You will see just as many hot women on the streets as you will in clubs.
If you don’t believe me, just visit Toronto, Chicago, Miami, or Montreal and go to outdoor cafes, malls, or just walk down the streets and you will know what I am talking about, but I am sure we’ve all been there and can agree that the sidewalks and day time venues are packed with hotties.
To truly be a Master of Seduction, we need to be “socially adaptable“ to meeting and attracting women in all environments and venue types. Now to play devil’s advocate you may say, you can only find hot women in clubs… Now let me ask you doubtful gentlemen a question… Don’t a lot of the hotties you see in clubs need to go out during the day to get ready, to eat, to buy clothes, to buy cosmetics, to put gas in their cars, run errands, and get cash for their girls night out?
We both know the answer to this and hence know that unless the girls in nightclubs are vampires, they DO go out during the day. This is why we need to learn how to capture the daytime market on top of the night club market.
First, let’s look at the major differences, advantages, disadvantages between night game (bars, lounges, and clubs) and day time (street, malls, campus, and bookstores).
Tip #1. At night clubs women expect to be approached and hit on
Women expect to socialize, mingle, seek romance.
How can we use this:
Talk to everyone, be playful, and use “sexual state projected body language”.
Touch escalate in clubs, as it is okay within this type of domain.
Go up to women and talk, be spontaneous, be playful, be loud, dominate the conversation, dominate their frame of mind, come with superb and superior body language and pre opener value (social proof, own the guys in front of them, demo tribal leader traits, peacock) .
In this type of venue it is okay to put on the sexual, rebel, bad boy, playful alpha, touch escalating lover boy. In fact women go out to these places to “Find/Meet” a “LOVER” and they want to be approached by a sexually confident alpha male.
Tip #2. At night clubs there is a lot more competition from other men.
You must learn how to work a group. Learn how to own big ass, natural players.
In fact, the bigger and badder, the easier it is. It is so counterintuitive to what I used to think, but massive field experience and experimentation has made me formulate a different opinion and that is good for us.
So you must know Amog’ing tactics, and learn how to rule mixed sets. Remember– Own the men and the women will follow.
Remember in this tribe (club) you must be the “TRIBAL LEADER” and perceive the other guys just holding your drinks (women) while you go take a piss.
Remember…as the kid rock famous line states: “Move over Jack, Daddy’s Home!!!!!!!!!!”
Tip #3. At night clubs there is a lot more stimulation
There is a lot more stimulation like music, drinks, people making out, and girls taking pictures together.
So be louder, cooler, more playful and exciting than what the women are stimulated by currently.
You need to be more sexual than the next man. Own the place. Talk to everyone: big mafia guys, corporate guys, wannabe playa’s, fat chicks, ugly chicks, hotties, models, etc. Merge them, split them, play with them.
Just be a fun, playful social guy who doesn’t need to get laid.
Imagine you are already dating four super models. Do you care what some chick at a bar says to you? Use your camera, take pictures– A flash is like chick crack… it is the only thing that I have found that can successfully win in a battle between you and an Usher song that sucks all the hotties to the dance floor.
You be the stimulation, the disco ball, the centre of attention, as well as learning how to Blitzkrieg style body language and vocal projection and powerful body language to OWN THE WOMEN.
Tip #4. At night clubs, you have to open groups
A lot of women come in groups and packs of both men and women.
Learn how to own the guys and be cooler than them. Disengage the group and at the same time how to properly attract the woman you want using attraction material, in particular active disinterest and negs. Learn to convey your personality through stories with DHV spikes to the group, so you get the guys seeking rapport with you and the women chasing you.
Tip #5. At night clubs, everyone dresses nicer
You must come like you are important or of high status. You got your hands full of hot women, and you are just here because you are bored, or to play around and socialize. Remember calibrate your look style and “value” to the venue.
Tip #6. At night clubs, it’s social
Talk to girls. Have strong nonverbal sexual cues, and a identity conveying power sense of style that is unique and that “peacocks” to the women that you are the black sheep of the bunch.
Tip #7. At night clubs, women love to be touched and love a man who is sexual
How can we use this:
Touch escalate along a much “steeper” touch escalation curve. Yes touch, touch, touch… You are an alpha caveman and love women. Do not make any apologies for this in clubs, but do it in a non needy, tactful classy way.
Examples: use the trust test, hand massage technique, and role playing, like you are both a couple and put her arms around your neck.
Tip #8. At night clubs, women have low attention spans
How can we use this:
Use Rapid Fire threads. You can go from open-touch-talk-close (time bridge or insta-move or bounce) in minutes, using fun, snappy, elastic-band effect based attraction threads.
Tip #9. At night clubs, there’s a lot of women in a small space
You an quickly merge sets of girls, split sets, move from one set to another, and easily use this to “FLASH” to other women adjacent to you that you are pre-selected and have “social proof”.
How can we use this:
Use the density of girls to approach a ton of women in the shortest time possible with rapid-fire threads. It allows for re-engagement of women and with each re-engagement a gradual, yet steep touch escalation process. You can use female to female proximity to flash to other women, that you are the man to use as pawns, and to merge sets,
Tip #10. At night clubs, you need to isolate the girl
A lot of social and situational contingencies can arise that will prevent you from isolating your girl, from building comfort with her, from insta-dating her, from time-bridging her, from qualifying her.
To isolate or instant date girls, you will need to learn how to master “wingmanship” and have a good wing to win the friends over, so you can now bounce the whole group, or qualify/comfort build with the woman you want, and if anything suggest a time-bridge.
If you want to pull the girl, you will need to find an occupant for her peer group or girl friends, so use your wingman as he is a “Pawn in the know”. Or merge sets and hook the girls up with guys in the near vicinity. Also pre plan and have openers and routines for interruptions and contingencies.
Part 2: Day Game
Now here are some major sticking points about day game.
In day game, women have a much lower expectancy to be approached
So you must come way under her radar, especially if she is with a group.
If she is alone, a direct, natural rapport style opener would work.
Turn down the body language and vocal projection slightly. Be more confident and less ballsy and “out there.” Be more relaxed and lower energy than the club, but still come with a slightly higher energy band than her and her immediate environment.
In day game, ease up on the physical contact
I may open with a compliment, but I’ll quickly switch to role playing, storytelling, my knowledge of her body, hand, demonstrate my know how of social dynamics, female psychology, and travel.
So follow a less steep touch escalation curve. Close the space gradually. You really need to build trust/comfort with her. Use more of an indirect approach style.
You can use direct but with care and do not touch her in an intimate way until you are both in a “comfort location.”
In day game, there’s less competition
You don’t need to know a lot of “Amog” or group theory tactics as much or be concerned with them. At most you will find a woman alone or with one friend.
In day game, there are less distractions
Usually if it’s two women, pull them to a cafe and get to know the woman you want, while winning over her friend.
If she is alone, suggest that she come along with you for your daily activities.
Women are more in character and less out of character so she will feel open to a more genuine connection/rapport with you. It’s easier to build trust/comfort. She will feel that you are getting to know the real her, not the club girl persona she puts on when she goes out on Friday nights!
So those are some basic differences between attracting women in night clubs and meeting women in the day. Use the tips, and enjoy!
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Your pal, Jesse