My Singles’ Guide To Paris – To Get Laid In France


I am coming at you from Paris, France. I am going to give you a very quick review of my first impressions of the city, my first impression of the women whether this is a good place to meet women or not.

I got off a night flight that was quite long from south Florida. I was up all night and I spent the first couple of days pretty discombobulated. I spent 12 hours sleeping, but now I’m back on track. Now I am standing in front of the very famous Notre Dame Cathedral, and I’m going to give you my quick impression review of Paris as a city for meeting girls.

Parisian Women

First, let’s get to the most important part: the women, how hot are the women. Well your typical French girl I would say from what I’ve seen is pale skin, dark hair, kind of smallish, thin. You don’t see very many fat girls. You don’t see very many athletic women either. They’re just kind of like thin like they don’t eat too much food and not too much butt, not too hips, not too breasts, so you kind of have that waif-look.

Coming from south Florida, you know Miami, Fort Lauderdale, West Palm Beach, I would say it’s kind of a downgrade. Not too many places can beat out south Florida, though. I would say it’s respectable but you do have tourist girls, however.

The tourist girls come from all over the world. It’s every girl’s dream to come to Paris, so you see women like Middle Eastern-looking women. You see Nordic-looking women. You see African-looking women, and you also have a lot of ethnic neighborhoods in Paris as well like when I got off the train station at Gare du Nord train station, it looked like I stepped into North Africa, so it just looked completely different. Everybody there was black, almost everybody. You have a lot of genetic variety, so to speak.

How Sexy Are Parisian Girls

Now in terms of how women are dressed, you would think that Paris being so famous for the fashion, all the women would be dressed to the nines. They would look amazing or beautiful, but it’s not really the case. I don’t see too many women wearing high heels, for example even though it is August. This summer is warm out.

I don’t see French women as being particularly fashionably dressed. I mean they look alright. It’s not amazing or anything. It’s part of this problem of just everybody in Western Europe just going completely casual and not really trying, and the French women not trying with high heels or anything. That’s kind of a downside.

One thing I do like of course are the French accents. It’s very sexy and attractive, I suppose, but if you are out to meet women, one of the things I’ve noticed is that with the tourist girls especially if you come to a place like Notre Dame or the Eiffel Tower, these are great places for meeting women, I would say in these tourist areas. But a lot of these women are with boyfriends or they are couples, that romantic getaway that so many of these women are on, that a lot of these girls are taken, or they are with families, so that’s something to keep in mind.

Paris also has a rather old population, so the local population, people tend to be in their 40s, 50s, 60s. I mean the population is just aging. Again probably your best bet is not so much the French girls but the tourist girls coming to a place like Notre Dame, walking 20 minutes in that direction to the Eiffel Tower. Ten or 15 minutes that way to the north is the Les Halles shopping mall and Rue de Rivoli, which is a big shopping street, a lot of tourist girls there.

Again most of the really pretty ones tend to be with a guy, on the arm of a man, but you do find groups of girls that are just here as tourists, as girls together. Not so much but, they are around.

But you know I wouldn’t necessarily characterize Paris as the most amazing place to meet women or anything.

Where to Meet Girls In Paris

Okay, so now where do you go to meet the girls?

Again these tourist areas, if you’re going to do day game, this area around the Notre Dame Cathedral, down by the Eiffel Tower, which I highly recommend you visit by the way. If you’re never seen the Eiffel Tower, I thought it was going to be like whatever, stupid, but it really blew my expectations. That is something that you definitely must see. It’s pretty amazing.

You walk to the Les Halles shopping mall. A lot of girls are shopping out there, a lot of cute girls. The Rue de Rivoli Street just south of here, south of the cathedral are some nice shopping areas where you see well-dressed pretty girls walking around. Even early in the morning, you’ll see girls who are getting in their morning run, getting in their exercise, more fitness type women. They are around.

You can also during the day, hang out at the River Seine and you’ll see groups of girls there. Usually it’s mixed groups of men and women, but they’re just enjoying some wine, maybe a little picnic down by the river. There’s an artificial beach down there where women are sunbathing. That can be another interesting place to meet girls. You have do have a lot of options.

Finding 9s and 10s in Paris

Now if you’re actually after the 9’s and 10’s, so to speak, there aren’t that many like stunningly amazingly beautiful women. They are around here and there but it is very time consuming trying to find them. It’s more like you just happen to see one through serendipity when you aren’t even expecting it. You can’t necessarily bring on your A game or be in the right state to go meet that 9 or 10 because they kind of just pop out of nowhere for no rhyme or reason after maybe an hour of walking around.

So your best bet is just to go approach them even if it’s very awkward and uncomfortable because you can’t really predict where they’re coming from. It could be anywhere in the city that you met a 9 or 10. It’s very random. Your best bet is just make that approach, no matter how weird or uncomfortable it is because that’s what you’re going to have to do if you really want to meet the real hot, hot, hot stunners.

Another little trick that you can do is actually rent a bicycle. There are bicycle rental areas all over the City of Paris, something like 20,000 bikes. They’re just down in the street and there’s a machine there. You put in your card or you put in some money and you can rent the bike. It’s like €1 or €2 per hour.

