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Talking a girl’s ear off may make her “like” you, but it does NOT make her HOT for you!
If you want a girl to get horny, you’ve got to touch her. Here are my 4 rules to guarantee you can touch a girl without resistance!
Rule #1. Touch Her Recklessly
A Reckless Rake does what he wants without permission.
He takes action “making his move”, damn the consequences.

When getting physical, don’t wait for the girl’s approval. Don’t wait for her to “like you” first.
Don’t half-ass touching her, “hoping” it builds attraction.
Don’t be a “nice guy” who feels like he needs to wait for the girl’s permission to be the alpha guy.

Lead! Touch her right away, even if she isn’t 100% “ready”.
Because the bad boy who is physical without apology is the man that wins the game.
If you don’t care, SHE won’t care.

And when you touch her right away and touch her often, it will be natural for her too.
In fact, counter intuitively, touching a girl scrambles her brain and pulls DOWN her “bitch shield defenses”, NOT raise them.
Touch Rule #2: Be Unreactive!
When touching a girl, have a complete disregard for the girl’s reactions.

You’re not looking for her approval, nor are you looking for a “good response” from her.
How she responds, positive or negative, doesn’t make a lick of a difference to you. Her state does not affect your state.

A reactive guy will touch the girl once, and then become so concerned about whether the girl “liked it” or not, that he doesn’t touch her again!
Instead, stand by your touching without apology, no matter how she reacts to you. In your reality, touching is what you do with ALL girls, regardless of their reactions, regardless of the girl.

Remember, seduction isn’t about “making the girl like you”, or winning her approval. Seduction is about creating TENSION, and ALSO getting her horny with your touch. So be unreactive.
Touch Rule #3. Trust in Your Actions
Trust in your own actions. Trust that every move you make is the right move for that moment, because everything YOU do is fucking cool!

You trust in taking bold actions and pushing the boundaries.
You trust that everything you do IS good game because it’s coming from such a cool guy – yourself!
Rule #4. Touch Her Right Away
Touch a woman right away with a hug or a handshake, and steadily escalate.

If you stay in conversation land and do nothing but talk, the weirder it’s going to feel as time passes, until the girl walks off.
After all, how long can you talk a girl’s ear off? 20 minutes?? 40 minutes??

If you never touch her, you end up “entertaining” her to keep the conversation going…. until it dies.
Worse, if you wait to first touch her 20 minutes into the conversation, and THEN you suddenly “lay your hands on her of nowhere”, you’ll creep her out.
Because it’s like you were pretending to be the “nice guy” for the first 20 minutes to “make her like you”, and only THEN once you felt you had her permission to go further, only then did you start touching her.

And girls don’t like that because it’s like you suddenly “changed personalities” halfway through.
Instead, when you touch a girl from the very beginning, the more normal the touching AND the conversation is going to feel to her.

The alpha man’s handshake.
When you touch a girl right away, she feels in her gut that you’re a sexual man and a possible sexual partner, and not just a friend or “buddy”.
And once a woman feels physical contact is there from the beginning, she will accept whatever you do, because girls fundamentally like touch!

And once touched, girls want more touch. That’s when roles can reverse and she tackles YOU!
For my complete, entire system for attracting girls, check out my 15 hour Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control program.
The program brings everything into a complete system that requires no memorization and compels girls to throw eye contact and glances in YOUR direction so that you can feel confident escalating with them to the next level, “risk free”.
Just click THIS link here to download the program.
~ Jesse
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Leave your thoughts here!
Once explained, it makes sense, damn good sense.
This is my weakest area. Last night I was out with a couple of chicks and they were touching me but I was sitting there and drinking like a fucking idiot.
you should be fucking
Jesse u are da bomb. U are absolutely right. Am gonn try this on my new girl. Smart dude u are!!!
Cool… sounds like a field report coming soon
talk and touched and drink and have fun its sens
talk jokes and laaf and touched
Christ, what an asshole.
This sounds like a training class for rapists…
rapist rviolent
just stopbefore becoming violent as you are accepted person
in raping you are not accepted
do not apply thes for raping do not do that
unless you are known accepted
haha right on jesse, right on
LOL realwoman, contradictory eh?
You are not mentioning location. Do this at work/school and you can get fired, suspended or get your company sued. So do you recommend this for where? Bars and clubs?
bars and clubs… you shouldn’t mess around in the office place anyway
Cool ideas but as marty said this for clubs n other places but not work or u face a lawsuit
I believe this works, but u have got to have humour too.. this lets the girls lower resistance and then when the touching comes it creates a maximum impact.
Yes, you need to be positive, playful, not take it seriously.
no ,the consequences have chances of being fatal like 6/10 if you can get away uhhhh James Bond could hardly get away with miss money penny even if he was licenced to kill , for example destroyed half the shrubland convalscent for a simple reason
I have taken out my office secretary on a date, and slept with her regularly after that. Now, whenever I try to check out a new girl in office, my old girl gets possessive about me or gets annoyed. How to keep having sex with the old girl as well as the new girl?
That’s a messy situation… she’ll just have to be jealous
Dude!!! your 4 rules makes my gf burst in laugh alone like a crazy Nyang’au!!!!!!!
I guess that’s good :razz:
Jesse is the MAN.He is 100% right touching turns girls on and makes them like you.I think you create an emotional and physical bond with the woman when you touch her.Sexual intercourse also creates an emotional bond.Touching,kissing and telling a woman you like her makes her horny and want to have sex with you or even fall in love with you.
My sticking point is how to touch and to smoothly escalate. For example when you aren’t sitting close enough to the girl to casually touch her.I had this situation the other day. I was doing well with this girl, positive body language,I had already shaken her hand before so their was some some touch already.I approached her in the library and she suggested we go outside to talk.Once outside I sat us down and we started talking again. She ended up siting a little out of arms reach from me so I couldn’t touch her casually to emphasize points. My question is how can I prevent that from happening or is there a way to scoot closer to her so I can get touch going while not telegraphing neediness or insecurity. I did eventually get her number and the initial few texts back from her were really positive. I’m just starting out on my journey to become good with women and to become a strong dominant guy. Any help would be appreciated.
Check out my palm reading post I recently posted… it’s a good excuse to position yourself closer and take her hand
Are there any certain places that women like to be touched during a conversation?
Take her hands… her leg… the key is to take a leadership position of taking action without asking for permission. And girls will let you get away with a lot if you lead
Wthats a guy if the girl fresks out any touch?
Whats a guy if the girl fresks out any touch?