Even by the second or third sexual encounter with a woman, you can be telling her to wear heels and sexy stockings when she comes over – and she’ll be far more exciting in the bed.

Take a look at how this “average housewife” transforms into a sex kitten vixen with the right clothing accessories:

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It’s no good to have the pickup skills, only to lose that hard-won beauty a few weeks later.

The problem is, guys can become obsessed with trying to win a woman’s approval – even AFTER he’s slept with her.

And when you lack a backbone because you’re afraid of displeasing your girlfriend or wife, your woman eventually learns that she can take advantage of you.

Pretty soon, your woman starts demanding special treatment. She might become bitter, moody, materialistic, complaining, or emotionally cold. Her moods begin to vacillate. Maybe she stops exercising or she stops wearing sexy clothes like she used to.

Instead, she sits on the couch eating chocolate bon-bons and gets fat.

She starts using sex as a weapon against you to get what she wants.

If you’re a wuss, she learns that not only can she get away with bad behavior, but in fact she is REWARDED for it.

Here’s how guys go wrong:

First, the woman acts badly. Let’s say she withholds sex. Then we reward the woman for her bad behavior, say, by giving into her demands and trying to snuggle up to her. We buy her flowers and gifts and try to win our way back to approval and sex.

But that’s how women become spoiled and selfish.

When you reward your woman’s bad behaviors, you’re teaching her that these bad behaviors will get GOOD responses in return. And when she’s rewarded for it with attention, then the bad behavior only gets worse!

Likewise, what happens when a little child throws a temper tantrum when he sees something he wants and the parents always give in? The little child becomes a spoiled brat.

Pretty soon the woman is controlling when you have sex, giving it and then withholding it, creating an emotional roller coaster ride of positive feelings and then negative withdrawal that gets you chasing her.

The Sexual Monopoly Bludgeon

The woman wields even more power if you’re in a committed relationship with her, like dating and marriage.

In an open market with many competing manufacturers, how much does a product such as a pair of shoes cost?

A new pair of shoes costs just above what it costs to make it, and the manufacturers compete with each other to give you the best shoes at the best price.

But what happens when only one show company controls the entire supply of shoes?

Holding a monopoly, the one shoe company has no incentive to improve their product. In fact, they have every incentive to raise the price of shoes sky high to maximize their profits at the expense of your pocket book because you have nowhere else to go to buy shoes.

Monogamy between a man and a woman creates another kind of monopoly – a sexual monopoly. And if you act like a needy Wuss, the woman has the power to control the supply and price of sex.

That’s how some women can wield monogamy like a bludgeon, battering their needy, Wussy boyfriend or husband into subservience, into doing everything possible to accommodate her whims in exchange for lame sex and attention.

How Guys Get Dumped

One day your woman begins to think to herself, “He is not a real man anymore. He’s a Wuss, a little boy.”
Suddenly she’s spending more time with her friends or more time alone. She becomes more distant. At some point she cheats or just leaves you.

If she’s married, she feels trapped with a loser and comes to despise you for someone she doesn’t respect.

If your woman treats you with disrespect and you let it go or even reward it, then it’s your own fault. You have no one else to blame for her spoiled, rotten behavior but yourself. She’s simply responding appropriately to the frame that you’ve set for her.

There IS a cure however. Here’s what you need to do.

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The next 9  TIPS to be continued next week…

The city is relatively clean and pretty too, with some nice parks.  It’s nice for walking around and hopping in and out of street cafés – a little more similar to a European city than a typical city in the U.S. which are all highways, strip malls and cars.

The bar and club scene in Montreal is pretty big and girls like to go out and in summer the streets can swarm with people going out.  Best of all, the city is relatively safe at night too.

Women I found were pretty friendly and sexually liberal.

Generally the women in Montreal are reasonable attractive.  You are looking mostly at brunettes, but very few blondes.  Women tend to be thin in frame.  You can find pics of girls either at www.montrealvip.com or www.clubzone.com.

You’ll also run into women who only speak French, but the majority speak at least some English.