That way, you can just cover more ground. You can bicycle all over the place. You can bicycle down more streets and you’re going to just see more people more quickly. Then if you a hot girl you like, you can kind of bike up to her and jump off your bicycle and then go talk to her, and that can be more efficient than walking around because walking around can be very time consuming. On a bike, you can just cover a lot more of the city as well.

Another little tip I would suggest is to learn a little bit of French, grab the Pimsleur CDs, the Pimsleur course. Do maybe the first seven lessons, learn 20 or 30 words of French, and open speaking a little bit of French, a little bit of French-English gibberish and that can open better than speaking English.

For some reason and I find this in a lot of countries, the women appreciate it when you learn a little bit of their language. It just looks cute. It’s different. It’s unique. If you open in English, it’s how every English-speaking person is going to be opening the girls, so you’re going to come across as different. Women kind of find it attractive when you speak their language but with your own local accent.

That’s little trick to spend a little time learning Pimsleur. Do the first even lessons. Each lesson will take you about 40 minutes and that can be a great way to open girls, then that gives you also a topic to talk about, which is languages, learning different words. That’s definitely recommended.

Paris Nightlife

Now as far as meeting women at night, there’s a lot of little bars, bar districts where you can meet girls. You’re not necessarily going to meet like the 9’s or 10’s, the super high-class amazingly dressed women in these places, but you can meet a lot of tourist girls where their fantasy is to find romance in Paris. A lot of them can be very open to meeting a man to fulfill that fantasy.

In the Oberkampf District, which is just a little bit of north of here, that’s where you’re going to meet the more high-end exclusive nightclubs that are going to cost maybe some money to get in or might have a dress code. Some of them are very, very difficult to get in.

I have not had a chance to explore that area yet. From what I’ve been told, a lot of the high class, really well dressed upper class women Parisian local women will go to local parties where you need to be in the know, you need to have connections with the right people that even know where these parties take place. If you’re going to spend maybe 6 months in Paris and you are going to be a social butterfly and get to know the right people, that could be another avenue to explore for yourself.

How to do Paris on a Budget

Now in terms of budget, Paris is not that expensive actually. You can get your own Airbnb apartment during the summer in the hot spot area where you can just walk to everywhere that you would want to go for about €60 a night, even less. That would be with a kitchen where you can cook. You can even get an apartment or at least rent a room on Airbnb for like €20 or €30 a night where you might have to take a subway to get around.

It’s not terrible considering that you are right in the center of such a major city. You can grab an Uber for €5, €6, €7, €8 to get around town if you need to, but if you are in the central area, you don’t need even need to rely on metros. You don’t need even need to rely on Uber. You can pretty much walk everywhere that you need to go.

Even in this area where all the tourists are, you can get lunch for €5. You can get a sit-down lunch where you get your main entre. You get an appetizer. You get a dessert for maybe €10, and you can also if you have an apartment on Airbnb where it has a kitchen, you can just go to the supermarket and cook for yourself. That’s probably the healthiest, cheapest option, but Paris is surprisingly affordable.

It’s not like going to Sweden or Norway. It’s not too bad. It’s not Thailand but it’s not as cheap as the United States per se in terms of food but it’s not bad at all. It’s surprisingly affordable.

Using Paris for Online Game

Okay so overall, my impression of Paris is I wouldn’t necessarily come here just to meet girls if that’s your only purpose. There’s probably better places to go than Paris, but the city has an amazing ambience. Definitely for three or four days to come as a tourist, just to see the Eiffel Tower, to see the Cathedral of Notre Dame, to see the Louvre Museum, to walk along on the Seine River — beautiful city, lots to see, lots to keep you occupied for three or four days.

There are girls that you can meet and you can come for a couple of days and at least get some good photos at the Eiffel Tower, get a photo of the Cathedral of Notre Dame. Put that on your Facebook. Put that on your Instagram. You could put that kind of photo in your dating profile online. It’s going to make you look more interesting. It’s going to make you look more well-cultured.

Women want to come to Paris. That’s every little girl’s dream especially American women. If that is something that they see a photo of yours, it’s going to make you just more tantalizing, make you more fascinating, make you more interesting, so it can help you meet women online.

Also it can be a great thing to bring up in conversations, so if you’re at a bar back home wherever you live and you can casually throw in your trip to Paris just casually mention it, women will jump on that topic and they will ask you more. They’re going to be interested. They’re going to be curious about that, and then you can tell some cool stories about Paris.

It could be very basic stories like walking up the Eiffel Tower and what you saw, how the view was. You’re just talking very vivid, romantic terms with vivid verbs, vivid imagery and you are going to pull a girl into your world. You want to make your world interesting, Paris is a great way to go to make girls interested in you.

Come here to meet women. There’s definitely cute women around. There’s definitely some 9’s and 10’s around if you want to play the big games. Then take some photos for your online profile – Facebook, Instagram, dating profile. Then it’s great to use in stories.

Yeah, I would definitely recommend Paris. Come for three or four days at least and take a look. Take a look at the sights, really great city, beautiful ambience, beautiful city. I very highly recommend it.

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