Boy I can’t believe it – it’s coming up so soon. We’ve already been live for four days. I hate to say it but we’re looking at the end of this launch. It’s only 48 hours away.
It seems like just yesterday when we launched but it has actually been four days. And we’re within 48 hours of having to close this thing down. I don’t want to pressure you, but this product AND the huge bonus package is going off the market in 48 hours.
As I explained earlier, we run a small outfit, just me and a few guys. We can’t cope with a very large number of participants to the bootcamp. That’s why we’re limiting this to just a few seats and we’re almost there.
So, if you’re still sitting on the fence about this, I’m urging you to go ahead and join up now. This is one game-changing decision you’ll be thanking me for. Here’s the link:
I may open the bootcamp again to new people in a few months time, maybe in 6 months, or in 2010, no exact date on that yet. One thing’s for sure, though- the bonus package is going away FOR GOOD in 48 hours.
So, if you want the chance to improve your game and bag this huge bonus set, now is the time to do it. Again, here’s the link.
Looking forward to meeting and talking to you inside.
Your friend,
Derek
P.S. Here’s some feedback I’ve been getting lately:
“Hi, Derek. I already got a seat in your boot camp. This is absolutely fantastic, I get your boot camp, and I get all the Derek Vitalio books I’ve always wanted to have in the bonus package! Derek, thanks for sharing this with us, I can just imagine how many hours you’ve spent laboring over this course. Great job, man.”
- Jacob
“Previously I had ‘information overload’ with techniques and routines and ‘do this’ and ‘don’t do that’ and a million rules. When I saw a girl I was unsure of what to do and it was all a big jumble of choices from the computer. Since Derek worked with me, the mental noise and bull and second-guessing is completely gone. His method is incredibly simple, far more effective than everything I read before, and allows me to just be ME.”
- Nathan
“Derek gave me lots of feedback, really condensed and simple, yet devastatingly true information. I loved the way he is no-nonsense. Now I don’t have all of these lines and mindsets running through my head, I have just the basic guidelines that take me to the goal of getting laid without cluttering up my head with unnecessary and useless information.”
- Pete
“Derek really cares about you and takes a really amazing approach to the whole getting girls thing. He doesn’t make you use manipulative lines or change your personality, you just bring the girl into your vibe. I move from girl to girl and finally feel like I am gaming without having to game, I can just be ME - no gimmicks, no tricks, this is just core confidence.”
- A.J.
“My biggest surprise is that Derek is a normal dude. He’s not any different than you or me– he was a hardcore programmer nerd back in the day– except that he knows how to tap into this magical quality. The difference is subtle, yet the results speak for themselves. I thought I had to change my personality in some insane way to get girls, but I learned from Derek that I can still be myself and I don’t need fancy games or routines to get girls.”
- Samuel
“Thanks Derek! I was shocked about getting a tongue down within 10 minutes of meeting these two girls. I did exactly what you showed me and it was so easy… I merely grabbed the one and made out with her and then the other. I just did the whole set without any planning or anything in my head at all… my reality was completely shattered from that.”
- Jimmy
“If you’re considering taking a bootcamp with Derek, do it now. Now that I’m a senior, I’m kicking myself that I didn’t have this when I was a freshman. Really, for the first time I don’t give a fuck and it was ON with every girl I met. Yes, yes, yes, take this bootcamp with Derek, he takes all the weirdness out of it and makes it fun!”
My divorced friend is 50 years old and he’d only ever had sex with one woman- his ex-wife. His body language was all off, and he had absolutely no experience with meeting women or dating them. I was basically starting at point zero with this guy.
He wanted to meet some women his age, but I insisted he could do better. I was going to show him what the Divine Fire was all about.
So I talked him into meeting me at Lincoln Road in South Beach and I assured him I’d get him a make-out with a 20- year old by the end of the night (in fact, he got two).
