Eye contact is one of the fastest ways to build explosive sexual tension.
But most guys do eye contact WRONG.
Most guys look at the woman’s entire face as they talk with her, unfocused.
Pretend her face has been hidden, and it’s just her eyes.
This is the “safest” way to go, because looking at her face hides your sexual desire for the girl.
But she won’t feel any sexual tension from you either, and she’ll put you into the “friends zone” pretty quick.
Instead, when you approach a woman, give her a smile and look DIRECTLY into her eyes.
On the approach, you don’t even need to “say” anything. Just look into her eyes and hold it. Right into her EYES.
She’ll start giggling. Then introduce yourself and take her hand.
You’ve already shown your awesome coolness and sexuality just from your “eyes approach”.
The Eyes to Lips Technique
Now here’s how to make the girl feel strangely horny.
As you talk to her, hardcore look the girl into her eyes. Focus in on her eyes like a laser beam.
Then alternate your gaze between her eyes and her lips.
Look at her eyes, and then look at her lips, and move back and forth. As you look at her lips, imagine those lips doing down on you and giving you a wet blow job.
When the girl feels your sexual intent coming through your eyes, and you don’t waver or react… but you just HOLD it… that is VERY intense for the girl. She’s met a real man.
And women go NUTS for that “swept away feeling”. They literally get wet on the spot. IF you can hold it!
What Guys Are Doing Wrong…
Another mistake guys make is that they look to get eye contact from the girl FIRST.
But, as the man, it’s YOUR job to initiate eye contact with girls.
That means you approach girls to say hello whether they’ve given you eye contact already or NOT!
Women are like Chinese takeout. You need to make the first move to take it home.
Because most girls will NOT give you eye contact. YOU have to be the one to start it.
You spot the girl, you say hello, and you look into her eyes and to her lips, indifferent to how she reacts.
And THAT’S what makes you stand out as a sexy guy.
Now that’s not an easy thing to do.
If you don’t feel entitled to the girl, you’ll have trouble approaching her, let alone make strong eye contact.
And there’s no “magic bullet” or “routine” for making eye contact. It comes down to an Inner Game issue. Do you feel entitled or not?
That’s why I created the Deep Inner Game program. It’s 11 CDs of trances to install the 11 Deep Inner Game traits, including confidence, the bad boy, and sexuality, so that you can initiate and hold attraction-grabbing eye contact with even the most hottie cuties.
Your pal, Jesse