The downside of the city is that it gets COLD.  I was there in March and was freezing my ass off.  I had multiple sweaters, a super duty coat, and I still felt like a popsicle.  Another time I visited in early May and it was still too cold to my liking.  No freezing, but not warm either.  So you have only a 3 to 4 month window of nice weather there.

Go spend a weekend there and see if you like it.  I bet you’ll enjoy yourself.

You’re not supposed to speak to your friends in class; if someone is speaking, you’re being spoken to by your teacher.

Instead of working socially in groups, you spend most of your time solitary behind a desk.

In other words, school teaches us the skills to be profitable, obedient workers for management.

Meanwhile, we never learn social skills and social intelligence in school and how to meet hot girls – unless by accident. You’re never taught how to communicate with your peers, let alone with women. There are no classes in how to deal with relationships or romance.

Consequently, most of us come out of school totally dazed and bewildered as to how to communicate with and attract women.

It’s no wonder that we find our social intelligence and ability to seduce and how to meet hot girls is woefully lacking.

And here’s the Great Irony of it All…

TENS of thousands of dollars were spent by taxpayers to send YOU to primary school and high school. And perhaps your parents or yourself spent tens of thousands MORE for you to go on to college. Why?

So that you could get a good job and make money.

But from an evolutionary perspective, the whole reason to get a good job and make money is to attract and mate with the healthiest females you can, so that you can successfully pass on your genes.

So although ENORMOUS amounts of resources were spent to educate you to be economically successful in this world, you’re not taught the social skills to translate that economic success into genetic success and how to meet hot girls.

So although you may be able to sit down at a desk and complete a task, you may have no idea what to talk about with women.

Although you may be able to handle the company’s customers, you have no idea how to handle a woman and meet hot girls.

All the money, material, and career success in the world is genetically worthless if you don’t have the skills to speak with women and attract them!

After all, wasn’t getting laid with a desirable girl the whole point of doing well in school and making money in the first place?

Okay, given the situation you were born into, what do you do?

UNDERSTAND AND TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE SYSTEM ITSELF.

Think of yourself as Neo – we’re about to bust through the Matrix.

Here’s the key.

Whether you were born into the ghetto and went to a school where they couldn’t afford pencils or whether you were born with a silver spoon in your mouth and went on to receive a Harvard business degree in management…

We all received the same, crap-ass education in social intelligence and how to meet hot girls!!!

That means, when it comes to having social intelligence and seducing women, it’s a LEVEL playing field.

A broke, average-looking guy who received a high school diploma, works at Taco Bell, and drives an ’88 Ford Escort can achieve the same genetic success as the rich, good looking guy who runs a company and has had hundreds of thousands of dollars funneled into his education.

While the guy who was bred for success has his trophy wife – you can be her lover behind his back!

AND have a super hottie of your own.

That’s why it’s so important to CONTINUE your education and get the education you should have gotten in the first place – the education that will truly give you genetic success over any Harvard business degree would.

Consider Seduction Science a continuation of the course of life for ultimate success that goes beyond money and power – how to meet hot girls.

Without it, you MAY be able to scrape by in the capitalist system we live in – you MAY even be able to achieve some measure of wealth if you have a little luck on your side and work hard.

But without it you won’t be able to get the love and sex from beautiful women you truly want… the kind of beautiful women that make this whole life worth living for in the first place!

After all, what good is all the money and all those hours spent working if at the end of the day they don’t pay off in spreading your genes with the most desirable women?

What’s messed up is that guys who don’t see this, guys stuck within the ruling belief system fed to them through school and through advertising – will keep working themselves to death to buy that new car, get that better job, buy women who don’t sleep with them expensive gifts – and live in a sexual desert, working like slaves… for nothing! …or at best for finding a girl they merely settle for.

YOU however have the tools to blow out of that reality and run roughshod over the competition!

Social proof example #1: Avoid looking at the dance floor like the plague. The dance floor is naturally hypnotic and will naturally draw you in. DO NOT LOOK AT IT. There is nothing there. It is an illusion. Looking at the dance floor only generates NEGATIVE social proof for you.

