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Talking a girl’s ear off may make her “like” you, but it does NOT make her HOT for you!
If you want a girl to get horny, you’ve got to touch her. Here are my 4 rules to guarantee you can touch a girl without resistance!
Rule #1. Touch Her Recklessly
A Reckless Rake does what he wants without permission.
He takes action “making his move”, damn the consequences.
When getting physical, don’t wait for the girl’s approval. Don’t wait for her to “like you” first.
Don’t half-ass touching her, “hoping” it builds attraction.
Don’t be a “nice guy” who feels like he needs to wait for the girl’s permission to be the alpha guy.
Lead! Touch her right away, even if she isn’t 100% “ready”.
Because the bad boy who is physical without apology is the man that wins the game.
If you don’t care, SHE won’t care.
And when you touch her right away and touch her often, it will be natural for her too.
In fact, counter intuitively, touching a girl scrambles her brain and pulls DOWN her “bitch shield defenses”, NOT raise them.
Touch Rule #2: Be Unreactive!
When touching a girl, have a complete disregard for the girl’s reactions.
You’re not looking for her approval, nor are you looking for a “good response” from her.
How she responds, positive or negative, doesn’t make a lick of a difference to you. Her state does not affect your state.
A reactive guy will touch the girl once, and then become so concerned about whether the girl “liked it” or not, that he doesn’t touch her again!
Instead, stand by your touching without apology, no matter how she reacts to you. In your reality, touching is what you do with ALL girls, regardless of their reactions, regardless of the girl.
Remember, seduction isn’t about “making the girl like you”, or winning her approval. Seduction is about creating TENSION, and ALSO getting her horny with your touch. So be unreactive.
Touch Rule #3. Trust in Your Actions
Trust in your own actions. Trust that every move you make is the right move for that moment, because everything YOU do is fucking cool!
You trust in taking bold actions and pushing the boundaries.
You trust that everything you do IS good game because it’s coming from such a cool guy – yourself!
Rule #4. Touch Her Right Away
Touch a woman right away with a hug or a handshake, and steadily escalate.
If you stay in conversation land and do nothing but talk, the weirder it’s going to feel as time passes, until the girl walks off.
After all, how long can you talk a girl’s ear off? 20 minutes?? 40 minutes??
If you never touch her, you end up “entertaining” her to keep the conversation going…. until it dies.
Worse, if you wait to first touch her 20 minutes into the conversation, and THEN you suddenly “lay your hands on her of nowhere”, you’ll creep her out.
Because it’s like you were pretending to be the “nice guy” for the first 20 minutes to “make her like you”, and only THEN once you felt you had her permission to go further, only then did you start touching her.
And girls don’t like that because it’s like you suddenly “changed personalities” halfway through.
Instead, when you touch a girl from the very beginning, the more normal the touching AND the conversation is going to feel to her.
The alpha man’s handshake.
When you touch a girl right away, she feels in her gut that you’re a sexual man and a possible sexual partner, and not just a friend or “buddy”.
And once a woman feels physical contact is there from the beginning, she will accept whatever you do, because girls fundamentally like touch!
And once touched, girls want more touch. That’s when roles can reverse and she tackles YOU!
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~ Jesse
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IS THIS FROM YOUR BLISSNOSIS SERIES?
Once explained, it makes sense, damn good sense.
This is my weakest area. Last night I was out with a couple of chicks and they were touching me but I was sitting there and drinking like a fucking idiot.
you should be fucking
Jesse u are da bomb. U are absolutely right. Am gonn try this on my new girl. Smart dude u are!!!
Cool… sounds like a field report coming soon
talk and touched and drink and have fun its sens
talk jokes and laaf and touched
Christ, what an asshole.
This sounds like a training class for rapists…
If you think this is rape check out naughty nomads rape game. That can get you in trouble.
haha right on jesse, right on
LOL realwoman, contradictory eh?
You are not mentioning location. Do this at work/school and you can get fired, suspended or get your company sued. So do you recommend this for where? Bars and clubs?
bars and clubs… you shouldn’t mess around in the office place anyway
i like to visit pub
Cool ideas but as marty said this for clubs n other places but not work or u face a lawsuit
I believe this works, but u have got to have humour too.. this lets the girls lower resistance and then when the touching comes it creates a maximum impact.
Yes, you need to be positive, playful, not take it seriously.
no ,the consequences have chances of being fatal like 6/10 if you can get away uhhhh James Bond could hardly get away with miss money penny even if he was licenced to kill , for example destroyed half the shrubland convalscent for a simple reason
I have taken out my office secretary on a date, and slept with her regularly after that. Now, whenever I try to check out a new girl in office, my old girl gets possessive about me or gets annoyed. How to keep having sex with the old girl as well as the new girl?
That’s a messy situation… she’ll just have to be jealous
CAT FIGHT !!! Fun to watch, let ‘em fight over you, or try a threesome.
Dude!!! your 4 rules makes my gf burst in laugh alone like a crazy Nyang’au!!!!!!!
I guess that’s good
Laughed because deep down she knows it is true, but doesn’t want to admit it. She believes she is too sophisticated! LOL
Jesse is the MAN.He is 100% right touching turns girls on and makes them like you.I think you create an emotional and physical bond with the woman when you touch her.Sexual intercourse also creates an emotional bond.Touching,kissing and telling a woman you like her makes her horny and want to have sex with you or even fall in love with you.
Hey guys.so what do u do when you touch her then she pulls back??well you would swear she’s enjoying and when you ask her,is there something wrong then she kisses you..but when you touch her she pullz back..AND SHE TELLS YOU SHE’S AFRAID TO FEEL OR GET HORNY..WHAT DO YOU DO??
