realizing it and she called me evil for doing it. did the whole magnetic gaze stare into her eyes. muahaha im evil

Sawyer
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9 months 3 days ago

This girl has a boyfriend and they are shy around eachother they go to separate schools so I have a chance but I want to know how to get her to fall for me

Sawyer
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Sawyer
9 months 3 days ago

I’m in high school and I really like this girl but I’m a so calld player I want to date her and I tried looking at her lips when I talk to her I want to know does that really work

VinayakDk
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9 months 3 days ago

Let me help you bro!! Make sure that when you look into her eyes, you should be lusty and magnetic… This will blow her away!! And she’s all yours then.. Just do it…

VinayakDk
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9 months 7 days ago

Really very useful technique!! It took a little time for me to gain confidence doing that but, I tried this on a girl in the neighborhood and believe me guys I had sex with her!! Even today she’s crazy about me… Yo!!

frank sackey
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frank sackey
1 year 8 months ago

i have a girlfriend and she says she loves me but she doesnt want to have sex and not even a kiss.. So how can i get her to have with her or what i do.?

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 month 13 days ago

I think you should respect her decision. She is not yet ready or she doesn’t wanna have sex before marriage. And love is not all about sex.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 7 months ago

Loves you yet doesent want to even kiss you? There is something seriously wrong there. To me that doesent appear(at first glance) to be an emotionally healthy person. Did she experience some sort of trauma? Ill be honest, unless you are for some reason deeply committed to this person, and I mean DEEPLY, I would cut your losses and move along. It will be alot less painful by comparrison. Also that is not to gaurantee things will work if you stick around. Personally I say dont be a martyr

david champine
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david champine
1 year 8 months ago

Does this one contact work best for older or younger woman?. My wife is. Going to be 30 and I’m going to be 22. So what do I need to know the most about older woman?

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 3 months ago

totally works

david champine
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david champine
1 year 8 months ago

I love trying new things with my wife. From role playing to the dirtiest sex talk ever. But this eye contact will be even. Funnier to try when doing her from behind and the old missionary pasition. Never really thought to much about it. Until I read this. But whatever. It is you can find. anything on here. Good luck and all ways try new things with your sex life

Freelovehighway
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Freelovehighway
1 year 10 months ago

Jesse you’re the man! But I have a question for you. How could I apply these tips if the girl has some sort of visual impairment? Im not the worlds best looking guy and I usually try and source my chicks from the local skills college for the blind. Will a blind woman respond in the same way to these techniques?

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 2 months ago

Dude, you should try going after a def mute. They make the best girlfriends.

chad allen
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chad allen
1 year 10 months ago

my exgirlfirend fell on ice and I think she has a crush on me. What do I do? I do NOT have a girlfriend now.

Redaroundtheneck
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Redaroundtheneck
1 year 10 months ago

Jesse, I found a girl that was more like a texas BBQ than a chinese takeout. She just kept me sizzling and cooking all day but always left before my juices ran dry. What can I do in order to get off of that hot grill and get left with a dirty, greasy box like a drunkenly purchased KFC dinner. Love your site Jesse. If you ever come to Arlington, TX I’ll be sure to let you drink some of my home brew.

Snowblaze
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Snowblaze
1 year 10 months ago

I am accustomed to this technique and as a chick, I have even learned how to make men use this technique on me once they do Ive taught myself with lots of practice to blush and look down only to look back up with a wild, lost, caught red handed look it drives them absolutely crazy now i have played this on a guy which absolutely melted away, showered me with compliments ( youre gorgeous, your eyes are amazing, you are way too pretty, you shouldn’t have eyes this mesmerizing, you cant keep looking at me with these eyes etc)all night but never actually made a move except for a few fleeting arm rubs and semi trying to put his arm around my waist without never actually doing so what was that all about? He’s the kind of guy I always thought was way out of my league but the whole time we were talking or gazing at each other i thought he was gonna kiss me . Where did i go wrong?

Ice breaker
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Ice breaker
1 year 10 months ago

You should have put your hand in his trousers and played with his man snake. That was your fatal error.

Adam
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Adam
1 year 11 months ago

thanks jesse, but is there a technique to trigger a girls limbic system making her not really control the sexual feel and desire your sex

Whatever happened to romance?
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Whatever happened to romance?
1 year 11 months ago

You need to fuck with her amyglada and orbitofrontal cortex. You can do this using your deep inner game if you can get it to a specialist level. Alternatively, you could study to be a brain surgeon and carry out mind altering surgical procedures in your garage that turn women into remote controlled sex machines. Toss a coin!