Social proof example #2: Avoid walking around by yourself. You only look a like a valueless loner when you do this. Also, if you’ve built up any positive social proof in one corner of the club, you’ll lose it all if you move to another corner.

Social proof example #3: Avoid the noisiest areas of the club. Find the quietest area where it’s easiest to talk and plant yourself there. You don’t want to be yelling over ear-breaking noise and most clubs do have a quiet corner or two.

Also, it’s quite alright to go to clubs alone. Why? BECAUSE YOU WON’T BE ALONE FOR LONG. Within 5 to 10 minutes of being in the club you should be talking to someone getting social proof.

Look at the whole club scene as one of collecting social proof points. In this particular moment, are you talking to a set of girls and collecting points? Or are you staring at the dance floor alone, losing points?  Remember, you walk into the club with zero social proof points, with a clean slate. Everything you do will either up your status or lower it. Everything you do signals women to categorize you as a “loner” or as a “sexy guy”.

“How am I improving my social proof for social value?” should be the question always on your mind at the club.

For most guys, meeting girls at clubs is difficult for them. So they prefer to meet girls at bookstores, malls, coffee shops, and other daytime “low pressure” places.

But meeting girls at clubs can actually be far EASIER than at daytime places because of the pickup technique of social proof increasing social value.

I know that can sound counterintuitive. After all, at a club you have to deal with loud music that can be difficult to talk over, distracting lights, competition from other guys, and girls with their “shields” up. Worse still, if you go alone you don’t know anyone else while it can look like everyone else is having fun.

Even if you go with your friends they’re typically no help either because all they do is stand immobilized by hesitation with a beer at their chest – and know next to nothing about pickup techniques.

Has the following ever happened to you?

You walk into the club, checking out how “good” it is. You walk around the entire club to check it out. You don’t know anyone, and you don’t have anything to do, so you walk around again checking out all the girls.

You get bored. Perhaps you get a drink. You walk over to the dance floor and stare at it. Of course, fifty other guys are also staring at the dance floor. Like a master bed in the center of a master bedroom, the dance floor hypnotically commands attention.

You nurse your beer and eventually decide to walk around the club again. Nothing happens so you decide that the club “sucks” and then you eventually leave for another better place.

Of course, you do the very same thing at the very next place you visit.

I used to do this ALL the time. It sucked because it never got me anywhere.

The problem is, this kind of behavior is the exact OPPOSITE of what you want to do, because by wandering around you convey certain negative information to girls that shoots down your chances before you even make an approach.

When you circle around a club, women NOTICE that you’re alone. They make a mental note that you’re alone – and therefore lack any social value. Women give you social value by how hot the women and men you’re with are. But most guys walk around the entire club multiple times alone, collecting NEGATIVE social value the entire time – an “anti” pickup technique.

Think about it. When you FIRST walk into the club, the girls know NOTHING about you.

This is your chance to shape their blank impression of you. But what do most guys do?

They instantly go about setting a NEGATIVE impression of themselves – by walking around the room and staring at the dance floor. This is what ALL the guys who have no social value do. So then, if and when you do approach a hot girl, she lacks interest in you because she’s already categorized you – thanks to YOUR actions.

Thus, most guys give up on clubs because they’re “too hard”. But it’s not that clubs are “too hard”. It’s that you’re doing them all wrong.

Making clubs work for you is easy with the right pickup technique. In fact, meeting hot girls at clubs is EASIER than at other places. And you can make them work just as well as if you go with friends or if you go alone. You just have to know what to do. Here are some pickup techniques I use with great success.

When you first walk into the club, SMILE. A lot of women watch the door to size up the guys coming in. Remember, as you walk in your social status is a BLANK SLATE and you want to be immediately shaping a good first impression.

As soon as you’re in, OPEN the first available set of girls or set of girls and guys for social proof. Don’t look for a lone girl, you won’t find her. You’ll want to open a set of two of girls or a guy and a girl which are much easier to find.

