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Eye contact is one of the fastest ways to build explosive sexual tension.
But most guys do eye contact WRONG.
Most guys look at the woman’s entire face as they talk with her, unfocused.
Pretend her face has been hidden, and it’s just her eyes.
This is the “safest” way to go, because looking at her face hides your sexual desire for the girl.
But she won’t feel any sexual tension from you either, and she’ll put you into the “friends zone” pretty quick.
Instead, when you approach a woman, give her a smile and look DIRECTLY into her eyes.
On the approach, you don’t even need to “say” anything. Just look into her eyes and hold it. Right into her EYES.
She’ll start giggling. Then introduce yourself and take her hand.
You’ve already shown your awesome coolness and sexuality just from your “eyes approach”.
The Eyes to Lips Technique
Now here’s how to make the girl feel strangely horny.
As you talk to her, hardcore look the girl into her eyes. Focus in on her eyes like a laser beam.
Then alternate your gaze between her eyes and her lips.
Look at her eyes, and then look at her lips, and move back and forth. As you look at her lips, imagine those lips doing down on you and giving you a wet blow job.
When the girl feels your sexual intent coming through your eyes, and you don’t waver or react… but you just HOLD it… that is VERY intense for the girl. She’s met a real man.
And women go NUTS for that “swept away feeling”. They literally get wet on the spot. IF you can hold it!
What Guys Are Doing Wrong…
Another mistake guys make is that they look to get eye contact from the girl FIRST.
But, as the man, it’s YOUR job to initiate eye contact with girls.
That means you approach girls to say hello whether they’ve given you eye contact already or NOT!
Women are like Chinese takeout. You need to make the first move to take it home.
Because most girls will NOT give you eye contact. YOU have to be the one to start it.
You spot the girl, you say hello, and you look into her eyes and to her lips, indifferent to how she reacts.
And THAT’S what makes you stand out as a sexy guy.
Now that’s not an easy thing to do.
If you don’t feel entitled to the girl, you’ll have trouble approaching her, let alone make strong eye contact.
And there’s no “magic bullet” or “routine” for making eye contact. It comes down to an Inner Game issue. Do you feel entitled or not?
That’s why I created the Deep Inner Game program. It’s 11 CDs of trances to install the 11 Deep Inner Game traits, including confidence, the bad boy, and sexuality, so that you can initiate and hold attraction-grabbing eye contact with even the most hottie cuties.
Just click on THIS link here to download the program.
~ Jesse
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How has eye contact affected you? Feel free to leave your thoughts
Jesse,
You have simply made me a hopeless fuc*er. I just employ very little effort and zip the pants go down. I only have a major problem…Getting out. I get in, easy thanks to you and then the chicks start to put terms like “Forever”; “Promise” into their talk and when they realise i am not for keeps…they mess up stuff pretty bad. I am now paying for a car that was smashed by a chick pretty ugly. I dont know what to do …kindly help!
I did this once a few years ago, when I first heard about it, then forgot it. I was in a training class with a hot teacher. I was sitting in the middle of 25 guys in a classroom. I DEFINITELY picked up on her reaction. I need to get to doing this!
Yep…
sometime it works but other times I find myself staring instead of relaxed , sexual eye contact practicing.. and this can get them away. You have any tips when doing this so that I don’t creep them out thanks.
Yes, alternate between her lips and her eyes. Look at her lips and imagine kissing them. Then back to her eyes. That way it won’t come across as staring and it’s more of a turn-on for the girl that way
i have a better eye contact technique thats more powerful than all of them lol
i look into a girls eyes and dont let go when she looks away and looks back i lock on her eyes again whne she puts her head down i know i got her i became famouse in the ulster county area for this i make girls hot when i talk to them and thats it i just talk it rocks and it packs a real punch
Sweet one :smile:
It’s actually difficult and could be creepy to look at both eyes. So I just look at the left eye. And don’t change looking at the lips and the eye every second. Take your time and alternate at a slow pace, spending more time at the eye than the lips.
Yeah, one needs to alternate with the speed of gooey molasses. Like your gaze is stuck lingering on her lips, and then shifts to the eyes. If one flutters back and forth every second, it would be funky!
it really works, I have piced many girls after the eye contact only, once it is done, then I do my next move. eye contact is the first step to know the girl is intrested on us and that makes easy to remove her buttons.