My sticking point is how to touch and to smoothly escalate. For example when you aren’t sitting close enough to the girl to casually touch her.I had this situation the other day. I was doing well with this girl, positive body language,I had already shaken her hand before so their was some some touch already.I approached her in the library and she suggested we go outside to talk.Once outside I sat us down and we started talking again. She ended up siting a little out of arms reach from me so I couldn’t touch her casually to emphasize points. My question is how can I prevent that from happening or is there a way to scoot closer to her so I can get touch going while not telegraphing neediness or insecurity. I did eventually get her number and the initial few texts back from her were really positive. I’m just starting out on my journey to become good with women and to become a strong dominant guy. Any help would be appreciated.
Check out my palm reading post I recently posted… it’s a good excuse to position yourself closer and take her hand
Are there any certain places that women like to be touched during a conversation?
Take her hands… her leg… the key is to take a leadership position of taking action without asking for permission. And girls will let you get away with a lot if you lead
Whats a guy if the girl fresks out any touch?
Jessy is right! Make contact physical with a women, make at easy to have sex with you. Take action.. handshake, high five,toching playfull. And do not ask permission. Women loved! And men do always wear nice close, and smell nice.
Right on Ken !!
I agree because a hot girl was texting in da carpark and I walked up to her from behind and gently squiezzed her bum then she asked me why did you do that for I said because I really like you And she said to me that was a bit rude but she liked it
You definitely know the game. Talking definitely falls flat after few minutes. I love your writing and content. Very clear and very on point. Keep up the good work.
thanks Justin I appreciate the support for my writing
Hm. I’ll let you know if these really work when I come back from the local lesbian bar. If it works as well for a woman as it does a man, I think you’ve got something.
If not, well… *shrug*
so the game is all about of being the bad guy eh,
It’s not about being a bad guy or a jerk. Whatever you bring to the table is you responsibility. This is about communication! Nonverbal wins over verbal all the time!
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I’m just saying from a girl’s perspective, I’d love if my bf was this forceful, but if it is a hideous guy or a guy I’m not in the least bit attracted to, and he so dared as to touch me in any way, I’d have my foot up his ass and a fist up his nose before he could scamper away. If she isn’t responding to you or giving you ANY INDICATION of liking you, deal with it and move on.
“If she isn’t responding to you or giving you ANY INDICATION of liking you, deal with it and move on.”
Signs of interest are irrelevant. Girls will feign interest in a guy because they enjoy his attention even though they have no intention of having sex with him (i.e. friendzoning). Girls will also feign disinterest to see if the guy is man enough to escalate on her (i.e. shit testing).
I disagree Paris…the science behind it must be true…If the first thing a guy does is touch me casually even if somewhat awkwardly in some cases it’s like my brain get’s scrambled and reasoning about his looks, whether he’s charming, successful or smart go straight out the door…and my body just takes charge. There isn’t even any regret either. I have pretty high standards about the guys that I date but any guy who has touched me no matter his looks and I ended up sleeping with him…no regrets..that touching has a lasting effect…
It worked perfectly
Field report?
Great procedure! Works well with girls who I haven’t met e ver in my life…but would it work on a fiance’s sibling? Ooo, that oughta pick your noodle.
So what did Jack Nicholson, who plays a author in the film “As Good as it gets” say to the female intern when questioned on how he writes women?? “I think of a man , and remove reason and accountability”
If what you say is also true, then women who used to be shielded in olden days, can NEVER be Liberated in today’s world, since they are just prey to all of us rational raving wolves. They truly have no defense against us.
Sad…………
I think you are right on the mark with THIS message of Girls love touching(even tho they say otherwise!)-B/T/W your pics that you include in each message are Good too!.
.Keeep it up the re-education of what us men are doing wrong..
“because girls fundamentally like touch!”
Eh, I don’t think that’s true. I’ve personally seen this backfire horrifically. Apparently some girls have issues about personal space etc and this can be super offensive and a huge turn off.
But other than that, really good points!
Girls who have issues about being touched (not groped, but touched) probably have issues about sex itself, in which case, you haven’t lost anything by touching her since she wasn’t going to sleep with you anyway. If anything, you saved your time by finding out early on if she’s down.
Loving the advice, need more help with confidence, can u help me out?
Dayne, find me on the forum, click on “The Vault” link
Damn…….. First time I read an article explaning the most important VERY WELL EXPLAINED! AND GOOD TIPS!
yea does this work on someone you’ve known for awile im just woundering because if you’ve known them for awile then they probally wont feel the same affect because they will know that that is not your normal personality just woundering
Its nice,sure……….already check it.
Nice, but basically you’re saying
1) Touch her, don’t care
2) Touch her, don’t care
3) Touch her, don’t care
4) Touch her, don’t care
I wish you had provided ways to ‘escalate’. Like, what do I do after I shake her hand or hug her. There is a ton of kino escalation material out there, but I’d love to read *your* material.
Hey guys.so what do u do when you touch her then she pulls back??well you would swear she’s enjoying and when you ask her,is there something wrong then she kisses you..but when you touch her she pullz back..AND SHE TELLS YOU SHE’S AFRAID TO FEEL OR GET HORNY..WHAT DO YOU DO??
Hi,
I am touching the ass of a lady but I cant ask her if she wants to go to bed with me, she does not mind me touching her ass , can I try to touch her pussy too or front part of her legs ?? How can I make sure that she realises I want her in the bed ? Any help pls ?
i love those pictures, especially the sucking one
Is this part of Blissnosis? If I buy Blissnosis then “nonverbal sexual mind control” is given along with it or ‘ve to buy it separately?