One of the keys to getting into the right frame of mind is before you go out, you should get into a playful state.
Being playful is by nature outwardly focused and gets you outside of your head. It eliminates your false sense of seriousness about what’s ahead of you; it eliminates the false sense that you have to perform a task when every experience can be a fun interaction.
Let’s say you’re still having nerves with your approach. Let’s take a look at a simple exercise to add to your relaxation exercise, which will help push you into playfulness.
Exercise #1. The Playful Positive Placer
1. Relax, take a deep breath, and close your eyes.
2. Do your relaxation exercise.
Playfully teasing girls is fundamental to getting into bed with them.
Playful teasing shows the girl you don’t put her on a pedestal and that you’re not trying to impress her. It makes YOU the prize that she has to work for.