Relationships between most people today are characterized by cautious coldness and impersonality.
If you walk up to a stranger on the street, they’ll often meet your advance with suspicion. After all, they believe, why else would you try to make a connection to a total stranger unless you wanted to sell something or wanted something from them?
A club is a very fantasy environment to a girl. It is like nothing is real in the club. There’s lights, dancing, all these guys and girls, strangers, everywhere. And when you talk to a girl in club and touch, she may be attracted to you, but it’s like in a way she doesn’t even see you as a real person. You’re just this total stranger who is getting her hot maybe, but that’s it.