from the sounds of things, your opening and attraction phase is getting better and better all the time. i think your lack of results that you desire (getting laid) is coming from the fact that you are keeping it lighthearted, flirty, and playful all the time. do you have any experiences that you...
kinda like a girl who asked me "where was the craziest place you have had sex?" crazy can be taken different ways depending on how you think, but mine at the time was on the hood of this girl's dad's corvette that was parked in their garage. hand and feet prints were all over that car when we...
then perhaps focus your efforts and energies on having interesting conversations about sex. look shit up on google, read about it, get better ideas about things, and ask interesting questions to women about it. start with your friends who know you're still a virgin and work outward. when things...
Being reactive also comes into play when... You fear losing something You are offended by something You are attempting to impress someone Something shocks/startles/surprises you The list can go on further, but this should suffice for now. I will attempt to give people incredible epiphanies by...
I'm a very upbeat, quirky, oddball, ridiculous idiot type of person who is high on life, always happy, and laughing most of the time. With that personality in mind, I pretty much say what is on my mind and I'm normally the one to bring the topics of sex and my feelings for her up; nowadays guys...
TM -- of course I remember you still! :p I tend to take breaks from the online community because my thoughts and ideas are so muddled up in my head and I have to write them, and rewrite them until they become clear enough for me to properly share in a coherent manner. In that regard, I tend to...
Social circle game, at least in my opinion, tends to be good for instant gratification but in the long term it makes things incredibly awkward and difficult. This mostly stems from the fact that your whole social circle will in some way, shape, or form know some fraction of the truth about the...
There are so many caveats that unfurl when you begin talking about seducation, gaming, pickup theory, or whatever you wish to call it. Amongst these caveats are things like: psychology, inner game, fashion, non verbal cues, personal growth, and so much more all in a fevered pursuit of a better...
for what it's worth: my girlfriend is taller than I am, I live in the United States, I'm relatively short for a man here (5'6"), and I regularly "climb that mountain" meaning I fuck her lots and lots :woot: I have always been short, but it was never really a problem for me. Most people believe...
Im gonna quote and analyze a few things you wrote about and it may give you some insight from my perspective; just remember, mine is very limited since Im taking your words out of context and putting myself into the situation and doing things my way. My first question will be this though: you've...
OHAI! This thread itself is pretty old and all the issues I believe have been addressed, so I'll just add a single line to it to poke my head back into the new version of the old lounge. I noticed in your original post, which you've mentioned that things have changed a lot since, that you WERE...
I think you really encapsulated my thoughts in a much shorter version Jesse...I tend to be long winded and a pompous ass! :p Going off what you were saying in the club examples, especially boob grabbing and ass slapping. People can sit here in forums and argue with theory until they're blue in...
No specific event recently really spurred in writing this, I've just been mulling this over in my head the past few days. I also cannot take credit for everything I'm putting down here as I was enlightened and inspired by this and these ideas by a friend. I'm merely taking what he told me and...
The perfect response to these sorts of things doesn't exist. If a woman asks you, "why don't you have a girlfriend?" it could be for so many different reasons, among which: -she's interested -she's actually curious why you dont -she wants to see how you carry yourself when you're under pressure...
I like your bluntness, you certainly don't beat around the bush. I admire that in people -- brutal honesty. I will say that I too am similar to you in that regard in that I have no qualms telling a girl how I feel about her, whether it's positive or negative. My only thoughts on this situation...
I love little situations like this because it really shows how people still act like middle school kids as adults. He did this, she did that, he said this, she said that...who the fuck cares. A problem exists -- meaning a bad thing happened and is causing a fight/drama -- so people go around...
there are so many reasons, excuses, and scenarios that can come into play here that it is, in my opinion, pointless to dwell on the matter. why rationalize things that need not be rationalized? it may make you feel better or more satisfied having a "golden answer" to this incredibly ambiguous...
There is definitely that counter argument to the freeze out. Basically you use it when she is doing something very wrong or intolerable at the moment your having sex. It's to show her that when she crosses that boundary, you won't let it slide. The experience she has with it definitely shows...
Boundaries huh? It's often referred to in the context of relationships; I won't do this, I won't do that, she could never be like this or that. They are invisible little walls that others place in us, we place within ourselves, and things we must often times overcome. From my experiences,...
This situation reminds me of some things I've encountered as well. I'll return your attention to what AKM mentioned: avoid situations where you, her, and the bf are all in attendance. jealousy, disrespect and deceit always breed trouble. The more you go sneaking around in this manner, the more...
A few words come to mind: obsessed needy one-itis This sort of behavior by people, both male and female, just plain disturbs me. A 2 to 3 month relationship (used in the sense that they have some sort of relation with each other, which is as you describe: friends) and he's completely enamored...
In regards to the many men who invest too much time and energy into "pickup" I absolutely agree with you...it's very true, and Jesse explains it well with what the American ideals have instilled in people nowadays (that is, if you are American) -- studyitis. You see a scenario or outcome that you...
In regards to your skills and abilities with sex and the confidence it instills in you, let me just caution you about how it sounds to me... Again, I'm merely taking this out of context. In my eyes, confidence is something that is unshakable regardless of circumstances or outcomes. Most...
I've had 2 cool ones, the FFM variety. Perhaps others can shed some better light on them since my experience is very limited, and unfortunately they weren't as amazing as they are portrayed in porn -- mine, that is. My word of caution is that don't expect it to be super amazing or anything like...
Blissnosis is the most amazing thing I have ever listened to. That product is far far far worth the price in my opinion. It takes your thoughts of incredible sexual fantasy and puts them in the tips of your fingers so you can experience them and have them happen with the women in your life....
Hmmmm how a woman "feels" during sex is on the table ehh? Well that can go 2 ways -- emotional feelings and physical feelings, different in their own rights and similarly connected to one another. I suppose for me, I categorize and differentiate between different rungs on a ladder on this:...
Hmmmmm well you know your situation much better than I, and I'm just the opinion of myself -- one man, so take this with that grain of salt in mind. I used to think that exact thought, but it has changed over time. Why does she need to be interested in you to go on a date with you? She may have...
Do you feel that you are caught up in the "power hungry" sort of stage with pickup and seduction? This statement here appears to say that you are seeking validation. Am I incorrect? If I'm not, why are you seeking validation from this particular woman or women in your life? This statement...
She may also be sensing that you want to get her into bed. Now this is not a bad thing, but again we're returning to the token resistance area of this girl's mind. The biggest thing most guys get snagged up on is the female's perception of, "Oh, he just wants to have sex with me and nothing...
In regards to your challenging lady, reverse psychology tends to work equally well on both sexes. The ladies play hard to get with us most of the time, and we tend to chase them. Play your cards that way, in a manner that fits your style, and perhaps she will chase you. Example... You: You...
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