You can allow your woman to be friends with HB and go on more dates, build more comfort, do a lot of physical touching. I think HB would eventually come around to 3-way sex that way. BUT... it depends on how likely your woman will follow up with her. Women are not aggressive "to get things done" like we guys are, she may drop the ball on it. If you suspect that could be the case, you'll want to take the initiative and lead things. Either way, I would keep your eye on 3way sex as the outcome down the road and take some hand in guiding instead of just leaving it to the fates.
Great report Bounce and happy bday ! Here is what I think: First of all I think your woman is very cool, hahah! Second, as it was your bday, I guess everyone had some expectations of what would happen that night, specially because your woman invited the HB and it was not you. As we all know, this is a tough position to be, because expectations can easily backfire (which actually what I think happened in this FR, when you said that you wanted to be with the both girls at the same time and you said it directly, which was actually a all-in move, which you want to avoid). In you situation I'd play it cool, as a boss of that parade and not a follower (after-all, the girls were there to please you and not other way around). Thus, I'd take it cool and invite the HB to your house for some drinks, or to show here something funny (the rest is only logistics). Here I think you should have escalated the two girls at the same time, at the same level. Kiss on the mouth and kiss on the chick are quite different, wouldn't you say so? Quite tricky this one, aint it? :lol: Talkative, gesticulative, outspoken? Friendship and not kinky sex feel? Dealing with "Talkative, gesticulative, outspoken" is easy: out-talk them, make fun of their gesticulation, be contrary to outspoken (indirect, is it? bahahah, Tiger does not know these things! Go learn English Tiger ), make fun of her seriousness, have fun! If you do that, she will get wet and friendship will be out of the question, haha! For future recommendation, I'd say give it another try. I would not suggest the same scenery, but something more energetic! (play pool?). Cheers!