Let me explain exactly what happened…
I suppose that the idea of a 50-year old geek with no game making out with a girl half his age, in a busy public street sounds impossible to most people. But it’s really not that difficult to pull off.
In this case I opened a girl in the middle of Lincoln Road, took her hands, spun her around, and made in like I was going to kiss her. I then told her to close her eyes, and then told my 50 year old friend to kiss her. He went for it and she started making out with him. Yes, it really can be that easy. It all depends on what you believe you can do.
We headed off to a club on Washington Avenue which shall remain unnamed to protect the innocent. I knew the door guy, so we got past the line and inside I grabbed a young freaky chick and said hello and pulled her into my arm. Right away I could tell she was uninhibited, and maybe high on something.
I lifted her up and in my arms and carried her over to an empty couch in the center of the club and sat her down in my lap.
I started pushing her off my lap, pulling her back to me all in a forceful body language push-pull. This drove her absolutely crazy.
She went for my mouth for an open mouth make-out, and I pushed her away and she aggressively came back at me, sitting on my lap and trying to force the kiss. Instead I picked her up and put her into the lap of my 50 year old friend who was watching it all go down.
“Kiss her!” I commanded into his ear. He went for a week makeout attempt, but she plunged right in. I believe she needed the validation I was denying her, but it worked!
There’s no reason the old guy couldn’t have pulled off the same simple moves I was doing. There’s no reason an older man without looks can’t hook up with a younger woman, or why a young guy couldn’t do the same; the limitations are largely inside your own head. Both girls were 100% willing to play tonsil toss with this guy despite his old age and dorky dress style. Did I mention he was an accountant?
Of course, we’ve grown mentally rigid in our beliefs, our childlike playfulness and brazenness beaten out of us.
But it doesn’t have to be this way. I invite you to rediscover “The Divine Fire” inside of you, which is the theme of my new online bootcamp, which you can take at HOME and at your own pace. Approaching, natural conversation, body language and sexual escalation are all covered - I’m giving you *everything* I know and holding nothing back.
I’ve also thrown in a bucket load of bonus books and audio programs. Unfortunately, the launch ends in just a few days and I have only 67 seats left. You don’t want you to lose out on this, believe me.
P.S. You have a FULL YEAR to try the online bootcamp out… if it’s not for you, just let me know and you’ll give you a FULL refund and you can KEEP all the bonus programs. I know that sounds crazy, but I really believe in my program. Check it out, really… http://www.divinitybootcamp.com
Happy New Year to you my friends! Okay, today’s the big day and it’s going to be a bit intense in a few minutes, so I’m keeping this short. I’m sending this out at exactly 11:43 AM Eastern / 8:43 AM Pacific. Divinity Bootcamp will go live in just a few minutes. Here’s the link to it:
If you’re ready to join this massive online Bootcamp and start your New Year 2009 with a bang, there’s a link at the top of the page. If you’re still thinking about it, please take your time and read the product page carefully and find out if the Bootcamp is right for you.
Again, the cart officially opens at Noon Eastern Time and here’s the link:
Hi, Derek. I already got a seat in your boot camp. This is absolutely fantastic, I get your boot camp, and I get all the Derek Vitalio books I’ve always wanted to have in the bonus package!
Raymon, I think Derek means no slight to your religion or faith. It could just be a simple misunderstanding - a Westerner using Oriental symbolism. My suggestion Derek is just to remove any religious symbols there that our friend here finds so offensive - the course is of tremendous value no matter what images you place there.
Derek, thanks for sharing this with us, I can just imagine how many hours you’ve spent laboring over this course. Great job, man.
By now you know I’m releasing the online Divinity Bootcamp noon tomorrow January 1st. What’s unique about it is the low price, all the bonuses, and that you can even take all the video lessons and assignments I assign each week from HOME.
I’m limited to 200 seats and I’ve got a Bootcamp list of over 30,000 guys. I know there’s a lot of interest in the Bootcamp based on the response to my emails, so everyone is going to be trying to hit the page tomorrow. (By the way, I can only take 200 guys MAX, my small team can’t possibly handle working with more than that).
