thanks Jesse. Yeah it's been a while. I've been in a relationship for the last 3 years (thanks largely to you and this forum), hence not posting (and i believe last time i tried i couldn't login for some reason - but i can now). But I thought i'd come back for a look as there were a lot of general...
Hi everyone, i'ma total social media amateur so this question is probably going to sound rediculous. is the "like" function on here connected with facebook? I've heard that people can "like" things on websites and it shows up on their facebook page. i hope this isn't the case on here because i...
good one. my brother and his friends used to do this (well maybe not the pushups bit); and he got slapped on a few occasions lol. Just saying you need to beware of the dangers haha.
brilliant advice from jesse. a thought i had which you all probably know, but maybe someone has forgotten (its always good to be reminded of the basics): start off as a touchy kind a guy. it will be weird if you transition to touchy after being standoffish and nervous in behaviour. it is easier...
it's a good question. if you are natural with girls you can try something i have tried in the past. Use your skills to get a girl, or group of girls, talking to you and your friend, and then go to the toilet adn don't come back to your friend for a while. some more advice is to make your friend...
Yes, lower your expectations! But, maybe don't just focus on lowering your expectations, but change your goal altogether. If you are outcome dependent it is because your goal is pickup. Make your goal to have fun. Or make your goal to learn from people - if you approach conversations with the...
Does anyone know who I am? Wondering if the people who were around back when i used to post are still around??
heymate, i'd like to add one thing you touched on but didn't quite get to; something I found helpful when i used to regularly go to the gym (now i work as a labourer so i'm fit and strong just from working) is: Achievement. It is important in life to have something which you are improving on (in...
dude, my point which you tried to refute was that you don't want to act a fool as a wingman because a girl will be more impressed with you if teh company you keep is cool than if the company you keep is a fool. sure, as a wingman, you may need to not look cooler than your friend, but you...
No. women judge guys by the company tehy keep. love your massively huge ego that refuses to see others points though
ughh!!! Do you have to under-analyse everything? come on AK, you're better than this, right? :p Let's see where you went wrong now. First, NO, she will not JUST be comparing you to your wing. She'll be comparing you and your wing to all other guys who have ever hit on her. Women think...
tell her she is right, you have come to realise that it's not going to work because you have seen there are amazing women out there who won't treat you as second best. tehn invite her around to your place to hang out as frineds, to make a fresh start as friends. make sure when she comes around...
interesting indeed made me think: perhaps teh best bet for a healthy LTR is to manipulate the balance of power, via frame control, such that you have the one up around ovulation adn she has the one up at all other times. In teh book "social intelligence" I read that successful LTRs are...
hmmm, tehy had negative conotations when you were growing up? ever think that maybe that was because you were a kid? and still today, to kids, tehy have negative conotations? but maybe you have a point. but then, why say a fad? maybe just progress in the right direction, because why, really,...
wow its the anti tatoo nazi on this lounge. really? what makes you say this? i've only met one person who regrets their tattoo. but jax and co are right that doing it to score ladies is not the right reason to do it. if you want a tattoo do it for arts sake or, as jax pointed out, to...
umm, as for information -history adn all that- ever used the internet? start with recipes, look at other recipes, and merge them. experiment with changing different recipes until you get a feel for what combinations of food and spices work. not only is this the funnest way to do it bit it is most...
what is IELTS? and what is GMAT?
ummm, well i've never been in a proper relationship, and my longest improper one was 11 weeks, but I can tell from reading your post: given your premise that you inevitably want to find someone you can spend teh rest of your life with, you realise GF1 is better than GF2. yes teh strong...
my thought: you were too "scripted". This made you seem like an unemotional, strong guy. When you opened up to her, after she complained that you didn't, and said "I love.." it wasn't really a DLV because it was more like saying "nah i have emotions I'm just a strong guy who can control them"....
nicely put jax, yeh reviews are good. Its so easy to forget to use what we know, that's why i like regurlarly visitng the forum. teh making and breaking rapport thing is called fractionating, i think.
sure mate - when i'm in the UK Just one thing. Playing hard to get is not necessarily bad (you just have to make sure you don't take it too far). It can be the push, in fact it is a push, so don't do it all teh time. you don't want push push you want push pull.
just a few things that may or may not apply to your situation, but i was reminded of when I read your post, though probably jus because they are things I've thought of recently. First, you can't be too into the girl. This will give you teh "does she like me?" frame which will cause you to second...
I'd love to attack neoclassical economics, because it sure has its follies, but it has its place - particularly in development economics. This recession is an opportunity for developed countries to change direction entirely I believe. We shouldn't be trying to get back on the same track we were...
I know this is a bit of a tangent, but... A lot of the time the children's income is the ONLY income for the family. So not only can the parent's not afford to feed the children, but had tehkids not been working they'd not be able to feed themselves. To further the tangent, families in...
good report as always, but what is BHRR?
here's a sticking point for me: my wandering eyes. i can't help it. i check chick out and they notice, gotta stop this. a list of things to remember for me: disqualify kino hook push-pull sexual talk bounce screen & accept appropriate amount of indifference depending on attraction attained...
burps aren't as funny though. why is that? something to do with farts containing poo particles?
suggestions/affirmations in the background Suggestions/affirmations are only going to work if they bypass the criticial factor. This is why an affirmation about something untrue will not work, because your mind will reject it. hence hypnosis is necessary to put the mind in a susceptible state to...
i watched airplane2 the other night adn its not a great movie but there is a joke every few seconds so its chocka full of jokes, and most of tehm are word-play jokes. perhaps this is a low form of humour, but humour none the less. what i have found is that in the next few days sincing watching...
last time this happened to me I said: awesome, finally I can have some female friends who won't try and have sex with me. it sux how most women think about nothing but sex aye, how do you guys deal with that?
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