A Brief Return to Simplicity

There are so many caveats that unfurl when you begin talking about seducation, gaming, pickup theory, or whatever you wish to call it. Amongst these caveats are things like: psychology, inner game, fashion, non verbal cues, personal growth, and so much more all in a fevered pursuit of a better life, better lifestyle, pussy, girlfriends, wife, or whatever else there is to achieve. Unfortunately, "the game" is as easy or as hard as people make it out to be, depending on their attitude toward it (and basically everything else in their life). This causes the "study-itis" as Jesse calls it to come into effect. You can literally surf this forum for hours on end, reading and reading posts to increase your knowledge base and give you more things to think about and improve upon. This, however, has potentially negative consequences. The focus becomes on looking this way, speaking that way, doing this, or doing that.

This is a reminder to return to the simple truth that...

Women do not want a man who just looks amazing (it doesn't hurt though ); Women want a man who helps them to feel amazing things.

Men are the visual creatures, and women are the emotional ones. We want our women to look fucking sexy as hell and to willingly get down on their knees, engulf our dicks with their mouths, and smile as they suck us to the heights of pleasure. The visual of that is incredibly arousing. That may turn a woman on, but it 's not gonna keep her coming back for more. This is also the reminder that women want a man to help them feel both physically and emotionally amazing.

It is as simple, and as difficult as that.

So, when you guys are all busy with things like shopping for flattering and edgy clothing, meditations on your inner game, training your body to the limits of your physical abilities, grooming and pampering yourselves so you look like the younger Brad Pitt, spitting game and chatting up ladies, and the myriad of other activities that fall under the caveats of seduction...remember that ultimately you need to spark within the women you desire physical and emotional attraction and bonds.

Again, it is as simple and as difficult as that.

PS -- dont you just love generalizations?

Jax- I guess you remember me..you know, 1+ years ago when I was soo nieve and we talked about a lot of stuff.

Well, I'm much more grown-up, now, and much more experienced and knowledgeable. :thumbup:

I learned a lot from Jesse and your input made me think, a lot.

I believe strongly in the below statements and do it at almost every chance that I get. To me, it's VERY simplistic:

1. Be friendly and TOUCH women. (Once I did this, new doors opened-up.)

2. If you want to be good with one woman, you must be good with ALL women.

My belief is most men DON'T meet enough women on a regular basis. It's all about, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE,... Grasshopper.

TM

TM -- of course I remember you still! I tend to take breaks from the online community because my thoughts and ideas are so muddled up in my head and I have to write them, and rewrite them until they become clear enough for me to properly share in a coherent manner. In that regard, I tend to return and share in bursts. I believe we last discussed orgasms if I'm not mistaken?

Jesse -- It's interesting how that sort of success and mastery works out. You spend all this time researching, experimenting, and mastering your own style and in the end, the sort of mastery of seduction as a whole comes when you stop doubting and mentally checkmating yourself while you are in the field -- insecurity basically.

My main reason for writing this brief little post was because when you look at different seduction sites that there are so many different things discussed. They boast building a better life as a man but they don't really express how that is done in a good way. Then there are just multiple topics addressed: a man should speak clearly, concisely, and with a rich resonance and volume; a man should dress well; a man should be well groomed; a man should know how to cook; etc; etc. Within these communities there are many men and sometimes women coming together to improving the lives of others (or so it is claimed) but are we merely reprogramming the social programming? Are we resetting it and starting over on a new setting? This conclusion starts to make more sense when you run into people in the world who are chatting ladies up and it is clear they are using stale, canned material and have no concrete sense of what they are actually doing; that and the fact that women will sometimes call you out and ask you if you are really interested in the question you ask or are you just using that as a line.

This led me to state what I stated above in my original post:

In order to keep a woman around and to keep her wanting more and more of you is to help her feel amazing. If she is FEELING amazing emotions as a result of you, then you have a strong ability of keeping her around and fulfilling your desires.

Witty lines, good looks, your big dick, etc will only get you so far, but hitting the buttons of her emotional triggers will get you sex that you have never had before.

Engage her feelings -- the physical with touch and the emotional with connection. It is as simple and difficult as that!

I'm still muddling/confused over what we talked about 2 years ago. It wasn't exactly about orgasms..it was about FBs.


I agree, "Engage her feelings -- the physical with touch and the emotional with connection. It is as simple and difficult as that! ".

In some way, grab her attention in a good way.
1. Be different than most of the men...stand-out, be a FUN person.
2. I think VOICE quality is important..louder and resonant.
3. Find some quality she has that no one notices or is aware of that she admires in herself.
4. TOUCH her- a hug is a GREAT way to gain her approval and acceptance of you.
5. PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE.

TM