It could get crazy as everyone tries to order at the same time, so this is what I want you to do. I want you to be ready to go. I’m going to send you the link 15 minutes AHEAD of the launch so that you can click that link and go through and buy.
>>> What To Do Now:
1) Set an alarm to alert you fifteen minutes before Noon Eastern / 9 AM Pacific tomorrow (Thursday, the 1st).
2) Watch your email tomorrow for a special email from me with a link to the order form for the Divinity Bootcamp, and be ready to place your order.
And remember, this is BY FAR the single best bonus package that I’ve ever offered, so you need to make sure you’re ON TIME when the launch opens. Every time I make an offer like this, many people miss out… and they can’t believe that I was actually serious about limiting the bonuses and the seats.
Your friend,
Derek
P.S. If you’re still unsure what the Bootcamp and the bonuses are about, take a few moments to read the product page once it goes live tomorrow at http://www.divinitybootcamp.com
P.S.S. I’m offering an unheard-of offer: you can try out my Divinity Bootcamp at MY RISK. If you don’t like it, for up to a FULL YEAR just let me know and you can even KEEP all of the free bonuses. Yes, some people will take advantage of me (welcome to life), but I honestly feel like this is the right way to do business. If you’re interested in the Bootcamp, TRY it. Really…
P.S.S.S. As this is my last email for the year, let me take this opportunity to greet you and your family a happy and prosperous New Year in 2009.
Okay, I’ve done it. Not only can you take the online Divinity Bootcamp from wherever you live at your computer, but I’ve finalized the bonuses when you order the Online Bootcamp on January 1st Noon Eastern / 9 AM Pacific.
As promised, this is going be huge… you’re practically getting the family jewels here. Here’s a rundown of everything you’re getting ON TOP of the online Bootcamp:
==> “Seduction Science 3rd Edition Program” 7 disc super set and 300 page book
VALUE: $247… you get it FREE.
==> “Blissnosis 2.0 Mastery Program” 7 disc set and explicit DVD
VALUE: $297… you get it FREE.
==> “Derek’s 600 Dating Tips” 100 page book
VALUE: $37… you get it FREE.
==> “Kill Your Inner Wuss” 150 page book
VALUE: $47… you get it FREE.
==> “The Secrets Attraction Master” 100 page book
VALUE: $47… you get it FREE.
That’s $675 worth of free bonus programs for you once you sign up.
Why am I doing this?
I’ve worked hard and traveled far to prepare this Bootcamp for you. Needless to say, I’m proud of it and I KNOW this will change your life. I’d like to reach out to as many guys as I can, so I’m making this a truly fantastic offer by including my most important past programs as bonuses.
The launch begins January 1st and closes on January 7th. That’s right, it’s only open for a single week, or maybe LESS because once the first 200 people sign up I’m closing the launch and the free bonuses will be GONE.
Why? It’s basically me and a staff of three people and we can’t handle more than 200 seats at a time. We want to make it the best and most productive coaching experience for those first 200 guys, and we can’t do that if there’s way more people than we can handle.
Remember: I have over 30,000 people on the interest list at this point and I’ve received nearly one THOUSAND email requests about pre-sign ups– so it’s likely the remaining seats will disappear FAST.
SO DEREK, HOW MUCH WILL THIS COST?
Because of its scope and massive content, my Bootcamp is far more valuable than a typical weekend program that goes for $2,000 and up. But a hands-on seduction and natural game training program need NOT be expensive.
That’s why I’m setting the price to an affordable $297 for the ENTIRE program AND the free bonuses included.
Of course, the Divinity Bootcamp comes with a no-risk guarantee for ONE YEAR… if you don’t like it, you don’t pay.
