This seems to be a bit of a common theme. While I can still talk to anyone about anything, especially about my small penis, I do have to admit that not trying to pick up a girl for about 8 months has been strange (yes, i'm happy with my girlfriend, and yes, it does feel really really strange...
"I broke all my gaming rules with this one. That was so fucking stupid. I deserved to be slapped! ahaha.... "
It's worse then I thought!
Christ on a bike, what the fuck does that mean? "Gaming rules?" What did you forgot to sufficiently shield yourself from life in order to ensure optimum...
The more things change, the more they stay the same. Didn't we have this same conversation 5 years ago?
Ok, I'm a bit embarrassed of that last comment. Shouldn't be poking you with a stick, but sometimes we need a nice poke to realize that "oh fuck, I've improved by not improving!"
Nice, 10 seconds is damn good.
Yeah, so the 'challenge' if I can even call it that, is to simply try to grab a girl's boobs as soon as possible upon meeting her. The other side of the coin is that the interaction must end well; minimum number close.
As for the self-deprecating humor, my...
Give her time. Send her a message or call her once in a while, just to gauge her interest, and remind her of you. When she's ready, she'll be interested again.
In the meantime, look for other women.
It's all a bit sad, really.
I see guys analyzing and analyzing things to death. Why? Well, its cause it makes them feel good. We all want to save our ego, cause, fuck, we need it! Right?
Hate to break it to you, but you will never move forward as long as your tied to your ego. It will...
Astute observation. How do I know whats coming when I'm not there yet? Let's try to respond to this question.
So my whole theory comes from a bit of observation.
Now I know what stages 1 -3 are since I went through them. But how do I know about stages 4 and 5?
The nature of stage four...
The point was to do it, and have it work. Not to do it just to do it.
Yeah, it's not easy; that's why it's a 'challenge.'
And yeah, the stuff posted here is my own material.
I do think the stages are linear to a certain extent, although there is a lot of non-linearity within the stages (you can probably go in circles here). However, I can certainly see the possibility of moving from 2 to 1 as opposed to just a forward progression.
Like most mental models, this is a...
I think you made a good list, then.
The only things I will add is that I need my women to have a very good sense of style, and they need to be great conversationalists. Other then that, our list match, except I couldn't care less if the girl is bi-sexual (most girls are, to some extent anyway,...
AKM and I are actually pretty old friends, so this is just banter.
First things first: I don't say things to be mean, or hurtful, whether you take them as such is entirely up to you.
Now to get to why I said what I said.
You might not have given the full scope of the...
If by 'qualification' you mean a list of traits that you want your woman to have, then your list is good. But the more standard meaning for the word is a bit of conversation that will get the woman to seek your approval (if that is not what you meant, then I'm sorry for taking over your thread)....
I'll let you have the last word.
Come on, come on, mr. geezer. Sex at work is just fine if you don't make a big deal out if and if you know the girl isn't crazy.
I've done it plenty of times with no negative results.
But judging by the overall flavor of the questions, maybe you're right, and the guy just might fuck...
HAHAHAHA ... come on K, don't be a silly billy.
We're not going to play the "let's get AK to name all the nationalities of women he's slept with" game. It's a boring game.
Coming up next, AK's patented, full proof, kiss closes! I know you're waiting for them with your lips all puckered up...
You do push all the right buttons my man.:)
But you hit the nail on the head. You see the grand canyon once, and it's amazing, you see it 100 times and it's just another day. I'm slowly moving past that.
What do you think about my stages AKM? I'd be curious to get some solid feed back on...
If any of the guys that actually know anything care to comment, then by all means they should.
Opening up the lounge to the public does reduce the quality of the posts. Guess I'll limit myself to witty one-liners, kiss closes, and god knows what else.
Long time ago I posted a thread on the stages of growth when it comes to women. Since that thread is gone, I'll quickly recap it, and then make some personal remarks that might be of interest to some of guys here.
So the stages are, in my personal experience:
Is it just me, or is the caliber of the posts drastically reduced?
Why? Things are only awkward if you make them awkward. And if you feel that they are, then draw attention to it. It'll go away.
But if you're worried about that, then don't do it.
Where do you want to go? If you want to go on a date, then go on a date.
you: hey, lets get a drink.
I don't mean to sound snippy, but this isn't very hard.
Didn't realize my post needed a decoder ring.
Ok, all I'm saying is that you will never know why the girl did what she did because of how the human mind works. So all you're doing is spending time, and mental energy on something that, in the end, will be nothing more then a shot in the dark....
What are the odds of getting the old "best of the best" up? I'm holding my breath until I turn blue.
If you want to play amature psychiatrist then I'll send you your very own Sigmund Freud action figure. And you can recline people on one of your many finely upholstered couches.
Or you can just realize that the human mind is a chaotic, non-linear, system. Where if A goes in one time and B pops...
Hey Carmine! Where is my Benz?!
This is the ultimate paradox of this whole thing: you can't be good at this without embodying the process, but once you embody the process you become miserable when it fails (that goes for everything that you want to be good at actually).
It's a part of you now big boy.
So this is what you do....
Jesus, why do you insist on torturing yourself?
You have to understand one thing: you're not emotionally mature enough to handle being friends with this girl.
Once again, you miss the whole point of the piece in order to do a funny little jab.
The thing wasn't called "Eulogy for going out with your friends to have a good time and picking up a girl while your out." It's specific to one thing: going out with another guy for the purpose of picking up a...
Guess I have to lead from A to B or people are going to get confused.
No, a woman is not doing a spot check of all the men she's been with in a split second. Why the hell are we giving women special computing powers? When you get a sandwich do you compare it to every single damn sandwich...
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