Okay so Im back attempting the cold approaching again and it's turning out to be a pain in the arse. I know most people have some form of AA but the thing is I can't seem to move on past a very simple opener and it just doesn't feel good, it doesn't feel like there's any confidence or energy in the...
Just found this little test. http://www.okcupid.com/tests/take?testid=14542568164951326696 Here's what I got... Ouch! Whoa! You're 66% proficient in game knowledge, and 30% good at runnin it! You're Mostly Talk. You have a great knowledge of game, but when it comes to actually putting the...
With the weekend coming up, for those of you who like me can be abit socially retarded at times :) These are some tips for having a more active social life. None of this is of course original or ground breaking but hopefully useful. Of course the more social you are, the more women you'll meet, and...
I'm starting to realise that one of my major sticking points in my game is my self doubt. I tend to give up too easily on girls that I want and usually throw in the towel far too early, if there is alot of competition around a particular girl that I like I won't usually stick with it. This has...
I really want to work on becoming more of a social leader in social settings because I really think this is a huge DHV. But how do you go about becoming more of a social leader? How do you get people to follow you? I'm not trying to control other people. I just want people to have a good...
Research suggests that people who share their goals with others (that are supportive of course) are more likely to achieve them than those that don't. On that note my goals for next year with women/seduction is to have three hot (8 +) FBs :D Feel free to add your own seduction goals to this...
So I went into town last night with some german girls I meet. I was pretty drunk so not really in good shape for gaming but thought I'd give things a try anyway. Unfortunately the night turned out to be abit of a let down because by the time we got into town most of the bars were closed and had to...
Okay so here's the story... I'm staying in quite a communal living situation at the moment and I've got involved with a danish girl a couple of weeks ago whose living in the same place. Now the thing is she was hooking up with another guy at the place while she got involved with me and I already...
Firstly abit of background... Since I was in my early teens I suffered from social anxiety, which is basically an extreme form of shyness where you feel that everything you do is being negatively evaluated by others. It wasn't until the begining of last year after being depressed for a long time...
Okay so always been on the thin side. But at the begining of this year I started going to the gym, eatting well and was starting to bulk up and for the first time I started to feel okay about my body. Anyway I've been travelling for the last couple of months and all the moving around and walking...
I was wondering if anyone else has used CBT (cognitive behaviour therapy)? It seems NLP is the popular psychological tool for inner game issues for alot of PUA. But CBT is also very good. Im surpised no one has mentioned it on this forum. I used it alot a while ago when I was suffering from...
As much as Id like to think I have worked on eliminating my need for attention. It still comes up for me alot. Instead of overtly bragging, its more like most things I do, I do to try to distinguish myself by attempting to be more adventurous, fun, interesting than other people and I never feel...
As I've been out and about abit more at the moment, I seem to keep seeing a alot of guys with hot girls. I'm wondering how they managed to pull this stuff off with no knowledge of community stuff, or the focus and dedication that most guys have on this forum. I'm wondering if they're naturals, or...
Some simple points as to what emotional maturity is... http://www.michaelppowers.com/path/mature.html
Just wondering what sort of questions people ask during this phase? Also, if you're going to ask the questions, should you have your own answers for them in case she throws the ball back in your court? Or shoud you just deflect the attention back on her?
20th July 2007 (late) I've been inspired by reading AV8r, Smashbug and Duos F.R and I've decided it's time to start my own journal. I've been on this forum for about three months now and I don't really feel like I've gotten the results I wanted. I know the reason for this Is because I haven't...
No this thread is nothing to do with "The Secret" I know alot you guys are into that. I copied this out of an updated Karma Sultra book and find myself reading this page alot. The law of attraction states ‘To be attractive, you have to authentic.’ What makes a person attractive? The wisdom...
Hey guys, I was chatting to this girl yesterday and she tells me that her friend had a theory that all men were pedophiles because they go for younger women! I wasn't really in the mood to get into it with her (after having a few late nights and being overtired). What would have been a good...
Hey Guys, I'd really appreciate some advice particularly from those senior guys out there with experience with HB 9+ I'm doing a TV presenters course at the moment and there is a Swedish girl 9+ looks (Involved in beauty pageants) with 9+ personality (Is going to be a life coach to help others)....
Why do women watch porn to the end?.............. Because they think they are going to get married :D
I'm having trouble progressing beyond simple openers and ejecting quickly! Alot of this stuff I think comes from inner game issues like. "It's not normal to have a conversation with a strange woman during the day", "She'll think I'm creepy", "She'll think I'm a loner if I'm at a bar by myself." and...
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