That’s right, if for ANY reason it’s not for you, I will refund your full purchase price, up to one year from now. And you can KEEP all the bonuses as a free gift. That’s my ironclad guarantee.
I know this will send a lot of people into a frenzy. Well, the wait is almost over, and we’re ready to go on New Years day.
Your friend,
Derek Vitalio
P.S. I may reopen the Bootcamp again in 2010, I’m not sure, but I may no longer be including this bonus package in that relaunch. If you want to get your hands on all the bonuses and get into the Bootcamp this year, just hit the Divinity Bootcamp webpage once it goes live at noon on the 1st of January. http://www.divinitybootcamp.com
Derek Vitalio here and I hope you’re enjoying the holidays. I have a Jack Black pickup video for you, but first I want to answer your questions.
Last week I announced that I’m giving away a free seat to my upcoming bootcamp. Thanks for all the responses, I got hundreds of them, and I’ve ready every single one (it’s been a busy week!). Keep in mind the contest is STILL OPEN. Just shoot me an email (it’s easy, just send me an email here) explaining how a bootcamp with me would change your life and I’ll be selecting a winner in January.
By the way, this bootcamp is a little different. I may not be able to meet up with you, but I’ll be working with you over the next few months through direct video lessons and assignments which will guide you every step of the way.
That’s why I can drop the price of this bootcamp so much lower than anyone else, FAR lower than the expensive $1,200 to $3,000 fees you’ll find elsewhere. It also allows me to work with you no matter where you live and guide you over the span of MONTHS, not just a short weekend.
You’ll also get access to loads of live, unscripted videos of me meeting women IN THE FIELD coming later in 2009 which will feature my latest process I codename “Starlight”. Just watching me work live and unscripted in the field meeting real girls will really help make it all come together for you.
(By the way, the bootcamp launches New Years Day, 2009 and will last for one week only, so prepare yourself for the fury now! Woo hoo!)
Now you might be thinking, “But I can learn all this stuff on my own- it’s all on the internet!”
Actually, no it’s not.
To begin with, the Divine Fire method I teach in this bootcamp is NOT found anywhere else.
Sure, there’s an abundance of canned routines and tactics available to you free of charge on the net. But pouring over posts and articles and reading through archives until you go blind will only make you better at preparing, not at taking action.
And you’ll have so much crap swirling through your head, so many theories that often contradict each other, you’ll be left with “analysis paralysis”.
Not to mention learning how to get girls from reading can take you FOREVER.
Learning how to get good with women by reading a book or reading posts is like learning how to dance the Tango by looking at a picture of it.
At best you’ll only “cover up” your true inner self and you may have some success PRETENDING to be someone you’re not. But your OLD self and your OLD habits will soon reassert themselves and the girls will see right through your charade.
And nowhere else will you find the Divine Fire method I teach, except from me. I’m NOT releasing it as a book as that’s just counterproductive, because you won’t ever really “get it” that way.
Now onto what Jack Black can teach you about getting girls- here’s the video with my complete analysis. It’s some great advice you can take and use right away, even tonight.
Hay It was too good things in this site.I was love to visit this site and i was always see about something smething he he . It was help me doing sex and give idea to do how it was important it was in ur life.Telling is not give feel come and see one time if u ain’t love than go do what do u love to do.
Take a look at this video clip from the movie “School of Rock” starring Jack Black.
Most guys when they go out to meet girls (like 99% of them) are like Principle Rosaline Mullins, played by actress Joan Cusack. She’s wound up tight, follows ALL the rules and procedures, sticks to the lesson plan, and feels pressure of the uptight parents wanting everything to be perfect which has made her into someone she never wanted to be: a wound up bitch.
Now take a look at your typical guy who goes out to meet girls. His head may be packed with lines, theories and strategies, but he’s just like Principle Mullins. He’s wound up tight inside, wants to follow all the rules and routines of complex pickup schematics and “do it right”, feels stifled and choked inside, and is needy for approval and the blessing of all the girls he sees and talks to. The result: his game is stiff and stifled and he has massive approach anxiety.