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 11 months ago

oh gosh, yeah. The guy making sexy hot eyes at me, and feeling like he’s the love of my life. It was almost surreal!

Necropihliacs anonymous
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Necropihliacs anonymous
1 year 11 months ago

I thought that i’d mastered all of your techniques Jesse until I met this one girl. I tried everything to melt that beautiful icy heart of hers but however much I worked on my deep inner game I just couldn’t get below her surface. Then I realised that she had been cryogenically frozen in a romantic death pact with Walt Disney. Its her loss if she doesn’t want to be on the receiving end of some real strong man love, but jesse i was wondering if you had any tips for dealing with frozen women?

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 11 months ago

Aww. I am total opposite. I’m syrup to the eye contact

Manwhore
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Manwhore
1 year 11 months ago

Your tips work a little too well. I was on a visit to the local wildlife park and I found myself being rampantly followed by two goats, a zebra and a star nosed mole. How can I learn to control my wild and undefined sexuality?

Inner game player in the deep end
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Inner game player in the deep end
1 year 11 months ago

Great story manwhore! I had a similar experience with a flock of wild geese. My deep inner game is so strong that I’m picking those fuckers off from over 500 metres away.Fox news have promised me my own weekly slot in which I use my deep inner game techniques to pick up inanimate objects in social situations. Remember guys every hole is a goal even if its in a modern kitchen utensil.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 2 days ago

This article is from 2011, however I find it to still be accurate, the natural human interaction works this way and it’s probably a good ‘fake it till you make it’ approach even for shy guys. – I forget this technique some times, I forget to put it in use so my advice, constantly remind yourself of this article content (it’s short and sweet anyway so should be easy to anyone). Congrats on the great article!

Nikhil
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Nikhil
2 years 12 days ago

Good tip

ASHWIN
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ASHWIN
2 years 21 days ago

Its interesting but horrer

Mickey
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Mickey
2 years 1 month ago

Haha good tips.
Unfortunately for me, my girl didn’t quite giggle cutely. She instead scoffed and called me a weirdo and a loser. Think I’m doing it wrong…

Anonymous
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Anonymous
1 year 8 months ago

She knows you made her piss herself.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 1 month ago

Hey bro..I read you stuff n I like its details about seduction…I am regularly practicing your tips of eye contact…and now a days I am trying a trick myself without knowing much about it..how it affects my chance with women? What exactly woman feel when I do this trick on them? And that trick is when ever I just made eye contact with women I focus on her eyes and little raise my eyebrow tilt my head little back..and mostly women maybe little close to every women I tried this on react to me surprising . They forget to close their mouth and my this trick open their eyes wide and they just hold their gaze at me. The point to note is they didn’t give me smile but look like with lust or maybe with anger? I don’t know..if you ever encounter with this situation so plz let me know..coz I don’t know how to react on this situation..sometimes I fear like she is going to slap me for this bold step of eye contact flirting of me…waiting for a reply from you

Lonny
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Lonny
2 years 2 months ago

what ever happened to Jessie?

amam
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amam
2 years 2 months ago

Hellow,sir I like ur seduction science .
I want ur help please help me I said a girl I like u and ask her do u like me she replied no. And she told me tommrow that are u serious .

Jeremy
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Jeremy
2 years 3 months ago

How about strangers (women)? For example, when walking down the street or when your at the train station…
btw, I am in college.

Jeremy
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Jeremy
2 years 3 months ago

you’re*

Reader
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Reader
2 years 4 months ago

You may be on to this.

Dr. Bapan Choudhury
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Dr. Bapan Choudhury
2 years 5 months ago

Hello, respected sir,
I wanna know one thing that is it very important to think kissing her lips while making a eye contact ? If it yes, then how does it help or what is the secret behind it ?

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 5 months ago

Hello, respected sir,
I wanna know one thing that is it very important to think kissing her lips while making a eye contact ? If it yes, then how does it help or what is the secret behind it ?

Leo
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Leo
2 years 5 months ago

Jesse I thought I was the only man who worked that Mojo-juju. I call your eye-lip technique. I do add a few more tricks. what I THINK, when gaze into her eyes and at her lips. I tilt my head to the right, as to get a better look at her. Not to brag confidence is a big help and the more I practice, the better I get. There have been many times I get a kiss and a number. I have a particular Bar I frequent, ladies approach me.

