Guys lack self-confidence and get nervous around with girls because of ONE thing…
They’re attached to the outcome!
Guys have outcomes in mind when they go out to meet girls.
Outcome #1. Wanting to find a girlfriend. Maybe you feel lonely or you feel incomplete and you want a girlfriend to fill up something that feels like it’s missing in your life.
Having super confidence with women is much like swimming.
Imagine you have never learned to swim and you jump into a deep swimming pool. The first thought that crosses your mind is that you’ll drown.
So what is the best course of action to take then once you’ve jump in the water?
In Junior High, I knocked over a metal bar that guided the cafeteria line. As the divider clanged and echoed throughout the large room, a silence descended, waiting to see whether fight or flight was in order with such a large noise.
Guys “run out of things to say” or they “don’t make the moves” because they don’t trust in their own actions.
They second guess their every move.
They think of using routines because they don’t trust what would normally come out of their mouths.
I want to talk about your car. Your ride. Your automobile. Or lack of one.
Now, a lot of guys think that they need a hot car to impress a girl. Or at least a clean car.
Guys think that having a hot, expensive car impresses girls.
Or at least, all else being equal, it wouldn’t hurt to have one… right?
But actually, owning a nice car only TORPEDOES your chances with women. Here’s why.
Today I want to talk about increasing your confidence levels with an Narcissistic Incantation Loop.