That’s how most guys go out to meet girls; they’re just like Principle Mullins. But you won’t get laid if you’re like that inside.
Now take a look at Jack Black. The guy is freely expressive and in the moment, almost to the point of self-delusion. He does a cool conversation “routine” but it’s spontaneous and in the moment so it comes off as genuine and authentic. He’s not after the children’s or parent’s approval, he’s just being himself, whatever they might think. And he’s LOUD. He’s physically loud and expressive, and his voice is loud and expressive.
In short, he’s everything that Principal Mullins is not.
You need a good dose of Jack Black in you when you go out. You need to be the guy that creates the party. You need to be the guy that talks nonsense and expresses himself physically without that needy approval seeking and self-monitoring.
If your voice is loud, if you’re body language is open and expressive, if you’re coming up with silly conversation nonsense in the moment, if you’re energy is positive and upbeat, then right there girls will want to be a part of that. They’ll be opening YOU and following YOU around.
Why? Because it’s so hard to find a guy like that today. Everyone is stifled like Principal Mullins… including the girls themselves! The girls you meet want to be around a guy who is happy and free. They want to meet a guy who will take them on an adventure. They want to meet a guy who will give them permission to step out of their stifled Principal Mullins persona and into their Jack Black wild side.
But the girls need YOU to go there first. And if you do, they’ll follow you all the way to the bedroom.
So what kind of guy are you going to be? If you go out as Principle Mullins more often than not, you need to make some changes that requires extra guidance than what an ebook or pickup line can provide. And that’s what my upcoming bootcamp is all about.
You are so right!!! Women want adventure. They crave it. I live in San Diego, and have spent many years traveling the world thanks to the military. It is impossible to count the number of women who wouldn’t of dreamed to get naked outside or go skinny-dipping…. until they met me. And somehow, I always knew to take the first step at being carefree to the point of being wild. They’d never take that first step, especially in some of the Asian countries. I did, and I always stepped the up to wild stuff gradually. They always want more and more… I don’t know how many wedding proposals I’ve receive, and I am not talking about the foreigners wanting a fiance visa, but smoking hot chicks right here in the States. I had one chick who used to call me, and say, “Oh, Indi, please come take me away,” and my name ain’t Indiana. We spent alot of time out at the Colorado River in the desert, naked of course, four-wheeling, hiking, and skinny-dipping. And of course, watching the stars beside a campfire with some chilled wine. Oh yeah~~ she has memories, as I do of cours. Adventure Dudes! Get away from your virtual world and get out there and lead them!!
Any way Derek, you are doing a great public service! We used to say in the military about being a mentor to the youngens, “Women give birth to baby boys, but it is men, who give birth to men.” Which means, if we do everything our Momma pushes on us, we won’t be …. Gosh.. Get some testosterone.. be a bit Neandrathal!!! Aaagh! Watching some guys is so painful! I could keep on, but I got to go… Got to get out and live in the world~~ You know, be a participant instead of a spectator.
Derek Vitalio here and Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays! Santa has some presents for you.
Last week, I shared with you my story of struggle and I’ve given you a boat load of great tips in my videos.
Well, I’ve decided to open up the floodgates of knowledge and feed directly into your veins my masterpiece – the Divinity Bootcamp, my new program that covers EVERYTHING I’ve learned since my South America trip about Natural Game from approaching girls, to talking to girls, to getting girls on dates and in bed.
This bootcamp will give you the “secret sauce” of true effortless naturals, the “Divine Fire”, as what the pure natural guys I met in Brazil call it. It is truly the Holy Grail of pickup and I’m going to put the fire into your hands.
So is the Divinity Bootcamp for you? Well, if you still feel awkward and stiff at any point in your game, then YES.
If ebooks and audio tapes haven’t worked for you and you need a personal touch and friendly helping hand, then YES.
