TS, I don't think it was the holding hands thing. Rather, there was something wrong from the beginning. Again, look at the title of this thread: Man, *SHE* PICKED YOU UP. From the very beginning it was her who got you following her. It was HER who lead all the way. She had the upper hand all...
Hey, I think this thread should eventually go to the "Best of everyone" collection. LaMac, you've done a great job of summing it all up on one post, all of your kissing techniques. Reading them, I find that yours is very similar to mine (technique). But I have learned some useful things too from...
Well, just talked to her on the phone. As expected, she dropped the question "who is that girl?". I followed yr advice JayOlieEspy, and said "she is [her name] I met her on X date (like a week ago)". Then she asked "and what does she mean to you?". To which I replied "hey, that's too much you...
Thanks man, I will follow your advice and not explain anything. If she brings up the subject (I am certain she will), I will say as you recommend: "I met her on X", nothing further. Thanks again.
Before I got in contact with SS, I used a very simple thing which was to say "we will only do what you want to do", while looking at her eyes, in a reassuring manner. After that, most of the time the girl would go for it. But when I do that, it is sincere, so I think it works precisely because...
There is a nice girl I've not seen in a couple of months, but lately we've been communicating and planning a get together. We've had something before. The thing is we have not yet been able to get together. When I can, she is busy, and vice versa. Well, yesterday in the day we talked and agreed to...
This has actually made me think of the many times in the past that I've got frustrated because what seemed early on as a sure kill, ended as a total strike-out. Yes, it is very important to not go too fast. As Karea says, if you make out with the girl before having established good rapport and...
And the biggest problem in your case was the SHE was the one that initiated conversation with the other guy. Had it been the other way round, you would have had it easier with anti-AMOG moves. In retrospect (Monday-morning quarterbacking), you should have done the following: as soon as she...
I like AKM's "qualifier to beat all qualifiers" approach. In my own personal experience since I discovered SS, I am not having a problem with this issue. Back in the old days (pre-SS) I would probably get nervous and give a straight answer right away, a very compromising answer indicating that...
Yesterday went with a mate to an Irish-style pub to watch the NFC Championship game. There was a nice waitress I had eyed, but she wasn't the one attending us. The one attending us was in fact not pretty at all, and I never saw her smile. Not friendly at all. At one point, when the Saints...
About 2 weeks ago I went out with a female friend who was leaving soon to the UK for several months to do some English. Late in the club she had to excuse herself and terminate the outing because she said her mother had just called her and told her to pick up her little sister (minor age) at a...
Good news You are right! In fact, I followed Shark's advice of softening my stance with her a bit, and on Thursday called her. It was during the day and we agreed on meeting at 8 pm. She mentioned that she had now moved. She was living with her sister but apparently had a problem with her and...
Could be. I will soften it and let her come to me. Let's see what goes from there.
Thank you Taf, what you say makes a lot of sense. I have been using first the MES CDs, but had not listened to Blissnosis yet. I will now. As for the escalating the sexy talk instead of the freeze-out, it's an interesting point and I think I'm gonna do it. Thanks again man.
Guys, there is a FB of mine who has been somewhat difficult lately. I explain. In December, whenever she called me, I would not respond immediately but would wait one or two days before contacting her. Or alternatively I would text-message her saying something like "busy right now, but will be...
Yes, not to use lightly. But I think I will use it some time.
What do you guys think of this? Her: How do you like women? Me: I like them with a big ass, so that when I am giving to her from behind I have something to grab with both hands and then be able to thrust more forcefully and make her scream of pleasure. Not applied that yet, just came up with it....
1. The Road to Serfdom, Friedrich A. Hayek. Some others worth mentioning: 2. La rebelión de las masas (The Revolt of the Masses), José Ortega y Gasset. 3. The Little Prince, Antoine De Saint-Exupery. 4. 1984, George Orwell.
I have been hearing the MES CDs one per day since Monday. I am yet to be led into trance, I think. I have never gone into trance (not that I have tried much), or at least not that I know. I don't know if it's because I am not easy to hipnotize or what (I know that there are some people who for...
Guys, I just received both series today. Which one do you advise me on listening first, MES or Blissnosis?
Well, we guys in this community already know this. No, wait, I did know this long before I read SS and joined this forum... C'mon, now I think of it, I've always known that men and women are different. However, the PC trends would have us believe otherwise. Read this article. "When it was...
Man, I should have used that one this weekend with a girl I went out. We were having fun and then suddenly she receives a phone call, goes outside to talk (noisy inside), then comes back saying have to go pick up my little sister. I say "Come on, I respect you and expect the same thing from you,...
Hey J. Grand, only that? What you want is not from this planet, LOL. Now serious, it shows you are a selector, an alpha quality. GOOD.
Why would that be demoralizing? On the contrary, it means you will not have much competition. Majority of Canadian guys are still AFCs for not having discovered SS!
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Happened to me once also. Only once. It was several years ago. She was in love with me (and I was with her too), and during a weekend in the beach, she gave me that surprise at about 6 am. Veeeery sexy. The blowjob itself is not what matters much, but the gesture. It is very sexy and...
Adam, I couldn't agree more with you. I also happen to like girly girls. I like being protective in a gentle way towards them. They have to be gentle too.
Exactly. Put it to your advantage. Don't fear that awkward silence. It is awkward not only to you, but to her as well. That builds up the tension, which is GOOD. The important thing is keep confident. DO NOT LOSE EYE CONTACT during the silence. No staring down or away, or smiling shyly, or...
Unfortunately, everything commented by the other guys is true. I have a rule on who's to blame for physical abuse in a relationship: the first time a man hits a woman, it's HIS fault. From the second time onwards, it's HERS. That girl was never yours. She is the kind of person who just needs...
Me too. An Alpha male doesn't go fucking around all day. He has a tribal role as leader/provider/protector. If he is not fulfilling his main roles, he's useless for the females and therefore will not get much p**sy.
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