JustAnotherGirl
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JustAnotherGirl
2 years 5 months ago

Wow. This guy I think’s really good looking gave me this gaze ever since I first layed eyes on him. How am I supposed to know if he’s doing it on purpose or just subconsciously?xD

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 6 months ago

GOOOD

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 7 months ago

f o

dipal
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dipal
2 years 7 months ago

ok

waseem
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waseem
2 years 8 months ago

i like this….

hairythumbooty
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hairythumbooty
2 years 8 months ago

Booboo peepee

hairythumbooty
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hairythumbooty
2 years 8 months ago

I like the smell of dirty pussy in the morning

Sir Likesdickalot
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Sir Likesdickalot
2 years 9 months ago

I like dick.

Mitch
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Mitch
2 years 10 months ago

Great post! I had forgotten about this. My senior year in high school, I was in an empty classroom with 2 guy friends, and 2 girls from our class. We were listening to music, joking around and what have you. At one point, I sat back leaning against the wall in a very relaxed manner, and just stared in the eyes of one of the girls. She stared back smiling. I just held my stare. After a short while, she didn’t know what to do, so she giggled a little and decided to keep staring back. I just held my relaxed pose and kept staring comfortably. Finally, everyone in the room picked up on what was going on and started joking about it. The girl and I just kept staring almost like in our own bubble. Then, after a while, she got up, came up to me and kissed me. My boys couldn’t believe what was happening; they thought I had used some kind of magic on her or something. That stare was all I ever did to score this chick.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
2 years 11 months ago

What does the girl interpret it as when you look at her eyes and then her lips? how does it make her feel?

zaheer
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zaheer
2 years 11 months ago

i did eyes contact but her eyes go down when look at me!

Sean
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Sean
2 years 11 months ago

Hi Jesse, what happens when a girl glances at your lips after you glance at hers? Does that mean you’ve turned her on?

Zelda
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Zelda
3 years 11 days ago

One thing about eye contact that I’m wondering about. Someone has to break first, either the male or the female otherwise you’d be frozen forever. I have it in my mind that if the male should not look away first because you want to show the female you’re strong and not weak.

What happens if you have conctact for over 5 seconds,10 seconds or 30 seconds which happened to me once? Should the male always break contact last?
And if you do happen to go by this rule of not breaking eye contact first, how would looking at the lips than going back to the eyes factor into this? Just thinking back to a week ago, I know I did this to a woman I am attracted to. It was eye contact and than I remember my eyes going down to her lips automatically. I can’t remember where they went after that. They were happy. I know that.

Anonymous
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Anonymous
3 years 21 days ago

great tips man! i got a question though. Once you have started a relationship with the girl, would you need to keep paying attention for eye contacts moment with her? Or once you establish your feelings it wouldn’t matter anymore.

Silkie Sound
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Silkie Sound
3 years 24 days ago

Thanks! 😳

Silkie Sound
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Silkie Sound
3 years 24 days ago

Here’s a practical question: When looking into eyes should I zoom in on ONE eye? The reason I ask is, as an actor, you are taught to only look ONE eye of the actor you are talking to. If you don’t, it will appear that your eyes are ever so slightly darting back and forth and this projects weakness. You think you are looking at both eyes (which is of course impossible) but in actuality your eyes are darting back and forth.

What says you?

sam
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sam
3 years 1 month ago

could you tell me what to say to her before i stare at her eyes and lips, also can i speak to her while staring at her. ??

thanks.

Whitguy
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Whitguy
3 years 2 months ago

This trick works for me 90 percent of the time! Simple, yet effective way to get into a girl’s panties.

Jef-friq
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Jef-friq
3 years 3 months ago

Gr8 and on addition Body language must sing as well. and licking your lips.

Sir Chival Regal
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Sir Chival Regal
3 years 4 months ago

I can only look at one eye at a time . Is that a problem. ????

Ana
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Ana
3 years 4 months ago

” Look at her eyes, and then look at her lips, and move back and forth. As you look at her lips, imagine those lips doing down on you and giving you a wet blow job. ”

Dude, do you even know how creepy that sounds? So guys are supposed to think of girls as potential sluts? I wouldn’t want a guy to think of me in such a disrespectful manner!

Terry
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Terry
3 years 5 months ago

I think GUYS only do ONE thing wrong .. And that IS to think that girls / Women do not know whats on your mind AND what your thinking the the second you look at them // No matter if you have a paper bag over your head lol .. terry

mm
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mm
3 years 6 months ago

it works for me all the time its a combination of three things i use ,my friends are so amazed but i wont share my secret never i would sell it though study more things about telepathy its not in the chat u dont have to say a word and you can undress her by her own will without sayin a word,let mi gi un hhu a clue zeen ,a woman can open her legs and show you something ,and from here on she dont hah fi seh nuttin u zee me jamaican patois ..

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