It is interesting to study cause and effect in the subject of PU's. I agree that there are times that it seems ridiculous because you see a girl react well to a lame effort from a guy. There are so many causes and effects that it is not good enough to lump it all under one word. Many people...
ok I give
Yes you can have her.
All you need to do is send her flowers or cards every day. Talk to her parents about it, take her mother to lunch and profess your love. Make sure you have tears in your eyes and make it heart felt. Meet her as much as she wants, buy her jewlery, diamonds if...
one last try
No No No No and No on all of these points.
People that are in abusive realtionships are not there because of attraction! It is the abusive relationship cycle I advised you to read about. It has nothing to do with attraction and you have learned NOTHING here so far.
You do not...
this is a joke......right?
You don't understand and you are not learning from advice that is golden.
Now the only thing that will help you is time. As time goes by and the clouds of confusion you are voluntarily keeping yourself in clear, then and only then will you realize that you did this to yourself and...
Yes, Thank you!
A recent post covered this and after about 20mins of searching I could not locate it. Bummer....It has to do with the usage of routines vs being comfortable with yourself and being able to carry on an interesting and intriguing conversation in the realm of meeting others. ( I think it was Shark or...
Don't confuse contentment with complacency.
Girls like to try to "fix" guys. They get tired of trying very soon if you don't respond and they get bored with you if you do. Bottom line, don't be reactionary and a follower. Be a leader and keep them off balance and guessing, it excites them.
It never worked for me, I believe it is a rare girl that can talk about the subconcious attraction stimulus with clarity and void of jealousy.
Jax, I am not sure where you live but here in the US there are scads of cooking shows. These are generally very easy recipes. Online you can find Many MANY sites to help you as well.
My recommendation is to start by practicing with different spices and oils, learn how they taste and how...
If you are worried about what others will think of your tattoo then you are approaching it from the wrong frame of mind. Many people base their whole life on the premise of doing what other people think is right. I am not talking about legal or illegal issues here, I am talking...
Dude! Some of the advice you are getting is harsh.
There is a reason for it. These are not "ideas". these are problems many of us have experienced.....and No , you are not in a unique situation.
We have given advice to help. You are reacting to emotions not rational thought. GF2 is not available to you, she has proven it, open your eyes. You have been played again - SIGH - walk away!
GF1 and you have tried to make it work for 6 years, you have nostalgiac feelings for the good times...
None of us are perfect...BUT.....some are less perfect than others. Some girls are just f-'ed up in the head and no matter what YOU feel for them, no matter how you please them, no matter how much she says she loves you, the situation is still at an impasse.
This girl does not feel...
It's been awhile but a few posts have intrigued me of late.
Bounce has introduced a hot spot for me in the past and I thought I'd add my opinion in the mix.
When a gf or strong prospect pays attention to another (ex or not) it may be categorized on several different levels. These are...
don't walk away from this one...
It is a waste of time and you are being unwittingly played. She is a willing victim of her relationship and she is making you a willing participant in a triangle of frustration and lies.
This is not a joke, tell her you are done, when/if she...
you da man!
I am very impressed with this young mans opinion. He, at least, has his head out of his ass and can see what Government has mandated to the point of breaking the bank. All of this for what? So anyone may own a home.....I agree with his next comment as well. I am more afraid of...
A function may be differentiable at a point but not twice differentiable; for example...the first derivative exists, but the second derivative does not. I'd rather have another drink thanks..................my i's r crossed!
The real question is whether HER legs are crossed.
You make me...
direct and not a jerk, simply gold
Women like thrills, they like to be mentally challenged, they like someone strong with confidence and humor.
To bring her emotions into play is really not that difficult, they are way more sensitive than we are. A good conversation in that she feels you have some commonalities will excite...
The rules of seduction do not change with age. Yes, they might not fall for some of the "practiced" routines as they age but the game is still the same.
1 engage the emotions
2 those are linked to the subconcious
3 do not put on a false front(fake game) (pretend frame)...whatever...
perception-the long answer
Women are atracted to confidence. Unfortunately they mistake assholes as confident partners. In fact, many times they are insecure jerks that just convey an outward shield that seems like confidence. They are just hiding their insecurities by making bold and ridiculous...
Ride the wave brother....I hope it lasts.
This is a formula
social anxiety = f(m(1-p))
These are the variables
m: situational conciousness. meaning how important a certain outcome of the situation is to you; how concerned you with the people's impressions of you.
p: is the subjective probability that you assign to the success of the...
not so much
I think humans are WAY too complex to categorize them in this way. there are too many variables. I know I do not feel or act the same way in IDENTICAL situations much less different stimuli. My mood, health, rest, thoughts, etc, all come into play and it cannot be categorized as f...
when in a LTR and things get stale(as all do at some point)...IE: reading at bedtime, then sneak some premium chocolate to bed and feed her a bite as she is reading, then her mood will change quickly to a euphoria of wanting more physical contact.....
tried it, it works...
Sperm does not = ejaculate volume. Again, I have had a vasectomy and I ejacualte the volume equal to or at times more than I did before my vasectomy. I find that the longer between ejaculating means more fluid in general.
The solution relies more on general health, hydration, and periods...
my point about vasectomy
I want to reiterate my point that after my vasectomy the pleasure did not change. I think that was the concern. I also want to assure those that consider it that the ejaculate is almost identical in consistency and volume. I noticed NO difference so the female won't...
I had one at age 30 and noticed no loss in sex drive, no loss in fluid or strength of orgasm. There is a minor difference in the consistency but if you did not tell her she could not notice.
It was the best thing I have ever done after I had kids. No worries and more relaxed = better...
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