Even if you understand all the “technical mumbo jumbo” of pickup but can’t seem to implement it, then YES.
And yes indeed, this bootcamp is MASSIVE. I’ll be working with you for the next few months. Not days, not weeks, but MONTHS. That’s the kind of time and guidance you need to really excel at this and loot the house. My friends think I’m NUTS but that’s the only way you’re going to truly for real “get it” and I’m fanatical about delivering the best value under the sun.
Divinity Bootcamp will open in just one week, on January 1st, 2009, just in time to make good on your New Year’s resolution to start the year alive and anew. I’m still finalizing details on all the bonuses (I guarantee you this will be huge, and you’ll want to be one of the first 100 people to sign up and get them), and I’ll be working with my hosting guys to have backup servers ready for all the traffic I’m expecting on New Year’s Day.
Now here’s the kicker. I’ll be giving away a free bootcamp seat to a deserving chap. Just send me an email (click here or leave a comment) explaining how a bootcamp will help to improve your life. It’s as simple as that, and I’ll pick the best entry that really pulls at my heartstrings, lol. The winner will be announced a few hours after we close the launch and you may just be the one get a free bootcamp seat.
Have great time these Jolly Holidays and I looking forward to hearing from you!
Your bootcamp will certainly be the final touch to all your no-nonsense newsletters and will perfect all the tips covered in them. I’ve become a half-god on constantly reading your newsletters AND applying the techniques you show us in them. I’ll be feeling like GOD himself if I’m part of your bootcamp!
Derek Vitalio here of Bacchanali.com. First, I’d like to thank you for your emails and responses to my latest video on “How to get a girl from the first date to the bedroom.” For those who haven’t seen it yet, here’s the link again:
Reading your emails, they reminded me of a personal story in my life.
I couldn’t help but think back to the time when I first started sown this path and how similar it is to yours. All I wanted back then was to be liked and be attractive to women.
Years back I moved to Florida to make a radical change in my life… I was determined to get girls at any cost!
My goal was to make lots of money, get physically built and ripped, live right on the beach, and be around all the beach bikini girls of sunny Ft Lauderdale and IMPRESS them with my cash and my body.
I started making lots of money and worked out hard two hours a day, but I still was stuck in the same frustrating bind many of you are in right now. I just couldn’t approach women without getting terribly nervous, and I couldn’t keep a conversation going with a girl (and the prettier she was the worst it went). I just didn’t have the know-how or confidence to win the girls.
I fell into a depressed mood, thinking now I would have to run a rat race to be “successful” and even that wouldn’t solve my problems!
So I started going out to shopping malls and college campuses on my lunch break and after work to approach women. And it was a total disaster.
I would see a pretty girl and think about going up to her, and then chicken out. Walk around some more, see another girl, and chicken out. I was spending 3 to 4 hours a DAY walking around chickening out over and over again.
From there it was a long, hard road of trial and error that took me YEARS of mostly total FAILURE to scratch my way up the ladder.
(P.S. So no matter how hard and long the road you think you have ahead of you, believe me I had it HARD and LONG and I didn’t have all of the internet resources that you have today to show you the path!!)
But even when I got successful, my method was based on using canned routines and lines that I had developed over the years and some that I had found on the internet by others.
Problem was, I didn’t really feel like myself and I would still often get approach anxiety. And many nights I just wasn’t having fun. I knew something had to change.
Eventually I “snapped” and went “loco”. I sold my car, I sold my apartment, I gave away all of my furniture and I left the United States for a year to South America on a new mission to work with real local Naturals who’s minds weren’t affected by “game theory”.
I lived in many far away cities to find that “missing mindset”.
So, why am I telling you all this?
Since I got back to the U.S. a year ago, I began working intensely on a bootcamp program that will give you that “missing mindset” of the South American naturals I met deep inside Brazil and Colombia (more on that story later).