I agree with the jess.
I did this to an air hostess during her safety routine … got an invite for a free trip to where we would spend the night!! … I do believe that this is something we forget is so powerful.
Thanks for the reminder … and alas could not take up her offer … bugga!
Jesse, sometimes it works but it takes some courage especialy to shy guys.
dats right
I agree that this works only when done carefully.
Eye contact can be very powerful because of the effect it has on the central nervous system—which is also why many men have a hard time with it, because it can feel “uncomfortable” until you get accustomed to it. I just play that Bob Seeger song in my head, where he sings “Ain’t good-lookin,’ but ya know I ain’t shy, ain’t afraid to look a girl right in the eye.” And mutual eye-contact can be so intense that anthropologist Helen Fischer calls it the “copulatory gaze.”
My own technique is to be bold about the eye contact but not TOO bold, lest I seem too “stare-y eyed” which can look creepy and crazy. A nice soft gaze can convey the so-called “bedroom eyes” look. Notice the color of her eyes….and smile while you do…in my opinion, the look needn’t be any more intense than that.
If you are unaccustomed to making eye-contact it can feel very uncomfortable at first. Just keep practicing. Especially in situations where it’s “acceptable’ such as with store clerks or waitresses. You’ll find the more you do it the easier it becomes. And just understand that there will always be some women who will scowl and look away when you make eye-contact and smile….its not you, don’t take it personally.
…and don’t forget to add the naughty twinkle now n again.
Sometimes, I can’t help licking/biting my lips when using this technique; especially if she has the Scarlet Johansen type mouth.
Slow down you move too fast….
“Women are like Chinese takeout. You need to make the first move to take it home.”
That’s priceless. And I’m gonna try this eye-lip watching thing ASAP.
Cool
As a 55 year old, you have reminded me of something that happened when I was in my early twenties.
2 stunning looking girls came into the bar I was in with 2 other male friends, I thought I had no chance, but one was so beautiful I could help but stare at here, I held here gaze the next thing I know she came over to me. My 2 friends were amazed. ;-)
So you right it is an effective tool.
Keep up the great tips.
Thanks Dave, great story
I do this with a girl at work because I adore her, and she get’s really nervous around me, when I go and talk to her she has to play with something in her hands without fail. One time her leg was literally jiggling up and down repeatedly. A couple of times when she’s got close to me and we’ve shared a silent eye contact stare it’s made the hair on the back of my neck stand on end. I honestly believe eye contact flirting is so much more effective than touching/teasing, it can be so intense, then when it’s followed by casual touching it’s almost unbearable.
sweet man
Seducing beautifull women with your eyes awesome and definitely fun and cool.If you look into a girls eyes you can tell if she likes you or not by seeing the love in her eyes.The eyes are definitely the windows to her soul and her heart.
Jesse,
Do you typically look directly into one of her eyes, or at the bridge on her nose between the eyes?
Into her eyes
Great tips.Despite being an up and coming coach ,I’ve always struggled with good EC to this day.This post should help me on this sticking point.I can teach proper EC,but to do it myself is a task.
Thanks. As a female, I love your articles and tips. I use them myself when approaching or inviting an approach from men. Eye contact should never be underestimated :-)
sweet, female readership
jesse bro, while holding eye contact with the girl would making faces or winking at her help in a way?
um, if you’re being playful it could make her laugh
IF A MAN IS OLDER, SAY IN HIS 50′S AND SEE A PRETTY YOUNG GIRL IN HER 20′S OR SO, IS IT STILL OK TO MAKE THE EYE CONTACT, LIKE YOU SAID, DOES THIS MAKE IT CREEPY ?
depends on the context… remember, eye contact is only eye contact when BOTH people engage. If you just stare down a girl with no response, that can be considered creepy
I have glasses (near-sighted). Do you recommend me to remove them while gazing? :-)
No! keep em on
Am trying it ASAP. .bt aint gona be easy. .am a shy guy kinda
Gosh your completely a dork, I had a guy do this all through a date…how freaking creepy!