There. It immediately looks like you have friends. It doesn’t matter if the set goes particularly well – other women will notice that you’re with other girls. Other girls will immediately peg you with social value – because they have no idea that you’ve only just met these girls.

Remember, GIRLS JUDGE YOUR SOCIAL VALUE BY THE OTHER GIRLS YOU’RE WITH.

So as long as they see you talking with other girls, they will mentally note this and be more open to talking with you themselves. This is not a conscious process, just something that girls do automatically without thinking about it.

So you open your first group of girls RIGHT AWAY. The conversation doesn’t have to go well, all you’re doing is collecting social proof. If the first group begins to stall, just turn to the set of girls next to you and open them. They’ll be much more likely to talk with you because they’ve already seen you talking to other girls. You can even join the groups together by saying, “Hey ladies, my friends here were just talking about such-and-such… what’s your opinion on that?”

That’s the pickup techniques, to ALWAYS be talking to a group of girls. Jump from group to group. By the time you’ve worked yourself through 45 minutes of talking to girls, ALL the girls in the immediate vicinity will know that you have social value. If you build up enough social value this way, you can just walk up to the hottest girl in the club and say, “Give me your number,” and she will give it to you.

Bird Island – One of the locations for the film ‘Pirates of the Caribbean’

When I was there I took a boat to some smaller islands and it’s by far the closest I’ve ever come to being inside a “paradise”.  The beaches in Florida and California – nightmarish industrial wastelands in comparison – don’t match even 10% the beauty you’ll find in Bocas.

Even better there are lots of waves and warm waters, making it a great place to go surfing, although some areas you have to be very careful of riptides.  And it’s cheap.

This is about what the typical tourist girl looks like there – Earthy and casual

You’ll find a number of young Europeans and Americans visiting Bocas in the winter, so Fridays and Saturdays actually have some nightlife activity on the main island.  I found there to be quite a mix of tan blondes and brunettes, and possibly more attractive women than you might expect.  Everyone is pretty laid back with adventurous streaks.

You’ll also find a few South American girls there on vacation, from Brazilian women to Costa Ricans.

The small town on the big island where the nightlife is has a very casual, laid back vibe

The best time to go is in winter, in January, February, March.  The winter months have the reliable weather, and its still plenty tropical warm.  In summer it gets hot, cloudy, and downpours at random.

I wouldn’t go to Bocas just to do pickup.  But it’s a cool place to pass through and spend a few weeks to taste an inexpensive and simple paradise.

Day Game in Orlando

Orlando is not a walking city; you pretty much have to drive everywhere to be anywhere. So to do day game and meet women, you’ll have to drive to the bookstores or drive to the malls.

Fortunately, Orlando has some big malls and some nice bookstores, so that’s a plus. But if you like to feel like you’re in a real city like Tokyo or London, Orlando isn’t the place to be.

Night game in Orlando

“Pleasure Island” at Walk Disney World, unfortunately, has closed down for the moment and is being renovated.

Universal has “City Walk”, which has a bunch of bars and clubs in an outdoor mall-like atmosphere. But I’ve found it’s typically dead even on Friday’s and Saturday’s. So it’s a real hit or miss thing there.

The best place to go is the Orlando downtown area. There you’ll find lots of local young women. The plus is that they’re pretty friendly and open. On the negative, my take is that the women in the Miami / Ft. Lauderdale area are generally hotter, with far more 9s and 8s than in Orlando.

Overall judgment

Pick up opportunities, both day time and night time, are decently average. But if you want to meet super hotties (like the 10’s), your pickings will be slim.

To begin with, Madrid is a true walking city. You can walk all over and the subway trains take you everywhere you want to go. So you’re constantly bumping into women going here and there or waiting for the train.

The night life is off the hook; it seems like everyone goes out at night and parties until dawn. Even the old people spill out into the streets and hit up the restaurants. There’s just tons of bars and parties spread out all over the city. Those Spaniards know how to party.