This bootcamp program will allow you to meet girls without putting up a fake “pickup persona” and without feeling all the anxiety that comes with that. And guys have been on the waiting list for this for MONTHS now.
Well, the wait is almost over.
Before I unleash the mad fury where I lay ALL the cards on the table, I wanted to get directly in tune with your issues and concerns.
That’s why I had you send me all your questions this past month. Your questions allowed me to talk directly with you while helping me to understand your exact sticking points.
I still would love to hear from you. If you have questions, suggestions, or any feedback, feel free to leave me a comment below. I really look forward to getting your opinion.
Ooooh, that slumped shoulder posture will kill ya! We had a guy like that at work, and like you spoke of in one of your programs I experimented walking around like that… and it was downright painful!
I’m doing the same thing with getting educated in IT so I can ramp up my earnings, however it’s with the intent of being able to afford live training in this field, not to impress the girls. I had money at one time back in 1990, but I was a chode back then and it did nothing to boost my self-esteem or social skills. Throwing money around trying to buy a woman’s attraction just makes you look weak and foolish.
The unfortunate thing about money is that it’s like air; if you have it you don’t think about it. If you don’t have it you don’t think about anything else.
hi derek,
First of all i would like to thank u for ur advices and tips. Believe me these are helping me a lot. It has raised my level from 0 to 5 (on a scale of 10) till now.
But one of my problem is that whenever i meet a pretty girl in front of other people i found myself choked, my mouth seals itself. Like im shying. I feel embarresed. And one more thing ‘what to do so that girl come up to me first’ all my friends hv got love.
But not me. Plz help
Regards
“And guys have been on the waiting list for this for MONTHS now.”
is it an actuall list? or r u just saying?
cause if theres like a sign up sheet i dont know about, please tell me. btw im going to a club today, and im gonna try ur advice, first time put to the test, anyways, please tell me if theres an actual sign up forum for ur bootcamp, cause i want in, thanks alott, mike.
Mike, its an informal list of friends and seduction science guys. I originally wanted to get feedback, so I just started listing down the names of those guys who wanted in. Don’t worry, you’ll have a crack at it a week or two from now. I’ll be announcing the exact date of release in my next emails, so watch for it.
Some weeks ago I sent out an email asking for your questions about what in pickup you’re having trouble with… and I just can’t believe the responses I received from you.
The emails came FLOODING into my inbox - there were over 387 emails from last week alone. I’m just completely stunned by how many folks took the time to write back to me. Thank you.
(And by the way, if you haven’t written yet, I would still love to hear from you!)
I can’t guarantee that I’ll be able to answer all of your questions in my video posts (because of the sheer number of these) but I do read every email I get.
I’ve noticed from the hundreds of emails most of you are incredibly frustrated with approaching, conversations, and getting the girl to the bed.
And you would think that with all the hundreds of dating and pickup ebooks and audios out there, it would be pretty easy by now. Buts it’s not.
Because the bottom line is, you can only get so much from reading a book. More likely than not, a book just complicates things more and fills your head with analysis paralysis.
You’ll get nowhere unless you have a no-bull, straight-forward, step-by-step system in place with a veteran mentor to guide you. How do I know this?
I’ve been there.
My Story- The Computer Programmer Geek
When I moved down to Florida years ago, I was an over-confident greenhorn. I spent hours at the gym, worked my ass off, and rented a swank apartment by the beach. I had the ripped body, the money, and the rocking cool pickup pad. I figured the girls would be throwing themselves at me—haha, needless to say that didn’t work at all!
I was a highly-paid computer programmer and all I wanted was just to get laid, to be liked and admired by women. That may sound a bit egotistical, but that’s who I was. Well, as you may have guessed, I didn’t get ANY girls with that—not one.
Zilch, nada, the big fat ZERO. I still couldn’t get girls because I didn’t have the time, and when I did go out I still couldn’t approach them. Sometimes I got the courage, but the conversation would quickly fizzle out into total lameness.
Those were some of the most frustrating and humiliating months in my life. It got so bad that I almost decided to give up, pack my bags, and head home and live the rest of my days as sex-starved computer geek.
But then, something happened. All of a sudden… there was hope.
What happened next was an absolute game-changer. It altered the course of my life, and to this day, I continue to be grateful that things turned out the way they did.
Here’s the deal, I’ll stop here now, but if you want to find out what happened to me in Florida that changed everything for me, just wait for my next post. In the meantime, I hope you enjoy watching the video I prepared for you today. Again, it’s about getting girls from the first date coffee shop up to the bedroom.
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I recently have started watching, listening, reading and digestin your posts.
And believe me so they are definitely perception changin ideas that have rolled up on me like a landslide.
I ve had a major flaw as far as my confidence goes (there was a time I thought my looks would do the chick magnet trick). Its the fear of rejection.
I think the girls are just ready with a ‘no’. Its like they might look interested but as soon as I d even approach a negative aura kinda surrounds em and they d almost immediately reject my presence where I d drop the idea halfway.
Is there a way I work on this ?
ps. the ‘leave ur parents’ video is soooo truly applicable to all of us.
hey derek, thanks for sharing your advice so freely. I like how you express certain ideas. “Sexual intent” is good: “a guy with balls and a dick between those balls” is much better. Keep sharing!!
I enjoyed your video and can testify that your approach is the correct one.
I am married and have had numerous talks with my beautiful 10+ wife about what attracted her to me in the first place.
She says that on our first date I took her hand and traced each finger and vein then turned it over and lightly traced her palm’s life lines, etc. When she asked me what I was doing, I looked up into her eyes and said, “I am memorizing your hand… just like I will memorize your body.”
She then blushed, held my hand close to her heart (in between her luscious breasts and instinctively leaned over and kissed me.
She said she melted and was mine from then on… she was absolutely wild to fuck me from that moment on. There are many other tips but this was the start of a world-class romance that continues in marriage if maintained properly.
Derek, if I may say so, this is one of your best videos so far. Your concept about signifying sexual intent up front is spot on. If the girl isn’t responsive or sexual tension just isn’t there, you can always walk away. Reviewing my own experience, I can say that those encounters that ended up in the bedroom were those in which I was up front with my intent. Thank you for coming up with these videos. Keep up the great job!
Thanks a lot, Derek. I first learned about you and your teachings a few months ago when I saw one of your videos in YouTube. and I’ve followed all your posts ever since.
This is the part that I’m having trouble with (inviting the girls back to my place), I never seem to get this right. Either I get that look (”I thought you only wanted to be friends, you maniac!”) or the relationship “as friends” drag on for months without me ever considered as “boyfriend material.” I’ve been a total wuss, but with your guidance I hope to improve my game.
Great video, Derek. Fantastic insights, you’re the man! And the mp3 is a great idea, I had this long drive recently, and I tell you it was one productive trip - I was listening to your message on the road. Keep ‘em coming, D. Thanks.
What I thought of you moving south and letting go of a lot of things already established would be like ground zero, devastation, would mean you kinda lost it for real. But this video of manning-up and being true goes straight to the heart and spirit of being a real person/guy. You’re absolutely right, reading written things only gets you into more analysis paralysis.
Thank you Very much for the efforts of doing this. Hopefully, more MP3 please.
Lol you need to change your belief system. Derek was talking about intent, he was talking about sexual intent, you have to believe that what you intend will come true. Remember the video where Derek talks about being the king and the tiger and phoenix, well thats all to do with inner belief, mostly the gal will be flirting back and showing signs that she is willing to have sex but this only happens when you create sexual attraction and tension. leading her on will be easy when you learn how to be assertive. Being assertive is one of the main keys to being sexually attractive to woman, and getting laid. it will all come naturally to u guys when u learn how to create attraction and learn how to not fear and be assertive and believe in yourselves and your own beliefs.
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