Now a review of the girls. Most of the women are thin, skinny, and white with dark hair. I tend to like tanned women with curves, so the stick skinny girls of Madrid are not exactly my type. But if you like pale, skinny girls with dark hair, you’ll find them plentiful there.

Since I speak some Spanish, that helped me out a lot. I found the women there pretty friendly, if you approach them. You should do the 90 day Spanish course from Pimpsleur before you go over there, because English is not commonly spoken by everyone.

Another great thing about Madrid is that it’s relatively cheap compared to the rest of Western Europe.

Overall, you should definitely check the city out for the lively night life and the friendly women.

South Beach is actually a man-made barrier island between the city of Miami and the Atlantic Ocean. You can go back and forth between South Beach and Miami by driving over a very long bridge. So South Beach has its own culture that is distinct from the rest of Miami.

For one, you can get around South Beach walking, whereas in Miami you need a car. Which is pretty cool because you can walk between the beach, clubs, bars, and restaurants, and back to your hotel.

During March, the beach swells with girls on Spring Break – it’s literally wall to wall college girls in bikinis covering the beach – and it’s a BIG beach.

There’s a strip of clubs and bars too.

Now the downsides.

It’s a pretty expensive place. Hotels run at minimum about $150 per night, and it’s far more expensive during events like Spring Break. There are two or three hostels, but they’re not that great, lack privacy, and can be overcrowded.

In summer it’s HOT and HUMID. Like disgustingly “I don’t want to go outside” humid.

It’s not exactly a tropical paradise. The beaches are white and set back from the road, but the place is highly developed for tourists. There’s not much natural beauty there.

The club entrances can be extensive ($20 to $40) and there’s often long lines to get inside (like 1 to 2 hours of waiting outside). You can avoid the lines if you have a bunch of girls with you, and even then it’s not always guaranteed.

Sometimes the clubs can be packed with guys too – like 3 guys to every girl.

Drug use is big and some of the girls will be high as kites.

The women are not particularly friendly.  Not mean.  But not really friendly either.  Picking up by being a laid back, “nice guy” won’t cut it.  Expect blow out after blow out and stay in the set no matter what until you turn them around.  It’s intense and a rush, but don’t expect to just breeze on in and pull girls with little effort.

If you can get into an exclusive party or a roped off VIP area, there can be a lot of beautiful women. But if you’re in the normal area of a club or in a general nightclub, I found that the women aren’t that attractive. Unless you’re a VIP, the 9’s and 10’s, and often even the 8’s, will be roped off from you.

You’ll find a lot of guys who save up there year’s savings so that one weekend they can splurge and burn all their money renting a Ferrari and trying to pickup girls, but end up buying prostitutes.  You’ll meet a lot of strange characters.

Generally I would call South Beach the most overrated club scene in the world I’ve been to – meaning that the hype the marketers generate for it as being a great place to meet hot women far exceeds the actually reality. The whole club scene more resembles a way to fleece horny young tourist guys of their money.

As for day game, most of the girls walking the streets aren’t particularly beautiful. There’s a lot of homeless people and drug junkies. It depends on what time of the year it is, and if it’s a busy tourist weekend, in which case you’ll find a lot more girls who flew in for the weekend.

Really, the best place to pickup women is on the beach itself. If you wake up early as the sun is rising, or later in the evening when the sun is not so intense, and you have SOLID beach game, you can meet more attractive women that way.

If you decide to move to South Beach to LIVE year round, that can solve some of the problems. If you’re game is good, you can meet the right people and get the connections into the VIP areas and so on. Still, summers are brutal hot, and many winter days are too cold for the beach. And even when you meet a girl, most of them leave a few days later since they’re all on vacation. The people I know who moved there all moved away after a year for one reason or another.

If you want to get laid on Spring Break, I would recommend going to Cancun instead. If you want relaxing beaches and nature, go to Costa Rica. If you want a Latin nightlife experience, go to the city of Miami or Costa Rica. South Beach, while it has positives for it, generally isn’t worth it when you’ve got so many other options.

Then again, you might love it there… some people do.  Everyone is different.  That’s just my take.